I just want to say that Hongjoong handled this really well as the leader
@azver3934
3 жыл бұрын
He always does
@sumedha1342
3 жыл бұрын
Hongjoong best leader!!! Hongjoong best boi!! 😁
@catsaresuperior2004
3 жыл бұрын
he’s so mature!
@yeonology8525
3 жыл бұрын
and Seonghwa helped as well, but yes, they both did a great job at handling the situation!
@thusharaherath9047
3 жыл бұрын
Great leader
@halanbts8838
4 жыл бұрын
Poor san just wanted to make yeosang feel better and he said them 3 can hang out together but he was attacked 😭💔😂😂
@brit7627
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@treasure7192
3 жыл бұрын
San be like : *i said that just wanted to make the situation better, didn't expected to get attacked like this-*
@lisalopez3505
3 жыл бұрын
I also feel bad for yeosang but at the same time I feel bad for san because it seems to me that san is being attacked and also this breaks my heart because san was quite for a while like he was sad and other things but I do love all members equally ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@ayumaharjan
3 жыл бұрын
@@lisalopez3505 same I feel bad but this the only way they can be more comfortable as a team. And it’s not about san think about yeosang too
@saffronlemonious5207
3 жыл бұрын
I can empathize with the three of them Wooyoung is naturally a friendly person so I mean it’s easy for him to make friends and get close to them for his friendship with San based on videos and pictures he looks closer to him than yeosang he’s always with him gravitates to him more like they are always together I mean friendship isn’t determined by how long you know a person but by the bond. However for yeosang I can understand why he did what he did I mean it’s a group he wants to be the same with everyone and not show favoritism (that’s literally what woo and San always does and that’s fine for them but yeosang isn’t like that) he knows that woo is his best friend/friend so OF COURSE it’s going to hurt seeing his friend get closer to someone else. Now for San he just made a friend that turnt into his best friend there is nothing wrong with that 🤷🏽♀️
@mochimmy3724
4 жыл бұрын
Yunho enjoying the tea 😂😂
@melanytanase1274
4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry, I'm new, Yunho is the one in the middle, in the costume of Santa Claus?
@melanytanase1274
4 жыл бұрын
Oh, or the one dressed in black in the right corner?
@koyasbunnies
4 жыл бұрын
Melany Tănase hes santa
@melanytanase1274
4 жыл бұрын
@@koyasbunnies aw, thank you ^^
@mirimke4163
4 жыл бұрын
@@melanytanase1274 Jongho is the one in the right with black clothes (he is the youngest)
@noctrnalvi
4 жыл бұрын
jongho being a therapist for 6 minutes straight
@jinlaughs1991
4 жыл бұрын
As an introvert like Yeosang, and a person who's been through the same thing as Yeosang. I know how it hurts. I think the reason he gave short replies to woo is that he wanted attention. When my friend used to leave me out and sometime later come talk to me I'd always give her short replies, I did this because I knew my friend would say "what's wrong?" as soon as she saw me quiet. In all honesty, I did it because I wanted attention, I wanted her to worry about me instead of someone else, even for a tiny moment. I wanted to see if she cared and noticed I was a bit off, I think Yeosang did the same.
@ekrlyr
4 жыл бұрын
same
@3AMShan
4 жыл бұрын
Same
@taracotta8950
3 жыл бұрын
Same, it’s like a strategy because they don’t have anything to say to you
@khaoulabouanani9710
3 жыл бұрын
Aww girl 🥺 I'm sending you a virtual hug ʕっ•ᴥ•ʔっ
@kamilla2451
3 жыл бұрын
Sometimes it's better to address the issue rather than to make small implications which can be not understood or can be considered in the wrong way.. like here.
@laigilian
4 жыл бұрын
Whenever I see this video I really felt bad for yeosang
@Jasminekuwonu
4 жыл бұрын
Same this video randomly came in my head
@velvetiny7307
3 жыл бұрын
Same :(
@catmoneymarket7872
3 жыл бұрын
I think this is related to the personality type of both, my understanding is that Yeosang is an introvert and both San and Wooyoung are extroverts so of course is gonna be difficult for him to integrate and also he had a point of explaining why he wanted to have a relationship with all the members. At the end I think both parts clear the situation and the hug at the end was just too precious 💕💕💕
@yeonkie8i109
3 жыл бұрын
This is the second time I'm watching this and this is the second time that I'm crying
@saffronlemonious5207
3 жыл бұрын
@Manahil Chaudhry that’s true
@rin4151
3 жыл бұрын
i hate the way extroverts would never understand introverts feelings they simply assume we are doing sumn wrong there 😭
@babypink2569
3 жыл бұрын
I have the type of character like woo (extrovert). The people like us need for some honest clarification or sharing our feeling for know each other more. If they didn't sharing their feeling for us, the type like me or woo didn't understand what's going on with this. This like, we aren't sensitive enough, it's really so hard to the type of character like us to understand what's going on if he/she didn't talked about their feeling, seriously this is so hard even if we thinking about this all night and even this will missunderstanding for the other problematic things like in the video. we need some honest clarification or sharing for the other feeling like they do in the video.. that's why joong,yunho,jongho,san,mingi and seonghwa know about yeosang feeling but woo didn't know about it cause his character is like that, he didn't sensitive enough. Almost of the extrovert people absolutely like that. And woo is the extrovert ones. I know it's hard for the introvert people to become honest on their feeling but let's just try it, try to trust your friend more that he/she really love you and always accept you whatever your feeling to him/her.. the real friend always try to understand character of each other, and try to clearing or sharing their feeling to each other.. ❤
@jugalkishoregupta2566
3 жыл бұрын
@@babypink2569 thank you for saying this, this is me. I felt a bit offended reading the comment but also understood. I've told my sister a few times before that I wouldn't know what's going on in a person's mind if they don't say it to me directly regarding any misunderstanding etc etc. I keep thinking about what may be wrong bc the person seems off, and then it frustrates me. I'm glad someone understands!
@heavenlywooyoung1496
3 жыл бұрын
@@babypink2569 thankyou for this omg I don't realize myself like this even though i know i am an extrovert
@montseanguiano3093
2 жыл бұрын
Thats true but then again its not woos fault either. It was just a big misunderstanding they both had woo thought yeosang didnt care about him as much and found someone he can be more open too while yeosang just wanted to make sure the members didnt feel intimated by them. So i just know if they had better communication skills this wouldve never happen but im also glad it happened earlier then later and it also helped them learn and understand eachother more.
@_sf_jay4460
Жыл бұрын
@@babypink2569 omg this is so good thankx for explanation btw I'm introvert I same mbta with yeosang don't like sharing ppl what I like or I hate I'm always normal idk what I do where I beginning I can't even share my family how about another ppl or besties such idiot person
@mbxo__5936
3 жыл бұрын
I dislike when yeosang is painted as a bitter jealous person. He’s such a sweet guy, he’s introverted and that’s great. Anyone would feel a bit disappointed when their best friend ignores them, but he never blamed san.
@Kalakeiko
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. It's ridiculous that Yeosang got so much hate or that any of them got blamed for feeling hurt or left out and I wish they would've just discussed this off camera and not during a vlive, even though I'm glad that Hongjoong and Seonghwa handled the situation so well.
@wiseasspenny1447
4 жыл бұрын
Yunho looks like he's there for the tea
@_sf_jay4460
Жыл бұрын
I like whe I see yuyu comments Cs another comments make ma crazy😭😭🤌😂
@sal1051
4 жыл бұрын
I actually teared up watching this, both of them got hurt because they value each other so much.
@deepti9458
3 жыл бұрын
Samee
@san_shine0768
3 жыл бұрын
Same
@anotherdayanotherslay8908
2 жыл бұрын
Same
@youcantseeme2567
2 жыл бұрын
😭
@soloshining2313
3 жыл бұрын
If i were yeosang i would cry tho while explaining it 😭
@aiur2009
3 жыл бұрын
same tbh LMFAO i cant handle being on blast about things like that
@jminaj3467
3 жыл бұрын
@@aiur2009 RIGHTT to talk about something as sensitive as that I wouldn’t even be able to get a word out with stuttering and all you see if snot coming out with tears
@haleyunho
2 жыл бұрын
ONG ID BE A MESS
@rominaescudero3372
2 жыл бұрын
I’m pretty sure yeosang would have cried too because he probably is used to hold his emotions on camera. As an introvert I do face myself wanting to cry but I just hold myself hard cuz I don’t like people to watch me cry.
@yeowooz
2 жыл бұрын
i think it was a hard time for him bcs he's not used to situations like that, he keeps all in himself. But he handled the situation so well and blamed himself for everything :) i don't know how much he's hurt, but he faced this situation strongly and i admire him for that. Just remembered San once said "Yeosang always puts others first no matter what" 💔
@izzyzle
4 жыл бұрын
hongjoong was just cracking up during this whole conversation
@شوحيارا
4 жыл бұрын
WooYoung hugging Yeosang make me :'(
@layonpluto
4 жыл бұрын
San looked so uncomfortable the whole time
@chocojaem
4 жыл бұрын
Antriimx I mean, this is a serious situation so they have to sort it out
@Mario-hx1bh
4 жыл бұрын
Bcz he felt guilty I think I was in the same situation one time ... here u just don't want to be the main reason.. that your best friends arguing or feeling sad because of you It's hurt uk
@iloveduckies7075
4 жыл бұрын
It's Like Being The Other Woman But Not Knowing You Are lol
@chocojaem
4 жыл бұрын
CowsAreCool Don't Lie I-
@waziharahman24
3 жыл бұрын
Ofc lmao I felt exactly what all three of them felt. In my eyes here, San seemed very embarassed but you could tell he sorta felt sad thinking about woosang being close again after the thingy was addressed. San is way too attached to Woo, he sorta wants him all to himself. They're both codependent on e/o one way or the other and i feel him. (Though I know it's wrong myself) That's is natural to feel sometimes, you get carried on unknowingly. But this whole discussion just had to be done. One must not be selfish too and try to see stuff from other's pov ksksjs idk what I was tryna prove here I'm sleep deprived and tired from crying lol-
@aurore_14
3 жыл бұрын
“Even Atiny knows this” Atiny: 👁👄👁
@amie6221
3 жыл бұрын
we do
@dinxtiny8813
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe Hongjoong meant the senior atiny. The atinys before Ateez were debut or around that year. If you watch code name Ateez (before debut era), Wooyoung and Yeosang are really close 🥺 and you can barely see any woosan actually
@evavigiani6857
2 жыл бұрын
@@dinxtiny8813 tat's true, but i've noticed that after this live things changed. i mean they are a group an sometimes misunderstandings happen
@dalandandan387
4 жыл бұрын
Well, i almost cried... I feel Yeosang:
@luvie2671
4 жыл бұрын
I'm not crying, you are🤧 I've seen many of these on Pinterest, but i didn't see the whole vid. Every time i see woosan i'm like:aww❤ but then yeosang comes in my mind. And i'm like poor yeosang. But i do ship woosan tho🤧 but i feel bad for yeosang🤧
@daphne-bai
3 жыл бұрын
Yep ;; I know it’s not necessarily that deep but man do I feel for Yeosang. I know how hard it is to make friends as an introvert: you’re bound to get attached to them over time, and then it hurts when they make other, newer friends who start taking up what used to be your time with them. Yeosang’s a kind person, so he’s clearly being pragmatic about his feelings and saying that he doesn’t want to be biased and that he hopes that they all share strong relationships... I could never be mad at WooSan but if I was in Yeosang’s place I’d be acting so passive aggressive lmaooo
@twicesheart8104
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry but after hearing this I realize I hate yeosang
@luvie2671
3 жыл бұрын
@@twicesheart8104 why?
@minminnnn
3 жыл бұрын
@@twicesheart8104 lmao you're going and hating under all the comments, do you not have anything better to do?
@toyafan0111
3 жыл бұрын
yeosang definitely has major type 9 behaviour, keeping his feelings in so it wouldn’t affect the social harmony of the team
@youseebiggirl9694
3 жыл бұрын
rIGHT
@bassbabs6500
2 жыл бұрын
as someone who is like that, it hurts because people are always assuming that you are fine and don't need the same treatment as the other friends. friendship-wise everyone is family, but actions wise i am the one that doesn't recieve much skinship, together time, outings etc. im the one clicking the photos/recording but not the one my friends go out of their way to get a photo with-i always have to ask/get in. people dont go out of their way for me. ive had to deal with not being the priority and asking to be included. its all because i never share when they upset me or make me feel left out because a-firstly im an introvert so they wouldn't understand my concerns and the way i take things in and b-i know it will make things awkward. if i cry about how they dont do much with me, then when they do fix their behaviour, it'll feel forced, because the way i see it is if you really wanted to spend time with me, you wouldve done it without me having to ask. and who am i to be jealous of everyone else because i am happy for them. being type 9 is a burden because you understand things so deeply you put your self last because its easy to convince yourself that things are the way they by their intention and the whole dynamic cant be destroyed by a sensitive person. like imagine being the cause of a whole group walking on eggshell around you...
@toyafan0111
2 жыл бұрын
@@bassbabs6500 awh I’m so sorry, I can relate to how you feel… I’m also a type 9 and I really really relate to when it’ll feel forced, I’m really shy I still want attention and affection from friends but they don’t notice so then I’ll isolate myself and do the things I like alone… sigh type 9 life
@fancyfroy
4 жыл бұрын
ok this is out of topic but i like the way hongjoong trying to solve the issue here and hes the one that explain yeosang's feelings before yeosang answer it. the leader position really suits him 😭 he knows what happen between the 3 of them and he explain it very well 😭 goodjob hongjoong 🥺 i hope they can do this 'counselling time' more often in future cuz sometimes atiny wanted to know about them too and its good to see they talk about each other like this 💗
@samcarmen
3 жыл бұрын
oof. yeosang didn't want to make the others uncomfortable so he distanced himself from wooyoung so he could also befriend the others. wooyoung intern ran to san and they clicked like puzzle pieces. that kind of backfired on yeosang. yeosang had to watch his bestfriend become bestfriends with someone else. the whole "amicus ad aras" and "woosan best unit" thing must have hurt in the beginning. hopefully it is better now and woosansang can coexist.
@minkiway8859
4 жыл бұрын
I've seen so many compilation videos about San being jealous when Wooyoung gets touchy with other members but if you'll deeply look at it, Yeosang might also feel sad about it. Let's not only think about San's feelings, let's also understand Yeosang's.
@mariagracemorales9163
4 жыл бұрын
I agree my friend some people ship woosan soo much that they react when woo is getting touchy with other members and say SAN IS JEALOUS!! C'mon yall how about Yeosang's feelings???
@nuf2emit
4 жыл бұрын
@@mariagracemorales9163 ikr!!!! they don't care about yeosang. i feel so sorry for him because he can't express how much he adores wooyoung as much as he wants too :((
@immuu6376
4 жыл бұрын
wooyoung and san spend more time together bcs they just met so they have a lot of things to say, they need to know eatch other better,etc... While wooyoung probably trusts and feels more comfortable with yeosang. That is it
@minkiway8859
4 жыл бұрын
@@catebenedict3516 that's true. I was literally a WooSan ship before that video came out. But when they opened up this topic on their Vlive, I suddenly felt sad for Yeosang especially when Hj (or Seonghwa) said that "when there is a team work, Yeosang will look at Wooyoung but Wooyoung will look for San". Of course, Yeosang will expect Wooyoung to team up with him coz they're friends for like 5 or 6 years. That's why I'm kind of not okay to see WooSan being together after what happened (but i'm not against WooSan).
@minkiway8859
4 жыл бұрын
@@immuu6376 I understand your opinion and I'm not against WooSan. But Wooyoung should at least know what Yeosang will feel for targeting him like that. Just like what they said, even ATINY knew about this matter except for Wooyoung. Woo also said that Yeo already knew that he loves him but just like what Seonghwa said, your friend will never know if you don't express it. Everyone's fine with WooSan being clingy and spending time with each other, but what everyone couldn't accept is that when they needed to team up, Yeosang will look at Woo (expecting to team up with him) but Woo ended up on looking at San.
@keerthiravi863
4 жыл бұрын
2:47 san did a bowl flip
@spontanuhui7841
4 жыл бұрын
Why tf am I crying over this???
@simpforjennie9144
3 жыл бұрын
Me too . This hurt's more than a broke up
@softsquishysuga
3 жыл бұрын
Your pfp matches your comment LMAO
@aiur2009
3 жыл бұрын
maybe because u empathize with yeosang/experienced what he experienced??? idk just a guess LMAOAOAO
@ali-vu3jy
3 жыл бұрын
@@aiur2009 you’re exactly right, I feel like we’ve all been in yeosang’s position before
@p1ecewho
3 жыл бұрын
@@softsquishysuga PLSSA
@nayakhalisha4978
4 жыл бұрын
their friendship just really amazing and sweet😭😭😭
@timothybradbury1071
4 жыл бұрын
Yes
@ayamkelamaxanyana7513
3 жыл бұрын
Wooyoung even the fans noticed 😂😂I'm glad Jongho explained the situation and how Yeosang must've felt
I would feel the same honestly, this shitty situation happened to me but sadly I never got my friend back oof. I hope their friendship will last forever.
@yeowooz
4 жыл бұрын
@@KK-et5cc Same:)) I've lost my bestfriend and saw her being bestfriends with someone other so i can feel it. It hurts:)))
@deekshabhamidipati2368
4 жыл бұрын
Poor baby San just there....getting dragged in the middle
@deneisha6400
4 жыл бұрын
Well that’s how it be sometimes
@deekshabhamidipati2368
4 жыл бұрын
@@deneisha6400 why is this so funny 😂
@deneisha6400
4 жыл бұрын
Deeksha Bhamidipati sdjdkdk I tried to be 😂
@khloeeworld4l416
3 жыл бұрын
“poor San”
@xoaazy
3 жыл бұрын
@@khloeeworld4l416 why quotes?
@pampin2484
4 жыл бұрын
4:11 yunho's reaction lmao
@rhaixxi
3 жыл бұрын
and mingi's XD
@valerialedezma287
3 жыл бұрын
HE HAD NO RIGHT LMAOO
@kirbykookies9804
2 жыл бұрын
I love how after this live yeosang and san started becoming closer and they started doing more things together (both with each other and as a trio with wooyoung)
@msb5775
2 жыл бұрын
1:10 I think this is the most physically expressive I’ve ever seen Yeo Sang. His actions really speak louder than words and I think that’s why he chose to simply distance himself from Wooyoung rather than talking it out. However Wooyoung wasn’t picking up on those signals the same way everyone else was, probably because he’s caught up in his own world and not able to put himself in Yeo Sang’s shoes. I’m glad they were able to talk it out here because it wouldn’t have happened without the others present
@fanacc_7419
4 жыл бұрын
what kdrama is this
@3AMShan
4 жыл бұрын
I’m saying🤣🤣🤣
@k-addictt6315
3 жыл бұрын
Woosansang
@ryazuko8850
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@ambraosadiaye1639
3 жыл бұрын
An ateez triangle love story ❤ 💕
@kaynivora3795
2 жыл бұрын
Yeosang is actually really thoughtful. I admire him for that trait.
@tatiadavina4670
3 жыл бұрын
We introverts know what yeosang was doing trying to play it off like he was acting hurt when hongjoong was talking about "yeosang looks at wooyoung but then wooyoung looks at san" part. He really was hurt and I think he appreciated how the members explained what they observed but wanted to play it off so it wouldn't become too emotional. As an introvert, I would be SO thankful if someone did that for me in midst of an misunderstanding because there were so many times people i knew kept to themselves and didnt even try to explain it when they also knew there was a problem. It helps us feel like we're not alone and that feeling is enough to give us courage to speak sincerely.
@Kai-xy1pv
3 жыл бұрын
When Wooyoung hugged Yeosang, I felt like crying.
@joohyunmisser8719
Жыл бұрын
woosansang: the love triangle 99z and the maknae: the mediators and therapists yungi: here for the tea
@subsubinie1126
3 жыл бұрын
San was being silent tho and he look so freaking terrible here 😭😭 Why was this conversation were getting deeper and deeper. I’m crying my soul! 😭
@wahyualtair4259
4 жыл бұрын
Y all should go to vlive and watch the full version 🤣🤣🤣 because the whole video is about ateez jealousy to each other. But, imho the main point is, they got jealous because everyone is interested in each other. And that's good, really :3. It's in their christmas 2019 vlive. It's super interesting to watch. Btw, the way hongjoong handle every situation is impressive. As expected from best leader :3 :3 :3
@zl2240
3 жыл бұрын
I kinda adore the fact that they're such close friends that they get jealous overall each other hanging out with others. You can really see their chemistry. Also HJ is just straight up one of the best leaders in Kpop, he's so emotionally intelligent and kind. I love our babies :(((((
@christiekang4878
3 жыл бұрын
A lot of people took this situation out of context and actually made it seem much more serious than it was. Of course we don’t know what really goes on behind the cameras but during the whole video, the atmosphere was actually really lighthearted and it was just the members displaying cute jealousy towards one another.
@sageyankton4219
3 жыл бұрын
Yeosang handled it so well not blaming anyone i think he didnt want anyone to feel bad, in his mind he's probably like "its kinda my fault cause i didnt tell the members we were close" even though it isnt cause if they knew they would put them together all the time, He wanted him and woo to get close to all the members
@DarkCyradis
3 жыл бұрын
That awkward transition when your long-time BFF gets a significant other and you have to figure out how to recede in your BFF's life without losing them entirely... Poor Yeosangie...
@crystalm3th573
Жыл бұрын
ATEEZ is the only group where eldest is like a cute curious child and the Maknae is the mature serious one 😂
@shreya-xj8jz
2 жыл бұрын
Another reason i feel bad for other than the obvious is how smiley yeosang was when he heard wooyoung had something to say to him before he realised what it was 😭
@apple_jaxx
9 ай бұрын
Honestly, Wooyoung didn't even realize what he had done until other people told him. That tells me that if it were not for Yeosang holding onto him that their friendship probably would have grown apart a long time ago. What finally happened is that Yeosang was prepared to let go. Yes he would have remained professional and cordial, but he was closing himself off to Wooyoung. That says a lot about how deeply he cares for him. Because you want the person you care about to be happy, even if it is at your own expense. Yeosang was totally willing to suffer in silence if it meant that Wooyoung would be happier being closest to San. But Wooyoung noticed Yeosang slipping away. I can't imagine how many nights Yeosang sat and was angry or sad or cried before he got to the point where he gave up.
@baxundhara
3 ай бұрын
this made me cry 😭 seeing your best friend of so many years kinda drifting away and you finally deciding to let go of them for their own happiness must hurt a lot
@shurikenmoo.0366
4 жыл бұрын
San must feel awkward being in between.And at the end he just said them three to hang out together.
@ladiesandgerms3895
3 жыл бұрын
fr he said "let's hang out together" and they attacked(not seriously lol) him lmfao i feel bad for him 😭
@catsaresuperior2004
2 жыл бұрын
san is my bias but i feel so sorry for yeosang and i am kinda frustrated how the comment section are more worried about san looking uncomfortable than yeosang’s feelings, imagine how uncomfortable yeosang must have felt when woosan are constantly affectionate and close with each other in front of him ? please consider yeosang’s feelings too
@seonghwaha557
2 жыл бұрын
It's not wooyoung and san's fault to be friends now.. Yeosang doesn't own wooyoung just because he became his friend first.. Wooyoung is literally friends with half the kpop industry.. Y'all need to stop acting like this is some kind of fan fiction where San and yeosang are in a war lmao
@TS-wr4sq
4 ай бұрын
@@seonghwaha557 it's definitely not wooyoung's fault to have friends or best friends. But, you have to admit that when you are in a group (who are not just friends group but also work together) you need to try to get close to all the members equally. The thing with wooyoung and san's friendship that I know their friendship is genuine and they are not doing it for show but sometimes they seem to ignore that they are in a group which also has other people. Before this live, wy and San didn't seem to care much about the situation and would always just stick to each which did make things awkward not just for Yeosang but other members as well. After this live, they kind of understood that they need to connect with other members as well in order for the group to function well.
@sunflower_6777
4 жыл бұрын
I'm actually very happy and relieved they are being honest about this. This kind of emotion is harmful and is more harmful when bottled up. The fact that they opened up about this and wanted to try resolve and understand is quite mature of them. As teammates, it's important to let out feelings than bottling up.
@khaoulabouanani9710
2 жыл бұрын
I just love the fact that Yeosang never blamed sanie. Look at them now they"re like each others babies 💜
@AndiniKissesGoodbye
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like people are kinda blaming Wooyoung for the whole thing but I hope you all know that not everyone can pick up subtle hints. Some people need verbal clarification, they need someone to tell them when something is wrong. I understand Yeosang's feelings and why he didn't just outright say it but I also understand why Wooyoung didn't get it. Woosang are opposites, they're very classic introvert meets classic extrovert, they'll have difficulties sometimes when those two things clash but at the end of the day sometimes a little outside influence can sort it out quickly.
@fixonmars8
3 жыл бұрын
Just like Seonghwa said in this live as well, there is jealousy between them because they like each others soooo much. Also I would say that Hongjoong handled this thing very well. Ever since this happened they seem so close to each others. I'm so proud
@curious1788
3 жыл бұрын
it's really funny how everyone (literally even atiny) has noticed this but yeosang has kept hos own feelings inside and it was only disclosed when woo spoke up... living together i bet all the members could see yeosangs feelings TT i hope they grow happy together TT (hongjoong did a good job in understanding the situation and taking a side when he had to defend yeo xx)
@dhohaalazmi5319
4 жыл бұрын
Yunho mood😭😭😂
@valeriepaige5826
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly I always felt like a horrible person whenever I felt jealous of my friends having other friends but seeing this and everyone’s comments makes me feel comforted that It is a common thing to happen
@yeoraaa3102
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly I impressed with yeosang because he can control and keep it to himself. I was in the same situation like them but I chose to Cope with it by making my friend jealous. And it work, she got jealous but at the same time, she was hurt like I do. At the end, we hurt each other and I lost her as my bestfriend.
@pinkiepinkii
4 жыл бұрын
I totally understand the position that these 3 are in. It’s def hard to keep oneself from getting hurt by seeing their bestest of friends be close with another. If yeosang was not being so considerate of everyone’s feelings, it would Ben hard for others to get close to his best friend bc they already have that kind of bond. Meanwhile there is San who is just super affectionate toward woo and I can imagine how he’s feeling too😩I personally have to remind myself not to get jealous of my best friend being with her other friends but I def struggle because she’s my only friend
@Moontess
2 жыл бұрын
I think after this conversation, I noticed that San tried to include Yeosang more and to go out of his way to care for him. I really love watching ATEEZ grow as individuals and as a team - I just find them to be so relatable, even as I'm blown away by their talent.
@usernamemaybe
3 жыл бұрын
The leader looks at the members with such fondness and understanding 😭🥺
@HoneyHyxne143
4 жыл бұрын
now a lot are laughing about this.. but i think this is a really serious and dangerous situation. This triangle shit can destroy all three of them. Yeosang will be sad, san will be sad and i think wooyoung is overstrained with this. This can end reaaaaally bad. It seems like they all doenst speak about their feelings (i know we dont see everything) and when they act like this, this wont get better. I hope they can make this up and everyone can be happy
@wahyualtair4259
4 жыл бұрын
Nah, you should watch the full vlive version 🤣 it turned out to be funny the way they jealous to each other because the whole video is about every member talking about their concern as a team. Even Mingi get jealous over wooyoung. And Yunho get jealous over 99 liner. And Jongho get jealous because he is the only one who 00 liner 🤣🤣🤣.
@HoneyHyxne143
4 жыл бұрын
Wahyu Altair nahhh. i don't just talking about this video :(
@aprincessa7826
4 жыл бұрын
I understand what you're trying to say. The fact that Yeosang just poured out his feelings out of nowhere and went as far back as 2 years ago means that he's been holding it in for a while. This shows that Yeosang isn't one to talk about his feelings so he just keeps it all in until it all just comes out which is what happened in this vlive. And wooyoung is the type of person that's tricked by familiarity like San said. He just expects Yeosang to be ok with everything because they've been best friends for years. It's really just about communication, once they have that down. They're friendship will only grow stronger. This vlive was also an old one so things are probably alot better since they have this understanding
@ateezateez8936
4 жыл бұрын
Just wanna say that this was back in December of 2019. 9 months ago. Their friendship has gotten a lot better and I think they are all closer now. Recently they asked woo about his best friends and he said "Yeosang and San" not only that, but I can see that he has learned how to be with not only San, but the rest of the group too. 💕
@syakila-1150
3 жыл бұрын
true though, my friendship of 8 years with my 2 other close friends was totally toxic because of this type of misunderstandings. and we never talk to each other now. I'm only keeping in touch with only one of them now
@lishmallow
4 жыл бұрын
The friendship between Yeosang and Woo is so precious 🥺
@ttonghwa5305
3 жыл бұрын
Now tell me who wouldn't hurt when your bestie leaving you out and looking more comfortable & happy with new person? Especially when that person upgraded it's position to 'bestie'. IT HURTS SO BAD. Fcuk. I've been in the same situation. My bestie looks more happy with our one friend whenever they're together, until it makes me "Let them be. Finally she found a person who can make her happy" eventhough she always insist that whatever happen, I'm still her bestie. Eventhough I have a place in her heart, but still, looking at your loved one being close to other person is disturbing and it's normal to get jealous. Anyway it's so uncomfortable for San. It's not his fault for him to finally found his soulmate. It's hard yk to find someone that could match with you 100%. Wooyoung could be his first. This is so uncomfortable to watch. San and Yeosang both of them will get hurt time by time bcs both of them love Wooyoung so much. The only solution that could settle down this problem is both San and Yeosang should try to be more closer and build more chemistry just like how they did to Wooyoung, so they could possibly become a trio just like WooSanHwa. But yea it's not something that we can force. Idk but for me, I will be uncomfortable to be in one group with them (I've been in the same situation before). If you want to be close, not in front my sight. I will hate the third person so bad that I can't be myself whenever around them. Urgh anyway I can't never rewatching this again. One is more than enough. It's as if I was watching the throwback preview from my life lmao
@xoxo.syisyis1551
3 жыл бұрын
"disturbing" WHY IS THIS SO FUNNY LMFAOOO
@marysoo2434
3 жыл бұрын
If yeosang get closer to san it may make a distant between them and woo cuz they will hung out together and woo will be left over it one of the possibilities also it may make them a strong trio in the end i think woo must give yeosang the same love that he give to san cuz he's the one in between them
@moonbeam1117
3 жыл бұрын
@@marysoo2434 today san confirmed that he and woo got same tattoo on the same spot. I feel happy for them but I can feel that Yeosang left behind since he can't express his feeling much like extrovert person. I make me sad tho as an introvert person too
@ecytb7042
3 жыл бұрын
You can have 2 best friends
@idontknowwhattoputhere5434
3 жыл бұрын
@@ecytb7042 yes u can but it’s the fact that Yeosang was feeling left behind
@piratespurples451
3 жыл бұрын
So the conclusion is, let's not be involved in this and love all the members. Just let them solve it and don't involve.
@mikehunt5559
3 жыл бұрын
drifting from a long time best friend is painful enough, but watching them get really close w someone else just adds another layer of pain. i feel for yeosang.
@chelsear5061
3 жыл бұрын
After looking back, this was a wonderful way to get words off of their chests. Everyone who wanted to speak, spoke. The rest of the members were respectful and only chimed in at appropriate times. Hongjoong really used the correct method to get POVs across. I hope this is a method they use in their dorms. Truly what an amazing leader. As someone like yeosang, I’ve learnt that being friends with 3 ppl is hard. 2 are always closer and ones Just on the side and speaks when necessary.
@bamse_beck
Жыл бұрын
"Even Atiny knows about this." As a Baby Atiny, even I knew Yeosang must have felt like this. 😅 It can't be easy watching your close friend getting closer to another and spending less time with you. But I'm happy that's no longer the case. 🙂
@Kalakeiko
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I've definitely been in the same situation many times and I feel for Yeosang here. I'm glad that they managed to sort it out and are now a close trio!
@elizabethcook2867
3 жыл бұрын
San trying to reconcile and everyone basically ignores him :(
@namjoongavemejiminsjams1284
2 жыл бұрын
As an introvert myself, I know how hurtful it is when your bff starts distancing from you. Like even if unintentionally but it feels bad seeing your best friend hanging out with other friends and just leaving you out. And if I was Yeosang I would have been a crying mess while trying to explain myself .
@yungigeonbae8808
4 жыл бұрын
omg this is more complicated than my physics test but im sure they have matured now i mean not that they wrrent mature but well uh honestly idfk im just gonna cry gby
@kuebskubs
3 жыл бұрын
felt sad for yeosang😔 poor baby🥺
@m-8832
2 жыл бұрын
Awwww, anyone notice seonghwas self soothing technique? when wooyoung says “6 years of friendship” all sadly he begins to hug and rock himself
@rvhilares943
4 жыл бұрын
I really understand Yeosang. Two years ago, I was in the same position as him.My best friend since school (9 years of friendship at that moment) knew a friend of mine at her job. They have similar personalities, likes and hobbies. In a very short time they became very close. I was studying at uni, so it was difficult for me to see her. It was kind of hurt at the beginning, just thinking that my best friend found some similar to her. Because we are kind of opposite. After some time, I realize I was kind of glad she found someone similar to her. Because she can do things she was not able to do with me.
@reyla9691
2 жыл бұрын
I cried when woo young hug yeosang and told him that he is the reason why he joined the company coz i thnk he wanna be with him always. I thnk out of all of woo young friemds (txt yeonjun and stry kids changbins and otners ) yeosang is the most special, i mean theyre totally opposite but they stick and click together
@peterhan4903
3 жыл бұрын
The way they hugged each other in the middle of the reconcile and the whole reconcile just takes one vlive. I have a similiar personality with Yeosang i can relate to him sm, i wish i have friends like them that would understand me till the point that woosansang did....
@msb5775
2 жыл бұрын
Even when he’s irritated Yeosang looks so handsome
@eylulkng8793
3 жыл бұрын
I just started crying when Wooyoung hugged Yeosang....
@fr8480
4 жыл бұрын
So I haven’t been able to get to know the members much but I have always seen “woosan” everywhere but never “woosang” and I always get so confused Bc Ik woosang has been together the longest but then I come to find out woosan apparently is “bigger” than woosang and I have always wondered why hasn’t Yeosang said anything or what does Yeosang think? Does he know? Do the other members know? And now I see this video. Ngl I was in tears this whole video and when Wooyoung hugged Yeosang I started bawling. I know what it’s like being left out so it hit a little too close to home💀😔
@marjolinengdl7163
3 жыл бұрын
i’m getting more and more into ateez and yeosang has always pick my interest. and seeing how true the friendships are in ateez is beautiful i hope they’ll go far and keep their friendship forever
@imgay1448
3 жыл бұрын
This was from long ago but I feel myself in Yeosang's shoes, my friend was the only one I can talk to comfortably and seeing her all of a sudden grow cold to me really hurt me, to the point I had a mental breakdown in front of her. My friend talked to me and I told her all of my concerns, she understood me and tried her best to make it up because she knew that she was the only one I'm incredibly close to. I'm glad that we got through that time and I also learned to accept that my friend can have other friends too, and she learned that she would at least treat all of her friends equal.
@imgay1448
3 жыл бұрын
Being an introvert was the thing that put the cherry on top of my mind full of anxieties and bad thoughts
@sydney6320
3 жыл бұрын
I find it so hard to get through this video because of how much my heart hurts for Yeosang. I relate to him so much and the situation really hit close to home for me.
@Dili7
Жыл бұрын
As someone with yeosang's personality I think he's thinking that woo likes san more and have fun with each other more and that he should just let woo be and distance himself from that. He mustve felt like he lost his best friend (wooyoung is a lovable social butterfly and san is the same too and even in my opinion they suit each others personalities much more) I'm the same.. I just accept the fact that my feelings don't reciprocate and I don't want to ruin the other persons friendship either so I just fade away into the background. As much as I'm hurt I just blame myself for not being fun enough and try to move on.
@Kalakeiko
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I've definitely been in the same situation many times and I feel for Yeosang here. I'm glad that they managed to sort it out and are now a close trio!
@sabitamarndi9827
Жыл бұрын
I'm the same too. I don't want to interfere between my two friends who are vibing together and having so much fun. When I'm with them, If I don't match theirs energy,it just feels awkward for me like my presence is not needed I don't want to feel left out. So I let them be and occupy myself with other things.
@amfrch
3 жыл бұрын
This is the reason why I Stan Ateez. Their friendships are so precious. Although there might be problems, they try their best to resolve their issues. And the reason why they don't mind sharing their personal issues with fans is that they also consider us as their friends and knows that we can benefit from their experience. A to Z means everything that a teenager is all about. So they know that some Atinys are going through similar challenges in their friendship(s). So Ateez best boys. Also, fighting for Kingdom ! We Atinys will all be rooting for 8 makes 1 king.
@-FEBYAISHAAHARAHAPFF
3 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU PAPA HONGJOONG AND MAMA SEONGHWA! Especially Hongjoong did really well as the LEADER, thank you so much.
@akankshakrishna5202
3 жыл бұрын
Hongjoong is so good at clearing up misunderstandings and problems. That's why he's such a good leader. Also, I'm your 600th sub
@eylulkng8793
3 жыл бұрын
Yeosang my kind hearted boy... Why am i doing this to myself? I come here regularly and then i cry... I always worry about yeosang and his feelings. Yeosang is so pure and he has a heart of a child. The thing is if the others didn’t talk about his feelings here, i am sure he wouldn’t talk about it ever. He would keep his all pain to himself just not to upset or bother woosan. So all i hope and want is him not to suffer anymore from such a fucked up situation. I really hope that he got used to it and doesn’t care anymore. Because nothing has changed. Of course neither san nor wooyoung has a fault here. Nobody can blame them to want to be close each other. People can’t control their feelings. I just hope yeosang can find his own soulmate and be perfectly happy someday. He deserves the whole freaking world.
@syakila-1150
3 жыл бұрын
I'm in yeosang's side. I've been there, so i totally felt so bad that he had to go through this. I literally cut off my friendship with my closest friend of 8 years because of this. She didn't talk, and do things with me that much anymore and start blaming myself when i do things with other friends but not her. then i slowly got labelled backstabber. nah. this reminded me so much of my old friendships. i hate it.
@syakila-1150
3 жыл бұрын
but it seems like they sorted it all out already based on what atinys are saying so it's all good ig
@Threegreentails
2 жыл бұрын
Yeosang distanced himself from Wooyoung (he might have had good intetions but still) and then acts hurt because Wooyoung got close to someone else... i mean Wooyoung is obviously a person who needs a lot of affection and if you are not giving it to him he is going to find it somewhere else.
@TS-wr4sq
4 ай бұрын
@@Threegreentails first of all, Yeosang was never the person to give affection in terms of words or physical affection. He is more of a acts of service kind of person. So, wooyoung didn't go to San to get the affection that he wasn't getting from Yeosang. I think this problem happened because while wooyoung and have such good relationship, they kind of forgot the others because of that. They would be just around each other, playing with each other while completely forgetting about the other members which made not only Yeosang but all the other members uncomfortable. When you are in a group (especially a group that are not only friends but also have to work together) you spend time with all the members in order to maintain a healthy group dynamic. You can't just choose one best friend and just stick to him always. Yeosang understood this really early and that is why he took a step back and wanted woo to get close to all the members. Had he not done that the members wouldn't have liked wooyoung as they themselves said that when wooyoung first came, they kind of didn't like him because he joined after the lineup was finalized. Yeo knew that wooyoung just being close to him and not liked by other members was not the correct way for the group to go that is why he wanted woo to bond with all the members. But woo ended just being with San all the time which did what it was supposed to. It made situations awkward and all the members uncomfortable. After this live, wooyoung and San started to spend time and bond with other members as well which is their group dynamic and teamwork is so strong now. So, the one who acted most emotionally mature here was Yeosang. He let woo get close to all the members, even woo's ctions hurt him he never blamed woo or san for any of it. He just let woo do whatever made woo happy even he himself had to suffer. Woo was the one who blamed Yeo first but Yeosang still didn't blame woo or brought all his pent up emotions because he knew that that wasn't the correct time to talk about these things since they were live. It was hongjoong who brought up Yeosang's feelings (which he did what a leader should do). Even after that, yeosang handled the situation in such a perfect way where he didn't blame anyone, still explained his point without making thing awkward or emotional. His maturity shined throughout this entire conversation.
@Threegreentails
4 ай бұрын
@@TS-wr4sq I'm sorry but there is nothing mature about ignoring your friend and halfassing your resposes to him, because you are "uncomfortable" that he is close to someone else. And Wooyoung didn't "blame" him for it, he bringed it up and explained how it upsets him because THIS is what a mature person does - communicates. Yeosang didn't do Wooyoung a favor by pretending they are not close, because Wooyoung is a social butterfly and not the type to "choose one friend and stick to him only" anyways. The fact that he is the closest to San but still maintains close relationships with the others is enough of a proof that even if Yeosang didn't pretend they weren't close, Wooyoung would have bestfriended the other members regardless. Also San and Wooyoung being close didn't make anyone uncomfortable because its only natural. You can't expect in a group of 8 members all to be equally close. Some people are going to be closer than others and that's inevitable.
@kaimookth.5631
11 ай бұрын
Yeosang was really cool, like Hongjoong said he didn’t blame it on Wooyoung. Yeosang indeed knew and understood Wooyoung more than Wooyoung can imagine, he knew why Wooyoung sad so he explained everything.
@pepperminkk
3 жыл бұрын
I wanna give Yeosang a big comforting hug )): must have be painful to go through that phase ):
@ayushijha5829
Жыл бұрын
As a non atiny (who is recently into their music)..this situation made me cry a lot..i would say this not the fault of any of three..but still yeosang..is the most pitiful here...i was crying uncontrollably..when he started explaining his side.....that he felt hurt first and everyone agreed on that ..
@Kalakeiko
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I've definitely been in the same situation many times and I feel for Yeosang here. I'm glad that they managed to sort it out and are now a close trio!
@northstarboyz
3 жыл бұрын
The way San got attacked at the end 😂😂
@flowerbeauty889
4 жыл бұрын
the maturity of all members showed up at this video tho hahaha
@sugarcere
2 жыл бұрын
this makes me so sad and uncomfortable i feel like this shouldn’t have been live 😭
@cantpickbiasingot7226
2 жыл бұрын
But I'm very happy that they're honest with us yes there's awkwardness but still i really respect how they handle it so well
@Kalakeiko
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. It's ridiculous that Yeosang got so much hate or that any of them got blamed for feeling hurt or left out and I wish they would've just discussed this off camera and not during a vlive, even though I'm glad that Hongjoong and Seonghwa handled the situation so well.
@areebarazzaq7619
3 жыл бұрын
I get that this is serious and all but Mingi and Yunho enjoying the tea😂😂😂
@hiryz3983
3 жыл бұрын
i’m sorry but i’m crying watching this explanation of yeosang 🥺
@yumi3822
3 жыл бұрын
Everytime I watch this video,I always cry. Because I know the feeling of being neglected sometimes because there's another person that can give them the happiness they want. Maybe I love Yeosang because we have the same personality,we want to treat people fairly. And even my family gives me the feeling of being neglected.
@yunhours
2 жыл бұрын
san: "so from now 3 of us can just hang out together!" yunho: "WDYM 3?? you're my roomate, do you want me to talk about you after this session??"
@allieserencio
2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad that they openly talked about this. It's okay. These things can happen in friendships especially if it already last for so many years. There is no need to compare WooSang and WooSan. Woo's friendship with each of them is different and it does not mean one is higher than the other. They're unique and beautiful in their own way.
@blessed4677
3 жыл бұрын
So sad that San was trying to say something... give attention to him too🥺🥺
@TS-wr4sq
4 ай бұрын
Well, now try and understand how Yeo must have felt because San was just ignored once but Yeo was being ignored by woo so many times for months,even years, yet he still didn't blame any of them.
@kookiescream7815
2 жыл бұрын
I still do cry whenever I watch this. I really feel Yuyu's side. I mean, if your best friend hangs out with others, it is beyond the line to say don't hang out with him/her so you'll have no choice but to accept it but the longer they spend time together, the more you also long for that time you're suppose to give to each other😭
@mell6000
3 жыл бұрын
If i was yeosang in this situation i would definitelly cry. i dont care if its live or not
@zialee6818
3 жыл бұрын
idk why but i also felt bad for wooyoung. honestly it hurts when my friends changed and didn't say anything to me. i mean, i wouldn't knew if they didn't say anything but acted cold at me :" after all, wooyoung just trying to mingle with new friends and nothing is wrong about it. that's why communication matters at the first place in friendship
@faker9769
3 жыл бұрын
oh please like its all clear that wooyoung was the one who changed first.
@Threegreentails
2 жыл бұрын
@@faker9769 Yeosang distanced himself from Wooyoung (he might have had good intetions but still) and then acts hurt because Wooyoung got close to someone else... i mean Wooyoung is obviously a person who needs a lot of affection and if you are not giving it to him he is going to find it somewhere else.
@mochibaby6784
3 жыл бұрын
Why my heart always feel hurt whenever I rewatch this clip although it was in the past? During the present days, seeing Woosansang show openly their love to each others makes my heart warm again. I respect our leader Hong for handing this thing well.
@Mario-hx1bh
4 жыл бұрын
4:48 the way wooyoung hugged yeosang ..almost cried T-T
@Jasminekuwonu
4 жыл бұрын
Idk even know what’s happening and the comment section got me lost even more
@rvhilares943
4 жыл бұрын
😅😅
@chocojaem
4 жыл бұрын
Basically, Wooyoung thought like Yeosang was avoiding him, but in reality, Yeosang is kind of hurt bevause San and Wooyoung are really close and he's left out. Hongjoong cleared everything saying really that Yeosabg is hurt bevause he is left out and you kind of hurt him more by targeting Yeosang. Yeosang and Wooyoung were friends for years so him seeing Wooyoung and San be close, might make him sad. So they were talking about that.
@naiararch
3 жыл бұрын
The fact that i am truly crying... i totally understand Yeosang, I know how it feels when you want attention from a friend and they go looking for someone else, it hurts! They handled this very well, hongjoong is such a good leader wow
@Kalakeiko
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I've definitely been in the same situation many times and I feel for Yeosang here. I'm glad that they managed to sort it out and are now a close trio and I love how well the members handled the situation, especially Hongjoong and Seonghwa!
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