One thing I've noticed as a man is that when you better yourself and try to be a better man for the people around you, it doesn't get recognised or appreciated at all. But when you do something wrong, oh boy, you can bet they'll be on your case. At least in my experience. That's why you need to learn to do any self improvement for yourself and nobody else. Be polite and kind because you want to be a better friend/father/son/brother/whatever, not because you're waiting for someone to appreciate it. It's a cold shitty world and nobody is standing around waiting to give you a pat on the back. This is why us men are so conditioned to keep our feelings to ourselves. This video is great, by the way. Nice to know there's some women out there who didn't grow up being treated like perfect princesses who are owed the world.
@GregXHunterz
2 жыл бұрын
Fuuuck man
@luckyy3691
2 жыл бұрын
Your hard work does get recognized, but not in a good way: You now become a target of envy and leeches.
@GregXHunterz
2 жыл бұрын
@BLACK KNIGHT damn
@Matt_Wilson01
2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately very true
@DantesInferno96
2 жыл бұрын
Every damn time
@kylespevak6781
2 жыл бұрын
Women: I dated a toxic man that everyone told me was bad for me. Men are horrible Men: I've been psychologically manipulated and mentally abused by every woman I've ever met, but I don't want to be alone
@itsyahboy7876
Жыл бұрын
Dam straight facts ….
@CartoonEric
Жыл бұрын
On that note it reminds me of this double standard: Women: I've dated one bad man. All men are awful. Public: You go girl! You don't need no man! Whereas... Man: I've had a bad date with a woman. All women are awful. Public: You sexist, misogynistic bastard! You should die! REEEEE!!!!
@youngskeletn7830
Жыл бұрын
Then they call you a incel for saying that or make fun of you
@CartoonEric
Жыл бұрын
@@youngskeletn7830 Ain't that the truth. Though I am far from being another Elliot Rodger.
@haileyt857
Жыл бұрын
Bro, women experience the same exact shit as the second example you give- nobody warns you if someone is bad. Welcome to reality where good people are screwed over by bad people regardless of sex/gender.
@PigEpisodes
2 жыл бұрын
I'm a marine veteran and this shit hit me deep. It's hard when you got deep scars you got to heal yourself and everyone else relying on you to be there strength. But no one supports you. Thank you for this. Makes it easier to make it another day
@geodude6244
2 жыл бұрын
That's the life of a warrior fighting for the ones we love just for them to think we're extreme and crazy. But little do they know or acknowledge we're their rock. Sometimes it seems only a brother can understand females can't comprehend.
@26MECH
2 жыл бұрын
I am an army vet myself bro....went to war overseas for this nonsense....smh...I echo your sentiments...keep your head up bro
@SoldierGai
2 жыл бұрын
Semper Fi, bro.
@AloyImpact
2 жыл бұрын
I’m currently in the Navy, being gay, I get treated no differently as a man, I’m treated like shit by these women who somehow get more recognition than someone who actually does the heavy lifting and hard work. Then they get offended at my why I’m mad when my work gets devalued.
@julabibaziz6450
2 жыл бұрын
You are right, I really appreciate you feed back.. thanks for you Service
@Shotta415
2 жыл бұрын
A REAL woman who got it just in time to make an impact in these soulless individuals. Blessings to you and keep pushing the message.
@casswashwash1070
2 жыл бұрын
Thats the problem. Theres no real men & women. We’re just people trying to navigate this society created by the powerful at the top. The colonizers, the rich, white supremacy. Thats all this is about. Stop following colonial rules of what it means to be a man or woman.
@richortega692
Жыл бұрын
It’s like 1% of women and that’s the part that feels discouraging. Women see a guy with mental problems and it’s a red flag for them. They want a man who’s preassembled with no problems.
@jacoballen6269
2 жыл бұрын
I will say this. If you see or if you’re around a guy who’s always calm and quiet but also has a blank stare on his face most of the time. When you ask that man if he’s okay and he replies immediately with “yea” just know that man is not okay. That man is fighting demons. Daily.
@misstinez8860
2 жыл бұрын
This is my boyfriend!!!! Today was the day he finally broke down in front of me. Which lead me to watch videos like this. We’re dating a few months now and he has always been doing this. I would always caught him staring off being quiet. He had past traumas bc of his ex girlfriends and family and he has low self esteem issues. Which I had no idea. He covers it soo well. He’s super sweet and is an amazing guy and treats me like a delicate flower and a princess. He didn’t deserve anything that happened to him. So I’m here trying to educate myself and find ways to help him help himself overcome his demons.
@faa1412
2 жыл бұрын
@@misstinez8860 If you haven't done so already, definitely look up articles and videos about dating a man with low confidence and low self-esteem. They usually give tips on how you can help raise his confidence/self-esteem and step into his masculine energy/power. And also if possible, help him discover what his love language is and show how you much you love him in his love language. For example, if his primary love language is physical touch. Hug him, sit close to him, etc. are what he needs to feel loved. If his love language is acts of service, allow him to do things for you especially if he offers and of course, you express gratitude and appreciation. He can also learn your love language and do the same.
@jacoballen6269
2 жыл бұрын
@@misstinez8860 just always keep the understanding and communication alive. They say women are emotional creatures but so are men. We just deal with it differently. Just keep him knowing that you got his back and he’ll do the same.
@misstinez8860
2 жыл бұрын
@@faa1412 thank you sooo much. I’m definitely gonna put this into practice and start reading and watch more videos.
@misstinez8860
2 жыл бұрын
@@jacoballen6269 thank youuuu!!! Will do
@theuchihakidd
2 жыл бұрын
If a women calls me a pervert for saying Hi/hello to them I'll probably never speak ever again
@No_Fap_Hey_Zeus
2 жыл бұрын
Stop thinking like that, instead go say hi to 1,000 bitches a day
@seanlewis1148
2 жыл бұрын
What's the use huh🤷♂️
@geneanthony3421
2 жыл бұрын
@@seanlewis1148 I honestly never experienced it but I think it's something with women in the city. I remember Ryan Long doing a bit (comedian who does street interviews) where he said Hey girl to some girl on the street and she started flipping out on him calling him an ugly POS. Being the culture that seems to exist there I'm guessing it breeds it.
@xtxt9135
2 жыл бұрын
If it ain't working,keep walking.
@jvcarter21
2 жыл бұрын
Its because the system is full of white knight simps who believe all women. Shit needs to change.
@yvngsira4624
2 жыл бұрын
As a man I feel like I'm always trying to resist myself to even try to speak to women just because I'm so afraid of rejection, it's gotten to the point where I don't even see the point in approaching women anymore just because of how much effort I have to put in for women emotionally,as well as double standards learning game and flirting and all that .sometimes I wish I could just be average and live normally while having a lot of options at the same time, now I feel like I'm no different than any another man that works, supports himself and takes care of himself , so why would a women want me right ??? These are questions almost every man has to ask himself. LOVE IS HARD it's like a girl can be average get any guy she wants while treating the best guys like crap but guys can't even live normally without feeling like a creep.
@DoomShrm
2 жыл бұрын
I think you've gotten into your own head too much about this. And what I've found is really the only way to get over this is to get out and talk to girls,, maybe not even romantically, and normalize yourself with them
@yvngsira4624
2 жыл бұрын
@@DoomShrm your absolutely right dude , the head can become so clouded by over thinking. I was giving an example of what starts to happen when i think to much I noticed when I was younger I didn't think about all this nonsense I was just having fun playing games hanging out with friends because I was just living life not over thinking about women now that I'm older I'm trying to revert myself back to that mindset of just living life and seeing what comes along I think the men that feel what I'm feeling should do that because all of this depression and social problems between men and women is a result and OVERDOING WITHOUT DOING ANYTHING.
@ikpai2
2 жыл бұрын
Same brother 💪
@JCTBomb
2 жыл бұрын
Damn right. Damn right. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t. I know what you mean dog 💙👌🙏
@utopian4769
2 жыл бұрын
@@DoomShrm You know there are plenty of guys like myself who have normalized talking to women but still face the issues mentioned, right? The problem isn't talking to them, the problem is that when it comes to wanting more a guy is expected to take the brunt of the work to make something more happen, and when that doesn't work out it's seen as a failing on our part and the advice we receive is generic and unhelpful. Double standards don't help either, and the cultural shift between old and new ways to date is sending messages so mixed they could be cake ingredients. It's not a made up problem, if it was so many people wouldn't be complaining about it.
@iamaronman
2 жыл бұрын
I have deep respect for this woman, she basically took the concept of "put up or shut up" and she wanted to actually see if her beliefs were real. When after her experience she wrote a book pretty much admitting she was wrong (which is an extremely brave thing to do) and grew deep respect for men. And she felt like most men do in the end, isolated and alone with no help to turn to and making the ultimate decision like that.
@acookie1410
Жыл бұрын
“Put up or shut up” sounds so amazing
@mrmagnamalo7864
Жыл бұрын
Death is inevitable
@azenazazel
2 жыл бұрын
1 woman cancels her subscription to life and everyone cares now, meanwhile the last 10,000 dudes who couldnt get past 25 still have family or friends that think they were pssy for canceling theirs.
@Curtis_George
2 жыл бұрын
That’s just how insensitive they are to us. I don’t think they understand the consequences. These guys (us) will just become colder and less sympathetic, empathetic which will in turn cause a harsher reality for them.
@javierfavela2255
2 жыл бұрын
@@Curtis_George IKR, it's no wonder y some men become hardened criminals.
@TriRacialAmericana
2 жыл бұрын
I am sure some are just insensitive but for the majority it’s just because the simply cannot put themselves in a man’s shoes. To have another woman pretend to be a man and share those experiences is the closest they’ve gotten to understanding men.
@xyon-jp8eh
2 жыл бұрын
omfg you are the only one to say this ! She pretends to be a man and kills herself and it's all over the place, but what about the countless other dudes that killed themselves who had real issues , who had to be men their lives ?
@antonivi8968
2 жыл бұрын
😂 All facts though brodie. That description is hilarious though ngl.
@maia3420
2 жыл бұрын
There was literally a part in the experiment when she was hitting on women and the women were cold and rude. She later revealed that she was a woman and the woman she was hitting on apologized for being so rude. AKA it’s perfectly acceptable to be rude and cold to men but it’s not ok to be rude to a lesbian woman even though she’s a heterosexual woman that’s into men.
@Thalanox
2 жыл бұрын
It shows that it's not a communication mistake. They really do realize how hostile they behave towards men on a consistent, default basis.
@destineybailey6890
2 жыл бұрын
It's obvious she didn't want to be hit on if she's being cold and rude ,that means they are not interested.
@Xizziano
2 жыл бұрын
@@destineybailey6890 that's an excuse and absolves any accountability. "No thank you" or "I have a bf" means you're not interested, not "get out my face creep". If she's rude it means she's a bitch.
@Xizziano
2 жыл бұрын
@@Thalanox it shows they know what they're doing and don't care.
@maia3420
2 жыл бұрын
@@destineybailey6890 Correct. The point however was she was not rude when she learned it was a woman. Keeping in mind the woman is an actual lesbian so she wasn’t fake-flirting.
@dekush7378
2 жыл бұрын
I’m a 21 year old soon to be 22 year old male. Due to personal experiences that I’ve gone through, I haven’t been able to have a serious relationship to this day. I was barely able to get a job a few months ago and I’m still saving up for a car and eventually a place of my own, and perhaps this isn’t a problem having to do all with women but. Knowing how things are with dating right now, I definitely don’t have that confidence to ask a woman out until I get things done. So it’s hard to swallow that pill that I still have lonely days ahead of me and who knows for how long. All I’ve been wanting is something nice and to be able to be loved by a kind and sweet woman so I’d be able to do the same back. However from the looks of it, that’ll have to wait for a while longer. I’ll keep pushin.
@raton5936
2 жыл бұрын
Don't give up you will get the confidence if you practice it. Do you go to the gym? I can confidently say i could ask a girl out but for me it's always been a "what can I provide? can I provide enough?"mindset that keeps me from doing it. I don't know if it's lack of confidence in an area or simply being raised really poor which basically made me always want to be stable before any serious relationship ever happen.
@TheBrew3
2 жыл бұрын
Bro I’m in the same boat as you.. respect.
@padarousou
2 жыл бұрын
@@raton5936 you’ve never been taught you were enough... very common for men unfortunately
@M3M33thousand
2 жыл бұрын
You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take. You’re young and working on yourself is great but that by no means should halt your desire to actively seek out love. This is a great time to practice building up the confidence and being comfortable with who you are. Best of luck
@ZhouAgito
2 жыл бұрын
@@raton5936 I used to be like that too but after my recent breakup I'm just like... bruh what do the girls have to offer me? Choose the girl that chooses you bruh. Rich or poor doesn't matter if they're for you because they want to be. Trust me I've seen it. It's possible you just can't simp.
@nickantonides8015
2 жыл бұрын
Not even 4 minutes in and you've got me tearing up. As an adult, from person to person, I have to say thank you and I fucking love you. 4 years ago I caught 5 felonies protecting my daughter's and their mother just to have her turn around and kick me out and less than 2 months later watch her move another guy in and try to have my girls call him dad which my oldest didn't do and my youngest couldn't talk. Her and my mother went to my first court date and nobody showed up to any of them in the 7 months following. It tore me apart being handed a piece of paper wanting me to sign over the next 15-25 years of my life they were offering and turn around to a courtroom full of people and not having anyone there to support me. My own "family" didn't give a fuck that they were trying to take my life for protecting my girls. I've attempted suicide 4 times since then and literally nobody has ever given a fuck. Watching your videos over the last few days tears me apart that a complete stranger seems to care more than the people I rode for and was prepared to kill and die for. I hope the person you end up with knows how's lucky they are and I hope you know how truly appreciative some people are for your existence and that you make these videos!
@XOChristianaNicole
2 жыл бұрын
❤❤❤
@userrexha2525
2 жыл бұрын
Damn, I'm sorry you're wife (family)didn't see what you did for them... The ones reading this did though, and so many would kill to have someone like you... You sound like a good guy, keep being you... hope you're doing better
@ExtremeRy
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry bro
@crystalcranford5298
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry for everything that’s happened to you.
@sefilrot
Жыл бұрын
i hope your alright brother keep pushin
@newstart1586
2 жыл бұрын
I can say I wouldn't be alive if it wasn't for my homie. He's a one of a kind. Shout out to you, Ethan
@wraithenone9892
2 жыл бұрын
Bro I myself am literally only still here out of spite
@_kanyeWest
2 жыл бұрын
@@wraithenone9892 hahahaha me too bro!! and my mom
@zackhorton659
2 жыл бұрын
Aaaayyyyyy behzinga
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
2 жыл бұрын
New Start so sorry hope you're doing better
@mclovinnoname5637
2 жыл бұрын
Shout out to Ethan. Its rare to have homies like that now days
@rebeccamurphy-althamry485
2 жыл бұрын
Yes ! Modern day Feminists need to watch this and stop thinking men have it easy. They need to stop blaming men for everything !! It’s infuriating! Salute to all the great men out there ♥️ you are needed and appreciated 🙌👏🏻
@Mattys556
2 жыл бұрын
No, thank you Rebecca. Women like you are needed and appreciated 🫂 👩❤️👨
@jaymiles5206
2 жыл бұрын
No... thank you, I wish you the best
@wejuggernautentertainmentl3156
2 жыл бұрын
Blessings and prosperity 🫅
@featuremarkstudios
2 жыл бұрын
Well, we sure as hell aren't being shown that we are "needed" and "appreciated". Whatever, I don't care. I look out for my friends and family. That's it.
@rebeccamurphy-althamry485
2 жыл бұрын
@@featuremarkstudios I know :(( I’m sorry. Men have it harder these days than ever before. I’m ashamed to be a woman in the west these days. I feel afraid for men who even glance at a woman… they are accused of all sorts. I hope it can change again in time and men will be once again appreciated. But do know some of us women appreciate men like u we may just be a little harder to find these days. Much love to u Jim 🙏🏻
@GaBoiGregG
2 жыл бұрын
Most times becoming "self aware" is more important than "socially accepted"... and unfortunately that means leaving family and friends who are stuck in the same mindsets
@rayannatheartist
2 жыл бұрын
This comment deserves more likes 👏🏽👏🏽
@wTVe.
2 жыл бұрын
Man this is exactly what I’m learning to accept
@TVB1722
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly I’m 21 and I’ve been suffering in silence since I was 7. There honestly hasn’t been much help for me. The government failed me. My family failed me. And my doctors continue to fail me. I am supposed to be on disability but because people prefer to be lazy and I’m a man my therapists office continues to refuse to give the state my actual diagnosis of ptsd. Saying it’s just mild depression. Yeah I know, I’m still trying but honestly for the past 5years I’ve gone really down hill. I consistently think and try to hurt or un alive myself. I fake smiles. I don’t talk to people anymore. I can’t get a job because my depression turn into social anxiety. And my family continues to torture and make fun of me for my disabilities to this day. Honestly it’s all mental and emotional torture. But when you have ptsd, bi polar depression, severe social anxiety, and various other mental health issues; that shit is a million times worse. I am physically unable to cry. So I literally just sit there in pain not being able to express or let it out in any way. And that, that’s the most torture my family has ever given me. Since I’ve been treated this way from birth it was normal but becoming more self aware made me realize, they made my mind and body feel like an eternal tomb, not even a mental prison to work my way out of. I’m like this wether I like it or not and I’ve never had a choice. So please women who don’t believe, just listen to us… I sure wish someone would finally listen to me.. 😢 I think about taking my life every day, most people say “wow I’m surprised you haven’t un alived your self yet” yeah no shit, me too. I know it’s not meant in a disrespectful way but that shit hurts the most bc I would love to but I’m being as strong as I can be for the men who can’t. Let’s hope I don’t join them soon.
@SupaWick
2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there Brody you'll figure it out man I believe in you.💪💪💪
@jkhalil82
2 жыл бұрын
Fax mob
@shock75wave14
2 жыл бұрын
To everyone typing about their experience as a men... great job even if not many people read it. It's great to let those thoughts and emotions out. From a man to a women. We love you even if you hate us. We will proudly still die for you. It's in our nature to protect women. God made us the front warrior. We protect the outside and you protect the inside. I didn't realize how much we men go through cuz I got tired of debating with men vs women. So when I saw this video I was shocked to see how much it almost made me cry looking back on everything I went through emotionally. We tell each other to keep it in cuz it's better that way. Not to be toxic.
@reyes8143
2 жыл бұрын
Men deserve love as much as women do. We are all living in the same earth. No one is better than the other. We’re living and thriving together
@reidt9823
2 жыл бұрын
we are supposed to tame the hellish world for women and they are supposed to tame us and anchor us as our little bit of light in the world its a shame most don't understand that
@shock75wave14
2 жыл бұрын
@@reyes8143 Exactly!
@MR.Nobody9.11
2 жыл бұрын
I feel you, as a man we are not given time to do normal human things like grieving
@shock75wave14
2 жыл бұрын
@@MR.Nobody9.11 Yeah exactly so when tears come they come in as a surprise for ourselves
@flatout1017
2 жыл бұрын
I’ll never forget when a brother told me “I’m scared for my sons”. It used to be I’m scared for my daughter but for him to say that spoke volumes… As a man I can honestly say that I’m still an open wound and emotionally scarred, and keep myself concealed and guarded so I’m very careful about projecting onto others, from pouring myself into a woman that shitted on me. The gym is therapeutic for my pain which is weakness leaving my body, also writing is a place where I can be vulnerable and honest because the journal doesn’t judge and warrants my feelings, but sometimes I beat myself up because I have EXCEPTED that I ALLOWED it to happen. And that’s the accountability instead of blaming her for who she showed me she was I have to blame myself for giving up my worth and value to someone that clearly didnt know or understand how to receive it. Forgive them for they know not what they do…
@MichaelJohnson-uz5is
2 жыл бұрын
Amen. Praise Jah.
@1tarikross161
2 жыл бұрын
well said
@flatout1017
2 жыл бұрын
@@1tarikross161 Thanks brother on a humbling journey.
@DR1BLESS
2 жыл бұрын
Christ at his crux 😢
@rockysalvatore435
2 жыл бұрын
@@flatout1017 at least you're black. You can play race card on anyone no matter context, much like a woman
@valenciaing.4316
2 жыл бұрын
I feel like a lot of this started happening when parents taught their daughters they are better than their counterparts instead of how to challenge and uplift in a healthy effective way. Men have feelings. If he doesn’t readily let you inside his head then you be patient or you’re the wrong one to be there. Don’t bash
@rxmctv737
2 жыл бұрын
I strongly agree
@TheHalusis
2 жыл бұрын
sure and learned it from the music and movies [school systems now ]we all watched, witchcraft devised to destabilize the family balance created by God
@DoomShrm
2 жыл бұрын
I grew up in this environment and it def led to some developmental issues around how I perceived women. Really it was only up until last year that I reconciled the fact that men and women can coexist and I'm still not sure if 1 can with me
@rohdger3390
2 жыл бұрын
Parents didnt do shit to start this. The Rockefellers did. The parents just perpetuated the mindest.
@casswashwash1070
2 жыл бұрын
No its just the same old toxic masculinity thats been going on since forever in this country/society. Men at the top created these ideals you have to follow. You all need to break from that
@dracojoule
2 жыл бұрын
I think the most crushing thing as a man is the loneliness. I feel invisible and completely undesirable just about every moment of my life when I'm not spending time with the few good friends I have. I was rejected so many times throughout school and still to this day that I think of myself as fundamentally broken and worthless. People in my life, even some of my friends that are girls, will tell me that I'm attractive, but it's impossible for me to believe it. I understand why women are careful to show affection and can come off cold as a result, there are a lot of terrible people out there who will abuse kindness. I hate having to walk behind a girl, especially if she's alone, when I'm going to class because I'm so worried about making her uncomfortable; I usually just try and pass her by instead. I feel so lost when I'm crushing on someone because I'm terrified of saying something that would make them uncomfortable, and I feel so beaten down that each rejection punctures deeper. I thought the frequency of rejection would've hardened me and allowed me to handle it better, but it seems to only get worse because I just feel like a piece of shit who doesn't deserve to find happiness with someone. When I see things like "kill all men" or see someone reply "good" in response to the high male suicide rates, it makes me feel less than human, unworthy of life or happiness. Also since I'm in college, I have basically no money that isn't going toward bills, and it really feels that a man's worth in society is incredibly dependent on his wealth. Not having that much money makes me feel worthless as a man, even if I don't care about being rich I feel like it's impossible for anyone to love me without me being wealthy. I know I would never do anything to harm myself, particularly because I could never do that to my parents or other family, but spending 90% of my days alone outside of work and school is soul crushing. Sometimes I sometimes find myself wishing I'd get an untreatable terminal illness, because I feel like that's easier for parents to swallow than suicide. I'm set to graduate soon, so hopefully I am able to do that and get into the work force, and maybe things will change for me. I know I can't give up hope
@Rellyapplejuice
2 жыл бұрын
Keep your head up king.
@TheSatisfactoryMeatstick
2 жыл бұрын
Share some of the things you've said, keep on moving bro you got this, truly hope you find happiness in this world.
@THitxchtalk
2 жыл бұрын
You gotta listen to the voices man 🤷♂️ they the only ones acknowledging that I exist , the only people I talk to
@userrexha2525
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry it's hard for you, rejection and all that must suck, but I pray that you get more strength to keep going... It sucks when I see women write and say such things, but none of it's true everyone matters, of course including men ❤️
@A_Hylian_Not_An_Elf
2 жыл бұрын
I hope you realize your worth soon. Maybe find a hobby soon that can help with the loneliness. It helps you focus on something that can bring you happiness.
@Demii3x
2 жыл бұрын
As a 19 year old man your the big sis I wish I had. Thank you for being the voice men need!!!
@theuchihakidd
2 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@itstaytaybaybee
2 жыл бұрын
We family baybeeee 😘😘❤️
@ptolemeeselenion1542
2 жыл бұрын
She got two bigger sisters, though.
@travisdaniel8707
2 жыл бұрын
She's not the only one, though.
@itstaytaybaybee
2 жыл бұрын
@@ptolemeeselenion1542 huh?? I don’t have two older sisters lmao I have one little sister
@RinaRina10
2 жыл бұрын
I feel this in my core. Ever since I had my son I began to look at the world through the male lens and I am scared for them. Women today are extremely nasty and vain. I find myself getting called weirdo as well just because I express opinions that understand the male point of view. It’s honestly laughable. We as women supposedly have a strong command of language but they choose the most immature language to slight others🤦🏾♀️ I feel for you guys.
@Mr_Jombles
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you ♥
@alicekat11
2 жыл бұрын
Agree.. I have a baby boy as well and he will grow to have independence, healthy self worth & spiritual grounding to avoid being heartbroken by this manic world. There are still good ppl out there, somewhere.
@darkdiscreet
2 жыл бұрын
This moves me as a man. Hope you ladies stay there for your son's. And keep toxic men away from yourselves and your son's.toxic men can scar a son.
@teambeygrade6374
2 жыл бұрын
Yes thank you 🙏🏽
@johndiary4815
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being a caring mother. Not all of us had one and I enjoy reading about good moms bc mine was so bad. Thank you for looking out for the little guy.
@LaFlor718
2 жыл бұрын
The part about holding the door open is so true in my experience. Men always hold the door for me to the degree that if a man doesn’t see me coming and let’s the door go, he will run back to grab the door and will profusely apologize for not seeing me. I always smile and say thank you and they appreciate what I consider basic human decency. I also hold the door for men and when I do, they are so shocked and will trip over their words because they are not used to being treated that way. Another thing I noticed, a woman will see me coming, look me dead in the eyes and drop a door right in my face and keep it pumping without a second thought and if I hold a door for one of my “fellow” women they will look at me like they expect me to do it and won’t just say thank you. At this point I am more likely to hold a door open for a man rather than a woman. I can only imagine how men are treated by women if me as a woman who dresses and acts categorically feminine is treated like crap by other women. I feel for you guys but don’t give up on yourselves.
@tuinov6286
2 жыл бұрын
We wont give up on ourselves. We will give up on women. Even good women like you. Thats kinda unfair but this will happen.
@rhemyharris2709
2 жыл бұрын
I Appreciate It As Well 😊😍
@unowr79
2 жыл бұрын
@@tuinov6286 See I was about to flame you but in the direction this is going men are probably going to end up doing this
@allaboutcars4835
2 жыл бұрын
@@unowr79 Nope! You’re wrong. He’s telling the truth!
@APsGTG
2 жыл бұрын
@@tuinov6286 yeah. I think a lot of us are just gonna leave the USA for good head out overseas. A lot of men already started doing that
@kgb-belitrov2364
2 жыл бұрын
This video actually brought me to tears. You are the first person I've found that actually cares about how men feel. Thank you so much.
@entertainmentbuzzle76
Жыл бұрын
This lady is incredible ❤️🌹🍒. Iove you soo much
@mtjeeves1234
2 жыл бұрын
Her book was amazing. As a man reading it I discovered that I hadn't realized there were so many things about men that women didn't understand at all. I can imagine it would be a great read for a woman. It really helped me understand female nature from an honest perspective more than anything else I've read.
@frenchfries8399
2 жыл бұрын
What’s the book called?
@hotstreak9805
2 жыл бұрын
What's the book's name?
@mtjeeves1234
2 жыл бұрын
It's "Self made man" by Norah Vincent
@frenchfries8399
2 жыл бұрын
@@mtjeeves1234 Thank you😊
@hotstreak9805
2 жыл бұрын
@@mtjeeves1234 cool
@truvannisims7861
2 жыл бұрын
We’re in a world now where the mindset is selfishness, pain, and judgement. The struggle is real and we all need each other. Not all men are out to get you and not all men are emotionally mature BUT everyone could use a small gesture like a smile, a thank you, or a thumbs up! Those small gestures don’t take anything away from you.
@Xizziano
2 жыл бұрын
But women need men way more than men need women.
@jdrmanmusiqking
2 жыл бұрын
@Xizziano Yes and No. Making such a general statement about a massively complex thing does no one any good
@Xizziano
2 жыл бұрын
@@jdrmanmusiqking It's not complex, life works in generalizations. Just cause women say they don't need men, doesn't make it true. 1st world comfort has allowed women to say this nonsense. It's a resounding yes. Women absolutely need us more than we need them, history backs this up. Men only need women to populate a society. If there were no women we'd die off but we'd be fine until then. The fact more and more men are refusing relationships only solidifies that. If men died off women would not be fine. Men built the world we live in, not women. There was a reason since the dawn of time women aligned with the best men to protect and take care of them. Women still do that today, you can say whatever you want but you can't argue biological imperatives and needs. Women are the independent and self-sufficient they've ever been...still look for the same qualities in men as before
@jdrmanmusiqking
2 жыл бұрын
@@Xizziano Bruh I get youve been hurt but i look at every thing objectively. We need both the masculine and the feminine equally thats just how this reality was set up
@Xizziano
2 жыл бұрын
@@jdrmanmusiqking don't try to passive aggressively analyze me lol. What I said has no correlation to being "hurt", it's biological fact. The need for both masculine and feminine is not equal, that is a fact. You're trying to sound politically correct. Men only NEED women to propagate a society. Leave your feminist propaganda at the door and think logically for a second
@andrewall3193
2 жыл бұрын
Had those thoughts to unalive myself and confided in my wife, i was told that I'm weak for thinking abt it and she doesn't care so I should talk with a therapist. Happy to say that the relationship died out a year later. Rebuilding now and still have those thoughts but I keep going because I got ppl who depend on me.
@hellxsco
2 жыл бұрын
May God be with u, bro
@quintonbutler7148
2 жыл бұрын
If you can't confide in your wife who tf can you go to. You did the right thing by moving on. Us men deserve better and men have feelings and go through our own shit too!
@oEXTRA
2 жыл бұрын
@Illuminated by The Most High you're a clown for agreeing with his trash ex. You don't know what his situation was at the time. Granted he shouldn't have told her but clearly he was Blue pilled at the time and strong enough to reach out to someone (unfortunately the wrong one) while he was struggling.
@music79075
2 жыл бұрын
Jesus Christ that sucks
@desjones5254
2 жыл бұрын
Bro, stick it out. You’re not alone!
@leotisott2963
2 жыл бұрын
As a man that has served this country; I can't thank you enough for being our voice. This Veteran loves and appreciates you. Sadly...it feels like you're the ONLY one that does notice how hard it is for us. I'm sharing this to spread awareness.
@AloyImpact
2 жыл бұрын
I’m currently serving my country, this sailor thanks you for your service :)
@leotisott2963
2 жыл бұрын
And I thank you for yours as well. 😁
@AloyImpact
2 жыл бұрын
@@leotisott2963 hooyah
@trikky8341
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your service, sir.
@brennancarter7721
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for serving us brother, I appreciate you, much love.
@MrJessietyson
2 жыл бұрын
Men we have to find positive outlets to express our emotions. I’ve been going to the batting cages, axe throwing, or going to the gun range. Take care of yourselves ✊🏾
@MuiGohan
2 жыл бұрын
One of the best ways I've found to express pain is to draw or write , learn music, or my personal favorite martial arts all great ways to help the mind heal thank you for sharing def will be trying out the axe thing
@CRAgamer
2 жыл бұрын
Too depressed to even get outta bed bro.
@fecesmuncher2448
2 жыл бұрын
Playing video games with the boys even helps too tbh.
@jasonfromguitarcenter
2 жыл бұрын
We Already Have One
@BluBoiART
2 жыл бұрын
And this is why we appreciate women like you who take these deeper dives into this topic and u actually took the time to understand us. I hope more women approach life as you have TayTay. Much respect.
@Mingmargiela
2 жыл бұрын
This comment explains how all us men feel. Yes, thank you tay.
@niijigod3864
2 жыл бұрын
Fr
@wtmusic515
2 жыл бұрын
this is basic humanity, why are you praising this so much?
@ForemanFitness52
2 жыл бұрын
@@wtmusic515 Because it's lacking very much in today's society.
@wtmusic515
2 жыл бұрын
@@ForemanFitness52 yeah so because someone does what they’re supposed to do = endless praise? it’s like congratulating an adult for having a job, well done for doing the bare minimum. i’m not hating, but the standards should be higher.
@maxb2244
2 жыл бұрын
Some pretty big corrections: Norah Vincent was a feminist, but not a radical feminist. She was a libertarian and heavily criticized post-modernism and did not think trans people should be recognized as they gender they felt they were. She did not kill herself because of her experiment either. Her book Self Made Man came out in 2006, she died from assisted suicide this year over in Switzerland. She had depression her entire life. She checked herself into a mental hospital in 2008 and bounced around a few places, wrote a book on it. I can't find anything that specifically states her time living as a man was the reason she eventually chose assisted suicide.
@babyfaceweeb8937
2 жыл бұрын
Oh my god, you mean people on the internet lied? Shocker... 😀
@FistMeDaddy
Жыл бұрын
Yup, I came to the same conclusions by googling it and reading past the headlines.
@notasimpleworld6408
Жыл бұрын
What article did you read? I just cross referenced 3 and they all say she decided to go through with assisted suicide due to lingering mental effects of her experiment and experiences. Hell one of em went on about how her spiral into depression became way worse after the experiment when she was getting better before it.
@PoIiwag
Жыл бұрын
🤓
@anti1training
Жыл бұрын
@@notasimpleworld6408 She already had other mental issues. Who made the articles you read
@tombstonex3244
2 жыл бұрын
As a 22 year old man I've learned to "turn off" my emotions to not let them affect me as much as they would otherwise. It's not something I should know how to do but due to the constant negatives I have seen and experienced it's something I have developed to help me go through life. Men shouldn't have to do that, our feelings should be valid but there is a trust issue with if you do expose how you feel to a person that they'll see you as less than before or even worse is they'll take that emotional pain and turn it against you. I thank you for making these videos as they help keep me focused and stable, I'm not questioning myself as much and feel better mentally knowing that these problems actually exist and aren't just in my head.
@TheBlackAntagonist
2 жыл бұрын
Still need to learn that.
@Lordparable
2 жыл бұрын
Funny enough the show fairy odd parents showed me how lol
@blessmclean4045
2 жыл бұрын
21 and I felt this bro 💯
@darkwolfzain
2 жыл бұрын
I had to do that around the age of 25. Saved my life and my money. I became blunt and more straight forward than ever before
@JEDASE
2 жыл бұрын
@@Lordparable Respect cosmo be on something at times
@teroncatlin79
2 жыл бұрын
This is why I like your channel because am a 43 year old black man and I've been divorced now for four years due to a cheating x wife all because she thought that I was a boring person. She took my house my dog and everything in it and I got nothing out of it but my truck my firearm collection and a few bags of clothes. I had to move back home with my parents and now they are sick so now I can't get a place of my own because am the only one that takes care of them. When I try to talk to women and I tell them my siduation that am working and I take care of my sick parents and about my divorce they won't even give me their time at all. It makes me mad because I know that am a good person but all because am having it hard and am trying to get myself out of my siduation and I live with my parents am not suppose to have a woman in my life? I would rather have someone while am at the bottom to be by my side instead of a woman wanting to be with me when I get to the top. Women nowadays don't even care about if your trying or not. This is the reason why I will die alone.
@imrankh68
2 жыл бұрын
So will they
@NSLBC
2 жыл бұрын
Hang in there bro. Do something fun for yourself to bring some joy back.
@jermaineroles8049
2 жыл бұрын
No you won't. The Lord knew you your parents needed you and you didn't need that woman. They will leave and he will send a good woman in due time.
@christopherferguson3161
2 жыл бұрын
Remember your purpose and grind towards it. Your parents need you and the fact that you are doing something good for them shows that you are honorable and loyal. There will be a woman that will see you for who you are give you everything you need, stay strong King 👑 and make sure your parents are good.
@mateaukalua4426
2 жыл бұрын
Yo check this your parents are both sick it happens but they probably neglected their health. Take care of yourself so you can take care of your parents eat better foods and get a little exercise not too crazy with it. I am almost 29 with no kids never married handsome and well groomed with my own place car and job and I have been single my whole life almost every day of my entire life. It's a tough nasty world for us men and I want you to succeed.
@patrickherschberger6728
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly the biggest issue is that both sides think the other has it easier. But the truth is, it's hard to be a man and it's hard to be a woman. They both come with different challenges that are impossible to understand completely as the other side. A man can never truly understand women's hardships. And Women can never truly understand a man's. All we can do, is try to understand that it's hard to understand eachother. Everyone suffers, we just suffer differently.
@rohdger3390
2 жыл бұрын
Is it really hard to be a woman. Nowadays. I dont think I concur.
@patrickherschberger6728
2 жыл бұрын
@@rohdger3390 Yea.. it is. Why don't you think so?
@rohdger3390
2 жыл бұрын
@@patrickherschberger6728 You get all the attention you ever so desire. You get all the same oppurtunities men have. You get even more benefits getting married and divorced. Name at least one significant thing that women have it rough.
@patrickherschberger6728
2 жыл бұрын
@@rohdger3390 They can't safely and confidently walk alone outside at night without possibily being sexually harassed, kidnapped, beaten, raped, killed, or a mix of the five. That's not to say men don't have their fair shares of worries being alone at night, but they are significantly less likely to be kidnapped and raped. Or the fact that men don't have to worry about being beaten or killed for turning a woman down. You mentioned that women get all the attention they desire. This isn't entirely wrong, but if there are women who get wanted attention, then there are an equal, if not higher, number of women who get unwanted attention and harassment. And women getting the same opportunities as men shouldn't be proof that they don't have it hard in their own way. Equal opportunities should be a given, not a privilege. When it comes to court and parental custody, you're right, women are favored. It's a part of the system that needs an overhaul. But there are ways to prevent inequal divorce settlements, such as prenupts. Again, you need to stop acting like all women live on recruit difficultly, cuz they don't. We all deal with shit, so stop acting like everyone else has totally easier life, cuz they don't.
@Batonic
2 жыл бұрын
@@rohdger3390 women aren't blessed with our muscles and ugly mugs; I'm sure you wish every day you left the house there'd be dozens or hundreds of ogre-esque creatures potentially plotting to abduct and do unspeakable things to you. I think men in the west have it harder overall, but get real bro.
@RamboMadCow
2 жыл бұрын
I really felt this when she was talking about how shitty women are to men. I had an experience maybe 3 or 4 years back where I was going to a coffee shop pretty regularly. There was this one barista who actively engaged me in conversation every time I came in while she was working and seemed very engaged and laughed at all my jokes. And it's not like she was doing this as she worked. A handful of times she would hang out where I was waiting for my coffee, not doing any work but just engaging me in conversation. After having consistent, what I considered to be positive interactions with her over several weeks, I got the courage to ask her out... I cannot even begin to describe to you the look of complete disgust on her face. She shook her head, said "Ew no" and promptly walked away. That was basically the last time I asked a woman out. There have certainly been women that were much more polite in turning me down prior to this, but that one interaction must have left some kind emotional scar on me because the drive to even approach women in public is completely gone now.
@MichaelNoMyers
Жыл бұрын
This is another thing they don’t talk about from our side, how they can literally give all the right signs and still reject you.
@spiritualak5147
Жыл бұрын
@@MichaelNoMyers this life doesn’t make any sense
@LD-_KARMA
2 жыл бұрын
It was when I was at my friends funeral And I couldn't even find the tears in myself to cry when I really realized Im messed up mentally. My pain tolerance Is so high because of all I've been through alone with no help. Just feel numb now. Your videos really shine light on all men have to put up with silently, and still we are supposed to appear strong and secure in society.
@nexusdrop7863
2 жыл бұрын
Less that we are suppose to appear strong but that society will not tolerate a weak man. No help, no support, no handouts. Only saving grace is that men are finding out that without a woman their lives can be so much easier. That joke of a guy with a TV, chair, and video game being happy driving women insane is real.
@JEGHETTO
2 жыл бұрын
Dude. I feel you. It’s really hard for me to cry. Maybe once every few years. I’m dead inside.
@1Psalmaday
2 жыл бұрын
My mates once described me as a 70 year old whose dead inside and seen it all bored of life at 26. So many men are suffering or have suffered silently but are just trying to be strong to provide for their families and not be or feel a burden.
@CoconutxKimchi
2 жыл бұрын
Dude this is crazy cuz that’s how I was during one of my friends funeral. All I thought in my head was “be strong for everyone else” “don’t let anyone see you break” “don’t break don’t break don’t break” the fact that I had so little time to mourn because all I cared about was not looking weak and I hate myself for it.
@1Psalmaday
2 жыл бұрын
@@CoconutxKimchi This is exactly how I acted at my brothers funeral. Fighting an inner battle to suppress pain until I locked emotion so deep people forget I have any. By the time I attended my second funeral for a close friend all there was to be found was a numb feeling. I'm actually soft and feel emotion greatly but as men we learn to control that emotion in a way women don't understand.
@diamondd83
2 жыл бұрын
I work with men. She’s right, I say hi, smile talk back and listen when they need to vent. I care. Whoever reads this just know I care and continue to pray. Be safe and well 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️
@m.x.refrigxolani8365
2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou sister.
@triumphalstudios398
2 жыл бұрын
If you actually do this you're rare, most women don't give an f**
@sofiaguerrero0969
2 жыл бұрын
Same! I ask if they’re doing okay and if they need any help. 🤷♀️ be sensitive, be kind. to everyone.
@artrixx
2 жыл бұрын
as a recent graduate, I can now say school in today's society is inefficient, and is built to divide people, and forces one way thinking, as well as encourages bullying, not stopping it, like they advertise. went thru most of my life being by myself, dealing with social ostrisation, and having noone to help me thru it, all because of how i looked(stupid asf ik). my parents knew that I had no friends and told me i would find true friends, but I never elaborated how much it affected me. I was bullied pretty much everyday, to the point where I didn't wanna go to school anymore, and was scared of the physical and verbal assault that awaited me. cried myself to sleep most nights, and covered my mouth with my pillow, so I wouldn't disturb my hard working dad. I now have friends who care about me, and will take the time to help me with my problems, and i am eternally grateful for them. cherish the ppl who care about u guys. some ppl don't have the luxury of being surrounded by others who appreciate them. stay safe
@thenewjord50
2 жыл бұрын
schools really a test of what society gonna be like and I feel schools don't do enough to stop bullying and always blame the victim even when he or she stands up for themselves and the good teachers who tried to stop bullying get reprimanded. Schools are more worried about reputation than accountability
@lexxvic
2 жыл бұрын
Artrixx Thank you for sharing. I'm happy that now you have friends who care. your story is very important to many of us who suffer in silence. God bless
@artrixx
2 жыл бұрын
@@lexxvic thank you for this. I hope life treats you well
@artrixx
2 жыл бұрын
@@thenewjord50 very true. this system needs to change frfr
@artrixx
2 жыл бұрын
@Briansme I feel for you bro. I hope things get better for you. stay strong king
@ZynicGD
2 жыл бұрын
I blame this on the coronavirus. It’s like it destroyed our matrix and destroyed everyone’s minds. Before the coronavirus, life was good and normal. But now after, it’s just chaos all around. My condolences to men AND women who have to deal with the chaos that this world has come to. I wish one day that we will finally find peace in this world without killing each other, breaking each other’s hearts, and bullying each other.
@futurelane3377
2 жыл бұрын
I’m a young woman I remember when I would support men homeless more then the woman. And my mom asked me why am I keep giving most to the men, and I said they get the less help. And she said women too especially black women. And I was like no they don’t. By first hand experience my mom and my siblings and I have experience of being homeless and in the shelter there’s plenty of things for homeless women and children. Plus I gained a depression and Ik first hand a man’s depression is worse cuz my brother used to be in it deeeeeeep. So I try to help as much as I can. Also there was a video like this we watched in school in middle school my science teacher showed us and the woman only acted like a man for a couple weeks but in the end the men thought she was gay and after it she had to take therapy because she was coming depressed during the process.
@harpiessnow
2 жыл бұрын
It's honestly crazy how little help men get at their lowest point. My city is RIDDLED with women only shelters and men populate the streets/parks cause they have no where to go. I can count on one hand how many shelters there are that are co-ed fashioned, and they are in some of the worst parts of the city.
@sofiblinka2300
2 жыл бұрын
agree with you on some things but the depression part not so much cause we talking about mental health here not gender.
@vapingcat9615
2 жыл бұрын
@@sofiblinka2300 I agree, depression isn’t gender specific
@vapingcat9615
2 жыл бұрын
I think she was becoming depressed because she was out of her comfort zone? I once watched one guy on youtube do a social experiment for a month, he went to school looking homeless. And his whole demeanor changed. Of course he got depressed, he just wasn’t the same confident and outgoing person.
@saenekokun2723
2 жыл бұрын
@@vapingcat9615 who is he?
@MF_DOOMer
2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this video. I’ve been battling Suicidal ideation today. Seemingly out of nowhere.
@Balbroa
2 жыл бұрын
I've been battling since 4 months ago
@kingbawsaq4598
2 жыл бұрын
To this day, only my girl knows about me wanting to commit suicide not my mom, not my dad, not anyone who I should've considered as family. I was abused by my ex and because of my parents(mainly my mom)saying that no matter the situation a man should never hit a woman. My ex would cut herself and blame me for it to anyone who would listen just cause I didn't want to hang out at certain times. I never truly broke up with her it only came to that cause I moved to a whole new city. Being honest had my parents not moved out, I probably would have ended my life within the month because I was just done. The only person to ever let me truly show my emotions for the first time, was my girl and just an fyi, I hadn't cried in so long that when I did, it physically hurt. I had to take ibuprofen cause my head was pounding. And so to his day no one knows about me being abused because I was so ashamed and dint want to be seen as less or not man enough
@omorigiehon3198
2 жыл бұрын
Damn I'm sorry to hear that, I hope everything gets better for you and I hope the best for you, and I hope you get the help needed🙏🏿🙏🏿❤️
@Boomer25jk
2 жыл бұрын
Damn I sorry to hear that I’m going to pray for you
@illusivedbd
Жыл бұрын
I was a teenager when the kill all men movement was around. During school I seen females with kill all men shirts, they where supported for standing up. It made me feel wrong for even existing.
@grimsgrim607
2 жыл бұрын
I've always been told to "Be a man" whenever I cried, and now im at a point where even if I have a friend or a person to talk to I dont talk to anyone. I just keep it bottled up. I nearly un alived myself
@757bigj
2 жыл бұрын
Men have a fear and embarrassment of crying.holding it in can lead to violence or saying things to hurt others.You got to let it out. Just take time to yourself and let it out.
@kevsmith4320
2 жыл бұрын
Lol..I hate when people say un alived that shit ain't in the dictionary!!
@APsGTG
2 жыл бұрын
@craIIed amen 🙏
@Jesamisus
2 жыл бұрын
@craIIed people who depend on a man made god are the weakest. They can’t handle a reality that possibly has no meaning.
@JavierS83
2 жыл бұрын
Crying is not a sign of weakness, it just means you are human with feelings.
@lindagithaiga1974
2 жыл бұрын
She didn't need to commit suicide-she needed to remove the disguise,write a book on the lessons she learnt and keep it pushing.May she RIP.🙏
@noahrombough2802
2 жыл бұрын
She did that experiment almost 10 years ago, and she did write a book about it. Her feminist "friends" immediately turned on her
@traelstechnologytmalsantua3471
2 жыл бұрын
@@noahrombough2802 Wow that's terrible. With all the progress with the LGBTQ community you would think people would've become more tolerant by now. Now what if that same woman was instead trans and decided to live as a man for awhile and did the same thing. Would they have turned on her so viciously? Is today now the day where people with uncommon sexualities like trans are tolerated but straight women who emphasize with men don't get a pass? That's outrageous and no I don't have any vendetta against feminist in fact the one feminist that I've met was very tolerant at first her ideas seemed to come straight from her ego but it was just her communication style so we ended up having a healthy discussion and not tearing at each other's throats. In all honesty I'm afraid to bring a child into this world as it is now. My Mom had me at a young age and I definitely felt the effects of it. But I survived with a few bumps and bruises no less but I'm still able to function. I can't imagine turning on a friend because they decided to explore the perspective of the opposite sex especially for educational purposes. Why don't you get mad at the professor who educates students on controversial topics while your at it. That's if you haven't had enough of lashing out on the little people.
@ulforcemegamon3094
2 жыл бұрын
@@noahrombough2802 yeah , wasn't that book called "Self made man" or something?
@noahrombough2802
2 жыл бұрын
@@ulforcemegamon3094 yes that's the title
@Matt_Wilson01
2 жыл бұрын
Some people take the path of least resistance, it’s too much for some people to even be here
@trezhawnsmith7117
2 жыл бұрын
I needed this right at this moment. I just had a 2hr conversation with my daughters mom. She literally looked at me and didnt say one word. I sat there and broke down explained myself in detail how hurt I am. She literally didnt say a word. Before I got on youtube I been sitting here ready to take my life. That's real shyt. I dont even believe in talkn on social platforms. But you hit me hard right now. I swear.. smh
@Arcticwind-xw6qg
2 жыл бұрын
Go for a long walk with some good music
@truthseeker1581
2 жыл бұрын
Bruh your life is worth is more than what you think in this moment. Life will get better but you have to keep move forward.
@mnb195
2 жыл бұрын
please don't do this. ik we don't know each other but i want to say that even in the darkest moments in life there will always be a light. don't do this cause you will hurt no only yourself but your daughter aswell. i can't really say to much on the situation but i can imagine how hard it is for you. i really hope you find clearance and peace in your life take care of yourself, go for a drive, anything to just relax and think this through.
@johnhildenbrand2642
2 жыл бұрын
Don't ever explain your emotions to a woman, that's a recipe for fucking disaster, brothers, fathers, uncles, inner circle male friends are your safety network, she will absolutely file all of this away and attempt to use it to manipulate you in the future, or simply use it to try and hurt you.
@repent_0ne
2 жыл бұрын
We love you Tre.
@demarcusnewell569
2 жыл бұрын
It's so refreshing to hear this 😌 THANKS 😊
@jeffdaman6969
2 жыл бұрын
She couldn’t handle it and quit after 18 months. Imagine men having to deal with being men their entire lives. You see why mens suicide rate is so high? RIP to her.
@vernonclark287
2 жыл бұрын
"If you dont take advice from them dont take criticism" I love it..Thank you SISTER..
@DruPetty42
2 жыл бұрын
I felt this. I'm definitely not ashamed to say that I am a man that doesn't hold back tears and I will voice my feelings. In my previous relationship I was looked at as weak because of that. But a strong man once told me it's ok to cry. I also want to say that there was a time I experienced quite a few women who never said thank you when I held open the door for them. It disgusted me. When I spoke to them just being friendly, they didn't speak and looked past me like I didn't exist. Those things hurt and make men upset and sometimes angry. In both instances I wished I could have reversed time and never held the door for those women and made them feel the way I felt when they didn't say thank you or speak when I greeted them. At this point in my life I don't let that affect my day but it still gets me. Also, society does not dictate what a man is or what it means to be strong. Society changes as quickly as the wind changes direction. I could say a lot more and sorry for the rant. Thank you for all you said in this video and thank you for having our backs, thank you.
@UltraReb1rth
2 жыл бұрын
I respect you
@buckhill12
2 жыл бұрын
This touched my soul. 😢 It’s beautiful to see that woman understands our pain.
@itsyahboy7876
Жыл бұрын
Facts 😢
@CHAOSxKaiWebs
2 жыл бұрын
I need to stop watching Tae at work,almost teared up walking around my store,she's such a good person to hear from when ever she posts
@MrHARDtaHANDLE1
2 жыл бұрын
bro, i know right...kinda glad im by myself right now
@itstaytaybaybee
2 жыл бұрын
Awwww hugs 🤗
@itstaytaybaybee
2 жыл бұрын
@@MrHARDtaHANDLE1 ❤️❤️
@devo_yahson
2 жыл бұрын
You're a hero, you understand there's different perspective for everything and you try to learn all them. I highly respect you for that.
@ProdByHonchoBeatz
2 жыл бұрын
I swear she is
@neegachu9074
2 жыл бұрын
We don’t tell people how we feel because we wanna be seen as strong. We don’t show them cause we’re all so used to our feelings being undermined by the masses…shits rough and I’m glad you understand.
@matthewirish4523
2 жыл бұрын
I've dealt with suicidal thoughts since I was 13 (about 12 years ago). I appreciate the awareness you bring about this. Sometimes it's like a living hell and it's very unfortunate that she as well as others felt like that they didn't have any options left. Thank you ❤️
@ConquerorOfMountains
2 жыл бұрын
Same.
@el_chaffinch7661
Жыл бұрын
Stay strong brother. Won't say it gets easier, but you'll find your way and develop to a point your 13 year old self would be proud of
@DWBI3735
Жыл бұрын
Keep your chin up brother I’m right there with you
@2cleeng
2 жыл бұрын
Maaaaan she hit the nail on the head within the 1st 40 seconds. I literally at work this morning held the door open for this lil white girl and she just walks right outside with out a care in the world and just starts addressing these girls like hey are you looking for blah blah blah. In my head I’m like damn you rude and I wanted to say “YOUR WELCOME” but I kept my peace and walked away. Very sad how you can’t even compliment a woman in this day and age chivalry is all gone and women (not all but a big amount) seem like they can’t take a compliment or be called “miss” look at me crazy when I say that like they’re not use to respect. But if I called them “bitches” “ho’s” or something of that nature then the response is different. Society very twisted right now.
@Happythoughts9
2 жыл бұрын
what I mean, she didnt ask you to open the door for her, did she? she doesnt owe you anything, you decided to open the door for her and thats it, besides, she could open the door herself, she doesnt need your help lmao. If you are just being chivalrous to expect something in return, thats very fake and silly dude. Honestly chivalry should be a thing of the past. Favoring a person just because she is a woman is silly, especially when it comes to unimportant things like opening a door... unless she has a disability that doesnt allow her to do it, she can do it herself Lol Dont be a simp
@wheezybackports6444
2 жыл бұрын
@@Happythoughts9 The point was there was no simple "thank you" or even acknowledgement like the woman just expected that behavior from him. When someone does something nice for you you're supposed to say "thank you". It's basic manners and I think you're apart of the crowd who forgot that. This shouldn't even need explanation.
@PioEcatl1999
2 жыл бұрын
@@Happythoughts9 its the small things in the world that has to be more appreciated than the big stuff
@thenewjord50
2 жыл бұрын
it's like it's getting illegal to know women these days
@Happythoughts9
2 жыл бұрын
@@wheezybackports6444 Wheezy, you must understand that saying thank you is something that depends on people, it is not an obligation and it is not something you are supposed to do. It doesn't matter if people don't thank you, being nice is not about how others see you, kneel before you or thank you, it's about being true to yourself, being happy and making others happy. She's not supposed to say thank you, and it's her decision whether she wants to or not, just like it was this guy's decision to open the door for her, which seems he did for his own benefit and to get some kind of flattery. Also, if you guys really cared about being nice to others, you would open doors for men too, but no, most of you are just simping for women and getting angry that women don't care about your weird door-opening skills. Get real
@blackronin5578
2 жыл бұрын
Facts it’s hell being a man especially a young man in this n age n honestly being a young man sucks the most because your grinding harder than anyone else to make it in life because unfortunately a man’s life doesn’t get better until he has God n found his purpose 💯💯💯
@geneanthony3421
2 жыл бұрын
I feel bad for young guys today, they have so much anti-male BS pumped into their head from being a kid and a lot of them don't have positive role models anymore. I'm not surprised someone like Andrew Tate became big with them, guys like him are needed.
@JustinSmith-ol4fu
2 жыл бұрын
That last line ain’t even gonna be understood!!! “I envy your will to be a better man, in a world where better men don’t even stand a chance on this earth” - Big K.R.I.T
@mateaukalua4426
2 жыл бұрын
@@JustinSmith-ol4fu Big Krit another Virgo spitting that hot 🔥
As a man who admittedly is emotional to an unreasonable degree, and suffers from PTSD, major depression and anger issues, I have to tell you just how much I appreciate you for this video. I've lived a life of social isolation and reclusiviness for practically all of my thirty years. The normalization of apathy towards men's mental health is truly disheartening. If society stands any chance, people need to recognize that respect, understanding and love are essential for anyone to live a fruitful and meaningful life. From the bottom of my heart I truly admire you for speaking up and wish you all the best with everything you may be pursuing and any future endeavors.
@skullcrusher_1
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize how much I actually needed to hear this.
@WeeboftheKnight
2 жыл бұрын
I am a black man living in America. With that being said… I understand her side as well, to truly believe something all your life to find out what you believed in has been wrong this whole time? That’s devastating to one’s soul, but when it comes to change you’re either the problem or the solution.
@WeeboftheKnight
2 жыл бұрын
I understand how her going through that, to understand what it’s like to be a man, (not her unaliving herself) can seem silly. but it’s not easy for others to acknowledge that other people have different perspectives when all you’ve known is yours your whole life
@supermanm8278
2 жыл бұрын
It isn't easy I have 5 daughters none pregnant 2 college graduates and 2 in college babygirl is a freshman I don't think we as men get enough recognition for things I feel very accomplished in helping my children walk the right path but this wasn't an easy task putting myself aside became second nature as men were feel we are supposed to and all we ask for in return is some appreciation so thank you for doing so
@RazorsEdgeEOD
2 жыл бұрын
We often don’t get recognized because it’s expected of us, and if we don’t do this or that, we’re either weak, or dickheads. Either way, it’s a lose-lose.
@supermanm8278
2 жыл бұрын
@@RazorsEdgeEOD I agree but the expectation should come with some appreciation
@RazorsEdgeEOD
2 жыл бұрын
@@supermanm8278 I know, and it’s frustrating that expectation doesn’t equal even an iota of appreciation
@OrpheusO-je9sd
2 жыл бұрын
Head high, king
@supermanm8278
2 жыл бұрын
@@OrpheusO-je9sd Thank u brotha from one king to another it's what we do right
@tayjones7506
2 жыл бұрын
As a man you're a breath of fresh air keep it up 🙏💎
@CJI037
2 жыл бұрын
Being a man is tough but it’s tougher when you have a disability that makes finding romantic relationships and employment difficult. I worry if I will die alone and that gets to me. I get that women want to be in a good situation with a man (and vice versa), but that puts even more pressure on me and society, coupled with poor genetics, are my biggest barriers. I’ve tried to be open about my feelings to women and they didn’t care so I’ve put a wall up and keep my feelings inside because no one likes, or wants to hear, a sad guy, right? Life’s hard for us guys as it is but it’s on another level when you’re disabled. Love the videos and the uplifting and helpful messages to us fellas. Thank you!
@punchogunter2362
2 жыл бұрын
I opened a door 🚪 for a woman and got curse out!! And being told blk men ain't 💩 and I'm a blk man that don't cheat will cook and clean and go to work and it's still not enough 🤔😔💪🏾💯🪨
@JohnSmith-zq1qx
2 жыл бұрын
Satan's world Satan's people....get it yet??
@ZipMapp
2 жыл бұрын
Follow Tupac, stop simpin
@punchogunter2362
2 жыл бұрын
@@ZipMapp ain't nobody simpin ill hold the door open 4 anybody even they grandma it's called being a gentleman it's called RESPECT
@ZipMapp
2 жыл бұрын
@@punchogunter2362 "It's called being a gentleman" how old are you? 12? No women respects you for that, quite the opposite actually. You'll give off the "You're. Ore important than me" vibe
@punchogunter2362
2 жыл бұрын
@ZipMap 1st of all if your grandmother is old and trying to open a door 🚪 I'm going to open the door for her! We all have to get old one day🤷🏽♂️ most old people barely have strength 💪 to open a can of soda🤔 2nd im not 12yrs old😔as far as this conversation you still didn't pay attention to my comments😔 as far as your response well your right only girls Don't like or respect a respectable guy! Only grow ass women that got they 💩 together do! About what vibe I give off is all positive vibes and motivating vibes💯🪨💪🏾 and spell check MORE instead of ORE which is a mineral🤷🏽♂️ and the only one more important than me is GOD🤷🏽♂️ As far as this conversation 😔🤔🤷🏽♂️
@NeilTruick
2 жыл бұрын
I have to give Norah credit for going the extra mile and doing what she did, because she really didn't have to. The book was published 16 years ago, and it took her dying for me to hear about it. That tells me all I need to know about our society, its agenda, and the lack of support men--including myself--can expect to receive (especially from women).
@Seetiyan
2 жыл бұрын
I read it just a few months ago. More women should experience what she did.
@HenryDube72
2 жыл бұрын
There's even a documentary of her going through that. It became an existential issue for her.
@carlwessels2671
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sad that she gave up and ended herself.
@crisalcantara7671
2 жыл бұрын
@@Seetiyan all woman but the fact is that won't change their behaviour
@darealreggie6226
2 жыл бұрын
Bottling up my emotions is something I still do. I fear looking weak because a man is not supposed cry or be sad….man sometimes I just want to let it all out but I can’t afford to
@danieldeclue1466
2 жыл бұрын
It's hard being a guy when everyone expects you to be the guy in the situation. We may not have the capacity to display what we are feeling but we still feel it. So often we forget that it's okay to have an emotional stake in the situation. It's hard for us because we are consistently put into situations where to show our emotion is the same thing as losing control. We can't be weak because we are made to feel weak our entire lives. Do we feel any certain way about it? Sure, but you won't be able to tell just by looking. Remember, we were taught to not show it. Someone has to show us they are listening as well
@casmartin790
2 жыл бұрын
The story is deep, very deep, and part of the reason I think she did that was because of guilt; she knows that she's left the same scars on many men before her experiment and I don't think she was able to take the torment of being the giver and now received of such horrible experience, women can be nasty sometimes and my mum warned me about them from young (still had my fair share of it all the same)
@livingcartoon23
2 жыл бұрын
She was a lesbian
@casmartin790
2 жыл бұрын
@@livingcartoon23 does that mean she can't do or say things to hurt the feelings of men?
@livingcartoon23
2 жыл бұрын
It’s possible, but there is no proof of that. Also after this experiment she did the same thing as a mental patient and that messed her up too. She definitely Carried the weight of her decisions
@DJRenee
2 жыл бұрын
That's why you pray before embarking on these type of things.
@SharpBalisong
2 жыл бұрын
The person who did the experiment is a lezzy.
@jordyt1109
2 жыл бұрын
Wow....this....was....amazing. this needs to go viral. As men, we need to also take it upon ourselves to change the culture so that we can stop putting these toxic expectations onto ourselves and one another too. Yes, women are also responsible for putting some of these crazy standards on us...but it ultimately comes back to US too. We have to start raising our boys differently. We must start supporting each other as men, rather than trying to live as selfish lone wolves. Obviously it's not getting us anywhere as a collective. When we set the example and work in solidarity, the women will naturally follow over time.
@FreshForReal
2 жыл бұрын
This woman's knowledge transcends value. Lessons beyond worth!
@TheMitchZone
2 жыл бұрын
*WARNING:* _Super long comment. Continue at your own risk._ 11 minutes & 39 seconds of pure GOLD! 😍 This video was recommended to me out of the blue, and I'm SO glad that it was! This was like beautiful music to my ears. Much better than any ASMR video. I could listen to this amazing FACTUAL rant all day. Lol YOU'RE a real one! I consider YOU to be a queen, most definitely NOT the army of entitled ahh women out there, who're all over social medias saying how their men waits on them hand & foot; doing everything for them and being their servants; and how the women say they don't settle for anything less... They see themselves as queens who needs to be worshipped because they're above all men. The fact that this SEXISM is seen as OKAY, (unless it happens with the roles reversed) tells me there's a whole culture out there of women attacking & mistreating men, and anyone who defends men. It's so bad, that people are being publicly humiliated and called "incels" everytime someone speaks up for a man, or exposes many of these toxic sexist women. It's gotten so bad for us, that you can't even speak up FOR us without being attacked and dragged all over social medias... Like, I'm sure the more attention this video gets (and I 110% hope it does), the more pro-woke 3rd wave feminists are likely going to drag your name through the mud. Those type of people are HUGE advocates of all the woke garbage media being produced by Disney recently. I'm going to take a wild guess, and assume that you're not a fan of the trashy woke films and shows we've been getting lately, that's been pushing their political agendas and whatnot. As a matter of fact, one of them are related to the exact same type of issues that you were just discussing, and it's called *She-Hulk,* or as I famously like to call it: *"SJW-Hulk."* That entire shit show has been dedicated to putting down men as much as it possibly can, while propping up women just because they're women. The protagonist (Jen) has literally went on tangents IN THE SHOW about how she's a woman, and how she's better at everything, oppressed by everyone, and *"INFINITELY"* better than Bruce at controlling her anger, because of the fact that she's a woman who's been *CAT-CALLED...* Yes, it's THAT bad. She doesn't hold a candle compared to what Bruce has been through the past 14+ years, but since it's a woke show for radical feminists, they have to make her better than Bruce at everything. Jen herself even thinks she is (or wants to be) better than Bruce. Her actual quote (to Bruce) from the first episode was: *"So I'm better than you?"* She never fails to join her equally sexist anti-men girlfriends, and dumps on/laughs at men together. She *unapologetically* disrespects Bruce and men as a whole in the show, and the actress even doubles down on her character role IRL... The point I'm getting at is that everyone who has publicly given negative comments or reviews on the show, has been insulted and called either a sexist, an incel, or both... Even though more and more WOMEN are coming out voicing their opinions about how SHIT the show is as well. Hmmm... 🤔 I could rant right along with you for HOURS, giving more examples of how f**ked up everything has gotten, but I've already typed for long enough...haha _(Edit: And not done yet apparently lol)_ So many leftists/feminists say that women are the most attacked, the most oppressed, the least supported, and always bring up how they're always afraid to leave the house alone, and being attacked by a man.....(which is another thing they mention in the SJW-Hulk show btw) When in actuality, women (at least here in America) are the most PROTECTED ones of all! Not only would people *physically* protect any woman they see being harassed in public at moment's notice, but literally just f*cking CRITICIZING a show that stars a woman, will get your name dragged all through twitter and social medias! That's the other injustice that I wanted to mention btw. I've seen those "social experiment" videos on YT, that tested the public's reaction to a MAN being attacked/drugged/s*xually harassed vs a WOMAN being attacked/drugged/s*xually harassed, and the results are exactly as you expected... Most people protected the female "victim", and most people IGNORED the male "victim"... When asked why they didn't help the MAN in need, their responses were: *"It wasn't my business" & "I didn't want to get involved"* When a man is attacked (or yelled at) by a woman in those experiments, people's responses were *"YES! YOU GO GIRL!"* --saying that the man deserved it. With the other way around however, people fought off the man who was attacking/yelling at the woman..... Another thing that I know would most definitely piss you tf off, is a more recent video I've seen of a guy showing the sexist double-standards in today's society. A guy went around asking groups of women (the same groups that shouts *"NO MEANS NO"* the loudest) a simple question. His question was, *"Can a MAN say no?"* Guess what all of their responses were? Go ahead, guess. I'll wait... ⏳. . . . .⌛ Okay, time's up. The women ALL answered "NO", and many of their responses were: *"If I want sex, I'm having it." & "Well, he CAN say no, but I'll just take it anyway"* . . . . . I don't think I need to even say the repercussions of a MAN saying something like that. . . SMFH Women want to say how more oppressed they are, meanwhile *many men doesn't even have the RIGHT TO CONSENT. . .* That's straight up gR*PE talk right there, and a man would've INSTANTLY been ousted as a gR*pist... THIS is how f**king twisted the world is. Anywho, I want to deeply thank you for your beautiful message. It has really made my day, and showed me that perhaps there IS hope for us after all! There's so many misandrists out there who wants to get rid of men altogether, but I feel very reassured to know that there are REAL queens out there like you, who have our backs! Thank you so much! Much love! You look amazing btw! 🤗💖🔥 *hugs*
@Krusher_Knave
2 жыл бұрын
Right. I question myself heavily whenever I think about talking to my wife about what I think because I know it's going to be used against me at some point when we have disagreements. And I walk through life knowing I'm all I got up top 🎩 that's something I had to learn the hard way after spending 7 years in the same room surrounded by hell fighting myself every second not to unalive because my relatives tore me down so heavily that I turned against myself & went after my own throat every second because of the anxiety of breathing.
@prostyle1626
2 жыл бұрын
54 male. I base my self worth on my education, and being a productive, responsible member of the community I live in. I'm also a batchelor. The way I've been treated by women, I'd rather live alone. If chivalry is dead, it's because women have killed it.
@fredmeighan1194
2 жыл бұрын
Lost my entire family mom sister brother everything the reality is not there and when you stand they try to knock you down and I had to come from a third world country I know what it is and I want to say I appreciate what you do for me straight up my love for you!
@Eastside___89
2 жыл бұрын
God Blessing You
@Thebatcavepetfriendlybakery
2 жыл бұрын
Life is hard universally. A good life is really person to person, not gender or race. And that sucks, because theres so much hatred in the world. Can we please just start being kind? Its so easy to say please and thank you. The entitlement and sexism and s*** is disgusting and yes, it goes both ways. You said this beautifully. Edit: i wanted to add im a very affectionate person and have very few friends but half are male. I give hugs and fist bumps and say i love you, and seeing them light up bc i gave them a hug is heartbreaking. Men do deserve better, we all do. Show some love
@felipebracero7356
2 жыл бұрын
I honestly appreciate your authenticity speaking about your abandonment issues and the domino effect it has on relationships. As a man, it took me over 10 years to open about how I lost my mother and my hardships with my wife, never had a father lost my mom around 15sh, in a traumatic and sad way. But this woman was there with me through it all and worked with me instead of going the other way. We need more woman like her and your feedback in our lives as men. They don’t kno that the world wants us to be men at a very young age even when we don’t have one in our homes to guide us and show us what it means to provide and protect. Appreciate it.
@smokescreen7219
2 жыл бұрын
It makes my heart feel good to know that a woman actually acknowledges what we go through as men thank you 👍👍👍👍
@ren_lightfoot
2 жыл бұрын
You just saved my life. I've been dealing with a lot these past few days. Thank you.
@bretr7327
Жыл бұрын
You have such a beautiful soul, God bless you, please stay strong and keep up the amazing work.
@Ladysueiroh48
2 жыл бұрын
Man! Thank you for this right here. I keep trying to think about what I can do to be better for my brothers and how I can help uplift men and your KZitem opened my eyes to a lot dude. I thank you for your candor and bravery!
@bleblee
2 жыл бұрын
Tell your Brothers To look up MGTOW On you tude
@crisalcantara7671
2 жыл бұрын
This sht ain't helping no man lol
@bleblee
2 жыл бұрын
@@crisalcantara7671 Go get married then And see what happens to you Good luck ha ha ha
@crisalcantara7671
2 жыл бұрын
@@bleblee i refuse , I'll marry only if the the divorce court gives me half her sht and her house 😂😎
@DoubleAIV
2 жыл бұрын
As a man, it's best to just understand that no one cares about you. Yes this fact can be depressing but it can also be freeing. There's no chance I'd opt out of life, instead use this freedom to say fuck everyone and extract everything you can from this world and the people on it without remorse.
@8Maduce50
2 жыл бұрын
@NEP84 he's right. If he doesn't meet those obligations no one cares.
@dukewilliam3660
2 жыл бұрын
@NEP84 being self interested. Most females are sociopaths so the best thing to do is to be self interested.
@michaelangst6078
2 жыл бұрын
As a bottom 95% male in sexual attractiveness you mean....
@Balbroa
2 жыл бұрын
💯
@jaymiles5206
2 жыл бұрын
Disagree with this one
@princevegeta8752
2 жыл бұрын
I recently went to visit a college, and when walking around I saw two girls walking in my direction. I said “hi, how are y’all doing today” with a smile on my face. They stopped their conservation just to look at me, then kept walking.
@GabrielofAdonai
2 жыл бұрын
Yea these days most people lack common courtesy
@jesuscastro9941
2 жыл бұрын
Bro I had a girl keep starting at me weird one time on the first day of school and when I finally looked at her she said I’m a creep in the hallway full of people but I ain’t a punk I’ll slap a bitch cause I also don’t like creeps so don’t do that
@comet6740
2 жыл бұрын
Did you know them? Because if it was your first time speaking to them, of course they found it weird because it was forced and you didn't ask a follow up question such as directions or anything. Even if you were 10/10 in looks, they probably still would have walked.
@GabrielofAdonai
2 жыл бұрын
@@comet6740 Back in the day people simply greeted each other. It was part of the culture for decades until recently.
@comet6740
2 жыл бұрын
@@GabrielofAdonai You just have to adapt to certain cultures. Have you seen that video where a guy goes to a London Tube and says hello to everyone and 90% of them ignore him.
@Admiral_Jezza
2 жыл бұрын
"If you don't take advice from them, don't take criticism from them." Great words right there.
@spiritualtaurus7942
2 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry u felt that way girl. I love your work. It's true, is hard to be a man. I still struggle being myself at 37. Alot of girls are shallow and mean. Some of us are just nice guys and yeah we hide our true selves cos we don't feel safe around women anymore, nor do we trust time. Glad there is still good women like u in the world.💚💕✌🏻🇬🇧
@4drep
2 жыл бұрын
Straight up . Sad to say till this day I look at my Glock and think “ is life worth living “ man it’s a day by day thing praying for you guys we gon get through this shit don’t back down fight back against depression
@xsxxc1
2 жыл бұрын
Thats just the Devil in your head bro you can cast him out. Now I just marvel at how badass my glockie is. 😂 Im praying for us.
@fox1actual
2 жыл бұрын
@@xsxxc1 glocks are whack bro. HK, master race. Jk 😂
@leafyishereisdumbnameakath4259
2 жыл бұрын
Poydras st. Man if you ever need to talk, just go to my channel links, there's my socials.
@CRAgamer
2 жыл бұрын
Wish I had a glock, would of finished it by now with it if the option was available.
@applepretz5368
2 жыл бұрын
17m Dude I feel like a fucking robot/slave when I'm around anyone that in my "biological family" being a male is hard. I just want to be appreciated. But I don't know anymore. Suicide seems like a good idea...
@Nicholenickinicscott
2 жыл бұрын
this is why I want to love a man I'm with to the fullest and also been looking at men as valuable beings in this world for a long time, I dealt with a guy that was in an abusive relationship and that shit is what changed me for the better
@ghostboidream4067
2 жыл бұрын
I want the same And to be honest thats how it's supposed to be
@Nicholenickinicscott
2 жыл бұрын
@@ghostboidream4067 true shit man, but it's hard cause of the hook up culture and women that don't care about men out there's which makes it worse
@ghostboidream4067
2 жыл бұрын
@@Nicholenickinicscott That's why you Give it to God you need to find your man at church that's where I will go to find my future wife If you give it to God you will receive what you want and some more I'm still a virgin I almost broke twice but I'm still clean and I'm working on cleansing my mind even staying away from pornography so lust cannot affect my ability to pair bond with my future spouse and so I could also honor her God myself and my future family look for a man like that and you will find him
@djangomarine6658
2 жыл бұрын
@@ghostboidream4067 If that's how you truly feel, then you need to work with your church to find your wife. Remember, faith without works is dead. Take action.
@ghostboidream4067
2 жыл бұрын
@@djangomarine6658 For Sure I'm not looking for one right now because I'm about to get shipped off for the army but once I get everything situated with my career so on so Forth I'll find my wife or she will find me either way I gave my life to God not just for a wife I gave it to him because I needed Guidance and Peace and a sense of direction and I know the lord will never let me down
@veronwright1291
Жыл бұрын
Man this really touched my soul and energized my sense of empathy a little. I really appreciate it
@Kyronetta
2 жыл бұрын
Girl you’re excellent. I get a lot of your recommendations and I love your content and must sub. When it comes to this situation I agree completely. I have a ex of mine, we are still friends and he’s told me how he’s felt. Before me he had 1 gf but that treated him like shit. It was his first love. Not only that, he’s been abused by women at a young age and nearly all his life. He’s terrified of women due to it. Men don’t have it better, they got it worse tbf. A lot of women don’t admit but I can say as a woman I have it much easier. I won’t say I despise women but I sometimes have a feeling of disgust and am ashamed because of women like today.
@crisalcantara7671
2 жыл бұрын
So in short , women ain't sht , got it
@superfalcon022
2 жыл бұрын
Damn this made my eyes water up, I'm glad to know people like you are actually out there. Thank you so much for this
@vloneguru_4791
2 жыл бұрын
It’s so difficult sometimes. Sometimes I just want to love & be accepted but it was like everybody pushed me away. My mom threw my out then my sister, and my dad sometimes it feels like I’m walking around & nobody even sees me. I always get dragged by people they talk about my financial situations & my work ethic I didn’t even have a chance to learn before they expected the world from me. (Just needed somewhere to get my feelings out)
@mattatkins4804
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you. I am a loving husband and father and I try my hardest to do right by my family and friends. However, I'm repeatedly told it is my responsibility to be strong for my people. I recently broke and needed help myself...help which was nowhere to be found, other fhan being belittled and made to feel sh** because I was 'failing to support' my family. I am still fixing myself, but have found other people for support. This video really hit home. Much love and keep doing what you do. 💯
@Just_B0red
2 жыл бұрын
It is hard being pillar that holds everything together but never gets assistance when it becomes overbearing hope you are doing good ❤️
@melissabrown5104
2 жыл бұрын
Yup. I do the same girl. I always smile big and say thank you anytime a man opens the door for me or talk back and am nice when they talk /are nice to me. Always have. I just thought that was human decency but I'm learning that doesn't happen as often as I thought it did and it's truly sad and crazy that it doesn't. We need men and we want men so why treat them bad? Smh it's wrong and not right and It bothers me too. I love your vids and even the ones guys do too about this bc it is a very big problem in society.
@DoomShrm
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I usually find when I open a door for a younger lady I'm ignored or sometimes even given a mean glance. While with other ladies they compliment me on being respectful and ill def take the latter than the former
@Cashcorn
2 жыл бұрын
I hate gender roles. My mother always tells me to “Hold the door for women.” and when I respond with “I hold the door for everyone” she gets furious with me. Maybe it’s just since where I live is very conservative, but little things like that do get to me. I believe in actual feminism (equality), but it’s seems everyone else believes in double standards.
@DoomShrm
2 жыл бұрын
@@Cashcorn she thinks you shouldn't hold the door for men or does she think ur disrespecting women for saying u hold for everyone?
@Cashcorn
2 жыл бұрын
@@DoomShrm a bit of both. I think little things like that are part of the reason I struggle to make female friends. I was raised to view them as some sort of higher being.
@DoomShrm
2 жыл бұрын
@@Cashcorn same. Specifically I was raised to feel like I owe them respect, provision and protection while at the same time being told just by being born a man that I was naturally a threat to them. And that they didn't even need me
@charlesfuller21
2 жыл бұрын
I felt this video frfr, I literally go through everything on my own and it's hard af.. My lil cousin just got murdered and she was the only one who I spoke to and not having her here anymore is killing me inside.
@jermvelez3444
2 жыл бұрын
Feel better King time will soon heal you and bring you love somehow 🥺
@charlesfuller21
2 жыл бұрын
@@jermvelez3444 Love bro, I'm trying but this is really hard on me my own family doesn't understand.. I used to hang up on my gf to speak to her she meant so much to me
@GEMINI_THE_BES89
2 жыл бұрын
my condolences to you and your family be strong
@charlesfuller21
2 жыл бұрын
@@GEMINI_THE_BES89 love bro 💯
@trw4war322
2 жыл бұрын
My Condolences. Stay as Strong as You Can.🙏🏽
@icecold8974
2 жыл бұрын
After losing my son to his mother taking his life, I feel completely dead inside. I barely feel emotions anymore and all ppl say is man up be strong, real men do this and that. Seriously fck ppl! Thank you Tae for all that you do for us. The world would be a much better place what women like you.
@llag549
2 жыл бұрын
You gotta be a warrior , I've been lonely for 4 years and im just finding myself doing things i enjoy and actually, it feels better i don't seek women anymore, to much rejection and the toxicity of today it's just not worth it
@idropNukes999
2 жыл бұрын
We must protect this queen at all costs she's really a one a kind who gets us and genuinely cares
@edwardflounoy7207
2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@porch.honky.420
2 жыл бұрын
Why do you weak men need a woman to protect and speak for you? Toughen up and be a man, man.
@crisalcantara7671
2 жыл бұрын
How , she's just jumping on the red pill bandwagon and repeating the same sht that men have been saying all this time lol
@idropNukes999
2 жыл бұрын
@@crisalcantara7671 you haven't watched any of her other videos she be spitting more then most men even, and she has a clear passion of being there and understanding lmao
@crisalcantara7671
2 жыл бұрын
@@idropNukes999 spoken like a true simp
@richcraccbaby4509
2 жыл бұрын
Not in a million years would I ever thought we would of got a woman like you.. You are truly a blessing and I really appreciate you.. You are very special and truly a rare breed, I can assure that you have a lot of great blessings Coming...You are Chosen for a very very huge purpose...You are a revolutionary. You are opening up society to a unique perspective that has yet to be addressed..I pray that you will obtain everything you have ever desired and that you find what you are searching for. Shall no weapon prosper against you, you are very strong and if I had to tell you the truth, rather you agree with me or not, the world does not deserve you.if you see this message I just want to tell you thank you for being you. 😈👿😏 -Craccbaby C's80'$
@AyoooKai
2 жыл бұрын
Good Shii for giving her respects and props yo✊🏾💯
@kevb5916
2 жыл бұрын
I almost unalived myself 2 years ago. Woman I loved with every part of my heart ended up playing me foul with a guy she worked with while I was dealing with family losses. I’m finally at a place where I don’t break down every couple hours but I literally have no one now and I’ve gotten pretty comfortable with it. I just keep my head down and move through the days as best I can
@tirhaquahmosley7370
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s no fun dealing with betrayal like that. It’s great that you are here on this side of life. I know what its like dealing with hardship alone but what really helped me was a good workout routine and better eating habits. They really help with your mental health also it’s no good being isolated I learned that the hard way make sure you give yourself time to be socially available to people you never know who you will meet.
@padrescott2047
2 жыл бұрын
Tbh.. I spoke on me having suicidal tendencies and plenty of girls I thought I was cool with told me to stop acting like a victim or called me a coward. I was ready to go away until my friend who passed her sister tried to k*ll herself so I left my problems alone to stay strong for her. I do get tired of being strong. I do get tired of coming to my house feeling drained. Even though people see me and think that I'm strong it doesn't mean I don't get tired as well. When I was a child my dream was to turn a house into a home by having my own family. Now I know that's likely not going to happen anymore. We all have our reason for living and a reason for not wanting to be here. Just know some of us are more exhausted than others.
@nevaeh1946
2 жыл бұрын
Women really call men perverts, weirdos, and creeps JUST FOR SAYING HI??!! IS THAT A THING??!!
@jermvelez3444
2 жыл бұрын
Yes it’s pretty common actually you’d be surprised
@theuchihakidd
2 жыл бұрын
Uh huh you be surprised
@ericmoorejr8033
2 жыл бұрын
Idk I feel like women who act like that just wanna be literally called or treated like hoes and bitches and if saying hi and being a gentleman towards makes you weird creepy and perverted 😂😂😂😂 logic, integrity, and genuine respect is dead I can see how worse it's gonna get when everyone from the 80s and 2000s get really old and grey while the next generation gets worse than it is now
@nevaeh1946
2 жыл бұрын
Those are the same women who be asking themselves “why am I still single???”😩😫
@obetron70
2 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately it happens, so much more common than men will admit.
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