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@faustinerukiko2933
Жыл бұрын
@@simonevicarimoore to get enough sleep 😴💤💤💤
@elizabethnjoroge824
3 жыл бұрын
Protect Benjamin at all costs. He is saving a whole generation.
@spitfire3267
3 жыл бұрын
Yes he is and he hassss
@shizma7917
3 жыл бұрын
Yes! Hope they listening!
@sofi1672
3 жыл бұрын
Yes, opening the eyes of many.
@queensuzie4763
3 жыл бұрын
It's true
@jadoreparis6028
3 жыл бұрын
I've married at 24. Had a baby at 25. Currently I'm 38y.o and divorce in front of me. If I could take my time back, I rather not to married that time. Please girl, take your time as long as you can. Explore everything and explore yourself. What you desire, what you dream,etc. Most important is be happy for yourself. Never thinking what make other people happy! Never!.
@luckyjuma5630
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this!
@irinejuma6338
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@irinejuma6338
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@trizahchebosis2261
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience
@chisuwochabu250
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you ♥️
@perrymatasa1581
3 жыл бұрын
I was married at the age of 18....I left the marriage at the age 25 and I'm still single till today Benjamin you're right 👏👏
@cynthiawacyke8073
3 жыл бұрын
Those who had a painful childhood take time,grow yourself,get a house and sleep in peace ✌️
@euniceakudai4203
3 жыл бұрын
Ongeza volume
@nashynashipai4114
3 жыл бұрын
Wisdom
@hgffhhbty3053
3 жыл бұрын
True
@hopefull3387
3 жыл бұрын
I like that.
@madamdhergirls433
3 жыл бұрын
U should have told me this when I was 23
@monicawanja8903
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali ur killing the show... conducting it very well. .love it.. Benjamin with his wisdom again... 😍😍😍😍
@lizzynjeri8538
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin thanks so much am 22 in campus where everyone thinks that being single is a crime am so glad I know you and I know it's not a crime
@ronkeoyelana4192
3 жыл бұрын
Am from Nigeria, but this man is just extraordinary. God increase your knowledge. This and previous sessions have helped me a lot.
@isebi7592
3 жыл бұрын
Nigerian here😍
@MathewKenyi18
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Benjamin. Am 35 and still Single, but seriously doing my interviews (Dating). Ladies, stop rushing into marriage, invest in your dating and relationships. Listen to counselors like Benjamin, buy and read books, listen to podcasts etc about relationships, dating and marriage.
@shizma7917
3 жыл бұрын
😍
@hgffhhbty3053
3 жыл бұрын
True
@blessedmercy3036
3 жыл бұрын
all the best. continue being intentional
@carolnyawiramwai
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@shirowambondirito3711
2 жыл бұрын
Hehe ati interviews
@spitfire3267
3 жыл бұрын
I tend to listen to him on a daily to help me snap back to reality , out of that bubble
@annengei2814
3 жыл бұрын
If Benjamin was my dad wah!!singeolewa mapema...this man speaks facts
@itsnesh9605
3 жыл бұрын
I'm learning a lot from Benjamin. I'm 31 going to 32 and advancing in my career. I have no time for jokers. Many men are still boys
@aokookello5564
3 жыл бұрын
Very many are indeed boys. Even the ones that are 30 plus. Especially in Kenya😔 I just turned 27. Working on building myself.
@cynthiaauma955
3 жыл бұрын
fact
@positivesoul.9490
3 жыл бұрын
Facts. Same here in drc 🇨🇩
@misspat2659
3 жыл бұрын
Very true sis
@sherryshaki1145
3 жыл бұрын
Soo true
@Miss_Greatness
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for bringing back Benjamin😀I’m already in love with Mwikali🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
@hlobsiledlamini2676
3 жыл бұрын
Me too
@atumanyafaith3350
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali is wonderful! I thought I would miss Joyce too much.I love them both❤
@LolaBugzy85
3 жыл бұрын
I keep on staring at her. She is also so beautiful
@jules_njoroge
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali is pretty dope. I love her too.
@nellythuranira6732
3 жыл бұрын
Pre 25 class teacher 😂😂😂the wisdom with this man is in another level
@joannjeri591
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mwariwamurimi8937
3 жыл бұрын
Good advice Benjamin, this generation is very lucky to have someone like Benjamin i wish you were there during our time.
@rmmedia1810
3 жыл бұрын
True my dia
@rmmedia1810
3 жыл бұрын
They are lucky
@salomexz7113
3 жыл бұрын
Absolutely true,,,bt it's not too late coz we hv kids to give them the advice
@faithkimathi4068
3 жыл бұрын
Mwari, you are right. We didn't have these platforms.
@ruthretoe7232
3 жыл бұрын
I totally agree
@carolwambua5250
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin u have been a good eye opener for me,I love the show.Mwikali yu fit that seat 100%,I love your show.watching from Saudi Arabia
@ericaadkins3383
3 жыл бұрын
Listen to Benjamin. When you're young, your brain isn't fully developed and that is not the time for picking a mate. Just enjoy life and don't worry about a relationship. Figure out who you are first.
@timothymaina1157
3 жыл бұрын
👌🏾
@trizahchebosis2261
3 жыл бұрын
Pre 25 taking notes
@babykwambs
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali perfect presenter !👏🏻👏🏻
@candacesmith5572
3 жыл бұрын
I love when Benjamin is tired of the questions. He starts going off with the truth. Stop making his blood pressure rise.
@terryray3147
3 жыл бұрын
Your power in all relationships is your willingness to walk away...any day.
@asandamkhize1862
3 жыл бұрын
I love how honest Benjamin is. This is what we all need to hear. People must stop normalising nonsense
@beeyoutiful4086
3 жыл бұрын
Too much truth in here🙌. How I wish you can make video records of benjamin's discussions and make them available on online stores for purchase. All the way from SA🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦
@prudencemosa6083
3 жыл бұрын
I consider myself the luckiest. Am having this wisdom at 23.I had to cut off all the pressures I had sorrounded myself with.
@janemkade3488
3 жыл бұрын
If it costs ur piece of mind it's not worth it 😜😜😜😜😜😜 Life is already a struggle, marry arelief
@na0m1fes51
3 жыл бұрын
*Watching all the way from Tanzania thank you for advising us Mr.benjamin zulu*
@elizabethmumbua6091
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin I love how you put the plain truth without sugarcoating despite how painful it is.... A big fan❤️
@pstleilaciku7171
3 жыл бұрын
I love Benjamin I wish I started listening to you when I was still in school but I still thank God, am 28 n unmarried without a child, yeees am happy that I didn't marry early without knowing where I was going, at least now I know where I am going am ready to date n marry.
@aishadaud2298
3 жыл бұрын
We are together dear.. And actually no regrets. Enjoying single life😂😂
@pstleilaciku7171
3 жыл бұрын
@@aishadaud2298 😂😂God will help us find the right partners, can't wait to start rushing home to cook for my husband 😂😂😂
@joyceambasa1514
3 жыл бұрын
Wow my agemate...am very happy am getting more knowledge here on switch tv...really appreciate
@pstleilaciku7171
3 жыл бұрын
@@joyceambasa1514 yess pretty let's get knowledge from him before we settle down
@aishadaud2298
3 жыл бұрын
@@pstleilaciku7171.. Amen dear.. God's time is the best. No need to rush and then start to be cutting onions 😂😂. That marriage God forbid
@patriciandungwa5
3 жыл бұрын
Get Money first!!!even discount comes after buying something....Zulu ur right...I love the show,Mwikali beautiful.
@victoriamusau5128
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali my sister you are doing it very well. Zulu the man good job
@yaquelinllamos2173
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing adviser Mr Zulu , you know how to deal with relationships 😊😊. Mwikali you are 100% fitting in that chair , nice personality. I'm cuban but living in Zambia.
@winnienalwimba6202
3 жыл бұрын
Listening from Zambia ..kenya you are blessed with a man of valor...Benjamin ...thank you 👏🏻👏🏻
@elizabethnjeru5633
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali is so pleasant. Love the show. Keep it up.
@tshidishube5912
3 жыл бұрын
Wooooooowww Benjamin, I am a 41 one year old dirvocee, married at 24 for 11 years. I learned so much from you, it's amazing. Everything you're talking about is so true. I'm grateful, I now know better going forward. I'm going to have the best relationship going forward because of your great advices. Tshidi all the way from South Africa
@rosequentin8461
3 жыл бұрын
Experience is a wonderful teacher!
@balancedviewpoint7418
3 жыл бұрын
The questions you are reading there Mary are good and valid but the general advise to boys and girls out there is, practice patience and delay your sex issues till you mature(Finish education, get a job, move away from your parents to your own cube then start dating) Premarital counseling is key to success in marriage guys. We are there for you. Do not rush to marriage before you go through the critical stages (dating, courtship then marriage) The lady with a kid must first wind up divorce proceedings if she had married legally and she needs to be very careful by putting her son first priority not men or love because many guys taking women with a son never do it with their full heart.......if you understand what I mean. On the same count, be careful not to be over protective. If you show too much love to your son but refuse your new guy a chance to be his father figure freely, it is very dangerous. He will think you married him for his money or comfort. Its very tricky. I will suggest you seek proper counseling or coaching to avoid being beaten twice. Love is great but never engage at the expense of an innocent child you sired with another man ladies.
@nakamijunic5844
3 жыл бұрын
Iwas dating ajoker But thank God since I started following you am healing coz I decided to let him go
@BlackPanther-lt7wr
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you ! 👍
@vivianavivie
3 жыл бұрын
@Nakami that's great the same here 🖐️ hoping for the best
@trizahkabui1552
3 жыл бұрын
Me too here, And I even don't regret leaving 🤗
@venachepngetich6314
3 жыл бұрын
I swear my life revolves along this man's advise...I hope I'll never go wrong
@MJ-uj4dr
3 жыл бұрын
Love this show! I would like to propose a topic 🙋♀️ Could Benjamin please talk about financially secure singles who decide to have children on their own and what the implications are for the children, the single parent and their relationships. Just a thought...
@_submitted
3 жыл бұрын
Is this really a thing or just an ideology?
@MJ-uj4dr
3 жыл бұрын
@@_submitted Yes it's a real thing. Women 35 and above that I know are choosing to do so for various reasons. I don't think its for me or anyone to judge it. I just want to fully understand the implications. I think it would make an interesting discussion on an emerging issue that I don't think is receiving coverage for a psychological perspective in our African context.
@itschela3513
3 жыл бұрын
And those who want the otherhood too. Childfree life
@ndagirelilian6176
3 жыл бұрын
true, this is a very good topic, especially if the single parent eliminates the other completely to even access the child as well denying them any sort of responsibility towards the child since they are too independent
@JoyWahome
3 жыл бұрын
@@MJ-uj4dr Agreed
@diplomatdiplomat2800
3 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed this programme. This show has taught me a lot about relationships
@racheln7766
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali! You're doing amazing sweetie! Good job. This conversation had me taking my notes out. 👏🏽
@elizabethwanjiku7201
3 жыл бұрын
Well done Mwikali, the show is lit.
@Blessed56863
3 жыл бұрын
Am a pre 25 and Benjamin you have opened my eyes a lot n I'm happy to listen to you before I made any mistakes ...God bless you a lot as you continue imparting lives
@leahkariuki4031
3 жыл бұрын
God bless you Benjamin you are a blessing to many!!! I am 30 years old working on my self and learning alot from this show!! Live long full circle !!!
@rosearama2885
11 күн бұрын
I like how the lady calmed Zulu😅😅 i have learned things here. Big love from South Sudan
@saratallest680
3 жыл бұрын
I feel like this man is addressing me every time,when I get into marriage I would love to have him as our life coach,very intelligent guy who states nothing but the truth👏🏼mary was made for this🙏🏼
@hattiengoyi2571
3 жыл бұрын
haha, when benjamin gets frustrated it makes me happy. I love this man, he speaks from the heart.
@EnHl3
3 жыл бұрын
I get scared
@chepkoechgloria3247
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is the best mentor when it comes to do with relationship
@MB-nl3nf
3 жыл бұрын
We need you in the USA! Your paid services, wisdom, and professional services could be of use to many.
@reubenbokea5459
3 жыл бұрын
No please. He is kenya to stay. His descendants are spread all over. Thank you.
@MB-nl3nf
3 жыл бұрын
@@reubenbokea5459 I understand you don’t want him to leave.
@winniew6742
3 жыл бұрын
You have Kevin Samuel's.lol
@sheriannemanus263
3 жыл бұрын
I from the caribbean, and zulu is a blessing!
@trishtrish2349
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣Benja you crack me up all the time but you talk a lot of sense. You need to be featuring on big platforms so that many more people can learn from you.
@bellaolum9768
3 жыл бұрын
Let people know that you can go elsewhere, once they realise you have options they will step up their game. This is so powerful!
@mrsfarrer9712
3 жыл бұрын
How he chews is everything 🤣😂🤣.. Benjamin the man that speaks the truth bila uoga 💪🏿🙏🏿
@Thestephaniechuks
2 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu is a blessing to me. I have learned a lot by just following full circle. Benjamin is a system, you are miracle and a saviour to us all. Thank you for all you do.
@ingridmartina-claxton9155
3 жыл бұрын
Always sound words of wisdom. Thanks for bringing back Benjamin.💕
@hinyikiwilemithi4855
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is so funny 😭😭😭I laughed so hard I cried watching this
@kasivamary5958
3 жыл бұрын
'Push yourself to senses' OMG Zulu is always ready 😂😂😂
@annilieannilie7803
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin 100% he's nearly jumping out of the seat 😅
@Sofia-dl9vw
3 жыл бұрын
A break works if there is a commitment by both parties to improve. My spouse and I "took a break" two years ago for 2 months and it made us realize we were worth fighting for. He made a lot of changes and has maintained those changes. We are much happier now. When you take a break, just enjoy your separate lives, spend time with family and friends and really take the time to think. Don't force the other person to try and come back and don't date other people!
@marykamau9057
3 жыл бұрын
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@WangechiPenninah
3 жыл бұрын
Can Benjamin talk about age 26 - 30...
@jazakaalaisa3341
3 жыл бұрын
That's all i'm waiting for too 😂
@zabibuntanabwijira5565
3 жыл бұрын
He said we should focus on our careers, then embrace the dating life. Data as many people as you can because you are in the market and you're free to make your choice. He also said as long as you don't sleep with them. Then you will see which of those people are serious then you will decide who to make life with.🤗
@fridahkawira5628
3 жыл бұрын
Almost getting here😊
@rhodahj7121
3 жыл бұрын
Ready to receive wisdom as usual Mr Benjamin great speaking to me direct.
@dorcaskui2634
3 жыл бұрын
benjamin zulu ...i like your honesty when dealing with relationships. wengine wetu only by Gods grace
@prudencemosa6083
3 жыл бұрын
I l love the way Benjamin always projvides straight answers instantly. I normally enjoy the shows like no one's business 😂
@naserianlankas4511
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Mwikali have just turned 30 years am feeling pressure to get married but am not dating . Afraid that time might not be on my side
@susanmuthoni1167
3 жыл бұрын
These two.Their laughter is contagious!! 🤣❤.i love them.
@richauntie316
3 жыл бұрын
UGANDANs representative always here,love the words of wisdom from zulu
@vivianavivie
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali and Benjamin ❤️the show is amazing i love love it u inspire me alot 💕 thankyou so much 🙏
@manalamazomba869
3 жыл бұрын
I understand Zulu’s frustration towards under 25😂.
@cikuciku2355
3 жыл бұрын
I just love how benjamin pours out harsh truth...
@eunicewavinya244
3 жыл бұрын
Zulu the silence says everything.....yaani na kupenda bure for saying the truth always
@carolwambua5250
3 жыл бұрын
About orphans I support you,that's wat hapened to me and I spent 14yrs in a horrible marriage. Wen I decided to move out I almost died trying to make it work fr my kids sake.But blvn to have a better one with a man who truly love me .glad am alive now
@jemfridahanangwe1152
3 жыл бұрын
Was dating a player, but I thank God I moved out of that trap, thanks Mr Zulu and Mwikali
@Ray-yg3nr
3 жыл бұрын
Zulu we are sorry! .pre 25 please ask Zulu the right questions. he is full of wisdom
@ambiamash2194
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin always having harsh bt truth word coz wat he did is wat he had passion to do,how I wish majority of us could do what is our career, we could hav been on the right path
@megjohn2173
3 жыл бұрын
I got married for all the wrong reasons four years down the line I feel awful.... Mtu anikujie
@kevinombaso1465
3 жыл бұрын
Coming
@rahabnjau2295
3 жыл бұрын
Hello im mother of three group up people, I haven't listened this show, it's very helpful to young people keep it up 💯 .
@leahanitareddig
3 жыл бұрын
This guy is a real deal very much needed to the Kenyan society.Tough discussions are the reality.Powerful
@cliffordoluoch3277
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin Zulu you have clearly earned the title of "Oracle". Watching from U.S.A.
@fatmanasir6691
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali is so funny& fire plus Benjamin it's a house of laughter, quite informative but light. I have learnt a lot from Benjamin and I'm applying it
@lindokuhlemadondile4845
3 жыл бұрын
😁😁 please get water for MrB next time ..this man is fire ....I'm learning somuch from you..thankyou
@robertaakoto5360
3 жыл бұрын
First to be here today, loving the show💯👍
@SwitchTVKenya
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for coming
@eveodinga2817
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali you've jumped right into the position, loving the show girl
@Sithandwa30
3 жыл бұрын
Her dress is gorgg and that laugh is contagious.....Zulu always with the energy....
@rachaelmutindi
3 жыл бұрын
Quite good! Great advice.. but, let's be honest and stop telling girls to not have sex.. we all have needs, use condoms, protect yourself and research contraceptives before you use them. 2. Change the princess narrative; no one is coming to save you. Stop expecting that a man will. It is okay to take care of each other. 3. Learn to forgive ourselves and judge ourselves less. Enjoy each relationship, learn from it and leave when it no longer serves you. Marriage isn't everything. It's okay to make mistakes too.
@eleanorayebare1406
3 жыл бұрын
I love your view, sex has been painted as enjoyable for only the men. Women too enjoy sex but should protect themselves from STDs and unwanted pregnancy.
@jaineebito2661
3 жыл бұрын
Much love from Uganda, I the lessons I learn from this show are priceless. Thanks Zulu n the crew
@kikikiki3216
3 жыл бұрын
I wish Benjamin was my big brother or uncle.
@raelnzulu143
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is my young bro and i really see him one on one for chat. imagine! This year he has visited me twice in my house.. One was a sunday afternoon and onother day he greeted me on his way from somewhere..
@susanwangui4181
3 жыл бұрын
Traffic jam 😂🤣🤣peace of mind is so precious ladies.....that's me am so private 😂🤣🤣
@antonymwangi9276
3 жыл бұрын
😂
@tshidishube5912
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin you are magic, nugget truths all the way. Tshidi from South Africa
@marynzau1155
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali and Benjamin i love you guy's wow this is fire. Your nails mwikali are wow 👌👌
@maureenkinuthia943
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂Zulu the way you are coming for us pre-25's wee!!
@beelee856
3 жыл бұрын
I'm just 18😂😂I feel it in veins😂😂😂
@maureenkinuthia943
3 жыл бұрын
@@beelee856 😂😂😂23 here..lol!! Zulu is crazy about this age group🤣
@apphiapatience710
3 жыл бұрын
20here taking notes...
@beelee856
3 жыл бұрын
@@maureenkinuthia943 I'm like to hell with this dating thing lemme learn from Zulu first😂😂
@maureenkinuthia943
3 жыл бұрын
@@apphiapatience710 please do!! Develop yourself "in Zulu's voive +laughter "😂😂
@trizahchebosis2261
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you soo much Benjamin may God give you long life and protect you so that you may continue changing this our generation
@silviamichira718
3 жыл бұрын
Mwikali...my role model...from all the way back in ktn...
@susanwanjiru1700
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Benjamin u r amazing....thank God I met u...u av really changed my views on relationship and taught me how to live real life🙏🙏🙏
@patriciaoguda4591
3 жыл бұрын
You've helped me so much in decision making. Much apricition benjamin
@silviamichira718
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin is right....courting is conversation and conversation....not sex...not weekends..
@marciadaley9376
3 жыл бұрын
Love your program watching then none stop, here in the beautiful island of Jamaica 🇯🇲🤗🤗🤗
@rojomasindi6515
3 жыл бұрын
Benjamin karibu 🇹🇿 our sister's really need you
@np5462
3 жыл бұрын
“If you don’t do it right you’ll have to do it over “
@florensnakawuka8930
3 жыл бұрын
Am here learning n Uganda is well represented in zulu's class
@lilliannabaasa9239
Жыл бұрын
Great insights and too much wisdom. Thank you Benjamin zulu.
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