I can agree with almost all of your points, but having multiple kids with different women will 100% have a negative impact on that Childs life. Even if you're consistently present, growing up in an environment where you're bartered around like a shopping item over weekends and only having access to one parent at a time is not the healthiest situation.
@menzistogumede5191
2 жыл бұрын
You may be overlooking the fact that you are Probably where you are Because of your background, there are many elements which supported your journey, pulling your kids out of that structure and trying to test the structure that doesn't already exist may probably not be to the best of their interest. One thing I have learnt is that an everage person in society is not necessarily stupid. Im glad you do listed Jordan Peterson, he has said something like "Do not be quick to criticize social structures that were created over centuries".
@andilerodney7215
2 жыл бұрын
I fully agree with you on almost every aspect except of having children, I have stopped dating and do not believe in marriage. I do not want to have kids and believe we are way too many already. But I am glad more men are considering most of the raised points, keep sharing interesting conversations.
@mpram5522
2 жыл бұрын
Whoever I listen to your take on life i am forever grateful that in my education I still have limits. I still remember that it's all God.
@tonyzwane1029
2 жыл бұрын
I'm one of those people who believes in financial stability before having children but now I see that I'm fast approaching 30 with no child. I'm beginning to rethink this whole thing. What you're saying is similar to what Yuval was saying in his ted talk why human beings run the world.
@bakangmatabane711
2 жыл бұрын
Let's say you have a child now , how are you going to take care of the child ?
@cebekhulun
2 жыл бұрын
I will love to see you on the Podcast & Chill platform.
@godpenuel
2 жыл бұрын
Hopefully it will come soon.
@Diskihub
2 жыл бұрын
And also on Joe Rogan💯
@helenevice6920
2 жыл бұрын
That confuses the children. A child should feel secure at home with their parents for support.
@leeytroit9585
2 жыл бұрын
Why does this man sound like me ...The whole vid sounds like me "talking" 🤣
@andiswanzimela184
2 жыл бұрын
Your parents should be proud of you. You sound like a well raiaed youngman!
@Lordfinessse
2 жыл бұрын
How do you plan the maintenance of all your kids now and in the future. Genuinely interested in the practicalities and cost, and I also want a bunch of kids in life.. but I want to live with my kids.
@asiphecutshwa8047
3 жыл бұрын
Father figure 😂😂😭
@wendy7915
2 жыл бұрын
Uyagula lo 😅😅😂😂😂
@saixgebeatz
2 жыл бұрын
@@wendy7915 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀
@dalisukhanyile9651
2 жыл бұрын
I get that is how you want to live your life Penuel my brother and respect that, however nowadays there's all kinds of diseases, so what if you date someone and that someone infects you with some disease and you infect someone, and even worse maybe even your child is born infected do you not care about all that and also I hope if usashela you disclose the kind of person you are as you just explained to us before kuze kuthandanwe so a girl jump in a relationship with you knowing very ukut wenzani
@helenevice6920
2 жыл бұрын
You must have a plan for your life and that includes your children.life is about prospering and building generational wealth. Teaching children how they can work the land and prosper
@anitamhlongo4443
3 жыл бұрын
Angeke Penuel...so you want many kids with different women? Should these women choose to get married, you won't mind your kids raised by other men??
@godpenuel
3 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't mind. It happened with my 2nd son. His stepfather is a really good gent. I believe women can do whatever they want. It's their life and I won't stop them from doing what's best for themselves. Plus, they get to have cute smart kids from me :)
@anitamhlongo4443
3 жыл бұрын
@@godpenuel They can be cute and smart ... What about Emotional and psychological well-being, which I believe in this day and age requires emotionally available parents, since the whole responsibility is placed on the ever present great step-dad.Wena ebese wenzani?
@godpenuel
3 жыл бұрын
@@anitamhlongo4443 I'm happy to be present in my children's lives or even live with them full time. Unfortunately I don't subscribe to social norms so I don't buy into most of the nonsense about emotional well-being and issues with having a stepdad. I'll raise my kids & educate them and provide them when they are with me. All else is out of my control and I can't worry about that.
@anitamhlongo4443
3 жыл бұрын
@@bigthangz5489 Hhai its scary to be honest, because the world and its people are becoming more evil, unreliable, unpredictable, what if the mother gets married into an abusive husband /family, his seed/ child would be exposed to that...im not saying biological parents don't abuse their children, but a present parent can avoid a lot of trauma and abuse....kodwa ke to each their own...
@anitamhlongo4443
3 жыл бұрын
@@bigthangz5489 Some one said "heal before you have children so that your kids don't have to heal from having you as a parent..." So imagine deliberately exposing innocent souls who didn't choose to be born, because you rebelling against societal structures...its really unfair...:-(
@promisesmoothes3370
2 жыл бұрын
I'm listening to your video, re your conversation with your sister. And mom
@godpenuel
2 жыл бұрын
Tell me more.
@monkdtyler4939
2 жыл бұрын
Good thing im not alone in this
@chulud7938
2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@boitumelotsajoa7792
3 жыл бұрын
O controversial ha nyane
@GwenMats
2 жыл бұрын
Hai ho tsamaya ke ho bona stru. Sometimes you make sense but this time 🤔🙄. I know of people who grew up in a big family with both parents and it was a struggle, now imagine your scenario. Let's just see how this plays out when your kids are adults.
@penelopekhuzwayo339
2 жыл бұрын
😂😅😂 wow yes just wowza
@Mbalings
Жыл бұрын
I would love to be your friend 🤞🏽
@promisesmoothes3370
2 жыл бұрын
Hi PENUEL just a question, when is your birthday??
@godpenuel
2 жыл бұрын
Hahaha... why do you ask?
@bluchill
Жыл бұрын
From your stated beliefs to want your children to have children "for you" if they are homosexual sounds ok as an idea but it brings into play the idea that people/your children should have individual choices especially if it dramatically affects their life and how they want to live it, depending of course in the child rearing involvement.
@asyougrowmotivation3766
2 жыл бұрын
Road to 20K Subscribers ❤️💯
@nompumelelomabuza5798
3 жыл бұрын
I think you're the only guy I know that can actually have female friends...no father creeper tendencies.
@godpenuel
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@sthembisomthembu395
2 жыл бұрын
Female friends?? Weeee ma
@lesegoseshabela1740
3 жыл бұрын
Mmmmhhh.!? the belief in and worship of a superhuman is the fundamental of religion. how is the belief of ancestors cultural and not religious cause I noticed Uu made a distinction between the 2.
@godpenuel
3 жыл бұрын
We distinguish religion and culture in SA coz that's what we're taught. I've never met a cultural person who calls their beliefs a religion.
@tammymboweni5980
Жыл бұрын
You have not answer the question of destiny
@siyabongasibanyoni6595
2 жыл бұрын
How kids do you have
@godpenuel
2 жыл бұрын
Six
@nompumelelomoloto117
2 жыл бұрын
Heeeeebaaaaaan....
@nthabyseng3517
3 жыл бұрын
You sound like my boyfriend but for the culture part...
@godpenuel
3 жыл бұрын
Haybo
@helenevice6920
2 жыл бұрын
You must meet my daughter I feel you may be compatible.she has great values.sensitive about what's happening in SA and around the world. She is a free spirit.In box your contact details.
@Scyril7
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like it,s all good having kids, however the problem like you've said is capitalism and we cant ignore this human contracted system at all and most of us arent well informed like you, some women use men for money after the kid is born and they surperate, some women dont take good care of their kids and only give a fuxk about money, bageze umtwana ubabake maka vakasha. Some kids struggle with this notion of not being raised by both their parents. I agree that we need to advance the humn race, but believe that kids need the presence of their parents to see how they behave and copy that and be coached by them too. And ma guy don't you think you having many kids with this women might create problems for them in future relationships, cos some guys have a problem with taking care of another mens kid.
@artistic-wordplay
3 жыл бұрын
At some point you'll be a deadbeat father - being a minimalist who preaches (and I suspect practices) not chasing money - while wanting to have way more than five children...
@godpenuel
3 жыл бұрын
Why can't I raise my kids to be the same and grow/build/make things with them? Why is money - which Africans didn't have a couple of generations ago - get treated like God?
@artistic-wordplay
3 жыл бұрын
@@godpenuel I'm of the understanding that you were running a business until 2016 (and you probably still are running a business) - so your answer about "why money" is why you decided to run a business in the first place. We seek money - not necessarily as some god - but because if we can't beat capitalists, it becomes somewhat advantageous to join them to an extent. Either we adapt to capitalism and adopt its shenanigans in our stride OR we allow ourselves to be victims of poverty. Congratulations to you if you have found a sustainable and future-proof way to beat capitalism or a way to forego/bypass (do without) capitalism. I hope your children - once they are adults - will look at you as a hero and be proud of your unique way of raising them. You constitutionally have the freedom of choice to choose your own way of life and to incorporate your children into such - but you are not insulated from criticism and scrutiny by strangers like us, especially when you publish your ways on publicly accessible platforms like KZitem and other social media platforms. Your freedom of choice does not insulate you from other people's freedom of speech. And I know you didn't claim to be insulated - this is obviously not a lecture. And no dictatorship or disrespect intended on my side. PEACE!
@emilychabedi4215
2 жыл бұрын
Damn😭 I am fond of you bcs of your intellectual capacity and I DONT LIKE U AT THE SAME TIME🙄 N I NO U DONT GIVE A FUCK ABT DAT OR WAT ANY1 HAS 2SAY ABT U WHICH MEKS ME B SO FOND OF U.. U INSPIRE ME SO MUCH TO CONTINUE SEEKING ONLY THE BEST FROM MYSELF.. I ADMIRE THE AGGRESSIVE PASSION U HEV 2KEEP GROWING UR SELF N HOW UNAPOLOGETIC U R ABOUT THE VIEWS U HOLD.. I WOULD LOVE TO BE MENTORED BY YOU,😭 WHICH I NO SHOULD U AGREE DE MYT B MOMENTS U TELL ME HARD CORE TRUTH DAT HETS LIKE SHIT BUT IT WILL ALL BE FOR MY BEST.. THE IS SOMETHING SO HITLER ABOUT U N DAMN U STILL AN INSPIRATION 😒
@makhosinidube7950
2 жыл бұрын
Very confused dude
@thato4579
2 жыл бұрын
What? Lol
@makhosinidube7950
2 жыл бұрын
@@thato4579 that's exactly what I mean. Feminist are fake and confuse 😕
@thato4579
2 жыл бұрын
@@makhosinidube7950 Elaborate...
@makhosinidube7950
2 жыл бұрын
@@thato4579 1. they want a man to control, not love. 2. Religion, cultural and feminist don't mix. 3. They claim to can "Do without a man", my question is, at what stage does a feel like "she doesn't need a man". 4. No respect to nature. Nature combines a lady and a man at a certain stage, ladies are failing to master that. Therefore submitting themselves as "Street girls" instead of getting marriaged.
@thato4579
2 жыл бұрын
@@makhosinidube7950 Thanks for your prompt response, engagement, im stuck on "Very confused dude".
@wearesocial1326
3 жыл бұрын
Why aren't you with an intellectual woman?
@highandmightyqueen79
3 жыл бұрын
@@moe_ramz literally no one
@godpenuel
3 жыл бұрын
What's an intellectual woman? All my children's mothers are very intelligent, beautiful, make their money and are outspoken & independent.
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