This was VERY helpful I’m 19, me and my boyfriend are getting married before he leaves for basic training in a week from now. This does make me sad knowing that I will not be going with him during basic training. However I am currently working a job I absolutely love so I’ll be able stay there longer until it’s time to start my new life with him.
@itsmeshaurice
2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there my love it is all worth it at the end and if you have chosen this life it means your strong 💪
@ninixy__
Жыл бұрын
Do you have an Instagram? I’m in a similar situation as you and would love to ask you some questions about the process/situation if that’s okay with you!
@itsmeshaurice
Жыл бұрын
@@ninixy__ yes my instagram is Its_meshaurice1
@dakotaeldridge7369
Жыл бұрын
How'd that work out for you?
@shireeasia1351
Жыл бұрын
Literally in the same boat
@racheleisert4274
2 жыл бұрын
I am a military spouse. I bought a book that is helpful. Plus I had/have family in all the branches which helps me so much. I did not marry my husband for the money, benifits etc… we got married because we both love each other. I am not like all other wives. I have my own money so I will use my money to buy what I want.
@itsmeshaurice
2 жыл бұрын
Thats great 👍
@Vdekort11
Жыл бұрын
What’s the book you bought? Curious how it helped
@madisonzima6311
Жыл бұрын
I recently got married to my hs sweetheart and I’m moving to Guam in a few days to live with him… very bittersweet leaving my family behind but the last three years have been so difficult not being able to be with him. This video validated how hard it is and that I’m not alone so thank you ❤️
@itsmeshaurice
Жыл бұрын
You welcome sweetheart and prayers sent out to you for your journey 🩵
@RockLovingGirl
6 ай бұрын
My husband and I got together right after he joined the military. He wrote me many letters in bootcamp; He said he thought I was done with him because he did not get any letters from me for weeks until one day, bam, a big stack of them. So yep, definitely true.
@janayesampson2766
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this, my boyfriend just left for training (I'm 18 btw) and I've been extremely emotional so far. I'm still getting used to him not being here. It's really hard ladies, we are planning to get married but sometime after he's finished with his AIT. It's really hard ladies.
@reviewsbygen5591
Жыл бұрын
Hey! Military spouse of 14 yrs here! And also stationed at Bragg!! So much truth bombs in your video… it’s so not as romantic and easy as they make it seem in the movies. I especially cringe when they emphasize that other spouses become “your new family.” I have been living at Bragg for over 2 yrs and made 0000 friends… like literally no one because I can be the mom of most other spouses and they think I’m ancient too haha
@itsmeshaurice
Жыл бұрын
This is so true and I love love loovvvee your honesty here. It’s what needs to be given when people are entering this lifestyle it’s really hard
@appleton6364
10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this informative video since I'm dating someone in the military. Keep posting. Thank you so much 🙏
@mosan4341
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this I’m turning 19 and my and my bf are gonna get married and this helped so much!
@itsmeshaurice
4 ай бұрын
Hello everybody and thank you for watching this video. I hope it is informative and if you have any questions, please feel free to ask. Also, check out my other videos that I make on my channel!!
@KosherCreole
3 ай бұрын
Hi, I have a question: My name is Sarah and I have been putting cookies in my husband's ear lately that he should join the military and he's considering it because we barely make enough to pay the rent in a very tiny roach infested apartment because child support takes most of his paycheck. I'm stuck at home with 6 kids. So we're thinking with the military that we would at least be able to get into a nice sized house with the military housing allowance. What do you think? It's the main reason he would join if he goes through with it.
@JasmineChannelTV
3 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing! Enjoyed this and was helpful. I felt that last hard at the end 🙏🏾
@dessummers
Жыл бұрын
Baybayyyy no lies told! 😮💨😮💨 From what ppl say, to what ACTUALLY happens.
@nshoots141
Жыл бұрын
Great video! I couldn’t have said any of this any better myself💖
@kphoria1009
Жыл бұрын
thank you for being real with it
@lei2valid809
Жыл бұрын
The only time you have to worry about wether your with them or not is if they go active duty if the don’t then their in a thing that’s called “reserves” which means they can stay at home and have a base near by for the first couple of months 4 days a week I believe.. they have to got to their base for pt and once a month on the weekend they have to go to drill
@thetalberts2052
2 ай бұрын
It’s a lot of benefits for military spouse am in school full time and I don’t work yet cause I want to finish my degree there are grants that you are given as a spouse. Again I was in the military before my husband health care is free, maybe as you say other places don’t treat you well but if that’s the case report them you are a military spouse and should be treated with respect. I was pregnant just had a baby and it was one of the best experiences I had at the hospital. From one army wife to the next hey we can be friends hit me up anytime you got this. People think spouses don’t matter but we do it’s just we gotta do our research gif the area we live in it’s really hard cause as I say at one point my husband was the spouse and I went on a rotation. I never left Texas what we did was made our demands to the military when my husband was joking to already have it in his contract that he would stay in Texas. If he decides to reenlist he can also bargain with them to stay for another 3 years here in Texas.
@thetalberts2052
2 ай бұрын
Not joking joining
@vanessaplante4209
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your advice and stay strong and pray hard, God bless your family. Today is the 17th of August 2022. I came across this video it's very informative how much info you gave. I'm not a military spouse but, it will give a man/woman how to prepare themselves, mentally imotionaly physically and spirituality for the Army Life. Stay bless and stay safe 🙏
@conchitasnacks
5 ай бұрын
I see so many post where spouses or soldiers say how bad the money is, for me having 2 kids and growing up in apartments, me and the wife went from living in a 3 bedroom apartment with a family in each room in los angeles to having a 3 bedroom house at 19 years old, we had plenty. Always heard where we qualified for food stamps, but again, we had plenty, all the utilities and water paid. Commissary was cheap. I got the service supposedly making good money and after paying rent and utilities, i was broke as Fu--.
@itsmeshaurice
4 ай бұрын
Yeah, that is the reality of being in the military. A lot of people think that we are rich or that living comes easy, but it is not easy at all. We do have a lot of things that are not offered to people, but soldiers still struggle supplying for their family.
@lei2valid809
Жыл бұрын
my fiancé is in the military before any of this he was my bestfriend and left for pt & ait the month of my birthday he was gone from may 13th to September 18th and I only got to talk to him on Sundays out letter took forever to get to each other but over all we made it work it wasn’t easy being with the only person who made me laugh constantly I was really bored and it hurt more on the sundays when he told me he has to go🤦🏾♀️
@jaylaass6641
Жыл бұрын
I thought I could do this I can’t 😭he leaving May 31st to Germany I can’t come💔 worst feeling I ever felt I feel most people never mention the separation stuff be calling my mom having break downs
@itsmeshaurice
Жыл бұрын
You got this 💪🏾 best thing ever is to keep God close
@jaylaass6641
Жыл бұрын
@@itsmeshaurice thank you ❤️
@claudia-B.
8 ай бұрын
Stay strong you can do it stay positive and never stop loving him.❤
@johnpanting287
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty!!
@itsmeshaurice
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!!
@rachelzaizar314
5 ай бұрын
Thank you for the advice! My boyfriend just left yesterday for basic for the Marines. We plan to get married when he gets back and I’m still learning so much about what to expect. This video was so informative.
@itsmeshaurice
4 ай бұрын
I am glad that you got some information out of my video. I pray that everything goes well for you. I am sure that everything will go well for you and your boyfriend.
@bee-yn6fs
2 ай бұрын
not everyone will be DEPLOYED after basic and AIT. pls make that clear. It depends on your job
@PeppermintMochaLyd
2 жыл бұрын
We just had a baby & my husband wants to join, I'm mourning all the time & memories he is going to miss out on.
@l_C9300
Жыл бұрын
How did it work out for you I am currently going through the exact same thing with my fiancé
@deja_renae
2 жыл бұрын
I love this video! I’m a military wife also! I agree 100% with this video!! We are at Bragg also so I defffffff feel you!!
@Patrizia4Christ
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your transparency darling.
@Jara427
Жыл бұрын
When married, if they get stationed with the option of spouse coming, does the spouse have to go or does spouse have option to stay where they a living regardless of military solider is deployed to any state or country ?
@itsmeshaurice
Жыл бұрын
The spouse does not have to go
@kravekota7563
Жыл бұрын
I’m a military wife and I wanna know what I need to do if he took the loan instead of buying an apartment or house I’ve been living at my moms for 2 years and I know he’s in the wrong I don’t know who to call? Yes he still lives in a dorm … he’s taking advantage of the money
@thetalberts2052
2 ай бұрын
Am in Texas am a military spouse and I was also in the military and we get food stamps
@smalltowngirl420
4 ай бұрын
New to your channel. Thank you for your Husband Service.
@itsmeshaurice
4 ай бұрын
Thank you for watching! I make mom content as well please check it out! I hope this was informative
@claytonboyd9257
11 ай бұрын
EVERY PERSON DO NOT DEPLOYED
@courtneypacheco8829
7 ай бұрын
My fiance and I been together for 7yrs we have 5 kids and he decided he wanted to join. I fully support him in his decision. He's been studying for the Asavb and I've been watching a lot of videos to know what to expect. Any advice on what to expect on the first move with 5 kids?
@itsmeshaurice
7 ай бұрын
Try and stay connected with him as possible while he near, pray together and talk about everything as far as the process and questions. If you when he goes out to basic training, he will not be able to have the contact that you are used to which is face-to-face you will have to go by letters until he gets into AIT. When he gets there, you’ll be able to communicate with him via phone, and it won’t be sporadic. Best thing to do is communicate about the process and your feelings on being alone with the children while he’s away. Practice different coping mechanisms that are healthy.
@RoamIntoYoga
Жыл бұрын
Being alone. Aint that the truth!
@juliemccauslin5807
Жыл бұрын
Quick quiz - you're on an ARMY base and it's 5:00 p.m. what are you doing? 😂 #armybrat
@destineeknox
2 жыл бұрын
Omg I’m a military spouse too. GHETTO. Highly do not recommend. We currently live in Japan and it’s been lovely but deployment sucks BUTT HOLES. It’s hard out here for a pimp.
@marylee19941994
2 жыл бұрын
Agreed we are in one now
@angeldestinee30
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@tezenis3435
Жыл бұрын
Honest
@jasminelowery7975
Жыл бұрын
What is your husbands mos my husband relisting in a couple of months . He is 88m transportation
@user-kh7mm2he8b
6 ай бұрын
Good Job
@LeeHerringtontribe
2 жыл бұрын
This is 💯💯💯💯
@hoshi8779
Жыл бұрын
I have a question, does this also applies if their going in as an officer?
@itsmeshaurice
Жыл бұрын
Yes
@Ahshar88
Жыл бұрын
Not quite accurate.....depends on the branch
@shaniahewett610
Жыл бұрын
Wow I’m in Fayetteville Nc
@Jesusisking3733
3 ай бұрын
Umm health care is definitely free
@richardsoria1547
Ай бұрын
Not for your spouse foa
@kellyandhershoes
Жыл бұрын
That was thee most depressing video lol sounds like you don’t like that life. Didn’t even hear one positive thing in there
@itsmeshaurice
Жыл бұрын
Certainly don’t want to discourage anyone. Just want to make sure all spouse are informed with how things really goes on with being a military spouse.
@claytonboyd9257
11 ай бұрын
SOME WIFES ARE SMART GO TO COMMUNITY COLLEGE WHILE THERE. ON TWO YEARS. DO THAT SPOUSE. V A FUND. THINK PEOPLE
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