I don't want to be an alarmist, but for everyone who notices a similar regression pattern, even if your child is diagnosed with autism, please have your them evaluated as soon as possible to rule out something called Sanfilippo Syndrome. It is rare degenerative neurological disorder that is akin to dementia in children, and the best rates of treatment are in those who are diagnosed very early on. Again, it's very RARE so please don't panic, but because it's so rare, many children who are eventually diagnosed with Sanfilippo are first misdiagnosed with autism and time is of the essence when receiving any treatment. Please look up Haidyn's Hope to learn more, educate yourselves and spread awareness if you can. God bless you and your precious babies ❤
@ariadne0w1
11 ай бұрын
I have also learned that lead poisoning is sometimes confused for autism, and that children with autism are more likely to get lead poisoning because of pica - more likely to put non-food items in their mouth, to do so longer, and to get diagnosed as the lead poisoning exacerbates behavioral issues.
@zuglymonster
10 ай бұрын
My friend had her son during the Flint water crisis. She was drinking water through her pregnancy and making his formula with it for a short time until it was confirmed the water was bad. He has many signs of autism and I've encouraged her to have him tested for it. She keeps saying it's not autism but lead posioning but my question is could it be autism CAUSED by the lead in the water? We've fallen out of contact for other reasons so I don't know if she's finally done the testing but I really feel she should because he could get so much more help in school and things. He was in diapers until 5 or 6. Has a hard time communicating with people. Gets very focused on one thing like lining up all his toy cars or building race tracks for them, for hours. He's a sweet boy and I hope she's able to get him help. She's expecting a new baby girl soon and I hope he adjusts well
@ariadne0w1
10 ай бұрын
@@zuglymonster No - it is lead poisoning. Since lead poisoning impacts the brain it has many similar symptoms to autism, but when children are properly treated for lead poisoning these symptoms lessen or go away entirely. It is also true that autism causes lead poisoning - in situations where towns aren't being literally poisoned by greed, children with autism are more likely to get it (from eating lead paint, etc) because they are more likely to have pica and eat non-food substances throughout and beyond childhood. And since lead poisoning will exacerbate symptoms in children who were also born with autism this leads to it being diagnosed earlier, in addition to misdiagnoses of autism.
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
@theoneandonly1158
10 ай бұрын
@@zuglymonsteryou sound beyond nosy
@blacknwhitejuly
11 ай бұрын
People are so stupid. I’ve had a family friend tell me that there’s no way my daughter is autistic and that kids don’t just lose skills they have learned and stop speaking. I got so upset I didn’t even try to argue I just got up and left. Then I sat in my car and cried because it seems like nobody wanted to accept her diagnosis and support us along this journey. ❤ much love to your family and you sweet girl!
@valerielord1088
11 ай бұрын
I had a friend tell me that my BIL told her that our son wasn’t autistic - just a spoiled brat! People are awesome, aren’t they?
@darienjohns808
11 ай бұрын
i think theres something. when children arent that way from birth, then just all of a sudden stop talking. & go through this regression. i think something has to have happend to trigger it.
@karakane9898
11 ай бұрын
So sorry this happened to you. You were trying to accept a drastic diagnosis and had to put up with ignorant big mouth. Smh
@kwonsmommy
11 ай бұрын
It's not they are losing skills and I'm sorry it was explained to you as that it is a we is selective mutism and is common with asd
@bertasanchez9325
11 ай бұрын
My son is high functioning (I know they have levels now). It took my family about a year to accept and understand that yes, he has autism and does some things differently.
@nancymccartan1045
12 күн бұрын
My daughter was the same. She was so sweet, easy going, speaking in full sentences by 14 months old. At 15 months we noticed her personality change and she stopped talking. It has been a very long road filled with many specialists and today at 27, she has many social issues but is brilliant in her speech and writing abilities. In her case, music was key to her regaining her speech and movement. Bless their hearts, they struggle so and we were so blessed to have such a positive outcome.
@carmencarp3594
11 күн бұрын
Yes, they're not born autistic if you hear a lot of these parents, what they're saying is that one day they weren't and the next day all of a sudden they were. Look at the dates of when you got your kids vaccinated. There are books on this stuff. Old studies on this stuff. Certain countries have even stopped vaccinating their children. If you feel the need to still vaccinate them, request the doctor to do them one at a time. They only do three or four at a time because the doctors in a hurry it's to benefit the doctor only
@elijahishere
11 күн бұрын
@@carmencarp3594 vaccines don't cause autism. Stop spreading misinformation.
@rachelh5211
11 күн бұрын
@@carmencarp3594Bingo.🎯 Thank you for sharing this because I was about to do the same. Parents *need* to hear about it, really ponder it with an open and honest mind, and then when/if they admit the truth, they need to speak out!!!
@kristiejohnson904
10 күн бұрын
@@carmencarp3594it's because of when the brain synapses change and start pruning. Please look into the actual findings before continuing to spread info that has been disproven over and over. It's genetic.
@kristiejohnson904
10 күн бұрын
Also, the original doctor that said that even admitted to making false claims.
@andreaedwards5557
11 күн бұрын
My sister kept telling my nephew's pediatrician that something was wrong, but he kept telling her that he was fine and not to worry. Although reserved, my nephew consistently scored high in math and science but had no social skills. Unbeknownst to the family, he also exhibited a number of telltale signs of autism, but the doctor wouldn't hear of it. When my nephew was in high school, my sister was forced to take him to see another doctor because his usual pediatrician was away. Upon observation, that physician gave my sister a referral for him to get tested by a specialized team of doctors at a nearby hospital. He was diagnosed as being autistic, but the late diagnosis made it impossible to get him much needed help in other areas. Early diagnosis matters. If you know there's something wrong and your doctor won't listen...find one that will.
@papersongs3482
6 күн бұрын
Sounds a lot like my son. But the doctor just kept saying 'he's just a boy'. I had 3 boys, none of which were like him. At age 35, he is now being diagnosed!
@t.3454
23 күн бұрын
My son was the same way. Before he turned a year he was making sounds and starting to speak, but then he regressed. He is verbal today at 24, but his speech is definitely behind and always has been. Thankfully he is very high functioning, but we did a lot to help him advance and I'm VERY glad we did. Keep working with your children, it is ALWAYS worth the labor.
@mackenzieneal1660
13 күн бұрын
I wish someone had helped my Parents. I was officially diagnosed at 15 years old. The Doctors all said it was just symptoms from ADD and ADHD. Then the anxiety and rage shut downs happened then my parents got me in to see neurologists for brain scanning. I'm doing better now, I just wished I had gotten help so much earlier.
@t.3454
13 күн бұрын
@mackenzieneal1660 I'm sorry to hear that you had a difficult childhood for a time, but your parents finally got you the help you needed and that's wonderful. I feel as parents we need to EVERYTHING so our children will be healthy adults. I hope you are still getting the help you require. Thank you for sharing. Blessings.😀
@kellycarlson9303
13 күн бұрын
I have the same story with my 24 year old son. 😊
@PurpleSyn
12 күн бұрын
I always thought people were born with autism. I didn't know you could regress
@kristenjohns8498
11 күн бұрын
@@PurpleSynyou are born with autism. The regression is part of it. You can be diagnosed as a child, develop into adult who functions pretty good and if too much stress happens you can have a regression even then. Not being able to drive or keep yourself clean etc.
@KAITHEINVADER56
Жыл бұрын
People are awful. Shes so sweet
@enochelisha89
Жыл бұрын
She looked completely normal to me. JS. There are also many people that lie and cheat the system to get likes and popularity. So don't take it personally and go get your money in the Tylenol lawsuit. 🤔.
@dont_panic8458
Жыл бұрын
@@enochelisha89 that Tylenol lawsuit is crazy imo.... I'm no doctor, but my son is in the spectrum, as is his father & many of his father's family... That tells me it's genetic.
@ave3468
Жыл бұрын
@@enochelisha89 completely “normal” she is normal.. she just has autism and who cares. If she’s lying about her baby having autism is it really affecting you that bad that you have to shame her when you don’t even actually know 💀
@jenniferlane9000
Жыл бұрын
They are , they don't know how devastating and confusing it is for the family and scary, not knowing what to expect. Before anyone comes for me. My little brother is autistic and theses are the feelings we as a family felt. So I know what I talking about.
@jenniferlane9000
Жыл бұрын
@@dont_panic8458it is genetic.
@familyoffour247
Жыл бұрын
My brother was diagnosed at age 2 and was nonverbal most of his early childhood. He's now 27, living in Indonesia with his beautiful wife, teaching English at two different schools.
@jay-el-bee
11 ай бұрын
I'm so happy to read this!
@missmiss40258
11 ай бұрын
Gives me hope ❤❤ ty
@familyoffour247
11 ай бұрын
@@jay-el-bee I'm so glad!
@familyoffour247
11 ай бұрын
@@missmiss40258 absolutely! He's an awesome guy and doing such great things. I'm glad to be able to share some of his story. ❤️
@lisafranklin9089
11 ай бұрын
Your brother is a badass❤
@JS-L90
13 күн бұрын
She's so beautiful and cute. I'm glad you found out what was going on so she can hopefully get the support she needs. My wonderful husband is autistic but wasn't diagnosed until adulthood, so we're working through what kinds of support he needs. I think realizing that he's autistic and reading up on autism helped our marriage by helping us understand each other better. We've been married 10 years and have two children. I'm madly in love with him.
@adrii9996
9 күн бұрын
❤
@missccarr89
9 күн бұрын
Man. Much love. ❤😊
@sharonjoan9997
9 күн бұрын
Amazing to read ❤
@tiffanyspence6531
7 күн бұрын
You tube is asking me to rate your comment!?!?!?! What the heck is wrong with this platform!?!?!
@donnagpalk912
6 күн бұрын
@tiffanyspence6531 They doing same to me. Then I'll get a notice saying I'm banned 24hrs from commenting bc of a comment I made 😱 but wont tell me what I said 🙃 crazy
@ldegraaf
11 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed with Autism at age 36, I don't know if I had any regression as a child, but if I had been diagnosed earlier I would have been less stressed and could have figured out ways to work with my brain rather than just assuming that I was to blame. I've known since I was 5 years old that my brain didn't work like my classmates, but I was so scared to tell anyone. So, I just learned how to mask and when I could feel myself getting overwhelmed I would find a place to cry. I'm so glad that doctors are now realizing that autism isn't just a boy thing. You guys are amazing parents and she is so lucky to have you guys watching out for her.
@chorizoramen93
11 ай бұрын
I just found out at 30 I have adhd, underdiagnosed severely in women. I feel the same, I have always known I'm different from others, just didn't know why. It's really relieving to finally have an answer so you can get treatment
@Kokose
11 ай бұрын
you most likely didn't regress because autism DOESN'T cause regression, please don't listen to these yummy mummies on youtube, join groups for neurodiversity instead and try to research the most recent scientific data with lots of quotes and properly peer reviewed. This video is a mush, the mum doesn't understand anything about autism, read some bullshit on the internet and believed it, she's very ableist.
@gaylecoleman8567
10 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@MariaThompson_sodiumglow
10 ай бұрын
i came here to say basically the same thing. i was 32 when i was diagnosed with autism (per the DSM-IV before ASD as a diagnosis). i was told throughout my whole life that i was so much smarter than everyone else and should be able to compensate. this led to a huge sense of failure and shame not to mention significant health and mental health issues. IF there is an overdiagnosis of it, so be it. i believe that's WAY better than an underdiagnosis of it--esp in us females!
@stilltrying619
10 ай бұрын
I'm 33 and was dx'd at 28. My whole developmental trajectory has been atypical. As a young child I was ahead in some ways and behind in others. Then just ahead during elementary school, except for mild social challenges. Then through college, ahead academically and behind in all other ways. Now better than I was socially, but ahead only when it comes to special interests. My executive function has not significantly improved since age 12, even though I haven't really had supports to rely on.
@hannnn5048
23 күн бұрын
I have an autistic 15yr daughter. She used to be so beautifully vibrant, always smiling , singing and dancing. Very chatty too. She began to regress around 7-8yrs old and thought she is capable of speaking she is 99 percent non verbal. She is still beautiful and amazing, just my silent and sweet princess now.
@littleoldal
22 күн бұрын
is there an explanation for regression? is it different for everyone?
@pkphilips2
21 күн бұрын
If you don't mind sharing, was there any specific event which happened just before you started seeing your daughter regress? any medication that she took? any illness? vaccination?
@emilygwilliam8299
21 күн бұрын
@@pkphilips2 Autism is something your born with people with autism are just wired differently vaccinations and medications dont cause it 😅
@Sadkoi
21 күн бұрын
@@pkphilips2 mentioning vaccinations… No. PANDAS is a thing. The brain can be damaged by streptococcal infections if it manages to get that far and can cause that or PANs I think it’s called. I’m not sure if that counts as autism or even a cause, but results in certain deficits as the child grows that they will struggle with. Autism is genetic. Her family will have major or minor signs as well that have gone unnoticed or ignored. But hers are just more noticeable and more impactful for her. The regression is (please correct me) the overwhelm of the outside world, the pressure they’re suddenly aware of. Some children are hyper sensitive to light, sounds and sensation, others are hyposensitive and don’t respond the way you would expect. The flapping is one form of “stimming” which helps a child self regulate their stress and emotions. It is really unhealthy to stop this behaviour because you then stop them from having a healthy outlet. I hum to myself, I also have Tourettes syndrome which means I can’t stop my twitches and sounds that I make, which is painful to do anyway, but when I stimm I’ve noticed the Tourettes calms a bit more. Loud noises and lights are painful, I have to wear my underwear inside out because the seams bite my skin. I can feel a grain of sand irritate me while I’m trying to sleep. It’s a complete side step to the way a neurotypical brain works, but it just means we communicate differently and can be quite literal. That can come across as rude or blunt to normal people, but to us it just makes sense to say what you mean and be clear. Double meanings I get, but when someone has a go at me for implying something, it’s absolutely a minefield when you don’t know if anything you say could offend someone a bit sensitive.
@ClaireGreen-wd2gm
21 күн бұрын
My son is 15. His autism really started to show at 3 with the stimming but he was verbal and happy. At age 11 or so he started toe walking. This was quite odd to me. I toe walked as a baby and up until about highschool but he hadnt at all until 11. Now hes 15. Hes sullen. He used to be so happy. Can barely get a word put of him anymore except for sometimes usually late a night he might talk fkr 3 hours straight but a lot of it is hard to follow because its not based on much reality. Hes showing signs of ocd now and I now doubt he is ever even able to hold a job. I was just surprised to see his symptoms get worse later in life.
@rickiavelli
10 ай бұрын
I have only just been diagnosed with ASD. I'm 25. When I was a little boy (around 4 or 5) I had the reading age of a teenager. I was however very socially underdeveloped. I would sit alone faced away from everyone and flapped my hands like Maddison does. When I was 16 I suffered through a long term burnout so intense I barely passed with half of my predicted grades. I am hopefully going to college soon to become an accountant. I know it's heartbreaking to see Maddison have to start all over again in so many ways but she will be grateful to you for being attentive to her and for noticing the signs as quickly as you did. She can have a full life, she will just have a different path to some of her peers. With parents like hers she will get where she needs to be
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZitem. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@ldegraaf
10 ай бұрын
@@amandafernandajulia There is no herb that is proven to help with autism. These herbs, just like any other supplement haven't been tested by the FDA and could cause more harm than good. Comments like this one need to be deleted for the good of everyone. These "doctors" are just snake oil salesmen. One of his products is called "Autism Buster", this is clearly a scam, but other products on the market look way more professional and I know can seem like a good idea to desperate caregivers just wanting to do the best for their kids.
@rickiavelli
9 ай бұрын
@rachelforshee6014 Well yeah but Maddison is non verbal. Because of that her path has already been slightly different to her peers. Therapy and targeted training and that for ASD was more what I meant by different
@agusguti
9 ай бұрын
@@amandafernandajuliaI was diagnosed at 26 and I'm not functional I'm just a camouflage women. Never ever disqualified a diagnosis like you just did with this person just because a 54 yo men have a normal life. He definitely has a REALLY functional ASD and is barely in it.
@Shadow_Wolf1342
8 ай бұрын
Feels nice to see this comment and shared experience. I'm younger than you are, currently on a wait list to get my diagnosis, and my path so far sounds a lot like yours. Terrible burnout, dropped out of highschool. But now I start college soon too. Hopefully we both find success there!! :) Goodluck with everything, you're very right that it's okay to take a different path.
@YonaByWayofWater
9 күн бұрын
God bless you and your daughter… I have nonverbal autistic twin daughters. One had a heart problem and had to have surgery at 8 weeks. We were told that every kid with heart issues will be delayed but for me to have both twins develop autism was highly unusual and now they are doing dna blood studies on us. Prayers for Gods mercy and blessings on us all.
@leannemo7382
9 күн бұрын
Oh my goodness. Sending a prayer your way. How old are they now?
@pjj.5649
11 ай бұрын
As a pediatric occupational therapist for 25 years, watching your child develop, don't ever compare them to anyone else's child or the so-called norm. Compare what they can do today with what they couldn't do yesterday. That's when you will feel your heart leap with joy and you'll cover their faces with kisses. I've been there and I've seen it happen over and over again. All the best!!❤
@316lvmnoneofyourbusiness7
11 ай бұрын
That is the nicest and best advice I've seen in a long, long time. You've given hope, acceptance, and love. Thank you and bless you!!
@fuckoff8214
11 ай бұрын
Maybe look into why so many kids have it?
@antoninalopez3656
11 ай бұрын
@@fuckoff8214I still think it's the shots they're given, 2 to 3 at a time is too much 🤔
@brittneymeador9079
11 ай бұрын
@@antoninalopez3656… no. It is not the shots. Autism is hard to diagnose at an early age. It is heritable meaning Shots don’t cause it they are born with it. It’s literally in their DNA. The reason why you THINK that is because they are given multiple rounds of shots by the age of 3 and autism and other neurodivergence often is unable to be diagnosed until they are around 4 or older. Don’t say dumb shit. It is not something they develop over time or something that they catch from a shot. It’s genetic. Like ADHD. Or freckles. Antivaxxers have autistic kids too😂 the ones that live through not being vaxxed anyway. the reason we are seeing a “rise” in autism diagnosis is because before the last few decades no one knew this existed. They diagnosed them defiant disorders and other similar bullshit diagnosis. Autistic people have likely always existed, we just didn’t know it nor did we know how to diagnose or treat them like humans.
@malinaxfjord5780
11 ай бұрын
@@antoninalopez3656"So many" have it because now we have better research than before so we can actually discover and help people with autism. Historically "so many" has always been there, but they were labeled as idiots, slow, dumb etc and were either kept away from society or put into institutions for "treatment". This treatment were basically spending your days without any kind of stimulation. Four white walls and some people watching you. Today we have social media where information can be spread very very easily. Huge and easily accessed forums where people all around the world can share their experiences in seconds, which wasn't possible before. Of course it looks like there are more people with autism when people are now being recognized and are actually starting to be able to get the help and support they need instead of "Oh don't mind Calvin, he's just dumb". Im saying this to you because vaccines has literally nothing to do with autism and it has been proven over, and over, and over again. One study, by one person, showed a connection between autism and vaccines. And you know why? Because he created false information and performed wrongful actions during the research. Sadly the harm is done and millons of people, to this day, still believe vaccines cause autism. The person lost his authority and medical license because what he did was so severely wrong. So, i hope this makes it clearer for you and others so we can keep focusing on giving help and support instead of putting blame where it doesn't belong.
@lestat13666
11 ай бұрын
I was diagnosed at 31. After all of these years, my early speech, reading complex novels at 6 and being antisocial and withdrawn into a shell, high functioning and still unable to understand people’s motives after speaking to them a few times makes so much sense. Autism is real. It is not fake and it presents differently in everyone.
@misschin99
11 ай бұрын
We are all on the fooking spectrum at this point, honestly.
@DeatrahBello
11 ай бұрын
My daughter is 31 we found out this year. When I read your comment it sounds just like my daughter. I will never forget one summer we were on vacation. we were taking a ferry over to Cumberland Island, and the college aged girl that was working on. The fairy looked at me and said, why does your daughter have that book. She was about seven and I said she’s reading it. She said that’s impossible. We are reading that book right now in college. She asked my daughter a few questions and she answered her. The girl was shocked. She sat with my daughter for the rest of the trip there and back just talking it was really sweet. That happened a lot with her to. But she’s a teacher now married the most beautiful person I know. Thank you for sharing your story. Take care.
@mrsandmom5947
11 ай бұрын
My son is 34, and is the same. He’s smart and works hard… but 100% anti social.
@m00nAlways0nMe
11 ай бұрын
No, not everyone is. This reeks of "everyone is a little autistic" and that's simply not true. We adult Autistics can tell you that 100%. @@misschin99
@jamierichard8631
11 ай бұрын
You sound like you're doing well. I'm sorry people are so insensitive and ignorant! ❤
@mafam22
16 күн бұрын
My daughter is 15 and in the milder spectrum of autism. When she was a baby-toddler she was like your daughter here, developing normally. For years I had no idea about regression. I thought it was something I did or didn't do 😢 But now I understand, it's nobody's fault. My daughter is happy, healthy, incredibly smart, and she has friends who understand her ❤
@memyself7956
Жыл бұрын
So many encouraging comments. I have a 5 yo who is autistic. He showed NO signs for the first year & it wasn't until he was about 18 months old that I noticed he wasn't forming a whole word properly. He has been in speech therapy since he was 2 1/2, OT & is now in Pre-K where the school has someone come in to help him. I don't know where we would be without these human angels in our life. Before my son started school, he could not even write the first letter of his name & now he can write his name, count to 20, say the full alphabet & when I ask him a question, he will answer me. Usually it's a one-word answer like when I ask how his day was, he will tell me "good" or "very good" but doesn't elaborate & that's ok, I'll take it. And he just started telling me he loves me back a couple months ago. It was music to my ears & I will NEVER forget it. If you made it this far in my comment (sorry so long) don't give up on your kids. Fight for them. Become their voice. They' are worth it. :)
@buddhafullmind
11 ай бұрын
What vaccine did they get at 18 months
@janets7291
11 ай бұрын
@@buddhafullmindYou are not going to blame vaccinations for this, are you? The doctor that wrote that study has even admitted that he made up his results so blaming vaccinations has NO basis.
@buddhafullmind
11 ай бұрын
Yes, I am. I've heard too many stories from actual people to ignore the fact that something is up. Normal people have nothing to gain from telling their stories except protecting other people's children, and big pharma has everything $$$$$$$ to lose.@@janets7291
@iammyownself8578
11 ай бұрын
@@janets7291 i would blame that, since doctors can't understand why pepole who are born healthy gets to be autistic later on life. I have my little cousin who was active and cheerful changed drastically after he took the shot. His parents took him to a lot of doctors and took a lot of CT scan of his brain, they always sai they just can't figure out which part of his brain is affected; they said, he has the most beautiful brain but we don't know what the cause of all if that is.
@janets7291
11 ай бұрын
@@iammyownself8578 And yet I know a chiropractor who is an anti-vaxxer, and his son developed autism anyway. So there's that.
@jackicampbell5326
Жыл бұрын
It was the same with my daughter and around 15-18 months, everything began to change. She's 25 now and is going to college and driving. Every year she handles it a little better. Stay strong and don't let fear steal your joy as parents. Also, trust your knowing about your daughter and don't be railroaded by a lazy or overwhelmed system.
@lavender2978
Жыл бұрын
Our experiences are very similar! Same with my 25 year old. She’ doing very well too. She works as a teachers aid for about 5 years now and helps with children on the spectrum. She can spot so many things. I did immerser her in early intervention classes before age three. I believe that helped so much
@kellypetretti-ackelbein3568
Жыл бұрын
I really think this is caused by exposure to some toxins in the environment. Brcsudevthey are small close to the ground. Heavy metals, mold, chemicals or pedticides that affect the nervous system. Trigically Autism is so common now it has to be something toxic in the environment.
@staceywilliams1863
Жыл бұрын
Was there some type of trauma?
@67502realestateambassador
Жыл бұрын
Same here...
@zenith_zenith
Жыл бұрын
What do you mean by a system?
@nylonsghost7938
Жыл бұрын
Babies generally become self aware at 15-18 months old. It would make sense that a kid that is hitting milestones very early, would become self aware very early. And then all the sudden they start noticing and realizing that they don't like this texture, sound, motion ect.... that they want different kinds of stimulation that doesn't overwhelm them That's the running theory that I have. Kids aren't regressing into autism, they've had it the whole time and it starts to show when they're more aware of how their world is affecting them.
@karaburks905
Жыл бұрын
Except that it can happen at 12.months, 2 years, 3 years of age..... no there are definitely regressive types triggered by something
@razorbladelemonade
Жыл бұрын
Or it could be the 5+? Vaccines that are on the schedule at 18 months. How does a child unlearn what they already knew? That doesn’t make sense to me, perhaps they quit learning new things but to regress requires serious brain damage it’s not some ethereal thing, people don’t become ill or stop developing for no reason.
@tessarae9127
Жыл бұрын
Fascinating, I’m subscribing in case you post videos in this vein of thought in the near future!
@rhonal4198
Жыл бұрын
As an autistic person, this makes a lot more sense. If someone does not have a learning difficulty (which is separate to being autistic, they just often co-occur) then they would not 'regress', they are likely just beginning to be overwhelmed and likely are too young to understand that this is what's happening and effectively communicate that (I don't blame them, I struggle to recognise it at 26 after years of shoving down how I actually feel so other people can feel comforted and think I'm 'normal'). Just because someone is no longer appearing as typical doesn't mean they're 'regressing'. And being pushed or forced to be 'normal' can be incredibly damaging for us long term even if it comforts people in the short term. Neurotypical people just need to learn to not be so inflexible tbh.
@hopeandtruth6108
Жыл бұрын
I feel a bit differently. My kids hit milestones early and continued to hit them all early, and never regressed in any way. Then, at almost 6, my son (middle child) randomly showed signs of autism. Like, it became severe. Turns out we had mold in our house, and toxicity issues. Cleared that up, did detoxing, and he shows zero signs now. Like, it feels like a miracle (praise God!). I think if children are progressing well, but then their bodies eventually get overloaded with pesticides, heavy metals, mold, parasites, whatever... And they can't detoxify it naturally or fast enough, they will show signs of regression and neuro charges. Also just my experience and opinion, but I've worked with autistic kids and have friends with diagnosed kids, and almost had my kid diagnosed, until it all reversed! Had he gone in two months earlier, I can't imagine he wouldn't have been given the label. But seriously, he's done a 180°. We live in a toxic world and these poor kids need us to be vigilant to keep them healthy, in every way (mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually)! ❤️
@Kelley.710
9 күн бұрын
Everyone count your blessings.. with my ptsd n mood disorder i wouldnt have known how to properly raise an autistic child.. im glad this little girl has a wonderful, attentive and mentally healthy mother❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@genevieveotto7351
11 ай бұрын
I had a professor in college. He was brilliant, engaging, hilarious, and very sensitive. He was a loving dad and husband. He had his Phd in biology and taught my A&P class. He has been one of my favorite professors of all time. He just happens to be autistic. ❤
@AutismAunnie
11 ай бұрын
That’s like a friend of mine; he has a PhD in Physics. He’s 36 and was only diagnosed in the last few years.
@Zest4life890
11 ай бұрын
He was more of an Asberger spectrum
@ellephonicno
11 ай бұрын
My favorite psychology prof was autistic too. He waited until our last class to let us know.
@angelinasouren
11 ай бұрын
My master's thesis advisor is autistic too. I had no idea. I first met him in 1984. He masks very well, far too well. 😂 I did notice a few oddities and I did misinterpret a few things that he said, in hindsight. I also turned out to have known a woman who is autistic since 1982. She has a law degree. She has only found out recently. It dawned on me after I started reading up and then I googled what I should do. So I let her know. It was her daughter who studied psychology who one day said "mom, do you know that you're autistic?" and she realized that she was and so is her sister and so had their dad been. He had a PhD in veterinary medicine.
@vikki4now
11 ай бұрын
I doubt it.
@madimoe8331
10 ай бұрын
I'm that baby 27 years later. I hate to think what my mom went through. But she loved me through it. I started to come out of my shell around kindergarten. And fully became my own person by highschool. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I still do arm flapping when I'm excited. Stemming allows me to stay in the moment and experience it with who I'm with. Sometimes it feels like I have so much love and excitement I will just burst. All of that to say.. if you keep her safe and continue to unconditionally lover her she will probably be a judge one day. This part of her life might be hard but she has a higher potential to bloom. Sending my love ❤
@_new_french_touch_
10 ай бұрын
This is so beautiful. Cheers to all the future judge-babies 💙💙
@dianasengeridou1468
7 ай бұрын
I would like to ask you a question. I have a journal which I write in since my son was born. It’s for him, I’ll give it to him when he will be an adult. I write every event in there like when he walked and where we went on vacation. I do not mention his autism anywhere. Now, I’m sitting here wondering. Would it be better to write about it? So he can see that also autism is part of our life and it’s fine? Or, should I keep autism out of my letters?
@cherigoodrich782
5 ай бұрын
@@dianasengeridou1468I'm not the person that you asked, but, this is my opinion ONLY, I would be honest. I mean if you already know and its fine, you can show him that through your letters. I think I would want to know, instead of being an adult and being surprised. IF you believe in God, ask him to guide you as what to do, he'll let you know. Best wishes to you and your son. To me, love and honesty always wins. My opinion ONLY.
@Helen-bt8gt
4 ай бұрын
At first my English is not well, I only would like to say something... My son is exactly like her in the end, his first word after he forgot everything, was in the age of 5, since this time he can repeat everything I say, but most of it he only repeats it, without understanding a word. He doesn't understand between yes or no... But we have our tricks to understand what he wants. I don't think that he will ever read... He don't even now the colour by they right name.. he can't count the numbers and he tells me since 4 years, when I ask him how old are you? He tells me always the same number... What I try to say is that there are so many different types of Autism... that I can tell you I would wish my son would have your type of autism that what he has.. My son is soon 13 years old and stays forever 4. Sometimes when he has very bad times, I cry and I'm so sad for his life and that he will never understood how much I love him and how much I would wish that someone could help him. I'm sure he feels most of the time so lost in his head...
@ViewingChaos
4 ай бұрын
@@dianasengeridou1468It's up to you whether you mention it or not- but I'd advise you to tell them about their diagnosis and write it down for them. Having autism is a big part of someone's life, and telling him will help him understand how he's different and seek support if he needs it when he's older
@reneelala4581
Жыл бұрын
I never knew this. Thank you for putting this out there for people. Maddie is adorable and has everything she needs. She is PERFECT
@mattryan6886
Жыл бұрын
I was not aware this of this either till seeing this. I’m shocked actually.
@naturalkemzo5406
Жыл бұрын
My nephew was nonverbal, too, then my sister switched his diet, and he immediately began talking.
@Thing1DadaThing2Kiki
Жыл бұрын
@@naturalkemzo5406 alot of it is environmental. I believe going all organic and changing diet and lifestyle can help alot in some cases. But she is perfect the way God made her lil cute self!
@Leo29568
Жыл бұрын
@@naturalkemzo5406 Hi Kemzo, would you mind sharing details of the diet. Might help a lot of people. So many parents are struggling with autistic children. Even scientists are not able to pinpoint exactly, what has gone wrong in autistic children. I hope that medical science would one day give some answers and a permanent cure for this condition.
@VioletJoy
Жыл бұрын
Saying she's perfect really seems to downplay the struggles both she and her parents experience. While she is precious and loved, she has a serious condition that does not allow her to experience life in an average way. That's something to acknowledge and recognize.
@rebeccakrupp9103
10 күн бұрын
I am praying 🙏 for sweet little Madison and family, as well as all challenged/sick children. May GOD bless them and His will be done.
@niqabiartist6515
Жыл бұрын
As a mother of an autistic child I have heard it all !!! The comments I get .....some are like you need to teach him who the parent is!! Others are looks like mummy and daddy have spoiled you!!! And other hurtful comments but to me it's my child I love him and I will support him as much as I can until I die!!
@atlsongbyrd6084
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you have had those ignorant comments towards you 🙏🏽
@tinaandrews2
Жыл бұрын
naaw poor thing some people think they bloody doctors and try tell you how to parent it isnt nice but i can say your not alone and i feel for you truely god bless you and your son
@momof6304
Жыл бұрын
I’ve 3 austistic children and each of them are completely different autism even though there are traits every child is different the block button is great for ignorant people who should spend their time researching different types of autism rather than commenting on something they know nothing about much love to you mamma ❤
@shellyhart4324
Жыл бұрын
I feel you. I'm just sick and tired of family members accusing me of making excuses for My daughter's behavior even though it hasn't changed since she was a child. She manages her anger a little better but, she's still that same autistic child. I raised my sister's and my brother, I automatically knew something was not right about after she got her vaccines.
@aokiemarie9036
Жыл бұрын
i am a mom of autistic child n yes i always hear those comments about my kid been spoiled...but people are not.informed they dont know anything about autism...
@DelancySynn
20 күн бұрын
Happened with my son as well. Very much on par with most children his age, always smiling, very responsive, and very loved hugs and contact. It’s all gone. He’s very much verbal and wise beyond his years at 7, but that happy smiley boy who loves hugs is just not there right now
@annelieselavery3393
11 күн бұрын
Vaccinated?? Happens to so many
@walkingdeadbarbiedoll
10 күн бұрын
I’m going through it too. I wish my son would say he loves me back or give me a hug or kiss. But he’s still my lil man! 🫶🏻
@kristiejohnson904
10 күн бұрын
@@annelieselavery3393please look into how the brain synapses form and when they start pruning. It's genetic. Stop pushing the anti vax info. There are actual very large studies on ASD. Guess what, unvaccinated children have it to.
@pdxxxxxx
9 күн бұрын
@@annelieselavery3393it happens in unvaccinated children as well. It’s not vaccines.
@Da_bear-ij9gm
9 күн бұрын
@@annelieselavery3393vaccines do happen to many. Almost all of us, in fact, and yet most people who are vaccinated do not have autism. You’re not even doing the correlation/causation fallacy correctly here bc there’s not even a correlation. The only factor they have in common is that vaccines are administered at a close time developmentally speaking as when the first noticeable signs of autism are seen. You are either born autistic, or you’re not. The fact that symptoms aren’t immediately present upon birth doesn’t mean that you don’t have it
@roseisirrelevant
Жыл бұрын
im autistic and seeing you give your baby the support she needs is so empowering. you got this - i promise!!!
@shadowbanned1999
Жыл бұрын
Autists need lead.
@saysHotdogs
Жыл бұрын
I have an autistic daughter and I’ve tried everything to ease her suffering and nothing is helping. She’s bullied and has no friends and is in pain physically and mentally all of the time. How did you turn out ok? I’m so afraid she won’t be ok
@roseisirrelevant
Жыл бұрын
@@saysHotdogs i unfortunately didn't get my diagnosis until I was 16 and that lead to a lot of bullying for reasons I didn't understand as a child. i like to think I turned out pretty alright - of course, i still have my bad days. but meeting and communicating with other autistic folk was so useful and now literally all my friends are autistic. bullying sucks. it really does, and my childhood/teenagehood was rough. it's so sad to see this as a common experience - but i promise it gets better. i cant imagine what it's like on the other side, to see your child struggling so much and i give you my whole heart. it took a little bit, but i am so much better now. thank you so much for reaching out to an actual autistic person about this, because sometimes i feel like my own voice can be drowned out by people speaking for me. im so sorry for going on a ramble haha but i assure you it gets better, especially if she gets to know the right people - depending on how old your daughter is and where you live, autism support groups helped me so much. i keep repeating this but i promise it gets better. you such like such an amazing parent. you got this 💕
@quandaledinglejoo
Жыл бұрын
@Mande Peer home schooling might be an option. K-12 is a good program. She'll probably feel a lot safer at home without having to worry about being bullied. Also with you helping her with her learning, She'll be ok. As for the pain... idk
@roseisirrelevant
Жыл бұрын
@@quandaledinglejoo oh i absolutely. i am lucky enough to be in an area where an alternative school is accessible to to me but i know that isnt for everyone. home schooling and/or online school is a good idea
@cynthiahauffen5295
13 күн бұрын
My granddaughter, right after her MMR vaccine at 10 months old went from being a happy baby with all of the normal milestones to getting sick a few hours after that and that night with a high fever in the ER. Then were told that she was vaccine injured and has been autistic since, being mostly non-verbal. She won't look at you, she makes her own sounds like gibberish mixed up with some words to herself, sensory issues and will also have occasional meltdowns and will hit herself sometimes. She's almost 10 years old now. We're getting a lot more concerned with her hitting adolescence and her reactions to so many of the changes that occur with puberty and the hormone issues. All we can do is research and do what her doctors suggest. She has her own cute personality and she loves to draw. It's difficult but special in it's own way. God bless all of the people with autism 🙏
@leeanncrowe761
12 күн бұрын
Right after her MMR vaccine? Hum?!??
@nurselori419
12 күн бұрын
MMR does NOT "cause" autism. It has been disproven time and time again. What of the children who are on the spectrum but have not had a single vaccine? Dr. Andrew Wakefield is a fraud. MMR SAVES lives . Please read the literature .
@sharonwilhelm2173
12 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry! That has to feel like such a deeply personal loss, to some degree, because the baby you knew was gone in some ways. My heart goes out to you, and I totally believe what you are saying about what caused it❤❤
@nurselori419
12 күн бұрын
@cynthiahauffen5295 She is a precious gem! Tbh when I was pregnant because my brother in law was on the spectrum we were offered GENETIC counseling. That was 31 years ago. It's so heartbreaking that these beautiful individuals are still "trapped in their own little worlds" 3 decades later. And even tho it has been disproven I still saw some parents refuse or delay MMR or all of the childhood vaccines in our clinic. Cherish her.🥰
@clareshaughnessy2745
12 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry about your baby. But truly, if one of the symptoms of autism and other developmental problems is regression and you are vaccinated almost every child, some will begin their regression just after a vaccine. It’s simple probability. The idea of vaccines being the cause has been VERY WIDELY debunked. The actual numbers just do not support it and that is after a HUGE amount of research. I know you had an experience which makes you feel like one thing caused another. But if I tripped over a kerb just after a flash of lightning it doesn’t mean the lightning makes people trip over kerbs. I don’t mean to make light of your experience. It’s just that vaccinations are incredibly important and creating fear around them when all evidence points to the contrary is not ok. One thing I do know is that measles can be a very dangerous disease and if you had picked up rubella when you were pregnant the consequences of that could have been catastrophic
@jocelynborbolla6852
11 ай бұрын
When I think of how my baby struggled to communicate and deal with how she felt, its heartbreaking. There are people who understand and there are people who are ignorant. I hope we can eventually get to where children on the spectrum are supported by EVERYONE. All they need is love, patience and understanding. It's really not much to ask for.
@cececox6399
11 ай бұрын
You that understand that NOBODY is EVER accepted by EVERYONE. EVERYONE is disliked by SOMEONE. If you teach your kids that they NEED OTHER people to accept them they're ALWAYS going to be miserable. I've got ms and I'm in a wheelchair, I don't expect ANYONE to just accept and cater to me. That's just being an obnoxious self centred asshole. Go where you're loved with the people you love. The rest is noise and doesn't matter. It's your JOB as the parents to teach them how to block out outside negativity. Because just waiting for that magical day it doesn't exist is a stupid fools errand that will ALWAYS FAIL. That day is NEVER coming. People will always dislike each other. Teach your kids that and how to avoid people who dislike them and they'll be INFINITELY HAPPIER Than teaching them everyone should love and cater to them or they're just being hayful ableists that dint accept them because of their condition... Here's a SHOCKER... Even disabled people can be unlikable assholes. Sometimes when people don't like you... It's BECAUSE of YOU. Sometimes it's telling you you're a terrible person and need to be better. And funny thing..... I've NEVER had an issue. EVER. I've even had strangers, men always. Who stop to help me. They've even jumped behind and caught me before I even realised my chair was about to tip up. They carried my 15stone wheelchair multiple flights of stairs to help me get where I'm going. Once a taxi driver literally kidnapped me and being in a wheelchair I can't just jump out. A double decker bus saw me sobbing and frantically looking around and begging the taxi driver to let me out. He used his double decker bus to pin the taxi and EVERY single man on that busy city street SPRINTED over lifted me out and they were ready to K!LL the taxi driver, because they all know the city has an issue with a certain type of taxi driver kidnapping women, and what they'll do to them. The best thing I've found about being disabled is how incredibly kind and empathetic people are. You don't need to push anything. You don't need to demand ANYTHING. Just be a GOOD person. It's THAT easy. I've NEVER had someone being an asshole because I'm disabled. I've had people politely explain the layout of their venue and where I can and can't get to in my chair to figure out if it's worth it or not for me. Just because their building is old or they're a small business who can't afford to spend TENS of THOUSANDS on rebuilding their entire business doesn't mean they're against you! Just because they politely explain they can't meet your demands doesn't make them unaccepting or uncaring. And it CERTAINLY DOESN'T make them bad people. Also I would LOVE to know why the mental patients are demanding far more than those of us who physically can't walk. Like come on you HAVE to see how stupid it's getting. I saw an autistic girl the other day literally demanding that places accommodate HER because it's NOT HER FAULT that SHE can't even turn up ON TIME for appointments and reservations, well ANYTHING. So she wants everyone to accommodate her autism by letting her show up when she can be bothered. When is enough ENOUGH... When CAN people laugh and say come on you're taking the p!ss... I worked in a small family run hotel in 07 and we had disabled people but it was never an issue. We kept one room EXACTLY the same for 40 years because we had a couple where the husband was blind and they'd come for the same two weeks every August, because that's where they spent their honeymoon together, so they came back every year. With his poor eye sight he felt comfortable and confident in that space so apart from painting and new carpet and mattresses we kept the same furniture in the exact same place. They NEVER ONCE asked. Never mentioned needing anything. But we were loyal to the customers and we had thousands of people who we had special protocols for. Let businesses decide what's feasible for them. Stop demanding and stop trying to destroy anyone who tells you NO. They're allowed. They don't owe you or your kids ANYTHING. They owe it to their family to keep food on the table. But that's IT. PLENTY of places now offer special autism friendly times, or are specially designated autism friendly. You're not short on places to go. It's just you don't want to put the effort in. You want to just show up anywhere at anytime and they're set up for you. Not how it works. Learn the art of researching the best places for you and your family and we'll pick the best for ours. And they will rarely crossover and fit both of our needs. So just let businesses decide to do what they want. And if there's millions of autistic people paying for the service... It'll spread! And MORE places will do it! SHOCKER! Also you do understand that MOST businesses will NEVER make back the money a ramp costs them because even with it they don't have enough disabled customers to use it. Often I'm the first and only. So I find the design flaws 😂 we can't keep burdening them with thousands and thousands of refits and adaptions that will NEVER bring the money back into the business. No matter HOW many years.
@kristinwojtowich8902
11 ай бұрын
@@cececox6399well...that was superbly said 👏👏❤
@LindseyMoon13
11 ай бұрын
@@cececox6399I'm going to side step much of how I feel about what you said because it is very clear from your tone that debating my views vs your views would get us nowhere because you seem very set in yours and I am very set in mine- but I do want to speak to how you mentioned the kindness and empathy you've seen from others while living your experience. You use the word stone in connection to weight and mention double decker busses being present where you're from- so not America. I truly am happy that you've had positive experiences and have been shown such empathy, likewise I'm happy that there are many countries where disabilities and mental health disorders are less stigmatized- but in America we are so, so politically charged that even these aspects are talking points, mental health issues are rarely understood by our population let alone their intricacies, and disabilities are so ingrained into our capitalist 'Merica culture that it's sickening. Many people with disabilities are scoffed at for being bottom feeders who are just too lazy to work and want government payouts, especially if their disability isn't visible or leaves them in a wheelchair but they look otherwise fine besides the chair itself-and that's been going on for generations. I'm 31 and can remember going to the gas stations with my grandparents and my grandfather getting scoffed at in the vehicle while my grandmother pumped gas. A man one time said, "oh a real gentleman...sitting there on your ass while your wife pumps the gas." My grandfather had one leg...it made the most logical sense for my grandmother to do the quick, easy, simple task of pumping gas rather than my grandfather hopscotching his way across the parking lot. That same rhetoric exists today, people side-eyeing or eye-rolling when people park in the handicap parking but their disability isn't immediately visible, expecting wheelchair bound people to still get jobs they can do just "sitting down," and having to fight with insurance companies for sometimes over a year or more to agree that your disability is real even though the doctor has told them multiple times because they don't want to pay for your check ups or health care once you have an actual issue. There ARE people here who are empathetic, of course, but the stigmas and lack of knowledge and understanding runs deep. I think that's where the OP is coming from. In that sense that people should be seen as people and respected as such with that basic layer of human decency. Everybody doesn't have to like everybody. But nobody inherently should be going out of their way to blatantly spread a nasty or hateful demeanor toward disabled or neurodivergent people based on the simple grounds of purely being disabled or nerodivergent. We even have people here who legitimately full heartedly believe with their whole chests that disabled people and nerodivergent people need to be dropped from any assistance programs because their medical expenses are "the biggest burden on society" and by dropping them natural selection will "take care of the problem." I'm very active in our political sphere and political debate world over here, so I get to here all types of beliefs on an array of topics. Most do not believe this- but there is an alarmingly large number of people who do. Different countries have different experiences and its no secret that many Americans skew on the side of being extremely self-centered and under-informed on...most things. Ignorance isn't always bliss. Ignorance also breeds misguided anger and hatred.
@allesasmart
10 ай бұрын
I disagree, society does need all those, but to expect society to "put up" with some poor behaviors allows some families to be lazy about teaching proper socialization (basic manners for example). An Austistic adult pulled out an entire container of napkins while mom stood by and let him because he was autistic? It was rude. Someone else had to clean up and the business owner had to throw the material out. To me, it means you have to parent harder and more consistently.
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
Your herbs has work wonders in my family. Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism spectrum with your herbs. Your herbs is the best.
@recklessstaghomestead
13 күн бұрын
My daughter is on the spectrum, verbal, but always showed signs. She was not diagnosed until age 14 which caused her a whole lot of frustration, anxiety, and self esteem issues. It's very easy to criticize something you know absolutely nothing about if you are the kind of person who needs to tear everyone else down in order to get a pathetic sense of superiority. Therapy is always an option.
@AH-pw1im
Жыл бұрын
This is how my daughter is. The flapping and squealing is 100% her. She never babbled though and I knew something was off from the getgo. She's always had this 1000 yard stare. It's frustrating because people don't understand autism is a SPECTRUM and therefore shows up differently in everyone who it. Thankfully she's talking now at 3yrs old. Signing helped her bridge the language gap, but she still struggles and I worry about how school will go.
@mossripalextechno6450
Жыл бұрын
you could try a tablet to talk for her if she is OK with typing. there are many different apps you could look at if this is an option.
@natc1463
Жыл бұрын
There is a girl whose son was non verbal at 2.5. She started giving him a detox spray and he started talking within 2 weeks. I gave my kids the same spray and my son, who at the time was still wetting the bed (6 years old) stopped completely after 4 weeks, my daughter who was 2 started talking a whole lot more and had a lot less anger fits. It's called TRS feom coseva. I had really bad periods and after taking that a few weeks they were so light. It's worth looking into...
@moonsigil
Жыл бұрын
@@natc1463 That's woo.
@ninademci1500
Жыл бұрын
A H, if you’re in the U.S. and she’s ready for school take the diagnosis of ASD with you so she has an I.E.P. (Individual Education Program) and receives services and supports. I pray for the best for your little girl and you.
@chloereed2434
Жыл бұрын
@@natc1463 leave your mlm speech somewhere else. Autism cant be cured.
@winter333
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for letting her flap and be happy. Usually that is scolded, but it’s so important for us autistics to stim and it usually doesn’t hurt anybody. She’s going to get the support I wish I had growing up so good job mama ❤
@thatsthat2612
Жыл бұрын
My little boys stim is jumping, we started off with a lil one, now the trampoline is 8ft wide
@winter333
Жыл бұрын
@@thatsthat2612 oh wow, that sounds really awesome honestly. I hope it brings him lots of comfort and joy (:
@iamV10010
Жыл бұрын
My almost 9 year old daughter has done this motion her whole life. She is not on the spectrum in any way. I think this is something present in all kids to a degree. Not everything is a symptom. She does it when she's playing with her toys or talking fast and excited. Idk.. Kids are just kids.
@winter333
Жыл бұрын
@@iamV10010 yes, we do it when we are excited, exactly as you describe. You should think about getting your child assessed! We are not all stereotypes and it can go undiagnosed. But it’s nice to know, in case one ever needs accommodations in life or wonders why they are different. It’s not a bad thing to discover your child has a specifically autistic trait. It’s always worth looking into (: Of course nonautistic children and adults can stim, it regulates anyones nervous system to stim, but arm flapping is an exact sign of autism and/or other developmental differences and should be looked into. Neurotypical children do not exude behaviors such as arm flapping. Yes kids are kids, and neurodivergent kids are neurodivergent. I hope my perspective helps. As an actually autistic person who works with children.
@Taylor_mamaof2
Жыл бұрын
@@winter333 stimming doesn’t only happen when a child is excited. It also happens under stress, or for no reason at all.
@thriftymomshop
9 күн бұрын
My son started regressing at around 18 months. By 2 he was nonverbal. By 4 with 3x weekly in home therapy and ECSE classes including daily therapy , he was talking at a normal milestone rate. Now he’s 14 and in 8th grade and every one of his teachers have complemented us on how well spoken he is for his age ! Regression is soooo real !
@kristenevans4557
Жыл бұрын
This was the same with my son at about 12-15 months. He never crawled on his hands and knees with his belly off the floor but would crawl like a Marine under barbed wire. Then straight up to a full run. He had many words including “clock” and then one day they were all gone. Hand flapping to stem was next. I had him evaluated at about 18 months and they said he was developmentally delayed. He got handicap pre-school and lots of speech therapy where he excelled and started speaking in full sentences almost overnight. He continued with handicap developmental pre-k until kindergarten. No one ever mentioned autism all this time but I knew something was vastly different. He was reading at 3 1/2 years old and had no boundaries with anyone. After he started regular kindergarten and had tons of issues my pediatrician recommended we have him tested for adhd. The quack we went to told me to focus on the child I was 8 1/2 months pregnant with and take my son out of kindergarten if he’s annoying everyone. Literally going out the door he did give me the best advice when he said, “ You never know, with that hand flapping it could be Asperger.” I wrote that down and came home to look it up on the (dial up) internet. It was like reading a book about my child. Just like that all the puzzle pieces fell into place. Now he’s 30, has graduated with a BA and is working on a Paralegal certificate. Nothing is easy but he is the joy of my life. ❤
@vivid2217
Жыл бұрын
My story is so similar, down to the crawling style. I always thought it was funny. My daughter is now a wonderful 19 yo college student with a pt job at Gymboree. I wouldnt trade her for anything.
@kristenevans4557
Жыл бұрын
@@vivid2217 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@janets7291
11 ай бұрын
It's bizarre how similar your story is to ours, I almost had to check to see if I had written it! I could have strangled our quack with my bare hands. My son graduated from his paralegal program, got a job in his field and is doing awesome. I'm sure yours will too.
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
@wolfe440
11 ай бұрын
I’m an autistic 21-year-old and a lot of people don’t even know I’m autistic until I tell them. I was diagnosed when I was five. Now I go through life being able to “hide” it (though I don’t desire to do so) but when I was younger I was followed by paras and I had to prove that I could be in school without them following me. I worked hard to prove I didn’t need them. But everyone noticed. It was emotionally mortifying, even though I’m glad in retrospect that I was getting help. By the end of 8th grade, I didn’t need paras anymore (though I still needed to be in special classes SPECIFICALLY for math, and only math). I remember finally telling a friend of mine in hs that I had autism and he laughed and said “no you don’t.” autism is real and comes in MANY different forms. It has impacted my life in many ways. I hate people when they are ignorant and don’t understand.
@jansporteD
9 ай бұрын
Girls are typically far better at masking than boys, which leads to crazy amounts of undiagnosed girls/women and people that just don't get it..
@SM-gt9vg
9 ай бұрын
What is paras?
@wolfe440
9 ай бұрын
@@SM-gt9vgthey’re usually tasked with helping kids who have special needs in school. They give the kid extra help with work, help them carry their things sometimes, make sure they don’t get into any trouble, escort them places, etc. In middle school, my para used to take me out of certain classes early and she would follow me everywhere. She also used to take me out of lunch and away from my friends early. It wasn’t her fault or anything, it was just her job. The only way to get rid of them after they’ve been assigned to you is to prove you don’t need their services. Of course, that isn’t possible for some kids. Some kids just need that assistance forever, and that’s totally ok. But for me, I knew I could be without a para, so I proved that I didn’t need her services.
@AgTheFreeborn
4 ай бұрын
@@SM-gt9vgparaeducators basically special education assistants hiring to help children
@georgestowe9479
4 ай бұрын
@@SM-gt9vg paraprofessional. Someone who works with special needs alongside the normal teachers
@debfox
11 күн бұрын
That’s so sad! 😭 I can’t imagine how hard that would be. She’s lucky to have a good mama!
@yanetcortez3789
5 күн бұрын
Yea she is.💕💕 25 years ago I wouldn’t have spanked ( not beat up) my son , I think I cured him if he had it, or he was just being a kid? Not sure lol
@doglovekane9784
Жыл бұрын
My son could do all his ABCs and count to 50. He lost it around 2 1/2. I used sign language with him. I'm so blessed I got him into speech and he is able to talk. He had it until he was 16. He's 29 now and can carry on short conversations. Prayers for you and your little girl! Don't give up baby girl!
@tm13tube
Жыл бұрын
My grandson didn’t talk until 3 yo. His sister is in college to be a speech pathologist inspired by her brother.
@lottie1144
Жыл бұрын
Did he lose it after the MMR vaccine?
@mariaremick7320
Жыл бұрын
Kids can't develop autism unless it is caused by Encephalitis caused by vaccines
@sharonh4944
Жыл бұрын
@@lottie1144 oh don't start that ignorant rubbish! The doctor who started that rumour was deregistered! But did so much damage
@wondering1916
Жыл бұрын
@@sharonh4944 I’m sorry that your life is so miserable that it makes you feel better to lash out at other people. I hope your life gets better.
@ameliemileva6459
2 ай бұрын
As a person with crippling adhd and autism symptoms the thing that helped me most in life is the unconditional love of my mother. I will always have that even in 50 years. I don't have a fulltime job. Parents and fiancé finance me. I do a lot of care work in the family and for friends so I feel like I do my part .
@LifesTeaLeaves
2 ай бұрын
@@ameliemileva6459omg I just started to type and saw the name on account again and just tested up..as our child's name is similar just a letter difference 💕💕 Thank you so much for this breath of fresh air
@StevieKnight
10 күн бұрын
I’m so sorry. I wish parents and pediatricians would do the very hard work to notice the timing of the onset of autism and those shots given shortly before. And I’m soooo grateful my kids’ pediatrician was the one to warn me. The book “How to have a healthy child in spite of your doctor”, by Dr Robert Mendelson, MD, taught me sooo much. And then, once I started ignoring the marketing and looking at the research, everything changed. I’m so sorry for what you have gone through. Blessings on your journey and your sweet daughter’s healing.
@HalfNHalf.
Жыл бұрын
My pediatrician said that a lot of the time when babies are hitting milestones months earlier than they’re supposed to, it’s usually a sign that they could be on the spectrum. That’s why hitting milestones when they’re supposed to is important and hitting milestones too early is not always something to be praised or impressed by.
@May-or-May-not
Жыл бұрын
Yes! This! A lot of people will say that the baby did so well, was hitting all the milestones early and developed so well. And then something external "turned" them autistic. Like my friend's kid's best friend was talking in full sentences before 2 and was reading at age 3. Also hit all of his other milestones way early, seemed so much more advanced than all the other kids his age. But as he grew older it got harder and harder for him to keep up with social stuff and he seemed to regress. In actuality he just became over stimulated and social interactions became too advanced for him. He didn't become autistic, he was always autistic. Edit: obviously hitting milestones earlier isn't a sign that a kid has to be autistic. What I'm referring to is specifically the situations where a kid was hitting all milestones early, therefore being labeled "normal" or even "gifted", then something "turned" them autistic and they regressed. When in actuality hitting milestones early and then regressing later on is not unusual for an autistic child. The kid would likely have regressed regardless of getting that vaccine, cold or whatever seemed to trigger the regression. Sometimes trauma can cause regression. The traumatic thing doesn't have to be traumatic to a neurotypical person though and can be missed or dismissed as a cause.
@HalfNHalf.
Жыл бұрын
@@May-or-May-not exactly! like I don’t mean any of what I said to sound offense at all but it’s important to know. My brother crawled at 8 months and starting walking at 9 months but barely talked/babbled. People thought he was just advanced and super smart but it turned out that he has Asperger’s syndrome.
@m4tta
Жыл бұрын
@@May-or-May-not similar happened to me, i was extremely early with everything as a baby but as i grew i started to struggle more and more and got severe neurological problems.
@kcee9111
Жыл бұрын
It’s because they are doing so well in fact when that vaccine hits their system that their bodies can’t process it and does major damage to their brain
@DeztinyJade
Жыл бұрын
I was early with so much as a kid. Said my first words at 4 months old, used sentences by 6 months old, and I was walking alongside furniture at 6months. I’m diagnosed anxiety disorder and depression and my therapist had me take an OCD questionnaire which I tested highly for OCD. I’ve always identified strongly with most every post and video about autism. I clap and flap when I’m excited, though I’ve gotten much better at controlling it so I only do it when alone. I get overstimulated, which makes me scratch myself/react strangely; I cannot take certain fabrics/textures, I have shutdowns and go nonverbal. But I’ve never tested for autism or been told I could be by doctors or therapists, so I don’t think I am. It’s confusing. And I have two brothers who ARE, and I definitely don’t act like they do (and I AM very capable of understanding and navigating social situations, even if secretly inside I’m struggling). I’m great at the “fake it til you make it.” Anyway. Even though I don’t know/think I’m autistic, I do think I’m neurodivergent somehow, and I’ve never heard that hitting milestones early might not be as great as it sounds. Thank you for the insight, very interesting!
@Kira-kg4kl
11 ай бұрын
I've noticed that neurodivergent babies usually progress really fast early on and then revert at a certain age ❤
@aalliaandreadis5109
11 ай бұрын
Yeah it's called being poisoned
@ysbsin5035
11 ай бұрын
@@aalliaandreadis5109you should be ashamed of yourself
@aalliaandreadis5109
11 ай бұрын
@@ysbsin5035 you allow it, not I.
@panicfanatd
11 ай бұрын
Hm? What do you mean?
@MelissaSteuber
11 ай бұрын
@@ysbsin5035She could have said it in a nicer way. But I don't think parents would do it purposely. We all just need to do more research and not always listen if they tell us something is good for us. Just like they told pregnant women that Tylenol was okay to take while pregnant. Now their saying it causes it. Then the baby food with metal in it. Just think of all the things our kids our being exposed to that they shouldn't and the FDA and other agencies should be protecting it's people.
@UnnamedHumanOnEarth
11 ай бұрын
I’m glad to see people sharing their stories. That’s one of the many good things about the internet is feeling that you are not alone and connecting with people who understand and relate. I don’t have any kids but seeing The parents connecting and sharing in the comments is nice to see. You are not alone ❤
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZitem. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@tammyfinley5374
11 күн бұрын
@@amandafernandajuliawat Herbs..??!
@YouTubeBinge-q1p
9 күн бұрын
My friends' son was hitting all his milestones early, eating with a fork and spoon at one, knowing everyone's name, and being able to say them before the age of 2. Extremely verbal. He appeared to be a little genius! So bright and so engaged with everybody. And then, right after the age of 2, it all shut down, and he started to regress and became non-verbal. It was if someone hit a switch. I wish they could figure it out..
@RainLoiaTheFrog
Жыл бұрын
This happened to me and my little brother. We were both diagnosted (spelling) at about the same time. I was saying full sentences but then I just stopped. Babbled until I was about 4. Now you could never tell I didn't talk. :) Little brother is on the complete different end, so he has less speech skills. But we are both thriving and lucky our parents researched when they found out. Shes gonna be amazing ❤
@patriciaecampbell372
Жыл бұрын
And so are you. 🥰
@daphnea5447
Жыл бұрын
Woo! Love the positivity in this comment. You’re amazing too.
@thompthomp
Жыл бұрын
This gives me hope my son is an autistic 4 year old & he still doesn’t talk but hearing success stories like this gives me hope 1 day that he will
@Ratchet4647
Жыл бұрын
Glad yall are well. In case you want to know, the spelling would be: diagnosed
@RainLoiaTheFrog
Жыл бұрын
@@Ratchet4647 thank you, that's very helpful 💖
@paulisawinsong8224
12 күн бұрын
Check the vaccines she was given and the dates. Next check the dates when she began regressing or changing. There's probably a correlation. My grandson is on the spectrum od autism.
@PoetryInMotionXo
11 ай бұрын
She is so sweet… this same thing happened with my niece Kloie… she has since been diagnosed as on the spectrum… I saw the signs before anyone else as I work with people of all ages on the spectrum. So I started working with my niece to ensure that she had ways to communicate what she was trying to say and what she wanted. Kloie is also non verbal however she can talk she knows some words but she chooses not to use them like some on the spectrum do. So I taught her sign language. This will help them to communicate and not become frustrated by not being able to or by ppl not understanding what they are trying to communicate they want. She was having more then normal amounts of meltdowns because she was frustrated with nobody understanding what she wanted. Since learning sign and being able to communicate with everyone her meltdowns have gone down significantly. Ignore the haters who always seem to think they know more about someone else life and family and always expect explanations on what is Happening in one’s life. Sending prayers and good vibes to you and your family.
@misshell2223
11 ай бұрын
I commend you for what you did to help improve her life & those around her to better cope w/her condition!❤ I knew a little girl also named Khloe several years ago; she was about 2 or 3 at the time & I knew she had signs bc she would tippy toe walk, not speak, flap her hands etc but I'm not sure whatever happened to her(her parents were young & struggling living in a hotel) I still think of her as she was sooo very sweet & I felt for her Mom tremendously:/ I pray she & her mother are both doing well!!!
@ClaireAKokE
11 ай бұрын
I’d just like to say she doesn’t choose not to use them, she can’t, if she could she would use that way to communicate. when autistic people are non verbal(either completely or an episode) they physically can’t speak, that’s why it becomes so frustrating trying to communicate sometimes. Because we know the words but can’t speak. So when she says and uses words it means she can at that time but it’s most likely during nonverbal periods she physically can’t communicate with speech. That’s why sign language works for her so well and is a great tool for non verbal communication❤️. A lot of people think it’s a problem of being able to understand and respond and in some cases autistic people do struggle with that but in many many cases it’s just a physical barrier of not having the right communication tools.
@juliannacolombo5584
11 ай бұрын
You're a real life angel. Thank you for sharing. There's so much negativity on social media, reading this was a breathe of fresh air and hope. 💓
@jdklwme
11 ай бұрын
that’s a horrible name
@MyHome7_Carla
11 ай бұрын
My grandbabys name is Kloey ❤
@Musical_Magic2023
27 күн бұрын
Please, anyone who notices their child has gone from talking, on par or ahead of schedule, and doing well to all of a sudden one day not, instead of seeing it as regression, look back to when it started becoming apparent and see what changes happened around then. I see so many consistent patterns with the changes happening in the children's lives and I myself don't think it just happens. I believe something has caused the brain to lose these functions. Look into lab mice and experiments done and how the mice were getting autism. Please dig deep when researching and research like crazy. Our children deserve to live happy lives! With this said, I will say that children on the spectrum are smart as a whip and a joy to be around! 💜
@judyanderson5772
16 күн бұрын
Children with autism are very bright, have a wonderful sense of humor, are very capable of independence, and can so much more than people give then credit for. Enjoy her and love her. She is beautiful.
@sdr6541
16 күн бұрын
Im trying to find these papers on mice and cant find exactly what your talking about. Can you give more clue to find them? I also cant just swallow that this kind of thing “just happens” and that happening has increased like 100x in 30 years.
@Musical_Magic2023
16 күн бұрын
@@sdr6541 I'll try to dig deep to find it again. It was a few years ago when I found a doctor talking about it, but now things are getting harder and harder to find.
@shelldeluca
15 күн бұрын
@sdr6541 look at the vaccine injury act in 1986 that gave vaccine companies immunity from being liable for any injury. Since 1990 autism rates shot up over 45% that is no coincidence.
@finnianday
15 күн бұрын
"The mice were getting autism" is such a funny statement lmao
@kingmary2268
19 күн бұрын
I've learned hevy metal detox really helps people with autism because their body often has comorbidities with mass cell dysfunction, being able to process folate, gut issues that make nutritional deficiencies, all which keep the lymphatic system from detoxing properly which means they may have higher heavy metal levels in their system causing their immune system to be shot which then affects your nervous system which is ultimately the brain and it misfires and has executive functioning issues. Autism can absolutely still be a certain neurotype of hyperfixation that also has issues detoxing leading to heavy mental buildup leading to further neurological issues and comorbidities.
@brandee3853
18 күн бұрын
Yes Mercury and aluminum in the vaccines, some can handle it some can't
@lovelymee8887
15 күн бұрын
❤ Right
@rb5825
12 күн бұрын
Too many vaccinations given to children now. Thank big pharma & big kickbacks to “health care.” 😢🤬
@Ikajo
10 күн бұрын
@@rb5825 Vaccines don't cause autism. Vaccines save lives.
@TheREALMB444
8 күн бұрын
Yes! Detoxing my son from heavy metals and babby!!! Big difference
@bobbiecapewell5333
9 күн бұрын
I went non verbal as a child and struggled for years. When I started speaking around 7, I was limited and would only wisper, right up until 14. I wasn't diagnosed with ASD until 29. Now I'm 33 and I don't stop talking! Just have faith in her ❤
@LightBlue-uq6yv
28 күн бұрын
May God grant her ease. This was heartbreaking.
@annieevie9607
Жыл бұрын
I like to think people don’t leave these comments out of pure hatred. There has to be some level of ignorance underlying this. And instead of responding angrily, you responded with empathy and information. You will be the reason many potential mean comments are not made, both online and in real life. I admire you for that.
@DGolden247
Жыл бұрын
I think the reason why that person wrote that comment is because a lot of people online like to fake mental disorders just to get attention. It doesn’t justify making such a mean comment, but I think it explains why they wrote it.
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
@downhomesunset
16 күн бұрын
@@DGolden247Yes. Everyone has anxiety now!
@littleblueorchid
10 ай бұрын
I was cought off guard with my oldest diagnosis when she was 2.5 . I’m a preschool teacher and my boss and my co worker sat me down for a meeting and told me that my daughter might have ASD and needed help. I didn’t give my self time to think or feel bad, I was in a very fortunate situation where I can get a lot of support and information due to my occupation. My parents still don’t understand what having ASD means and keeps asking if she will get better and not have it anymore, which is really hard for me to keep telling them that is not how it works. But at 10 yo she is a very smart and bright young lady but social skills still evades her, but she is very kind and thoughtful to others.
@christinabaker3210
17 күн бұрын
she is precious, my cousin had 20 vaccines in one visit and had a seizure on the way home and now is in special ed with low function autism diagnosis, wears a diaper, and has a helmet,
@AnimeGirl104
8 күн бұрын
This had me tearing up, I know where you're coming from my youngest is three and autistic. She seemed to be doing ok then as she approached the toddler years I started noticing the signs and her daycare too. But we got her diagnosed early on so we can help support her the best way possible ❤ Thank goodness for programs like Early Steps and The Scott Center for Autism, and her preschool team (disability teachers, IEP, speech therapy) who helped us in our journey for my baby girl Harmony 🌈 God bless you and your Maddison 💕
@Atadoftism
Жыл бұрын
My son is in Albuquerque with my mom and my wife right now, as I type this, to get his screening. With the issues we have , we just need answers. At this stage, I’m ok with him being autistic. I just want help so I can help him. He’s 13mos and still not walking or sleeping. He still sleeps on infant schedule. We’re so tired. We just need an answer and help. Crazy how this video, pops up when his appointment started. God knows. God understands. Even if we don’t.
@never_give_up90
Жыл бұрын
It could be a lot of things, not necessarily autism but you are doing good by him trying to get help asap. Even if you don't get answers right away, you might get help sooner by starting this sooner. Wishing you good luck and all the best.
@CarrieHall
11 ай бұрын
If at all possible for the adults involved, allow him to flip the sleep schedule and allow one parent to sleep when he sleeps. It may seem odd but it saved my sanity when I had two babies 15months apart and my partner was working 12 hour shifts. It truly resolved on its own but some bodies just aren't made to sleep and wake at the same time as everyone else. I pray you find answers and rest and healing! ❤❤❤
@never_give_up90
11 ай бұрын
@@CarrieHall I don't think that's the issue. They just want to know what is causing it. I mean, I used to get no sleep because my baby never slept. Even now at 9 he doesn't sleep much. I think it's brain damage he had at birth but he also has ADHD. Hope they find answers.
@tamarawolverton3895
11 ай бұрын
I had seven normal children however only 2 walked before 13 months. The 7th did not sleep through the night until almost 2 years old and she spit up alot my others never did. All the others slept. When she was three we did a gut test on her and took her off gluten. She has many improvements since then. On a side note my family stopped the V-xcines when my second one was 12months and my oldest had them through 24 months My first 2 were definitely my sickest kids. But that is just one factor to consider.
@never_give_up90
11 ай бұрын
@@tamarawolverton3895 Since we are sharing about our normal children? All my children are normal too. My ADHD and my ASD are also normal. :) My ADHD son was a NICU baby with all on time vaccines and was very healthy otherwise. He walked at 8 months! ADHD runs on both sides of the family. Turns out so does ASD and waiting on vaccines didn't prevent Autism. Still, my kids are very normal and healthy, luckily. My ASD son learned to sit up unassisted at 4 months old. It's amazing how all kids are different. Even if your normal is different from ours.
@dahliacheung6020
Жыл бұрын
I've been autistic my whole life, but I experienced my first major regression in the form of autistic burn out as an adult. I went from holding a job to no longer able to work, no longer able to speak sometimes and when I could speak it wasn't the same. Theres been some progress but I don't think I'll every be the person I was. And for my parents, they basically have a needy child living at home again. I am so thankful for the love and kindness they show me every day and I'm sure your little girl feels similar ❤
@KaiseaWings
Жыл бұрын
I wondered if it was overstimulation! As the world becomes more complicated and they start processing more information maybe it becomes harder? That's an uneducated guess though.
@jazzypanduh
Жыл бұрын
Similar situation here, but I’m still desperately trying to hold down ~any~ job, realizing I may just be better off doing my own thing. People are very exhausting…
@hellohej5525
Жыл бұрын
@@KaiseaWings That's a really good theory, I think. I'm tired of people blaming it on vaccines when this makes so much more sense
@jessthep1rate
Жыл бұрын
@@KaiseaWings it comes from the overexertion from constant masking. Many of us don't even realize we are doing it until it's too late and we don't know how to unmask. It puts such strain on our cognitive function that at a certain point things just fall apart.
@hadast3806
Жыл бұрын
@@jazzypanduh there are many remote jobs. Find one that suits you - it’s stressful for neurotypicals to deal with in person work. I wish you the best of luck!
@angelaminutolo5112
Жыл бұрын
As the Mama to a beautiful 24 yr old girl with severe autism and CP and (limited brain growth)these children are amazing.My daughter can say 5 or 6 words,but she understands everything we say or ask her to do,she is a screamer,has a horrible temper,and has to have a kindle in her hand every waking moment.She is dependent on me for everything as her mental age is about 16 months.She is the light of my life and there isn't anything I wouldn't do for her.Keep up the good fight...ps my daughter is also named Madison
@amandaguidry4242
Жыл бұрын
My son regressed when he was 2. Pretty much the same way it happened with your daughter. He was completely nonverbal, very violent with himself and others, wouldn't respond to his name, couldn't do any of the things he had started doing before regressing. He would destroy whole rooms when he had a meltdown, which was multiple times a day. His head was always covered in the worst bruises from him banging his head on the ground. And then a year ago I found Dr. Keri Rivera and her books. She is demonized now by the FDA because she has basically turned so many kids around and changed so many lives. They try to make her sound like fraud and a crackpot and discredit her all over the internet. Yet every single day since I started her regimen my son is getting better and better and having less and less symptoms. He is now talking, singing, he follows directions, he knows the alphabet and numbers in LITERALLY like 30 languages, at LEAST, including sign language. ALOT of that just since he started school. When he first started school in August he went for 1 hour the first day and I had to go get him because they couldn't handle him. He had a meltdown and destroyed the classroom. After that they started him out at 1 hour a day with a para AND an aide. He is now going for almost 3 hours. His teachers say they have NEVER seen a child with such severe autism symptoms change so much and get so much better every single day. They are hoping to have him in a regular classroom next year. 6 months ago that wouldn't have ever been a possibility. Dr Rivera and her books literally changed our whole lives. I urge you and all parents with a child with ASD, no matter how mild or severe, to check her out. And do your own research, real research, not just the badmouthing. Much love and God bless!
@rociomedina2664
6 күн бұрын
My son, who is 23 yo now, was a " functional normal" boy but when he was 2 and a half, he started showing autistic signs: he stopped talking, didn't respond to orders, had this repetitive movement with the head, and that sound with the mouth closed without speaking (sorry, English isn't my mother tongue). He started going to a children's psychologist for a year and a half and then to a speech therapist for another year and a half once a week and he changed completely. It was a team work with them, all the family in close touch with my son and the teachers at school. It was all his way to "protest" for my behaviour when I fell severely ill in my shoulders and arms and couldn't raise him up, bath him, feed him, play with him. It was real hard work but it was worthy. He is the most wonderful son I could have.
@catie7466
Жыл бұрын
this randomly came on my feed so idk any details but i just wanna say it's awesome you got her an early diagnosis! i feel like girls are often diagnosed late which results in a lot of struggle and confusion growing up. my brother got diagnosed at age 3 and having supports and intervention early in life really helped him. he's 16 now and is happy and doing well in school. she seems so sweet and you're a great parent for getting her support this young :) 💖
@rhonal4198
Жыл бұрын
Depends on the intervention, if people use ABA they can cause PTSD and long term mental health issues for the autistic person or if they constantly tell the child that they will not be capable of things like other people, the child can develop low self esteem very easily. Early diagnosis is great if a parent is actually well educated in what being autistic actually is and how to actually help (versus making them appear 'normal' to other people) otherwise you're putting an unnecessary chain around your childs neck that can damage them. I say this as a late diagnosed women who's seen others diagnosed both early and later.
@catie7466
Жыл бұрын
@@rhonal4198 this is such a good point, thank you for saying this. im glad my mom did her research and avoided ABA for my brother. i've heard some awful stories from others. im in the field of special ed and always trying to educate my peers on the issues with ABA. thank you for the reminder.
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
@deborahelaine6701
8 күн бұрын
@@rhonal4198Thank you for your information. Also, thank you for speaking from your perspective. Your point of view really helps us understand more.
@discoveringthetruth2875
Жыл бұрын
My son hit all his milestones early and was a typical baby till he turned 1 year old and got the MMR shot then he started regressing and that shot completely changed our lives I mentioned it 2 all his doctors but they denied it was the shot but a mother knows …. I know a lot of kids that have autism and their parents don’t believe the MMR shot caused their child’s autism and they may be right but I know 4 a fact it completely changed my son
@EmbracingTheEternalWeb
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry
@razorbladelemonade
Жыл бұрын
I too know a doctor and two nurses who insist that their child was normal until vaccines, naturally I believe them, you do absolutely know best. ❤
@discoveringthetruth2875
Жыл бұрын
@@razorbladelemonade they was some parents around New York had a doctor that confirmed that the MMR shot caused their kids autism and they sued the government (cause the shots are government mandated) and that doctor actually testified in court for those parents and he “magically disappeared” and he was found in the Hudson River and now I believe all the doctors are afraid to speak out against the shots in fear that they to will “magically disappear “
@razorbladelemonade
Жыл бұрын
@@discoveringthetruth2875 Omg that’s awful. I believe it. There have been a string of naturopathic doctors dying mysteriously as well, trust that the government want us sick and dead :(
@discoveringthetruth2875
Жыл бұрын
@@razorbladelemonade sick , dead or experiment’s
@jessicabriner-devore1147
11 ай бұрын
Aw this broke my heart. I’m glad she has you as a mom
@RudeOptics
9 күн бұрын
Fun fact. In our line of autism early developmental miles stones are the main indicators. Too early is a potential sign of autism. One of my kids could talk early, then stopped until kindergarten then went right back to talking with a complex vocabulary. It's not just regression but an odd order to developments.
@edvh88
Жыл бұрын
I can’t imagine how hard that must be, to see her regress. Stay strong. She’s still amazing.
@audreycade89
Жыл бұрын
Oh I felt this one! My son was in a study at UC Davis do to him being drastically advanced at 8months. He knew all his colors and animals, and their sounds, he wa a speaking in 3-5 word SENTENCES by 10months, and so much more. He had "an adverse" reaction to something and literally overnight lost not some, but ALL of his speech, became extremely aggressive and started self-harming so excessively that we were making DAILY trips to the e.r. for head x-rays. He went from being the happiest, smartest baby, to am angry aggressive stranger overnight and I truly felt like I lost my child. All his drs kept telling me he was "too smart, and didn't need to speak anymore" ... their EXACT words. The study at UC Davis dropped him without questioning WHY this happened and it took 18months for someone to admit it was ASD. YEARS of intensive therapy and more love and patience than most can ever comprehend, he's now in middle school in regular classes and has all A's & B's, he's happy and thriving. Hes everyone's favorite, even teacher who don't have him love him because of his positive and supportive attitude towards everyone he meets. Fight for your child and watch how far and fast they exceed every expectation you had. It's not easy but nothing is more worth it!
@tenaciousone4721
Жыл бұрын
My son was a normal baby until he was about 2 that's when our experience with being on the spectrum started. My husband and I supported and pushed and took him to counseling and tutoring as he needed it. By middle school he was in normal classes with extra support when needed. In high school he was all on his own. I am so proud of him. He is 25 and just had a son.
@elizadanu3272
Жыл бұрын
I remember I heard when these changes are so sudden and the child is aggressive and happens after an infectious disease is usually due to that. I forgot how it is called, but needs treatment with medication to get the child back as it was
@audreycade89
Жыл бұрын
@@elizadanu3272 I've heard of that as well, but my son was given medical treatment that he had a severe adverse reaction within seconds. I was told to give him Tylenol and put him to bed, but when he woke up, he was a different child completely. I still wonder all the time what our lives would be like if we never went to that appointment. It was supposed to be routine but ended up being the moment that changed everything.
@allisonkennedy2521
Жыл бұрын
@@audreycade89 what was the medical treatment if you don’t mind sharing?
@scoobz4177
Жыл бұрын
@@audreycade89let me guess. The medical treatment was vaccination... you don't want to share it because of backlash ?
@francinejoseph823
7 күн бұрын
My son is autistic and highly functional. He started regressing at 18 months, and speech therapist helped. Very smart and gifted in normal school since Kindergarten. Patience and perseverance and lots of prayers in addition to therapy. Do not give up!
@alexrusso6503
22 күн бұрын
This really bolsters the idea that it could be truma or stress induced. It doesnt take much to deeply upset or scare a small child. They may even have a higher likelihood of being affected this way like schizophrenia can be trigger if you have the right genes. But un-ironically these exactly symptoms are seen in children with traumatic experiences
@rachaelt3294
10 ай бұрын
Only those who don't have to directly deal with autism struggles will claim that every kid gets labeled one. I noticed my daughter stimming at 6 months and she didn't regress, but rather had trouble with motor skills and speach. I left my job to take her to therapy and help her at home. She is now 9.5 and is doing great in public school! Helping her learn to cope with overstimulation was hard but we gradually got there. ♡
@admiralsnackbar69
Ай бұрын
Same as my boy.
@maymagnolias2493
11 ай бұрын
The exact same happened with my daughter. Shes 6 and still is in pullups and doesn't talk. It genuinely is this like heartache for the things that she and us as parents didnt get and won't have. We're still so grateful for her, shes the best thing that God has ever bestowed upon me. I just feel like i have an am still failing her on every level. I know what she needs, i just dont know how to give it to her. Its a daily punch to the face. God bless you guys, she's truly a beautiful baby and she's lucky to have you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@kristenkaz3080
11 ай бұрын
Hang in there momma. Sometimes it’s one moment at a time & that gives you more reasons celebrate each step of success. Have you ever considered American Sign Language as a means of communicating with her? Just basics like “more” or “please” or “milk” or “hungry”. I am a former ASL Interpreter & my deaf student was on the spectrum, which is how my school district called me & hired me. We worked together & got her communicating fairly quickly-at least according to her readiness. We created a “sensory space” for her in the classroom that was exclusively hers. And slowly, gradually, we got somewhere. (She was 5 years old.)
@alihayman3834
11 ай бұрын
Can you get her into speech therapy and see about an AAC device?
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
Your herbs has work wonders in my family. Thanks for the help Dr Oyalo for saving my son from autism spectrum with your herbs. Your herbs is the best.
@dianag.5652
5 ай бұрын
I've been trying to get help for my daughter since she was 5, but the wait lists are no joke, one clinic just called us back 2 years later just to say they can't admit her. The rest just literally ghosted us and stopped answering our calls. I finally got on a new 8 month wait list, but in the meantime, I've been trying to help her. My searching led me to Agents of Speech, he's a speech therapist and gives a lot of free advise on KZitem, if you're not sure what to do or where to start I recommend you watch his videos.
@VOCatie
4 ай бұрын
Don’t try herbs or any other dishonest cash grab. You can get an AAC on an iPad or many other devices, or many other forms of communication. It can take up to a year (or more) for some kids to even acknowledge the AAC, so don’t give up! Be wary because many speech therapists do not understand AAC or respect it, so be sure to do your research before picking one, but you can also model at home yourself.
@keladry12
Жыл бұрын
(as an autist myself) I truly believe that regression basically comes from us figuring out "oh, I can choose to do things that I like to do when I want to do them" and then not really having a pull to do things that others want us to do just because they want us to. So until it becomes necessary to do so, we don't naturally try to please others like neurotypicals do.
@RnRnR
Жыл бұрын
Yeah "regression" is such a weird word for it... She's a smart girl.
@Aurea8787
Жыл бұрын
Toddlers don’t have the cognitive skills to think that deeply about life.
@jadedstitcher8203
Жыл бұрын
No, if you'd ever experienced it first hand, you'd see the difference. We aren't talking about personality changes or finding their way. We're talking able to hold a spoon one and not the next. I watched my son literally cry as he tried to form words. He finally gave up, and I remember the exact day it happened, and it was over 15 years ago. Regression is very real. My son is now 22 and still only has the communication skills of a six month old. Despite 16 years of intense therapy.
@toBe8ere
Жыл бұрын
@@jadedstitcher8203 When you say your son has the communication skills of a six-month-old, are you talking primarily about verbal communication? Or can he speak sign language or write?
@jadedstitcher8203
Жыл бұрын
He knows one or two signs. But he can't read or write. I've always felt it was a little more like 1 or 2 year old but the assements put him at 6mons.He relies on us knowing what he wants or needs. He had start nodding yes or no to questions he understands.
@MsJIAmove
24 күн бұрын
Anyone else looking for the "this happened after vaccines" comment?
@dotesondots
13 күн бұрын
Madison is such a little doll. What a sweetheart. ✨️💖✨️🌸✨️
@karenboyce1503
11 ай бұрын
Hi my son was 2 when diagnosed with autism he's now 42 and is the most beautiful of men he is a brain and loves animals we rescue and he is one of the careers of little kittens . Please don't give up my son didn't talk but now never shuts up he can give me a run for my money LoL. God bless Karen and family rescue NSW Australia 💖😸🐈🦘🐨🇭🇲
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
Get the best remedy to improve your child’s autistic condition from doctor Oyalo as his herbs have helped my child improve in speech and social skill very well. He now respond to name, point at what he wants and call mama/papa
@dianepereira1860
10 ай бұрын
You sound like a great mom. 😊
@aligalad9907
Жыл бұрын
My son (21 yrs ago now) was amazingly bright and bold toddler. Wasn’t hugely verbal but said mummy, daddy etc walked at 9mths 1 day, hit all milestones early. Was this bright joy bringer of a child to everyone incl strangers. We were so blessed. Then one day it stopped, his speech etc. he’d throw tantrums and it wasn’t for a month or so I realised he wasn’t being ‘terrible 2’s’ but frustrated at his unable to get us to understand. It was horrible, stressful and so hard. He was in speech therapy from 2 yrs, a special speech school from 4 1/2, appts, testing, more appts. Trying to find answers or help. He was finally diagnosed on autism spectrum at 15 yrs. He is now 22 and has high anxiety. It’s held him back but he’s finally looking for work (he has done prev but had bad experiences). He is very high functioning and all the extra effort was worth it. I look back on occasions (such as now) and mourn the loss of that bright bubbly sunshine child, but then he does something that reminds me , he’s still him, but he has to fight harder than the rest of us to let him loose. God Bless your journey.
@dgriner7463
23 күн бұрын
One in thirty four children are diagnosed with autism today. Back in the fifties it was one in fifteen hundred. Makes you wonder what has caused this. I have a nephew a daughter and three grandchildren with different stages of autism.
@thepinkestpigglet7529
14 күн бұрын
Well for starters we now believe women can have autism so there's another 50ish % of the population to affect numbers. And mental illness is kess stigmatized so more people are getting their children tested.
@Jendromeda
14 күн бұрын
wow, god bless you. we have a niece and a grandchild and an uncle. the uncle was misdiagnosed with a mental disorder for 39 years...we now know it's autism. Also two cousins, one mild and one severe. the grandchild is the most severe and it started after 18 mo. old mmr shot.
@leannewith3
13 күн бұрын
People just weren’t diagnosed. It’s not that people didn’t have it. The criteria for diagnosis have changed a lot. I know plenty of 50+ people who would be diagnosed if they were kids now. Including people in their 70s and 80s. And most of them have Autistic children and grandchildren. There is a strong genetic link.
@MargMorris-u6k
13 күн бұрын
I also feel that ‘back then’ our population was much less hence partly why now that we have many more diagnosis’s within our population along with more intense research and studies helping with the diagnosis of children. In saying that I knew something wasn’t right for myself through school I struggled my whole life to school reports of I could do much better than I was doing. I took myself off after I’d finnished school and had some testing done I came out as normal but bear in mind this was also in the days when there were probably only a small percentage of kids diagnosed with similar issues. I’ve since being diagnosed with a rare neurological sleep disorder and now realise I have had this since I was around 14 years old too. I’m now 55yo tomorrow and suffer from a huge amount of brain fog and concentration issues but also believe I have had ADHD or similar too but it’s too expensive to get tested these days so I’ll still battle on but not be so hard on myself as I was when I was younger
@katherinereich4996
13 күн бұрын
Back in the fifties we didn't have all this crap in our food
@MaryPoppins131
3 күн бұрын
Something needs to be done about "diagnosing" autism in every child. My first son started to speak late, never waived, never pointed with his finger, acted weird, did not listen at school, had no respect or fear for adults. He loves to watch the same cartoons/video, wear only soft clothes, wraps into soft blankets. They sent him to a special school to be in a small group as he can get overstimulated by the environment. There was no regression though, but a very rapid progress, like today he is not talking, tomorrow - he reads all signs, subtitles, and asks questions about space... School psychologist says "mild autism", but he is well aware about his surroundings, notices even slightest emotion in you if he wants to, does not exhibit any stereotypical ASD traits, speaks 2 languages and very good at math. My second child is calm, rational, tender, knows many words, but also does not respond to his name, does not waive, points to things with my hand - so here we go again, autism? It's almost like calling any bad mood a depression. This should stop. Anything that varies so much in symptoms and outcome should not be called the same name. It's not like I am in denial about my kids, just cannot relate what they say about ASD to what I observe, and that is not helpful.
@rebeccaharrison2968
Жыл бұрын
Autism isn’t always diagnosed. I’m convinced my brilliant, software engineer husband is on the spectrum, but I wouldn’t change a thing about him! 💖💞💕💗
@saramullenish
Жыл бұрын
.my granddaughter had regression, she would not acknowledge anyone else and was nonverbal. She didn't show emotion. Then she just started changing back.Now she laughs, talks, and communicates. We don't know why. But we are grateful.
@jaejohnson4631
Жыл бұрын
Could it have been a case of virtual autism?
@saramullenish
Жыл бұрын
@@jaejohnson4631 I had to look it up. And it is possible... unfortunately.
@fuzzymaiden1
Жыл бұрын
Why is no one putting these pieces together? This ALL boils down to an INABILITY or INSUFFICIENTLY able to DETOX metals & toxins that we are ALL EXPOSED TO ON A DAILY BASES.. baby get it the hardest.. not only from vaxxines but their damn BABY FOOD IS LACED WITH METALS.. then it takes time to BUILD UP.. meanwhile they simply cant detox it as well or as fast as other people or adults.. so ny 2 or 3 yrs old.. it builds up.. we see "regression".. but then . Lets say their diet suddenly changes..right? And now momas giving them a pure form of DHA, and baby isnt eating store bought baby food anymore.. instead toddler is eati g off moms plate, eating broccoli, red meat, eggs.. spices.. 1 month later toddler is more verbal.. its because they were anle to DETOX sone of that poison from their body.. if there is a back and forth regression/progression.. it has to do with TOXINS in the body and changes in their diet that are helping them but goes UNNOTICED.. Autism does not have ANY GENETIC MARKERS.. AT ALL.. WHICH MEANS its NOT in their dna to be "autistic".. autism needs a NEW LABEL, sonething like (and im making this label up).. SDS = Slow DETOX Syndrome. Or something like that would be better.. than using this term AUTISM as if its some hereditary thing that cant be changed or fixed.. RFKjr literally just announced that his team have created a NEW diagnostic tool that will test toddler her to MEASURE the level of TOXINS/Heavy metals and how they break it down and how fast.. this tool is for AUTISM.. that way parents can now see that their child ismt very good at detoxing everyday toxins and jf it goes on they will appear "autistic".. The latest medical science is saying that AUTISM is not in the DNA.. but its because of how polluted abd toxic our homes have become and its getting harder for our SPECIES to ADAPT to these things.. therefore the newest humans are getting hit hard with all these toxins in the world .. we need to get a handle on this before we destroy ourselves.
@katrinasnow7548
Жыл бұрын
everyone should watch the documentary 'vaxxed' so sad, these poor children, happy and normal and then suddenly they change its heart breaking these poor kids.
@Nevertoleave
Жыл бұрын
It’s full of lies. Anti-vaxxers are liars. The “study” they base their whole life off was a fraud and the conman last his medical license when it was found out he fabricated his data for profit
@katrinasnow7548
Жыл бұрын
@@Nevertoleave yeah right okay so its totally normal that these kids are healthy babies and interacting well, then suddenly they become autistic? That does not happen naturally and kids have so so many vaccines, especially the mmr one is a main one for autism. You should do more research on what the heavy toxic metals in vaccines can do to the mind and body especially in children still developing!!
@MamaBear8383
11 күн бұрын
This happened to my daughter. At the time, they were saying the vaccines caused it. She started speech therapy at 3 years old.
@rozina246
Жыл бұрын
My son's case almost like Maddie. He was absolutely fine, but after getting vaccination he started showing signs like Maddie. When he assessed, one lady (an expert!!?) said to 'treat him like a dog', use one word like sit, go, eat, come etc. He will not able to learn anything. It was devastating to hear as a parents. I could not believe her. I started teaching my son. Within 15 days he learnt the alphabet, 1-100, lots of words. He could say and write these backwards too without any hesitation. Now he goes to college. So, don't trust others blindly. You know yourself and your child. Autism is not a disease, but a condition and it's not curable. Your unconditional love and effort can make your child's life better. God bless.
@Nevertoleave
Жыл бұрын
Vaccines had nothing to do with it. That was disproved years ago. The origin of that lie lost his medical license after they found out he faked his study
@SensorySoundsASMR
Жыл бұрын
My baby brother was normal and hit every milestone until he was vaccinated at his "well visit" and started regressing and then was "diagnosed with autism" that's what happens when vaccines cause brain inflammation, causes life long learning disabilities and other disorders. I've been researching this for 25 years
@Shelabayy
Жыл бұрын
Okay random first time mom here. Are there any shots worth giving to kids bc I’m at a loss with all of this. I would hate myself for vaxing my baby and causing permanent issues for them
@little_kitty_nursery_1reborns
Жыл бұрын
Vaccines don’t cause autism
@little_kitty_nursery_1reborns
Жыл бұрын
@@Shelabayy get all your child’s vaccines. Vaccines do not cause autism these people are just trying to scare you
@SensorySoundsASMR
Жыл бұрын
@@little_kitty_nursery_1reborns sounds like you haven't done any of your research
@SensorySoundsASMR
Жыл бұрын
@@Shelabayy I have a list of books and resources I will get back to you tonight after work
@neldormiveglia1312
11 ай бұрын
I'm a 26 year old woman and for years I've been suspecting I might be on the spectrum. Still, at my age, I can't gather the courage to go into the world and ask the question because I'm afraid they'll tell me I'm not and I'll look like a fool. Thank you for providing the best support your daughter needs. Lots of love to the both of you 🖤🖤
@arleenroy1502
11 ай бұрын
Yes thankyou for that info. Drs told my daughter that her daughter has asbergers. Sorry if spelt wrong. She was throwing up the second she was born. Ate fur hair string as a toddler til she was 10 yrs old. Cried a lot Little difficulties with leaning But today she smart beautiful still fussy about texture of foods but after my husband caught her a trick to do math problems she’s been doing quite well in High school. Has a beautiful dining voice. Memorized like her mom. God bless the child for its struggle and the parents who deal well with it.
@donnab3740
11 ай бұрын
maybe go get tested and don’t assume the worst. what if they tell you you’re not but they can help you anyway.
@temple69
11 ай бұрын
Doctors kinda suck at diagnosing, just do a lot of research, self diagnosis is valid for taking care of your unique needs
@itrasheditgood
11 ай бұрын
If you were the weird creepy girl, that seemed too mono focused on strange things and had issues understanding and communicating with other girls, had issues with crowds, and very specific about what materials touched your skin and strange about hugging and touch and basically found comfort in being at home and had to have your own space away from other people at the end of the day and a complete introvert, if you have many or all of these personality traits, welcome to my world, I’m pretty sure it puts me on the spectrum.
@MargMorris-u6k
13 күн бұрын
I fully get you I’m 55yo and aside from the cost of the testing I’m scared that my own kids will not believe me if I do get diagnosed with it but I do believe that I r got something going on and have done since my late teens
@tiffanybates6413
3 күн бұрын
My son never really made full sentences at 2, so I immediately got him into early intervention program also with speech therapy throughout his school years… He talks a lot now… He’s 19 now… He still has struggles with social skills/ anxiety but I always reassure him to just take his time with everything he does and constantly check in with his emotional state every day… REASSURANCE AND LOVE KEEPS HIM VERY ENCOURAGED AND CONFIDENT!!! I will forever be he’s guard dog… That’s my baby and so tremendously proud of him!!! NEVER GIVE UP ON HER AND YOU WILL BE VERY SURPRISED AT HOW YOUR LOVE IS KEY!!! Bless your family always😂❤😂❤😂🎉🎉🎉👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽 From one mom to another mom🤜🏽🤛🏻
@nicoleg7467
Жыл бұрын
My nephew regressed and progressed several times. He's 16 and still doing it. I just give him room to grow and tell him he can do it until we see he can't, and then I teach him. She'll figure it out!! Sending you good vibes!!!
@hissykittycat
3 күн бұрын
This breaks my heart. She was clearly distressed in the environment they had her in. I hope they took her home. My heart goes out to this family.
@RealJudyi
Жыл бұрын
I didn't talk until I was four and didn't answer to my name until I was six. I wasn't stupid, I just didn't give a shit. My aunt thought I was "special" and slow 😂😂😂 I would do all my homework of 2 weeks in a day. I could read, talk and write in both spanish and English by time I was 7 in adult level. I Learned sign language. Could decipher puzzles, locks and understand situations quickly. Learned to win at every child game against my cousins. My teacher told my parents "shes not slow, she's faster, smarter and can even manipulate all her classmates if we let her. How can you deal with her?" My mom just said "give her more work"
@daisy_rh
Жыл бұрын
Here's your trophy: 🏆
@seriouslyjoking2
Жыл бұрын
Children who are learning more than one language always talk later than others who are learning one language.
@Marcel_Audubon
Жыл бұрын
and now you spend all day on youtube trying to convince strangers how special you are! what a fulfilling life 🏆
@kindnessmatters4068
Жыл бұрын
@@Marcel_Audubon ...🤭while you spend all day responding to people's comments on you tube 😅
@Marcel_Audubon
Жыл бұрын
@@kindnessmatters4068 not all day, dearie, I only respond to the most self-absorbed ones🏆
@HamIsTheUpgradeOfBalogna
11 ай бұрын
As I’m sure any parent of an ASD child can tell you, watching your child regress so drastically is heartbreaking. I questioned myself for a bit, wondering if it had been something I had done wrong. When my son was diagnosed at almost 2, I honestly cried. They were tears of relief for finally having a name for what was going on. The doctor kindly told me that this wasn’t my fault and that nothing I did (even during pregnancy) had caused my son to be autistic. He is on the “high functioning” end of the spectrum and we got him therapy right away. Today he is six, has caught back up to his peers and is doing great. He is funny, brilliant, loving, and kind. I wouldn’t change him or our journey for the world.
@roseisirrelevant
11 ай бұрын
autistic person here and i want to say my heart aches for what you've gone through and thank you for sharing your story. my support needs are around medium level at the moment and this genuinely gives me hope that one day i will be able to be independent, that i will be able to go to the shops alone without having a meltdown, that i won't have periods of time that range up to days where i am completely non-verbal. i don't think you understand how much of an impact your comment has made, it sounds silly but reading stories about autistic people who are able to overcome their struggles gives me hope. i hope you and your son are doing well, thank you
@brittymarie12
11 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing. It’s hard sometimes when you worry about if things will be ok. So it’s nice to hear where they could be in a few years
@juliamoon6562
11 ай бұрын
So many parents have experienced this post a scheduled vaccine appointment. FDA won’t ever look into it they are as corrupt as anyone but go listen to the countless stories you’ll be blown away. You’re not alone.
@Joyfillied
11 ай бұрын
You’re precious…I’m an ADHDer (and try really hard to ignore the possibility of autism as well because I just can’t acknowledge it or do deep dive studies into it like I did with ADHD, especially as I haven’t tried to get an official diagnosis yet 🙈), and man alive…it’s SO important for parents to keep tabs on their kiddo’s mental health!! And it’s true - it’s not personal…parents don’t cause it, they only make it better or worse (being supportive or dismissive, etc.)…I love that you’re on the right side, supporting your little one…❤
@wufflerdance9481
11 ай бұрын
im guessing you cant say you didnt let your drs jab your baby....... please wake up. ....ive met so many kids who were fine till a shot...some didnt get their first shots till 4 or 5 and suddenly severe autism and no talking....i have never met a unjabbed person with autism or adhd aspergers diagnosis...wake up
@punkyfeathers1639
Жыл бұрын
My son developed normally if not a little on the early side. The only thing that I found different was that he barely cried. He could sit happily for really long periods for a baby. I remember telling my husband that our son was too well behaved. Then, almost overnight, he stopped crawling, stopped talking and began having crying fits that went into self injurious behaviors.
@aurora8749
Жыл бұрын
My middle child when she was 1 and 2 was very quiet and could entertain herself with a spoon for a half an hour. I used to worry but the only autistic behaviors she developed are over sensitivity to touch and sound and obsessively learning about and repeating every detail she knows about something she's interested in. Lately it is minecraft. She tells me about every single character, how they look, what they do, every item and their benefit, how to create different items etc. Its cute to me but I worry itll cause other kids to snap at her when shes older. The sensitivity to touch used to be so bad that she wouldnt wear clothes, she would scream and cry like she was in pain but she is a bit better about it npw but I only can buy certain fabrics and all clothes have to be loose.
@_BO.
Жыл бұрын
@@aurora8749 Typically, it reminds me of family members who are on the spectrum. You come across as a mom who loves her child and not pushing her to be or act 'normal'. Please continue accepting her for the way she is, for example being very sensitive to fabrics. It's sometimes hard to understand for people who do not have that sensory overload, they think their child is just being difficult or is trying to test their parents boundaries. But her nerve-system is real. Let's please acknowledge these children and the way their brain and nerve-system works. Good luck to you and your child!
@redroselace9545
Жыл бұрын
Was that after a vaccine??
@pamelapamper
Жыл бұрын
So did it 💉happen 💉overnight?
@needyheartsclub5577
Жыл бұрын
@@redroselace9545 is MMR the only vaccine to look out for?
@Zuzu565
11 күн бұрын
My son was exactly the same. Later on, we found out he suffers from 2 genetic mutations. One from which is linked to autism, ADHD, aggression, and developmental delays. The other genetic mutation is unknown. But by the Grace of God, my son does not suffer from any medical health concerns, and he is just a happy child. He is nonverbal but has learned basic ASL It did take a bit for him to learn, but he is thriving, learning, and slowly becoming more independent and communicating better. We owe this to our wonderful, loving God, who strengthens us each day to grow in patience and love. ❤ praise be to God Almighty, the Father and God of our Lord Jesus Christ.
@lnorth3560
11 ай бұрын
I have three diagnosed children, all adults now. The frustration of being told they aren’t autistic when you live through the regression and the stimming and the smearing and all of it is deep. I love them so much, but our lived reality can be everything from miraculous to heartbreaking, it is enough to live it without negative commentary from those who wouldn’t take two steps in our shoes.
@amandafernandajulia
10 ай бұрын
I saw his recommendation and approach Dr Oyalo for the herbs on KZitem. The herbs has so far work positive on my child’s eye contacts and speech improvement. My child social skill is good now and response to name has improved too
@simplybeautiful41
25 күн бұрын
This is our two-year old . He did everything. I mean everything early after his one year check-up/ vaccines, he began to regress. He's getting better now, and os starting to be a little more social and using his words . It's a stressful process, but we as parents do what we have to for our children. Autistic or not.❤❤❤
@CE-jl1lv
14 күн бұрын
My step son had visible changes in pictures right after his 18 month check up and vaccines. My bio sons the same age as him and I felt weird about the shots so I split them up. My son is mildly on the spectrum while my step son is fully. I truly in my heart think it’s vaccines….
@simplybeautiful41
13 күн бұрын
@@CE-jl1lv I agree
@caseyjones3202
13 күн бұрын
THANK YOU FOR BRINGING UP THE VACCINES! This is HORRIBLE what the medical cult is doing to the people of the future.
@wendycgilley
2 күн бұрын
My daughter couldn’t stand to be touched by anyone but me and she cried all of the time. She spoke and walked late. As soon as she could walk I put her in dance classes and pageants. She enjoyed an audience as long as they were at a distance. We began piano and theater early. It seemed like the more she performed the better she did. At 34 she has her college degree, works as a business manager at our church and makes the staff and congregation happy. She still loves performing. The only signs of her autism are her dislike of being touched and her pacing around our kitchen island to help her deal with stress. She overcame the dyslexia and ADHD (no medication) that often goes with mild autism. She is brilliant, well educated and has decided to get her PhD. I wouldn’t change anything about her.
@freshcados3991
Жыл бұрын
She’s beautiful. I’m sorry people can be so cruel! You’re doing a great job momma, continue to stick up for her
@jacksyoutubechannel4045
Жыл бұрын
I don't think the commenter was trying to be cruel. It's certainly true that there's been a spike in "self-diagnosed" autism (or parent-diagnosed in children) lately, particularly as an outgrowth of TikTok communities. After a while, people tend to forget that some of the people posting really _are_ autistic, because of how much it's buried (along with other things like tic disorders, DID, and ADHD) under people who just want to be a part of something interesting.
@actmrhata5079
Жыл бұрын
My nephew had this happen at his 2year shots. Try advanced trs to help detoxification. It probably won’t fix everything but it made a HUGE impact on my nephews development
@lillith8679
Жыл бұрын
Oh, momma. She didn’t lose anything. She still the smartest girl in there. My son is autistic, and 4. I feel you on the heartbreak. ♥️
@ilovesparky13
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. An autism diagnosis doesn’t change her intelligence.
@RayneBubble.
Жыл бұрын
Why heartbreak? I'm autistic with ADHD. There's nothing to be sad about. We're awesome 🤘🏼
@lillith8679
Жыл бұрын
@@RayneBubble. I guess I was talking about the initial feeling when your child begins to “lose” what they’ve gained. But you’re absolutely right. I should’ve worded that better. Thank you. ♥️
@Ruby-yn5fp
Жыл бұрын
@@lillith8679 im wondering in this whole comment section if "regress" is really a word we want to continue using. Yeah I can see how the babies stop showing typical development and actually reverse some of it, but it sounds so negative no? I wonder if there's a more neutral term to use instead.
@lillith8679
Жыл бұрын
@@Ruby-yn5fp I agree. There has to be.
@titithetoad
9 күн бұрын
This is enlightening. It strongly supports the drs research that dietary deficiencies/external influences eg toxins, cause changes that seriously affect our children.
@Lobaby55
Жыл бұрын
My son is 32 years old, Special Needs Non Verbal. He is at a 2 year mentality. He had a brain bleed of grade 3 and was a twin that came at 27 weeks. He was talking and doing things like put video in VCR. After his MMR SHOT at 18 months that night he cried and cried. Probably having Seizures? Anyway no saying Mom anymore, zombie, no eye contact. Very sad!! Your daughter is adorable!!!❤️
@aubreyodom468
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry mine changed at the six month set of shots and I started detoxing him immediately through Natural medicine drs. I was warned no more as we have mthfr genes that make breaking down the vaccines nearly impossible so the aluminum and additives in it build up in the brain. So many moms have warned of the MMR in the last few years. Im so incredibly sorry he has gone through that and you have as well. Keep sharing your and your sons story so moms researching can see what the media tries to hide from us.
@Lobaby55
Жыл бұрын
@Aubrey Odom Yes I do share to Mom's to be. In 1990 when my twins were born there was no Internet, Social Media to learn from. I was on a desert Island by myself in my little apartment. The only info I got was Doctors appointments. Getting therapy and special Day programs were atleast offered even then. Most people don't believe the vaccines are dangerous, so all I can do is warn them by my son's example. ❤️
@arusgevorgyan7238
Жыл бұрын
@@Lobaby55 hugs to you and thanks 🫂
@Nevertoleave
Жыл бұрын
@@Lobaby55vaccines 100% do not cause autism. That was disproven. The person who “proved” a connection between the MMR and autism held a patent for a completing vaccine. His fraudulent study is used in universities as an example of why proper sources for your research are important and why the CRAAP test exists.
@nicolejackson5468
Жыл бұрын
Same thing happened with my son. He was hitting all his milestones early with the exception of potty training and he started regressing at about 3/4 years old. He is now about to be 13. It’s been challenging at times, but we are getting through. Stay advocating for your little miss! She is a blessing!
@maddiekain7728
Жыл бұрын
My daughter was the same way. Granted, I didn't know what to look for, but we didn't really notice any signs until she was about 5, and realized she'd actually been showing signs since she was about 3. Potty training was tough, and I got a lot of criticism for allowing her to stay in pull-ups until she was about 4.5. Turns out, she can't stand the sound of toilets flushing. She's just "normal" enough for people to think she's just spoiled and a little feral. Which, she might be, but that's definitely not the core issue. I think another reason why I didn't notice at first was because... She's exactly like me. I remember one of my husband's friends, who is autistic, said, "you know that's a sign of autism, right?" And I said, "but I did all those things." 😅 So it might run in the family. Still exploring that aspect.
@n.b1434
11 ай бұрын
The most important thing is to stay vigilant, constantly working with them daily (exercises, speech development, etc). It will pay off! I saw a documentary years ago with a severely autistic baby boy. It was heartbreaking to watch, and I thought this poor child would need 24/7 care his whole life. But they worked with that baby every single day! Seemed like hours each day. They showed the child's progress over the years. When they showed him at about 7, my jaw dropped. You would never, ever know he was autistic! No problems at all. I was stunned. Absolutely stunned. He was talking to the camera, being a very social, interactive, intelligent, and observant little boy. He was fully aware and talked about how bad his autism once was. The boy was independent with a huge personality. He showed no signs or any issues at all. Night and day difference!! All the time and hard work paid off. He was a completely functional child who would be able to carry a job, fully live on his own when he grew up. Even have a family of his own one day. It was quite fascinating and the most amazing thing to watch.
@penneyburgess5431
10 күн бұрын
Hand flapping is another sign. Not as an emotional response but just continuous motion. I almost missed it in my daughter. It affected her emotionally and physically. Thank god she never stopped talking. She has specific verbal needs and responses, but she just tells me I’m doing it wrong if I forget.😊
@_RavishingRaven_
Жыл бұрын
Two of my 4 children are diagnosed with ASD. I have my children in all therapies available for them, home teachers/E.I specialist too. And me and dad (my husband) have been doing a deep dive in some research. My youngest seemed to have all signs since he was a very young baby aka no regression. My 4 year old had regression tho. It was like a light when off one day. He has made a 180 in the last year and half. And I couldn't be more proud of him. Pay attention to foods (toxins) they eat as well. Also stuff they watch. It's not good. I've heard so many parents speak on things they've tried and the major changes that came following. I'm not going to post on here and get attacked for my research but you can find it if you look into it. 🙏🏼💛
@MissChoksondik90
Жыл бұрын
I still say my son's regression started the day after he got shots. He had a high fever that I couldn't break until late that night and I think that's what caused his. He was fine one day and then the next day he was completely different.
@lordtette
Жыл бұрын
You're son didn't regress because of somethinf that can be easily debunked. You think it's the shots? You proably have someone in your family who is autistic, if it's not you.
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