I wanted to express my gratitude to each and everyone of you. Thankyou so much. Thankyou for supporting me, thankyou for joining me on this journey and thankyou for giving me a platform. But most of all thankyou for trying to be that version of yourself you know you are capable of being. You are all so powerful. I love you all so much and may you always be blessed. ♥️
@hehehhe1544
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much, Liz! We really appreciate you and will support you all the way! 💗
@tellmemohi
Жыл бұрын
we love you too queen😍🥺❤
@ala_dine2709
Жыл бұрын
French or arabic substiltes pls😭
@its_me_162
Жыл бұрын
i literally love u so much liz thank you❤❤❤❤
@venussublime9262
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being beautiful inside and out, and having the courage, tenacity and grace to remain consistent in showing up for yourself. As when you show up for you, you inspire others to continue to show up too. And we all know truly how difficult it is sometimes to show up. Thank you for being you throughout the process and for sharing your gift of vulnerability out loud. Ase O Much power, bliss and true support towards you beautiful being. -Venus Sublime
@tess1763
Жыл бұрын
“The woman who does not require validation from anyone is the most feared individual on the planet.”-Mohadesa Najumi
@jeanaclairetomaneng6736
Жыл бұрын
Needed to hear this. Thank you.
@-AveryRust-
Жыл бұрын
Omg, truly. When you do not want anyone's validation, when you are self assured and self reliant, you truly become free! That's why so many people feel threatened by it. They can no longer control you or manipulate you.
@rahmahassaf2275
Жыл бұрын
As humans, we naturally need validation. No matter what you do/say. The difference is having to learn, learn to be self resilient, and find our people.
@alterego4091
Жыл бұрын
Is better the term: Respected. Feared are the Terrorists, Dictators or Drug Traffickers
@agoromighty1166
Жыл бұрын
She does required lol
@bratz_babyyy4137
Жыл бұрын
When you're a people pleaser, being even a little selfish feels like doing something bad, feels like being a bad person
@Africanbeautyy93
Жыл бұрын
Thissss!
@mirjanapucarevic2105
Жыл бұрын
That's so true ,i can't sleep at night bc.of that just horrible.
@butterfly7448
Жыл бұрын
Exactly.. Feels guilty
@novi5111
Жыл бұрын
Exactly and for this reason I think that Liz changed my perception of life and helped me so much
@TheGlory16
Жыл бұрын
🎯
@shriyagarg9391
7 ай бұрын
"None of your business, goodbye" iconic ✨✨✨
@msbored
Жыл бұрын
You are not selfish Liz for sharing these advices
@msbored
Жыл бұрын
@@margeryojije7862 also being kind and helping others is not wrong, and yes choosing your self first is important
@backoutsidee
Ай бұрын
100 likes 10 months ago it’s a sign
@msbored
Ай бұрын
@@backoutsidee for what?
@meep_murp8758
Жыл бұрын
Being called "selfish" makes me blush now. "Yes I am, go ask someone else to babysit your feelings." :)
@MR.KNGRICO
Жыл бұрын
right! 😂😂❤
@vievie5941
Жыл бұрын
Queen
@msilence2009
Жыл бұрын
anyway, crazy left communists will come to power and make everyone anti-selfish.
@agoromighty1166
Жыл бұрын
So cringe
@lunalu552
Жыл бұрын
Selfish can have another meaning. My sister used to have this habit of making everyone wait for her because she didnt want to wait for others, selfish by not respecting others' time. Also if she was upset with something at work or her boyfriend or whatever she would put her shit face so everyone could feel uncomfortable. Making everyone babysit her feelings. So she was called "selfish" not for babysitting others feelings but to impose her feeling on everyone under the sun
@monushmarak6076
Жыл бұрын
That hit my soul when she said "start being okay with people misunderstanding you " and that's something i always dread.
@Cherryvelvettt
Жыл бұрын
💜
@tobiouolo
Жыл бұрын
for real
@vab5798
Жыл бұрын
same.. i get sooo anxious when im being misunderstood by others...
@eIIaaaaa
Жыл бұрын
literally sameeee omg
@techsyndrome3291
Жыл бұрын
fuck yeah me too all my life bro
@samriddhimishra6485
11 ай бұрын
A lot of people start hating you, cutting ties with you the moment you start prioritizing yourself. I really think it's all worth it because such people never had any pure intentions for you anyway. You do you! Always!
@emilycantplaygolf
Жыл бұрын
my notes! - You create your reality - Become selfish - Stop arguing with people that refuse to listen - They aren’t worth the energy - Put whatever you want first - Fill your own cup - Say “no” to things you just don’t want to do - Stop always being available - You can’t save everyone - Don’t sabotage God’s plan by always trying to save people - Have strong boundaries and care about yourself, then others will follow - Be okay with people not understanding you - They’re not you and you have to accept that - Stop trying to change people - Create your own dream life - Stop needing external validation - See the good qualities in yourself first - Don’t need compliments - Talk to yourself - Less chasing, more attracting - Feminine energy = flow - Relaxed, not desperate - Do whatever you feel is good for yourself - Only add great people into your life - They have to add value - Don’t ask permission - Peoples’ opinions are irrelevant feel free to add your own notes or anything i've missed!
@melvenaemad4491
Жыл бұрын
Thank u !
@Aliking78669
Жыл бұрын
❤❤
@tommychappell6359
Жыл бұрын
Also if crossdress, realize that results in subtle changes in behaviour that build up over time, and these show up as eventual discomfort/tension on relations. I have best lesson of all. I know only from personal pain and this is why I never let anyoneeee tell me any different. Cause I'm the only guys who knows. I've risked several relationships and myself in knowing this knowledge. If want to save yourself stay sober. I call it different. 'CHANGE-Dressing'. Worst part is if do it it can cause dependency/addiction and then you become addicted to the thing which causes havoc on your life. It's taken me so much strength to break this. It's as bad in fact worse than drugs or anything else. It's pleasure seeking trap. So stating it like this (in a nutshell) puts that at the top. Which creates stronger bond to the term. And just show dangerously compromising it can be. Yourself and all relationships. This is one thing I've pinpointed caused me OCD, cause personality changes and ultimately relation conflict. And also because.. the signs are subtle.. that nooke NOTICES that it's having an effect. Usually attribute it to you. But causes inner turmoil.
@meli7315
9 ай бұрын
🤍🕯️
@AmaAma-jz5ej
7 ай бұрын
❤
@xandria_magic777
Жыл бұрын
"Why am I overextending my whole body for everyone, and they're not even extending a hand to help me" literally brought tears to my eyes.
@peach-ci1be
Жыл бұрын
OMFG same 😭
@geegeecook5063
Жыл бұрын
@@peach-ci1be same here also.. It's suck
@musik8144
Жыл бұрын
Same to me
@bellaizza2772
Жыл бұрын
Hit home hard.
@biancamerrell6252
Жыл бұрын
This hit me hard
@xxxlegend6810
Жыл бұрын
“ how is it everybody claims that they love me and I don’t feel loved” this hit so hard, and that’s how I’m feeling lately.
@clover8893
Жыл бұрын
Same omg. I hope you feel better and loved soon!!!! ❤️
@Anonymous-ze2mu
Жыл бұрын
My boyfriend says he loves me but is never there for me
@rimshakhalid787
Жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-ze2mu that’s when u know actions speak louder than words he’s obviously not the right one for you, if you say I love you to someone u need to earn that and actually put f effort into it just saying I love you to someone doesn’t mean anything if their actions aren’t aligned, that’s not love & you deserve better babe I hope you know ur worth is much more and u deserve the love you give out to others :)
@rimshakhalid787
Жыл бұрын
@@Anonymous-ze2mu when u love someone, you are always there for them, by their side, supporting, comforting and loving them in their best and their worst, being honest and open that’s real love
@rimshakhalid787
Жыл бұрын
I FELT THAT SO DEEPLY 🥺😭
@cindydelareyna
Жыл бұрын
she is a gem, I feel so much better after listening to her
@inthesoope
Жыл бұрын
doing my night skincare, slowly glowing and growing up, manifesting the best life for myself, while listening to her advices is the best thing ever, thank you so much lizz
@itsallforyous
Жыл бұрын
its so important to have a balance between helping and being helped. its so draining to be the therapist for everyone.
@marialeticia4599
Жыл бұрын
yeesss, i totally agree
@pretty_fork1907
Жыл бұрын
Fr
@enjisilverstone-nolongerac7533
Жыл бұрын
Yeah or else we are basically murdering ourselves
@hvartfalls
Жыл бұрын
FR.
@umikalsomyeopbidin864
29 күн бұрын
Fr
@lailarkibi6082
Жыл бұрын
"How is it that everybody claims to love me, but I do not feel loved" That hits hard, and it's totally true
@staziaszn7022
9 ай бұрын
super hard
@ALIBABA_2
9 ай бұрын
Why is it that we feel this way, actually?
@bensuklc4943
8 ай бұрын
ı crıed when she saıd that
@thispersonrighthere9024
8 ай бұрын
i started my path toward selfishness when i noticed that you could do 9 things for people, but the one time you refuse to do the tenth thing, they act angry and forget the 9 things you've done for them. selfishness has done me VERY WELL! one person in my life even pointed out my selfishness, and my response was, "thank you so much for noticing!"
@xyzzXeau
6 ай бұрын
let them love maybe?
@bienjour
Жыл бұрын
setting boundaries isn’t selfishness. it’s applying standards and guidelines for yourself and others that you want and expect others to follow. it is healthy. it’s only selfish when you hurt others in the process by being thoughtless and callous.
@Samm_3512
Жыл бұрын
I was literally the most insecure creature on earth, until i found this woman, she literally saved me. May God bless u liz
@Jade-ld3kd
Жыл бұрын
Don’t set yourself on fire to keep others warm .Something I have to remind myself of.
@lizzie7929
Жыл бұрын
🙌
@visjules
Жыл бұрын
solid ass quote right there 👏👏👏
@elkesteubss
Жыл бұрын
fax icl
@valentinaramirez891
Жыл бұрын
-stop arguing with people who are not willing to listen -start prioritising your own needs and wants -stop being always available and trying to save everyone -sometimes your helping is actually sabotaging god's plan -start being okay with people misunderstanding you -realise that you can only change yourself, and you can change others giving them an example -stop needing people to validate yourself worth -Talking with myself is the best way to solve and change what i dont like about me or my personality -less chasing more attracting -being more selective and only adding great people to my great life -stop seeking people's validation or permission to do what you want
@lemondropzs
Жыл бұрын
🙌
@donnion2599
Жыл бұрын
❤️🙏
@allstars4131
Жыл бұрын
I love u
@-Muz-
Жыл бұрын
@Abhay-js1ty
Жыл бұрын
thanks
@wellwisher30
7 ай бұрын
And then when you start prioritizing yourself, give straightforward answers, people think you are rude, mannerless. 🙂
@moonlighrtbae
6 ай бұрын
God I hate when this happens,people always say I'm the bad one,i was just protecting myself from further pain.
@ayy9425
3 ай бұрын
Let them tell it all they want. It's better to be rude and respected than nice and feeling used
@cashmererose1101
2 ай бұрын
This!!!! I’ve been laid off 6months and counting, but this week I had a breakdown and she told me to manifest one!!!! Which felt like a she shut the door in my face. I was livid. Made the conversation about her self and told her I may have depression and she left me on read for 4 days and still counting. The week BEFORE this happened she’d been showing up at my apartment unannounced crying 3x in the past week and she didn’t even have the decency to reciprocate. Revenge is a dish best served cold they say. She will coming again crying about something and when she does I’m going to tell her “ I took your advice to manifest, I think you should too” and not respond for as long as I like. I’m only giving back the same energy she gave me.
@ismi216
2 ай бұрын
@@moonlighrtbaeJust ignore them.believe yourself you're the best ❤
@moonlighrtbae
2 ай бұрын
@@ismi216 thank you so much dear you too are the best ! ❤️
@Ayushma04
Жыл бұрын
I just love how clear she is with her thoughts and words.
@RosaDaniello
Жыл бұрын
when you set boundaries people start to call you selfish. Been there, done that and I'm never going back. You know what? Yes, I better be because giving a piece of myself to everyone was leaving me empty and frustrated so I had to get my pieces back together and it was not easy. And if you don't like it, you don't have to, just like I don't owe you anything. thank you for being an inspiration liz! I wish everyone to heal and live a healthy and wealthy life.
@kylemcpherson1772
Жыл бұрын
i been there.
@marmarbuckz5243
Жыл бұрын
Stay up
@creepycctv2895
Жыл бұрын
I totally agree with you. All the best,❤️🌺.
@pilly3815
Жыл бұрын
If they say that, then let it be. They don't want you to set boundaries because they are also the selfish ones who want to just take from you!
@wolfiesasha887
Жыл бұрын
Or in a relationship and they call you insecure 😂
@wannabeskinnylegend5645
Жыл бұрын
“How is it that everybody claims to love me? But I don’t feel loved.” I felt that.
@monasaad8956
Жыл бұрын
Sameee
@MeAwesome
Жыл бұрын
Same
@rassimmarref4528
Жыл бұрын
So i
@zanobiaX
Жыл бұрын
Because they love what you give to them and they don’t love you personally. That’s the sad truth
@myvu5619
Жыл бұрын
They love themselves actually..
@senorajmalingin6742
Жыл бұрын
Every day i wake up...i always turn on the Bluetooth speaker then watching ur videos... I feel like a child who always listen you mom..
@loverofmen5652
10 ай бұрын
Funny how society has manipulated us into thinking that truly loving yourself, which is what she is describing is "selfish". Love you Queen❤❤❤
@ococnut
Жыл бұрын
Same energy as “stop begging for a seat, build your own table”
@zimkazenstv6379
Жыл бұрын
Build your own table, good for a book title
@emilianasbk9864
10 ай бұрын
Period.
@vladaakavk370
10 ай бұрын
Actually this philosophy saved my life. Building tables is a way easier than begging.
@sinit1961
Жыл бұрын
It’s not being selfish, it’s about loving yourself and taking care of yourself.
@julia-ex7im
Жыл бұрын
she doesn't love herself. She completely altered her face
@arnabroy2122
Жыл бұрын
@@julia-ex7im maybe not. She might just wanted to look more pretty than before.
@cold_potato321
Жыл бұрын
@@julia-ex7im you should Watch more of her videos before you say that
@julia-ex7im
Жыл бұрын
@@cold_potato321 I watched several
@remi5065
Жыл бұрын
@@julia-ex7im shes still taking care of herself, just because shes ‘altered’ her face doesn’t mean she doesn’t love herself.
@rianneCruzzz
Жыл бұрын
the fact that I became selfless only to make them feel better.
@vargasfrancinenicholeg.4886
Жыл бұрын
11:25 love this part. I'm slowly not caring about other people's perception of me, whether they think I'm pretty, ugly, fat etc. they can say all that, but i knew from my self that even if i just woke up, after crying for several hours or after cleaning our house, I'm still pretty. call me fat i could careless still love my body despite of the insecurities i have.
@somebody3049
Жыл бұрын
3:05 1. *Stop arguing with people who are not willing to listen.* Tell people when they cross your boundaries and if they try to twist things, end the conversation. They are not worth your time and energy. 4:20 2. *Start prioritising your own needs and wants.* Fill your cup first. Are you okay? Are you whole? Learn to say no and if you don't feel like doing something, that's enough reason. 5:27 3. *Stop being always available and trying to save everyone.* You cannot save everyone. You can't save anyone if they do not want to change. We do not have mental capacity and energy to always listen to others' problems.Maybe you are going through something too . You are not obliged to listen and answer if you yourself are hurt. 7:37 4. *Sometimes you helping is actually sabotaging God's plan.* Think like people get certain problems because God is trying to teach them something,to help them in some way. If you are being a saviour all the time, you are going against God's way. 8:18 5. *Start being okay with people misunderstanding you.* People do not have to understand you and it's reasonable that they do not. They are different people having different life situations and experiences. You are only gonna hurt yourself expecting them to understand. 9:33 6.*Realise that you can only change yourself.* Changing takes courage, strength and discomfort. Many people do not want that. You are just wasting your time and energy trying to change them, which you could utilise to create your dream life. You can only change your life and set an example which can inspire people to change. 11:22 7.*Stop needing people to validate your self worth.* When you try to get validation from people, you are becoming a slave to their opinion. Others' opinions should not bring you up or take you down because you know your worth and how amazing you are. 12:25 8. *Talk to yourself, take yourself on dates, hug yourself, compliment yourself* 13:51 9. *Less chasing, more attracting* Tune in with your feminine energy. Do what you feel is good for you and your body. Be open to receiving and let that desperation energy go. 15:15 10. *Only adding great people to my great life* Allow those people in your life which add value in your life. Do not be friends with people who are okay with being miserable and complain about being miserable. Be friends with people who have a growth mindset. 16:34 11. *Stop seeking people's permission to do what you want.* Edit:Mumma, I am famous! Thank you for 1k likes everyone. You are so sweet🥰🥰
@Unknown_flower25
Жыл бұрын
😢😢❤️😢thank you !
@somebody3049
Жыл бұрын
@@Unknown_flower25 You're welcome!💌 I am taking notes for when I watch this video again. Glad that they are helpful for you too:)
@Unknown_flower25
Жыл бұрын
@@somebody3049 ❤️😢believe me it's pretty helpful, I'm in a bind right now and need to learn to stop believing in wrong beliefs. It's pretty hard for me, but I trust in God. Thank you very much for your effort, dear. I wish everyone here that they get through life well. Amen
@somebody3049
Жыл бұрын
@@Unknown_flower25 I am so proud of you for having self awareness and trying to change some beliefs. That's a brave thing to do. Everything is going to be okay. You are such a kind and pure soul. May God shower his light and love in every path of your life.
@somebody3049
Жыл бұрын
@koko nina That's so sweet of you to say, but do you know what? You are more amazing( ◜‿◝ )♡
@jezzstar777
Жыл бұрын
when she said “I don't need anyone to tell me how beautiful i am” i felt it.
@celiaben6509
10 ай бұрын
😊😊😊
@juandelahoz4577
28 күн бұрын
Even when you were a people pleaser you were selfish, you always wanted something in return for your "altruistic" acts, you wanted to feel better for pleasing, and the fact of not receiving after giving made u feel empty. "Love is the extremely difficult realization that something other than oneself is real", I myself am selfish, and recognizing that true love is being assertive your loved ones needs and wants is something I struggle with up to this day.
@hannahtamer
9 ай бұрын
hi, Liz, I'm 11years old and I've been taken advantage off. Contently because I'm a people pleasure. my friends said they loved me and cared about me. But I never saw it they only needed me when they were heart and sad. And I felt for them and always gave them advice. but when I felt sad or needed someone to talk to, they wouldn't, provide. What I needed so I became to stop and answer text messages when I wanted to. i had a problem that i needed some advice on but the words I got was (HANNAH YOUR STRONG U CAN TAKE CARE OF IT!) AND YH BUT REALLY LIZ U MADE ME BELIVE IN MY SELF AND BTW U GIVE REALLY GOOD ADVICE ❤
@assemaassemova2525
Жыл бұрын
Insights: 1. NO to people pleasing trait 2. My priorities are higher than others' 3. Talking with myself is also therapy 4. Do not chase but attract (?) 5. Do not seek for validation 6. Do whatever you find right for yourself
@mayinthehood
Жыл бұрын
thankyou so much for this
@emily.vicworld
10 ай бұрын
This woman has truly changed my life
@doesitlooklikeigafcusidont1321
10 ай бұрын
“Ppl will love you and support you when it’s beneficial” !!!!
@oosjsdh5791
Жыл бұрын
I do not know if you do read comments but I wanted to tell you that you’re probably one of the youtubers who when I first saw in the thumbnail thought to myself that you were gonna end up being one of those people who just shout out repetitive and quotes that do not really actually give us good advice. You gave out very good advices and you were one of the youtubers who were not just relatable but that boost everyone needs and the reality check people need. If you’re reading this I hope you keep making more videos, and for the people who are reading this as well, I wish you go over any issues or problems you have, I pray for you all.
@user-gl9fi3zj6w
Жыл бұрын
that's true. I have always looked down at people like Liz thinking stereotypes like "she's just a spoiled girl from a rich family who decided to become an influencer just because she fell for the illusion that she's wise and smarter than us" and "she may be rich but at least I've got blank blank blank" etc. I don't trust rich people giving me unachievable advices on anything BUT once I got older I understood that there is, in fact, something that I can learn from a "classy luxury" type girl. So here I am
@CupCake5502
Жыл бұрын
A question I now ask myself is “Would they do this for me?” I know ppl express love differently. So it may not be the exact thing, but I guess it’s at least an energy equivalent. It’s kept me from overextending myself
@abrillicera1559
Жыл бұрын
I guess you can do things for people who don't, but balanced.
@ebony1818
Жыл бұрын
something i should’ve asked myself yesterday. while i was crying over this guy for a very very stupid reason . he was suppose to buy me food & ended up buying it for someone else .. i believe he lied about getting something for me & never really liked me anyway & i cried & cried I should’ve asked myself would he cry over me? definitely not
@ebony1818
Жыл бұрын
the other person was a girl & ofc i was jealous but it’s fine
@pura1
10 ай бұрын
I always thought being selfish meant you couldn’t be humble. But you’re right you can be anything in this world. Not going to be a puppet to people. Being a people pleaser is truly dangerous.
@Elley949
7 ай бұрын
Girl never stop making such videos many girls out there need a person like u in their life's if not in person than through social media like you're videos are helping me a lot to learn detachement keeping my self first prioritising my goals
@zeldris478
Жыл бұрын
This happens when you start treating people nice and expecting them to treat you back the same way. That's how nice people end up changing, they feel consumed and dumped.
@user-kz2ef6dg5s
Жыл бұрын
When i do something good to anyone i don't expect good back... That's what my religion thought me. If u do good do it for ur lord and expect rewards from god not from imperfect creatures.
@A.D-Cali
Жыл бұрын
@@user-kz2ef6dg5s well said
@user-kz2ef6dg5s
Жыл бұрын
@Vicar Amelia 💯% true..
@girlboss5305
Жыл бұрын
@Vicar Amelia yes yes!
@girlboss5305
Жыл бұрын
@@user-kz2ef6dg5s صدقت يا ابراهيم 3>
@puzzytalented
Жыл бұрын
I feel immensely grateful for this channel. I'm 17 and I've been through all these bs you're talking about.Fortunetly I'm over these self destructive behaviors,no desire to ruin the rest of my life because of it.i love you Liz,you're like the older sister I never had.
@thanaavlogs3061
Жыл бұрын
Me to , اثق بك💓
@jaydelock2514
Жыл бұрын
Same here, I resonate with what you said a lot! Liz is incredible, she was meant to come into our lives for us. So proud of you for making this life changing choice, good luck!
@Reenel175
8 ай бұрын
Theres a fine line between narcissism and loving yourself in a healthy way
@fxrii.h
Жыл бұрын
I felt every word she said! Literally MY SOUL FELT EVERYTHING SHE SAID.
@dorratrojette
Жыл бұрын
You mentioned an important part here 6:10. why nobody reaches to me when good stuff happens ? Why do people only reach out to me when they have problems ? I realized that with my bff as well. With me she’s the sad girl unsatisfied with her life and always calls me to complain about her life but then I open social media and she’s partying every weekend, going out with her friends and I’m where exactly in all of this ?? If I’m not in your life for the good and the bad than I don’t want to be in it at all !! ⚠️⚠️⚠️ (Little update: she texted me saying where I’ve been cuz I distanced myself from her and stopped initiating convs and I told her that im busy with life and blah blah blah and she got pisssssed lolllll. Anyways im moving abroad in less than a week and she’s obvs not super happy about it but I am cuz this is the best opportunity to meet new people and create new experiences without her being in every one of it !!! )
@Jennifahh
Жыл бұрын
That happens to me with my friend...always complaining but she does better than me and is always with other ppl having meals and parties....
@gauriiii721
Жыл бұрын
Samee... exactly same happened with me... i slowly realised everything.... now I will break the chain enough is enough. She used to say we are bff and i used to ask her how are you is everything fine... Dont worry everything will be alright.. But she never asked me how I was. She used to ignore me just for some of her friends who were boys. ( but i was stupid i ignored all these things), she used to show she is very sad but when i open social media... Thats the opposite. If anything imp happens I used to tell her that news.. But she never told her any imp life success and events to me... Advice : Be alone.... If you don't have any bff don't worry... But never put yourself on pedestal.
@marie14o_o2
Жыл бұрын
She's your bff but are you hers? Sometimes you have to take a step back and ask yourself if this is really the type of friend you want
@prashcrush6624
Жыл бұрын
This is literally all my friendships summed up. My friends always reach out to me for advices or help but never include me in their outings. I feel so hurt by this. I know the solution is to cut them off and i exactly did that after giving them multiple chances however i still not understand why does this happen to us in the first place? Like we are being so accommodating, helpful and such a good friend to you then why would you not want me in your parties??
@dorratrojette
Жыл бұрын
@@prashcrush6624 because they’re taking us for granted. Not everyone has a good heart like us. It’s hard to accept but that’s the reality. So until we find good people where respect and love and affection is mutual we work on our self esteem and self love ❤️❤️
@aur1290
Жыл бұрын
i really love how you pointed out that at the end of the day, it is our mistake. because most of the time, we somehow blame it on people- but it's only happening because we let them to. that it is indeed a reality we make for ourselves. and i've learned that the hard way. i used to always complain about at least getting the appreciation and acknowledgement of my efforts, but i realized that people don't owe me anything. and that's when i realized i do not owe them a shit as well. i love this video.
@user-cv2vo5wn9m
Жыл бұрын
period queen
@ryrose3431
Жыл бұрын
Not our fault if we as children were taught how to be that way. It’s our responsibility to realize it now though, yes.
@aur1290
Жыл бұрын
@@ryrose3431 i totally agree!
@astha6232
Жыл бұрын
This happened with me omg. I was always that 'therapist friend' giving advices, helping others mentally & emotionally when I myself was so depressed. What I realized later was that by being this way I was actually attracting those kinds of ppl in my life who needed emotional support. Then this one friend (who I used to give free therapy) dumped me in the darkest time of my life, I decided to fuck this shit. I'll love myself, be selfish and put myself first. I'll not do over the top things for my loved ones IF they're not doing the same for me. Being that advice-giving-friend takes a toll on you too so don't do it for the people who don't deserve it. I'm better now and going ahead in this journey 💜
@_shreyaa._
Жыл бұрын
I can say her energy isn't going to waste at all. I watched her videos before and I've changed and I'm feeling the ✨BEST✨ and now I'm back to watch her videos to get more motivation. She says she doesn't helps us, we help ourselves and yeah that maybe right but she for sure pushes us to help ourselves. Thank you Liz ❤️
@ailaralovesfashion
Жыл бұрын
I used to think I was confident but this woman right here showed me, that confidence is a journey, not a destination
@alexislamberson1901
Жыл бұрын
I’m new to your channel. I must say… *I AM OBSESSED* You are like that big sister I never had and I have two. The advice you give is unmatched and raw and true and tough love. I’m always in a cycle of being on top of my self care and priorities then I fall back into a hole and it’s just a pattern. Before I had my son I always had that will power and consistency and now? I find it hard to stick with it. Your videos are helping me TREMENDOUSLY. So Liz, thank you girl. 🤍
@jerryrichardson6442
2 ай бұрын
I love your truth Liz!! Thank you for these reminders. Cheers!
@shiela2349
Жыл бұрын
Liz, i was with my friends over the weekend and we were taking pictures. One of my friend who was taking the group picture said that I am on my "main character" energy 😂 YOU did that... Thank you
@barbieg0re0
Жыл бұрын
When Liz said “They will not have the same mindset as you, they will not have the same heart as you, they are not you” I felt that, and I was literally thinking about why people are like this and now I have clear understanding from it. Thank you so much Liz 💗💗
@PavanKumarHB
Жыл бұрын
Being alone and spending my own time with myself is another flow of super power inside me☺
@aldra8507
Жыл бұрын
When it was summer I was always alone and hanging out alone. Sharing a room and going back to school took a lot of my alone time away. I will have a room soon so hopefully that will help me and I think it will but not as much as my summer free time
@PavanKumarHB
Жыл бұрын
@@aldra8507 I hope your wish come true immediately. Being alone is privilege.
@octavioenriqueromerocorona1997
Жыл бұрын
@@PavanKumarHB lack of social skills and don't have any friend at all are not a privilege, spend too much time alone can be terrible for you mental health. We need to stop of turning virtues in vices.
@PavanKumarHB
Жыл бұрын
@@octavioenriqueromerocorona1997 please learn English grammar before replying. You don't know about me, people like you judge others just in one glance or on one word and try to ruin other life. This is reason I stay away from toxic people like you. If you don't like my reply on this video then just pass by, no one is eagerly awaiting for your faulty knowledge. I hope this thing gets inside your brain. So from now on stop judging people and do continue to mind your own work.
@lori8885
Жыл бұрын
@@PavanKumarHB trust me it's detromental for yr mental health you should balance
@ronaksaxena8913
Жыл бұрын
Hey guys I am a boy here.. I learn alot from her.. She helps me too..
@priyanesan3299
17 күн бұрын
I am New to your channel. This is GOLD. I was raised by Malignant passive aggressive covert NPD. Now I have been living 5 decades as a VOMIT BUCKET for my friend’s trauma, family’s drama and for their pain and sufferings. I was always there for all of them. When I need something they disappear. Only past two years I learnt about NPD. I need therapy to recover completely. I have gone so far that if I do something nice for myself I feel guilty. This video found me at this right time.🙏
@Godisfirst21
Жыл бұрын
WOW, this is exactly my life. I am so selfish now. I'm 50 years old and I'm living my BEST life! You are learning this so young. I'm so proud of you and as a 50 year old, if you ever need anything from ME, I am here for YOU!
@shevivasworld9299
Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@username-hd4ls
Жыл бұрын
THAT'S SO SWEETTTT OMG🥺
@Godisfirst21
Жыл бұрын
@@username-hd4ls Wishing you a magical day darling.
@fastlearner2568
9 ай бұрын
Woow how can l get in touch with you
@Godisfirst21
9 ай бұрын
@fastlearner2568 What do you need Darling. Your fairy Goddess mother is here for you.
@cori9344
Жыл бұрын
i JUST had this conversation with my siblings , ever since little i wanted to be everything but selfish, i hated that word, i put myself so low in the bar that i adopted the mentality that everyone comes first, and that i should never speak up. 2021 was a year of growth, i went into situations where people took advantage of how ''calm'' and ''understanding'' i was, it put me more low than i had put myself and it was like something switched in my mind, it was that hurt of beind disrespected, the feeling of not being important enough that motivated to become the most self-centered, selfish person i've been in my entire life and i DON'T regret it. totally agree with you Liz
@mirelasemanjaku
Жыл бұрын
I had the exact same situation as you, even the year :D
@blurrysaika
Жыл бұрын
it's not being selfish, it's about loving yourself and take care of yourself. if you are selfish then you're ugly. sorry for my english
@blurrysaika
Жыл бұрын
enough to say that selfishness is good, stupid people.
@cori9344
Жыл бұрын
@@blurrysaika so true!!
@user-yt5mc2tq4g
8 ай бұрын
people pleaser is exactly word for me and thank you so much for your sharing. i look forward to listening your video
@Gambarkan3D
Жыл бұрын
this video is incredibly meaningful, I'm not a woman but I think what Liz said applies to everyone
@bruna.brandt0303
Жыл бұрын
My goodness, you just described the entire process I am going through right now. I am 35 years old, but 30 years of my life, I have spent pleasing people and running after them. Never standing up for myself, never listen to own my needs, never respecting myself. Last year my body and mind just couldn't deal with that anymore. My body was imploring me to stop. As your my mom, my mother was a people pleaser all the way, plus, she wanted to be everybody's darling all the time. For this specific reason she ignored me for so many years, let people scold at me, scream at me, and barely or rarely did something about it. Just to be in good terms with everybody, therefore costing me a lot of pain, shame and trauma. She herself rarely respected my needs or my complaints, beat the heck out of me with a belt for literally every little thing I did. Never gave me space to evolve as a little human being I was. Never really listened to what I had to say, and when I wanted to express my feelings she shut me down telling she's going to cut my wings off. Pretty much like who am I to try "to fly" like that while being so small. The result of all of that was me at the age of 19 loosing her to a terrible disease and begging for people's love and affection. The way she raised me made me the most me insecure and indecisive person. Making impossible for me to understand my value, to have confidence and some self respect. End of last year, my mind and body couldn't bare with that any longer. I was having a major mental and emotional breaking down, that lasted months. I was in so much pain. Today I am not really mad at all people that used me, stole money and things from me, that backstabbed me so many times, that lie to me and talked bad about me while I was helping them with everything I had. I am not mad at them for being such energy vampires and narcissists. I am actually sad and disappointed at me for not being able to stand up for myself when I needed to. For not saying the word NO when I couldn't do anything anymore, for breaking all my own boundaries and not for loving myself enough to protect me from evil people. That's why I am learning step by step to be selfish. I am no longer serving peolple needs over my needs. I am no longer peoples doormat. Today I have a voice, and I think about me FIRST and if you slap me and mess around with me, you are going to get the triple back, that's for sure. Thank you so much for this video Liz ❤
@shirasheartbeats
Жыл бұрын
I feel you..i also have the same sadness when i look at my own story. but i think from those states we did our best. the proof is that we survived and i believe in that type of healing that really leaves only the wisdom of the past and nothing more. i wish for you this as well as for myself and others thst went through this
@bruna.brandt0303
Жыл бұрын
@@shirasheartbeats Thank you darling, I wish you all the best through your journey.
@Ibegazelle
Жыл бұрын
You just inspired one person👍🏻 was able to relate so much to you.
@Madeliefschram
Жыл бұрын
Damn, love your power! So inspiring! Use it! You're stronger than you think you are :)
@adeline3684
Жыл бұрын
Do not be disappointed in your past self! You did the best you could with the tools you were given to survive. Be proud that you had the energy to keep it up so you could keep yourself from the harm you would have suffered by those toxic people if you would have not obeyed. Be proud that you still are ❤️ Be proud of having clarity now and investing your energy in turning your life into what you have always deserved!
@sofiaa2630
Жыл бұрын
I definitely can relate to this. I am 21 years old and I spend all my time in school trying to fit in and trying to make friends by pleasing them and not long ago I started to realize that being a little selfish I was going to see the true intentions of those so-called friends, now I have no friends, literally no one, but I'm totally fine with it and I feel better that way. I will start college very soon and I hope I can do things right this time. It is not bad to think more about your own feelings, just be kind to others but be kind to yourself too.
@raiiishaaa
Жыл бұрын
lmaooo i dont have any friends either. i used to have a ton but i realized how fake everyone is and blocked a few people. with friends like those who needs enemies. we're better off
@hoeteadotjpg
Жыл бұрын
Turning 21 in 10 days and same here girlllllieee
@211r6
Жыл бұрын
same here…
@OneDirectionSele
Жыл бұрын
Same girl! I'm 20 and I don't have any of my friends from high school anymore. The only one I still talk to has been my friend for years, and we can go months without talking to each other and still be fine. Other than that, I definitely tried to fit in and people please with many people in high school, and my exes. During the pandemic, my closest friend would always complain about her job to me, and we worked the same job!. I became the trauma dump for her to pile on. I'm now trying to find new friends, and it's taken some time to figure out who I want as a friend, setting my boundaries. Now I struggle with whether or not I'm giving too little because I'm tired of giving too much. I don't answer my texts right away anymore, and that's one of the things I'm most proud of myself for. I just wanted to say its OKAY if you're "in-between" friends, because all we are doing is learning and growing. The right people will come to you as long as you have boundaries.
@Lusia_j
Жыл бұрын
Nearly 20 and I have nobody but my boyfriend. I cant come to terms with it I feel so lonely. How can I just accept it?
@hibarmd688
8 ай бұрын
I remember like since I started school, i was like very timid and very very used, because I liked having friends around me, actually i thought they was real friends the point that I did everything I can to please them, stupid me thinking that I'll be always there best friend, ignore all there selfish and there disrespect to me saying that it's normal, we're still friends, until that day that i find out there gossip on me , and that they was using me in everything i did to them as well, and I can't denial how stupid and dumb I was to not noticing it. That's why I like listening to Liz, you know this feeling when you find someone sharing same memories as you❤❤
@nithyamurugan4230
9 ай бұрын
Love you sooo much liz. I recently got embarrassed a lot by a guy who judged me in just 2 days. Like I’ve been living my life for 26 years and I know myself better that he does. I was so stupid at the first place to reply him after he texted after ghosting me for weeks. You’re literally an eye opener 🙏🏻🙏🏻 bless you girl..❤️
@mei7952
Жыл бұрын
How can smo not loving her.....she just gives us the confidence we need♡
@itsmeee77
Жыл бұрын
She's amazing 💖💖
@Ghostface33
6 ай бұрын
She doesn't give you confidence my love, you give that to yourself she just gives us advice on things she's been through so we can have a little push on our journey of being the highest version of ourselves
@taylormccorkle1099
Жыл бұрын
wow you worded everything on point, I’m currently going through a reflection in life where I’m realizing that 90% of my friendships I am the “go to”, ppl pleaser, “dependable” friend, or vent buddy. And I’ve gotta to the point where I’m exhausted and question are these ppl even my real friends but it feels like they don’t even bother to ask about me. Thank you for this video Liz.
@lizzie7929
Жыл бұрын
Very true, I'm figuring that out also!
@dystopianwitch
Жыл бұрын
yes! my old friends were like this and i dropped them and its the best thing ive ever done but thats my situation, u do whats best for u but u should tell them if they go to u again that u dont want to hear it
@pl9879
10 ай бұрын
I am on the journey to be more selfish and put myself first. To care more about my own goals and make myself happy. I really enjoyed watching your videos. They have helped me so much. Thank you so much for making them!
@nashra_aesthetixs22
Жыл бұрын
I just can't.... after being people pleaser for my whole life everyone dumping their problems on me and me as always providing them the help especially i was a speaker like i can easily motivate or understand someone else people have said me tons of time I'm a good freind just because I was a helper. But when I needed help no one was there no one has ever ever ever understand me watching this video I'm literally crying I'm not being dramatic but seriously for the first time ever someone has understood me . This girl is a real real helper may allah bless you Liz. You are a saviour as a teenager i couldn't get a therapist but here are you a total saviour☺️❤️
@Jillsker
Жыл бұрын
"Their opinion can change your reality. When you are the one that always creates your own reality" Girl I am covered in chills...Painfully true.
@joanahenriques5493
Жыл бұрын
Same. I had to stop for some minutes before i went back to the vídeo. This message will never leave me
@mariya9206
Жыл бұрын
This is not being selfish. This is literally just self love and loving yourself enough to stop allowing anything that doesn’t serve you. Loving yourself will trigger other people that are insecure and can hate you for that but you know what ? Being a people pleaser will not get other people to love you either so love yourself first and don’t be afraid to lose anyone in the process. ❤
@flyingsolotiltheend3058
10 ай бұрын
I want to be the most selfish person in the world.
@bellastars23
6 ай бұрын
❤❤
@Jewelsessences
3 ай бұрын
We dont “lose” ppl they just fk off as they should
@akanshakumari7743
9 ай бұрын
This woman saved me . Changed my opinions. Lots of love to you Liz.
@mutiaratita7446
9 ай бұрын
I was a people pleaser too because my family always blame me for prioritizing myself. Growing up, I feel like being selfish is not that bad and I can't always fulfill what people need when I don't. And your video makes me sure about that. Thanks a lot Liz✨
@pudding2222
Жыл бұрын
I'm still a teenager, but in these last years I became "selfish". For a while I felt extremely guilty and like the worst person, like I was a narcissist. Who doesn't care about anything or anyone. This year I had my first appointment with the psychologist and I told her about it in more detail. She made me realize how necessary it was to focus on myself and my self-esteem. I have learned a lot these last few months and I feel confident about my actions And the part about giving explanations YES!
@pinkfeet518
Жыл бұрын
girl i don’t know you but i am so proud of you! it’s taken me until this year (i’m 26) to realize that no one will be there for me like i am for them. keep being selfish and save your love and energy for people who appreciate it AND reciprocate it
@thewizardlizfan
9 ай бұрын
I was constantly trying to save a guy who was going through a heartbreak because he couldn’t be with the girl he loved and I spent so many months listening to his problems and even started liking him at a point but damn this video gave me a reality check.It’s not okay to be there for everyone all the time and trust Liz when she says god is making them experience that for something big.
@crewsided
11 ай бұрын
This is the first time I’ve felt genuine confidence in myself. Actually keeping my perception of reality and identity even around other people. This is what truly being authentic really means and all this time I thought I was doing it but I wasn’t. My mom is an extreme people pleaser as well. As soon as another human being entered my line of sight I would literally become a shell of a person. They could talk their truth all day long and for that duration I might as well have been that person. Every word out of my mouth if any was to make sure they felt validated and seen. While not offering a single piece of myself. It drove me crazy. I’m done with that shit.
@Dashasventures
Жыл бұрын
This made me realize how much of a people pleaser I was. I always asked how their day was, but they never asked about my day. I was surrounded by people who always made themselves the victim, complained, and didn’t really care about me. Thank the lord I cut those toxic relationships.
@bemyselmarie
Жыл бұрын
Everytime I feel to text my ex i watch her videos 😭
@shrutsy
Жыл бұрын
just remember the reason why he isn't in your life anymore and try to forget his existence, i can understand i am struggling through that only and if told liz how he had treated me she would literally slap me for not leaving him way more earlier 😭😂its hard to leave for mental peace someone u love who is really toxic but self respect >>>>>love 🙂💫🤎
@bemyselmarie
Жыл бұрын
@@shrutsy honestly even i feel like i should have left before 😭😭 . But nvm it's never too late. I had to shut my feelings to save myself i cannot go after the same pain again and again .
@shrutsy
Жыл бұрын
@@bemyselmarie u are strong gurl u can do it💪 💫💜we will overcome every pain which is meant to destroy us ✨
@bemyselmarie
Жыл бұрын
@@shrutsy same goes to u my girl . We won't let any one take advantage of our love for them we deserve better
@dylanbarron1089
Жыл бұрын
.....for real though
@balance7350
Жыл бұрын
As a highly sensitive empath I can completely relate to this message. Giving everything to everyone and getting nothing back. Lots of trauma dumping, crappy presents etc....until I stepped back. Things are way different now and I deliberatly dont accept anymore close or familiar friends to protect myself. A current friend that I was quite close too i have moved our meet ups/conversations to every three months as all she talks about is her boyfriend problems. I just have friendly acquaintances. I dont really offer to help anyone anymore. I plan my day to suit myself and spend a lot of it on my own walking in parks, coffee shops and just reflecting, practicing feeling good, law of attraction etc. Its completely changed my life. I also do this in relationships too, I sit back and allow myself to recieve.
@onepathprojects9683
Жыл бұрын
I love this for you. I am in the same position and am learning the hard way that, you gotta do you! It’s sad that we as humans have to consciously make decisions not to lend a helping hand because more often, helping comes at the cost of your peace! The least ppl could do is be grateful and appreciative but nah, they come with more and more trash to dump on us like we are trash collectors
@vidhipanchal9241
Жыл бұрын
You know I'm still a teenager and I've gone through everything you're talking about and even while watching this video I felt that this is what I wanted to hear! You literally jumped into my every thought going on in my mind rn! You're doing really appreciable job, I'm so grateful that I heard you today, you're going to achieve everything you have desired and aimed of in your life one day!
@dorratrojette
Жыл бұрын
Liz you might be an empath just like me! I realized that I’m always there for people and I genuinely from the bottom of my heart try to help people out but realized over the years that nobody really sees that, the effort and the concern and all that, no, they throw that behind their backs and move on with their lives. Now what I learned is : If I feel my attention and effort that I put into this friendship is not reciprocated I will simply stop. If they don’t send a msg to check up on me I won’t. If they don’t invite me for dinner or coffee I won’t either. Stop giving your energy away to the wrong people !
@itscrystalv444
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been a people pleaser my whole life and I just turned 22 this year and I’m just starting to put myself first. I had to realize that not everyone deserves the good parts of me. I don’t need to be only the good parts to people.
@minikaur4993
Жыл бұрын
I turned 22 this year and honestly I am going through the same thing.
@Yoruichi_ichi1
Жыл бұрын
Same age n yes had the same realization!!❤
@ladyaridette9661
Жыл бұрын
Same age, same journey. The only thing is how hard it is to remember your own personality when you're pleasing people, because you tend to mirror them so that they're comfortable and happy. I'm re-learning things about myself after losing myself to others
@minikaur4993
Жыл бұрын
@@ladyaridette9661 this!!!! I totally forgot who I was and it's very difficult to revive yourself but I am taking it day by day . Hopefully, I'll find my old self back again.
@itscrystalv444
Жыл бұрын
@@minikaur4993 I say the same thing to myself. I’m still trying to find my old self but also trying to find the higher version of myself as well.
@martinadepalma8418
Жыл бұрын
I'm seeing your videos and you're helping me. I'm Italian and I'm a teenager, and hearing those videos is really comfortable for me and for my life. I'm standing that I should put me in the first of all, and than , when I'm Okey with myself , I can help the other people. Thank you for your help, it's very comfortable for me.❤
@anithaintana7792
Жыл бұрын
Being people pleaser is my biggest mistake sometimes i make a very bad decision just because i want to help others i just know how to said "yes" In the end i feel tired helping people and got no feedback at all I drained all time I waste my time, money, energy But others just paid me with "Thank You"
@sahithi3085
Жыл бұрын
BECOMING SELFISH IS THE BEST THING I EVER DID. 1. Stop arguing with people who are not willing to listen. 2. Start prioritising ur own needs and wants. 3.stop being available and trying to save everyone. 4.sometimes u helping is actually sabotaging god's plan. 5.start being ok with people misunderstanding you. 6. Realise dat u can change only urself. 7.stop needing people to validate ur self worth. 8. Talk to urself, take urself on dates, hug urself, compliment urself. 9. Less chasing, more attracting, be in ur feminine energy more. Relaxed, calm, allowing, receiving. 10. Only adding great people to my life. 11. Stop seeking people's permission to do what u want.
@seharpant5195
Жыл бұрын
taking notes for myself 1). stop arguing with people who are not willing to listen. when people cross your boundaries and are not willing to work on their issues or apologies, stop engaging. cut them off. whatever you want goes first. 2). fill your own cup first. are you okay? are you whole? if not, don’t talk. make sure you’re okay first. 3). stop being available at all times. if your phone is always on, if you’re making people believe that you’re fine, it’s on you. establish your boundaries. you cannot save everyone, you can’t save someone who doesn’t wanna change. 4). start being okay with people misunderstanding you. you have to realise that people are different and they will not understand you!! they do not have the same mindset as you. they are not you, so they will not get it. that’s it. you have to accept that. 5). stop trying to change people. human loves comfort. so, it takes a lot of discomfort to change and most people don’t want that. people HAVE to want it and you can’t make them. 6). stop needing people to validate your self worth. see those qualities in yourself. know what your worth it, know what your qualities are. if you constantly need that validation from others, you’re a slave to their opinions. their opinions will change your reality, when YOU’RE the one who creates your reality. 7). talk to yourself. hug yourself. go on dates with yourself. let things flow and let yourself receive things. stop chasing and start attracting. 8). only add great people into your life. people need to add value into your life.
@mekailahmcchriston1775
9 ай бұрын
OMG you spoke to my soul in this video! I love all of your content. I've been going through a phase of isolation bc I've been drained for a while from being a people pleaser all my life. I recently had to create some strong boundaries for myself, and old friends try to make me feel bad for doing what's best for me. So I thank you for this confirmation. I really needed to hear that I am moving in the right direction, and sometimes being selfish is necessary. Thank you and God bless. I'm looking forward to hearing more of your videos
@kamilia0919
6 ай бұрын
Thank you Liz, you have changed a lot of things in my life. Now I will work on finding myself with all strength, love and selfishness. ✨💗
@MUSIC-zc3tq
Жыл бұрын
I wish I could find this video from 2 years ago. I learned a lot from the last 2 years but lost the most important 2 years of my life. Thank you Liz for the video. Who ever reading this comment start prioritize yourself otherwise you will lose so many valuable time of your life. being selfish is okay.
@shrawanisaksule9284
11 ай бұрын
Same bro same
@flyingsolotiltheend3058
10 ай бұрын
Being selfish is amazing.
@Sebastian-xp9eb
Жыл бұрын
The ''How come everyone loves me but I don't feel loved" has hit too hard. That sh*t is worse than feeling used cause it fucks up with your mind.
@ohoodhneb2949
10 ай бұрын
My too
@quynhdao-uj5st
Жыл бұрын
I watched this video many times, whenener I feel drained by people, feel used and taken advantage, I go to this video to encourage me to be selfish again just for myself and I feel so much better and get motivation to become better me! Thank you, Liz! No other words can describe the blessing I got from this video! Thank you, thank you, thank you!
@a-1574
Жыл бұрын
honestly she has the best mind set ever and i LOVE her advice it’s really changing me to the best i can be
@Mila-Nova
Жыл бұрын
This is exactly where I am at these days. Tired of people using me and dragging me into their toxic drama. By being selfish I have lost some "friends" but I gotta say my life is much more peaceful now
@PhamAnhThuQP
8 ай бұрын
I'm always afraid of misunderstanding to me because I don't want to lose any relationship that I have😔
@namratahalder3530
10 ай бұрын
I have only one thing to say. You have changed my mindset. ❤
@RealMamiJ
Жыл бұрын
Everyday I’m getting 1% closer to the best version of myself because of Liz, My inner voice is starting to sound like her and I’m so thankful for that!! ❤️❤️❤️
@marylynn259
Жыл бұрын
My parents are like your mother. I really relate to my father when it comes to being a very good person and a bit naive, always helping others etc. I too became selfish, I was hurt a lot by many friends, I just didn't understand why are people so narcissistic. When I became more selfish, it hurt at the beginning, but I really don't care anymore. If people are evil and I approve it, I'm the part of the problem. I just don't care anymore, but I'm still in the process of healing.
@vchell
Жыл бұрын
Been two weeks since I've become this
@nashra_aesthetixs22
Жыл бұрын
I relate to you
@selenaayyazi4071
Жыл бұрын
In this world and society that everyone is a narcissistic fuck especially men, becoming selfish is indeed the best thing you can do for yourself.
@nikkidoria9625
Жыл бұрын
Yes. I resonate with all this because this is where I’m at in life. I am receptive to your message…..We can only help those that are receptive to our message; and the only person you have the ability to change is yourself. There’s a power in that. Thank you ❤
@itsmxria
Жыл бұрын
My mom is still the biggest people pleaser I know, she would do anything and everything to help everyone in our city if she could. But at the end of the day she always feels really stressed and low. I, growing up, also started doing the same thing. I wanted to be like my mom because I thought that putting everyone first was the only way to live. Until I started going to therapy. I realised that it wasn't okay. And since I've been trying to put myself first and fill my own cup before I help people out and it works well for me. As for my mom, I hope one day she can put herself first too.
@padmeasmr
Жыл бұрын
Same!
@oromtitiwbo5078
Жыл бұрын
me too❤❤❤
@sonalidesilva3921
Жыл бұрын
She was right!! When somebody needed my help I was always there for them but that same people when I need someone ,they were like "ok don't worry" "that's life" .Even If we care about their problems they dont care about us.
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