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@lindam7821
Жыл бұрын
Learned I was a fearful avoidant because of Coach Craig Kenneth. Love his channel & this channel . Your channel has helped calm down my anxiety a lot. Been working on my attachment style since my breakup and facing issues that were present in my relationship that I feared. I appreciate your channel so much! It’s really helping people. 😊
@ryanmac8829
Жыл бұрын
First time I've seen your face, Rory. Haven't visited this channel in a while since our talk. We had a Skype call a few years ago, was incredibly helpful. If I recall correctly, at one point you actually said "seems you're doing the right thing. Just leave it alone and keep doing what you're doing." I just needed the reinforcement. If anyone doubts this channel, I can tell you firsthand it's legit advice that this man gives. Don't listen to the fake ones out there.
@kaseadams2384
Жыл бұрын
Much love and thanks to you brother, don't watch your videos anymore cause they are no longer needed thought I'd stop by and leave a like, all your free advice helped me figure out what I needed to do with myself. People listen to this man, focus on your healing after the first hurt anything that comes after shouldn't hurt as much or you know how to deal with things better. Relationships come and go but remember you have yourself, love yourself first and hopefully you can share that love in future relationships. No contact also works people!
@ImadHadjersi
Жыл бұрын
Hey Rory, nice video! Can a breakup change someone's attachment style? I used to be secure but nowadays (two years after my breakup) I feel like I'm somewhere between fearful avoidant and dismissive, I definitely leaned on the "less people, less trusting" side of things.
@ozantepe3713
Жыл бұрын
Hey, 5 months in here! Don't worry, just work on yourself, with time you will be more secure. I was a bit avoidant after breakup too - after 1 month a girl wanted to be in a relationship with me, and I felt like I'm trapped, thats when I said "aha!" to myself. But after 5 months, I feel like I want intimacy, so with time it normalizes.
@freddyjafar1490
Жыл бұрын
Yup absolutely
@assplundah
Жыл бұрын
Great video Rory, you explain it in a clear & concise way. Thank you for clearing up some of the confusion.
@bearface9706
Ай бұрын
Do dismissive avoidants sometimes like physical touch? My ex is very independent and also very physically intimate, didn't show signs of anxiety but she also hid her emotions well
@iconoclast6555
Жыл бұрын
I'm a dumpee. Gf of 7 yeas dumped me. And I think I was the secure type for all those 7 years, but since I got dumped, I think I jumped straight to no. 4 lol sigh
@keweez8626
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for the video Rory. Truly helped me understand myself and people around me.
@TheLoveChat
Жыл бұрын
Glad I could help!!
@stjepanvidovic7603
Жыл бұрын
Is it possible to not have a secure attachment style even though I was in a loving and caring family with both parents? By the way I acted in the last relationship I would definitely not describe it as secure even though I was raised in a good environment.
@TheLoveChat
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Events throughout your life after childhood can impact this as well
@stjepanvidovic7603
Жыл бұрын
@@TheLoveChat Will you be making a video about what we can do to "fix" each one. 99% sure im fearful avoidant anyways.
@yourmomishungy3
11 ай бұрын
I like your face. Definitely not what I expected!!! Thank you for your videos. I’m trying to feel better. This is very hard but your videos help for sure
@lisaa.971
Жыл бұрын
I love your new videos, Rory. Thank you.
@TheLoveChat
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!!
@martinhebblewhite4659
4 ай бұрын
Great video. ❤️
@tigger4922
Жыл бұрын
Hi Rory. My ex and I were together for 3 months unofficially. About a week after we made it offical she told me she doesn’t have romantic feelings for me. She seemed really happy and really loving whilst we were together and I’m really confused. I’ve been in no contact for 2 months now. What do? Also I love your work thank you so very much.
@joeyhuang7758
11 ай бұрын
Any update? I’m in a similar boat here.
@kyro8853
Жыл бұрын
My ex would say that she’s not the one to need from someone…
@stevenrichards9923
Жыл бұрын
Hey Rory can you please do a video on when people breakup with you and go back to their toxic abuseive exs and will it last with them or do they come back
@dylanmatipa136
Жыл бұрын
It will be on and off. Forget about such people. They’re permanently broken.
@1CAG
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Rory! Pulse..
@acashalrazi4080
Жыл бұрын
My ex wants to stay as friends with me for two months before she wants to patch up with me cause she doubts I didn't change...if things go peacefully and postively she willl work things out that's what she told me...what should I do?
@MalmborgMarinus
Жыл бұрын
Im really sorry to hear that Acash! Imo your girlfriend is puttin you on hold. She's not 100% Invested in you. I'll let you decide if that healthy for you and your ex. Focus on yourself now, dont look back at her for coming back. No contact. Social media pause. Hit the gym. And she' s back before you know it. And i'll promise you, that you will by that time be thinking about that if it's even worth it to go back to her. Remember that you made her emotional invested in you before, dont you think a 2.0 version of yourself cant do it again ? and maybe even 2x better ? :) Take care
@oakleygolden-pursey6636
Жыл бұрын
If you are still in contact with her, You tell her this: Hey …. I hope everything is going okay. I’ve thought about it and I’ve realised that I can’t be friends with you, I think we have too much chemistry to just be friends and it isn’t something I want. I also don’t think it will be wise of me to stick around and watch you eventually date someone else. I see a relationship as something that can be very healthy for both of us, but I need a partner that can communicate and share with me problems so we can work on them together. If you think you can be that for me then let me know. If you cannot, then I cannot accept your friendship, and good luck out there.’ Then you walk away and don’t look back.
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