The fact that Amberlynn throws around "I was in love" with a person she didn't talk to for more than a month at best boggles my mind
@myqueerplantfamily
11 ай бұрын
She couldn't help but fall in love! Love just somehow randomly finds a 600lbs woman who never leaves the house. 😂
@mfv7373
11 ай бұрын
Right!? She says “in love” but in all honesty it was “in LUST”
@lorilouwho6804
11 ай бұрын
Cause it’s a lie
@TaffyGreeZay
11 ай бұрын
😂
@natv6294
11 ай бұрын
She is just playing y’all
@StarSquishie
11 ай бұрын
Good for Wifey, tbh. Even if the breakup was mutual, Amber's rebound behavior afterwards was gross. No one needs that in their life.
@chompchompchangbin
11 ай бұрын
Imo you could have a mutual breakup and still not want nothing to do with the person 😂
@StarSquishie
11 ай бұрын
@@chompchompchangbin Oh, for sure. I just meant Amber kept making it out like they still loved each other but couldn't be together for "reasons" and then immediately declared her love for some Instagram rando, lol.
@ifoxfirei
11 ай бұрын
Wifey knows this is best for Amber AND especially for herself. Amber "in love with my ex for 2 years" Lynn does not say Goodbye.
@Berryations
11 ай бұрын
I disagree she continued hooking up with Amber after the fact so she’s really no in some moral position lbh
@stard9864
11 ай бұрын
She was nice enough to amber so she can plop her off there and run 🏃♀️ If this. Keeps happening where people stop talking to her she needs to change.
@mudflapgorl
11 ай бұрын
Amber is so clingy. Imagine how dangerous she’d be if she was mobile. Luckily she doesn’t have a drivers license or a car.
@bleuhoodie
11 ай бұрын
Yeah, she had Sharla drive past Dusty's place to spy on her. But she's out of friends. 😔
@Berryations
11 ай бұрын
😂😂
@princessmorebucks
11 ай бұрын
She'd be Chantal, doing a CPAP rescue 😂
@dejuhvu1793
11 ай бұрын
@@princessmorebucksnot a CPAP rescue 🤣🤣
@jennzifur
11 ай бұрын
The lord works in mysterious ways. Could you imagine her and those laayygsss, anxiety, an😊d eye-effing herself in mirror out there on the OKC streets with the serious task of driving. Naw, we are good out here.
@gram5963
11 ай бұрын
“…the person I thought I was going to spend forever with”. Gorl, which person?! If they were ALL “the one”, then NOBODY was. Christ.
@dez6278
11 ай бұрын
I know! She got engaged or hoped to marry every woman she dated.
@zuriii
11 ай бұрын
“Wifey isn’t speaking to me anymore” Gee I wonder why lol
@crazypandabee
11 ай бұрын
Of course she answers any question she can that lets her sound like a victim. I'm so over her attitude!
@apollonia-ava
11 ай бұрын
Oh we all are .. smh ! She’s the most self centred, self obsessed poor me 😂.. let’s have a pity party for me me me 😂😂omg insufferable 😅
@denisefox5973
11 ай бұрын
Me too, same old bollox we've heard a hundred times before..🙄
@SacrificingNothing
11 ай бұрын
My son is chronically ill with a rare kidney disease and he’s currently inpatient. I was watching you just now when his nurse came in to do vitals and she’s like omg you watch Alex?! I was like omg you follow the gorls?! Haha hi Sera thanks for taking such great care of my kiddo and enjoy your unwind to Alex is Shook! 😂
@nikkireigns
11 ай бұрын
Awww ❤
@Wodenseyes
11 ай бұрын
Ten Claps for Sera guys ❤
@i_miss_michael_b_petty
11 ай бұрын
I love this lol
@hheinous
11 ай бұрын
Aww that is so cute! Hey Sera 👋 also from a chronically ill person who’s mom spent long hours with me in the hospital, sending all the love and hugs your way! 🩷
@kearaf9774
11 ай бұрын
Hmmmn……
@kenefdz
11 ай бұрын
There it is, right there..."I fell in love so quickly..." Gorl has NO CLUE what REAL love is. Love takes time. ALR has the attention span of a cinnamon bun.
@braxlucky5718
11 ай бұрын
Pls don’t insult the cinnamon buns they are far superior than ALR will ever be.
@MyNameHere101
11 ай бұрын
A young dumb cinnamon bun????? 👀
@chompchompchangbin
11 ай бұрын
@@MyNameHere101 that smells like coconut oil???? 👀
@cakiexcakes
11 ай бұрын
I think she can't differentiate between love, lust, and infatuation.
@hwoods-kg1jf
11 ай бұрын
@@MyNameHere101 whatever happened to Young Dumb Honey Bun? Is she still around? I completely forgot about her until just now! 🤣🤣🤣
@talia_neah
11 ай бұрын
Imagine breaking up with someone, then texting them months later - daily - that you love and miss them. The manipulation and boundary crossing is so insane.
@Dandy279
11 ай бұрын
The narcissist tried. 😂
@VIGGOZEALOT
11 ай бұрын
Could never be me.
@candyzombiee
10 ай бұрын
this isn’t at all the first time amber has done this. remember when she texted casi, (the guy she lied about SA-ing her) asking if she “smelled when they did it”. she’ll do this to the next girl too, if there even is one
@dez6278
10 ай бұрын
@@candyzombiee And she called and texted Destiny and her new gf blowing up their phones on all their date nights when Destiny dumped her. Then when Becky dumped her she said she'd never love again then moved Wifey in in under a month and pushed Becky out. Then wouldn't stop harassing Becky by talking shit about her online for YEARS. Becky wondered why wifey hot treated better. I commented to just wait. When wifey leaves her she'll turn on her too. And now it's happening. There's an entire string if women who have ptsd from being in a relationship with Amber.
@mcm426
11 ай бұрын
Someone listed off everything she's claimed to be diagnosed with in her comments and its actually insane lmao
@alex_is_shook
11 ай бұрын
Right gorl! It’s like 20 things by now
@elleohwell1189
11 ай бұрын
At the end of the day, medical diagnoses are the opinions of doctors. A lot of disorders have overlapping symptoms. Depending on what she decides to share with whom, it’ll render different results. Doesn’t mean she has all of them.
@katherinaomeara4076
11 ай бұрын
@@elleohwell1189but she has claimed to have them all
@SailorSlay
11 ай бұрын
Did they remember ASMR 😂😂😂😂
@momomc.thotty
11 ай бұрын
@@elleohwell1189amber defense squad in full effect
@JustSarah12
11 ай бұрын
Not a whole adult woman whispering period while complaining about being taken seriously 😂
@DarthFurie
11 ай бұрын
Every time I see this comment I start laughing again
@candy-stars
11 ай бұрын
I thought we as afabs agreed we need to stop treating periods as something secret 😂
@Maialeen
11 ай бұрын
@candy-stars Imagine men calling themselves amabs and thinking it's normal. This is why they stay ahead of us.
@candy-stars
11 ай бұрын
@@Maialeen ? I know several cis men who say/know they’re amab in my life. Maybe it’s different with the people you hang around. Also, ‘stay ahead of us?’ Not really a good look for you… yikes.
@Bunniblossom
11 ай бұрын
@@Maialeen why are you acting like a pick me? The only men in this comment section are gay. You need to relax.
@robynp22
11 ай бұрын
She tried to make Faline jealous and it backfired. She f’ed around and found out!
@baysidelass
11 ай бұрын
Wifey took her opportunity to run for the hills and she ran. Amber handed it to her on a platter. 😊
@theshepherds2846
11 ай бұрын
I’m surprised she didn’t throw her out of a slow rolling car! She dropped her off and beat feet out of there!
@shannonoreilly4695
11 ай бұрын
Even when she’s supposedly expressing empathy for Faline it’s still all about her lmao “Faline loved me so much”, “Faline was so upset I fell in love again so quickly.” Girl. Wasn’t Faline the one that ended things with her? I’m not buying it. Faline just wanted nothing to do with her anymore, which is why she ended things, and then Amber made a fool of herself on KZitem and insta which turned Faline off even more.
@monicapyle
11 ай бұрын
Those TikTok videos were too embarrassing for me to watch. The vids of her acting "sexy" are so awful😂
@mw6346
11 ай бұрын
Amber pretending to be in love with a stranger was the perfect gift for wifey to complete cut contact. She totally played herself. 😂
@myqueerplantfamily
11 ай бұрын
Amber LOVES to compare herself to her lowest point to make herself feel better.
@thatguhl
11 ай бұрын
Rock bottom is her bar, so as long as she isn't there she thinks she's doing ok
@joshpointoh
11 ай бұрын
And even when comparing herself to her absolute lowest point, they are still really minor improvements. "I remember when I would hold in pee for 6 hours just to avoid standing up. Now I only hold it in for 3 or 4 hours!" "I used to cook sitting down, and now since I stopped cooking and ordering out every meal, I haven't sat down to cook once!"
@onwednesdayswewearpink2761
11 ай бұрын
Alex, turn your glitter jack o lantern around... there is your Thanksgiving decorations :)
@mealab.1051
11 ай бұрын
Actually that is a great idea. 👾
@ifoxfirei
11 ай бұрын
Away with you witch! What source of majick is this?!
@vomitfountain
11 ай бұрын
Dual purpose decoration, very clever!
@sheepyiseepy
11 ай бұрын
I think the whole "I hurt Faline by falling in love with someone else" is kind of bs, because wasnt jade poly? So therefore it would be okay if Amber got feelings for someone else... Maybe thats just ALR's way of twisting things to make herself seem more special/important and the center of everything
@alicemiriah
11 ай бұрын
Right. Same energy as “it’s not mutual..….anymore”
@shannonoreilly4695
11 ай бұрын
Exactly. It makes literally zero sense that Faline would be so hurt that she fell in love with someone else when Faline is the one who broke up with her lol Amber just always has to portray herself as the most desirable, most loved person who everyone is obsessed with.
@ifoxfirei
11 ай бұрын
yeah, I don't believe that for one second. Now if my gf suddenly told me she fell in love with someone after a couple weeks of meeting them then yeah, I would have MAJOR concerns about my gf and that might cause me to breakup with them.
@Ms.Snooks
11 ай бұрын
I don't think it hurt Falines feelings, I think it hurt her ego. That's why she reeled her back in and slept with her lmao.
@Berryations
11 ай бұрын
@@Ms.Snooks this makes more sense she continued to sleep with Amber even tho she was apparently soooo hurt
@alicemiriah
11 ай бұрын
15:23 💀 she is so dramatic 😂😂😂 Amber really tried to manipulate her into falling back into their toxic relationship only to actually push her away, forever.
@ambernicole.
11 ай бұрын
Exactly. One of her manipulative tactics didn’t work!! Hahaha!!! However I feel like it will be worse for the next. Amber will be even MORE controlling and clingy. Omg
@nikkydalby7126
11 ай бұрын
I still wonder what the hell Wifey saw in her to make her travel across state lines to move in without ever meeting each other first! I am NOT surprised Wifey isn’t speaking to our Gorl anymore though.
@alicemiriah
11 ай бұрын
Money, gifts and years of saving her money(if she worked). I don’t believe for a second that she ever paid any bills.
@allmine853
11 ай бұрын
She saw a history of amber buying people and she wanted in on it. I saw con artist the minute she came on the scene. She was in it for the long game but didnt bet on amber being an abusive narcissist and ran the minute she could. I dont believe for a second she paid for anything there.
@candycane7307
11 ай бұрын
trick probably paid off her credit cards, saved her money got a new car, and for 2 years of no sex lets be honest and a lil affection which she may have high functioning autistically felt an inclination to cause Amber is a hardcore LOVE BOMBER she would always compliment poor Becky her looks, her smarts, her arts probably her farts lol sorry had to. She made big ol sporty wipey feel loved adored and taken care of so that carried them for a bit...then the potato thing happened and im sure reality really kicked in and Wipey was pusher of her moving to OKC to make sure she had someone cause she saw the reality of a morbidly obese person in a obese situation couldnt do hymlic shit her pants almost DIED while EATING imagine the shock i think something not really talked about
@VIGGOZEALOT
11 ай бұрын
It crossed my mind that maybe wifey's "contract" was up and did NOT want to renew it. Wasn't it about two years since she moved in with Amber? I'm thinking she was nothing more than a live-in caregiver. Am I wrong?@@allmine853
@nikkydalby7126
11 ай бұрын
I believe both Wifey & Becky broke up with ALR because of health/weight that she won’t change or take it seriously. Then to sit back and watch Amber immediately try to jump in yet another relationship instead of working on herself has got to be hard to watch
@desubysnusnu
11 ай бұрын
Its probably hilarious for Wifey though. Considering how Amber keeps getting ghosted while looking desperate on tiktok 😂
@pianonotes1010
11 ай бұрын
Wifey was a force to be reckoned with. She wasn't having any of ALR's shenanigans. ALR clearly bit off more than she could scissor.
@nmnih1820
11 ай бұрын
😂
@DarthFurie
11 ай бұрын
Omggggg nooooo
@T.SYomTov
11 ай бұрын
✂️ 👀
@mehchic
11 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@kcunlimitedeats
11 ай бұрын
OMG I'm dead. That comment is brutal.
@ambo7391
11 ай бұрын
Dude she WISHES wifey was upset with her "falling for someone" yeaaaahhhh right !!!! 😂😂😂
@Katzielle
11 ай бұрын
Im So glad wifey made a clean cutt-off with amber. Sometimes being cut off from someone is a good wake up call but it still seems like amber is making it all about her. And texting your EX that you still love and miss them is so gross and unneeded. She needs to respect her boundaries
@MsKJackson831
11 ай бұрын
It's wild to me how she's attempting to twist the fact that Faline wants NOTHING to do with her into proof that Faline loved her sooo much and Amber is just SUCH a heartbreaker. Heaven forbid she admit that maybe Faline is glad to be rid of her 🙄
@Katie-mw7pd
11 ай бұрын
I’ve been diagnosed with BPD since age 18 (now 23) and have been saying for years that Amber clearly has it. Watching how she behaves and treats people when she’s spiraling makes me so thankful I started going to DBT and practicing mindfulness soon after I was diagnosed.
@dez6278
10 ай бұрын
I'm proud of you for putting in that work!
@peanutbutter4949
10 ай бұрын
DBT saved my life, i honesty think everyone could benefit from it mentally ill or not
@bobanoda
11 ай бұрын
It’s actually insane how after this many relationships where the other person has called amber out for manipulation and mistreatment alr STILL refuses to actually change. Mental health is NEVER an excuse to be abusive and I’m sick of amber portraying those of us who have mental health issues as manipulative people who can’t control ourselves
@MindyMarie.
11 ай бұрын
Yes!!! Amber is the problem, not the many women who have dumped her. Imagine getting a new car, living rent free in a ‘luxury’ apartment, being showered with gifts and still saying, nope I’m out! I don’t think she should be monetized while spreading false information about disorders she doesn’t even have.
@Crabernacker
11 ай бұрын
she has literal video proof of her pattern of behavior yet cannot grasp that she is the problem. its honestly insane
@marilynsgirl01
11 ай бұрын
Thank you. I have bpd and I work so hard to be a functional and loving adult. There’s a lot of stigma against bpd although it’s getting better but her complete refusal to take accountability just isn’t helpful at all. People like Trisha Paytas use bpd as an excuse to be abusive and it’s NOT.
@denisefox5973
11 ай бұрын
Typical, another diagnosis to excuse her disgusting behaviour...And she can fck right off with her bull shit "new person" nonsense, she'll never change!🙄
@candy-stars
11 ай бұрын
@@marilynsgirl01the mental illness is not your fault, but it is your responsibility. This is something I needed to learn as a mentally ill teen, who’s emotions are now regulated. If I know that as a teen, it’s sad she doesn’t know that as an adult
@erika2m16
11 ай бұрын
I hate tiktok for being full of misinformation about mental health. Especially BPD. Even my therapist complains about it. Everyone thinks they have a good idea of what it is, because they consume so much pop psychology bs memes and content. But they have no idea how complicated personally disorders are
@JessTheory
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this❤❤❤
@Sunshinekmn
11 ай бұрын
"'I love you. I miss you' I just wanted her to know." Exactly! YOU wanted her to know. Classic manipulation. You were constantly reminding her of what happened. She didn't need that, you did. Very selfish and not even almost surprising.
@thegayestminotaur
11 ай бұрын
It makes my blood boil every time she makes excuses for something heinous because "I have mental illness" like. Ma'am. Mental Illness doesn't absolve you of responsibility, of accountability. If you hurt someone, you can't just wave your hand and say "well, I hurt you because my brain is different so you have to forgive me," like, no. You nut up, buttercup, and make amends. Nobody's perfect, ofc, but there are tools to help people like us who have Bipolar, who have Depression, who have Anxiety, etc. It's not sunshine and roses all the time, but like, man... do better.
@meisblonde
11 ай бұрын
She didnt care about beckys feelings when she "fell" in love with wifey
@retired-internet-troll
11 ай бұрын
She couldn’t control “falling in-love with someone else”? Get real. You avoid contacting strangers. She’s so delulu
@makeupbylizzie
11 ай бұрын
ALR is the only one shook by Wifey not talking to her once they moved out #hashtaggorltalk (IYKYK)
@mollyricee
11 ай бұрын
I honestly expected Wifey to go no contact, if that is what this is. Excited to watch! Love you Alex! She reminds me of... me, leaving an insane roommate. I was sweet as pie. Doing everything right, buying gifts, being a helpful friend. Got the f*** out and never spoke again. It's the best way to deal with a narcissist.
@JustMeChrissLee
11 ай бұрын
I did that in an old relationship until both our names were off the lease then....bye forever...
@mollyricee
11 ай бұрын
@@JustMeChrissLee Yup! Smart! There's just no winning any arguments with a narcissist. Don't make yourself suffer more than you already are. I kept her happy and then I got my peace.
@TaffyGreeZay
11 ай бұрын
I had a hysterectomy at age 36.(back when the T-Rex still roamed the earth)! They really don't do hormone replacement anymore. It can do more harm than good and makes cancer more likely. That is what my Dr told me when I asked.
@ScorpioXVirgo
10 ай бұрын
Synthetic estrogen is carcinogenic and pharmaceutical companies will only manufacture a synthetic version bc they can patent it 🙃 love that for us
@TaffyGreeZay
10 ай бұрын
@creatrixZBD Then fork over the hormones!!
@OctoberRust1973
11 ай бұрын
It always astounds me at her height and weight that she is as able bodied as she is.
@denisefox5973
11 ай бұрын
I doubt for much longer though, her knees/hips will eventually give up, she has and awful rolling gait when she walks, so her joints are probably not even in proper alignment, along with all that weight...is a recipe for disaster.
@amberinthemist7912
11 ай бұрын
Right? I got to 180 and started falling apart. If she was normal weight she'd have the potential for an extreme athlete due to how much abuse her body can take.
@VIGGOZEALOT
11 ай бұрын
Her forties are knocking at the door and she will not be as "agile" as she claims to be now if her weight stays as is.
@OctoberRust1973
10 ай бұрын
@@denisefox5973 For sure. Have no doubt she’ll be dealing with knee replacements and possible back surgeries from hemorrhaged discs.
@Gorl.World.
11 ай бұрын
Telling us the ghosting was a rumor is her gaslighting us in the stupidest way. I can see why ZERO friends and gorlfriends have any contact with her.😂
@shikiixTheYoungWidow
11 ай бұрын
Omg I'm starting to think that snapchat story WAS Wifey!! "I'm single as f* now! Finally.. FREEDOM!!!!" 😱
@shikiixTheYoungWidow
11 ай бұрын
15:52 OMG ALEX I SWEAR WE'RE THE SAME PERSON 😂😂😂❤❤
@Sealife834
11 ай бұрын
Feline got shoes, hoodies, watches, tons of gifts, money, free food and free rent while they were together. She got what she wanted.. she got fed up with Ambie and she left. It’s over!
@maxe-f9812
11 ай бұрын
Don’t forget the full arm sleeve, that would’ve been $$$$
@ms.hotdoglegs614
11 ай бұрын
Yeah, how ironic that after her tattoos were completed the breakup began......things that make you go Hmmmmm
@desubysnusnu
11 ай бұрын
@@ms.hotdoglegs614 Wifey was like "did this b!tch just branded me!? Aight Im outta here"
@ellieblack8028
11 ай бұрын
ive said this before but i think Amberlynn would slay at those angel wish trees -- idk what theyre called but the big christmas trees with paper ornaments on them with wishlists written on from low income kids. she loves shopping but she doesn't care about keeping what she has. and she'd probably feel a connection to those kids. and helping others makes you feel not alone! that would be a great vlogmas series, 12 days of giving, a different kid for each day!
@dez6278
10 ай бұрын
That's a great idea!
@LumpsofSugarforgottheirpasswor
11 ай бұрын
Wifey moved in right after the Becky breakup while they were still living together. What did she expect? Played a stupid game and won a stupid prize. 🏆
@CharleneOrtizTraining
11 ай бұрын
It's crazy to me how emotionally weak she is. She is overwhelmed by the simplest and stupidest things. I will say that I'm happy to see her building a relationship with her mother
@ashleyautumn555
11 ай бұрын
I’m a wife, student, business owner doing gig work all day every day to barely scrape by. Hearing her mention burnout is nauseating
@LeeLeeCRN
11 ай бұрын
Yes! I spent almost 10yrs in a busy city ER\Trauma unit dealing with some horrific situations. I did that on days when I was tired..sick..pregnant etc. I finally had to switch gears n change jobs. I work 2 part time nursing jobs =to full time hrs. I have 2 kids one with special needs n do a lot of it on my own! No complaints..I'm grateful but I totally agree with u. She has no clue what burn out is!! 😒
@ashleyautumn555
11 ай бұрын
@@LeeLeeCRN you are a superhero!!
@LeeLeeCRN
11 ай бұрын
@@ashleyautumn555lol awe u are so sweet.im far from a super hero but thank u..that's so nice to hear.u sound like u are doing pretty awesome things yourself gorl😊❤
@dykedelic
11 ай бұрын
🎻
@KelseyLovato
11 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with borderline and she really doesn’t help remove the stigma of that personality disorder… mine is chronic and I live a good life after lots and lots of therapy
@maggiejoshroo1
11 ай бұрын
omg she has said the exact same words with every "relationship" shes been in. She was my soulmate, I thought i was gonna marry her and spend my life with her" YOU DO NOT EVEN KNOW WHAT LOVE IS!!!!!!!!!!!!!
@willowingwhispers2612
11 ай бұрын
What it sounds like is Feline was okay with them texting every once in a while, but then Amber started pestering her constantly on a daily basis, crying about still loving her and wanting to get back together. This lead to Feline getting irritated or pissed and telling her she didn't want to speak with her anymore. Hopefully Feline blocked her number afterwards. That way it wouldn't matter if Amber broke down and tried to contact her again.
@ninjaeinhorn1179
11 ай бұрын
living with bpd is absolute hell, everyday. it hurts you and the people around you, nothing ever feels real. i cant even describe it really.. this b milking it for her victim complex disgusts me, even if she has bpd, YOU HAVE TO WORK ON IT TO HEAL, AND YOU HAVE TO WANT TO HEAL amber shmamber doesn’t want to do either, she wants to make excuses for all her actions and be pitied for it. i cant
@briaweea02
11 ай бұрын
I’ve literally been saying forever that Amber has BPD. One of my ex friends had it and Amber’s behavior reminds me a lot of the things they used to do/say, especially her inability to regulate her emotions
@finkwood
11 ай бұрын
Isn't stretching and exercise an important step in trying to better control lipedema and lymphedema? So...why does it make hers swell WORSE? Is she sure it isn't her incredible amount of daily sodiumssss?
@henotic.essence
11 ай бұрын
Exercise of any type activates her sodiumz and cause inflammationz
So many diagnoses, absolutely no medication. And wow, to have a friend of your ex tell you to stop texting the ex, you already know ALR was acting insaneee…
@lorilouwho6804
11 ай бұрын
Amber can say whatever she wants, no one will believe her, Feline doesn’t give a damn, she’s out! Smart to never appear on camera
@thejessica-est
11 ай бұрын
The best way I know to explain BPD is that its a disorder of intensity of emotions. People with a BPD diagnosis have difficulty regulating especially in times of distress. DBT is the first line treatment and its no joke. I've seen a lot of patients with this diagnosis make incredible progress BUT it was because they accepted it and worked really hard towards management of symptoms. I doubt she's going to put in the work and hasn't ever really demonstrated the insight or accountability required to make significant progress with this diagnosis. (With what she shows us publicly, anyway)
@vickiemouse2359
11 ай бұрын
It is so important to take time between relationships! Being with one person and always having the next one lined up is so wrong! She Finally has an ex who doesn’t want to stay friends after they broke up!!!
@Berryations
11 ай бұрын
When I talk to a guy on the internet for a couple weeks and things don’t work out I don’t even want to jump right back online… my god she moves so fast it’s crazy
@bobanoda
11 ай бұрын
I don’t think alr actually knows what a diagnosis is. Genuinely. She’s admitted before that when she claimed to be diagnosed with something she actually wasn’t, the doctor just mentioned it as a possibility and all she heard was that she has THAT. I’m not saying she does or doesn’t have bpd or whatever other illnesses she claims bc I’m not her doctor but I do not think she understands the difference between an actual on the paper diagnosis and a doctor simply mentioning her potential for having something
@AlienZizi
11 ай бұрын
i completely agree. usually a diagnosis needs some testing and multiple visits smfh.
@macytorro
11 ай бұрын
I did a year of intensive DBT (3 days a week group and individual) and then another year of less intense therapy and I went into “remission” from my BPD aka I no longer met the criteria. BPD is heavily stigmatised but it actually has a really positive recovery rate if you accept therapy and put the work in. Amber is a great example of wilful ignorance and the dark path it can lead to - let’s be real her mental health has physically disabled her and has probably taken 20+ years off her life. She has the means and access to a program like the one I did but I guess is probably never going to follow through with it. Super sad but it’s all up to her at the end of the day. Wishing all my BPD babes strength, it’s a horrible time to go through but recovery is possible ❤
@alospm
11 ай бұрын
❤️
@mortal-enemy
11 ай бұрын
I also have BPD and have been in treatment for 3 years. You took all the words right out of my mouth, couldn't have said it better myself. Congratulations on your remission, bestie! That's incredible!
@chai_flavored
11 ай бұрын
Thank you babe I needed to hear this ❤ glad you recovered!
@amberinthemist7912
11 ай бұрын
It has a terrible reputation because of how dangerous people are when untreated. It's justified imo. Good for you for getting treatment. I hope you continue for life so you can stay subclinical. Good luck!
@kianisaac4787
11 ай бұрын
As someone who is *actually* diagnosed with BPD, I am NOT excited to hear Amber talk about why she thinks she has it and self-diagnose herself. 🙃 Wish me luck watching this. Appreciate you as always, Alex. You make her bearable ❤
@mealab.1051
11 ай бұрын
Me as well but takes absolutely NO meds. Ummm hmmm right.
@Katzielle
11 ай бұрын
She always takes the most surface level definition and does whatever she can to apply it to herself. Or she'll be like "my friend has it and I have similar symptoms therefore I must also have it "" I know its gonna get my blood boiling when I grt to that part lol. Bpd is sooooo nuanced, something amber is not.
@apollonia-ava
11 ай бұрын
You mean Wifey saw through the BS 😂the manipulation, the whining, fake crying, threats, toxicity, tantrums and said F off 😂? Well done Jade !
@ifoxfirei
11 ай бұрын
Ugh, agree. I always wonder what people like her did before the internet? Probably not well.
@Confusedragon
11 ай бұрын
I used to think I had BPD, turns out it was actually PTSD. I know getting mental health evaluation can be expensive, and if you privately diagnose yourself because the symptoms are relateable and the ways to deal with it seem to help, then fine.....but Amber shouldn't be publicly spreading misinformation, that's my only issue. I wish I hadn't told people "I have bpd" because I was wrong and in the end, the official ptsd diagnose by a professional made more sense and I was able to get better
@lucyalison4962
11 ай бұрын
She is such a narcissist 😂
@sarahwar3538
11 ай бұрын
She should do Vlogmas with Mama Lynn. She missed so much childhood with her being in foster homes, take time to make up for that. Actually BAKE and decorate cookies. Show us decorating the tree. Drive neighborhoods and look at lights. No daily gifts- daily memories.
@Pbandketchup
11 ай бұрын
this is a very cute comment
@milla3360
11 ай бұрын
Texting everyday "I love you, I miss you" is completely out of line. And months after breakup??
@tatertot1946
11 ай бұрын
Oh give me a break. Jade didn't give a rat's ass if Amber was trolling on SnapChat or Insta....anything to keep her amused while she (Jade) waited out the lease to avoid owing her any money. Amber trying to make her jealous was an epic fail and now Amber is paying for that stupidity. Jade is living her best life....finally. I have no sympathy for Amber. She is the author of her own mess and she is the only person who can clean it up.
@andyrainylosingmyjeans9759
11 ай бұрын
Sadly I think Amber will never get a proper diagnosis or help because she lies to her therapist to fit her narrative the time. As soon as the therapist catches on Amber switches therapists or quits. She wants to blame her bad behavior of stalking Wifey on yet another diagnosis she will never have treated. Wifey should change all her contacts because this will never stop with Amber until her next obsession.
@Ashley.Evolves
11 ай бұрын
Pulling in some of those 'Life Plus Cindy' vibes I see ...
@anunnakicrown
11 ай бұрын
Can't medicate borderline, love that for her. For the first time, she's right!
@kaylas3105
11 ай бұрын
Anyone who has worked psych called it years ago. She needs DBT but I don’t think she will ever have the self awareness
@anunnakicrown
11 ай бұрын
@@kaylas3105 ya I might have been one of them- all personality disorders are axis II inpatient. If you can't medicate it away then doctors are all set, they'll let God/ jail sort them out.
@MindyMarie.
11 ай бұрын
Someone please tell Jade how to use the block feature on her phone. I hope someone close to her encourages her to file a restraining order situation type deal if Amber insists on contacting her after being told not to. Harassment and stalking are not ok.
@Dandy279
11 ай бұрын
She was probably going nuts with Amber texting her all the time. STOP 🛑
@nikkireigns
11 ай бұрын
Amber working the Clydesdale Tail now instead of the poop bun 😂
@thoughtsintowords
11 ай бұрын
She thought she could do the same thing she did to all her past girlfriends and move on just like that. But there are consequences for the way you treat people and she's finally dealing with some.
@lovelife5944
11 ай бұрын
Let’s hope no one falls for her crap again and she actually has to be on her own for a while coz with all the evidence out there I don’t know why girls are still sliding into her dms 🤦♀️
@roxannecaiolino9509
11 ай бұрын
Ambers diagnosis is.She doesn't heal from past hurts. So she lives in a Pity Mode. Destiny confirmed it. She has to work on herself.❤
@jennzifur
11 ай бұрын
…and work on herself offline.
@Swimmaroo
11 ай бұрын
Done with my extremely stressful job to finally relax to the soothing sounds of ALR complaining about how difficult yt is 😂
@lovelife5944
11 ай бұрын
Same here 😂
@agnessnow4806
11 ай бұрын
Feeling the oats has been a phrase long before Gia Gunn said it in the werk room. The phrase comes from when horses eat oats get a sugar rush and prance around.
@Golden-Girls-97
11 ай бұрын
I heard Dorothy say it once on Golden Girls and I liiived lol. Thanks for the origin by the way. That’s pretty cool :)
@UnseenElara
11 ай бұрын
@@Golden-Girls-97The Golden Girls is one of the best shows out there! Dorothy always had some of the best lines. C:
@henotic.essence
11 ай бұрын
Aww that's actually really cool to know! Thanks for sharing :) 🐎
@aeronautique7690
11 ай бұрын
I’ve been the emotionally messed up ex constantly texting my ex. It was NOT a good look. I forced myself to stop but it took me longer than I want to admit… probably three months? I was in my early 20s which isn’t an excuse but I couldn’t imagine myself today at amber’s age still engaging in this behavior.
@joannejankowskyj3259
11 ай бұрын
I have BPD and it’s absolute torture. I think the quote “People with borderline personality disorder are like people with third-degree burns over 90% of their bodies. Lacking emotional skin, they feel agony at the slightest touch or movement” really hits the nail on the head
@medusa3592
11 ай бұрын
Behavioral therapy. Takes effort. Girl won't do it. She's too comfy doing nothing at all feeling like a victim.
@TheCuttingBoard1971
11 ай бұрын
Wifey probably just said what she said to get her completely out of her life because no one can keep any kind of friendship with her because they know what she is.
@princessmorebucks
11 ай бұрын
I'm just glad she didn't pick the question "what's your favorite movie," because if I hear about A Simple Favor and Blake Lively again, I'm going to scream 💜
@sarahsarahsarah9093
11 ай бұрын
I watched a couple video essays about that movie yesterday and couldn’t stop thinking about ALR lmao 😂
@metaloca0019
11 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@Ms.Snooks
11 ай бұрын
"I unpacked within like 4 days" bahahah we saw those videos gorl, dun lie
@ambgr
11 ай бұрын
Lmao she isnt building stamina, she's simply just suffering. Theres no way her legs dont possibly hurt when she walks. Imagine building soo much stamina and there still isnt a slight physical change from 2019 till now. Also, her bringing up how she never sat in scooter at a grocery store while dating feline is kinda bullshit since she instacarted every week.
@pvqts1
11 ай бұрын
Amberlynn could always walk she's just lazy and pretends that walking is brand new when she feels like people aren't taking her seriously enough. She was still getting in the car and making it into Walmart and doing her walking videos when she was 560 elbees. I think there's a video where she pretends that she can suddenly get up the three steps in front of the gaycare and is doing "so much better". It's a game to her but she's not going to be laughing when she actually can't get out of bed one day
@nikitee7876
11 ай бұрын
And she STILL didnt talk about the things she couldnt talk about that she said she was gonna talk about!!!
@blueyes5608
11 ай бұрын
Wifey got out before another 25 days of Christmas hit and she had to buy her a present every day
@jordanofshadowlightening6040
11 ай бұрын
I do want to say that breatheing got so much better just losing my first 40 pounds...
@CaptureEmma
11 ай бұрын
She has always said that her stamina, diet and mindset has improved. In 2019 she said her stamina improved because she’s not sitting down cooking and now she’s saying the same thing. She is always convinced she is on the right track but she is pretty much as big now as she was in 2019. We don’t buy it Amberlynn.
@mrooneyfox
11 ай бұрын
I knew since the breakup that Wifey would skip on Amber the second they moved out, and this was before she "fell in love" with someone else. That's just a pretext; Wifey was ready to get as far away from Amber as possible and just said they would still be friends so it could over smoothly.
@Twinkie989
11 ай бұрын
We all knew she had BPD. No news here. They missed the NPD.
@Blendandbeyond
11 ай бұрын
Notice how none of her exes wanna speak to her ever again?
@terrisue4059
11 ай бұрын
She is perhaps going to the dispensary instead of drinking?? She lives in OK now and they are everywhere. I am sure she could get a card with no problem.
@_Mamimi
11 ай бұрын
I have BPD and it affects my life in every single way
@PrissyHippie
11 ай бұрын
Faline, aka, Wifey, said peace out homie. She dropped her off and washed her hands of that 500+ lb problem. Clean break is best. To bad she wasted 2 years on a relationship that went nowhere.
@missanthropocene6308
11 ай бұрын
I have the bpd diagnosis and i went to dbt therapy so i think ik why she doesnt wanna talk about that. She is right there is no medication all u can do is dbt and while its a form of therapy, it isnt rlly like therapy. U have to be stable while u do it, no crisis alowed and then its just like school. U literally have to work ur way thru ur emotions. Some other patient at the dbt ward i was at said its like getting ur divers licence but for ur emotions. U have to practice skills and mindfullness everyday and do worksheets. U actually get homework. I still have my folder there 100s of worksheets and lists and stuff in there. If she cant stick to anything else in life (sorry if thats harsh lol) i doubt she will be able to stick to dbt. But her being misgiagnosed with ptsd and bipolar is actually not a rare thing. Soooo many disorder share symptoms and women get misdiagnoded all the time anyways. Im actually thinking that bpd was a misdiagnosis for me. Amber tho..... spot on lmao i had 3 women in their 30s/40s also doing dbt that were just as huge and had the same personality. Binge eating sadly is a good coping mechanism after all Edit: also the quick falling in love thing SO spot on. There was a girl also at the dbt ward. She was pregnant and was with the father of the child. After 4pm we always were allowed to have free time and we were allowed to leave the terrain ? (Idk all these specific words in english im sorry lol) but we pretty much were allowed to do whatever but we had to be back at 10pm. So the pregnant girl comes back GLOWING talking about she just slept with her guy best friend and she is sooo in love and this is something different... We were all like hm?? 🧐 And only after she realized we all thought that is weird did she start to cry and come up with weird stories as to why her baby daddy wasnt the one and blah blah blah. It was honestly wild in there lmao but yeah, reminds me of amber completely
@andyrainylosingmyjeans9759
11 ай бұрын
All I get from that is my heart breaks for that poor baby once it's born, I hope someone else will give the child love and care for it. So many children born into a horrible life
@missanthropocene6308
11 ай бұрын
@@andyrainylosingmyjeans9759oh i really think the baby did not stay with her or at least i hope so as well. This girl was a MESS. She smoked cigarettes the entire time as well WHILE pregnant. She said her dcotor said the tobacco withdrawals would be worse for the child. Obviously not true and we all knew that but what could we do? No one liked her. She was bad even for bpd standards. She also, obviously, didnt finnish dbt. I just hope the child is well. They should be kindergarden age now..
@aeronautique7690
11 ай бұрын
This is very interesting perspective, thanks
@robynp22
11 ай бұрын
I’m no expert but BPD makes sense for Amber, only based on what I know which isn’t much. Tricia Paytas and Life Plus Cindy are examples that I know of and I see lots of similarities. Especially the constant talking about and contacting exes, even when they have asked you not to. Being abandoned or neglected as a child is where this disorder starts and that also tracks.
@mortal-enemy
11 ай бұрын
I have BPD, and I would honestly be shocked if ALR hadn't developed BPD given her childhood. She needs intensive DBT treatment, and part of that will be dredging up the causes for the feelings related to the disorder. That will be challenging given that her mother - one of the causes for the disorder forming in the first place - is now her primary support person.
@freya4929
11 ай бұрын
BPD has always been the right diagnosis for ALR, I’ve said that for years now. There’s no medication for that. DBT and CBT. Massive amounts of therapy and an actual willingness to work on it with a psychologist, and an willingness grasp how to get better. She thought she was ADHD for a second too, and pushed that narrative for a while, the only diagnosis she haven’t self diagnosed with is autism. She should focus more on the work that needs to be done. I also hope she doesn’t get the idea of an autism spectrum diagnosis on her mind. Because BPD is the correct diagnosis. Now let’s see if she’s ready to work hard on herself or not.
@elizabethperry2622
10 ай бұрын
She walked out of her first meeting with the specialist and never went back. She moved states and doesn’t even have a therapist after a month in Oklahoma. She told us she keeps denying she isn’t has it. Nothing about the way she’s handled this or has handled any of her issues to date makes me think she’s going to be a recovery success story.
@elizabethperry2622
10 ай бұрын
Plus it sounds like the convo with the specialist with. “From our discussion and the notes I’ve received from your previous therapist in his referral I think you do meet the criteria for borderline personality disorder.” “So what medication do I need to be on?” “Well, the thing is that personality disorders aren’t primarily treated with medication. While we work together I might recommend a SSRI if you find it hard to function, but that could be a year down the line, for now we’ll need to be starting DBT once a week on top of your regular counseling, there’s a workbook I’ll need you to start chapter 1 before we meet again, and there’s a support group I want you to look into…” And Amber fled the scene.
@JK-mv1tv
11 ай бұрын
Love your videos, Alex!! I love that you comment often on her thinking she is busy. Her life is something that hardly anyone experiences - low effort/ great money. I’m a teacher and struggle working full time and giving so much of myself that I have nothing left when I come home (and hardly make a decent income). She needs a slice of humble pie to realize her busy is the time people wish they had to get other things done besides their job!
@lextalk925
11 ай бұрын
Hey, at least what you do is impactful! She'll never have that!
@callmefeckers9870
11 ай бұрын
as someone diagnosed with BPD I am kinda sad that she is diagnosed with it. There is a huge stigma over us and Amber being diasgnosed won't help it because the woman is delulu beyond it and does things I've never done and people often think that people with BPD are all the same, we are really not, not even close. Many people with BPD are decent people.
@StarSquishie
11 ай бұрын
The borderline diagnosis is interesting. It's not particularly surprising, but it's definitely one of the "darker" disorders in terms of how explosive it can be when unmanaged. It also doesn't surprise me that her main issue with the diagnosis is that she actually has to work to do anything about it vs popping meds. (Even though she's also decided she doesn't want to do meds either...)
@AlienZizi
11 ай бұрын
truly a safe and healthy person to have in one's life! idk how girlies arent lining up to date her 😋
@laurelpowell8536
11 ай бұрын
DBT is the therapy for borderline personality disorder. It takes about 6 months to a year to really work through and learn the skills, but it is so helpful (even if you dont have bpd).
@RavingKats
11 ай бұрын
Fwiw, as a psych grad who kinda focused on cluster B PDs and complex PTSD, and who stumbled on gorlworld in Aug 2023, it only took about 3 hrs of watching reactions to her videos for me to believe she has BPD with high narcissistic traits (there are different types of BPD and two ppl with the dx can be very different in their behaviours). Like, I mean this kindly, but it's super obvious to me especially in context of how she was with Becky and some of the classic stories like the code red incident. When taken together it's pretty obvious. Also 19 sessions (if she's being honest about that) is enough to evaluate BPD. Oftentimes, like in standard medicine, you start with the least impactful disorders and work your way up as evidence that there's something more to the situation comes up. No shame to anyone with it btw, everyone is messy in their own way, I'm just saying that when you are familiar with signs it's really quite obvious when it comes to her.
@sharondigness2315
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for your expert analysis and clarifying this. I always guessed she had BPD (the desperation, clinginess and inability to accept the partner dumping her), but couldn't figure out her extreme arrogance and delusion of her own physical "beauty" (constant preening, puckering her lips, staring at herself in the viewfinder). Very interesting to know that someone with BPD can also include narcissistic traits.
@peppermakrel5123
11 ай бұрын
This! Yes!
@RavingKats
11 ай бұрын
@@sharondigness2315 many of the cluster B PDs have overlapping symptoms and behaviours and it can be quite challenging to try to disentangle which is what. Add in many are comorbid with each other or other disorders, and the whole thing is really a best guess as an outsider looking in as opposed to her psychiatrist or psychologist asking standardized questions to help distinguish prevailing themes. Also I was thinking, because she REALLY wanted the weight-loss surgery, she may have opened up the most to the psych evaluating her for the program thinking that she was the most ideal candidate for it, which is why she was so crushed when she was told they wanted to take a cautionary strategy with her and asked for a year of commitment to the program pre surgery to be safe/for most likely success. Her trauma therapist(s) may not have been there to evaluate her in the same way as the surgery evaluation psych was, in trauma therapy it's a lot more about (re) establishing safety and examining core beliefs vs evaluating clinically ones character. Also ppl can only determine disorders based on what's shown/shared with them, and I don't think she's been completely transparent with the numerous therapists she's had previously, so that's likely why she has so many misdiagnoses as well.
@Sandra-Renea
11 ай бұрын
Since I’ve been watching Life Plus Cindy who also has bpd, I can totally believe this diagnosis. BPD is very similar to narcissism and causes a lot of manipulation. ✅✅
@rtcomments
11 ай бұрын
This title is TEATEATEATEATEA, can’t wait to watch
@alex_is_shook
11 ай бұрын
It’s her best video in a LONG time lol. Enjoy
@Walkerben
11 ай бұрын
My sister has BPD and her behaviors really mirror Amber’s. My sister is extremely impulsive, has cycled through addictions, was never single, and seemed to never have her own personality. She went through multiple diagnoses as well. My sister is finally stable only after hitting rock-bottom and getting help. Amber is benefiting financially from the symptoms so she won’t get help.
@tiredallthetime1636
11 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but it really bothers me how she’s coming on here talking about how hard it is and how much she misses faline blah blah blah but like she’s the one who did the damage and brought this on herself. She’s the one who went and “fell in love” like a week after getting out of a two year relationship. Like how dare you come on here talking about how sad and hurt you are when she didn’t give a fuck about hurting “the person she thought she was gonna marry.” Then to continue to text her saying she misses and loves her after faline said she didn’t want to be friends or have contact with her. Like the manipulation and mind games are going crazy. Honestly I can’t believe wifey drove her and her shirt over 10 hours after she did that. I don’t particularly like wifey but that’s fucked up, Amber is a horrible partner/ex.
@too_tired_for_this
11 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with bpd once. Diagnoses change as you go through life.
@JustMeChrissLee
11 ай бұрын
I legit cried taking down my Halloween decor, its my fave holiday
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