Edit: winner @suerte.universe ✨🦋 Giveaway rules to the Move Diffuser + 2 essential oils: 1. Be subscribed to this channel 2. Follow me on instagram.com/amy_lee 3. Leave a comment telling me a recent perspective shift on something/someone. I'll pick the one that shifted my perspective the most! :D ***** Also comment your IG handle, the winner will be picked through IG DM! ******** Open internationally!
@Lavenderluvsbooks
3 жыл бұрын
I dont have an ig but I love the channel and vibes ✨
@Shannenigans
3 жыл бұрын
It hasn’t been the best of times here in the Philippines- with COVID and now the floods and victims of the floods that recently happened and our government doing a shitty job in responding to all the crisis at hand. I never felt so much anger and frustration toward the government but at the same time this gave me the opportunity and space to voice out and bring awareness on what we can make a difference. Seeing the victory of the Democrats on Election gave me so much hope that change- better change can happen for us here in the Philippines. It’s really bringing so much awareness and disseminating real facts and information to the people. (Sorry it got maybe too political hehehe 😂✌🏻)
@zinzibam
3 жыл бұрын
Love your videos❤️
@marcjordy2806
3 жыл бұрын
I guess im asking the wrong place but does anyone know of a trick to get back into an instagram account?? I stupidly lost my account password. I would appreciate any tricks you can offer me
@dereknoel6353
3 жыл бұрын
@Marc Jordy instablaster :)
@ruruholic
3 жыл бұрын
“It’s safe to ask for help. People want to support me.” This is so important. Thank you!
@juanpedro4083
3 жыл бұрын
I have schizophrenia and I would like to smoke marijuana. What to do?
@BreakingTaboo
3 жыл бұрын
agreed, it is so important to validate your feelings and to reach out for help!
@sophiebrownlees809
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest perspective shift is that I’ve always been scared of ‘rocking the boat’, and I’m now learning that keeping people around you is an active choice. So, you’re not ‘rocking the boat’ by distancing yourself from those who don’t hear/see you and your feelings/thoughts (Even family!), you’re simply holding your truth and serving your purpose to yourself!
@sophiebrownlees809
3 жыл бұрын
IG: sophiebrownlees
@SamElle
3 жыл бұрын
I think Sundays are the days where I am the most anxious!! I start thinking about the week ahead of me and start freaking out!!! Now I have implemented many self soothing and self care type of activities on that day to help combat those feelings and kinda ease my mind
@rudig5698
3 жыл бұрын
You content is always like a kinda therapy session or something. You really have this calming energy and spirit and you even inspired me for starting my own channel. Thank you for everything, Amy. 🥺💙
@alwaaysbeyouurself
3 жыл бұрын
I think so too!!
@bootifulcookie5274
3 жыл бұрын
I'm literally in love with those self-care videos, something about it makes me feel so comfortable and I just calm down everytime I watch these videos I can't even explain why💚🥺✨
@MamaSwole
3 жыл бұрын
Omg I feel the same!!
@alexfernandez3099
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest perspective switch this year is the fact that being around people does not have to be emotionally draining Ig: aeamethyst_
@BreakingTaboo
3 жыл бұрын
you're so right! people should be adding to your life, not taking from it! this can really affect mental health.
@glorianamartinez2356
3 жыл бұрын
MY BIGGEST PERSPECTIVE SHIFT WAS when i realized the craziest, craziest thing: that life CAN be easy
@hanaanwar1013
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Amy! I used to previously be really uncomfortable with other people telling me I was "kind" or "a good person" because I worried I only did the right thing to feed my ego, so that I could be perceived as nice. I recently had a huge perspective shift! Now, if I am ever told I am kind, I take this not as a compliment to myself, but to my mother (who taught me to value compassion) and to my grandmother who taught it to her. Generational kindness! IG: hanaannwar
@h3neystars
3 жыл бұрын
im really happy you had this shift & I can relate!
@tulani2119
3 жыл бұрын
in one of your last videos you mentioned cultivating your space to look more luxurious with higher quality furniture pieces and i feel like you really succeeded. i know your home decor isnt the focus of this vid but i couldnt help but admire your aesthetic, especially the pastels
@alliyah748
3 жыл бұрын
I realized being kind to myself doesn’t make me weak or a slacker but it makes me brave. This has brought me closer to my authentic self and conceptualizing all the power I have. Insta:alliyahismyname
@rafaelaalexandre1536
3 жыл бұрын
My perspective shif was when I realized that the “way we spent our time difines who we are” and I stoped doing things I don’t have to do things I don’t like, I can choose how I end, I can believe in my self, I am entitled to my time.
@bronwynsolecki8775
3 жыл бұрын
I miss when Giveaways were the highlight of my life
@paulinacheno7931
3 жыл бұрын
6:50 Amy you should totally do one!! I love your content, I just want to say that I feel so safe here watching your videos and being a part of a positive community of subscribers ❤
@AaliyahInspired
3 жыл бұрын
This was much needed. Thank you queen! I've been feeling like I've been in a rut for the past few days and your videos always lift my spirits. Thank you for inspiring me :) You were one the main youtubers that inspired me to create my channel years ago!!
@raregodcards
3 жыл бұрын
One perspective that I've notice is how people that I compare myself to probably don't even care what I'm doing or my goals so why should I compare myself to other people when it's not helping me ya know
@kylakelly74
3 жыл бұрын
I've actually had a pretty big perspective shift recently, unfortunately not so positive but I'm trying to find the positives throughout. I started university last year and your videos helped me quite a lot to find my own self-worth and love, through this I have mentally gone through an incredible change, being more aware of myself and my reactions and perceptions to different things especially the people I had surrounded myself with (who I also live with) who were my main group of friends in this new town, but as I knew I grew more as a happier person these people weren't supportive at all towards me and fully shifted to being incredibly damaging and negative in my life. I had found any time I felt positive or had a good mental health day it would immediately be brought down by harsh comments/actions, a trusted friend had told me that what I was going through was a cleansing period, and that as I improved myself the bad energies in my life would be left behind and I would be able to keep the good people who love me and lift me up! I don't know if this relates to the comment you were asking in any way but I also want to say thank you for helping me along this period of time even if you didn't know it :) (p.s instagram is kyla.mk)
@agnerukaite5742
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest shift this year was hearing your words, which I wrote in my journal, learnt them by heart and truly apply it every day in my life. Those words are " A lot of the things that we like about others is a reflection of what we have inside ourselves. The beauty we see in others is a beauty we have in ourselves. Because.. you cannot see in others what you don't inherently have in yourself. What you see in the world is what you have in your heart. You cannot acknowledge someone's kindness/compassion or empathy if you yourself don't have that." I realized that I've been reflecting so much beauty.. That moment when I heard you say that, I understood that I AM a good person, I've always been a good person. So many years passed by where I seriously struggled thinking that I am a bad person. I finally made peace with myself. And thank you goes to you Amy. My ig: futures.agne
@plheff
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest shift this year is that I have finally started to become a person that I love and respect. I stand up for myself, I love myself as I am and I’m not trying to be someone who I’m not anymore. I have been doing things that genuinely make me happy- ex dancing, painting, drawing... and I had lost that for a long time. I have realized that other people’s actions are not something that I need to take personally and I can only control how I am and how I act. 💗
@michaelafranck5515
3 жыл бұрын
Recently I’ve realised that skinny isn’t the end goal, the end goal is health and happiness and skinny doesn’t always = happiness 🌸💕✨ @the_michaela_franck
@michaelafranck5515
3 жыл бұрын
@@naarahrose thank you darling
@Tiaranachellee
3 жыл бұрын
i did the instructions for the giveaway!💗
@amy_lee
3 жыл бұрын
Hi tiara! Did u do #3? :D
@Tiaranachellee
3 жыл бұрын
💗💗💗
@Wie-gt7if
3 жыл бұрын
My recent perspective shift is that I often have very high and unrelistic ecpectation of myself and so always fail to actually feel proud or accomplished about anything. But now I just realised that I set expectations so high bc then I dont have to feel proud and myself, bc thats actually really hard for me. Im trying to change this now and this realisation already helped me a lot and even makes me a little bit proud ☺️😏 my ig handle is keepingupwithhanna
@micheln3256
3 жыл бұрын
love these routines :) inspires me to do self-care
@oamyxie
3 жыл бұрын
Your videos are the sweetest and I always appreciate them when I need it the most. My biggest shift in perspective this year was being less critical on myself and reminding myself that I deserve to give the same amount of kindness I give to others to myself and to stop focusing on the "shoulds" in my life. Hope that make sense, thanks for helping me get through this year :) IG: ayymmmy
@tamaawa
3 жыл бұрын
I was recently thinking about this one person who commented about my weight gain in from of my whole family and humiliated me. I was telling myself how I wish I reacted instead, I wish I said “I don’t appreciate you commenting on my body” or “that’s not very nice” instead of nervously laughing it off. I suddenly stopped and thought about who this person was and how they must feel in their own body. It never occurred to me to think about it but I realized that person has struggled with their body for years and maybe they think it was ok to comment on mine since they always comment on theories all the time. I helped shift the humiliation I Carried from that moment into a space of empathy for this person who was clearly reflecting some inner demons my way.
@rachelvictoria1575
3 жыл бұрын
Love this. Trying to work on the same lately! It’s all about how we react
@powerpuff7697
3 жыл бұрын
Love the video ❤️
@angelikabatwoman
3 жыл бұрын
yay to your vegan wrap
@lillystone802
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest perspective shift has been to nurture the light within. I used to describe my ex as the only light in my life, but I can now say that I possess the light, I always have and I always will. I am now learning to tune in to my own strength and power, and realise that I do not need anyone else to be complete. Couldn’t have done it with you Amy x IG: lillyjstone x
@tashahampton6548
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest shift this year is not holding expectations on others and releasing them to be their own individuals. After this shift earlier this year, it’s really allowed me to slowly shed my need of controlling areas of my life and allowing things to just “be” - which has helped me so much with releasing my stress and anxiety ❤️
@MaddieLeonczek
3 жыл бұрын
i love your channel and esp your self care videos, you really inspire me to take better care of myself and my mental health 💗
@StellaGoldxo
3 жыл бұрын
This was so delightful to witness! My biggest shift this year was that I am working on not internalizing other's actions (or lack thereof). I no longer ask myself, "what's wrong with me?" or "why am I unworthy?" and ask more curious questions such as, "what's going on in their life?" It has not been easy, but it has been helpful redirecting my thoughts away from the internalization I have been so accustomed to.
@ilonadevries18
3 жыл бұрын
Everyone wants to be loved. Something i really been aware of lately. This thought helps me staying calm and spread more love unstead of being annoyed or disappointed♥️ @iloonadevries
@jupitired777
3 жыл бұрын
all the systems are crumbling before me and I have no control. Felt
@jasgal2cute
3 жыл бұрын
Since the pandemic, I have realized a couple things within myself and life in general. Losing a routine of work/school/gym/home every day for the past 8 years, to having nothing these past 8 months in lockdown... I have never wanted to quit on myself MORE than this year. I've always felt alone, but with nothing to use as a distraction/coping mechanism such as going to work, or the gym; all I had was my dark and negative thoughts, and for me this was very dangerous. The first few months of the pandemic was really hard on me mentally and financially. But it also focrced me to take action. I finally came to terms with the fact that "friends" are rare, and at the end of the day all you really have is yourself, in all honesty. No matter how much I creid for help via Instagram Story, or literally reaching out to a friend/family member... no one really cared and was just being nosey bc there was never a clear suggestion or resolution. Just a, "Damn that's crazy, lmk how that goes." It is up to me to want to do better, to acknowldge my feelings, feel them, and figure out what makes me happy. I'm not going to lie, I've had a couple traumatizing events during this pandemic like losing a couple family members to covid19, and my dog of 12 years dying from cancer - as fucked up as Life can be, it also doesn't give a fuck. And life keeps moving forward whether I decide to move along or not... I Kim K ugly cry every night, BUT when the Universe gives me another chance to wake up and make the most of my day...??? I TAKE IT. So far I have seriously started journaling since May. Everything from happy thoughts, sad/bad days, to setting goals, I write it down and remember to be grateful amid the pandemic. August is when I legit gave yoga a try, loved it, and now have incorporated it into my workouts. I also promised to take my other dogs out on more walks/hikes and bike rides every other day. Promised myself to help out more around the house and in my community. And practicing positive self talk in the mirror, and while it feels weird to say nice things it's a lot better than talking negativly. I've also noticed I can't genuinely smile thesedays without it feeling unnatural, but I'm trying. I may have lost my job, my relationships with friends/family, and lost a part of the old me.... But I'm taking action in more ways than one. And to me that is a step forward I actively chose to make every morning when I wake up. - Thanks Amy, and I hope you are doing well today✨
@OliviaFrescura
3 жыл бұрын
That Korean pancake looks soooo good. And Cha Cha Matcha is trash because the founder supported Trump LOL yikes!!
@carlakruger8298
3 жыл бұрын
i’ve been so stressed out and been needing this in my life and it’s made me feel so much better even before watching it🖤
@xersonska
3 жыл бұрын
Upcoming Scorpio Moon probably explains all these anxious self-discovery vibes that force us to unpack so much trauma!
@iyoushe
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest realization was that my emotions don't define who I am. In the past, I've always labeled myself as "pathetic" or "desperate" for feeling emotions like sadness, anger or disappointment. But slowly, I'm realizing that experiencing negative emotions doesn't correlate with you being a negative person or having negative traits. Instead, I'm allow myself to feel the negativity and then take time to understand why I feel a certain way and how I can feel better. One way that I process these thoughts is through songwriting :) ig: iyoushemusic
@juanitasegovia
3 жыл бұрын
I’ve had a huge perspective shift on true body acceptance this year. as my weight fluctuated and my skin experienced the worst breakouts of my life, I began to actively work to stop criticizing every aspect of myself and instead thank my body and skin for all the amazing things it’s done for me this year: keeping me healthy during a pandemic no less, for keeping me strong(ish), and for letting me know when I need to drink more water 😜. My perspective shift from body positivity to body neutrality truly saved my body and mind this year. ig: @suerte.universe
@MamaSwole
3 жыл бұрын
Omg I reallllly need one of these💖
@sacha5446
3 жыл бұрын
Yes to a positive affirmation video!!!
@marian4472
3 жыл бұрын
We need to know how you made that vegan chicken wrap, please. 😭🥰💕
@aghhhhhhhhhhhh
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this so badly. I woke up incredibly anxious this morning and decided to take a day for myself so you can bet I was over the moon when I saw you uploaded this 🍀✨ ig: ashahickok
@catherinekirby1361
3 жыл бұрын
Ugh this year has changed so many perspectives for me it’s hard to choose!! But recently, I’ve started to understand that I take the people I’m my life for granted. My best friend tried to take her life during the pandemic and it made me realise that my own happiness isn’t my own, but in fact it’s collective happiness, it’s shared among friends and family. I never realised how much support she gave me with me being able to call her a friend. This event has caused a huge awakening in my life, highlighting that happiness, laughter and joy isn’t a selfish feeling, but in fact it’s selfless, it’s shared, and how much I rely on others to express these feelings. @catherinekirrby
@amaraarinze
3 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Thank you.
@honeypotfilms6066
3 жыл бұрын
this honestly made me feel so relaxed 🥺 btw ur dog is so cuteee - honeypot films
@annaxuwang
3 жыл бұрын
Recent perspective shift: That I get to choose how my day goes. When I wake up in the morning, in the middle of the day, at night - it doesn't matter how late or how early in the day. You don't have to be a slave to "how the day is going" or things that are happening to you - you can always start over in the day. IG: @wangstress
@ricardoreveronblanco291
3 жыл бұрын
"Give up defining yourself - to yourself or to others...and don't be concerned with how others define you. When they do, they are limiting themselves, so it's their problem" (Eckhart Tolle, 'A New Earth'). @r_rvrn (based in Brighton, UK) :)
@ayeshapunjabi7870
3 жыл бұрын
This year I realised that I need to let go of the expectations I have from my parents. For most of my life I have held resentment and hurt because they didn't love me the way I wanted to be loved. I am realising that holding on to my expectation blinds me to see them as an individual who deserves empathy and compassion. Holding on to my hurt does not transform them into model parents...but letting go helps me to not be the hurt child I was. instagram: @ayeshapunjabi
@blythegta
3 жыл бұрын
I wuv you
@carolinethomas3188
3 жыл бұрын
"Now that you don't have to be perfect, you can be good." - John Steinbeck. I read this quote daily right now, recovering perfectionist and people pleaser 🦋🙌🏻 HUGE shift for my whole life. So thankful for your posts and encouragement! Best idea for a giveaway, I am loving these comments
@dreaminactive
3 жыл бұрын
wow this was so relaxing I couldn’t even believe when the video ended I was like “how was that 11 minutes?! i need more!”
@carbqueencass
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Amy! I've had a recent perspective shift on how I physically see myself. Growing up, I had self-image issues/body dysmorphia, and it never helped having a traditional asian mother who always had negative comments to make on my body and what I did with it. It took years to love myself, but my perspective is now very positive and accepting after making it a habit to tell myself positive affirmations. Loved the video as always! 💖 my ig: carbqu33n
@rosalyntapia6407
3 жыл бұрын
Your own thoughts about yourself, can either be very limiting or liberating. And that sometimes your thoughts aren’t your TRUEST thoughts. IG: rosalyn_tapiaa
@TaysDivineLife
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest perspective shift this year was that forgiveness is not complete until we forgive ourselves. But, in order to do that, we have to recognize the painful truth that we often have much more of a hand in our downfalls than we'd like to admit. We get stuck in toxic cycles by refusing to break the loop, accepting less than we deserve, shrinking ourselves, hiding from difficult emotions, etc. And until we reconcile the extra pain we've caused ourselves, we cannot move on to make choices that are more in alignment with our truest selves, with self-compassion and grace. Your content always makes me feel so safe, Amy. Thanks for sharing your journey. 🌿 IG: @taysdivinelife
@abigailpettersen951
3 жыл бұрын
It shouldn't Matt that they are family members toxic is toxic.... @abby_petters
@sav6489
3 жыл бұрын
Entering the giveaway! I’ve always wanted one of these diffusers but can’t afford them! Thank you!!
@aerialgoodnight7555
3 жыл бұрын
Whew, my biggest perspective shift seeing things through MY own eyes and making my OWN decisions instead of letting my parents think and choose for me. ♥️ you, Amy! IG : aerialciara
@antonioboca
3 жыл бұрын
so relaxing to watch 👁
@stephanienarvaez745
3 жыл бұрын
Everything I do is a spiritual practice, because I am a Spiritual Being ✨🌿 @stephanienarvaez_ Naps and rest is sacred ✨ Exploration is beautiful 🌎 📚 Play is essential 🌻 Food and water is life 🍏 There are no mistakes, it’s just limited perception because we don’t know the outcome of things. In retrospect it all makes sense, trust and faith in your greatest good will take you far 💞
@cemeterley
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest shift this year was that I'm not bad at everything I do. Things take practise. I've made new friends, started baking, sewing. I'm trying so many new things & I'm ENJOYING it. Ig: thatgothboi_b
@alishakendrick-pradhan6528
3 жыл бұрын
Omg I didn’t realize you were an aqua sun/Pisces moon!!! I am too, no wonder everything about you really resonates with me 🥺 thank you for this video
@willa_clare_truby
3 жыл бұрын
This year I’ve started to claim that cultivating joy is my own exciting project and experience!! Outside things, people, experiences, places, items - while they contribute - are not the pure source of fulfillment which can only be found deeply within. We are each born with this seed and it’s our journey to rediscover hat inner childlike curiosity and lightness ♥️😊 Is few things that have been helping me to cultivate this are yoga - all day everyday ha-, dance parties by myself, walks outside, poetry, music, journaling, candles, yummy food, hugs, and gratitude notes for myself random places. Sending much love to you Amy! Xoxox, Willa Clare (Instagram is @willaclare)
@emirjetataipi4465
3 жыл бұрын
A recent perspective shift for me was realizing that parents also have their inner child they struggle with. (Love your content! Can you share your soup recipe? It looked delicious!)
@katiee1963
3 жыл бұрын
Amy, you're GR8! My perspective shift: realising that everything I need is already inside me, it just needed space for me to notice - space makes gaps and gaps make awareness and awareness makes life - so, life is in space, not in things or objects suspended there. I'm trying to move away from objects - clothes, material STUFF - and into * space * . (This made sense in my head) (IG: katiecurrann)
@kaylaco
3 жыл бұрын
The biggest perspective shift this year, especially with the pandemic, has been to honour and listen to my shadow self. I'm on a journey of getting to know the suppressed parts of myself that I know are so integral to who I am (I've been feeling especially lost this year). I've noticed how detached I feel to things that once defined me (like my career, income, etc), and learning that I am before I do. Coming from trauma, all I've known is that I am what I do. Thankful for this journey and all that I get to learn from it. Also, so thankful for your content Amy Lee, it's been truly helpful on my path. BLESSSSSS ✨✨✨Also, my IG handle: @kayla.curved
@francaad5802
3 жыл бұрын
Love your content! Always feel more setteled after watching your videos.🙏You're truly inspiring and such a true and authentic soul.🧡
@anamp71
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest perspective shift this year (and probably ever) has been stopping all the projection i was doing on every person of the male sex (especially my boyfriend), because of my dysfunctional relationship with my father. It was unfair to them, but mostly unfair to myself, because I wasn't letting myself heal, proggress, or move on. This is by no means the solution to all my problems, but it's a HUGE step to womankind 💜 ig: @anaprunariu
@narangaravford6090
3 жыл бұрын
You are hilarious, interesting, inspiring and fun. That pancake eating part 😂🤣😅☀️👍👍👍
@lovelyromantic21
3 жыл бұрын
A recent perspective shift is that I can enjoy my life and appreciate myself regardless of how my work makes me feel - Thank you for this video
@matildesantos6576
3 жыл бұрын
A recente perspective shit on something that I felt recently is the fact that life truly is fd up to everyone. EVERY GOD DAMN ONE. And it’s ok and it’s normal and, although we shouldn’t settle for shty situations we also have to accept that it truly be like that some times. Forcing a state of complete optimism all the time will only make us even more fd up because we will be suppressing our real feels and thoughts. Most important tho, is the “for everyone” part. So we gotta stop acting like injusticed victims of an “unfair” life because, as I read so many years ago on tumblr “life is fair because it is unfair to everyone”. Hope this made some sense, I own this shift of perspective to the book “the subtle art of not giving a f” that I 100% recommend. Love your content Amy, thank you (ig: matildersantos)
@cassandratorres1737
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Amy! I doubt this is groundbreaking but recently with my first baby on the way, a move in the middle of a pandemic, since being laid off & enemployed since March I have realized The Only Constant In Life Is Change im pretty sure I heard this first in one of your am with Amy's but it has helped my fits of overwhelm turn into just "riding the waves" so to speak. That spirit junkie deck looks so dope i def want to look into getting myself one of those! Anyways lots of love from Coachella🌴 Your channel is always a mood booster thank you for your Constant honesty & transparency ! @slothvibez100
@leo123nie7
3 жыл бұрын
No one’s approval is ever worth compromising your own boundaries and abandoning your own beliefs for 💖💖
@rosietaylor7287
3 жыл бұрын
Recent perspective shift is my mother. This year I came to realize she has BPD, realizing and understanding this makes it easier for my healing journey because I now have a why behind all her words/actions. My IG is rosietaylorr, much love for ya Amy❤️
@DaraGeorge
3 жыл бұрын
Hummm what has recently been changing my perspective is how I criticize others. First of all it's not great, but I wonder if what I don't like in others is really something that I don't appreciate in myself? And if that's not the case, how to I navigate relationships where I feel like offenses/criticisms are beginning to build up? I don't know, still working on it. Anyway love you Amy! xx @dara_george
@aleciamonike
3 жыл бұрын
I love this video, Amy!!! Just a friendly remark, brands that market and profit off of real life issues such as the purse you have that writes "End Systemic Racism", should not be endorsed😕 These brands are almost making a mockery of these issues. Just speaking from my own perspective. I know that is not your intent though, much love & keep doing what you’re doing!
@emilykopp8517
3 жыл бұрын
A recent perspective shift I've noticed is that I am slowly but surely allowing myself to make my mental health my priority. After years of struggling with anxiety and low self-worth, I really have shifted my mindset. I now take medication, I absolutely love my therapy days and have really connected back with journaling and yoga. Mental health is so important and making it a priority has been one of the biggest changes I could have made. Wishing you and anyone else struggling with this year some peace and comfort here soon xx (My IG is @emilykatekopp, I'm not public but I can see DM requests)
@sy-rt7qh
3 жыл бұрын
Amy, you've been the biggest blessing in my life. You mentioned this phrase again and again that now it's stuck in my head - "Get to know yourself, you are an entire universe." My biggest perspective shift this year was finally being comfortable in my late 20s and as a matter of fact, looking forward to being 30 (in 4 years' time). But I used to get extremely paranoid about being 30 - I should have been married by then, I should start planning to settle down, I should have a stable career and own property and manage my finances well (y'know all the stuff that we were taught to achieve by 30). This year, because of the pandemic, I've been working from home and have so much time to read. Reading, and watching your KZitem videos have helped me so much in understanding my trauma and healing myself. I've finally let go of the thought that I need to achieve so and so by the big 30. In fact, I am here - exploring the infinite possibilities: maybe switch up my career, don't ever settle for less/settle to keep loneliness at bay, enjoy my solitude, and continue to do things that bring me the most fulfillment. You are right, I am an entire universe. The more I read, and the more KZitem that I watch, the more I am able to slowly piece things together and reprogram my thoughts. I am not a product of my parents, I have the power to heal. I am not another cookie-cutter of society, I have the power to live my life and create another realm of externality. Thank you, Amy, for making all the videos that you do.
@S1r3nc0r33
3 жыл бұрын
A perspective shift that I’ve recently had while doing some shadow work is that often self doubt is an ancestral trauma/generational trauma that we need to work through to heal our entire lineage. This has helped me so much in believing in my capabilities!❤️ My IG handle is: @firdous_m Love & light!✨
@roxisarobot
3 жыл бұрын
Whenever I watch your videos I normally go offline afterwards and do something for myself or just in general do something! Thanks for the positive motivation ❤️
@dominiquerivas1258
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for uploading this video! It just made my day ⭐️ saludos desde Tijuana, México 🤘🏼💜
@haiyan322
3 жыл бұрын
My newfound love for angry cats: I used to think dogs were the best since they were so affable, but my bf wanted a cat and it was all we could manage in a small apartment. We took a chance with adopting an anxious little adult cat. Initially, she did not compromise her needs (i.e. doesn't want to be held or touched). Initially, she was very standoffish, never tried to impress me or befriend me. I felt that this situation was completely unfair since I was taking care of her, feeding, cleaning, etc. It made her so unlovable. While reflecting on my anger, I realized that my dislike for cats revealed such an ugly side of me, "How dare she put her own needs over mine". This was a kind of intolerance I had learned based on the way my family treated me. They demanded me to be "grateful" and put my needs aside for whatever they wanted. I was not allowed to cause trouble or be angry, because they were the ones feeding me. Even when strangers or guys put their hands on me, I never knew how to fend for myself. I felt like I was undeserving of tending to my own needs and causing a scene would make my family hate me. The moral of the story, we were born to be ourselves and we have a duty to protect our core, or we'll just become an empty shell for others to use and abuse. It's in the way the world, capitalism, is structured that makes us feel like WE HAVE TO BE DESERVING AND HARDWORKING TO SURVIVE. This may be privileged to say, but most of us reading this are privileged. It's another story for impoverished and systemically deprived people. Which is all the more reason we should help one another, rather than shame anyone/cat for wanting their basic needs respected. I've learned that the less I go to the cat, the more she comes up to me. This feeling of earning her trust and her knowing that I will respect her boundaries is always a beautiful moment. It's a life lesson in how I let others take part in my life and how I treat others with respect for their needs. I'm too shy to put my handle........... I shall DM my message to you!
@AB-zm5ps
3 жыл бұрын
PERSPECTIVE SHIFT : my perspective of life and my relationship with myself changed a lot this year. I realised I don't have to sit here and suffer on my own. I don't have to be scared anymore. I can just get up and do something of my life, i can guide myself into the life i want to create for myself, that i want to offer to myself, because i deserve it. I deserve to live the life i ever wanted. IG : aslineb
@funda744
3 жыл бұрын
I learned this from you and it genuinely changed my whole perspective : “What you went through is not your fault, but it’s your responsibility to heal.” 💫🌗 This way of thinking helped me so much to stop excusing other peoples sh*tty behaviour towards me simply because i know they went through hard/traumatising times themselves. (My instagram is: fundaydem but no matter if i win or not i just want to let you know how much i appreciate your videos. They are sacred to me and so sooo uplifting. Thank you 💕🙌🏽)
@bolajiogunrosoye7053
3 жыл бұрын
A recent perspective shift I’ve had is that I will be fine if my life doesn’t go in the direction I planned. I’m currently questioning a lot of what I wanted for myself / discovering I might want different things and honestly, I think I’m completely ok with it. Fearful but excited to see what comes. Ig handle - @mobolaji_o
@LittleMissCommenter
3 жыл бұрын
My biggest shift has been about self love. Treating myself as if I'm my own best friend. Talking about myself only with loving words, just as I would about my closest and most loved ones. 🥰 ig: @emilielaras
@amaya0223
3 жыл бұрын
Amy I have no one reason to say this but I'm so proud of you! I've followed you for so many years now and wow you've just really grown so much
@chantelw4131
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Amy! my recent perspective shift would involve relationships, I used to think that I could never change my parents' relationship with me since they're so stubborn, but now I've realised that relationships are like yin and yang where if I change something as the yin (e.g. take up more space), they have no choice but reflect that change in the yang, regardless if they want to change or not :) (IG: @chqntel_)
@MultiEsasoyyo
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Amy! I've been watching you for a little bit more than a year now, and I have to tell you that you have had a huge impact on my life. I've been discovering a new part of myself, the one that is more spiritual. And I'm going through and endless journey of self-awreness, self-exploration and spirituality thanks to you. Also, because of you, I've been looking for a therapist, and I've been asking for help lately, opening uo more to the people close to me. And I want to thank you! Your content is inspiring!! @oliviapensato
@denisa4388
3 жыл бұрын
I love the Spirit Junkie deck you have, I've never seen it myself but I'm glad I did now - I'll buy it for my friend as a Christmas gift, she's been having a hard time lately, with lockdown and her depression--I feel like this will be perfect! Thank you! :)
@margoburova5792
3 жыл бұрын
I went there straight from your self-love advices video and dude... You're really inspiring. I wish you great luck and may the deities send you more conforming aromas!
@asiuwa8413
3 жыл бұрын
Actually my biggest shift this year was what you pulled for us in this video! I finally learned that asking for help is not a sign of weakness, actually its the contrary! After seeing you go to therapy I got courage to talk to my mom and we both go to therapy now. There's been a lot of tears but there's also been a lot of healing for us. I'm so thankful for your videos really, I don't think my relationship with my mom would be this good if it wasn't for you. I feel like we've finally learned how to talk to each other and ask for help. I've struggled with that a lot as a kid, always thinking that my mom would think I'm a weak person if I asked her for help and I always tried to solve my problems by myself. Naturally my mom thought I was the most independent kid ever lol she was proud of that but now she says she would much rather have known about my struggles and helped me. So essentially thank YOU Amy. You have no idea how much impact you've had on my life since I've discovered your channel. (Even the teal hair hehe I thought about it for a long time and when I saw you I was like YES THAT'S IT!) My instagram is asiarubach, maybe you remember me:-)
@martuser7239
3 жыл бұрын
Your videos relax me. I love having a reference in terms of mental and physical care. In my country it is not very well seen to take care of your mental health and I love that you give it visibility. Appearance was always something that worried me. It made me very anxious not to be like other girls. Long hair, cute clothes, ... I didn't feel like myself. Besides, being a woman is not easy, your clothes and your appearance will always be judged. Now little by little I have learned to do what makes me feel like myself, partly thanks to you. I love tattoos, colorful hair, tomboy look, ... It was hard because my family didn't support me at the time, I was the "weirdo". But now I can say that I feel more me than ever. Thanks for everything, keep it up. A big hug from Spain. Btw I'm @martuser__
@claremightdothings
3 жыл бұрын
Love this! love you! such an uplifting and inspiring soul :)) I think my most recent and most poignant shift in perspective was regarding a toxic friendship I had. I was on my own journey to becoming more positive and balanced and she was not on the same wavelength (whatsoever! I discovered she showed very narcissistic behaviours and would manipulate so sneakily). It took me to really put myself and my mental health first to say I couldn’t be her friend anymore if I wanted to continue on this journey of self love and improvement. Unfortunately the friendship breakup didn’t go so well BUT! I am doing so much better and I don’t regret making that decision because ultimately I know it was what’s best for me :)) lots of love from Australia! insta: perennial.princesss
@ramyaraj8576
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Amy! I love your videos and they always center me when life gets a little too chaotic. Over the span of quarantine, I moved in with my parents and started my first job remotely. I had all these big dreams of living in the city, meeting new friends, and being able to live freely as I wished. After about 6 months of being abruptly pushed into this reality, I've realized that I am enough the way I am. I don't need to flex my apartment or my looks to feel good. I don't need to compare myself to other people because everyone is going through their own version of life with it's own unique set of challenges. I don't need to be surrounded with people for namesake. "You don't want someone who doesn't want you". Just appreciate what you are and what you have :-) Hope you have a fresh day! IG_Handle @ramya_lala
@Kuntheary_
3 жыл бұрын
I just needed to upgrade who I am to shift over me someone that deserve me and was on line with my standards Yeah, I've just begun a relationship with an "old" friend and I've never been this much at peace Let's work on ourselves (be our best version, in my case I'm closer and closer to the woman I want to be) to manifest the person/the relationship we truly deserve. That's my a recent perspective shift ! PS : Amy's videos are soooooo smoothing. Who's agree ? @kuntheary_
@mariajoao6852
3 жыл бұрын
Okay, admit I would love this
@organicrays7495
3 жыл бұрын
I love the vlogs. Always exactly what I need. 🦋 Been apart of the gang since the beginning of vagabond youth. You’re doing great. And to answer the giveaway entry prompt, my perspective has changed recently in regards to love. This year has given me the space to fully love myself before looking for that love from anyone else, but it’s okay to crave love from others. Loving with a whole heart is a super power, let your cape fly. It’s not something I have to be ashamed of ever. IG: @organicrays
@fiqah2112
3 жыл бұрын
Especially on the subject of inner child recovery and healing ~ recent perspective shift that my partner and I both adopted: not taking life too seriously! To be present, patient, and to forgive one another. We've recently found ourselves straight out laughing in the middle of trivial arguments (like, you're supposed to have taken the trash out!), which seems like a small thing but it really helps us both take a step back and analyse if the argument really is worth the unkindness - and it truly never is! Love your content, as always Amy (also, @afiqahslmn on insta) x
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