Men should be taught about periods too if they're gonna be like "you chose this week because you didn't want to meet my aunt stacy". If I could choose DAVID then I would choose never again!
@yourbifriendaspen3629
Жыл бұрын
If that were really the case, I imagine you'd choose to never have it, and if you *REALLY DIDN'T LIKE STACY* you'd just... Not go? XD
@aliviahouk7018
Жыл бұрын
Yes screw stacy
@starfish1936
Жыл бұрын
Transwomen are women but will never be females😂😂😂😂😂😂
@dark7859
Жыл бұрын
I mean if I HAD to choose... I'd put it off until last minute like I do with everything, tbh
@sun1one1
Жыл бұрын
I did choose never again. Well, that wasn't the only reason I transitioned, but it helped.
@zoetrogolo7349
Жыл бұрын
I once saw something that was someone saying "female privilege is getting to fake a headache to avoid sex" and someone responded saying "female oppression is having to claim physical illness to avoid sex because men won't take a simple f***ing no for an answer. Female oppression is men being so entitled they think being denied sex is oppressive" and if the person who wrote that second one sees this, you are AMAZING, and THANK YOU.
@elaexplorer
Жыл бұрын
The "husband stitch" was a real thing that happened often enough to have a name. It also made having sex extremely painful after it healed.
@andrewhaywood3853
Жыл бұрын
Well obviously. That’s why Jamie says it’s not funny, because causing causing pain for the guys pleasure is sick.
@SlothDaan
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I came here to say the same thing. Doctor won't inform the women they had done it on either, and gaslight them all the way untill the next childbirt. Saying that it's normal after having a baby, and they shouldn't overreact. It's horrendous and should be illegal!
@hannahk1306
Жыл бұрын
It's straight up FGM!
@taiyouscandalous1175
Жыл бұрын
great, another thing to add to my list of things that make me lose faith in humanity
@Z26production
Жыл бұрын
And it’s sadly often still performed. It’s horrifying. I don’t get how a man who should love his wife could ask that
@Lilith-Rose
Жыл бұрын
The same men who think there's an off switch for periods are the ones who can't find the "on button".
@escapie2328
Жыл бұрын
I live in Florida. Sadly, the proposed bill that children can't talk about their period is real. It also bans teachers from teaching about periods in elementary school. Kids are in elementary school until approximately age 11 or 12. As I'm sure you're aware, many young people get their periods earlier than age 11. This means that kids who get their periods, and haven't been taught about it, will not understand what is happening, and may be afraid or ashamed. This bill is terrifying. The state I live in is terrifying.
@rosemarielee7775
Жыл бұрын
When my mother got her first period, she thought she was haemorraging like her sister did after childbirth, and was going to die of it.
@Mithcoriel
Жыл бұрын
So crazy. Especially combined with the guy who said "She should have informed us about her period and not entered the pool."
@transwomenaremale
Жыл бұрын
Many young people? You mean girls?
@outoSUMI
Жыл бұрын
You make me feel lucky 🇫🇮
@kirstygunn9149
Жыл бұрын
I was having my full menstrual cycle by the time I turned 11 years old .I had already hit full blown puberty and basically looked like a" fully grown woman " I was lucky that I lived in a household that was open about bodily functions and had been given the puberty talk in the last year of primary school. Otherwise it would have been terrifying I had extremely heavy menstrual periods untill I got put on the pill , but that was only I also had thick facial hair and spots the contraceptive side was just an after thought.
@njschulze514
Жыл бұрын
To be fair, I too would be mildly concerned if my girlfriend suddenly gained 30 pounds of teeth
@StormEyes1991
Жыл бұрын
Me too. What the heck has she been hunting?
@mandarinablue8438
Жыл бұрын
Same wtf 😭
@Bunnymannn7
11 ай бұрын
Ikr? Like… where’d she get all those teeth?? 😰
@laulau194
Жыл бұрын
Men: OMG just hold your period in, like holding pee in Also men: peeing everywhere on a Saturday night like scent marking dogs because they cannot, in fact, hold their pee in
@CutiePatootieScaramoochie
Жыл бұрын
THIS ISTFG!!!! THIISSS!!!
@hayleygolding4187
Жыл бұрын
This wins the internet! Congratulations 🎊 😂
@pai-tsuhi1131
Жыл бұрын
😂
@pai-tsuhi1131
Жыл бұрын
You just got your arm cut open. Try to hold the blood in! 😃🤪
@peacefullbreeze
Жыл бұрын
@@pai-tsuhi1131 Exactly, like if you get a cut you can’t hold the blood in
@neurodivergentpixi6736
Жыл бұрын
My son is in 4th grade and I just received an email that his school will be showing a "hygiene" film which only the girls will be viewing. I'm half tempted to send them all of these "bad women's anatomy" videos as evidence to why the boys should be watching this too.
@CutiePatootieScaramoochie
Жыл бұрын
Do it or try to talk to them ab it cause educating biys ab it is RLY important as seen in the video
@LoraLoibu
Жыл бұрын
*dewit*
@mirandarensberger6919
Жыл бұрын
Do it. Or have a serious conversation with them about it.
@neurodivergentpixi6736
Жыл бұрын
I already emailed the principal back explaining why I want my son watching it and why the boys in general should be watching it. My email was ignored.
@blowinatranny
Жыл бұрын
Boys don't have periods so kinda pointless to teach him about it in 4th grade
@faithpearlgenied-a5517
Жыл бұрын
It scares me how detached some men are from reality. It's truly horrifying.
@wendybutler1681
Жыл бұрын
Just checked out, above it all. Eyes on tv or phone even while conversing. I suspect a lot of it is undiagnosed ADHD or some combination of those letters. Teen nephews being diagnosed led to my BIL being diagnosed. All still checked out but now they know why and have an excuse. If you had pointed out to my dad how little he knew about me he'd be mortified.
@blowinatranny
Жыл бұрын
@@user-mv5zt8qd9l women don't have dicks its basic biology
@transwomenaremale
Жыл бұрын
@@user-mv5zt8qd9l then why are over 60% of them sexually attracted to females? Only about 3% of females are homosexual.
@meganmoney3479
Жыл бұрын
@@transwomenaremale hilarious
@dolcissimorain
Жыл бұрын
@@transwomenaremale i cannot believe you have over 300 comments on this fucking channel just abt being transphobic wtf
@odditygaming5759
Жыл бұрын
If you’re girlfriend gains 30 pounds in TEETH then that ain’t your girlfriend, that’s the goddamn tooth fairy 😂😂😂
@dandelion_16
Жыл бұрын
Well MAYBE the tooth fairy IS my girlfriend. Ever thought about that???/j
@unholynoise3087
Жыл бұрын
@@dandelion_16 tell your gf to stop stealing my teeth. Why does she need all my teeth
@odditygaming5759
Жыл бұрын
@@dandelion_16 you know what? You’re right, it’s 2023, the Toothfairy can date whomever she wants. My Toothfairy bias has been checked, I shall do better 😌🤝🙏🏻 😂
@dandelion_16
Жыл бұрын
@@unholynoise3087 well stop leaving them all over the place then. She's really doing you a favor, cleaning up after you like that.
@AnonimusQualquer
Жыл бұрын
I would say it is a shark and we have a furry in denial.
@Femyoz
Жыл бұрын
As a transfem enby, I'm so excited to hear that I'll never have to pee or poop again once I start taking estrogen
@dark7859
Жыл бұрын
As a demigirl I should have suspected it sooner since I had to pee once a month
@victorrodrigues5674
Жыл бұрын
@@transwomenaremaleransfem means that this person is doing a female transition (taking estrogen for example), and enby means that they're non binary (doesn't identify strictly as male or female) ^^ For example, if you're AMAB (Assigned Male At Birth), you identify as demigirl (partially female) and you want to transition medically, you'll use female transition procedure, making you a transfem enby :) and AFAB (Assigned Female At Birth) people would use male transition procedure, making them transmasc. Typically transfem and transmasc are used amongst non binary people, since if you're a trans man/woman you'll just use the term
@ZipplyZane
Жыл бұрын
I mean, if you really wanted to, you could go on a low residue diet. But it isn't fun.
@ShinyTillDawn
Жыл бұрын
@@transwomenaremale A non-binary person who (I think) went through various transitions to become more feminine.
@dandelion_16
Жыл бұрын
@@ShinyTillDawn (sorry if this comes off as rude. It got a bit lecture-y) Trans people don't need to have surgeries done or take hormones to count as trans even though it's quite common for members of that community to do so. The broadest definition of transgender identities requires a person to identify with another gender identity than the one they were assigned at birth. I say broadest because some people will argue you have to have surgery to count as trans, but that idea is considered quite gate keep-y by others. Femme afaik means that someone identifies as not fully female, but leaning into the feminine sphere of the gender binary.
@wonderqueerTT
Жыл бұрын
I remember pre-hysterecyomy (I had endometriosis) before I was diagnosed but suffered an attack, my male boss physically picked me up in the street, carried me to his car then drove me to hospital himself. He even carried me into the hospital because my pain was too bad to walk. He was a busy solicitor but he made time for me abd that meant the world to me. This was 18 years ago and we are still friends
@BlueTressym
Жыл бұрын
Major ouchies on the endometriosis but I'm so glad for you that you had a boss who is apparently the only one on the planet to have both empathy and knowledge. I had to have a hysterectomy because they'd tried so many other things and none helped. Afterwards, they told me they'd found when doing so that I had adenomyosis, after, of course, I'd endured years and years of people telling me I was making a fuss over nothing (as I wouldn't be surprised to learn you did as well, from people less decent than your boss).
@wonderqueerTT
Жыл бұрын
@Kit Hansford I absolutely did, not that I knew what it meant when they wrote to me, I was just glad to have thr prospect of a future without pain. Andrew really is one in a million and I'm lucky to have met him. I hope you're on the road to recovery now x
@PhDchick
Жыл бұрын
I had crazy heavy periods and all sorts of lady issues my whole life. One day I was working with a blind doctor in an infectious disease clinic. As I stood up I heard a popping noise and felt dizzy. I then felt a ton blood rush down my legs as I passed out. The poor blind doctor didn’t know what happens and yelled for the rest of the male staff to come help me. I ended up in the ER with a burst ovary. I was SO embarrassed. I was convinced I was going to have to quit. But the men were SO friggin nice about it and never gave me a hard time. I mean a few jokes, like next time try not to die on the blind man. or there are better ways to get the afternoon off. But never anything about bleeding all over the office. I was so touched. Still talk to ten all decades later.
@PhDchick
Жыл бұрын
@@BlueTressym I almost died from crazy bleeding. And I was diagnosed with endometriosis and fibroids. The pan was so bad, it felt like what people told me their labor pains were like (my actual labor was really easy). But the Female GYN’s told me I was being dramatic, I was not in pain. They brought in a surgeon to do my surgery and it was adenomyosis. The male surgeon made the Female GYN’s apologize to me and told them he hoped they got adenomysis to know the pain they put me through.
@BlueTressym
Жыл бұрын
@@PhDchick they actually trotted out the "You're being dramatic," line? The standard misogynist's excuse for causing women to suffer for decades? Good grief.
@majascharff1483
Жыл бұрын
“Fun” fact: The reason the traditional birth control pill is 3 weeks, and then you get a “period”, is because the (male) gynaecologists who developed the pill in the 70’s decided that woman WANT to bleed once a month. Medically educated people who also didn’t take the time to understand women. If I could turn my periods off I would, and I love the “side effect” of not bleeding, that my hormone IUD is giving me.
@Firsona
Жыл бұрын
Kinda. They wanted proof for themselves and their patients that they weren't pregnant and then to reassure everyone that they were natural enough to be acceptable. At least the people who made the pills. Other doctors I can't say about.
@sharlharmakhis280
Жыл бұрын
That's why I love the implant. No fuss, no muss, and no periods! \o/
@Firsona
Жыл бұрын
@@sharlharmakhis280 I had an iud, but the strings were left too long and it got caught on a tampon. Unfortunately, by the time that happened I no longer had health insurance. And for the low low price of 1700$ I could get it replaced.
@fancydeer
Жыл бұрын
if you're on the pill you can also choose to not have a period. you can just skip right to your next pack of pills and not take the fake reminder pills at the end of the pack.
@SlothDaan
Жыл бұрын
@@fancydeer depends on what pill you have, or maybe the country. Here in the Netherlands it's just three weeks. You can either choose to have a stop-week, or just start the next strip
@AnimeLuver0604
Жыл бұрын
I actually knew a woman who was given extra stitches after she had kids. It was so painful for her that they literally couldn't have sex. So, that's especially not funny to me.
@MsRainingDays
Жыл бұрын
The fact that this joke was ever funny to anyone is just terrifying
@Widdekuu91
Жыл бұрын
@@MsRainingDays I used to know guys that'd joke around about this stuff all the time, but then, when I would clarify that something was actually serious or dangerous or..whatever, they would just stare with wideopen eyes and tell me not to be creepy ( -or shove me facefirst into a coatrack and lock me out of the room for about 3 hours while I shouted in the hallway- ) I mean, it mainly comes from not-knowing what they're saying, many of them were convinced that women were completely different creatures than the real-deal and that we used our menstrual-pain to manipulate men into giving us chocolate and that we could make our boobs grow and stomach flat by simply doing situps for a few weeks while eating a lot of fat food in the same time. So that the 'fat doesn't go to the stomach, but stays in the boobs instead or the butt." I don't have time to write down how many dissappointing examples I have on these things. Just believe me when I say, that uneducated people don't think about anything and they just 'fill in' whatever they think is right and what conveniences them at the time. My ex was convinced that any damage done by giving birth, came from 'not having had sex enough to widen it down there' and was already planning a wild 9 months if I ever should get pregnant.
@marthahawkinson-michau9611
Жыл бұрын
When my mother-in-law was giving birth to my future husband, her doctor asked her husband if he wanted the doctor to throw in an extra stitch. My future father-in-law gave the most epic answer to that question: “nah, I don’t need it”
@leila13dnd
Жыл бұрын
One of the top 10 reasons why I would never give birth tbh.
@marloeslovestea
Жыл бұрын
They even call this the "husband stitch" and they do this without the womans consent. It's aweful
@EdieBird
Жыл бұрын
I know for a FACT that I wanted a puppy. LOL Babies don't have big floppy ears and they DEFINITELY don't make good therapy animals, plus the dog's education is way easier to afford. I got a Basset Hound, and we train CONSTANTLY as we are working toward Canine Good Citizen and Therapy certification. She is better around mobility aids than most adult humans. I am an imaginary woman. I have a functioning digestive system!
@Firsona
Жыл бұрын
Gasp! You eat solid food?! I bet you decide to have periods too...
@laartje24
Жыл бұрын
I wanted a service dog to help me with a disability, but apparently I should have taken a child and let them deal with my disability. Very toxic way of thinking. I will stick with my service dog, thank you very much.
@EdieBird
Жыл бұрын
@@laartje24 a service dog is much better suited to your needs! Waiting for a baby to be big enough to help is a long process!
@biggestastiest
Жыл бұрын
i mean if your baby has big floppy ears you might wanna go get that checked out
@bitchenboutique6953
Жыл бұрын
I love basset hounds SO MUCH. Only the best humans are basset people. 🥰
@marieugorek5917
Жыл бұрын
Yes, we can do period pain simulation (it's not exact, and it's basically the same deal as labor simulation.) But for the full experience, they should also be given pills which cause them to retain water and have to wear a pad along their perineum all day and night which has a capsule in it which releases random amounts of gelatinous material at random intervals. Oh, and they should have men treat them the way they normally treat women, complete with telling them to smile when they are just standing there attempting to remain neutral during a bad cramp.
@bagelraven
Жыл бұрын
Don't forget the headaches!
@riftryn
Жыл бұрын
And the back pain
@neurodivergentpixi6736
Жыл бұрын
And the diarrhoea!
@momamiandkiddokelsi9027
Жыл бұрын
And the nausea!
@dees3179
Жыл бұрын
And staining their clothes and bed.
@nevakear4834
Жыл бұрын
It's not just the pain. It's the fatigue. When I go to my job or do anything really on my period I would do half the work and be twice as worn out.
@tanyanguyen3704
Жыл бұрын
And moods, and the disgusting feeling of “gloop” as things come out of you, and peirod poo, and constipation……..and those are just the ones i had. Pretty sure other women have plenty of other issues.
@patharvey4249
Жыл бұрын
I have hypermobility and my joint pain gets significantly worse during my period,going to school is absolute hell for me especially considering I'm autistic and so my sensory issues get worse too
@fallenking578
Жыл бұрын
I have POTS and Endometriosis, periods make my heart rate higher and stay higher for way longer while my blood pressure tanks extremely low. Then Endometriosis means pain, dollar sized clots, joint swelling, and bleeding through every pair of pants and underwear
@DADA-ir6kq
Жыл бұрын
get checked for anaemia
@fallenking578
Жыл бұрын
@@DADA-ir6kq have been, its just POTS and Endometriosis. Both react horrible with hormone changes from periods
@CelestialBunnyPaws
Жыл бұрын
There's a part of me that's proud of Jamie for wanting to inflict pain on misogynists, and I regret nothing.
@Firsona
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, some of these make me want to hit the people who came up with them...
@gummirwl
Жыл бұрын
Fr
@connorcampbell8759
Жыл бұрын
Idiot
@ANTI_ATHEIST
Жыл бұрын
"Misogynists" huh explain that to me I would love to know cause it seems recently The LGBTQ+ has been assaulting other Religions or Ideologies hell they even took a Famous Swimmer Riley Gaines Hostage after they ambushed and assaulted sounds like the LGBTQ Community should now go by LGBTQ Terrorists?.....Tell me I'm not wrong hell I only learned this info from my Ex-Trans Friend.
@ANTI_ATHEIST
Жыл бұрын
Also I can say this cause I Have been death threaten 47 times.
@dark7859
Жыл бұрын
Imagine not being able to talk about periods at school while having it in class... "Teatcher I need to use the bathroom" "you can pee during lunch break" *"no, you don't understand"*
@jamesphillips2285
Жыл бұрын
Well the Taliban don't want girls in school. Maybe the Florida fascists think the same way.
@isabelcore
Жыл бұрын
This already happens due to embarrassment of even having a period
@dark7859
Жыл бұрын
@@isabelcore I mean yeah, but at least the worry is not about it being against the rules
@isabelcore
Жыл бұрын
@@dark7859 true
@DrZaius3141
Жыл бұрын
@@isabelcore As a teacher, I encourage code words when a bathroom visit is due to the period. At least that way, the boys in class have no clue and it doesn't have to be treaded out.
@spectenix
Жыл бұрын
6:15 "Hey you, woman. Do you want a puppy? Don't. As a man who has never talked to a woman, I know what you really want. A baby. It might be pricier and louder and tougher to educate but I'm still gonna project my sexual frustration into you by asserting this as your nature"
@sarahr8311
Жыл бұрын
I would prefer a cat, because I can't train a child to sit in a box for at least a couple years whereas kittens come with that feature mostly installed. Also you can't go away on vacation and ask a friend to come put out food and maybe play or cuddle a bit with your kids without someone calling CPS.
@mandarinablue8438
Жыл бұрын
Yo, why doesn't this have more likes? Legit what happened there oof
@EJKelly-tu9dm
5 ай бұрын
Ironically, indeed, he fails to realize that children also need to be 'trained', disciplined, educated, cared for, and will also grow to weigh more than 50 pounds. Not even regarding the whole "you'll probably be expected to grow this creature inside of you, unlike the expectation if the baby were of a separate species" part.
@WolfgangDoW
Жыл бұрын
Hot take: "woke" means simply respecting others
@wacawaka1802
Жыл бұрын
No, because you would get upset if I didn’t go by your definition. Woke means “a bigot pretending to be a good person.” That’s why we hate you. You pretend to support gays but then you say we can’t know if we are gay since man means “person who identifies as man.”
@samuelbarber6177
Жыл бұрын
It’s a “one-size-fits-all” term for “bad” but it gets political points with idiots and bullies who don’t wanna come out as racist yet.
@autumnleaves4879
Жыл бұрын
Honestly, woke is a compliment in my mind
@wacawaka1802
Жыл бұрын
@@autumnleaves4879 woke means fake supporter so it doesn’t surprise me that it’s a good thing to you. You people sure do like pretending to suport gay people
@advorak8529
Жыл бұрын
To them, “woke” is just like “communist” , they do not understand the term, they have no idea what it means, but it is a slur against “stuff I do not like” and “people who have a different opinion”.
@kimberleyrumburg9472
Жыл бұрын
Add more stitches? When my mother had to get a hysterectomy she had to get permission from my father. Even though she needed it medically, not just because she just wanted it. I guess she would have been left to die if he said no. Also, the dr assured her they'd stitch her to fit him perfectly. I lived through these dark ages. So many people don't understand how far we've come and how devastating it is to watch us go backwards now. Especially since we have so much further yet to go
@1ninjatiger
Жыл бұрын
What? Where the heck do you live..Nowhere in the western world that I know of requires a husband/partners consent for a medical procedure. Also the “stitch to fit” comment is total rubbish as a hysterectomy is done through the abdomen so no stitches are required in the vagina. Your comment has bad womens anatomy as well 😮
@xd._.28234
Жыл бұрын
Tf that's gross
@hoshireed77
Жыл бұрын
There was a episode of Chicago Med where a 14 year old "wife" (Yes, Michigan does have legal child brides) had a past incomplete miscarriage and needed a D&C and they discovered cancer and the husband was adamant she not get treated until after they tried again to have a child because it could affect her fertility.
@1ninjatiger
Жыл бұрын
@@hoshireed77 You do realise that Chicago med is a tv show and not real life right?
@hoshireed77
Жыл бұрын
@@1ninjatiger Yes, the show is fiction BUT Margin Call is a movie yet it uses real life to inspire it. Same with the show.
@jooleebilly
Жыл бұрын
I dated a man who thought his sister was lying when she said that women have different spots for pee, poo, and periods/babies. I had the joy of educating him that we don't pee and have periods from the same place. Maybe this is where they get the misbegotten assumption that women can "stop" their period? I dunno, it's such bullshit that it's hard to understand except in the context of intellectual laziness. Or just being an asshat.
@fuyuukifukada7491
Жыл бұрын
Oh well, the combined facts of males pee and ejaculate from the same hole and don't realize period and ejaculation aren't remotely the same thing make them assume period is something that can be controlled. As in, they only ejaculate after an orgasm, periods would only come out for the same reason, right? I doubt if many of them even acknowledge period is blood , or the fact of many woman never get orgasms at all (their egos would like to believe otherwise). Except it couldn't be any more wrong than that, for every single count of their a$$umption. FML 😑
@xd._.28234
Жыл бұрын
@@fuyuukifukada7491 well men can also have the involuntary eyaculation, yknow when they gotta expose a subject and get all the wood 😂
@inncubus666
Жыл бұрын
Maybe the slang "birds" confuse some of them...birds have a cloaca so....
@19Fenja89
Жыл бұрын
My mother thought pee comes from the same place where periods come out.. She was shocked to hear that you could pee while having a menstrual cup in.
@hoshireed77
Жыл бұрын
@@19Fenja89I was about to say, women can be just as ignorant of their own body and believe they have to remove tampons and cups to pee. No one wants to pee on the thread, but you can.
@heartyunho0716
Жыл бұрын
I feel like maybe the boyfriend heard in passing that stress can affect your periods and then just decided to wildly misinterpret it...but even that hypothesis is being incredibly kind to him
@ViniSocramSaint
Жыл бұрын
That's a stretchy possibility... but when there is an entire set of not only male men but entire communities that believe that... the source of the problem is bigger than mild mis-rememberance
@alylu-to-esutej
Жыл бұрын
High levels of cortisone can make a period start, I experienced this when my period started halfway through my cycle after an extremely stressful event, but certainly is not the norm
@heartyunho0716
Жыл бұрын
@Gi West I missed whole period because I was incredibly stressed. Getting periods early or late because of stress is not uncommon. It's just that it's not as easy as "controlling them with your mood
@stephaniewhelchel3873
Жыл бұрын
I once had a customer complain that I was rude and didn't smile enough. I had just gotten my period and was doing the bare minimum required of me until I could go home and curl up with a heating pad. I told my managers I wanted to stab that customer in the stomach a few dozen times and then tell him to smile. The female manager sympathized with me, the male manager did not.
@Jigglypowerpuffgirl
Жыл бұрын
The period bill is real. There are a couple of anti-sex education/anti trans bills that would ban education on periods before a certain grade. This would mean that girls 8-10 can have a period but can’t learn about periods in school.
@Firsona
Жыл бұрын
That's..terrible. Feel like they should have mass..walk outs? Where every one just announces they're on their period.
@lorifiedler13
Жыл бұрын
Can't talk about periods? Well, let's read about that. Turn in questions. PowerPoint education.
@deriko11d
4 күн бұрын
i mean i think those kids would think that theyere dying or something idk i really freaked out when i literally knew it wouls happen
@MsKathleenb
Жыл бұрын
I turned my periods off, but it was permanent and required surgery. Before that, I would have killed for the ability to turn off the periods, they were absolute hell.
@be_me
Жыл бұрын
I've only very recently learnt that there is such a thing as a "husband stitch". I am so appalled by this, it's just awful. The fact that it isn't even a thing of the past but still something that occasionally happens. Even if the responsible doctor refuses, that doesn't change the fact that there are men out there who want this, who fantasise about this. It is extremely selfish and inconsiderate. It completely shits on the great achievement that is giving birth. No to mention that the extra stitch(es) usually cause(s) plenty of long-term medical issues. It's basically a form of genital mutilation.
@missdarque
Жыл бұрын
It’s FGM! This is so shocking!
@leila13dnd
Жыл бұрын
Not just basically, it straight up is. It's horrifying.
@dalan121
Жыл бұрын
A few years back when I was a Biology teacher I took 2 days every year to address these types of misconceptions about periods and pregnancy. I even told the kids I didn't want them embarrassing themselves and ending up on Bad Women's Anatomy and/or supporting legislators making decisions they are ignorant about. Hopefully the lessons stuck.
@autisticfrog290
Жыл бұрын
6:51 That's not even how potholes are made. They're formed by water freezing and melting and freezing continuously. Bad pothole anatomy. (Edit, apparently this isn't quite how potholes work so look at the replies)
@EnbyFranziskaNagel
Жыл бұрын
Though the repeated pressure and relaxiation causes Material fatique and cracks that can become potholes.
@jelatinosa
Жыл бұрын
We don't have cold weather where I live and it's pothole hell, so, even though the analogy in the video is ridiculous, I doubt that that's how potholes form either.
@glendarob
Жыл бұрын
No freezing at mine near Sydney, Australia, but we've had over AUD$25 million road damage in the last few years in my council area due to pot holes after 3 years of record rains. Heavy rains soak in near the road and form springs, which push up and down against the road.
@sarahr8311
Жыл бұрын
I know the frost action has an effect in places where it gets cold enough. Seems like there are other things at play too?
@Pixelhoarder4life
Жыл бұрын
The loud peeing thing is so ridiculous and i've had the unfortunate experience of dealing with someone who had this mindset. This was a long time ago when I was in middle school, my friend and I both needed to use the restroom so ofc we went together. While we were on the toilet I hear some other girls start laughing (because of loud peeing) I happened to finish first and left the stall. The girls who were laughing started staring at me and making comments about how I pee like a horse and it wasn't even me it was my friend who had peed loud. My friend later apologized to me because she felt bad for being the cause of my bullying. Unfortunately tho the damage was already done and for years I was self-conscious. I wouldn't pee until either someone flushed a toilet or someone else was already peeing. Sorry if this was a bit TMI, but its really messed up how people will find any excuse to pick on someone.
@funkymunky5683
Жыл бұрын
My mom gave me a hard time for peeing too loud one day. I told my sister about it, and every time I'd go to the bathroom after that, she'd stand outside the door saying "I can hear you peeeeeeing!" It made me laugh super hard and I was glad to have her turn something like that into a joke and a joyful memory.
@Pixelhoarder4life
Жыл бұрын
@@funkymunky5683 Sounds like you had an awesome sister. Glad you had someone to help made the situation less awkward.
@SlothDaan
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry this happened to you! When people want to bully each other they will find something. Usually it's not even something valid. To this day I still sincerely believe my voice sounds like Donald Duck and I am seriously surprised and dumbfounded that people are willing to hear me talk, while my voice is terrible.
@funkymunky5683
Жыл бұрын
@@SlothDaan What's funny is you probably don't sound ANYTHING like Donald Duck.
@teritt
Жыл бұрын
You know what’s ironic about this, the fact anyone could call out someone “judging pee” as a creep. Like. Why tf are you listening to someone pee?? Why do you know I pee louder than other people??? You’ve been paying attention to that???,
@CatQueenOfPluto
Жыл бұрын
There's an infamous case in Ontario Canada where a doctor took the "husband stitch" to the extreme and the poor woman couldn't even attempt adult fun time. The couple sued the doctor and hospital.
@SpaghettyLuvsU
Жыл бұрын
I can't believe these shitheads haven't ended up in jail.
@sabrinaschultzkisby
Жыл бұрын
I hope they won and put that shitty doctor out of business
@StormEyes1991
Жыл бұрын
I'm not familiar eith the case but I hope she got a couple of million in compensation, the doctor lost their license and went to prison for assault and battery and she was able to get the problem he caused fixed by a good, law-abiding doctor who doesn't assault their patients.
@lorifiedler13
Жыл бұрын
But her husband wanted it. 🙄
@mandarinablue8438
Жыл бұрын
@@lorifiedler13 ew, for real ?
@pjaypender1009
Жыл бұрын
That "extra stitch" used to be really common and is called a "husband stitch." There are still doctors who will offer to do them, and they are really harmful and can make sex really painful for the women who get them.
@ReineGalena
Жыл бұрын
Yes, I totally on purpose inflicted a none ending period that left me so anemic that my body started to fail.🙄 I'm better now but oh wait now they're going to shame me for needing birth control. 🙄
@aelechdeepestflame4347
Жыл бұрын
Sweet Jesus. That sounds terrible! I would hate that so much.
@pinkittens
Жыл бұрын
I had the same experience! Except the birth control wasn't as effective as it should have been, so I switched to a different medication that completely stops periods because on the birth control I was bleeding much lighter, but it was still lasting too long.
@fallenking578
Жыл бұрын
Same thing happened to my sibling, turned out they had PCOS. They are on heavy birth control and iron pills to recover from their anemia. We still have to monitor their iron levels every month
@vibrantgleam
Жыл бұрын
If I don't take pills before my cramps get worse, I feel like I am shitting a rock but outside of my vagina.
@StormEyes1991
Жыл бұрын
Geeez. Same. I am trying to get an ablation and bilateral salpingectomy and am being made to feel less and less like a human being and more and more like an incubator. At this point I want to remove my uterus myself and dump it on my doctor's desk out of spite. "You care about this thing more than me? Fine here it is. It's yours, enjoy!"
@UsenameTakenWasTaken
Жыл бұрын
I mean, if my girls can go out and get thirty pounds of teeth in a year, they are clearly skilled hunters.
@SoularSlothesk
Жыл бұрын
That "joke" about asking the doctor to give extra and unnecessary stitches to the person that birthed your child for YOUR future pleasure and THEIR inevitable displeasure.... Is a horrifying occurrence that does happen far more often than it should. It's not funny and it's cruel to make light of this "husband stitch" and I am unamused by people that do.
@sadfaery
Жыл бұрын
The thing about periods in Florida is absolutely true and it's tied to their expanded "don't say gay" bill for this year that increases the age at which any kind of sex ed, including conversations about reproductive anatomy and periods can be taught or even discussed in schools, from prohibiting it up to the third grade in last year's bill to prohibiting it up to sixth grade I believe in this year's bill. (HB 1069 / SB 1320). It also redefines sex as based on reproductive makeup and function and as binary and fixed / unchangeable, which is demonstrably false just based on the mere existence of intersex people alone. It is one of many anti-trans bills currently making its way through the Florida legislature.
@wacawaka1802
Жыл бұрын
Oh hey, it’s another homophobe. Explain why you call it the “don’t say gay” bill and not the “don’t say str8” bill? Also it’s funny you would bring up trans. Trans people by definition think my sexuality is determined by IDENTITY. Something you determine yourself. That means my sexuality is up to someone else. Get lost you pretend supporter
@vibrantgleam
Жыл бұрын
Dude, that sucks. And it's scary this is real and people can actually do this.
@Genderqueerquack
Жыл бұрын
6:03 I think the worst part is there’s a NAME for this. It’s called the “husband stitch” and it was commonly done on people without their consent for much of history.
@lonesparrow
Жыл бұрын
Doctors still do this.
@lorifiedler13
Жыл бұрын
I think I read about "revirginization" being done in some Asian countries. Saudi countries would never allow this. Neither the patient or doctor would survive the procedure.
@Gwenx
Жыл бұрын
The thing... With the more stitches... As far as i know this has happened and it is gross! If i remember correctly i heard it in a "Mama dr jones" video where she talks about some of the things that has been known to happen before especially under male doctors.. She is a great source on anything related to female bodies tho
@ZedFyres19
Жыл бұрын
Sadly, it is called the husband stitch. It shouldn't exist
@silverghostcat1924
Жыл бұрын
I could be wrong but I thought someone mentioned a female doctor doing this too! Horrendous!
@bwaybitch863
Жыл бұрын
and caused a lot of physical pain and mental trauma
@Lilith-Rose
Жыл бұрын
The husband stitch is very much still a thing unfortunately, and although hard to prove in court all doctors who do so deserve to be stripped of their medical licences and pay compensation to their patients *as well as* covering all medical expenses for both the birth and any subsequent expenses
@transwomenaremale
Жыл бұрын
Female bodies? I thought the TRAs had decided that there’s no such thing as a female body.
@kanashiiookami6537
Жыл бұрын
Normally I'll watch these and giggle at the stupidity of the people, maybe roll my eyes or get a "are you kidding me?!". But holy hell this one just made me so freaking mad. Good on ya for getting through this without turning the air blue, goodness knows I was cursing up a storm. (Not online, obviously. I trying to be polite. Lol) P.S. That ban on talking about periods is real. They passed a bill that makes it so girls, at the age of starting their period, cannot learn about it or talk about it in schools because the freaking Republicans deem it inappropriate. What the effing hell is this nightmare world coming to?!
@haylene7521
Жыл бұрын
That is why religion shouldent be allowed in politics
@DieFarbeLila88
Жыл бұрын
To be honest, we did not really learn much about periods in school either (sex-ed was a joke) - but then again, I did not have to learn this in school, because the internet exists. But to ban talking about it? First they want to govern what they can do with their bodies and now what they talk about? What is next? Wether or not they are allowed on campus?!
@kanashiiookami6537
Жыл бұрын
@@DieFarbeLila88 oh, you can bet that'll probably be next. Dress codes, some bill I heard about denying free menstrual products, now this. I won't be surprised if they start segregating sexes and giving "all girls schools" that become harder and harder to find, which becomes less students per school, then no school altogether and Republicans saying that wives should stay home and teach their daughters homemaking instead of "preaching woke leftest agenda" that they seem to figure dignity and human rights are. They're already backsliding, so I won't be shocked (mad as hell, yes, but not shocked) if they go all the way. 😩
@xd._.28234
Жыл бұрын
@@haylene7521 so true,in Spain or France, religion is out of the government. As it should be. Let religion to the church and let laws to the government. Period That's why Italy is fucked up as well. And I mean it bc I talked with Italians living there and told me they mix the law with believers and ofc that sinks
@advorak8529
Жыл бұрын
@@DieFarbeLila88 next up: “anti-woke commissars” along the line of Stalin’s “political commissars”, making sure you are sticking to the party line. Because freedom depends on you aping Republican ideas and values.
@DestructionGlitter
Жыл бұрын
I struggle to believe that anyone really thinks people can control or hold in their periods. There is no way in hell someone could have made it to adulthood thinking periods can be intentionally manipulated. Do these people think periods are weapons? That we use them against men to annoy them and ruin their lives? I don't understand. There is no way this is real, right? Right...?
@Mithcoriel
Жыл бұрын
I do understand not getting that you can't hold it in. It's easy for uneducated people to assume it comes out of the same hole as pee, so it makes sense to believe you can control it same as pee.
@Firsona
Жыл бұрын
@DestructionGlitter
Жыл бұрын
@@Firsona holy sh*t
@fuyuukifukada7491
Жыл бұрын
@@Firsona Easy. They think periods are the same as semen ejaculations.
@Chickienugs
Жыл бұрын
There was actually at least one doctor in the US advertising that they give “an extra stitch for daddy” after their wife gives birth 😞
@BlueTressym
Жыл бұрын
Well, I suppose at least advertising that they are repulsive misogynists in advance is good, so you know who to avoid.
@annaphallactic
Жыл бұрын
They do make period pain simulators! You'll never guess which groups of people were like "oh that's manageable" and which group crumpled under the same level of pain. There are some videos on YT.
@bellablue5285
Жыл бұрын
It's awful to admit, but some of those videos are hilarious (and I say this as someone who started at 10, and by 13 was in absolute agony for days 1-2 to the point i could barely move; vindictive, probably, but how the guys tend to overreact, particularly when it's grown men trying it, does get a bit funny)
@nerdywolverine8640
Жыл бұрын
i think it was really interesting how different women also have different reactions sometimes. really illuminating how some people have it way better than others (and honestly made me jealous as a trans guy who would want to get a hysterectomy whether i was trans or not)
@miglek9613
Жыл бұрын
Forrest Valkai made a hilarious video while using one on himself, he stayed up for a surprisingly long time
@EgalitarianWoman
Жыл бұрын
I've always wanted to try one, because even though I'm a 36 year old woman, I've never had period cramps. Every other woman in my family has horrible period pain, nausea, mood swings, migraines...but for me it's just 4 days of uneventful and pain-free bleeding, ever since age 9.
@ashwolftheva2891
Жыл бұрын
One video I saw a woman said “Level 10 (highest)? That’s it?” And her bf was writhing in agony at level 4.
@jsimpers
Жыл бұрын
These people were cringe. As for pain with periods, I'm a cis male and don't know exactly how a woman feels, but give a man a good kick in the balls and don't expect us to do anything except curl up in the fetal position and wish we were dead.
@AnnekeOosterink
Жыл бұрын
It's like these men don't (want to) realise that women are in fact human beings. How very dare they have a functioning body. Also, what do they think will happen if you shred a layer of skin (or in the case of a period, uterine lining). Like, that's a wound, it's gonna bleed.
@Tanzenergise
Жыл бұрын
man, i swear some of these guys are living in the 1800's, "oh women can't drive because it'll effect their reproductive organs and they'll have kids with 6 extra fingers" like WHAT? this is why education is important.
@EJKelly-tu9dm
5 ай бұрын
There was concern about trains when they were being invented and popularized that women wouldn't be able to ride them because their uteruses might fly out (IIRC). Just in case you've never heard that one.
@Tanzenergise
5 ай бұрын
@@EJKelly-tu9dm they said the same thing about cars and hot air balloons lmao
@deriko11d
4 күн бұрын
honestly six fingers could have been cool since yk the death grip stuff
@mandipandi303
Жыл бұрын
Every single one of these posts made me so sad. Not only from the truly bad education but also the horrendous lack of empathy.
@Anemyya
Жыл бұрын
Every time I'm on my period, I just remind myself of the one dude, that asked why women don't just stand in the shower or sit on the toilet and just let everything flow out at once.
@EdieBird
Жыл бұрын
That would be SO nice compared to the reality.
@sheilarough236
Жыл бұрын
Pee and period blood comes from TWO DIFFERENT HOLES. Pee comes from the urethra which leads to the bladder. Most people learn to control their bladder when they’re children, although as people get older , some lose the ability to successfully hold it. Period blood comes from the vagina, an entirely different hole than the urethra, caused by the hormonal changes in the menstrual cycle when a fertilized egg does not implant in the uterine wall. You CANNOT CONTROL when you bleed from your period
@ricequin
Жыл бұрын
Thankfully my husband realised that my emotions changed around my period because the periods caused the emotional disturbance not the other way around. I really don’t miss PMDD.
@saanrio
Жыл бұрын
These guys who think women can just "turn off" periods, or grin and be professional and kind through the worst cramps imaginable... can we please take them aside before their next massively important meeting at work. kick them really hard and then tell them to just "turn it off, come on, you have to go in and be professional and smile and make this deal!"
@The_GenderLiquifier
Жыл бұрын
Make a division of the workforce. We gotta do it
@dark7859
Жыл бұрын
Get one of those period cramps simulators on the job. Everytime some uninformed dumbass says it, they get appointed to training on it
@fuyuukifukada7491
Жыл бұрын
Oh no no no no, just kicking them is way too mild. Get something to drill both balls a hole and don't let the wound heal to emulate the bleeding, and have machines pressing on the balls hard second by second to emulate the cramps. See if theycall can keep that smug smiles.
@circleofleaves2676
Жыл бұрын
Yep, and to grin and bear it through not just a moment of pain, but a full week of 24 hr pain.
@AnnabethOwl
Жыл бұрын
@@The_GenderLiquifieryes let’s do it
@arcadiaberger9204
Жыл бұрын
My old massage therapist told me that he often felt sympathetic pain while he was working. I know it's true, because sometimes he'd say (as he's rubbing my shoulders), "Wow, my right shoulder is really stiff all of a sudden - is that your pain?" and he'd be spot on. The one thing he was always right about was menstrual cramps. He could tell every time. As soon as he put his thumbs into the pressure point in the middle of the buttock (right where it dimples), he'd say, "Oh, it's bad today, isn't it?" or, "It's starting early this month, I think". I saw him every week, and I think h knew my cycle about as well as I did. Anyway, because he could describe the pains he felt from strains, bruises and overwork on other people's bodies with great precision, I am convinced that he really could feel what menstrual cramps felt like, and he told me that they feel like the sensation that comes on a man about one minute after being kicked in the balls. Not the instant disabling pain, but the lingering sick feeling that makes a guy curl up on a couch and groan, "Go away. Leave me alone." It actually makes sense, because menstrual cramps aren't felt in the uterus, they happen in the abdominal muscles, and the lingering pain of a kick in the testicles is from the abs cramping, too. So, to create a menstrual cramp simulator, tie a tight band around a guy's scrotum, just tight enough that it's uncomfortable, not so tight it's going to cut off circulation (an elastic bandage should work great) and leave it there. In a few minutes, he'll be begging for release. At that point, say to him, "Now imagine this lasting two or three days!" Another thing to remember: in the Philippines, certain warriors used to tie wet leather around their balls so when it began to dry and shrink, the pain would drive them into a frenzy. They were called *_amoks._* Yes, as in "running amok". *_EVERYBODY_* was afraid of them. During the Philippine-American War, even the U.S. Marines were terrified of running into amoks.
@DanielledeVreede
Жыл бұрын
That's really cool!
@starrstuff
Жыл бұрын
Jamie, you helped me realize and be comfortable with the fact that im trans, bi and ace. I've learned so much in the past few years and i hope other people will as well. Thank you for existing
@Just_A_Transperson
Жыл бұрын
He has helped me in the same fashion. He is awesome
@chrryflavouredd
Жыл бұрын
he's fucking awesome
@dandelion_16
Жыл бұрын
Congrats!
@starrstuff
Жыл бұрын
@@burned.asparagus fellow conehead!
@starrstuff
Жыл бұрын
@@dandelion_16 thank youuu
@daa5865
Жыл бұрын
it's so scary because yes, we can laugh at this and think it's stupid. But for those people, that's their reality. They believe women can't poop, don't have opinions and control their periods. How fcking confusing must the world be for them??
@Firsona
Жыл бұрын
They just stick their fingers in their ears when anyone tries to give them facts. I imagine it's actually very comfortable.
@lucypreece7581
Жыл бұрын
Fun fact I got let go from my previous job due to needing to leave my shift early due to really bad period cramps which I always suffer with every time. I'd had a couple of other sick days for various reasons. All of which I had 0 control over including one of them being due to a old injury flaring up that caused pain in my arm. I cannot control my cramps and with how bad I get them the chances of me doing a full 8 hour shift where I must be standing and walking around all the time was not gonna happen. Bare in mind I also had to be in work that day 2 hours earlier because of a staff meeting and then I only managed 2 hours of my actual shift. I couldn't walk or anything. I was in pain. And despite only living a 15- 20 minute walk from my place of work i ended up getting a taxi home cus I was in that much pain. About a week later i was let go from that job due to my period pain incident being one absence too many. The point of my story is that it isn't just ignorant men that need education on periods work places do as well. Many places of work don't allow time off for those with period related issues or just don't understand how much a person might be suffering. Like I am almost 25 I have been having periods since I was around 13 and I know my body. I know how bad my cramps are. I am not trying to skive off from work. I am in physical pain. It was that bad that night the only way I could feel comfortable was crouching down on the floor. Not useful for a hospitality job. Honestly the hospitality industry is shocking with how much they don't respect or understand period related issues. Stuff like that should be put in managerial training. Employers need way more understanding of period related issues and how that can affect employees.
@lynxlynx6685
Жыл бұрын
Yes, people need more education on it: A person (female) once told me that she belived that people only have period pain because they dont excercise enough. I got so mad! If only it was that easy! /enby who just recently got some help due to hopelessness about life due to pain, and days of pure survival, the last 15 years
@Z.A.M.1359
Жыл бұрын
I used to miss about a day of work every month due to my period. The first day or two I felt too sick to function. For every month the bad day landed on a weekend I had a month where I had to miss two days. I knew I couldn't switch from part time to full time, because my period would eat up all my sick days. It was one of the reasons I went back on the pill. (I had been on it before for endometriosis.) Periods that prevent you from working should not be considered normal and a gynecologist should be able to recomend options for fixing the issue. (Anyone else have a sex ed class that said painful periods are normal when they could actually be a sign of a medical issue like endometriosis or ovarian cysts?)
@lucypreece7581
Жыл бұрын
@@Z.A.M.1359 i keep meaning to get help with my period pain but a) medical gaslighting and ignorance when it comes to womens issues especially mentrual issues is ridiculous and b) withbthe current state of the NHS trying to get an appointment is also ridiculous.
@sarahr8311
Жыл бұрын
While more education would be nice, I don't think that will solve the issue you had with your work. Too many sick days or call outs and getting fired is just... a thing. It doesn't matter if it's a "good reason" or not. If you call out frequently enough, a lot of places will fire you unless you're specifically protected by something like short term disability etc. Sometimes they don't even have a choice. At my place, HR week call your manager and tell them to give you a talking to if you're out too often, and if things don't improve you get fired. Often your manager doesn't even have much leeway in the decision.
@AlexaFaie
Жыл бұрын
That's clearly a case for wrongful dismissal! Sick leave covers anything. Like the law says a worker gets a set amount of sick leave. And you can't just fire someone without giving them advanced notice. Like the notice period of 3 to 6 months (the usual) is both ways. Only times its an immediate firing is if something VERY bad happened. Like when the practice manager where my Mum used to work got found to have been searching & storing child porn on the work computer. That was an immediate firing as it was committing a criminal offence at the workplace.
@WitchLunaEstrella
Жыл бұрын
This kind of thing is why I think everyone should learn about things like periods in school. Some people might never experience them, but they still have to live in a world with people it does happen to and they'll be a lot more helpful and understanding if they know what's going on.
@bunhelsingslegacy3549
Жыл бұрын
I was talking to my nephew's girlfriend about period stuff in front of him and he's like "why do I need to hear this?" And I point to his girlfriend and say "THAT'S WHY". He actually looked thoughtful for a moment.
@sevrono
Жыл бұрын
i cant remember where in the US but i remember recently when an "anti woke" politician was asked to actually define woke, and they used only really positive terms defining it, while still being against it, basically telling on themselves on record lol
@Groffili
Жыл бұрын
Side comment regarding "Misogynatomy". Something I read on NotAlwaysRight. Not literal, just how I remember it. Someone calls about an e-mail "This is horrible. How can somebody make such a statement! _'I like the amount of misogyny in the office. We should have more of it!'_ Do something about that!" Response: "The word used is mahogany!"
@EnbyFranziskaNagel
Жыл бұрын
I really prefer a mahogany wardrobe over misogyny.
@bunniiac
Жыл бұрын
I think the funniest and also the saddest thing is, these types of people claim that science is on their side, and that it's the reason for their beliefs and bigotry, but when faced with very real facts about the body, by people who HAVE THOSE BODIES, they refuse to believe it. I'm losing my mind
@PsychologicallyDamagedGremlin
Жыл бұрын
I'm so glad I don't get period cramps. I see so many of my friends debilitated by them. Anyone who has to deal with period pain, you're incredible.
@vibrantgleam
Жыл бұрын
THANK YOU
@amethystt727
Жыл бұрын
as a transfem, I used to wonder why they went through so much information on periods in fifth grade sex ed. Now, six years later, I'm kind of starting to see why.
@floof1138
Жыл бұрын
As a dog mother, I can positively say I'd rather have a puppy than try to raise kids
@Greenmilklovr
Жыл бұрын
Dogs don’t judge you
@cattlleyak
Жыл бұрын
Yo Jamie, you've helped me a lot in my little life. I have to go to church unwillingly, my room is a mess, my mom abuses me, but dude, you just make my day way better. Thank you
@cosmicrip1803
Жыл бұрын
Hey stranger, you don't know me lol and I don't know you. But I hope that you're safe in any kind of environment you're in right now, physical or emotional. One day you'll be able to make your own choices, and you won't have to go to church anymore, and you'll actually get the motivation to clean your room! :D It'll get better soon promise, even if it doesn't seem like it is. Don't let yourself down a spiral and keep moving, have a good Easter, or if you don't celebrate Easter then I hope you have a good and safe day.
@wendybutler1681
Жыл бұрын
Consider yourself grandma hugged. The time will come for you to fly and build your own existence. Just keep that in mind and don't let the chaos take you with it. You are loved!
@dark7859
Жыл бұрын
@@transwomenaremale mate, shut up, this is not the place
@tjenadonn6158
Жыл бұрын
@@transwomenaremale Oh, so you're clairvoyant? What's my dad's favored brand of hot sauce? How do I have my main guitar tuned right now? There is a book covered by a piece of velvet on my coffee table: what is the book and what color is the velvet?
@laartje24
Жыл бұрын
@@transwomenaremale Abusive parents most definitely exist. And people making assumptions like you did are actually really dangerous to children preventing them from getting help or reaching out. A lot of children get abused and we need to start talking about it.
@Dontstopbelievingman
Жыл бұрын
We weren't taught about periods at school when I was growing up, so when I got mine I thought I was sick. Then, I thought you bled once, and that was it. Imagine my absolute rage when I found out you bled for 5+ days, every month with pain, exhaustion, swelling etc - I'm still angry tbh.
@asherael
Жыл бұрын
these guys can't comprehend that anybody in the world JUST doesn't want to be anything like what they want everybody else to be
@TheYandereSpecialist
Жыл бұрын
This reminds me of a time in middle school. It was the dead of winter, and I had to pee bad. The school had a rule that during recess you could not go to the bathroom. So I waited out by the door until it was time to come in. I rushed to the bathroom and take a loud pee, I had to go bad, and the cold and hot made me have to go more. I was laughed at by girls and teased for peeing loudly. I felt shame, thankfully it was forgotten about, but at that moment I was shamed for not peeing quietly. The heck?
@circleofleaves2676
Жыл бұрын
That is wild to me - not being allowed to go to the bathroom during recess? Did they prefer you went during class and missed out on class?
@TheYandereSpecialist
Жыл бұрын
@@circleofleaves2676 it was because some girls would try to smoke in the bathrooms during recess. So you were only allowed to go during lunch and between classes
@Widdekuu91
Жыл бұрын
I pee with the same sound and force as those Belgian Drawing Horses. I don't know why, I just do. I have never heard anyone complain or giggle at it. Then again, that is probably because it's so loud that I don't hear anything anymore.
@wanderingspark
Жыл бұрын
6:16 It takes more time and effort to raise a human child than it does to properly train a dog. Also, humans grow up to way a lot more than 50 lb.
@lonesparrow
Жыл бұрын
And a dog doesn't live as long as a person, though I'm sure most people who have dogs would love to have them for 18+ years.
@hyperhannah5741
Жыл бұрын
To the wanting a baby instead of a pet thing… I got myself a cute little gecko. Her scales actually feel soft and she is utterly adorable. Does that mean I just want a hand-sized baby? If so, I would like to request that the baby potty-trains itself like my gecko did
@sheilarough236
Жыл бұрын
Flatulence is a sign of a healthy digestive system. If you can’t fart , it is a sign that you might have an issue with your bowels, which could be something very serious, like a bowel obstruction
@Randoplants
Жыл бұрын
The extra stitches thing is even worse, because doctors used to do that automatically, for husband’s enjoyment
@laughsingay
Жыл бұрын
I think that guy saying that emotions cause your period might have heard that people get emotional on and around their period and thought it was the other way around for some reason.
@gogobeebee963
Жыл бұрын
That's what I was thinking
@bren6967
Жыл бұрын
The best comment I have ever heard came from a gynecologist after a man asked for a "husband stitch" or two. The gynecologist looked at the husband and asked: How small are you? Many gynecologist will not add a "husband stitch" due to the fact that it makes having intimacy very painful for most women. Some women have had to have corrective surgery to be able to enjoy intimacy once again.
@ryukiri
Жыл бұрын
Plus one bad women's anatomy story, starring me as a young child (somewhere around 6 to 8, I think): having noticed a correlation between mommy's mood and her buying chocolate at the store, one day I saw chocolate and tried to make her mad so she would buy it. She noticed what I was doing and found it very funny, and helpfully explained that that was not how it worked. (We did not get the chocolate.)
@TheQuietTyper
Жыл бұрын
There is a period simulator, well it's more of a period cramp simulator. I've seen some videos of these guys putting it on and jumping and wincing at the pain and their girlfriends then trying it and going, "Oh yeah, it's not even the worst I've experienced. This is a light day."
@xd._.28234
Жыл бұрын
Lmao
@vibrantgleam
Жыл бұрын
FR FR
@alexnelson9830
Жыл бұрын
11:37. That's from an AITA about a father punishing his daughter for her tampon falling out in a pool. If I remember correctly, she was 14. I'm not sure, but I know she was pretty young
@kaibaiarrio1299
Жыл бұрын
Not only punishing, but publicly humiliating her too by yelling at her and making fun of her in public spaces
@nickbensema3045
Жыл бұрын
David Spade did a similar "sewing her up" joke in his 1990s HBO special, but had the good sense to invent some other guy who said it, and at least built a joke on top of it. "It's gonna be like blackjack." Anyway the audience wasn't entirely on his side and he had to lampshade their mixed response before continuing. The marketplace of ideas has spoken: episiotomy jokes are, indeed, not where it's at.
@esmeraldaloschuetz9120
Жыл бұрын
Ah, yes. Time to plan each and every one of my periods around my life events and draw up my emotional schedule for the year.
@Rising_Pho3nix_23
Жыл бұрын
Great news. There is a period simulator. It's like defibrillator pads you stick on. They come with a dial from 1 to 10. I've never seen a man make it past 4
@UltimatBlitz
Жыл бұрын
That's actually what school taught me: sit down, ignore pain, and do you work. But it was with migraines and nausea all just "caused by being stressed." So since school was the stress there was "nothing to be done but get through it." Why I just put up with pains so bad doctors have asked me "How are you alive?" when they've finally seen scans.
@psychedelicpegasus7587
Жыл бұрын
I follow an Irish reaction channel where the women who had periods and the guys who didn't have periods both used a menstrual cramp simulator. It was really funny, but also so touching because the guys went through this realisation of how difficult it is to even barely function with period pain and could compare intensity levels for themselves. They realised that their friends had to just get on with daily life. I think this education is so important.
@sarahtolkien
Жыл бұрын
Jamie, I'm sure I'm not the first one to comment this, but the extra stitch is an actual thing and causes women so many problems. They LITERALLY call it "the husband stitch." I have not given birth, but I've talked to so many women whose HUSBANDS were asked if HE wanted them to add the stitch when sewing up her perineum tear RIGHT AFTER SHE GAVE BIRTH. It's so disgusting and it's very hard to repair/reverse once it's healed. It's horrific.
@andysartz
Жыл бұрын
Even when they have the best of intentions, cis men are usually so uneducated about periods! The other week I told my boyfriend that I was about to have my period and was experiencing pain and mood swings and all that fun stuff. And he was like "Wait, what? Isn't it too early?" and I was like "No, my tracking app says my period should come in the next couple of days". And he went "Oh. I... Need to learn more about how this works. I thought it only happened at the beginning of each month?" I'm still not sure whether he thought MY period only happened at the beginning or the month or if he thought everyone's periods only happened at the beginning of the month. Either way, at least it was sweet that he was immediately like "oh, I need to learn more about it", haha!
@janeburns1278
Жыл бұрын
I know someone that thought they only happened at the full moon 😂
@deriko11d
4 күн бұрын
@@janeburns1278wereperiod
@Omneyvdwatering
Жыл бұрын
There is even a name for more stitches after birth. It's called the "husband stitch"
@__Mist__
Жыл бұрын
Is that a thing outside France too?
@noahmcdowell7731
Жыл бұрын
Jamie I want to thank you! I'm a bi teenager who's just figuring out I'm not cis. I'm not out and your videos provide a place where I feel safe because you're just like me. Thanks😊
@an0nym0us.c4t
Жыл бұрын
I'm so proud of you for finding this out about yourself. You got this!
@circleofleaves2676
Жыл бұрын
Noah, I'm happy for you. I hope that in time to come, your home life will feel a safe environment for you to come out as your authentic self. Find community and safe spaces where you can. If you don't feel it is a safe space, don't rush the coming out.
@noahmcdowell7731
Жыл бұрын
Thank you guys so much😭😊 you are so sweet
@noahmcdowell7731
Жыл бұрын
Update my mom said I could start wearing binders if they make me feel comfortable
@an0nym0us.c4t
Жыл бұрын
@@noahmcdowell7731 WOOOO WAY TO GO NOAH! your comment made my day yesterday. I hope you feel more comfortable identifying as male :)
@_someoneonearth_
Жыл бұрын
I live in a conservative house and I get scolded everytime I walk barefoot in the kitchen because "cold feet will give you a uti"
@fevre_dream8542
Жыл бұрын
Now that's one I've actually not heard before, and you see a LOT of "x, y, or z caused her/my UTI" in my line of work.
@megmarie2153
Жыл бұрын
When I first got my period in high school it was so painful that I often needed to take time off school. Last year I was diagnosed with early stages of endometreosis and needed surgery.... why didn't I think about controlling my emotions or turning it off 🤦♀️
@sheilarough236
Жыл бұрын
If there was an off switch for periods, I definitely would’ve used it when I passed out at work , sent to hospital, had 5 units of blood & 2 emergency surgeries over 3 days, all because of my period that wouldn’t stop
@marrus1372
Жыл бұрын
4:41 CLEARLY IT HELPS MY VULVA TO BREATHE DEEPER, JAMIE 😂🤣🤣
@TheHarvestGoddessChloe
Жыл бұрын
My friend was given a "husband stitch" by her doctor after a LEEP. She did NOT consent to this and didn't find out until much later, after many complications as a result.
@VTPPGLVR
Жыл бұрын
“woke” is the new “red scare” Also, 5:37 Some doctors do that
@semperfi818
Жыл бұрын
Exactly: scare term _du jour_ to bring the fear-motivated herd into line, under authoritarian control. And if any obstetrician still does this, they should be identified such that their patients can leave them and then choose better, more humane practitioners.
@jorriffhdhtrsegg
Жыл бұрын
woke is even less defined
@Bread26
Жыл бұрын
3:50 it used to be a term used my mainly African-Americans back when segregation was in effect,it used to mean that they were aware about the discrimination people color faced. But "red pills" made it a buzz word that just means liberal.
@MsFeyCreature
Жыл бұрын
"I've left the left" five minutes later "never mind, leaving human society entirely."
@adrienstarfaer
Жыл бұрын
4:13 Only girls? Well then, idea, the girls should talk to the cis boys about it after school, trans boys would already be in the clear, and then all the boys could get together and loudly discuss it in gross gorey detail, and when told to stop, point out that they're exempt from the rule, which shouldn't be there in the first place.
@kylaping4429
Жыл бұрын
The second to the last one about the man saying his daughter should have held in her period at the pool is a horrendous story on AITA. The father publicly humiliated his daughter then gave her outlandish punishments, including not being able to eat at the same restaurant as them on the cruise they were on. Reading that whole post made my jaw hit the floor
@SylviaRustyFae
Жыл бұрын
1:30 The entire idea of a person with 30 lb teeth is gonna keep me up at night...
@ShadowtheEdgehog01
Жыл бұрын
Same
@The_GenderLiquifier
Жыл бұрын
Same here 🥲✌️
@Mark_Agamotto1313_Smith
Жыл бұрын
Well, if they got fillings made of neutron star matter, that would account for it! /jk :p
@thisistheaccountname
Жыл бұрын
2:25 Last time I had mine, I could barely move. Just the drain of my energy made doing anything exhausting. And then the pain would just not go away. Absolutely debilitating. It is times like that and right now with my shattered ankle that I am thankful I'm unemployed because I would not be able to function.
@PokhrajRoy.
Жыл бұрын
I loved this topic being covered on the channel. The rage is real but so are the giggles that arise out of disbelief.
@ararepotato1420
Жыл бұрын
One of my friends had said this to me before I came out: "I don't understand why women choose to have periods! Like, is it just an excuse to be grumpy every month? (Slight chuckle) And the bleeding? That's gotta be fake right? I've never seen a woman bleed in that area before." I was dumbfounded. So I asked if he was joking. He was not... he was genuinely confused about women and periods. So I spent the next 30 minutes or so explaining what periods are and why women have them. Though his response to it all after should have tipped me off sooner to me being trans. "Wow... I'm glad I don't have periods! But why the heck do you know so much about periods you aren't a woman!" Apparently, cis guys don't want to know how and why periods work to the extent that they memorize the information...
@tiredhypnophobe
Жыл бұрын
to the people who think you can "hold a period in" i explain to them that a period is more like a runny nose than needing to use the bathroom; no matter how hard you try to hold in a runny nose, it'll still end up leaking out of your face at some point.
@statickaeder29
Жыл бұрын
Not only should that guy be hooked up to a labor-simulator, they should be given a lot of a strong laxative, and told to "just hold it in".
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