He was normal with Jennifer Gardner and he wasn’t happy there either. He doesn’t know what he wants ….
@micherylgaines9930
3 ай бұрын
Exactly, he seems like a petulant child who can't handle conflict or stress. He's a middle aged father!! Time to grow up!! He should have tried to work it out with Jen Garner!!
@vfcponce222
3 ай бұрын
He needs to figure himself out and probably isn’t good in relationships.
@misstembo
3 ай бұрын
They divorced way before JLO, how have we forgotten his substance abuse?
@mrsx7944
3 ай бұрын
@@micherylgaines9930he's a child, she's a 🐝
@marrodriguez6173
3 ай бұрын
He has not been normal for years ,,,,
@skyemaclachlan5182
3 ай бұрын
Ben's happiness has nothing to do with JLo or any of his partners, it's all about him - he needs to do some inner work. Otherwise no woman will ever be enough.
@palmbeachboutique5436
2 ай бұрын
Nailed it!
@irmaatq9226
2 ай бұрын
Sounds just like her, too. Guess they're two of a kind.
@cynthiadavis8554
2 ай бұрын
He is nothing but a dry drunk. . . . a recovering alcoholic without working the 12 steps. Half measures will avail you nothing.
@-KMA-
2 ай бұрын
Inner work is the answer. He keeps hiding it with relationships.
@barbarabannister7518
2 ай бұрын
Ben has been running from God forever. Only Jesus can fill that emptiness. Only Jesus can fill the hole in his heart. 😢😢
@PrhyanMek
3 ай бұрын
Ben was pursuing Garner while she was married. He pursued JLo while she was married to Chris Judd. Ben then pursued her again while she was with ARod. I think Ben likes the thrill of the chase. Knowing that he couldn’t have those women presented a challenge for him. Once he gets the women, he’s bored and back to boozing.
@albaalbino1509
2 ай бұрын
Ben Have Problems , He Needed Help, The Problem ise Not JLO, The Problem is Ganer, I understand that she's The Mother of His Kids, But At The Same Time, Ganer Before She Haved Dinner with Hun and JLO, She Said That He Abuse her and she not Interested him, But Now She wants be The Perfect Woman And Wife, He Don't Love Nobody, He Acting like a little boy, Because he need Help with the Alcohol Problem, And Just Him Have to Decide what he Go do with his Life, Is Not Easy live with an alcohol person, Everybody said he's Was unhappy with JLO, Thats Not True, His Not Happy because he wants Drink alcohol , Alcoholism is a Very Serious Sick Issue, He need Help , He's a Nice Person But With That Alcohol Problem He doesn't go No Where, Please Ben , Accept You You are Sick And Go for Help So Everything goes Change your Life and Be Happy with Maybe with another Woman, If Ganer Thinking That He be Happy with Him Not Goes happen, And JLO, Maybe Getting Tired because everybody Accuse her because His Not Happy, With her, His Not Happy because he wants Drinks everyday, That Not Easy JLO, Run and Don't Matter What Your don't need Him, I Know That You love him But Remember Love is Beautiful and Painful, But You Can Do it,
@-KMA-
2 ай бұрын
Narcissist at his core
@xejelah
2 ай бұрын
He was never after j.lo - she came to him a week after Arod dumped her. It was bad for her image. Desire is her image. This marriage was supposed to be a biz deal, but it didn't help him, it just made her look bad and him by association.
@lollytavares178
2 ай бұрын
You nailed it!
@yasminhorn_
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@janelledavis5340
3 ай бұрын
Ben Affleck, Brad Pitt and Johnny Depp all realized too late, that the grass isn't greener on the other side. It's greener where you water it, where you nurture it.
@peterhase3578
3 ай бұрын
😊
@BelleZee1
3 ай бұрын
Amen to this!
@annaelisavettavonnedozza9607
3 ай бұрын
Fantastic comment ❤
@WordsAreYou
3 ай бұрын
Loving this comment!
@NokthulaMadondo
3 ай бұрын
❤ Love this
@aca2883
3 ай бұрын
Some men can’t be husbands. Period!
@doreenm1969
2 ай бұрын
MANY men cant be husbands! Most fear marriage and commitment ive learned throughout the yrs.
@stephaniekasper-wallace3477
2 ай бұрын
Neither can jlo. She marries for the cameras.
@PublicNuisance2K24
2 ай бұрын
Who hurt u??
@BlessedKarma10
2 ай бұрын
Or be alone
@cavemanic9558
2 ай бұрын
You dumb bruh
@kimsahague8635
3 ай бұрын
JLo has worked hard to be JLo - you are absolutely right!
@kristibrown5899
3 ай бұрын
Ben, is Ben's biggest problem. He wasn't happy in a "normal" marriage, and isn't happy in this one. Until he becomes happy with himself, he'll never be truly happy with anyone else.
@elizabethcurcio9044
3 ай бұрын
Could not hv said it Better !!! I was thinking the exact thing !! Until he makes himself completely happy & is HAPPY WITH HIMSELF !! He can never be happy !!!
@hermesliteratus882
3 ай бұрын
The man never looks happy, he needs to learn to be happy by himself before he gets married.
@coreenaburke5378
3 ай бұрын
He needs to freaking grow up!
@john-sp8jk
3 ай бұрын
@@coreenaburke5378😁😆😂🙆🤦😱
@tinkymcginnis
2 ай бұрын
THIS
@thirtyyearcosmetologist
3 ай бұрын
He looks miserable. I just think he’s one of those guys who is happier alone.
@Passionatelyfruits
3 ай бұрын
He will get his wish
@inira7418
3 ай бұрын
Man at his age is always a bad investment, the ones that are alone lack skills to be in a relationship
@chaimomma9198
3 ай бұрын
And drunk
@vivabehi1314
3 ай бұрын
So why get married?
@Poufkimashoula1
3 ай бұрын
@vivabehi1314 Aging men don't like to decay alone. The average guy wants someone to look after him. Wealthy men want all their ressources and capital to serve a purpose (legacy), which is unlikely if they end up dying alone.
@kathrynoneill5862
3 ай бұрын
He is such a terrible husband to both Jennifer's. He knew she was a diva when he married her.
@deend7824
3 ай бұрын
Nah she ruined this because she over shared & sold their personal life! Like the book he gave her she thought she had to prove to Gadren that he loves her MORE
@stellafrimpong9085
3 ай бұрын
@@deend7824this was after their marriage, read the comment well, she said she was a diva n Ben knew her lifestyle. But yet he still went out with her n married her.
@SusanneCarolineHoff-od2vr
3 ай бұрын
No exuse! It's like saying "he knew she was controlling, self sentered, want things her way, dominant, attention sick etc". I actually don't think there is a man who can handle her 🤔
@CC-pu6qn
3 ай бұрын
@@deend7824He still knew who he was dealing with.
@Mystyle226
3 ай бұрын
Diva ? Like DIVA ? Haha not even fuc*k close
@therobnest
3 ай бұрын
Neither one of them should marry again. Some people just shouldn’t and can’t be married
@melinaesposito3434
3 ай бұрын
Are you crazy? This is JLo's entire career, her ever evolving love life. She will absolutely get married again.
@Granted-v3x
3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂. You lost hope and I understand your pain.
@erikabuzarquis518
3 ай бұрын
Who cares???
@CC-pu6qn
3 ай бұрын
@@melinaesposito3434It’s not about her having the free will to marry. The original commentator was saying based on what the public has observed about JLo, she doesn’t seem like marriage material. It doesn’t mean that another guy won’t marry her.
@jesusgirl2470
3 ай бұрын
I agree
@Yellowduchess
3 ай бұрын
How awful that everyone always blame the woman. He's such a basketcase he's always in pain no matter what. Why hate on her?
@Kristiina.G
3 ай бұрын
True
@kimyoung3484
3 ай бұрын
Thank you ❤♥️🌹😍🥰
@soniacaba2596
3 ай бұрын
EXACTLY!! HE'S A ALCOHOLIC! JENNIFER GARNER DIVORCED HIM BECAUSE SHE COULDN'T TAKE IT NO MORE!! (GET HELP BEN)
@Maccotrini
3 ай бұрын
They will blame her she is not white , he is a total loser that falls off the wagon and hear them oh poor Ben 😂😂😂
@Maccotrini
3 ай бұрын
He is a drunk and acts like a child no one mentions that all you get is jlo this and Jolo that. I don't want to live with a drunk constantly watching him, he and his wife former is now playing house and everyone acts as if this is normal. Who accepts their husband spending time with his former wife in his house I won't , but no one finds that odd and seems to act as if jlo needs to accept that why?
@fabiocampello2205
3 ай бұрын
The hypocrisy begins when a person who doesn't want media attention decides to become a Hollywood actor.
@thetannaree
3 ай бұрын
False equivalence- plenty of top actors aren’t in headlines every second of the day…
@ladyboss2383
3 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Katarina23
3 ай бұрын
Its exactly like how most men who want traditional wives chase after working girls and later try and make them stay home. Do men even know what they want?😂
@eb4052
3 ай бұрын
@@thetannareeit’s not a false equivalence. He is not an actor, he is an A-list actor. He is not just some random guy, he is academy award winner Ben Affleck. You literally sign up for possible overexposure and media attention if you hit it big. On top of the fact he married someone who he knows is a media wh*re so yeah.
@GorgyPorgy65
3 ай бұрын
Just because you excel at something, doesn't mean you like the attention. Actor makes movies, on a set ....pretends to be someone else for a storyline , does not equate to wanting attention ?
@pebbles2482
3 ай бұрын
Ben can marry his alcohol, cigarettes, gambling and player ways
@d.shidon
3 ай бұрын
💯💎💪🏽
@clisediagonzalez5010
3 ай бұрын
Yeah, the women are great. He is immature and has to be true to himself.
@Roody4594
3 ай бұрын
Those vices sometimes are less harmful than a half bad.
@MA-vk6fi
3 ай бұрын
Some only feel "complete" living like this. Anything else is boring. I know someone like this. Sadly, 8 years in. It is exhausting to deal with folks that do not know what direction they are headed. If they dont know how is anyone else supposed to follow that lead?! We can't! Ugh 😢
@jan-margaret6970
3 ай бұрын
And she can roll with puffy ,to face the music ( allegedly) time will reveal the whole mess.
@sharonmcgowan2282
2 ай бұрын
The “need” that we have is not the responsibility of another to try and fill it. That is something we need to satisfy before getting involved with another person. We need to be complete within ourselves to be able to compliment another. The inner work we must do takes time and patience. Everyone wants instant gratification ( temporary) instead of delayed blessings ( long term). It’s worth the work. When we take the time and effort to raise our vibrational frequencies- we increase the quality of air.🌹❤️
@maryharris7985
4 ай бұрын
J Lo loves attention but you have to give her credit for working so hard to get to where she is, And Ben i feel is too difficult , i dont trust his intentions and i dont know what he wants from a wife. He complained about his first wife that he wasnt happy and his drinking was a problem. I think he just needs to live by himself. And maybe he can make his self happy. I dont get him at all.
@Haiirrrr
3 ай бұрын
Bang on
@yvonneerrend8217
3 ай бұрын
Agree
@saroug2005
3 ай бұрын
I mean she did work hard on her knees to get her acting and music careers. Lol if you like that kind work to get ahead
@vellabella1
3 ай бұрын
Some men are just never satisfied and is always self sabotaging
@KlownKrunch
3 ай бұрын
Exactly jlo never changed her life is the same. He knew that!! He's been w her b4. It's not Jlo fault. It's his fault. He never understands and just a man who waste women time!!
@diannecarey9031
3 ай бұрын
He has issues that no woman can fix. He's bored with himself as a person.
@hermanarivera2446
4 ай бұрын
just goes to show that marriage is more than just insatiable attraction for each other. two selfish people who are unwilling to compromise and meet in the middle will never be happy in marriage.
@lizet3more
3 ай бұрын
This is the best comment I've read
@stacyhunt4783
3 ай бұрын
Yep and marriage is all about compromises. It’s also about not changing the person that’s growing together. It’s not about fancy dresses cars huge houses it’s about hospital stays. It’s about being there and fighting to stay together through it off. It’s about kids it’s about if you have kids, it’s all about sacrifice, which Jennifer Lopez could not do either of them could not do it.
@pebbles2482
3 ай бұрын
She doesn't want a divorce
@pebbles2482
3 ай бұрын
@@stacyhunt4783She doesn't want a divorce and she's been putting up with his disgusting smoking habit. Something Jen G was not putting up with. JLo even moved ther kids way across from Miami ti LA, far away from their regular schools. Ben hasn't had to be inconvenienced or lift a finger. He's acting like the spoiled brat that he is.
@awoman9750
3 ай бұрын
The only one compromising here is JLO, because she’s always been weak for this fool. He doesn’t deserve her, or any woman, until he works on himself.
@Latabrine
3 ай бұрын
If there was someone who absolutely 100% knew exactly who he was marrying, it's Ben Affleck.
@ehla0144
3 ай бұрын
He's so toxic. Been married to an alcoholic before, and it was sooo hard. People with that kind of issues usually are so selfish. Irritable, and volatile. Jen, gurl, run ASAP. You don't need a king to be the queen you already are❤
@harvemedharvemed7796
3 ай бұрын
I agree. I was too and it was awful
@grannygigglesyouwilltoo
3 ай бұрын
BIG EGOS can’t find that PEACE-I know, I lived it, too…sad
@Done-737
3 ай бұрын
It's exhausting @ u lose yourself...glad u moved on ...obviously I'm not suggesting any of it was easy..have a rewarding life.
@janebraun4482
2 ай бұрын
Sometimes they do or are driven to drink by a bad relationship, I knew, lost my dear brother, he suffered a bad narc women, got disabled and was her captive. Misery.
@francesjordan4861
2 ай бұрын
Sad!!!😢 Trust in the LORD JESUS with all your heart and soul and you will be saved!!!
@aida_amore
4 ай бұрын
Why is everyone blaming her for being herself? At least she has worked hard and has stayed true to herself; however, Ben has been a damn mess his whole life!!! He is all over the place, screwed up his 1st marriage and cheated with a nanny. He’s a raging alcoholic and a chain smoker! I have noticed a pattern with him and that he’s a complete jerk. The first time they broke up he compared it to the feeling of vomit …he said, at first it feels terrible but then you feel better once you throw up and now he’s kind of using the same analogy when it comes to his relationship with JLo and it’s bunch of BS. He knew exactly what he was getting into. I feel like he just played with her emotions and completely destroyed her. She has never looked this fragile and so skinny. I don’t even recognize her anymore..I just see sadness. She used to be full of life and now it’s like looking at an empty soul..a sad sad soul….and that’s what narcissists do, they suck the life out of you!!!! I truly feel bad for her and I’m praying that she heals from this 🙏💕
@bleuskye8124
4 ай бұрын
She's skinny because she's doing Ozempic or some other form of weight loss drug. She can't handle getting old. Also she's the real narcissist. Keep it real.
@sharonbilleh8137
3 ай бұрын
She's skinny for the new movie Axel I think is the name.
@stacijohnson9575
3 ай бұрын
Isn't he a big gambler too?
@olgacortez8722
3 ай бұрын
Jlo destroyed? I dont know her but she doesn't seem to be a sadybetty crying over a man. She probably just wanted a little hot mess drama, lol. Omg thank God that man is talented and hot . He seems to be the hot blonde bimbo in a man version.
@JP0411
3 ай бұрын
Well she should have proceeded with caution! They are both narcissists. Now she knows how it feels considering she ended her last three marriages
@Cityheart221
3 ай бұрын
Age wise he is a grown man. It seems he wants to be married and live like a single man. He first broke up with JLO for his drinking and gambling. He then cheated on Garner with the nanny and drinking. When she's fine without him he pursues JLO and marries her. Now he sees Jennifer Garner fine without him and he's back to her. He stays away enough from the media because he knows the public mostly blames the woman so he doesn't have to account for his actions. He not only needs rehab but to remain single and stop messing with these ladies who work hard for their careers and in love.
@judy9123
2 ай бұрын
Unbelievable. They almost married 20 years ago, broke up, and managed to reunite to finally marry. This could have been the love story of all time - but their stars were never meant to cross...
@Michi85387
2 ай бұрын
The amount of work certain woman put into their looks instead of their intellect is astonishing. Ben needs to branch out.
@Tica5012
2 ай бұрын
@Michi85387 I’m not sure who you are referring to, but both JLO and Gardner are very intelligent ladies. What Ben needs to do is quit the bottle and take responsibility for his situation.
@azeraseer102
3 ай бұрын
If this is true, let's let them both heal. Remember both have feelings & family. Which one of us hasn't had challenges, hurts & pain whether caused or naturally. Godspeed to all.
@PatriciaRoxana78
2 ай бұрын
I remember an interview with them from their first time around, he commented back then that she lived very differently from him. It probably seems alluring and appealing when you’re young and haven’t been through a first marriage, three children, and a divorce. By this point, no one with that history really wants to put up with much.
@kristinegreco3513
2 ай бұрын
Looking for simplicity - he really missed the mark bc "he was blinded by the light" got swept up in everything
@jeankroeber2481
3 ай бұрын
Most people, no matter who they are, usually realize by his age that they have to grow up. Sometimes, that takes being alone, doing some deep thinking, possibly having therapy. It's called maturing.
@sandralee6714
3 ай бұрын
Ben has been an embarrassment. He doesn't take responsibility. He doesn't accept his wrong. This man has an addiction to gambling. And addiction to medicated drugs. He does drugs. This man is an embarrassment, and the truth is gonna come out and I feel sorry for Jennifer Lopez. Because everybody's putting her as the horrible one. When she's worked very hard for everything she's got and all he wanted was to use. The he used it for his premiere in Paris and Italy. I mean, this guy is an idiot. J lo needs to move on
@aaronmichaels807
3 ай бұрын
👏🏼👏🏼
@NatalieMartin-oy7ni
3 ай бұрын
Agree, she must move on and stay single while figuring out herself. Someday she will meet someone who values her ,and you know, if she never does, that is also okay.
@stellafrimpong9085
3 ай бұрын
I agree too, she needs to just let it go n be alone for a while
@awoman9750
3 ай бұрын
I think it’s clear to everyone that JLO is smart and driven and Ben is a has been who’s just unhappy, no matter who he’s with.
@PrincessJayden-u3v
3 ай бұрын
Don't put your marriage on the media it's that simple she should have known better
@stellafrimpong9085
3 ай бұрын
Is not about her marriage being on social media. Is just something beyond we the viewers.
@schy9614
3 ай бұрын
Jlo has been herself the whole time, HE walked into it knowing how she is, the blame is on Ben on this one with poor decision making skills, he doesnt like attention but seeks out attention seeking person? Make it sense please
@doreenm1969
2 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 ummm shes a huge celebrity so…🤷🏼♂️🤷🏽♀️🙄
@aaronmichaels807
3 ай бұрын
She has a beautiful body and is rich, the man is not worth it, he cheated on Garner with the nanny, the children's nanny. Now he's divorcing Lopez, the man is not a man of commitment, the sad thing is he's older and it's not good for any man to be alone, Jen is latina and warm, could have taken good care of him, he wants another young nanny and freedom, so be it. Jen will keep trying, bless her...
@jayannakelley9051
3 ай бұрын
Jen is older than Ben.
@aaronmichaels807
3 ай бұрын
@@jayannakelley9051 I meant he is no longer young, he is a mature man.
@denisevalentemcgee4802
2 ай бұрын
Let's not forget he cheated on JLO when they were engaged to be married with a stripper. So yes, she needs to move on. Unfortunately, I think she always loved him and since him found herself wanting to find what she had with him. But that was 20 years ago and he hasn't matured.
@rainetravels1410
3 ай бұрын
Ben is the common denominator in both failed relationships. He is the problem😊
@DeeLite220
3 ай бұрын
Have you forgotten about the multitude of relationships on JLo’s part? 😂 this is her 4the marriage 😂
@ruthmaier755
3 ай бұрын
Come on…Jen has never been satisfied with any man she’s been with!
@ruthmaier755
3 ай бұрын
However, each needs to figure out their own issues before becoming involved with anyone.
@glamourgirl-n9b
3 ай бұрын
J.lo has had failed marriages too. They’re both the common denominator.
@carolethorn3211
3 ай бұрын
But Jen is the serial bride. I don't get why he had to marry her. Why couldn't they just not do the wedding thing. At this point, why bother.
@kevinmatthew1050
3 ай бұрын
These 2 are idiots for getting married again. He should have stayed with jennifer Garner and not cheated on her.
@tinaterry1280
3 ай бұрын
I'm happy Jen got away from him.
@denisevalentemcgee4802
2 ай бұрын
He cheated on JLO when they were engaged. They never got married. Maybe they thought they could pick up from where they left off. But you can't go back no matter how hard you may try.
@katherinekaufman9856
2 ай бұрын
He often looks miserable or completely disengaged.
@YolandaDavis-o5d
3 ай бұрын
You can tell Ben is very unhappy, just by looking at his eyes. Very, very, unhappy.😒
@PINEAPPAULA
2 ай бұрын
@@YolandaDavis-o5d he's a miserable sog, bc thats what he wants to be
@xejelah
2 ай бұрын
If the first 3 husbands didn't work and her last engagement went running for the hills and he's already dumped her once in the past - why did he think this was going to work?
@YolandaDavis-o5d
2 ай бұрын
JLO would be a lot happier if she was alone. No more husbands.
@jacquelinekoch7446
2 ай бұрын
Oh poor poor Ben! He needs to leave JLO alone so she can get her sparkle ✨ back!!! BuBye Ben!
@jacquelinekoch7446
2 ай бұрын
@@xejelah Ben is a Loser at Love!
@lourdesortiz1613
3 ай бұрын
Hay por favor, este hombre simplemente no ssbe lo que es valorar a una mujer, a su primera esposa la traiciona con la niñera, luego sale con la de Armas y decía lo mismo x que ella estaba en el tope de su carrera y él no podia soportar que ella llamara la atencion más que él, JLo nunca fue ni sará una mujer fácil, pero este hombre definitivamente es un ser infeliz, manipulador y egocéntrico que luego se quiere hacer la victima en lugar de madurar de una buena vez
@awoman9750
3 ай бұрын
Totalmente de acuerdo.
@celesteferreira8072
3 ай бұрын
Ele precisa restar solo... És um pobre hombre rico 😱
@clisediagonzalez5010
3 ай бұрын
Haci es la cosa.
@gloriap1043
3 ай бұрын
Si
@annarichardson8284
3 ай бұрын
Amen, Lourdes. Soooooo true.
@MaraBell-kx2mm
3 ай бұрын
Fool me once blame on you fool me twice shame on me. Ben has no excuse
@HealingHeart_61
3 ай бұрын
I feel that JLo "needs" the media attention for self-validation and a man as an escape from looking within herself. Ben "avoids" the media because it calls attention to his many demons and "needs" a woman as escape from looking within himself. They have their flaws, like every human. I hope they both get the help they need to find genuine peace, love and happiness within themselves. Perhaps that will lead them to making better choices going forward. Sending them both love.❤🙏
@pink7936
3 ай бұрын
Amen
@preciousprecious6358
3 ай бұрын
No. Jlo is in love with herself and phony.
@debraslone281
3 ай бұрын
He knew how J Lo was with the press and all before he married her people try to change people, and you cannot
@danamomonte4075
2 ай бұрын
When the ego is so big that you cannot retire even with all that money.
@AprilGarcia-sm4bi
3 ай бұрын
Nobody could love Jennifer Lopez as much as she loves herself
@astrospirit
3 ай бұрын
😂 true but i definitely don’t think anything is wrong with that! U are suppose to love u to The upmost
@Diannab75
3 ай бұрын
@@astrospiritYes, you're supposed to love yourself. However, JLo really loves herself, so much that she doesn't have time or love for anyone else. Think narcissist... and Ben is one also. Two narcissists rarely last very long.
@GorgyPorgy65
3 ай бұрын
@@Diannab75 Agree with that. She's the overt narcissist and he's the covert narcissist. It was always going to end like this. They are like two demented flames snuffing each other out.
@indicamichelle736
3 ай бұрын
Good for her if that's the case - all women should love themselves and get away from men like this.
@sarz8616
3 ай бұрын
@@Diannab75she has to love herself, bc so far her husband's selections are the worst. She should just live with the guys and not married them...
@feliciaalmario6307
3 ай бұрын
How could he not have known this?She thrives on media attention.
@franrafael7463
3 ай бұрын
I think she needs to take a break from everything and concentrate on her kids and marriage she has enough money and success already
@edhabt7695
3 ай бұрын
The man is confused
@Cari-143
2 ай бұрын
Years ago, when he appeared in Good Will Hunting all my gay friends insisted he was gay. Perhaps that's the issue for him...maybe you can't 'be gay' and be from Southie. Makes the most sense now.
@DonnaDonna2023
3 ай бұрын
2 years, I thought it was like 2 months 😂
@susaniagallo2049
3 ай бұрын
Let's not forget....Garner divorced her husband for Ben....committed adultery... And thought her life was moving on to greener Pastures!! 😂😂😂😂😂
@veronicagross7458
3 ай бұрын
I don't like J Lo, but Ben... Come on, man. You knew what you were getting into, you had already been there!!! What did he expect?
@jennyengland2506
2 ай бұрын
Agree he knew exactly 💯
@CherylNeary-m3x
2 ай бұрын
I’m blaming it on a Ben’der!!! 😅 No one can CONvince me otherwise,Bye JHo/Jenny from the Block! She’s already got #5 Victim chosen 🎉😂
@RonieLer459
2 ай бұрын
Exactly!!
@laurellynn8496
2 ай бұрын
Exactly…. And she is more of a dancer then a singer… for sure
@SaltyArmySarg
2 ай бұрын
20 years passed since they were together. Jen is clinging to her youth desperately, and I don't think he realized that ahead of time. The attention she seeks, apparently overwhelmed him.
@lindsaymus45
3 ай бұрын
She would make anyone insane.
@miidashian1037
3 ай бұрын
No one loves jlo like jlo
@hollymiranda0826
3 ай бұрын
Exaaaaactly!!!!!
@NiMimu
3 ай бұрын
Good for her!!
@stellafrimpong9085
3 ай бұрын
Yes you are right….that is self love ❤️
@indiakakivasloane8581
3 ай бұрын
Best comment
@nieveswhite3859
3 ай бұрын
Some people don’t like confident and empowered women
@Asia_B_85
2 ай бұрын
Dr Phil killed it. No pun intended. The way he broke down his personality and the reason behind a lot of his thoughts. Great job 👏 on such a horrific story.
@floridabrit9572
4 ай бұрын
He was having a midlife crisis for years and was in limerence with JLo. So yeah I believe that quote 💯. He woke up and is now smelling the coffee, hence why he's moved closer to his ex Jen Garner. She was true love. The grass is not greener 💯
@hayallebaslarhersey1777
3 ай бұрын
O gerçek aşk mı bilmem ,ben için gardner ikinci anne figürü sanırım. Bu adamın oidipus kompleksini atlatması,ne istediğini bulması gerek .
@bonniejosavland3227
3 ай бұрын
She’s moved on & won’t be taking him back & is worried if he & Jlo divorce he’ll go back to drinking & she’ll have to pick up the pieces again!
@yetmel5834
3 ай бұрын
Nah...that man's true love is himself.
@attystephens7175
3 ай бұрын
He cheated on Jennifer Garner with the nanny. So he didn't want her either. He has a problem.
@JButterfli
2 ай бұрын
I am so happy that she didn’t change for him. Many women (or maybe I can only speak for myself) tend to change who they are, because it makes their significant other feel uncomfortable. Glad that she didn’t let him dim her light. They’ll be better off as friends, I bet.
@JennyCowan-w2b
4 ай бұрын
Um I'm sorry, is Affleck not wildly more famous than Jennifer Lopez has....ever been? This show sucks
@SupernaturalLove100
4 ай бұрын
No, he’s not. Lol. Lopez is way more global.
@pamalaboyd7008
3 ай бұрын
This show does not suck.
@kayliahferrero
3 ай бұрын
What ??? Jlo has hit movies and hit songs...
@YmustTh3w0rldG0r0und
3 ай бұрын
I actually didn't know who Ben was until he started dating Jlo. Both of them suck though.
@detrafranks9325
3 ай бұрын
Ben affleck is definitely as famous as Jlow and it’s bc he has actual talent. He most certainly did not need Jennifer Lopez to make him more famous. And more so than that he doesn’t care about being famous. She does.
@claireoconor7986
3 ай бұрын
Most basic criteria for a happy marriage: COMPATIBLITY!!!
@stephenfermoyle4578
3 ай бұрын
Ben is a miserable drunk, who does not need to be cause he has so many great qualities
@Whitedove6
3 ай бұрын
Maybe A Time Out On Both Sides Would Be Good.People Divorce Too Easily These Days.
@commonsense8334
2 ай бұрын
Every man in his forties or so comes to his senses and realizes “certain things”. Good for Ben
@theoriginalkrabbypatty
3 ай бұрын
JLO wanted to be married to him SO BADLY and didn’t care at what cost! She HATED the fact they didn’t get married the first time, she was bound and determined to get him to marry her!
@Carolineinzion
Ай бұрын
The way you laughed and the look on your face, while saying temporary. Lol. That was great. 😊
@deborahwilson4684
3 ай бұрын
Happy for the wonderful Jennifer Garner! Free from this shiteshow!
@jeanrita4618
3 ай бұрын
Is that why she keeps visiting him at his rental home without her kids??🤔😳🤣😂
@k-lo0007
3 ай бұрын
JLow has POWER & CONTROL issues.
@PINEAPPAULA
2 ай бұрын
@@k-lo0007 classic, blame all of his issues on jlo
@jennyengland2506
2 ай бұрын
An he has childish, anger and a whole lot of other issues, too many to think an name here,why she married him I do not know
@normaalexander4637
2 ай бұрын
I hope Jennifer Gardner doesn't commit to him again. She is too good for him!
@hawausoro3328
3 ай бұрын
I hope he doesn't try to take her money either
@detrafranks9325
3 ай бұрын
He doesn’t need her money. He’s got plenty of his own. Jus sayin…
@jeanrita4618
3 ай бұрын
@@detrafranks9325she's worth 3 times what he has! And him blaming her for some type of mental abuse (insanity) might be a plot to prove this against her. He needs to support 3 kids through college..lots of money going to Garner. Yea..at his age he better be working his ass off the next 10 years to pay for all this. I wouldn't put it past him to try to sue her for something. I don't know if Cali is a no fault state when it comes to dissolving a marriage?
@kittycarlisle8416
3 ай бұрын
He is rich beyond anyone’s wildest dreams. He DOES NOT need her money. GET REAL..
@jeanrita4618
3 ай бұрын
@@kittycarlisle8416 he's not that rich! He has 3 kids & an ex to support!! 🥴
@Larissastateofmind
2 ай бұрын
They both have a Leo sun and Scorpio moons. They could be too similar, or too competetive or too hurtful towards each other. I think there is more here emotionally than we can see. I wish them both all the best ♥️
@InHisService772
4 ай бұрын
I never thought she should have married him. He does not ah e good character. But I am STILL rooting for them. ❤
@cutazabutton
3 ай бұрын
They were engaged long ago but never married. He didn’t remarry anyone
@sharoncarrier18
3 ай бұрын
Jennifer is an egotistical narcissistic diva. common knowledge. but he is selfish and always seems unhappy. neither one of them should get married again.
@Yep-uhhuh
3 ай бұрын
Having similar values and lifestyles is key to a successful relationship….for instance most people say they value family but it’s one thing to say you value home and family and it’s another to to actually live a lifestyle that is congruent with that statement
@denisovaalla6437
3 ай бұрын
I love Ben Affleck. He's never been afraid to play ridiculous personages. A true comic actor. It's that he' handsome. Handsome men are spolied from their young years. Like women who're loved for what they look like not like men who're admired for what they do. Gennifer Garner is a mother of his children. Point.
@AirJKB13
3 ай бұрын
Ben didn’t get therapy about his problem with the media?
@valeriesrtaskey9208
3 ай бұрын
We all knew this would not last
@suzieparis6821
3 ай бұрын
Who said he wanted to strip it away from her n btw shes old....old... its time to grow up n stop being an attention W
@KlownKrunch
3 ай бұрын
Another man that waste women's time!!! He knew Jlo before all of this!! He married her for money not love in my opinion. Ain't nothing changed about Jlo!! She's the same person minus the children. I feel sorry for her!! I know she's been married more than once. At moment in time. It's all the men fault not hers! I thought it might be her a little 🤔 but maybe. But she still remained the same. Ben Ain't happy with anyone. He should b alone!! N leave us sane women alone!! Don't drive us insane and crazy like he have done! He's a sad man if he divorce her or causes her to divorce him.
@HEAVENLYBLESSEDHONEY
2 ай бұрын
So true.Thank you David.🐉🧚💜💫
@BassimaGhadban
3 ай бұрын
What kind of makeup do you use, you both look flawless ❤
@MammaCass
3 ай бұрын
J lo is famous for being j lo Ben is famous as an actor; someone who plays the role of other people. When he’s not in role the “fame” side isn’t what most actors do the job for. I imagine j lo never switches off cos it’s her whole world that is famous. It’s gotta be tiring for your average person who just wants to log off the job at the end of the day. She’s a stunner tho so I get why these men convince themselves they can make it work.
@LorraineKaai-zp8jm
3 ай бұрын
He made a mistake marrying jlo I just can't stand her
@doreenm1969
2 ай бұрын
You as a woman, knowing the way many men are ,maybe should think that he could possibly be to blame!
@Shasta3025
2 ай бұрын
I can’t stand her either. Never thought she could act or sing.
@magdalenechristie6453
4 ай бұрын
Maybe he got tired of her wearing fur from animals that were clubbed to death
@isisemail2488
3 ай бұрын
She doesn't give a 💩. What a narcissist. She also doesn't care about her kids.
@imnotanalien7839
2 ай бұрын
Money can’t buy you love! This is a good reminder of that!
@kimemmitt2707
3 ай бұрын
He sounds so stupid and immature
@steevenhyde3505
4 ай бұрын
Jennifer just seems so insufferable.
@zarapttazaraptta462
2 ай бұрын
He threw away a beautiful and loving wife for his house keeper. And then, went back to JLO, who is full of herself and ready to sleep with anyone who comes along.
@gtflygirl
2 ай бұрын
Ow! I don't even like J-Lo.... But i don't think it's " sleep w/ whoever comes along." She doesn't like to be alone and seems to convince herself that every guy she is with is the love of her life.
@zarapttazaraptta462
2 ай бұрын
@@gtflygirl Exactly.
@tonismith3707
2 ай бұрын
It was the Nanny.😊
@SleepyComputerChip-uq7nx
4 ай бұрын
I don't know her says Mariah Carey
@aureliaperaza1659
3 ай бұрын
Who cares what miss PIGGY, has to say.
@carmenbertios6586
3 ай бұрын
@@aureliaperaza1659 😆😆😆
@InTheGlow135
2 ай бұрын
He said that 20 years ago about his involvement with her. He wasn’t happy with Garner either. His true love is Matt Damon
@MARIADaSilva-dw9cs
2 ай бұрын
Ben is a huge actor. He doesn't need to call the paparazzi every second. He makes his movies, gets paid, and lives his life.
@JLCRH
4 ай бұрын
All you have to do is compare his pictures with Garner vs Lopez.
@mjg8134
2 ай бұрын
Who expected it to last ... lol
@julesvo617
3 ай бұрын
Two hearts living in two separated world.
@foodiegal9923
2 ай бұрын
You should meet Reesa Teesa. She vlogged “Who the F did I Marry?” An equally shocking story about discovering hidden secrets of her soon to be husband.
@onyinyechinwazue9955
Ай бұрын
He knew that before he went into it.
@desireethomas-adams2908
3 ай бұрын
YOU PEOPLE NEED TO SHUT UP AND MIND YOUR OWN DAM BUSINESS
@lvciddd.
4 ай бұрын
His picture is on Jeffrey Epstein Island 🏝️
@magdalenechristie6453
4 ай бұрын
At least he could afford to go
@mlaurynn8567
3 ай бұрын
Ben went to Epstein’s island? OMG!
@laylalee9715
3 ай бұрын
I'm dying that you titled this video that.
@chrislem6405
2 ай бұрын
It would be nice if the media would stay out of celebrities lives, and let these people live their lives and resolve any issues they may have or not on their own.
@MarioSilva-h1h
3 ай бұрын
They are using this separation to deflect j.Lo real troubles, which is the negative press about her, being a horrible human being, and for carrying the gun in a purse to the nightclub, for a woman got shot in the face.
@lotstodo
3 ай бұрын
He was engaged to her, the press attention drove them apart. I thought they had a 2nd chance, but sadly it didn't work out.
@chrish7
2 ай бұрын
2 Superstar Leo's like this getting together. The minute they got married the competition was on.
@anthonyj.torres3174
3 ай бұрын
Married to a Puerto Rican for 35 years I’ve had plenty of insanity please but I’m still around. Love my wife just like Ben does she’s a good woman just need to be patient
@katybug6572
3 ай бұрын
Damn.. N it’s such a shame too cuz we ALL ❤’d you in Selena.. and the early 2000’s movies like Maid In Manhattan was one of my most fav romcoms! Then you stole ppls music, became a huge ‘diva’, created a humongous EGO, n clearlyyyy only cared about yourself.. Not true love, cuz she only loves HERSELF. Periodt. And what a damn shame. Cuz her acting was actually pretty great at least imho esp for the romcoms! Just stay single, Love yourself JLO, and become a more active Mother. F the papz. They r only doing you more harm at this point- aka look at your career n marriage now! Tours cancelled.. career & marriage almost cancelled.. if anything- this should be a wake up call. I know I’d be looking in the mirror if roles were reversed.. jS!
@kristinegreco3513
2 ай бұрын
Ben said OUT loud in front of the world that Jen, his first wife was "a lot of work - that his marriage was a lot of work 😮" foot in mouth on stage whe winning an oscar...fast forward to J LO - HELLO! He learned quickly there was no, ZERO comparison! He just in no way shape or form could keep up or put up with it. It was too much for him and what he was probably used to and YES ABSOLUTELY he knew what he was getting into but he was head over heels "fever dreaming" ?! They both had to get it - each other out of their systems. It's too bad they couldnt figure it out while dating. It was so obvious it wasn't going to work but so sad for both of them bc there was and probably is still passion there but no way to get along.
@vl5562
2 ай бұрын
JLO is a Diva-her demeanor and the way she carries herself she think is better than anybody else, means and put up a fake smile. Ben is very humble and doesn’t like the scandal which JLO dealing with as it obvious.
@SusieQZee
3 ай бұрын
He should’ve gone the Leo DiCaprio route. Full transparency. No one gets hurt.
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