Some of the clips are longer than normal today, including the mostly unedited fight between Alexis and Amberlynn at the 52:00 mark. I wanted to include it since Amberlynn took it down from her channel. Feel free to use the timestamps in the description box to skip around! Enjoy the video :)
@radar4
Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤
@uniquechallenges2478
Ай бұрын
Gorl amberlynn reid is probmatic! I love her don't get me wrong but she must do better I'm worried about her! Please zach speak some sense into her your out only hope love .🎉❤😊
@Rachelief
Ай бұрын
@@uniquechallenges2478 I could not agree more!!
@anovemberstar
Ай бұрын
Hahaha ..that she takes it down and you show even more, .. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@Ellen-u2o
Ай бұрын
How is ALR a year older than me but she talks like my daughter…. It’s disturbing.
@OddMike
Ай бұрын
The way Amber switches so quickly through different manipulation tactics is WILD. The second it doesn't fool Alexis she just goes to another one. She turns on the crying voice, it doesn't work so it's instantly gone. Then she goes to saying she's disassociating (???). Then she starts blaming her BPD. Then she threatens to bring up personal information to try and get Alexis to shut up. Like holy shit
@iamjackspyramidshapedhelmet
Ай бұрын
She’s like a free textbook on narcissists lmao, therapists should use this as an educational video
@IHeArTrOcK20
Ай бұрын
It's wild to see in real time
@ritahelll
Ай бұрын
throwing out all the tools she has in her belt
@razzle8140
Ай бұрын
She did the exact same thing when Destiny came forward and they had their livestream. Same exact thing.
@nataliewojtala7720
Ай бұрын
@@razzle8140exactly like when she said she has "tea" on her brother and she said that he's an addict 🙃 wildddd
@HugeniaCooney
Ай бұрын
The amount of times she said she was gonna hang up and didn’t 💀
@TheKillaShow
Ай бұрын
It’s part of her manipulation. When Alexis starts saying not so good things about her situation threaten to hang up.
@bettymonath5741
Ай бұрын
Just like she threatens to quit KZitem when she gets caught in a lie
@PurpleT3a
Ай бұрын
Same thing she did with destiny lol
@iamjackspyramidshapedhelmet
Ай бұрын
Once you stop taking a narcissist’s threats seriously you get all of your power back lol. I loved when Destiny laughed at her
@willowyall
Ай бұрын
literally no one made her talk publicly she could say no. she sounds exhausting to be her friend
@emilybryant8461
Ай бұрын
As a fellow human named Emily, I beg the community to stick to using the name Tommy Slommy 😭
@erika2m16
Ай бұрын
My name is Erika and this has been quite ✨️ hectic ✨️ for me 😂
@ameekasoar
Ай бұрын
All the Beckys, Alexises, Jades and Britneys are begging for this too 😂
@michelleschneider8046
Ай бұрын
I thought he’s been saying Tommy salami
@daniellesancillo
Ай бұрын
Don't forget the Danielles too!
@cheesygordita
Ай бұрын
My name is Alexis and i’m here for the rideeeee
@nessiefanatic
Ай бұрын
hectic is the WORST amberism imo
@sammybam77
Ай бұрын
I think her weird way of saying noooo that she also just got from Tommy may be worse
@sammybam77
Ай бұрын
Hectic every 5 seconds is also obnoxious
@april9497
Ай бұрын
“Neaux” is definitely worse
@PoopiGirl.23
Ай бұрын
She’s hectic-pilled hecticmaxing
@lucianagarbim
Ай бұрын
I hated when she used to say "yes I did, yes I will, no I didn't" etc. Jade's mannerisms
@ljbillaber
Ай бұрын
ALR complains about being “dehumanized,” and then turns around and refers to her best friend as an emotional support dog and a journal that talks back.
@spidercaat
Ай бұрын
Gorl I forgot about her ‘dehumanised’ era I can’t even remember why she thought she was, because people saw her just for her weight as if anyone gives a shit about her weight lol. Only time it’s relevant is as a part of the alr cycle. She’s so f dumb LOL.
@feathersheathers4823
Ай бұрын
I’ve been called a “living journal” by a former best friend and it’s a very hurtful thing to call someone. When a friend uses someone that way, it’s abusive.
@iamjackspyramidshapedhelmet
Ай бұрын
Honestly that really horrified me, she’s SO self centered
@rebella8898
Ай бұрын
I can’t with her saying “hectic” every 2 minutes. 🙄
@Emily_Easton
Ай бұрын
She learned a new word 😂
@tinyelephant2104
Ай бұрын
I hate when she learns random new words and feels the need to repeat them constantly
@cstillq4456
Ай бұрын
when people repeat themselves over and over again it fills me with an indescribable rage. and she's hardly using it properly 💀
@MorkyMuffin
Ай бұрын
The thing is she learned a new word but not it's meaning
@CherrrrBear
Ай бұрын
And BPD
@urcutedad
Ай бұрын
I knew being patient through Ambers single era would be worth it 💀
@siberiansquad3495
Ай бұрын
She's making up for lost time!
@ukejuke1009
Ай бұрын
😂
@JustMeChrissLee
Ай бұрын
"single" era according to Alexis lol
@Zee-nd6hc
Ай бұрын
bruh fr i leave for 5 days and miss 7 seasons
@lanaloverr69
Ай бұрын
RIGHT HAHA 😂
@yasminvie99
Ай бұрын
Love how amber is yelling at Alexis for never liking her partners, but then when she says she liked jade her response is “after what she did to me?!” lmao
@lexillogical
Ай бұрын
Right??? Like you never like any of my partners, no not that one! I should get to pick how you feel about other people!
@user-jb1mb5xh9t
Ай бұрын
Also the gall to say "she had valid reasons" to not like ambers exes but then still brings it up as a negative against alexis and how shes "not supportive"??? Shes essentially saying "i dont like that you criticised my partners" point blank, probably because she gets so into her partners so quickly and adopts what they like etc that it feels like an attack against her as well. Either way, what a terrible friend.
@DreamsRDriven011
Ай бұрын
The more I read the comments of reactions to this livestream the more contradictions I see people pointing out that I never saw at first. It really does seem like nothing you say will be the right answer to her because she starts to actively change her opinion/narrative to contradict you
@kilmenypl
Ай бұрын
That was the funniest part 😂
@ramenqueen_1013
Ай бұрын
Timestamp?
@Alyssa_James
Ай бұрын
Calling your friend an emotional support dog is a very narcissistic thing to say. Most if not all narcissists don't view people as people. They view them as pawns or pets. I not only dated a covert narcissist, but I was also "best friends" with one too. And both "jokingly" called other people and myself "their little pet" and if you didn't do the tricks they wanted you to do or say what they wanted you to say then you were a bad person and the problem in every situation. Live stream ALR is the true ALR.
@Nao-fo8sc
Ай бұрын
Emotional support dog + talking journal. She really does EVERYTHING to not see her as a human being. It's so disturbing
@TigerheartedWolf
Ай бұрын
This but also Alexis is clearly in love with her and ALR knows it. What a cow.
@-Reagan
Ай бұрын
Oh, they’re definitely not friends lol they frenemies and I thought that comment was kinda funny with the way Alexis acts so controlling and she has to be in the middle of everything. Alexis has also encouraged it; she’s causing this. She wants Amber to feel like she needs her emotionally and completely confide in Alexis, alone so she can get all the tea and control over Amber. She’s jealous over Amber. She has proven herself adept at love bombing, manipulating, gaslighting, bullying, condoning toxic behaviors and relationships and being a complete hypocrite while she also plays victim. She pressured Amber to put her on live bc she was mad that Amber didn’t want to. Then, she told Amber that was "to keep her accountable" and "Do you know how much I could say about you?" A direct threat, not a reassurance. Then, telling Amber she’s vulnerable and needs Alexis to protect her. Manipulating and gaslighting. When Amber starts reacting with fear and anxiety over the situation Alexis dismisses her feelings completely. Amber IS exposed and compromised by Alexis manipulating her. Her feelings are valid, regardless. That wasn’t Alexis holding Amber accountable, that’s Alexis being manipulative, gaslighting, creepy and threatening. The fact Amber didn’t draw boundaries is a huge red flag. Amber didn’t feel comfortable enough to draw boundaries with Alexis and Alexis is threatening and controlling.
@laurenfinley731
Ай бұрын
As someone that’s been in Alexis’ shoes you’re 100% right I hope that Alexis never talks to her again and I hope no one ever lets Amber lives this down.
@trippinonlizard54
Ай бұрын
She was also her journal that talked back
@YankessLove13
Ай бұрын
This livestream was very Cassie from euphoria having a mental breakdown while screaming at everyone that she's never been happier
@helena4440
Ай бұрын
Only without the good fashions 😂
@asteriaaa16
Ай бұрын
very "she needs a fucking exorcism" coded
@requiemunicorn1329
Ай бұрын
OKLAHOMA
@SpookyscarySayge
Ай бұрын
Ok but Cassie is so me when I'm having a mental breakdown at work😂 coworker asked me if I was okay n I'm like "I've never been fucking better" hate people that ask ts when you're clearly not ok
@ClawZain
Ай бұрын
"beating a dead co-horse" made me scream
@justine8387
Ай бұрын
It🎉was🎉everything
@huntercook4563
Ай бұрын
32:45
@caycehelderman9254
Ай бұрын
I need that on a coffee mug
@kandyleon7284
Ай бұрын
Make this merch lol
@xoKPxAPxo
Ай бұрын
lol why did he say that am I missing something ?? he said it so clearly straight faced
@mortal-enemy
Ай бұрын
Idk why anyone would choose to be friends with ALR, but everything else aside, Alexis is the type of friend she needed - someone who calls her out on her bs in important moments. I cheered when Amber was like "I have bpd-" and Alexis was like "girl so do I?!"
@hosty9163
Ай бұрын
Real friends will tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear. Amber’s whole problem is Alexis doesn’t give her asspats for nothing.
@angst_and_giggles
Ай бұрын
The T-shirt thing is hilarious in my opinion too
@stard9864
Ай бұрын
Amber doesnt give a fuck about friends. she only cares about partners...she didnt even try to be friends with alexis she at the end of the day was ready to irresponsibly tell alexis she had a "Crush on her" Alexis was just not chosen. she is like a starfish shes all nerves and head empty when it comes to making choses when there's a possibility to have a romantic relationship. She could give a damn abotu friendship.
@erin8125
Ай бұрын
I love listening to Zach talk about these situations because he’s one of the most rational and level headed reaction channels. Feels like a debrief with a friend
@CherrrrBear
Ай бұрын
So is Jordy
@leorising8074
Ай бұрын
Zach, Alex, Jordi, and Salty crab are the only ones that call her out on her bs without being snarky. I think the worst one is Karina Kaboom
@Emma-ql2lv
Ай бұрын
@@CherrrrBearummmmm nah. He’s soooooo messy and too many conspiracy theories.
@macysmoshpit170
Ай бұрын
I know some are so mean and critical and unrealistic it makes me feel evil watching them
@migoreng7789
Ай бұрын
i knew karina kaboom from her beauty guru drama channel days and back in 2016 she already had a terrible reputation... there was this whole beef she had with sanders kennedy where she said some nasty things. it's beyond me how easily she changed her content and became a gorlworld commentary channel.
@Emily_Easton
Ай бұрын
I think my favorite part about Alexis wanting the conversation to be public was her reasoning that ALR is not accountable in PRIVATE conversations. Ma'am....are you new???😂
@TheKillaShow
Ай бұрын
And Amber was completely gagged every time she said it.
@ericquinones7043
Ай бұрын
Well, Alexis knew Amber could be held accountable if the convo had a 3rd party listening in. Amber has a way of making sure her narrative is woven without the taint of someone else's thoughts and opinions on it. It's why she prefers to be alone or speak behind the scenes so she can corner her prey first and it's another reason she likes to pre-record - she's distancing herself from things she's said so she can either forget about it or just not care enough to remember what she even said, so it's easier for her to lie about shit so flippantly. (Even though I do think she reads top comments on some videos occasionally, she mostly reads stuff on insta or tiktok because, again, it's distance from her true audience which mostly speak harsh truths and valid criticism.
@isitoveryet9525
Ай бұрын
I mean, if she knew the conversation had to be had in front of others, in order to keep the manipulation under control…..she’s not as new as it seems. I’m guessing Alexis had A LOT of convos with Amber that had no resolution bc of the fake tears & blatant BS.
@gGg-pq6il
Ай бұрын
They're both trash,.if Alexis is so worried she would've gone offline and not looking for clout
@JessJ_698
Ай бұрын
@@gGg-pq6ilum actually I’d beg to differ. I absolutely do not care abt alexis whatever at all but she’s so smart for making this public
@koraliee
Ай бұрын
Amber is makin you CLOCK TF IN to the factory this week Zach!!!
@Squ1dVicious
Ай бұрын
When I was with my abuser, he would always say "our relationship is only bad because of outside factors". That's the biggest red flag about Tommy to me. People say those kinds of things when they're trying to isolate their victim. This is such a bad situation right off the bat, Amber needs to get out like a beanbag in a hurry.
@sassykat2000
Ай бұрын
Amber deserves the relationship she's so desperate to defend and hold on to. At least two other people aren't being abused if these two abusers stay together.
@kdani4777
Ай бұрын
Omfg 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the way you ended that comment
@k8.715
Ай бұрын
@@kdani4777im CACKLING
@DreamsRDriven011
Ай бұрын
I also found it a little concerning that she kept bringing this point up. That they’re FINALLY over this hill and can be happy and they they couldn’t be happy until these outside factors stopped meddling in the relationship. You shouldn’t be having these huge mountains of problems 1 month into a relationship and also with that mindset there will always be another problem or “mountain” to get over. It’s like when people get married to bad partners because they think everything will be better once they just get over that last obstacle. You’re chasing a permanent high that will never exist
@kellywilliams5654
Ай бұрын
It’s embarrassing how I am 53 GLUED to this ALR drama. I blame Chantal for being extremely boring.
@AWake-px1hd
Ай бұрын
Don’t feel bad. 65 here and also addicted to watching this train wreck. 🤣
@joannegregory4299
Ай бұрын
Haha I’m 54
@tanyaglover2217
Ай бұрын
You too?! I'm 50 & can't believe Im watching this silliness..lol
@prettyladygames3513
Ай бұрын
Dang! You look incredible!
@ChessieChess
Ай бұрын
54. Literally what am I doing with my life
@jordiflower
Ай бұрын
This is such a hectic hootenberry molment of a situation type deal 😔
@Jackiedyk
Ай бұрын
Like literally!
@AlienZizi
Ай бұрын
type style 🤭
@nightrose6116
Ай бұрын
this triggered my fight or flight
@mshaddds8013
Ай бұрын
26:20 she said that her “gentle love” with Tommy doesn’t trigger her BPD… BUT, Amber was indeed triggered by whatever upsetting thing Tommy said. So much so, that she cried to Alexis for HOURS.
@okthanks4792
Ай бұрын
Right?! If you’ve only been together for a month or two and they’ve already made you cry….RUN
@aurus6483
Ай бұрын
She will often contradict herself because she is creating a reality for herself (and whoever around her will believe in it with her). The narrative doesn't matter too much - the end goal is quite simple, she just wants to be praised and rewarded while eating whatever she wants with no consequences.
@amanda-et6pv
Ай бұрын
and she also said in one of her videos right after meeting tommi that new relationships always trigger her bpd, she also can't stop referencing her bpd right now for reasons why she's doing what shes doing. so she's clearly lying to herself thinking tommi doesn't trigger her
@Potatoypotato
Ай бұрын
Listening to her talk to alexis is just her narcissism on full display. She is so manipulative, takes no accountability, talks down to everyone who brings up valid criticism.
@Elemmiire098
Ай бұрын
Absolutely. Every time Alexis tells Amber how she feels Amber invalidates Alexis. Amber constantly telling Alexis that she is wrong about what she feels.
@We.do.not.scissor
Ай бұрын
Manipulation comes with BPD.
@iamjackspyramidshapedhelmet
Ай бұрын
She’s like a playbook
@vittoryxe
Ай бұрын
"beating a dead cohorse" is crazy work
@huntercook4563
Ай бұрын
32:45
@IxiaRayne
Ай бұрын
Literally deserves a slow clap.
@rubyr5935
Ай бұрын
her "crying" about being embarrassed at the consequences of her own words and actions, Rather than trying to save or at least respect the friendship she's actively losing, is very telling😐
@viewandchew
Ай бұрын
That was super manipulative
@lizzynewms
Ай бұрын
God I love it when I check to see if ZM uploaded and the video is only 2 minutes old. The world smiling down on me
@Reshireka
Ай бұрын
same, I got 14 minutes and I feel blessed af.
@nataliemesbah1639
Ай бұрын
I hope the blessings keep coming!🌈🦄⭐️
@WHEEZ.YY.
Ай бұрын
“Almost 4000 people are watching this, I feel so fucking embarrassing by this” as she continues to keep filming the entire thing 😭
@zoorenard1101
Ай бұрын
Shes the one who called while on stream, like gOrL you did it to yourself 😂
@WHEEZ.YY.
Ай бұрын
@@zoorenard1101 RIGHT!? HAHA😭
@DreamsRDriven011
Ай бұрын
That bothered me so much! If this isn’t all fake and if she was being humiliated so bad then why did she keep filming?? I don’t feel like it was just to appease Alexis because she obviously didn’t go into this livestream with any intention of trying to save the friendship anyway. So why did she keep going??
@WHEEZ.YY.
Ай бұрын
@@DreamsRDriven011 Seriously what I was thinking, LMFAO
@MM-vz8xh
Ай бұрын
I teach 14 year olds in a public middle school. I’m not joking or being dramatic when I say that 95% of them are FAR more mature than ALR.
@gsesquire3441
Ай бұрын
Holy smokes she acts like a 14 year old. An immature one at that.
@PeggyPate-vy8gg
Ай бұрын
Who Alexis? If so that’s ambers mental age so perfect
@Disneymagic24
Ай бұрын
My sister is 34 and acts like this and is a massive narcissist
@sassykat2000
Ай бұрын
If you never noticed this you must be very new around here. Amber has Arrested Development and is stuck preteen. Fun Fact: Sociopaths have the mentality of a 13 year old. The sociopath checklist fits Amber like a glove.
@user-jb1mb5xh9t
Ай бұрын
@sassykat2000 a lot of her actions seem very consistent with someone who would rather live with bpd rather than work on it. Bpd isnt a choice and i feel a lot of sympathy for those that suffer with it, but it can be extremely harmful for those around the person with bpd depending on how they handle it. Ever since shes gotten that diagnosis its been the basis of everything shes done, which for most people i feel would be something theyd want to work on rather than use it as an excuse as she does. Left unchecked and unmedicated, it essentially leads that person to believe that they are always the victim. My partners mother has what i suspect to be bpd and its lead to some horrible situations over the years for my partner that seem very reminiscent of ALR.
@kalifee
Ай бұрын
Thank you for leading us softly and gently through this hectic love affair.
@Bunny-fv3fl
Ай бұрын
Naaaaauuu naaaauuu That’s hectic God I can’t with this new personality
@IHeArTrOcK20
Ай бұрын
Wow that conversation with Alexis is crazy. I'm actually impressed that someone as emotionally intelligent as Alexis would choose to be ALR's friend. You could see how she was skating and dodging ALR's crazy ass manipulation tactics and it's crazy to see how fast Hamburgerlynn is, and it makes me feel bad for her less dominant partners like Becky and Crystal. Imagine how fast she is and how quickly and easily she could gaslight them.
@sassykat2000
Ай бұрын
The fact Alexis can't see how toxic Amber is says that emotional intelligence really doesn't go deep.
@IHeArTrOcK20
Ай бұрын
@@sassykat2000 Kat idk if you missed it bc it's discussed in the call but not sure if Zach clipped this part but they do talk about it to an extent. They both are BPD and Alexis fully acknowledged Amber's toxic traits and insinuated that she tries to be understanding because she herself has to BPD as well, but she can't keep up with Amber's toxic behavior during relationships.
@IHeArTrOcK20
Ай бұрын
@@sassykat2000 she also stated that ALR never takes accountability and honestly the whole call suggests to me that Alexis is aware of the character flaws of Amber but she tried to be understanding of her and tried to work through it for the majority of their friendship
@aurus6483
Ай бұрын
@@sassykat2000Its also important to remember that they've never met. It's sometimes hard to get an accurate read on people straightaway when your interactions aren't irl, especially when Amber's whole MO is manipulating and being fake with people
@sassykat2000
Ай бұрын
@@IHeArTrOcK20 That's my point. Alexis rationalized it and excused it instead of a hard line holding Amber accountable. She also said she repeatedly caught Amber lying and other behaviors she'd never do although she has BPD as well; yet didn't separate herself from all that toxic. So not emotionally intelligent at all but deeply enabling of toxicity and still wanting to forge some kind of relationship.
@bumble_bee88
Ай бұрын
The tea just doesn't stop pouring lately
@mindybunny
Ай бұрын
Drowning in tea 😂
@noorieboorie
Ай бұрын
We asked and she delivered 😂
@ferchio4801
Ай бұрын
I feel like that one meme of "That's enough... THAT's ENOUGH SLICES!!" Coz for all I am enjoying the drama, I need a pause 😂😂
@smyth7
Ай бұрын
it’s not crazy to not want your friend to be with someone who will cause harm. using 1000 lbs of stomach fat as a blanket is not normal behavior .
@clowntrashh
Ай бұрын
The three days of live streams made me realize I'm so glad Amber doesn't go live cause damn, she's annoying.
@sloerpsle6882
Ай бұрын
you woulda hated 2021 hecticlynn 😭
@isobel1243
Ай бұрын
@@sloerpsle6882 it was a hootenberry! 😂
@ogeleazar
Ай бұрын
Amber learning a new word is like that news segment with the child saying “apparently” over and over again
@CATNAPREAL1188
Ай бұрын
The difference there is the Kid was Cute, Amberlynn Never Cute !
@ocarstens6045
Ай бұрын
YESSSSSS! I ran so fast my ankle is about dangleen!
@billie1628
Ай бұрын
That’s hectic
@ocarstens6045
Ай бұрын
@@billie1628 I’m just a hectic girlypop situation type deal 💁🏻♀️
@spreenroll
Ай бұрын
@@ocarstens6045truly a molment
@oren1305
Ай бұрын
What a hootenberry of a situation type deal you guise.
@miram3834
Ай бұрын
Wrong shoes situation type of deal for running
@Mindyournachos
Ай бұрын
Now Alexis has created her own youtube channel to spill the tea 🫣 Amberlynn really needs to stop befriending all of these strangers! Even people in your everyday life will screw you over 💯
@gingerris
Ай бұрын
What is her channel?
@girlinterrupted9792
Ай бұрын
👀👀👀
@ameekasoar
Ай бұрын
She's been all over the community posting comments. Found her in AF's community post with her annoying ahh self
@Mindyournachos
Ай бұрын
@spideylexx
@lucianagarbim
Ай бұрын
The Amberverse is expanding
@dannii2323
Ай бұрын
People do realise that not everything is mental health yeah?? You can be upset and/or mad about events or people in your life, it doesn't necessarily mean you have "mental health".
@peopleeps4756
Ай бұрын
I think I disagree. Just like how ur physical health is important n impacts everything, mental health is your whole brain n mind (arguably ur whole You) n some people dont have that clairity of who they Are. Ur right tho, there's a certain point where u can't use it as an excuse not to change. U have to keep going n do uncomfortable stuff n forge ahead cuz that's life n the longer u struggle the more likely u'll find good things
@dannii2323
Ай бұрын
@@peopleeps4756 just wanted to thank you for your respectful response to my comment. So often when people disagree, they can be nasty and rude, so thank you. Also, I do understand where you're coming from. I'm bipolar, but I don't use it as an excuse for everything, or to behave badly or be disrespectful to others.
@No1.Cheese
Ай бұрын
@@dannii2323I definitely agree! I didn't even realise it was a thing until I got assigned a new support worker and she made me lose track of my sense of accountability! Every time we'd talk about my day/week etc and I'd say oh this happened, I felt a bit upset and didn't sleep well after. Her answer would always be along the lines "oh well you know you have ptsd/BPD, this really sounds like dissociation/derealization/etc etc, be kind to yourself and take a couple of days to heal". I hope you get the gist. She was really trying to help but in the end I took on that behaviour and found myself actively encouraging my bad mental health conditions when faced with adverse things? Like if I argued with my boyfriend and cried after I'd tell him he triggers me and I'd be so convinced it's a mental health episode that id then not talk to him for days. It became a self fulfilling prophecy and actually went against working on myself. Now I have to genuinely hold myself accountable sometimes and remind myself everyone gets sad/angry/upset sometimes and that's okay, not every bad thing is a mental health episode. It's really helped me not feel stuck in a cycle and actually work through my problems :)
@TigerheartedWolf
Ай бұрын
@@peopleeps4756I think what they mean is there are people who use 'mental health' as an excuse for everything that is wrong in their lives.
@dannii2323
Ай бұрын
@TigerheartedWolf thank you, that is what I was getting at, yes.
@Eternally_screaming_idiot
Ай бұрын
okay but amber's phone dinging every damn minute like MA'AM PUT YOUR PHONE ON SILENT
@hannahcaroline3541
Ай бұрын
The fact that she dropped Alexis so fast for a relationship. And even with Alexis explaining VERY WELL why she didn’t support the relationship, Amber STILLLLL didn’t understand..
@mirandamccusker5317
Ай бұрын
I just can't with the whole "and this is where I'm hanging up" just for her to continue talking and not hanging up. Stop threatening something you won't do. "People are telling me to hang up, but that's not the kind of person I am, I can't just hang up on someone"
@gsesquire3441
Ай бұрын
The amount of psych talk that they just repeat back and forth and leads in circles that never resolve because nobody is ever wrong and everything can be justified. This is ridiculous mentality.
@ameekasoar
Ай бұрын
A Mobius strip of moronity
@cyndoherty563
Ай бұрын
Therapists need to be held accountable for teaching these morons all these terms without really making sure they understand them. These are the types that take psychology terms and use them to abuse people.
@justjamie1715
Ай бұрын
I think you are spot on about Amber and Mamalynn. I doubt Mamalynn would be happy if she knew what that situation was all about.
@kellypatrick5667
Ай бұрын
Did Tommy teach her the word hectic?? It’s like her obsession word now
@mirandabrunty2571
Ай бұрын
I wondered if this is a word she picked up from Tommy.
@e-fungus4132
Ай бұрын
Tommy Slommy's about to bring us the Bedboundlynn arc. This won't end well.
@sassykat2000
Ай бұрын
That's exactly what Amber has wanted all along and it has nothing to do with Tommie Slommie. She went Bedbound twice with Beck - 2019 and then 2021 after the supposed "wake up call" with Cancer. Amber wants nothing more than to stay home, eat or do Legos and watch TV. At least this time she doesn't have to lie about it and pretend she's dieting or exercising.
@jherod2024
Ай бұрын
19:06 ALR said that her mom “considers herself an empath.” Wow, it really does run in the family - empath Lynn 🙄🙄😂😂
@smoxthybweh
Ай бұрын
Ah, yes, do drugs and neglect your 4 children to the point they get taken away. What an empath 😮💨😒
@lexillogical
Ай бұрын
That’s such a snide thing to say too. She didn’t say “my mom is empathetic” or even if she wanted to express a negative view of it simply “when I’m not doing well I feel like my mom gets sad with me” but no. “My mom CONSIDERS herself an empath”
@oren1305
Ай бұрын
@@lexillogicalI also find it really odd Amber thinks the reason her mother would be upset HAS to be because her mother is an empath, and not just a mother worried about her child...
@ferchio4801
Ай бұрын
40:36 if she doesn't want them public, she should've stuck to "a journal that doesn't talk back" 😂😂
@weirdhousewivesclub
Ай бұрын
"I don't have to be fully accountable, you don't have to be fully accountable..." and that right there is it. Amber doesn't want to be held accountable. She wants her "human journal". She wants someone who will just approve of her actions no matter how crazy or off the wall, and when the consequences of her actions come to pass, she wants someone to be there to say "oh poor baby none of this was your fault." Alexis knew that Amber was gonna be manipulative so she did this on live.
@feathersheathers4823
Ай бұрын
I had a best friend for years and when it came time to meet in person, she told me that she only wanted me to be her “living journal”. Being treated that way hurts. Alexis is a person. Not an emotional support dog or a human journal.
@lilacheaven222
Ай бұрын
Amberlynn calling Alexis her "therapy dog" and "a journal that talks back" is so WILD and FUNNY 😭 OMG!
@gerickarose
Ай бұрын
HER CHECKING HERSELF OUT AFTER EVERY "TEAR" GURL GORL GIRL PLS
@abbyrio2837
Ай бұрын
I wonder if the reason Amberlynn isn't getting mama-lynn involved has more to do with the fact that they've never had a strong mother daughter bond. I mean, they've spent most of their lives with little to no contact with each other. Id imagine that despite both their best efforts, they're more like friends and less like mother/daughter.
@stacyrect143
Ай бұрын
Or alr does not need narc supply from mama now that tommy tunes is singing her love song...
@littlefreakelio
Ай бұрын
their entire convo is an example of why therapy speak becoming mainstream is detrimental
@JM-ip1es
Ай бұрын
Unpopular opinion: as much as Amber can be manipulative, I still feel like her friend Alexis is also. Two things can exist at once. No, Amber shouldn’t be dating Tommy; but I still don’t see how Alexis needed to interject herself in the situation publicly. If she didn’t want to keep supporting her friend dating a feeder, than she could have simply just stop being friends with her. But to go and do a interview with a reaction channel, than passively aggressively threaten that she “could say more” about Amber’s personal information is definitely a red flag about Alexis. Amber definitely needs counseling and to get rid of Alexis and Tommy and just focus on loosing weight and a healthy life in Oklahoma.
@justine8387
Ай бұрын
Someone described the two of them trying to reason with each other as "two sofas attempting to play chess, neither of them are equipped" and it is living rent free in my head.
@BigBoywiththeSkullface
Ай бұрын
Exactly, i feel like i haven't seen much ppl being critical of alexis like.... this situation is all around messy and exist only for the sake of online drama
@DreamsRDriven011
Ай бұрын
@@BigBoywiththeSkullfaceI think people on the internet tend to group think more than maybe they would irl or fall into doing so too easily. As in the internet in general is very very black and white about people and “scandals” where one person has to be the villain and the other is the hero alllll the time. So this is an important point to make. We don’t know either of them at the end of the day and holding this above ambers head publicly was in and of itself pretty manipulative as well.
@dietwater9983
Ай бұрын
Thiiissssss! Alexis is manipulative just like amber. I can see why she continued being “friends” with amber despite all her complaints of being unheard etc, because they’re the same 😂 I wouldn’t trust Alexis w private stuff just like I wouldn’t trust amber. Smh, they both seem very petty Edit: I’m not saying Alexis is EXACTLY like amber-I know that alr has a history of doing many shitty things, is toxic, and needs to be held accountable. I just question how Alexis is going about it, being that she’s supposedly her “best friend”. Kinda sketchy but I’m interested in seeing how this plays out lol
@Potatoypotato
Ай бұрын
Everytime alexis brings up a good point amber cant refute, amber just threateneds tp hang up to try and end tjat line of dialogue cause she knows she cant win and amber refuses to ever be wrong. What am absolute narcissist
@tonichan89
Ай бұрын
Or she goes "okay" and changes the subject
@Te3time
Ай бұрын
Alr: I'm so confused Alexis: confused about what I've been very clear Alr a few minutes later: I'm just so confused rn
@tnnkosi
Ай бұрын
As a South African, her discovering 'hectic' is hectic🙃
@freethegays
Ай бұрын
omg is it legit slang in SA?
@Silly-Goose.
Ай бұрын
Is that a common slang in SA?
@daniellesmith8090
Ай бұрын
Hahaha yes
@Silly-Goose.
Ай бұрын
@@daniellesmith8090 We need more media on SA and AU because I feel like the world is missing out on some gem media material
@mandles.
Ай бұрын
OMG my husband is from Cape Town and so ever since knowing him i’ve adopted the word as well, and it’s been so wild hearing ALR use it hahaha
@judeemclaughlin7394
Ай бұрын
Ambers face when she said the thing about knowing what she can and can’t say on line came across as she would have said something to get Jordy shut down. Near the end when Amber said I have BPD and Alexis responding “so do I and it’s not an excuse” kind of sums up what Amber does.
@colin_mockery
Ай бұрын
I thought the shirt in the thumbnail was a MEME I am scREAMING 😭😭😭
@cherokeesWildhearts-ct7rz
Ай бұрын
all i can think of is that child and how she would make a horrid step mother,mainly because she thinks no one deserves things as much as she does,shes the top rung of the ladder,she uses her relationships when the new wears off as caretakers,drivers and someone to walk her dog and clean the cat boxes
@PeggyPate-vy8gg
Ай бұрын
She would be jealous of the child I’d be worried about the child well being
@cherokeesWildhearts-ct7rz
Ай бұрын
@@PeggyPate-vy8gg its something that no one is talking about,but that doesnt make it go away or be okay,is a young girls life..shaking head
@growwiththeflow4854
Ай бұрын
The thought of ALR as a step-parent is genuinely terrifying.
@MiaMichele9696
Ай бұрын
@cherokeesWildhearts-ct7rz Exactly 💯...We all remember Gracie!
@user-jb1mb5xh9t
Ай бұрын
@@PeggyPate-vy8gg 100000% agree with you. I can see amber now complaining that tommy spends too much time with her daughter or accusing her of choosing activities she cant be part of (aka anything that isnt going out to eat or sitting in a bingo hall)
@PhoenixLowe
Ай бұрын
👀 🍵 Remember when the biggest ALR drama was her throwing away a cake?? 😅
@samanthareimann596
Ай бұрын
The way Amber is dismissing Alexis' feelings is insane. I have had friends like that before and needless to say they are no longer my friend.
@Artemis.94
Ай бұрын
Messylyn is loving the attention right now I bet 😬
@amaxoxx
Ай бұрын
she’s having fun
@noorieboorie
Ай бұрын
And the $$$
@ers_watches
Ай бұрын
Oh no doubt
@mariah5137
Ай бұрын
That livestream was *HECTIC*
@Nessiehere
Ай бұрын
this is going to end soo so bad for amber....
@raneslowly
Ай бұрын
💯💯💯💯💯💯
@tressamarie6509
Ай бұрын
But will she learn anything from it when it blows up in her face? Absolutely not.
@MiaMichele9696
Ай бұрын
@@tressamarie6509I think you meant to say "blow up her face"...with the feeder in place, it's only gonna get bigger and bigger 😂😂😂
@overstuffedghosty
Ай бұрын
See ALR having to constantly “explain” this or that about their relationship is the BIGGEST RED FLAG! That’s what a lot of people do in an abusive relationship, they constantly are having to explain this behavior or this reason why this or that happened. How do I know this? My own father was an abusive alcoholic and my mom, rest her soul, did a lot of explaining away things too until I looked her in the eye and said why are you with him? She finally left him and lived her best life for the last couple of years before she passed.
@DreamsRDriven011
Ай бұрын
I was waiting for someone to bring this up. You shouldn’t have to have some explanation to justify all your partners behaviors that appear awful to others. I don’t think a truly decent person would be misunderstood to such an extreme degree or have so many red flags that need that much explaining
@itakenaps
Ай бұрын
"Me and Tommy never had sad moments like that" WELL NO KIDDING YOU WERE TOGETHER FOR A WEEK AND A HALF
@nataliemesbah1639
Ай бұрын
And the codependent enmeshment of “we” feel the same sad feelings and happy feelings like we are one 🙄
@skinsey85
Ай бұрын
Zach pointing out that ALR's idea of friendship is based on unconditional support makes sense as to why she wouldn't involve her mom. She probably knows her mom wouldn't support her in this foolishness so it's just another reason to leave her out of it.
@annasilvertongue
Ай бұрын
I've never been a reality show gorlie, but the way the Amberverse has me hooked, I understand the appeal
@justjamie1715
Ай бұрын
Amber seems to be constantly going back to when Tommy visited and it was "magical". She's not thinking of the big picture of an actual in person long term relationship.
@ACOTAR91
Ай бұрын
I can already tell this hour long video is gonna be heccticc.
@wellFthisS
Ай бұрын
Super hectic type deal 🫨
@isaxo6108
Ай бұрын
Nourrrrrr, this is too hectic 💀
@ogeleazar
Ай бұрын
Here avoiding watching Amber’s videos like Amber avoids therapy and taking accountability
@LumpsofSugarforgottheirpasswor
Ай бұрын
Sweet Po is being so non-hectic.
@mommyk1111
Ай бұрын
seems like ALR doesn’t want therapy because she won’t be a victim anymore.
@elizabethh5009
Ай бұрын
I love how she thinks she can delete and hide a video and everyone just reposts so it lives on 😂 she's on her sofa seething right now.
@tressamarie6509
Ай бұрын
It’s especially dumb because deleting it makes everyone even more curious and drives viewers to reaction channels… even those poor folks who WOULD watch on her channel are forced to go elsewhere. And it’s not like the content vanishes when she deletes it from her channel anyway 😂 What a dummy.
@Feynix4
Ай бұрын
“You made me have this phone call publicly and that’s not fair” idk if the screen was too small to show it but I was under the impression that Alexis was in a whole nother state and not in OK holding a gun to amber’s head making her take the call
@tonichan89
Ай бұрын
Well I'm dure you're still wrong somehow...!! 😂
@ogeleazar
Ай бұрын
We need to get Zach a sponsorship with Psychology Today
@tarajacks
Ай бұрын
your boss better be paying you overtime girl you've been putting in WORK
@angelbear25771
Ай бұрын
Happy to see Po again. He was missing in a few videos. Hope he is taking care of his mental healths. 😂
@Flessy89
Ай бұрын
To be fair Alexis sounds just as toxic as the rest of them. Imagine you're bestie going to a reaction channel in any situation
@ap4life03
Ай бұрын
Thank you! 👏🏾
@ogeleazar
Ай бұрын
Both Amber and Alexis are clowns. Amber kept saying she wasn’t going to answer Alexis and Alexis made her friends wait 20 minutes to talk to Amber
@Tokiwartoothnotabumblebee
Ай бұрын
If I was going to a concert and the friend made me wait 20 minutes so she can generate online drama with a perfect stranger I would have left them far behind.
@Potatoypotato
Ай бұрын
"no, you're not listening to me" translation; "you arent blindly believing the lies im telling you"
@souli.g
Ай бұрын
the way i have never clicked a video notification this fast
@hellob0x
Ай бұрын
Can we just stick to Emily, Jade, and Erica… and not these fake names.
@tressamarie6509
Ай бұрын
The insistence on using these ridiculous aliases long after every players’ identity has been verified is beyond stupid.
@jonalynreynolds8122
Ай бұрын
She doesn’t need to speak for all lesbians! We don’t claim her!
@1991LMR
Ай бұрын
Agreed!!
@spideylexx
Ай бұрын
mic drop
@PDW1104
Ай бұрын
Agreed 😫
@kinkykitty77
Ай бұрын
Nope, us Capricorn don't either
@knowjusticeknowpeace15
Ай бұрын
"Beating a dead cohorse" 🤣🤣🐴🐴🐎🐎
@isitoveryet9525
Ай бұрын
Amber didn’t take the live down because of names, she took it down because Alexis really exposed her manipulation tactics in real time lol
@c-puff
Ай бұрын
"My mom considers herself an empath" **with the loudest groan possible** oh GOD 😩😩😩
@luminaraunduli9455
Ай бұрын
You asked for side characters, Bestie. 🤭💖
@ashleymeek6577
Ай бұрын
This is giving middle school vibes. Arguing over FT but still laughing about stuff by friends and then stopping mid argument to text someone else. ☠️
@starkman78
Ай бұрын
Has a date been set for the memorial service for the ozempic?
@chelseasrenee
Ай бұрын
🎩 🕯️
@lucianagarbim
Ай бұрын
I can't with these stupid nicknames, that's Jades fault
@Juwulee
Ай бұрын
She talks to her friends like that in public imagine how she speaks to them in private
@spideylexx
Ай бұрын
it’s worse in private
@Anna-1937
Ай бұрын
@@spideylexxI can only imagine! Amber really does need help.
@user-nx6ei7rv9n
Ай бұрын
Olympic gymnastics and Ambers’s mental gymnastics, double blessed with content this past week!
@nikkiiashlee5543
Ай бұрын
I’m not defending Amber but Alexis must tbh k they are in 7th grade. “ Like I don’t feel like you love me” “you put your partners before me” yall are 30 fuckin 3 grow up!!!
@annabanana1680
Ай бұрын
Honestly I appreciate that Alexis calls Amber on her bullshit and doesn’t just let Amber walk all over her and manipulate her
@spideylexx
Ай бұрын
i did for a long time, but not anymore
@TigerheartedWolf
Ай бұрын
@@spideylexxWe're team Alexis!!
@dannii2323
Ай бұрын
@@TigerheartedWolf definitely Team Alexis!
@breannalter3197
Ай бұрын
Bestie you have been giving us SO MUCH content this week and I love you for it 🫶🏻
@sarahpotharaju2749
Ай бұрын
Not the "dead cohorsed" 😂
@brainst3w
Ай бұрын
has she been diagnosed with BPD by a PROFESSIONAL? i could be wrong but i don’t remember her getting a proper diagnosis. BPD is difficult to diagnose because it’s a personality disorder. her using that as a crutch every 30 seconds made me want to pull my hair out
@haleyhamilton6884
Ай бұрын
It took me 3 years to get diagnosed with bpd even with all the symptoms. I'll never understand how she had it done and never went back to any therapy or constantly needing check ups
@brainst3w
Ай бұрын
@@haleyhamilton6884 she’s 100% lying. i’m glad you were able to find the proper diagnosis ❤️
@lexillogical
Ай бұрын
Worse, (if I recall correctly) she claimed to have been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder after her first couple appointments
@thisuserdoesnotcare
Ай бұрын
I’ll never use the word ✨hectic✨again 😂
@SamSabotage
Ай бұрын
How slow was she talking that you speeding her up makes her sound like a young child lmao
@AppleSofi
Ай бұрын
I didn't knew who Alexis was up until a few days ago when all of this happened, cause I only follow the amber drama on KZitem. Anyway, maybe Alexis wants "clout", who knows, but honestly she sounded quite normal and reasonable on Alr's livestream. But I also want everyone to remember that yes, Emily aka Tommy is a feeder BUT is Amberlynn the one that's CHOOSING to eat. Cause Emily is not putting a g*n to ALR's head and she knows about her disgusting kink (yes, it's ok to shame this particular "kink" ). So at the end of the day, she's responsible for what she puts on her mouth. Cause I'm tired of people trying to excuse her actions. She's 30+ years old, she's been "trying to lose weight" for over 10 years and blaming everything and everyone else for her failures. It's not Beck's fault, not wifey, not mommalynn, not erika, not emily... it's amberlynn's choice. Let's keep that in mind.
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