As a flight attendant, I can say that being single is amazing. Being able to be out and about as I please, gone for as long as I want to, peacefully sleeping on these hotel beds, going on girl trips over and over again... Doing all of these and so much more without having someone nagging about "you're always away" or "I cheated because I felt lonely", that's another level of amazingness. I'm so at peace!! Don't get me wrong, going on a baecation is nice and all but going on a trip with my besties and having inside jokes for centuries is WAYYYY BETTER!!!! 😂😂😂
@Crochetbygiii
Ай бұрын
Love that for youuuu❤
@patriciasamanthaifill1715
Ай бұрын
Amen girl. Blessings love ❤
@2stayweird
Ай бұрын
I dated a string of men who all had to sleep with the TV on. Despite me telling them it disrupts MY sleep, and sometimes I'd wake up in the middle of the night and cry bc I couldn't go back to sleep. Now I sleep in blissful, sweet silence with a fan blowing on me and my cat purring by my ear.
@katiepop3442
Ай бұрын
Why not just have seperate rooms❤❤❤
@PassportBrosAndBlondeManWeaves
Ай бұрын
@@katiepop3442you don’t get it….
@TASconfidential
Ай бұрын
Many women haven’t had a good night’s sleep in decades, simply because of their partner.
@tajakjejtam
Ай бұрын
You can set up a timer in a tv, to switch off and in case youre noise sensitive you can use ear plugs or the partner can use headphones. Of course they should listen to your request and take your needs into consideration and ie. watch tv in a different room, ideally with head set (green flag!), but I am not very sure if this is a huge deal breaker. If they did ignore other requests - then yes. If it was only that... Hmm. For instance my and my ex had a PC in a bedroom, in our very small apartment. Sometimes he wanted to watch something or play at night which was disturbing my sleep. So I asked him to wear a headset or use laptop instead and go to the other room. Sometimes he also played with the phone in bed and the screen light was to bright for me. So he did dim it out and I also asked him to roll over so his head would cover the screen, so that minimal amount of light would hit my eyes. I also did roll over, and we lied back to back. And it was okay. We did split but not because of him watching movies in the evening. Sometimes of course I wanted him yo go sleep with me and cuddle, which he also did.
@natashadickson4819
Ай бұрын
Knowing what you know now, you don't have to sleep with a guy before you have enough information. You can just ASK a man if there's a TV or a computer monitor or other device in his bedroom. Ask other questions about his sleep habits. Housekeeping habits. If you are looking to get married (I don't know your goals), avoid dating men who have no intention of ever getting married. And just because a man says he will get married some day, it doesn't mean he plans to marry the woman he's currently dating.
@peachesandpoets
Ай бұрын
Relationships are a distraction from my life goals
@Jac527
Ай бұрын
💯
@fruitsarelife7073
Ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@GoWithDaFlowMo
Ай бұрын
This..... 😊
@gailainsley6939
Ай бұрын
Same and I don't get as much opportunities either. Its like I get bad luck or something 😅
@davinciscurse
Ай бұрын
Yeah, i only want to self optimize, to invest time in my family and my only friend, and find friends who are doing better than me so i can learn something from them… but romantical relationships… are yall serious… cringe. Sorry..
@chiobabe2180
Ай бұрын
I can eat a large meal & pig out in peace without someone watching me eat unapologetically 😭 and after pigging out I can go straight to sleep without some man begging me for sex on a full stomach 😌
@ImaniForester
Ай бұрын
🤣 Great points!
@unapologeticallyauthentic2428
Ай бұрын
Yes that part. Please leave me alone I don’t want to have S*x after I eat or before or any time 😂
@CC-kr3mr
17 күн бұрын
If you don’t want to have sex with him, just overfeed him. Bring him a plate of seconds and he will be too full to want sex.
@muringosubliminals
17 күн бұрын
Not to mention farting in peace as much as you want 😌
@annabaum7977
5 күн бұрын
Sex on a full stomach is the worst😂
@sherrita8582
Ай бұрын
I'm an only child,so being alone is 2nd nature😂 being single
@busichanel4934
Ай бұрын
Same.
@candylove49
Ай бұрын
I’m not an only child but, grew up in a volatile household. I always WISHED to be an only child so badly. I’m happy to be single ❤
@Jac527
Ай бұрын
@@candylove49same, my siblings feel like strangers to me. I love being alone and always did. When I went to University I remain here for 4 years. I never went home for holidays because I was already feeling at home.😊
@shopece8807
Ай бұрын
I'm the middle....almost same difference to me lol.
@ClaireGreen-wd2gm
Ай бұрын
My great grandmother, grandmother, and mother were all single for 30 to 50 years before they passed on. I'm going to continue the tradition. Also an only child
@magicmantis
Ай бұрын
It's the peace for me. No arguing, no cheating, no shenanigans. 😌
@mashiralee1
Ай бұрын
I’ve been single for 6 years now and I’m 42. I was married 13 years. I am free to live the life I want to live ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@mashiralee1
Ай бұрын
I’m 43 now 😂I forgot lol I don’t even have anyone reminding me that I’m getting older 😅
@gekeithakeaton989
Ай бұрын
@@mashiralee1I’m 53 and have been single for 14 years.. so much peace…
@BiancaO.-qc9bd
Ай бұрын
I’ve never met a man I’ve wanted a committed relationship with 😂 ever. That’s says a lot because I meet a lot of men, and have children. Relationships are overrated, women do all the sacrificing. There’s no such thing as two people becoming one.
@MsLovely802
Ай бұрын
Facts. A lot of males always ask for so much for so little😊
@GoWithDaFlowMo
Ай бұрын
I truly believe they need us way more than we will ever need them and they know it, but still they believe they are so entitled to us... Uhmm no sir you're not, we're doing just fine here thank you very much..... 😅
@gazagxrlx2974
Ай бұрын
Exactly! Relationships are so overrated 😮
@gee_emm
Ай бұрын
“Your life belongs to you.” What wise words! 🙏🏾
@natural3362
Ай бұрын
Yesss
@Flowers4YourMind
Ай бұрын
This makes me so happy for the younger Ladies! Women are FINALLY realizing their worth and not romanticizing relationships. I LOVE that for all of Us!
@rwiley8535
Ай бұрын
I chose to be single, and what I discovered, first off. Was loneliness. Something that I was determined to see through, and I did. On the other side of loneliness was relief and contentment. That surprised me. Like looking at a new world. Finding my purpose, etc. Being single has been great.
@kantik2118
Ай бұрын
It is called freedom
@rwiley8535
Ай бұрын
@@kantik2118 Exactly
@bm5_5_5
Ай бұрын
Wow I literally had the same experience! Amazing to be out the other side ❤
@rwiley8535
Ай бұрын
@@bm5_5_5 So agree
@ntombenkosimamani4805
Ай бұрын
My favourite thing is throwing unfrozen meat back to the freezer because I've changed my mind about cooking. 💅
@UberNatasha666
Ай бұрын
YES. I love to cook. But not always. And sometimes I want to make something extra, and other times I wanna make that extra dish..... Another day. 😂
@poohcanplay123
Ай бұрын
Deadass 👏 👏. I felt that.
@etherealE777
Ай бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@gaynellebeckles1329
Ай бұрын
🎉🎉🎉 Girlllll! Let's see how tomorrow goes...
@LazygirlLA892
24 күн бұрын
Omg lol I’ve had girl dinner for the past 4 weeks in a row and I’m LOVING it
@karanhdream
Ай бұрын
Being alone was kind of forced upon me as a child, through parental emotional neglect and bullying. But nowadays, I've learned to appreciate not only being single but being alone. It's no longer lonely. it's peaceful.
@GenuineEncountersCo
Ай бұрын
I’m right there with you on the emo neglect front. I started to see it as a blessing, as I’m now my own best friend ❤(& my dog ofc🤣)
@listentotheanimalscreamsha1511
Ай бұрын
Me too I think I have adhd so I love being alone and not stressed out.
@jadapink22f15
Ай бұрын
Same ❤
@TeriMYaki
Ай бұрын
I’ve been asked to be in 2 exclusive relationships this year and I turned down both. Dating is fine but I’m a sovereign woman. When I asked one of the guys why, he stated that having a partner in life is very important but to me it isn’t. I’m not a woman who feels the NEED to be partnered. I am the happiest I’ve ever been choosing me.
@GoWithDaFlowMo
Ай бұрын
You did the right thing... They were needy which to me is a turnoff and a red flag anyways, but you're not and I'm not either... So that would never have worked, they would have wanted to own you... Been there done that learned from that... I loveee being single and free too, living my best life now and not ready to change that for anyone..... ❤
@BeeGeeTee
Ай бұрын
Same!!
@toscadonna
Ай бұрын
I’ve always been happier being alone except during the “love bombing” phase of relationships. The male always turns on me whenever he believes he “has” me and starts acting out and exposing his narcissism. They demand I give up my music, sports, clothes that I like, etc. to please them, and I’m just not happy when I’m not “allowed” my autonomy. I don’t need to be chopped down either which is what the male specializes in.
@thepragmatist
Ай бұрын
Yeah...the whole "chopping down" part. I just don't get it.
@toscadonna
Ай бұрын
@@thepragmatist I don't either. My ex husband told me 15 days into the marriage, "You need to be brought down a few notches." Can you imagine? That was the gist of the entire 6 years of the marriage, and at the time, I thought to annul the marriage, but it was 1999, and things were different back then. I believed in "love" and that it made us all better people. LOL. IDIOT, I was.
@thepragmatist
Ай бұрын
@@toscadonna I think the more talented you are, the harder (a contingent of men) go at you. It's like shooting a bird out of the sky for some. All the best to you.
@gailainsley6939
Ай бұрын
Yes. I keep it at that dating/courting stage. It's literally the only fun part. They always shocked when they pull back and I don't pursue them or ask them 'why'. Its because I've seen it many times before...that's why 😂😂😂
@thepragmatist
Ай бұрын
@@gailainsley6939 That's a good idea.
@LearnAsYouGo.
Ай бұрын
Whenever I get into relationships I lose myself & become so consumed with the person I’m dating. Then after we breakup I feel lost & mad at myself for losing myself in them. I’m staying single until I learn how to not do that anymore because it’s a toxic cycle that I don’t want to be in anymore. I actually like being single now in my 30’s but I absolutely loathed it in my 20’s. In my years of being single I’ve learned so much about myself, my likes/dislikes, moved to several different jobs, improved my credit score, & I’m still learning & working on myself.
@ImaniForester
Ай бұрын
Aww I love this for you!! 😊
@vanessaharris6341
Ай бұрын
It's amazing to grow and learn yourself!❤
@karlat7880
Ай бұрын
I’m single after being widowed. I’ve been making a priority of taking care of myself. Im good with staying single!
@c.j.m.mariaa
Ай бұрын
Thats a good plan take care of yourself and take time to do the stuff you enjoy and to heal I was single for 6 years after I lost my husband I am married now for a vew months and I kind of miss being alone 😂
@Jac527
Ай бұрын
Dating is exhausting. I hate every second of it. It was draining, dissatisfied and full of disappointment . However being single is just amazing 🤩. I can live like this forever and ever. This is my happily ever after. 4B for life 💃💃💃
@evergreenforestwitch
Ай бұрын
"My kitchen keeps banking hours" 🔥 🔥
@Coastpsych_fi99
Ай бұрын
15:25 I didn't need to date anyone terrible but watching my parents relationship and growing up with a volatile father - all I have ever wanted is peace, quiet and autonomy.
@tshepison8907
Ай бұрын
Being happy alone is so important to establish whilst single. I’m engaged and I still go on solo dates, I mean getting nicely dressed, going out for a meal and having a glass of wine, still go on girls trips abroad and I let my partner know this would not stop once we were together/married. He loves it for me. When you establish these things whilst single, you make it a non negotiable. I wouldn’t have it any other way and I’m so glad I stayed single for 5 years before finding the one. I’m glad I was picky and held on to my personal standards. We are both very happy.
@Torischannel1
9 күн бұрын
That's the thing. Men say " you'll hit the wall, you don't really want to be single" but they don't realize we ACTUALLY are happy and they are SCARED to be alone.
@davinciscurse
Ай бұрын
The only bitter note i got from those videos was : „ Enjoy being single as long as you can!“ i think the first video mentioned that and then someone else. It sounds like someday some women are gonna give up feeling good for… a man who seems great first but then you live with him for years and years and years and you cant be alone anymore? Bruh. I‘m staying single… forever.
@ImaniForester
Ай бұрын
Hahaha I don't blame you. Do what feels good for you mentally, physically and spiritually long-term. No one is worth destroying your peace over. If a man (or anyone) doesn't make your life better, they don't need a place in it. 💜👏🏽
@peachesjeter5480
Ай бұрын
I’m a free spirit an introvert, I literally enjoy my own company single for life 👍🏽❤️
@debrabusby6581
Ай бұрын
This reminds me of the character on bridgerton named Lady Danbury. She had been married to a man that made her stomach turn. She had 4 children with him and she hated the whole situation. When he died she said she would never do that again. She said she didn't even know how to breathe by herself because she had never been without him or on her own.
@tallglasscocoa6105
Ай бұрын
Being in peace is a gift. You can be single and still bring chaos and drama around you.
@SaskiaTheBoss
17 күн бұрын
the constant gangstalking & harassment with fake online messages is honestly just entertainment to me, that i can either completely ignore or defend myself against. i personally will never care about them, it’s the disrespect & lies i do not appreciate!
@lionessnala2000
Ай бұрын
The peace of mind...I cook what I like...I keep my home the way I like...nice and clean....no stress 😊👌
@peachesjeter5480
Ай бұрын
Being alone helps me build my relationship with the most high God, NOT MAN.
@EllyzGoodwill
Ай бұрын
There's no such thing as a perfect marriage or relationship; each one is special. What makes one person happy might not make another person happy. But I've realized that there's always a way to solve problems. Five years ago, my wife and I were almost getting divorced because we had problems in our marriage, but we managed to sort things out. It was a difficult time, but we got through it.
@GodfreyKelz
Ай бұрын
I genuinely want to be happy as well. I'm in a relationship, and even though we're apart, I can't think of life without her; my love for her is solid. I really want her back, and I'm committed to making it work. We've tried different things, like therapy, to mend things.
@EllyzGoodwill
Ай бұрын
Learning to let someone you love go is always a tough journey, but in my case, I had the wisdom of a spiritual mentor who kept my marriage from crumbling. Her name is Suzanne Ann Walters.
@GodfreyKelz
Ай бұрын
I'll quickly search for her online. Thanks. I'm hopeful that adopting this strategy will also bring me the results I desire; I miss her greatly.
@EllyzGoodwill
Ай бұрын
Welcome... You should.
@laurencebureau7677
Ай бұрын
Not everything is fixable, my friend. Violence, betrayal, immaturity, addiction, money... Sometimes you just have to move on.
@pink1237480
Ай бұрын
I just have companionship. That's what I value the most above marriage. I want to be single and be child free.
@chocolate-soulja40
Ай бұрын
As an openly (Single) gay man. I learn so much from these reactions videos & so much from the ladies that share their experiences dealing with men. My favorite song is by a lady name Natasha Bedingfeild called -"Single"- It came out probably around 2006, 2007 ☺️
@AlyssaIrvine
Ай бұрын
Cool 😎 ❤
@GenuineEncountersCo
Ай бұрын
Being single for many years, I’ve found out SO MUCH about myself: wants, needs, desires, hobbies, passions etc being in a relationship can be such a drag 😭 I’m about to book a flight to Italy just because and I won’t have anyone to answer to! Sure. relationships are cool but worrying about someone else’s emotions is draining & being at peace, comfortable, happy and aligned with myself is sooooo much cooler
@A...LA...LA...A
Ай бұрын
I also like having no Television in my bedroom, I hated that he had to have the Television on all night while we slept.
@kathiedorion8731
Ай бұрын
I'm 65; been single for 6 years. I could relate to the young lady who talked about being in a horrid relationship and am so glad it's done. My last relationship did some damage, not going to lie. I have no more heartbreaks left in me at this stage of the game. I also could relate to the lady that talked about Soul Work; healing Childhood Wounds as that is what I have been doing. Hours and Hours on KZitem watching videos; probably $100,000 worth of therapy for free; very grateful for some of the best content creators. My only complaint, if you want to call it that, is that all my friends are in relationships. Some good; some that make me happy I'm Single.
@juice_wink
Ай бұрын
Literally in the same position. I'm so happy to hear others with the same experience. My friends are in serious relationships too but after exiting an emotionally abusive relationship and limiting contact with family I've not desired to get into any relationship. This video has made me realize why I felt some distance (not in a negative way) between my friends and I and I've sold myself short on believing I can have friends who are at the same place in their journey to build relationships with! I've been so deep in therapy, group therapy, KZitem, self help books, childhood trauma healing, and seeking God that I hadn't considered that it's okay to meet others who can relate to me where I'm at. I'd really like to get out there and create new friendships in communities where I can connect back to the world and feel authentic about it.
@Key-Key444
Ай бұрын
I’ve been doing this before it was popular😅
@ImaniForester
Ай бұрын
You're a visionary.👏🏽👏🏽
@meghan3835
Ай бұрын
I started being intentionally single in early 2021 and i have to tell y'all that's the best thing i ever did for myself. It was utterly boring and lonely when I began but if you hang in there you reach a point where you tend to enjoy your company and space a little too much that you don't really need company anymore and you will be very selective about who you let into your life.
@silververnallbells191
Ай бұрын
Lady @ 3:04 has great advice: anything you want from a lover give it to yourself. That way you are not lacking and looking for "Something" from someone else. You can love yourself like only you can.
@feliciajenkins5041
17 күн бұрын
Not being ok with being alone allows people who don't deserve access to you to disturb your life in all aspects. And the baby helping Mom get ready is too cute 🥰🤣.
@gotamekanicole
Ай бұрын
This is so incredible… I literally just shared my thoughts on this topic and similar things that I’m realizing as a single 28 year old on my channel.
@briannyob7799
Ай бұрын
This is good advice for anyone. Male or female. Make sure you are a complete person before attempting a relationship. I cringed when I heard the words, " You complete me," in the movie Jerry Maguire. I'd rather be wanter than needed. Unless it's my cat kneading on my lap.
@GoWithDaFlowMo
Ай бұрын
I am my person and my son is the love of my life... Couldn't be happier and more complete..... ❤️🦋🌞
@DetoxMyLifeWithTNichol
26 күн бұрын
The way my life looks right now, I’m blessed enough to pay my bills, but I’m not living comfortable. But I know that the only way to change my situation is to find better employment and to get a handle on my finances. A partner could help me, financially, but ultimately, if I never was in another relationship in my life, I believe God would make sure I’m doing well enough to handle everything in need to do and provide for me to do the things I desire to do as well.
@tranquility9325
4 күн бұрын
The wrong partner can deplete you if your finances and make your life worse.
@SaskiaTheBoss
17 күн бұрын
i avoided every relationship heartbreak by never getting into one before truly knowing myself, my boundaries, my self worth, and what i envision for my future. i’m still in the learning process & will never rush to be a placeholder or entertain a man’s game! at least when you talk to them, you can easily walk away without being invested because it was absolutely nothing memorable but a lesson on what you probably do not want in a relationship when you finally find your person.
@Crystalwolf256
Ай бұрын
Honestly I’m single because there isn’t anyone near me that I want to date. If he ain’t my dream guy I don’t want it
@Carlyon100
9 күн бұрын
Being lonely and being single is the difference between viewing the world through a dirty lens and changing my lens to recognise the dirt in the world. Everyday I fall more in love with myself
@ImaniForester
9 күн бұрын
Love this 💜
@adhd_dog
Ай бұрын
I literally didnt need men I just wanna be alone with my dog. Can’t wait to be single again.
@ImaniForester
Ай бұрын
It is a peaceful time. Enjoy it. Your doggy is so cute 😍
@SmileyAdventures
Ай бұрын
16:15 She spoke facts! Life becomes brighter after a heart break
@kosmicinclinations3333
8 сағат бұрын
I love this so much for the ones who are getting it early. Im 44 with two children and hella trauma to unpack, but dear God, I finally made it to this space. Its so nice
@goddessinfinity1
Ай бұрын
I have been single no relationship for 2 years and I'm never going back. I don't even crave a man.
@XXLady
Ай бұрын
I love not having to shave legs/pits/bikini area because men freak out over female body hair 😂
@Emiliapocalypse
Ай бұрын
THIS. One of my top favorite benefits of being single that isn’t talked about enough. The amount of work it takes to stay groomed like that takes lots of time, energy and money. I’d rather save than shave, lol!
@andreiadetavora8471
Ай бұрын
I agree!!
@ghostinsakura
18 күн бұрын
I agree with the 8th reel about friendship. When I became single a few years ago, I prioritized myself and started wanting to go out more. I realized though that most of my friends (locally) were either in a relationship, married and had kids. They are great friends, but we are just on completely different paths right now. I can't relate to them completely and they can't to me. I realized I need more single friends who can have more relatable and fulfilling conversations with and who I can actually hang out with and go on trips with. You don't need to dump your friends in relationships or with kids, but I highly recommend you make more singe friends. This goes for people in the opposite as well. It's just a part of life and it is more fulfilling to surround yourself with people you can easily relate to as well.
@TrijesusKnotme
Ай бұрын
After some careful introspection and reflection I realize that I find XYs downright annoying, even in the infatuation stage of a relationship/dating they get on my damn nerves as I find them to be too needy. As an untrammeled woman they ALWAYS get in their feelings and throw mantrums when they can’t get me to behave in whatever way they deem acceptable. I find so little ROI in dealing with them that even sex with them isn’t worth it for any significant length of time for those who know what they are doing 🤷🏾♀️
@BeeGeeTee
Ай бұрын
At almost 40, I honestly never want to be partnered again. Yes I can love a man but my life is mine and I want to do whatever the hell I want to do! I just want to be free.
@SaskiaTheBoss
17 күн бұрын
as much as they play games & toy with women’s emotions, i am very proud of myself for never taking it to the next level thus far with any guy who was only sent to waste my time & pose as a distraction.
@shopece8807
Ай бұрын
It's EXTREMELY EASY. I was great with my besties for 4 yrs straight. But...then a good relationship with a dude kind of just happened and it'll be 1yr in a little under 1 month. It only seems hard to be single for more than a few months if you don't like yourself and/or are not comfortable with yourself and/or don't find much validation in your existence outside of a romantic relationship.
@DivaDivine88
Ай бұрын
"My kitchen keeps BANKERS HOURS, thank you very much.. 😏 💅🏾!" I STANN ✊🏾for the 7 Reasons I Love Being Single lady!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Please what is her Tictoc??
@coffeestraight2953
11 күн бұрын
You don't have to go through a horrible relationship to create a better life. Just observing ladies dating bad men makes you more careful about avoiding the worst men. It's unnecessary to purposely date a vampire to become grateful.
@MyohmyBuddies
Күн бұрын
Very happy being single, I will never marry anyone in this country or continent. So I will enjoy being single untill I start traveling far and wide. It's so easy and now I concentrate mostly on Jesus Christ and myself, personal growth
@audrablue515
5 күн бұрын
I met the love of my life when I was 23 and he was 41 (I'm 58 now). We were only together a short time but he was everything to me. He made me feel seen and beautiful and precious and the s3x was mind blowing. He left and I was devastated and from that heartbreak, every man who came after him didn't measure up and I felt empty and sad. This went on for years. At the time, I failed to learn the lessons he imparted on me but if I had, life would have been much easier than it's been up until now. I realise now it never would have worked between us long term. But with the wisdom of age and hindsight, I feel grateful for the time that we were together. After all the failures with men over the years, I've broken my generational curses and I feel peaceful and happy with how my life is going. I've discovered that I don't need or want another "love of my life" guy. Being single is just wonderful and I'm thankful that even though it took me a long time with many missteps, I'm right where I need to be and life is awesome.
@ImaniForester
5 күн бұрын
🥺💜💜
@kantakouzini
Ай бұрын
i never thought at 25 when i was dating seriously that id crave being alone and "bored" at home, in my garden, going out with friends, reading books at the park. having this alone time was the actual healing and rest i needed.
@shirleydaniels9310
Ай бұрын
i am my own soul mate no man can ever love me more than i love me im my own person no man wanted or needed at this time
@ShekaGolden
Ай бұрын
As a person who has had up to 5 year longs stints being single, there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting affection, connection, and stimulation in the form of a romantic relationship. Of course it is wise to learn to give yourself those things, but humans are social beings and are hard-wired to desire romantic relationships just like most other animals.
@tranquility9325
4 күн бұрын
The males of today of absolutely horrible. I've seen myself and tons of women go through narcissistic men who's only goal is to destroy everyone they meet. The reality of that keeps me grounded.
@etherealE777
Ай бұрын
I just downloaded your book. I’m looking forward to reading it.
@ImaniForester
Ай бұрын
Thank you so much!! I hope you enjoy it 💜
@august31999
Ай бұрын
i really loved this video. thank you for helping women 💚
@tamhead1
22 күн бұрын
It's so amazing to me that this is a revelation to some people. I think as an extreme introvert this is just life lol.
@Europa1749
19 күн бұрын
You are no longer completely free when you're in a relationship. It may be subtle but there is a gilded cage around you.
@tranquility9325
4 күн бұрын
With the right person the cage doesn't exist
@kimkimi6285
18 күн бұрын
I’ve been single 4 yrs now tried dating but I stop. I have girl friends but they in a relationships.. so I’m still learning myself and excited for my life now!! lol .. my children grown
@XXLady
Ай бұрын
12:09 Bumble marketing department at work 😂
@ILOVESOFE
Ай бұрын
Thanks for this pep talk 😂🫶🏽
@abananab4704
27 күн бұрын
I watch a lot of these videos. I'm starting to feel like there's something wrong with me for wanting a partner.
@Davinagoddess
22 күн бұрын
I agree, regardless of all these videos i still desire partnership. love, affection,reciprocation i just feel it’s a matter of finding the one, your soulmate and not settling for someone who only meets your minimum requirements
@SoulButterflyXo
Күн бұрын
Men nowadays are so entitled, they all want to know what YOU bring to the table, and it’s like they want you to be the man in the relationship. It’s just exhausting and I’ve had enough.
@jozilee2098
Ай бұрын
Hilarious and NEEDED
@iiwii3380
21 күн бұрын
16:00 😂 you see everything more clearly like high definition tv. It’s a beautiful life enjoy 😉
@ritaanderson819
Ай бұрын
I love this ❤❤❤❤
@KaylenApril
Ай бұрын
I dont have to bath the whole day lol
@muted5370
15 күн бұрын
At least they got careers and Money in self-care.
@EG-hh6zz
9 күн бұрын
why does attachment always hurt because if someone can make you happy they equally have the power to make you feel terrible and in most of the cases we end up feeling terrible because people change over time and if we don’t adjust our expectations we end up blaming them and cause a vicious cycle of pain agitation and anger in our own heart yes attachment is the root cause of pain and suffering core root of all suffering it is the idea that lack exists our suffering arises from attachment to desires these desires can vary from material objects sensual pleasures or even your relationships
@daniellemitchell3118
7 күн бұрын
I wish we could hear what the HR lady said.
@SaronSphere
Ай бұрын
15:22 said it all
@EG-hh6zz
2 күн бұрын
people can’t find love because their not actually looking for love their looking for something else that they call love but isn’t love is not attractive love is not fun love is not romantic love is hard it’s spiritual development love is changing the bed pan love is staying with someone when their down and out love is sacrifice without the hope of rewards you understand many people today when they say their looking for love mean their looking for someone who’s needs can definitely be put above your own how many people say who are willing to sacrifice their own needs so that this other person can be fulfilled very very few
@Yourrrr
Ай бұрын
Who’s the last woman at 19:15 I love her I need to see her other tik toks!
@018milliondollarbaby
Ай бұрын
She is so refreshing and I want to be her 😂❤
@018milliondollarbaby
Ай бұрын
She is so refreshing and I want to be her 😂❤
@MySunshine234
27 күн бұрын
I love solo dates.
@awaaa4767
25 күн бұрын
I literally don’t know what men bring to the table. I just don’t. They wanna pay 50-50. They are not good support systems. You have to put up with their horniness. I just don’t see in what ways they bring anything
@MyWorld-xw6ic
Ай бұрын
Dude, the music playing loudly while she is also talking is not easy to listen to.
@PapayaPepper202
Ай бұрын
the waitress has it better than the wife does
@Eric-ej3oy
Ай бұрын
I knew I should of came to earth as a dog. They are pretty smart you know. Human beings lives are just to damn complicated and confusing. The war of the sexex or a war on sex. Antinatalist and childfree ppl by choice problem solved. Many who come into existence pay the price for someone else's mistake. This life isn't for everyone and the only ones who can decide that is the living on the contrary life can not continue if men and women continue to hate each other.
@sophiam9886
Ай бұрын
Circular bullsh*t.🙄
@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner
20 күн бұрын
Guys make me feel better lol I just feel like it might not happen. I never married or had kids and I am in my 30’s. Idk. I come from a conservative Palestinian family where sex is for marriage. So yeah, thoughts please…
@tranquility9325
4 күн бұрын
Make sure you have boundaries. Don't let any man try to change you to fit him.
@CyberSecurityFashionDesigner
4 күн бұрын
@@tranquility9325 absolutely NOT! Sex is for marriage point blank PERIOD! Also, the weirdos, I run asap! That’s why I am single. I will not tolerate BS or controlling men!
@SummerOf1987
26 күн бұрын
An absolute ✨bliss ✨
@SuMonCheri
27 күн бұрын
Being single is a trauma response. I bet if any of the woman in the audience would have found a great man, she would pay zero mind to the whole shit. I had my single season. Never again. Stop allowing woman who have taken all the benefits of being in a relationship teach you to be single. We are all in different seasons and just because you are on your single season doesn't give you the right to misguide other woman who are in their marriage season. Be wise ladies be wise. Stop accepting to be part of what you already faced and overcame. Woman don't care to give relationship advice. 9 out of 10 they need an audience to validate their choices. Choose self young beautiful lady❤ Choose what your heart desires ❤
@tranquility9325
4 күн бұрын
Being single is a WISE choice considering how mentally ill most men are.
@cb4017
Ай бұрын
💕💚💕
@Lee1517
Ай бұрын
I read those books on self help and quite frankly that js all garbage. The fact is one you get older you have you two options for your health. 1. The hospital or care home takes care of you. 2. You take care of yourself. 3. Women are not good at taking care of themselves, why do i know this? If i was wrong, why are they going on tiktok and and YT crying about how rubbish their life is as their unable to find a men. Life in delusional is not a life.
@Doesch
27 күн бұрын
Maybe some women are sad about not being able to find a man, however i think the mayority, especially after certain negative experiences, is rather content. Women are actually good at taking care of themselves, and biologically also outlive men. Women who have worked in care homes, usually have stories about in old age, there is no man that ever took care of his elderly wife, however elderly wives did take care of their elderly husband. A woman is generally more inclined to take care of people around her, and they generally tend to live longer. Hence most people that work in care homes are women too. You will appreciate what a woman does once you are old and needy and will see the nurturing nature of a woman. I do know a few men that have taken care of their wife or children when they needed it, so i am not saying men are not able to do this. However it is not as common as the other way around. A lot of men are immature until they 'have to'.
@Lee1517
27 күн бұрын
@Doesch What your talking about is a certain generation of men who have been with a wife and say used to do the household stuff while the men worked. Not the same as the millennials and generation after that. Men have got to realise that women are just not bringing anything worth their time, for various reasons. But it's clear that the same generation of the opposite sex are really stuck as they don't know what a men wants and I'm not talking about 1 or two clips, there's a lot of them and it's not just the US, it's in most of English speaking Western Europe and although including Japan and Australia.
@LexiimaWriter
Ай бұрын
These clips are misleading. A lot of these women do not seem truthful about being single. Ppl can gaslight themselves.
@seedsofsilvertree
Ай бұрын
How is this misleading?
@INGEN_Dahnie-el-aha-ha
Ай бұрын
Lexi: sounds like YOU are gaslighting YOURself lol
@sabrinagonzales4456
Ай бұрын
Dummy research and statistics prove that single and childfree women live longer and are healthier.
@bsandy_00
Ай бұрын
I can assure you they are not gaslighting themselves. I’ve been single for 3 years and I love it. Been focused on myself and I graduate nursing school in a few months. Had opportunities to be in relationships but I just don’t want it. Stop thinking everyone think like you
@LexiimaWriter
Ай бұрын
@@bsandy_00 congratulations on your degree. Once you start making that good nursing money it gets a little lonely. So make sure you find someone to love. It's healthy to be in love. It's ok if the relationship ends but don't refuse all of the options you're going to have as a nurse ❣️
@Pompomeranian7
Ай бұрын
It is BLISS being on your own. No comments on how much I'm eating or my weight or my clothing. No waking me in the middle of the night or early in the morning to pester me for sex. No snoring, twitching and loud throat clearing waking me up. I can cook what i want for my meals and don't have to make a full ass 3 meals a day every day. Way less grocery shopping! My room and house is always clean and tidy now, no stinky socks on my floors, no shitstains on my toilet bowl, no dirty dishes unrinsed in the sink collecting mold, no candy wrappers and crumbs in my bed, no big dumb shoes blocking me from getting through the door. Men live like total fucking slobs and living with each of my boyfriends left me feeling like a damn maid. They'd hog the tv, i never got to play my own games or watch what i wanted to watch despite my complaints it was always "just let me finish this match!" then hours would pass. Every weekend when i wanted to go out and do something he was always too broke, too tired, "no that's dumb i dont wanna!" It was like being a mother to a rude and ultra spoiled teenager. Nope, never again. Being single RULES!
@EG-hh6zz
19 күн бұрын
let it go if you are feeling less-than unloved or insecure about the relationship let it go you can’t change him/ her you can not change the persons mind or behaviors only he or she can if the person walks away be glad yes if the person leaves be glad the person obviously didn’t love you why would you want to be saddled with that for life someone who doesn’t care about you if he or she cheats or walks away let him or her go good riddance being single is better than being sad and coupled being single is way better than being with someone and feeling lonely
@EG-hh6zz
20 күн бұрын
remove money from a relationship and you will discover that over 90 percent of ladies won’t see a reason to be in that relationship if it’s only about money we are hopeless if it’s about people we are hopeful if you are a man without money you better have a ten inch personality to make a relationship work
@darthvadersmom1192
Ай бұрын
@EG-hh6zz
23 күн бұрын
sx is a drug and if we recognize it the better it is for all of us
@tranquility9325
4 күн бұрын
That's why we don't do drugs lol
@EG-hh6zz
24 күн бұрын
who can find a virtuous woman for her price is far above rubies she is a women who can be trusted a good woman is hard to find did you hear that men and worth far more than diamonds her husband trusts her without reserve and never has reason to regret it never spiteful she treats him generously all her life virtuous woman with high moral standards respectful towards her husband a helper a holy woman is wise what she submits to her husband and a strong relationship with god proverbs 31-10-31 proverbs 31:27 there you have it men no more excuses e anessa g
@EG-hh6zz
Ай бұрын
why do american women treat men so poorly why do nice guys get treated so bad by women good women don’t treat anyone badly wake up call those women who treat nice guys poorly are awful human beings you are so much better off without those women in other words it’s not you it’s them stand your ground men and find a better woman who deserves to be by your side you could be looking in the wrong place for a good woman if you do look in the wrong place or pay a high regard on looks alone you can find some bad apples there are some good ones out there who do have looks smarts heart respect and a good character men have to learn how to go futher than skin deep to find a good woman e anessa g
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