First of all, I totally get not opening the front door when it’s you and the baby. I do the same thing. If I’m not expecting someone I just won’t answer the door. And second, definitely not the a*hole! I would’ve done the same. If someone doesn’t answer the door, you don’t automatically go through their stuff. How weird. Glad you were ok and it was nothing more serious 🤍
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Linda! ❤️
@samsgirl4138
2 ай бұрын
No no no! You did everything right! I would be out of my mind with anxiety 😬. You never know these days. The police should be well aware of that!
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes! I was definitely pretty rattled by it all! 😬You’d think they would understand, but I guess not out where I live.
@JadeBacon100
3 ай бұрын
you’re not, i feel like no one else outside of your husband understood what it’s like being a women alone with her kids at night or at anytime. its a better safe then sorry situation and u handled it well. don’t feel bad at all!
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes so true! Definitely feel more vulnerable when it’s just me and the baby ❤️ Thank you so much.
@Am-tu8yz
3 ай бұрын
You are most definitely not the A HOLE!! I would have been so scared! You did nothing wrong girl
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️
@beatricejohnson6589
2 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry this happened that’s really scary!! Especially if they’ve been watching for a while and they know you’re alone home by yourself. You did the RIGHT THING! Because you don’t know who they are or what their intentions are and we live in such scary times at the moment. Just so you know, you’re not alone. The first week of us moving into the country we had a man we didn’t know walk onto the property snd go around every door and window on the house and bash and try to get in while shouting. It was really scary and I bought several cameras an hour later (I watched him from my window and turns out he was our neighbour who we hadn’t even met yet! Scary big dude) Anyways I made it very clear about a week later when he tried to speak to me that there was cameras on the property and we had filmed what he did; he’s not come near since thankfully. Anyways I’m very tired so I apologise if I haven’t made much sense but the fact is that men take advantage of the fact that women will be intimidated by them because they’re physically unable to handle themselves (unless u have firearms ofc but that’s a whole other thing), anyways. Scrap metal sounds like a premeditated excuse. Be very careful please. Wishing you all the best!!
@beatricejohnson6589
2 ай бұрын
Also I’m sure you know but sometimes in small towns it’s more frequent that police are in on groups (cuts of robberies etc) and stuff so please insist as you did in the future and don’t let them tell you otherwise :”)
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness! That is so scary and I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m glad you are okay and the cameras have stopped it from happening again. It’s sad, our neighbors are supposed to watch out for us, not the other way around. 😞 Good point about people watching and knowing when I’m home alone! I didn’t even think of that, but it is definitely something good to be aware of ❤️
@sarahglover4366
2 ай бұрын
I'll be honest even in the day time I won't answer if a man is at the door and it's just me and my kids. I won't answer for anyone at night. My thing is "is it worth the risk to me and/or my kids" I'd rather people think I'm dramatic than be the person a news story is about.
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes! I totally agree ❤️ Better safe than sorry always!
@adrianaspeis
2 ай бұрын
Definitely NTA! Gotta follow your instincts and keep yourself safe! Even if these people didn’t have malicious intent (besides maybe stealing your metal?) it was very suspicious circumstance and you did what you could to be safe! What an odd thing to do at night Also, they’re lucky you didn’t have/use a gun! Could’ve ended very badly.
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes! ❤️ Always better safe than sorry. Definitely not a very safe thing to be doing, they could’ve found themselves in a much worse situation!
@madzzworldASMR
2 ай бұрын
I would do the same we live in such a scary world! Can’t trust anyone. You for sure did the right thing plus it’s not like he came out and explained like my car is stuck in gear lol
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes! ❤️ The world is so scary now and we just don’t know what people’s motives are.
@adrianaspeis
2 ай бұрын
How scary!! I had two incidents at my old apartment complex. Not sure if it was the same person but it was very early in the morning (2-5 am both times) and I heard a knock at the door. The first time, I thought it may be my mom because my dog had surgery the night before and perhaps something went wrong but I called and asked and she said it wasn’t her. I was practically frozen in fear. The knocked turned into banging on my door and they started jiggling the door knob. I was so scared they were going to break in. It happened again a few months later but this time I had a camera. So weird. Police never did anything about it.
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Oh my goodness! That is so scary. I’m glad you are okay. ❤️ I would’ve freaked out when they started jiggling the door knob. Cameras are definitely a good safety measure and a good deterrent!
@GuiRibeirao-
2 ай бұрын
0:00 - gum chewing.
@MoviesGuitarMusic
2 ай бұрын
Rummaging through dumpsters at night looks sus... if this were a true crime and you'd opened, ppl would have said why the heck did she open. So def the right move!
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes that’s what I thought! 🤍
@Avaprincess8600
3 ай бұрын
Omg this is HORRIFYING… im so sorry you went through that. Also why TF are they on your property like this is so messed up and the cop sucks so bad. This just made me so angry for you
@Avaprincess8600
3 ай бұрын
And the fact that you had to explain to the cop why you want these freaking weirdo strangers off your property is insane… I would’ve went ape sh*t Karen mode lol
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes! I totally felt a little like a Karen, but sometimes you just have to be! ☺️ Thank you so much for watching ❤️
@droneadventuresuk8924
2 ай бұрын
😮
@eavye95
2 ай бұрын
No way NTA at all! I don't blame you for being freaked out, I would've been too, my husband works nights too, so I don't blame you.
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes it is definitely scary when something like this happens when you’re home alone or just with the kids! ❤️
@jmedz9
Ай бұрын
Girl. Do NOT ever feel bad about calling 911 if you feel uneasy.. trust your mama-senses! It’s NOT your job to make these random strangers feel comfortable & it’s NOT your job to care about them.. you have a baby to care for first & foremost!! Also.. don’t ever let any man -law enforcement or not minimize your feelings/instincts .. you DO NOT have to apologize for “overreacting” (in their opinion). Be that “crazy bitch” they talk about after work bc at least you & your baby are safe.. they’ll get over it & if not, oh well
@samimarieasmr
Ай бұрын
Yes exactly ❤️ That’s what they are there for right! Thank you so much ❤️
@PrincessPanamaFelange
2 ай бұрын
I don't answer the door for people I know . That rural law enforcement officer probably makes 24k a year, if he's lucky. You get what you can for what you pay. My life experiences taught me to be leary of people. My friend and I have a saying, Zone Defense. When we would go to Mardi Gras or to the Quarter to party, we would look at each other and say Zone Defense. Defend the Zone...our zone..read the plays around you. Lastly, when ya livin rural , and I do ,lookin for scrap is code for lookin for meth after we sell the scrap. Don't answer the door and bring your dog with you. Also, where is your husband's shotgun? 99.99% people livin rural have a shotgun, "deer" rifle, Paw Paw's ole .22.
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Yes! It is definitely wise to be leary of people and to be aware of your surroundings. I also had a few people mention that is what happens a lot of times with scrappers unfortunately. Thanks for watching ❤️
@sheelfjohnson
26 күн бұрын
No. 🙃 That cop was inappropriate. They should not have been on your property. And he should not have been trying to guilt you for reporting them. The cop is definitely the AH, as well as the guys going onto your property. 🙄 Maybe a "Do Not Trespass" sign would be good to have.
@samimarieasmr
23 күн бұрын
Yes I totally agree! Now I see why people have to put up signs! Thanks for watching ❤️
@TheWendigo73
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for the upload! I dont think youre an a*****e!❤️
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@Nicktrick87
3 ай бұрын
Hate the gum chewing, couldn’t even listen
@alkalurops7098
3 ай бұрын
I loved it. Your gum chewing is what makes it so much better.
@Meowcraft09
2 ай бұрын
@@alkalurops7098ikr
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Thank you! ❤️
@samimarieasmr
2 ай бұрын
Don’t worry! I will do non-gum chewing videos too. Just throwing some gum chewing in here and there for the people that like it. ☺️
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