Healing is an authentic journey. I’m grateful to all effort let us witness this session with Bert Hellinger through free KZitem in my bedroom. His technique has enlightened many souls as a fact. He is not a showman. There is part 2 available. Nothing cruel here energy is everything and they are exchanging pure healing energy. We choose to witness or not …that’s it. We are a part of her journey at this moment as well. Watch your thoughts please!
@pavelboitor
Жыл бұрын
Here it is kzitem.info/news/bejne/uqKMzH-YbJVlnag
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
El sanar es una travesía auténtica. Estoy agradecido ante todo esfuerzo. Vamos a ser testigos de esta sesión con Bert Hellinger. De hecho, su técnica ha iluminado a muchas almas. Él no es un hombre de espectáculos. Hay una parte 2. No hay nada cruel aquí, la energía lo es todo y están intercambiando energía sanadora pura. Elegimos ser testigos o no. eso es todo. También somos una parte de su travesía en este momento. Cuiden sus pensamientos, por favor!!! Enlace de la parte 2. kzitem.info/news/bejne/uqKMzH-YbJVlnag. part 2
@breelong2544
10 ай бұрын
If you leave the video running at the end another follows . I'm really not sure what to think of this but when you touch a core wound that's a very tricky place to go . Sometimes peoples processing around these mother wounds are very deep and painful and so therefore it's uncomfortable to witness. To witness our own wounds and have others witness is a powerful thing. We tend to avoid the biggest deepest wounds because it's to hard . My feeling is he draws out the most uncomfortable wound and so it looks like he's being cruel. As humans we want to soothe and appease but sometimes the most powerful thing to do is touch the parts that nobody else will speak . I could be totally wrong of course but this man's work is still the basis for alot of very deep and powerful healing workshops that take place all over the world. Everyone however will view this differently.
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
I know people who sadly have very abusive mothers and they dont have a close or great relationship with them yet their faces "shine" and they are charismatic and charming.
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
La traducción de lo que dice Dream Catchers (Atrapador de sueños) Conozco personas que tristemente tienen madres muy abusivas y que no tienen ni siquiera una grande o cercana relación con ellas, sin embargo, sus rostros brillan y son carismáticas y encantadoras...
@YFL.111
Жыл бұрын
@@jardindeconstelaciones5799 no se porque traduciste mi comentario pero.. gracias amigo ajaj
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Lo traduje porque dos personas pidieron traducción. Por eso me tomé la libertad de hacerlo. Hace dos años Stella Maris Caputo escribió: PODRÁN TRADUCIR,?POR FAVOR GRACIAS
@sunflower8641
4 жыл бұрын
UNNECESSARILY HUMILIATING FOR THIS WOMAN TO MAKE HIS POINT....VERY UNPLEASANT TO WATCH
@1gaia
4 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more. He made an example of her, and ignored the fact that she's a sentient being with fears, struggles, and feelings. It's all just "a therapeutic method" until someone's found hanging the next morning.
@MartinVoorsmit
Жыл бұрын
I agree - what an arrogance from Hellinger
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Sunflower Innecesariamente humillante para esta mujer para que él probara su punto... Muy desagradable de ver
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Estoy de acuerdo - qué arrogancia de Hellinger
@dr.taebidnm4051
6 күн бұрын
Get the message and the go of the messenger... ❤
@nickwerber8286
4 жыл бұрын
The way this doesn’t contain the ending of the interaction is really unhelpful. Is there a way to reupload with the full conversation?
@margaballario4919
2 жыл бұрын
kzitem.info/news/bejne/uqKMzH-YbJVlnag
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
The link to part 2 kzitem.info/news/bejne/uqKMzH-YbJVlnag. El hecho de que esto no contenga el final de la interacción realmente no ayuda para nada. Hay una manera de volver a subir toda la conversación? (Comparto el enlace de la segunda parte)
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
Did he say "you will die before there is a chance for partnership"? My goodness.. and then people complains about Teal Swan... when real terrible terapist somehow went famous and nobody critizised them. This man is plain cruel. This is not the way to aproach an issue with somebody who is suffering.
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Dijo él, ¿te vas a morir antes de que tengas una posibilidad de tener una pareja? Por Dios y la gente se queja de Teal Swan... (Líder espiritual estadounidense de 38 años)... Cuando un terapeuta realmente terrible de alguna manera se hizo famoso y nadie lo criticó. Este hombre es sencillamente cruel. Esta no es la manera de abordar un tema con alguien que está sufriendo.
@mariamasullo8406
3 жыл бұрын
I felt uncomfortable watching this. As some other people have said below, without a context, it seems cruel and insensitive, putting the woman on the spot and ridiculing her. I am sure we are missing something here and this video doesn't do the method justice.
@anaodojardimdasaflicoes5883
2 жыл бұрын
Because this is quackery.
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
@@anaodojardimdasaflicoes5883 what is the meaning of quackery?
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
Me too! I felt the same. The problem I think it is that this man was too conditioned by his life as a catholic priest and believed in condemning in a way like... old christian moralist way, not really having empathy towards somebody's pain. I think that views he had were toxic but it was just his own views as a person. He also was inteligent and had some level of enligthement in the way that he was able to analize how the energetic links works within a family But just because he was able to do that that doesnt mean creating a good therapy makes you a fully enlightened being who has the truth about everything I think he did lack enlightement in many levels, at the same time I agree about his discoverings in terms of energy links. My cousin killed herself and I was reading his views on suicide. Basically it says that the one comiting suicide does it out of love because somebody else in the family was depressed I read some things also about how the family actually feels that person who died doesnt deserve to be in the family if they dont talk about that person constantly. Those views made us fall into terrible guilt and psicologically destroyed ourselves even more. Yet family constelations are great and helped me integrate it. This man's ideas didnt thou.
@mariamasullo8406
2 жыл бұрын
I find the mothid extraordinary. It has helped me and my family immensely. In fact, I am a trainee now. However, this specific video was very difficult to digest.
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
@@mariamasullo8406 thanks for your answer! I always wanted to try this therapy but as I have somebody in my family who comited suicide, I felt afraid people were gonna blame me for it or something like that and my therapist read some things about Bert Hellinger and adviced me to never go to that therapy. I did it but without people not like in this video. Just with papers which represented the family so it was comfortable and the therapist was amazing too. But maybe its possible that this man was not a God or a super guru, but somehow created a good therapy. 🤔
@robynfergus7008
3 жыл бұрын
Here is the link to part 2 kzitem.info/news/bejne/uqKMzH-YbJVlnag. Put is in more context
@jeannetet3762
Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for the link!
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Aquí esta el enlace para la parte 2 kzitem.info/news/bejne/uqKMzH-YbJVlnag. Lo pone en más contexto
@Adriana-vq9qn
5 жыл бұрын
Did i understand wright? Does he say no mother no partner? Is it that every relationship starts at the mother? This is very interesting to me! I have two sons i adópted and the relationship its been very dificult... specially the first or older. He holds lots of ánger against me, but i think its to the biological Mom.... Thanks for your input or Help!
@AdailtonSalvatoreMeira
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Peter. Thanks for your words. If there is "lots of anger" coming from you older son, there is something that is not well aligned with the order of love. The orders of love of the Family Constellation. If you are interested I can help you, and we can do an online session to look over this question, putting light over it, and letting the feelings come out, and then to direct them into a more healthier direction. Usually we are not aware of our own questions, and an outside look can help. If this make sense to you you can get in touch with me by email: adailtonmeira@me.com And visit my website also, if you want: www.adailtonmeira.com (portuguese)
@tiffami0412
Жыл бұрын
Have you checked out the videos regarding adoption? Adoption causes problems for both the parents who gave up the children and the ones who adopt them. Your issues can be solved through family constellation.
@smilingeyes384
Жыл бұрын
I had a mother who rejected me from birth because of my gender. She wanted me to replace her twin sons, lost immediately following birth. As a female, I could not oblige her. I either had to give up on having a mother, or having my gender--or, perhaps to apply Hellinger's logic a step further, give up on life to agree with my mother. I don't see how "no mother, no partner" helps me approach my situation.
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Yo tuve una madre que me rechazó desde mi nacimiento debido a mi género. Ella quería que yo reemplazara a sus dos hijos gemelos, a quiénes perdió inmediatamente después de haber nacido. Como mujer, no podía complacerla. Yo tenía que, o dejar de querer tener una madre, o dejar mi género -- o tal vez, aplicando, un paso más, la lógica de Hellinger,, dejar de querer tener una vida para estar de acuerdo con mi madre. No veo como el "sin madre, no hay pareja" me ayuda a abordar mi situación.
@padmagonzalez3618
6 ай бұрын
He's amazing !! Very honest
@Adriana-vq9qn
5 жыл бұрын
Muito Obrigado.../thank you so much for your answer...! Actually I booked an appointment or constellation in a private session!!! It’s due tomorrow! I might let you know what I got clear from that! Sincerely , Maria 🙏
@AdailtonSalvatoreMeira
5 жыл бұрын
yes. Tell me latter how it was.
@tulasideviful
5 жыл бұрын
@@Adriana-vq9qn Thanks for sharing. How are you doing now with your nightmares and sleeping apnea? I'm suffering from something similar.
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Muchas gracias (portugués). Muchas, muchas gracias por tu respuesta...! De hecho, hice una cita para una constelación en una sesión privada!!! Es para mañana! Tal vez les diga lo que obtuve de claridad de eso! Sinceramente, Maria
@1gaia
5 жыл бұрын
Is there some context for this? I feel I am missing something? This comes off as cruel and ignoring the nuance of this woman's life. He seems to simultaneously be saying that having a partner is dependent on having a relationship with your mother and then blaming this woman for not being able to have a partner...? Has she rejected her mother?? This does not come off as tough love, or harsh truth. What did he know about this woman? Is she in on this? She seems very distressed. Why is he making an example of her "If you have a client like her..." and goading her, and laughing at her, rather than caring about her as a human being? Because she was chewing gum? Is he really this ego-driven? He seems very self-satisfied. He's almost ridiculing her, and certainly publically humiliating her. He's said he's observed she's suicidal, so is it not unscrupulous to treat someone who's suffering, like this? She could go home and commit suicide as a reaction. This is outrageous. I'd really be interested in learning the context before actually judging this approach.
@lillianasmith3613
4 жыл бұрын
You clearly don't understand therapy and the the process
@1gaia
4 жыл бұрын
@@lillianasmith3613 What a weird, baseless inference. I'm just not in blind deference to anyone. Bert Hellinger was not god. I'm perfectly at liberty to question his M.O.
@coktale
4 жыл бұрын
@@lillianasmith3613 agreed.
@luizaiwanska3035
3 жыл бұрын
@@lillianasmith3613 This is not a therapy.
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
I know. Thanks to express this , I see I am not the only one who thinks this man was actually quite cruel and horrible to people. Read things he wrotte about suicide because my cousin killed herself. All I read made fall even deeper into depression. His therapy is good but his ideas were pretty horrible. I cant understand why is he seen as a wise guru. The world is crazy😅
@Counselingforlife
4 жыл бұрын
If mother is abusive - 10 of the major adverse childhood traumas due to mother and lack of protection and unconsciousness. I accepted and gave been happily married 35 years - now estranged from mother due to her cruelty and narcissism- I am ok - marriage is ok. How does this make sense then. I have done constellations with Bert in Austria....
@CzKoTe
4 жыл бұрын
I think the key is that "you accepted it"... you made peace with the situation with regards to your mother, you "released" the negative emotions, and now it's just a "story/fact" without any emotions attached. You were able to move on. Not everyone is capable of doing so, or perhaps they don't know how to do it, and some guidance is needed. If one don't release the anger/fear/resentment/frustration, it will be carried with that person, and all the emotions will manifest in one way or another. We don't know how this session with this women ended. I sure hope she realized, just as you, that she needs to take responsibility in her hands, learn to let go and move on, and she'll have a better chances of having a more enjoyable life (having a partner and kids, as she stated), just as you did. Nobody can do that for her. It's her mind, her feelings. You are a great role model for her!
@luizaiwanska3035
3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. What if mother rejects the child? Where is his explanation on that part?
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot to share that! I dont understand how this man is so cruel to that woman who is crying, acusing her of just wanting an easy life with no obligations when maybe she just had an abusive mother. If a mother is extremely abusive it is unbearable for the kids to be close to her and be hugely abused every time. Some people cant be close to their parents because the parents are terrible and that is ok nobody deserves to be constantly abuse and if you are a mother you dont have the right to abuse your kid just because its your kid.
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
@@CzKoTe wise explanation
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Sabrina Kindell Si la madre es abusiva, uno de los 10 principales traumas negativos de la niñez, debido a la madre, a su falta de protección y a su inconsciencia. Yo lo acepté y he estado felizmente casada durante 35 años. Ahora, alejada de ella debido a su crueldad y su narcisismo. Yo estoy bien, mi matrimonio está bien. Cómo es que esto tiene sentido ahora? Yo he hecho Constelaciones con Bert en Austria.
@tatianapassosterapeuta
3 жыл бұрын
thank you so much
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Muchísimas gracias
@kristinawalla
3 жыл бұрын
seriously?? is there not a part2 video ? Did the person representing her in a constellation reject her mother , or what. Otherwise ,why is he being so smug and putting her thru this ?
@margaballario4919
2 жыл бұрын
kzitem.info/news/bejne/uqKMzH-YbJVlnag
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
to part 2 kzitem.info/news/bejne/uqKMzH-YbJVlnag. part 2
@kristinawalla
Жыл бұрын
@@jardindeconstelaciones5799 thank you !
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
en serio?? no hay un video parte 2? Es que la persona que la representaba a ella en una constelación rechazó a su mamá, o qué. Si no fuera así, por qué él está siendo tan presumido o haciendo que ella pase por esto?
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
Why does he assume the mother is always an inocent angel and the kids are guilty or not even deserving to be happy? Maybe that woman's mother was extremely abusive. I know people that their mothers literally tortured them and they have physical scars. People who receive the worse insults from their mothers. Do they just have to be blamed for not having a relationship with her? Maybe a person who went through an abusive mother needs compassion and understanding and not to be guilted and blamed publicly like that? I had good parents but to me it never made sense that a mother can abuse her kids as much as she wants and somehow the blame is on the kids. Doesnt the mother maybe have a responsability to treat her kids well and the kids have the right also to be happy away from her? I had an awsome dad. However, some people had horrible dads. I have a good relationship wirh my dad. Does that mean I am better than somebody who doesnt? No! My dad was good to me. Maybe if he wasnt I wouldnt be able to be close to him. Having a good relationship with your parents speaks more about THEM than about you. Also my mother died when I was 2. What would happen to me then?
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Dream catchers Porque él siempre supone que la madre es un ángel inocente y que los niños son culpables, o que ni siquiera merecen ser felices? Tal vez la madre de esa mujer fue extremadamente abusiva. Yo conozco gente que sus madres es torturaban literalmente y tienen heridas físicas. Personas que recibieron los peores insultos de sus madres. Debe culpárseles por no tener una relación con ella, con la madre? Tal vez una persona que pasó eso con una madre abusiva necesita compasión y entendimiento y que no se le haga sentir culpable, ni culpar de manera pública como él lo hizo? Yo tuve buenos padres, pero para mí nunca tuvo sentido que una madre pudiera abusar a sus hijos como ella quiera y de alguna manera que la culpa se le eche a los hijos. No tiene acaso la madre una responsabilidad de tratar bien a sus hijos y los hijos tienen el derecho también de ser felices lejos de ella? Yo tuve un padre increíble sin embargo algunas personas tuvieron padres horribles yo tuve una buena relación con mi padre significa eso que soy mejor que alguien que no lo tuvo No mi padre fue Bueno conmigo. tal vez si no lo hubiera sido no podría estar cerca de él. el tener una buena relación con tus padres habla más acerca de ellos que acerca de ti. También mi madre murió cuando yo tenía dos años que me hubiera pasado a mí entonces?
@YFL.111
Жыл бұрын
@@jardindeconstelaciones5799 ajajaja amigo porque me traduces los comentarios? tengo curiosidad
@anaodojardimdasaflicoes5883
2 жыл бұрын
Gee, this is painful to watch. She should look for proper counseling with a therapist, not quack treatments.
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Añao do jardim das afliçoes Por Dios, esto es muy doloroso de ver. Ella debería buscar asesoría adecuada con un terapeuta no con tratamientos fraudulentos.
@reflectingqueen
3 жыл бұрын
wow, remarkable.....no relation with mother, no partner!
@YFL.111
2 жыл бұрын
What happens if your mother died or if you are adopted then?
@Deeploveofreality
Жыл бұрын
Viele tolle Bert Hellinger auf meiner Seite, komm rein
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Alma dice (en alemán) muy increíble BH, por mi parte, llega completo
@luizaiwanska3035
3 жыл бұрын
Can someone explain why both (woman and man) are silent and why she is crying please? What is going on behind what they're doing? What and why is Hellinger saying these things to her? I will appreciate the answer :) Thank you!
@AdailtonSalvatoreMeira
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Luiza. SHe is crying because she realized the problem. She felt that he was right. She had a problem for not accepting her mother as she is. It is a family constellation exercice, and she was looking at the ground not for the man, she is not prepared for a relationship, although she wants one partner. Is you want a family constellation session I can provide it for your, email me at salvatoremeira@gmail.com
@darlenemontgomery9337
2 жыл бұрын
One must take their mother to take their life.
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Both, woman and man (Mr. Hellinger) are silent because what he said to her made an impact on her. He asks her if she thought of committing suicide and she said that when she was younger she did consider doing it. This is also the reason why she is crying. She felt understood and accepted. I am guessing she hadn´t told anybody about those thoughs. And he says those things to her, because he is right. It is easier to not have any type of obligations towards other persons.
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Me traduzco a mí misma. Tanto la mujer como el hombre (el Sr. Hellinger) están en silencio porque lo que él le dice a ella le impacta a ella. Él le pregunta si ella ha pensado en suicidarse y ella responde que cuando estaba mucho más joven, sí lo consideró hacerlo. Esto es también el motivo por el cual ella está llorando. Ella se sintió entendida y aceptada. Supongo que ella no se le había dicho a nadie acerca de esos pensamientos. Y él le dice lo que le dice, porque él tiene la razón. Es más fácil no tener ningún tipo de obligaciones hacia las demás personas.
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Luiza, ¿Puede alguien explicarme por qué tanto el hombre como la mujer se quedan en silencio y porque ella está llorando? ¿Qué está sucediendo más allá de lo que están haciendo? ¿Por qué está Hellinger diciéndole estas cosas a ella? Aprecio la respuesta. Muchas gracias
@maktub08
Жыл бұрын
I found it cruel and insensitive the way he talked to her with no hope but dead. I think it is vitally important to differentiate healing the 'relationship' and healing the 'bond' without having to integrate the mother as part of our daily life in this case. There are mothers who do not want to be mothers, and who are a danger to the child/adult. We can honor the fact that she was the conduit to be born, but only that and continue with our lives with no resentment, bitterness and guilt. I think he failed by not providing that information to her.
@felenavl
Жыл бұрын
He's being very professional. She wanted to work it out but didn't want to endure her pain... Hellinger can't help her unless she accepts that her mother deserves respect. This will be the start of her healing. Everything he says is for her to process this concept of forgiving; there is nothing else he can do until then. The pity will only make her feel more compassion for herself, and she will be stuck in these emotions forever. This is not an easy subject, and she has to be ready to go through a lot of pain if she wants her life back.
@valexwalker
5 ай бұрын
@@felenavlWell said. It’s a hard truth but it’s true nonetheless.
@stellamariscaputo6310
4 жыл бұрын
PODRÁN TRADUCIR,?POR FAVOR GRACIAS
@jardindeconstelaciones5799
Жыл бұрын
Más vale tarde que nunca, por fin me di tiempo de traducirlo. Gracias por haber hecho la petición... No sé si vaya a leer las traducciones. Sin embargo, traduje, me parece, la mayoría.
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