I’m 56 and have been through many breakups. I’m happily married now going on 13 years. Your advice is great and I am sure very helpful for anyone going through a breakup.
@TinyCricket89
11 ай бұрын
Everything you’re saying is true. My last breakup was devastating, especially because I was ghosted by my boyfriend and never given proper closure of any kind. I typed out a final heartfelt email, packed my stuff and moved across the country to a state I’d never set foot in by myself to start over. Once I was settled I felt alive again. Found a new job, adopted a kitten and was thriving. As I was getting ready for a date my ex texts me “Miss you”😐 By that point I had moved forward with my life and the invisible umbilical cord was finally severed. I ended up having to block his number and seven years later here I am married to the man I was getting ready for a date with and we just had our third baby❤️ Breakups suck but all of us are stronger than the pain it brings.
@ellexx3231
10 ай бұрын
This is beautiful ❤
@TheSMSpider
5 ай бұрын
This gives me hope, I wanted to marry this girl. We talked about an engagement and I was starting to save for a ring. But I guess she just wasn’t the one.
@skay4299
11 ай бұрын
I’ve been watching your channel for so many years now, I’ve always loved your videos. I’m 22 years old and within the past month and a half my boyfriend of 6 years broke up with me. I was extremely blind sided because it was completely out of nowhere. It is a very unusual breakup in so many ways and I have been struggling so much. I’m so thankful for this video it has really made me think of this situation differently, thank you! I’m so glad you’re in a great place and it helps to know that it is possible even if I can’t see it right now.
@lindabradley7683
11 ай бұрын
Not going through a breakup but I loved this advice. It comes across as very genuine ❤️
@victoriamovsisyan
10 ай бұрын
I agree with you even though my breakup happened long time ago but still thanks Sam for a wonderful advice 🤗
@mariadjjv
11 ай бұрын
I love the advice she gives each time she makes similar videos. I appreciate her kind words and even though I am not going through a break up it is still nice to hear her advice. Many of us go through different things, it's like right now I am experiencing a lot of anxiety and stress. I would love to hear another video like this maybe even including some bible verses to help people like me who are experiencing stress and anxiety. God bless you, Sam
@bloominghearts
10 ай бұрын
Yesssss love that video idea
@aimeemegan5830
11 ай бұрын
Sam this video couldn’t of come at a better time. Going through this right now and trying to not cry. Thank you ❤️
@clairehoskin7632
11 ай бұрын
As someone who went through heartbreak and a breakup,this video was a godsend and most definitely needed. Thanks for making this video for us Sam.
@BelleTolles
11 ай бұрын
Your honesty and openness, along with such obvious soul searching are really beautiful and powerful. I bet this helps so many people. And man, your point on begging or persuading is so painful but so true. It doesn't have anything to do with a lack in you, it's just how someone now feels. And you just can't make someone feel something. But you need to love yourself and know that there will be someone who matches you if that's what you really want some day.
@vintagehopeasmr
11 ай бұрын
This is so comforting to hear as a teenage girl going through this. I love your videos 💖
@blablablaa14
11 ай бұрын
Low key I would listen to you speak about anything. Whenever a video ends I’m like “that’s it damn I wish it was longer”
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
🫶🏼🫶🏼
@itsivana2060
11 ай бұрын
To anyone going thru rough patches now, I'm sending you all my love
@willemunderwood7952
3 ай бұрын
But spreading something rude and fake I meant to put in there! I think I typed too fast I only finished some of the sentence there!
@vich6048
11 ай бұрын
Met my first love 4 years ago and experienced my first heart break 2 years ago. No betrayal or cheating involved, sadly a clash in some fundamental beliefs about unhealthy habits. He broke up with me in the middle of a restaurant. I have spent 2 years feeling guilty and reflecting on my contribution to the downfall of the relationship; only recently I’m beginning to acknowledge how angry and disrespected I feel. Healing can be slow and, as Sam said, it’s definitely not linear. And I think you can get to a point of self love and acceptance, and still have these feelings of hurt and betrayal that may not truly ever go away. Yet they won’t rule you. I don’t know if I’ll ever reach closure truly. But I do know what I have learned from my experience and how to apply that going forward. Give yourself love & give yourself time ♥️
@karlapalacios6255
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this Sam! I went through a breakup a little over a year now and everything you said was on point. To anyone who is going through something like this: you got this and it will get better❤️
@simplysoundsasmr
11 ай бұрын
Sam, thank you so much for this video. So much great advice shared, and very well-spoken. This was comforting in so many ways, and I’m sure is helping many feel less alone. Definitely one of my all-time favorite videos from you. ❤️
@Melthings
10 ай бұрын
Didn't realize how much I needed this thank you! Couldn't figure out why I still didn't feel ready to see someone new (even though I thought I moved on) but what you said about the "illusion" of them still being in your life is so real. For me it seems it's the hardest part, made me cry but I needed to hear it. Grateful for this video
@elizabethlearned
11 ай бұрын
Never been through heartbreak but I am sending my love to those to who are working through tough times
@noyyyta402
11 ай бұрын
I admire you so much Sam . I’m glad you are doing a lot better . Sooner or later the right person will find you .❤
@seahawktd5224
9 ай бұрын
Wow I learned so much watching this, Im terrible with losing people and I try to fight for them to come back and everything. I went through a roller coaster of a breakup with my ex. Lots of lies from her end. lots of arguments over nothing. Lots of games being played. Its been 7-8 months and Im still not fully over it and I know someday I will be over it and find someone else that wont do what she did to me. Thanks for this video!
@itsems92
10 ай бұрын
Going through break ups I blared a little bit stronger by Sara Evans. Sometimes I’d cry to it . Sometimes I’d blare it out of anger and hurt . But it was my anthem and it helped me get through every break up. I’m not saying it may help you but music helps me when I’m hurting. And this song was a way of healing. Also I think your advice would go great for friendship break ups as well Sam! I need to work on no contact 😊
@ellexx3231
10 ай бұрын
I’m in the most loving relationship going on 5 years now with my best mate ❤ but this video brought back some memories for me as with a lot of the women in the comments we’ve all been there and it sucks! For anyone at the start of their journey, I spent 4 years in an abusive relationship I was isolated wasn’t allowed friends he cheated on me 9 times with different women and when I found this out and left I felt like my life was over. 2 years of healing and I met my bestfriend who is my biggest supporter, my comfort and my home ❤ hang in there girlies sending anyone going through this rn lots of love 🫶🏻
@journalonasilvercloud
10 ай бұрын
So calming and such sound advice 😊 I wish I had been so mature and thoughtful at your age! Keep up the good work, I think you’re brilliant 👍☺️🌸⭐️
@loisparsons4519
11 ай бұрын
This could NOT have come at a better time!!!
@majsannorin2129
11 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, the video was really healing for past hurt and also good advice❤️ Thank you again✨
@lauramarchant9636
11 ай бұрын
Thanks Sam, perfect video just at the time I needed it ❤️🩹
@nonlosodioc
11 ай бұрын
how did u know i needed this 😭
@MrGamer07100
10 ай бұрын
I never felt more alone when it comes to any relationship breakup. Never met a proper person in my life who I genuinely liked. And whenever I talked to someone with a wishful mindset, it’s a slap in the face when it all backfires. The more years go by, without one, the more I just wanna give up.
@Zanzeezeepodcast
11 ай бұрын
41 year old divorce dad. In the process of the worst heartbreak of my life. I wanna say this to the fellas out there. You got this big hearted sirs. She’s out there we just gotta focus on us for a time
@Annadr3wmorrison4477
10 ай бұрын
When life's kicking my butt your videos always make things better happy November
@EmuWhispers
11 ай бұрын
I got engaged last week and I thank the universe everyday for my past relationships ending (the bullets dodged and the lessons learned). It makes you appreciate even more when you find your forever person and everything makes sense ❤️
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
Congratulations!!
@sianwickenden8692
10 ай бұрын
Really good advice at the right time xx Audio is really good in this video too
@bizarrebuttrue8814
10 ай бұрын
This came at the very moment I needed to hear it. God bless.
@franciscorivas3322
11 ай бұрын
Lovely video Sam, your wise beyond your years. Be safe 😊
@iSkate4ssk
6 ай бұрын
I went thru my first one in like 10+ years and it’s been a month, I’m over her just not the fact that my heart was broken. Some days are better than other, it’s kind of just distracting yourself until you forget…
@nia3488
10 ай бұрын
Really good video! I felt like I talked to a friend. I also realized something while watching - when you were talking about the working on yourself part of healing after a breakup, I realized that I'm only 19 and my mind is a hot mess at this age, so being heartbroken might be taking me longer to navigate (it has been almost 8 months now) because I haven't figured out who I am at all yet. It's almost like sailing home through a very, very angry sea. Well, I'll come out of this so much stronger!
@softasmr
10 ай бұрын
Ohhhh this is only the beginning for you and I’m so excited for you🤍
@Mpilokhumalo856
11 ай бұрын
Loved ever guide/ pointer given on this. Let’s include exercise. Working out and setting up a fitness goal can also work magic after any tragedy. You are an elegant Queen Sam🤍
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
Yesss worked WONDERS for me 💪🏼❤️
@caseystab1937
11 ай бұрын
I am absolutely so excited to be hearing this tonight, and then joining Patreon again tomorrow which is actually tonight because it’s already 111
@beckyherbert7545
10 ай бұрын
You’ve helped me come to the decision to stop looking at his fb. I’ve been going to church every second week and really leaning into that community. Everyone has been really kind and supportive. I think it’s definitely important not to rush into another relationship and do a post mortem on the last one. Decide what you wish you’d dove better, and what you wish they had done better. Also deciding what you will and accept in a future relationship before starting another one.
@danielavela47
10 ай бұрын
18:59 damn.
@spencergadoury
10 ай бұрын
Needed this rn! Thx:)
@Logan-m2m
10 ай бұрын
I went to trauma when i was bullied from school. I think the simularity of my situation is that it was hard for me to let go the past. Despite my situation was not romantic. Our brains keep remind us of situation that we have strong negative emotions. And it was really hard for me to heal from that trauma and to have self esteem again and to let go the past. It is not easy at all for sure. But we deserve medal for that battle. And all the cliche that we have to be not alone and to force ourselves to fit in to be loved was programmed by society. It was lie. I remember times that i forced myself to be someone that i am not just to fit in because i was outsider in school. After 10 years i was invited in fb group for highschool reunion. That was the truth test for me if i was letting go the past. I was in dilemma it was very difficult decision for me because i was wondering if they changed. But i noticed signs that some of them was still mean. And finally i made decision not to go and to waste money. Then i felt that i finally let them go. But i felt that essence that ghost as you sayed. I revisited the past some times unconsciously and i was mad of me. Then i decided to be honest of my self. And i realized that i was regret about loss of good teen years, and that i was regret about that we wasn't in good relationship and that they hated me and abuse me for no reason. Then i tell my self that it was not my fault that they hated me and bullied me. That I can't control others and life is not perfect and that i loss good teenage years of my life is not end of the world and nobody life is perfect. After i remind myself that was not my fault and i don't have to change and that i am good enough and that i accept that life is imperfect i felt peace. After i removed all regret i felt peace. I felt the ghost is gone and i cut the cord. The youtube channels that help me to build my self esteem is PSY2GO and Cassandra Mack. Cassandra Mack is also christian and believe in God. Her channel is amazing she helped so many people. I recommend it.
@shanikaayanna9767
10 ай бұрын
Not me subscribing 0:43 seconds into this video 😂
@softasmr
10 ай бұрын
Appreciate you! 🤍
@itsnot_cruz
10 ай бұрын
needed this fr
@Harbinger93
11 ай бұрын
Sam is absolutely right about surrounding yourself with loved ones during this difficult time. I’m not sure how many guys are in this comment section, but I’ll go ahead and share my story from 14 years ago. I was a junior in high school and we were a year into our relationship, and the day before the big ACT test, I discovered that I was wronged. I bombed the test and I became bitter and angry towards everybody. I let it change me for the absolute worst. To this day I still despise that version of myself. That summer I distanced myself from everyone and chose to remain in my angry and bitter state. My two best friends who I have known since 5th and 7th grade were at my house everyday. They dragged me out of the house and we went everywhere despite me wanting to wallow in my own grief. They let me weep, they let me whine, they let me be angry. They never once judged. And they are the only reason I came out of that darkness. I went on to have the best year of my life when we went into our senior year. I’m 30 now, we are still best friends. I could never express my gratitude enough to those two guys. About 20 years of friendship that I wouldn’t change for anything.
@apostolia2124
11 ай бұрын
Brilliant Sam, we could certainly use more content like this, thank you for sharing✌💜💚🧡
@beckyherbert7545
11 ай бұрын
Thankyou so much ❤
@camelia3055
11 ай бұрын
Oh how lucky we are to have you in our lives Sam
@montaha369
11 ай бұрын
Looking beautiful as always ☁️
@ChelseaBrooke85
11 ай бұрын
For anyone reading the comment section GO TO HER SECOND CHANNEL. Her new series The Walk is so good for a new, young or even mid-age Believer! I fully enjoy listening to her, I HONESTLY didn't think I'd get much out of it bc it's so hard for me to get into Bible lessons which is WEIRD and BAD for me to say bc I am a Believer. But I find it hard to understand what I read in the Bible.
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
🥹🥹❤️ I appreciate you Chelsea!
@ChelseaBrooke85
11 ай бұрын
@@softasmr You're very much appreciated as well, Sam!
@autumnmoonASMR
11 ай бұрын
Love the vid BUT THAT JAWLINE???? Omg gorg
@W-iu8xs
10 ай бұрын
love this
@catgirl6377
2 ай бұрын
It's really I shame people put themselves through this much torment because they feel that being in a relationship with someone is the key to happiness. People have friendships and work relationships that quite often they are in longer and often are more positive. There is a lot of idealism in these romantic relationships. I think the break up is where they have to be realistic
@susanarodsan
9 ай бұрын
thank you
@Dani-xh6pw
11 ай бұрын
Luckily I’m not going through a break up but still enjoyed the video💜 also what is that noise in the background? it sounds like a cat meowing I’ve been hearing in the last couple of your videos
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
I think it’s a door but I honestly don’t know lol
@whosyeliah
6 ай бұрын
my first real love just broke up with me yesterday. im devastated. everyone says they think he’ll come back but i dont know. i feel so blindsided because everything was perfect last week. i love him more than anything. its 4 am and i cant sleep. my heart hurts
@gabidone.
5 ай бұрын
wish u better
@pareesadayhoff1307
10 ай бұрын
this was amazing. love you & will be sending to some girls i know would love it too. ❤️
@Dr.Sarcasm
11 ай бұрын
Wait, you talked about going on a break and NO FRIENDS REFERENCE? Sam, I'm surprised at you!!! LOL :)
@ArmandoNarvaez-zu5ri
9 ай бұрын
❤HAPPY NEW YEARS FRIEND!!🎉🎉 I MIGHT BE ASLEEP AT THAT TIME IM OLD❤❤❤
@AllisonP1974
10 ай бұрын
I’ve had my share BUT I recently had my heart broken after 13 years of broken promises. But now I know I deserve better and at age 49 I’m ready to accept what I deserve (the good stuff).
@TheSMSpider
5 ай бұрын
We got into a bad argument and she blamed her issues on me. I wasn’t perfect, but I loved her and treated her really well. I said if I was that bad to leave and find someone better cause I was hurting. And she did, she left immediately. Blocked me and left. Even though she did the same to me prior, I never blocked her and left. I worked her through it and made us work on our fights. But I guess it wasn’t worth her to fight for us. Despite me saving up for a ring and us talking about a future together.
@salsabeelshhady3465
10 ай бұрын
Hey sam love u and you’re content,a little advice try to talk slower to make the video more relaxing
@bloominghearts
10 ай бұрын
Yes that’s a good tip
@saggybeans7791
10 ай бұрын
Me being in a five year healthy relationship but still wanna watch this
@ZackyASMR
11 ай бұрын
Hi Sam ❤❤
@alexiamnb
10 ай бұрын
where is your necklace from?😍
@softasmr
10 ай бұрын
Kendra Scott :)
@JasonMarchant-qe3kv
4 ай бұрын
I felt your pain we all been in relationships. Hello heart stepped on this and yes, it takes time to heal and get back. I don’t know horse again thank you I could feel what you was feeling and it was true feeling
@lingcho4815
10 ай бұрын
I don't belive in breakups I broke up with the same girl 5 times longest breakup lasted 9 months long, when I was ready to love again I went back to the girl and today we are married 9 years and have the most beautiful 6 year old girl...and we love each other more each day, spirituality is the biggest contribution to the success first few years of marriage were rough now we get better each day like wine.
@eliderasmr
10 ай бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@smithy0506
10 ай бұрын
I love my own company no one to answer to and no chance of gettin feelings shattered sounds sad but im happy as f**k 😁
@claireryan9825
11 ай бұрын
Thanks for this video I’m yet to go through a divorce when I have the funds to do so from my ex husband of 7 years we were married for 4 years and together for a total of 7 years he decided he wanted to date my best friend of 19 years me and her have stopped talking because she’s become distant and nasty and it’s a real struggle right now to deal with and I don’t know how best to cope with the reality of both things
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
Sending you love. Thinking of you❤️
@Pillowkasmr
11 ай бұрын
Your whisper is incredible, so relaxing 🥰If you are interested, I also make ASMR videos ❤
@lisajett4986
10 ай бұрын
🌻💛
@Anishaaaaa1998
11 ай бұрын
I wish you were my elder sister 💖😢
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
I’m your internet big sister ☺️
@mmmmmili4534
10 ай бұрын
I feel like you’re my big sister 🥰💖
@gurnoorgill3371
10 ай бұрын
🤍🤍🤍
@nicole-q5
10 ай бұрын
Sam I would really like if you can tallk about family relation with your ex (bf/husband/ wife/ partner) since it feels a little bit mean to me to block or errase them but is going to be also painful por you
@TechGuru-ij6zi
11 ай бұрын
❤
@jackpatrickfoster
11 ай бұрын
first 😊
@ThePathOfLeastResistanc
10 ай бұрын
You need a drink of water
@GreyHunley-gw1lv
10 ай бұрын
Who cheat on you
@JessicaLescarbeault
10 ай бұрын
Unless you're gay, then you're still friends with your exes from like 15 years ago and y'all have dated the same girls and ya'll are all friends with one another 😅
@erikguddal9559
10 ай бұрын
Why would you go to Seattle? I live in Seattle. It’s disgusting: unless it’s for work, save your money sista.
@softasmr
10 ай бұрын
Super encouraging thank you 😂
@laurenb61119
10 ай бұрын
This video could not have come at a more perfect time. Thanks for the “ big sister” advice Sam🩷
@mrslischa
11 ай бұрын
If I lived closer to you I would’ve loved to be your friend, but I live in Sweden so I’m happy to just watch your videos instead! Also; I loved your energy in the last celebrity gossip video and was laughing so hard at your “deal with it” comment because it was so out of character for you to say😂 hope everything is well, and I agree you seem to be the best version of yourself after your breakup! You’ve grown so much these past couple of months! And you deserve so much better! thank you for a new video, hugs!🧡
@blan88s76
11 ай бұрын
been there, done that. yea, it seems easy now cuz it's been 8 years and I'm happily married now. but I do relate to the begging thing. that was my lowest point also. I then went to a few therapy sessions and slowly I built myself back up. crying also helped, I never cried so much in my life. It gets better, it will get better and you will be fine.
@tanktop25
11 ай бұрын
I remember taking long baths as my form of healing. Milk baths, salt baths and lots of sleep let me begin the healing. I can still remember the pain of letting go of the dreams I made with this person. Going no contact is key you're right, you have to move on.
@francesca1582
2 ай бұрын
for the past 3 weeks i’ve been going through a breakup with my first love and first relationship. I’m only 18 and i’d always heard about breakups and how painful they were but you never really know until you experience it yourself. I watch this video nearly everyday since the breakup and it has brought me more comfort than you know so thankyou. I would love to hear more about what advice you have for the healing process in a future video if that’s something you’d be open to!
@Neptunes_Winds
11 ай бұрын
Appreciate you opening yourself up for us. I'm not going through anything right now but there lot of important themes here and it's good to have an authentic take on them. Thank you 🙌🏽
@zachmartin6519
11 ай бұрын
I normally don't look to KZitemrs for advice, (in fact it usually annoys me a little) but I've got to say I have been watching your content more intently since you've made this shift (and I've been subscribed for several years). I look forward to hearing your thoughts on things. I think its because its been so enjoyable to watch you find and develop your voice and the way that you obviously feel called to speak and share these things. It's just been great to watch you grow into it. Keep up the great work!
@lauramarchant9636
10 ай бұрын
I keep coming back to this video since you posted it - it is so beautifully articulated and you really nail every single point. So relatable, so helpful, thank you!! Would LOVE to see a follow up video. Like after the initial break up what was your experience continuing to heal and grow in the following months. Love you!
@FreyaASMR
10 ай бұрын
I adore these videos so much, the positive energy, the big sister / best friends vibe, the relaxing whispers, it’s just so perfect & such a safe space 🤍
@softasmr
10 ай бұрын
🤍🤍🤍
@sairachacon9412
11 ай бұрын
Its so insane how we can see how they can hurt us and do all these terrible things and somehow STILL want and crave them 😢 Going through this now… He has caused me so much pain during this breakup and somehow still want this person back in my life… I begged as well, now im on week 1 of no contact and finally starting to feel a little better! This video was so good Sam, especially for us going through the heartbreak!
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
I’m so proud of you!!! Keep going babe!
@valerie1982666
10 ай бұрын
I've recently got out of a 6.5 year relationship with a narcissist. I was cheated on.. physically, emotionally, verbally, Financially abused and he out he's hands on me for the last time last week. He did it on front of my 5 month old baby . Her little face when he hit me was what made me say Enough!!! I'm going through the up and down emotion but the freedom I have, is worth it.
@jaflo1562
7 ай бұрын
so proud of you!!
@caseystab1937
11 ай бұрын
Ok while I feel horrible that you know so much yourself about heartbreak, I am absolutely thrilled that someone asked you to do this video!!!!! My girlfriend & I (lesbian relationship) just broke up after almost 20 months together, & I’ve been struggling every day! You already know I love you on both channels & Patreon (I have to resubscribe, tomorrow’s payday) and I’m so grateful to have this for tonight when I get home tonight after work!
@itsivana2060
11 ай бұрын
Hope you feel better soon 😊
@softasmr
11 ай бұрын
Thinking of you and sending you love 🫶🏼
@caseystab1937
11 ай бұрын
@@softasmr thanks girl! You make this easier for me, especially tonight… I can’t wait to get home and listen
@caseystab1937
11 ай бұрын
Settling love and healing! I’m grateful for you!!!!
@victoriamovsisyan
10 ай бұрын
@@caseystab1937 Sending you 🤗 dear and i understand you since I went though the breakup with my boyfriend long ago
@vyvyboston
10 ай бұрын
I have a question. What if your ex knows your KZitem channel? Can you block them from viewing your videos? Especially you mention you don’t want them access your things.
@softasmr
10 ай бұрын
He knows about it. But KZitem is a public platform and I have nothing to hide so I’m ok with it
@KaelenB
10 ай бұрын
This is great advice and insight! Love to see this content from you, I hope you feel encouraged to do this more ❤
@danieljeyaraj001
11 ай бұрын
Longest Hugs To You Sam... May Only Good Things Happen To You... Love Love Lots Of Love...🎉🎉🎉
@belikeher429
10 ай бұрын
Remembering it’s okay to reminisce! Once you get to a place where you can look back on pieces of your relationship fondly- you’re allowed to 💛. But also try to distinguish the good feelings of going through old memories from wanting to get back together with someone ☠️
@AnaGonzalez-ev4tf
11 ай бұрын
as someone who went through the worst breakup almost 5 months ago, with someone i was with since i was 15 i really needed this ❤️ i am now 20 and slowly finding myself again and no contact definitely helped. i finally realized someone who hurts or betrays you is not the one for you and even though it hurts something better will come.
@DarkNasty
11 ай бұрын
I been devastated over a friendship breakup. Because it was someone I wanted to be with. But for the sake of my sanity it was the literal best decision to part ways with this person no matter how much it hurts. Because it wasn’t worth the suffering I was going through wanting to commit with someone that belong to someone else. That was my bad. I was having feelings for her before she disclose she’s in a relationship. And it went downhill from there. This was just somebody I admired, and thought we were creating a very strong friendship. Someone whom I supported for years. Albeit on the internet so that’s the first thing. Lacking socializing. Lacking getting my own life together. You threw some advices, and truth that I need to work on. Pretty much saying everything I needed to hear/do. Because I been sort of felling into depression. Or questioning wether or not I’ll ever receive a romantic relationship in my lifetime. And I’m notorious for not letting go of my past, and holding into the things that hurt me. And it’s horrible even though I recognized someone I liked to chat/supported there videos wasn’t benefiting me anymore. I try to convince myself she wouldn’t be right for me anyway. The writing was on the wall when the drama got worsen when I attempted to apologize. And being blocked after I gave up. But being block was the best outcome for the sake of avoiding her entirely. I even regretted wondering what she posts knowing she was dating, and it wrecked my mind. Especially knowing our problems weren’t resolved fully. Bottomline, I wasn’t in the best place. I didn’t love myself enough that’s for darn certain. I haven’t gotten myself in the right place. Heck, I’m not even content with myself. That shouldn’t be the case. I keep searching for the woman before I’m ever happy with myself.
@macsasmrx
11 ай бұрын
Solid advice! Going no contact is soooooo important. Nothing disrupts your healing like a “just checking in” text.
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