Enjoyable story, glad husband did not let 2nd wife keep him from his daughter's wedding. Great ending.
@tammyminder833
Жыл бұрын
If you are a jealous person never ever start a relationship with someone who has kids
@shaundagaffney8335
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad that this dad didn't let his second wife ruin his relationship with his daughter. My husband has a son from a previous marriage but his mother is a part of the family and we have always put his best interests before any petty arguments between us as parents. The children of our family come first, then my husband and then myself.
@CarmenFlores-id8dh
Жыл бұрын
Whether or not James and Marcy remarry, he’s definitely better off without Alexis. She’s the type of self-absorbed narcissist who would cause any man to grow old before his time. Who knows? James was probably the only man who was experienced enough to know how to cope with her - though not for long. 😂
@evelynberrios8164
Жыл бұрын
That wife is so insecure and insanely jealous. That is not love. Your daughter comes first.
@sugakookie7985
Жыл бұрын
My uncle's second wife was jealous of my aunt and her two children who died in an automobile accident, some people are just wired wrong
@Mama_Bear_of_3
Жыл бұрын
There would be no discussion, no explaining, no bickering, and no ifs ands or buts. No one would keep me from my child wedding! I would however sign divorce papers.
@liznemeskery4321
Жыл бұрын
Insane to think a spouse would ask you to forget about a part of your life. Especially a daughter. Nobody gets between my daughter and me. Nor stops me from seeing her. I would not let something like that happen.
@cathyshirley8541
Жыл бұрын
Not so unusual though. My Mom died when I was 12. When my Dad remarried when I was 19, my stepmom wanted absolutely no reminder of my mother around thd house and we weren't supposed to speak of her as though she never existed. God bless my Dad. At my wedding, when the minister said "who gives this woman to be married?" , My Dad said loud and proud, "Her MOTHER and I do!"
@Shadow_Robotnik
Жыл бұрын
Never been married but I've been threatened with breakups countless times.. here's my response to every attempt: in every way they try to spin it after the fact, they failed. It was a joke? Terrible sense of humor, nobody's laughing. You wanted to intimidate me? I'm not scared of a highschool level bully cosplaying as an adult. You were jealous of my loved ones and lashed out but it'll never happen again? Good, very good.... Get some professional help to make sure it won't.
@kentjensen4939
Жыл бұрын
It would be a sneaky plot twist if the father divorced the second wife and remarried the first; a couple can just decide to love each other again and don't have to FALL in love again.
@therealmaizing5328
Жыл бұрын
He could then introduce her as his first wife, once removed. 🤣
@youmadhuh6375
Жыл бұрын
A spouse that makes you choose between them or your own children is not a good spouse... my child comes first.. I don't understand why he needed to ask her permission to go to his own daughter's wedding?.. alexis is a weirdo.. she sounded like a petulant little child.. he should've told her to grow the hell up.. she's literally jealous of his child.. that's not normal
@debbiephillips601
Жыл бұрын
Oh the second she said I forbid you to go, I would have to go. Control and manipulation is not a way to be married.
@BIGBLOCK5022006
6 ай бұрын
My response to Alexis thinking that she could order me not to attend the wedding of my kid would be me giving her both middle fingers.
@quix66hiya22
Жыл бұрын
I agree with the husband about everything except him continuing to confide in his ex. Friendly, fine, intimate conversations, not gonna fly!
@nancythane5672
Жыл бұрын
Alexis was pathologically insecure. Probably had a personality disorder or threeas well. 😂
@nancyoleksy
Жыл бұрын
Alexis is very insecure. She is jealous of Marcy because she is still on good terms with the ex-husband. I would say this is my daughters wedding and I am going to bad.
@melissakerber8287
Жыл бұрын
Alexis is an insecure brat. She isn’t mature enough to be a wife. I hope James divorces her. She is a terrible person for expecting her husband to miss his daughter’s wedding. She is manipulative and controlling. I just got to the part where she told James to leave his daughter behind. What a childish little brat!
@DREADHEADYABOSS
Жыл бұрын
This dude is a pushover. No way a man should let a woman tell him that he can't go to his daughter's wedding. She can kick rocks because my child would come first
@evelynberrios8164
13 күн бұрын
OP you’re a true father. Your daughter comes first. Is ludicrous that she expected for you to miss your daughter’s wedding. As for getting together with your ex, it would be great. However, therapy is very important. You can’t just jump from one woman to another without resolving your issues with your soon to be ex and issues with the woman you love. Do it right and you’ll find that you both made the right decision. With both of you in the same page and with couples counseling, you’ll both will get your happily ever after. 🎉❤
@kelleywheeler7980
Жыл бұрын
I rathered enjoyed this one. Glad James got back with Marcy
@octoviamead9305
Жыл бұрын
Beautiful story ❤️ keep them coming! 👏👏❤️👏👏
@sugakookie7985
Жыл бұрын
So extrapolating from all available information dad went through a midlife crisis luckily the spouses had divorced due to outside forces he got it out of his system and now is once again happy with the love of his life
@TheMajestrix
Жыл бұрын
Wow, Alexis is delusional and she got what she deserved.
@sidneywinter8952
Жыл бұрын
i like Marcy, she's my kind of gal.
@grandmaonline2450
Жыл бұрын
Forbid? Can’t go? He’s not a four year old and she’s not mom.
@kevobeney5308
23 күн бұрын
Step mother is jealous of the husband and daughter, and being friendly with the ex is positive for his kid. She's hung up on herself
@corinnefogarty7880
Жыл бұрын
You don't need permission to go to your child's wedding, or any other family event. (Unless you have a restraining order on you... 👀 !!) It's also not smart to demand having a baby to erase the fact your spouse already has a grown child. There's more to the story of this second wife. She sounds extremely self-centered and demanding.
@twiceshy9773
Жыл бұрын
Wow, insecure much??! And you have to stay in contact if you're co-parenting, doesn't she know that?? And why would the 2nd wife assume that she's not invited to the wedding too?? She's digging her own grave with her insecure immature selfishness...and I'm friends with my exes, the love is gone but the friendship remains, that person is part of your history. Ironically the 2nd wife pushed the hubby towards realisation that he still loved his 1st wife
@daver6828
3 ай бұрын
Nice story
@cherylmccue956
Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but seriously, I forbid it? You won't let me go? Nope, nope and hell no!
@Helmaron1538
Жыл бұрын
Alexa is a shrew!
@patriciagordon9972
4 ай бұрын
Wont let me go????? WOW. What kind of relationship is that??? Yeah -No. Time to move on to better waters and a calm existance
@rqstuv9336
Жыл бұрын
TBH both James and Alexis are worse.... James was not over his ex-wife while Alexis had issues which became worse with James' affection for his ex-wife....
@JohannaNazareen1225
Жыл бұрын
If you cant stnd tha fact that your spouse has a child then dont have sex with the person who has kids from before, dont get maried to them. His daughther is his flesh and blood, a part of him. His pride and joy. At least she should be. If stepmother doesn't want to go she doesn't have to. But he will never stop being his daghther's father. My uncle had 6 kids with 2 wives. 4 with the first one 2 with the second. On all wedding, celebrations, funerals, he is seeing his first ex wife. He is in third mariage now and his first ex is a widdow after her second husband died. Noone makes a problem with it.
@Sparky102970
Жыл бұрын
Wow, another person who married the wrong woman and is just too embarrassed to admit it and divorce.
@samanthashaver
7 ай бұрын
AWE Alexis it's so cute that you think you have a say whether or not this man goes to his daughters wedding.(sarcasm). Come on James and Marcy you two still love each other so get back together, May wouldn't mind that.
@lisathomass4054
Жыл бұрын
Both of my grandmothers hated me but for different reasons from moment of finding out my parents were expecting. Paternal blamed mom for breaking up dad's first marriage which ended when his wife divorced for his adultery. Mom and dad didn't even know one another until five years later. She was rotten to mom and my sister. My brothers were spoiled by her and mom's mom my sister as well by mom's mom. I was blamed for mom having complications with me that by ignoring her doctor's orders. Both gave every grandchild money on holidays and birthdays but me. It hurt. My dad would chew them out. Christmas paternal grandmother spoiled everyone but my sister and I. We get an under two dollar gift. Mom's mom every grandchild but me got money and a nice present. High school graduation. Nothing from paternal. Mom's mom sent me an three dollar card and an watch from Kmart out of it's packaging because it would of been been fifty cents extra for mailing. It came broken. I never said thank you for it. But apparently what set mom off was how for all three of my siblings weddings both spent hundreds on them. Paternal ignored it all together and by then my opinion was who cared lol I was use to that hag how ever her mom sent the same needle point of our names and wedding date but ours came in an extremely cheap frame. Packaged a bit better due the glass and one whole dollar. Now I had prepared my husband to be who thought I was exaggerating due to the show she put on when we came to visit her in the state she lived in. Oh his shocked reaction. He couldn't believe it. My mom lost it on her. Completely and utterly lost it. Uh mom... No this is it!!! When our first baby came Same needle point only no frame. I didn't nor did my husband tell mom but upon visiting.... Yes she lost it. When both women died I never went to their funerals.
@quix66hiya22
Жыл бұрын
This man did wrong by the second wife. He married her not being over the first. No wonder she flipped out and didn’t want him near the ex-wife. And the husband was emotionally intimate with the first wife still. Gross. Not saying the ultimatum was right, but I can see this man making her crazy then gaslighting her about it. Was she so jealous or insecure all along, or did his devotion to his ex-wife set her off. This story is not romantic. It’s about emotional cheating on the current wife with the ex.
@corinnefogarty7880
Жыл бұрын
It was more about Alexis being jealous of his relationship with his daughter. He wasn't having a thing, at that point, with his ex. They were just able to talk with each other.
@lifepawsandhoofbeats4080
Жыл бұрын
Hmm i dont like what Alexis was doing, not cool to keep your spouse from their kids wedding. Though her insecurity was warrented. He did still luv his ex. Not saying how she acted was right, far from it but op rushed and Alexis ended up paying for it the most. No one was copletely right, it was a bad situation all around.
@dorothylloyd1804
Жыл бұрын
Good morning
@BelleDede01
Жыл бұрын
It is normal for divorced parents to keep talking after the divorce, especially if they've had a child together. Unless it was a nasty divorce, then OK fine, but the 2 or 3 or whatever wife knows about the child so it's up to them to accept that or move out and not marry a person who has a child or children. That was part of his life and she chose to still marry him, so too bad for her. I have two sons and if I were to divorce and remarry, I can guarantee that my kids would come before him and if he wasn't OK with that, then buhbye!
@sheliawaymon9023
Жыл бұрын
This story is just too sappy.
@Sparky102970
Жыл бұрын
You misspelled "ridiculous" 😉😅
@sophierobinson2738
Жыл бұрын
A really small wedding is the bride, the groom, and the J.P.
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