Lol, LA is great if you’re rich or loaded and you like the shallow culture, otherwise its an avoid! Other than that great tips 😂😂
@js83
2 жыл бұрын
I used to love LA until the events of last 2 years made me wanna gtfo here soon as possible. You never know when this place is gonna go on another lockdown type bs...even tourists are probably visiting TX or FL more often nowadays where everything is open.
@SuisLBC
Жыл бұрын
Regardless it’s a good city for Asian guys still
@CommandoMaster
27 күн бұрын
NYC is too hustle and bustle
@ethannaka1822
2 жыл бұрын
yo no lie, this camera set up / lighting with the fresh cut and outfit is looking clean bro. Your best look I've seen yet.
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks brotha - appreciate the support per usual Ethan 🙏
@QBPassportFlexin
2 жыл бұрын
If Asian guys want "better" success in Mexico, I recommend the following cities - Mexicali - Mexico City - Guadalajara I have two Asian friends dating hot Latinas in Mexicali and Mexico City. I have met Mex/Asian mixed women in Guadalajara.
@iphoneopengles
2 жыл бұрын
I love Guadalajara, and soon gonna check out Mexicali. Good advice here.
@QBPassportFlexin
2 жыл бұрын
@@iphoneopengles check out the channel 😎👊🏿 also
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing QB! What makes a city in Mexico better than others for geomaxxing?
@QBPassportFlexin
2 жыл бұрын
@Rick Sin You don’t need to change your life moving to Mexico nor chase a bunch a women. There are other options depending on what you like. There are other reasons to move to Mexico…..cost of living…..beaches…..weather…….etc. The video is referencing “geomaxing” where men can have better results with women. Mexico is another place.
@QBPassportFlexin
2 жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation Great question! For some dudes, the territory does matter if women find you attractive here (USA). In general, women are going to find you attractive in other places. I posted a video recently responding to Alpha Male Lifestyle (AML). He represents the Muslim/Indian crowd of youtube. He has height of 6’4, however a bit overweight at 255. He was not having success in places like Cancun, Playa Del Carmen, Tijuana, and other places in Europe. Until he finally when to small state in Mexico called “Chipas”. In that area, the people are shorter than the average height. His present made him stand out and he was able to meet a girl with whom he is currently in a romantic relationship. As you mention, guys need to be in shape. And height is not everything if you don’t have decent physic and face. In summary, depending on the individual physical SMV territory may not matter, but for others, a remote location could have better results.
@tre4993
2 жыл бұрын
Great video Giga-Chang.
@WheresWes
2 жыл бұрын
THANKS FOR THE SHOUT-OUT MY BOY
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Of course - you're out here making marriage great again!
@justjordiano
2 жыл бұрын
Good video man. I have a slightly different perspective as a half white and half Asian guy. I've lived in America but last year I moved to Moscow after 11 years in the UK due to my job. The war made me leave Russia but my experience there was very good dating wise. I don't struggle that much in London (only 0.6% of the UK shares my ethnic background) but when I was in Moscow I was matching with girls left and right. And I'm now back in London I've matched with at least 10 Ukrainian refugees. Unfortunately, a lot of Eastern Europe is now off limits but just thought I'd provide that angle as hopefully one day the situation improves.
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing - I've heard good things about dating in Eastern Europe for Asian guys
@littlestockguys7290
Жыл бұрын
Wow dude, you nailed it. Wish I saw this years ago
@RussX5Z
2 жыл бұрын
Overall great content and good video Josh! And I also want to thank you for making this great channel for Asian American men that struggle with women in the U.S.. As a fellow Asian American man myself who is fairly decent looking and in great shape , I always thought I have no chance as a shorter Asian man in dating (I'm your height btw Josh 5'6 and a half) Anyways I'm older than you I'm 42 but I look much younger than my age like I look like I'm in my early to mid 30's. Anyways your channel deserves a lot more views, likes, and subscribers. I believe one of the reasons for this is because there are still not many Asian men that prioritize their dating/love, and sex life which is a shame. By the way I know you focus a lot on DMV (dating market value) on your channel, but I think you should focus more on SMV (sexual market value) because as Asian men we're always stereotyped as the nerd /virgin and instead what we should do is focus more on SMV because I feel it can break the Asian stereotypes because the term DMV does sound a little bit nerdy and dorky (just a little) again I'm not hating on you overall your content and your channel is very awesome for Asian men and I rate your channel a 8 and a half out of 10 maybe a 9 out of 10. Anyways keep up the good work Josh and thank you very much for putting more hope and confidence for us Asian men in the dating game! Peace brotha!
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Really appreciate the kind words Russ! Cool to see that my channel and message resonates with you, it sounds like dating really becomes easier 30+ (most of my friends are 30+ actually). Totally agreed that Asian men should strive to not be categorized as the typical stereotype as you've mentioned by improving their looks and becoming overall cooler guys. I primarily use the term DMV over SMV since SMV is a bit more fringe, but tbh the two terms are pretty interchangeable (at least the way I use them)
@RussX5Z
2 жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation Hey no problem Josh. And thank you for responding. And I hope I'm not repeating myself from my previous comment but as a Asian man I always have self defeating thoughts constantly in my head that it's over for me because of my race and my height. And you and Mike (Squattin Casanova) esp. you, remind me that as a Asian man (who isn't even ugly!) 😲that I still have hope in my dating, love and sex life. By the way you have a lot of balls to do what you are doing Josh by putting yourself out here on KZitem esp. as a Asian man. I myself am still too chicken-shit to do what you are doing by putting myself out there. So big applaud to you Josh for paving the wave for us Asian men!! Anyways maybe one day I might chat or speak on discord on Asian male dating issues or the Black Pill who knows. By the way I did discover your channel a few months back but I was too busy with my full time job so I had to postpone when it came to leaving a comment on your channel because as you can see I do type quite a lot. 😃Anyhow that's all I got to say for now, so have a good one Josh! Peace. ✌
@leetraviusmckay314
2 жыл бұрын
Honolulu is the best for all types of Asian males
@wilkesmcdermid7906
2 жыл бұрын
Not really I'm just traveled there last month. I saw lots and lots of WMAF and four AMWF and two of thr AMWFs were elderly.
@WheresWes
2 жыл бұрын
Great vid bro, no other Asians are doing what u r
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks brotha - same to you with what you're doing on your channel 😎
@skubastevoo
2 жыл бұрын
nice should do an international version too🙌
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Great idea - noted for a future video!
@j0nrages851
2 жыл бұрын
I'm married now, but this gives a lot of perspective for the difficulties I had while dating
@dekamaster100
2 жыл бұрын
It's crazy, back around 2014-2015, I heard about how many AMWF couples there were in Seattle and it seemed like the AMWF capital. Now I only hear negative things about Seattle for Asian guys. So weird
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
I lived in the Midwest during that time, but when I moved back to Seattle in 2019, it was definitely not the AMWF capital anymore 😂
@wilkesmcdermid7906
2 жыл бұрын
They are more Men than women there. People say NYC is great for AM. It's not infact I think it's among the top 5 worst and even worse than Seattle.
@the_dev_hooper
2 жыл бұрын
Nice segue for choice #1
@alexandertraveler510
2 жыл бұрын
That’s why I went to Brazil, from uk
@YZsTravelAdventures
2 жыл бұрын
Brazil is the way to go my man :D
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Nice which city in Brazil?
@anonymousvine4105
2 жыл бұрын
Great video! I’m thinking of getting a place near NYC now.
@savageman819
2 жыл бұрын
As an Asian dude who goes to Austin for college… Austin is liberal asf lol. Yeah there’s a ton of things to do here but dating never worked out for me, not even getting any matches on dating apps here.
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
That's interesting, I've heard really good things about Austin from people who lived there for many years. Are your online dating profiles optimized?
@javiersaenz1040
2 жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation Austin is like LA. Too many gay people in Austin
@donshin9276
Жыл бұрын
anywhere but US, Canada, and Australian for asian guys
@jjsan27
2 жыл бұрын
Nice video. Lived in LA whole life and I think being an Asian guy is great for trying to date asian women (Hawaii is prob the best) but interracial is harder and not worth it, especially for an average asian dude. For LA, it's "just be jacked" or "just be tall chad/chadriguez/chang etc" ... otherwise get off the apps and socialmaxx lol.
@alexandertraveler510
2 жыл бұрын
Dating app in anglosphere is difficult
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'd imagine if you're not gymmaxxed in LA, it's a different ball game unless you're cloutmaxxed
@michaeldyoung5788
Жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation So LA is not a good place for interracial dating for Asian guys then?
@miked.2401
2 жыл бұрын
Nice video
@marlonelias
2 жыл бұрын
He’s good looking!.!.
@Android-dd7if
2 жыл бұрын
Hong Kong, Tokyo, and Seoul
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
What type of guys are these cities best for? Assuming white collar workers and professionals
@Android-dd7if
2 жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation For Asian dudes my man.
@TheArtofWill082
2 жыл бұрын
Seoul worked for me as I got engaged there, but it just didn’t work out once social media started to go viral. You might have a chance in Japan, especially with Christmas Cake women as no Japanese man wants to commit to them.
@OzPozzy278
2 жыл бұрын
@@Android-dd7if If i only speak english? Maybe HK would fit in
@CommandoMaster
27 күн бұрын
NYC is too hustle and bustle - terrible for dating if ur not super rich, high status, and good looking/tall.
@kevinsinclair748
6 ай бұрын
I am Part Korean and live in the Seattle Area and you are absolutely right about the perception of Asian Guys in the Pac NW. Also People ask me why I don't date Asian Women or would consider dating Asian Women and I will tell them most Asian Women here do not date guys who are Asian or Part Asian.
@borutokhanzna9739
2 жыл бұрын
Hey Josh, I’m going to LA for a trip next week. Should I download tinder when I reach there or before?
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
I'd download Tinder before you get there so you can set-up dates ahead of time
@Lemonsplats
Жыл бұрын
As an East Asian girl looking to date an East Asian guy for the first time, I found this video pretty helpful! For anyone curious about the mid-west, Colorado's population is primarily white and Hispanic.
@ChangNation
Жыл бұрын
Glad you found the video helpful and thanks for sharing about Colorado! What changed in terms of your dating preferences?
@Lemonsplats
Жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation Story time (sorta): I've found an appreciation for and desire to connect more with my heritage in the past couple of years. I was adopted from China at a very young age by a white family (thankful now that my parents kept my Chinese name instead of giving me an English one), but I've always felt a disconnect, like I wasn't "Asian enough" to hang out with the Asians. But now that I'm older, I just really want to connect with more people who look like me. Plus, I think Asian features are soooo beautiful, in men and women. And I think that less flashy, more subdued masculinity in Asian men is the sexiest kind of masculinity imho.
@wilkesmcdermid7906
2 жыл бұрын
NYC when I went there it was the 3rd most amount WMAF I've seen. Also saw a total of Zero AMWF couples. Even saw more WMAFs more than AMAF.
@Xilladan093
Жыл бұрын
Cuz its democrat and lib. Notice the trend
@kpopgigachad
8 ай бұрын
Mixed Asian guy here. Currently I've been trying to go out in a small US city where it's 78% white and I get shot down around 95% of the time when I approach in the club. Meanwhile in Thailand I get called handsome left and right by pretty young girls and have 10x the results. Geomaxxing is really #1 when it comes to maxxing.
@angelaj1791
2 жыл бұрын
I’m in Seattle, more than half of my Asian female friends prefer Asian guys than white guys.
@lemagnifique1573
2 жыл бұрын
It means majority people prefer to date/marry someone with the same background
@TheArtofWill082
2 жыл бұрын
@@lemagnifique1573 no, it means her friends are the exception to the rule.
@WillsThoughts
Жыл бұрын
Ive thought and talked about this a lot. The one thing I wish there was more of was data controlled by age/ethnicity/size
@ChangNation
Жыл бұрын
Agreed - it's difficult to find solid dating-related data
@WillsThoughts
Жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation No, I meant it's out there, but no one has done the work to post it. There's tools like city data. I think I do it, just don't post it on social
@lemagnifique1573
2 жыл бұрын
What cities do you recommend for Asian-Muslim (Indonesian, Malaysian, Pattani Thai, Mindanao Filipinos) guy?
@33hunting
9 ай бұрын
Hey Josh, have you been to Canada ? What do you think of dating scene for asian guys in Canada ?😅
@KwanFung
2 жыл бұрын
weren't you in Toronto before? how is that compared to NY?
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
I've never lived in Toronto before so not sure
@monchichipower6334
Жыл бұрын
I'm asian guy and I lived in Toronto near dupoint station I was always in downtown area and it's good city Eatons centre Yorkdale
@kpopgigachad
8 ай бұрын
Also with LA you have Asian street gangs so I think that makes for a more masculine positive stereotype.
@ceeIoc
2 жыл бұрын
NYC is great for dating, horrible for relationships. It's basically dating apps x100000. Why no mention of Vegas?
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Interesting, why's that? I think Vegas is a good city if you're looking for something casual, but isn't the best for relationships given the transient nature of the city, along with smaller population
@ceeIoc
2 жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation Too many choices makes you picky and always look for a shinier object.
@yoyesmybrotga7096
2 жыл бұрын
Chicago good too
@Jimmynguyen659
Жыл бұрын
About Austin TX, it’s mostly white here & I do see Asian with white girls. Since you’re saying Latina with Asian men, that’s going to be San Antonio for you my guy.
@IRONNECK5
2 жыл бұрын
What cities do you recommend for indian guys
@Android-dd7if
2 жыл бұрын
Sri Lanka
@savageman819
2 жыл бұрын
Maybe Bay Area or Texas?
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
I'd assume Indian guys would do well in NYC, Chicago, cities in Texas such as Austin or Houston
@tabeebyeamin9986
2 жыл бұрын
@@savageman819 why bay area?
@chankanyy924
2 жыл бұрын
I’m not even Asian why am I here
@deltablueprint3186
2 жыл бұрын
Also please 🙏 share the WORST Cities for Asian Men to Find Dates.
@Android-dd7if
2 жыл бұрын
Any American/European city
@leetraviusmckay314
2 жыл бұрын
Baltimore and Detroit 🤣😂
@savageman819
2 жыл бұрын
I know some people might say Kansas… but as someone who used to live there it’s really not bad!
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Good suggestion - wrote this down for a future video topic!
@loganmiller6879
2 жыл бұрын
Have you tried any Canadian Cities
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
I'm not too familiar with Canada, I'd assume Vancouver BC is similar to Seattle and Toronto is comparable to NYC
@loganmiller6879
2 жыл бұрын
@@ChangNation Vancouver is kinda like LA too in the sense that it attracts the film industry as a filming location. You also have actors and actresses based there
@marketingopswill2738
2 жыл бұрын
you need to control for age, race, gender, everything when you decide a city. no need to come up with some name for it like geomaxing either
@a55tech
2 жыл бұрын
if u set ur location to a different city b4 visiting, what u tell the girls? that u visiting & if they wanna meet up? Or that u live there and not available till next week.
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
I'd just say visiting since it's best to be transparent - can also lead to convo about the city
@provian
2 жыл бұрын
Looking good man 👌 no homo
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro (no homo)
@wilkesmcdermid7906
2 жыл бұрын
I don't know the best cities but I know the worst. Threw worst are 1. Boston 2. DC 3. NYC All those cities WMAF outnumber AMWF 30000 to 1 and even outnumber AMAF
@Xilladan093
Жыл бұрын
Cuz its democrat and lib. Notice the trend
@Xilladan093
Жыл бұрын
That's a weird number. Or overexaggerating like everything else cuz ya life sucks and u got to pull others down
@wilkesmcdermid7906
Жыл бұрын
@@Xilladan093 Grow up and goto bed boy.
@LaughLab365
2 жыл бұрын
Kyiv, Warsaw, Medellin
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Do you recommend any other cities in Eastern Europe or South America or are those the big three?
@TheArtofWill082
2 жыл бұрын
Check out Where’s Wes’s KZitem channel. He is a Chinese guy who got married in Colombia and he does not recommend dating in Medellin and other metro cities there.
@rhythmandacoustics
2 жыл бұрын
Any city is good as long as you are taller in average, more good looking than the competition, I have no idea about your suggestions but most guys in California have a hard time dating. Just be taller and better looking than most of the competition. If you can't it will all be about proximity meaning time spent with your date.
@portalplayer
2 жыл бұрын
one thing i disagree with you about. When you said, a lot of Asian girls like asian guys, i had a big giant laugh! It definitely isnt true anymore, especially here in San Francisco. East Asian women (specifically chinese) tend to date and marry outside their race more than ever before in all parts of the world actually.
@javiersaenz1040
2 жыл бұрын
🤣 Lmao I am from Texas
@leetraviusmckay314
2 жыл бұрын
Tila Tequila was ABG and she never dated Asian males 😔
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
She's also a flat earther 😂
@Ishbu101
2 жыл бұрын
She's gross
@TheArtofWill082
2 жыл бұрын
They can have her.
@portalplayer
2 жыл бұрын
Tila Tequila is a typical East Asian woman.
@justjordiano
2 жыл бұрын
I fully get why you're stuck to American cities as you're American and I imagine 99% of your audience is American too but suggesting foreign cities could make for a good video. Anywhere in Brazil would do - I had a Brazilian flatmate (roommate) and Brazilians are very receptive to Asians. London is very competitive so only if fully maxxed out looks but other cities in the UK are good too. And maybe Singapore as it's very diverse and as an Western Asian you'd be pretty unique especially if you're not Chinese in any way.
@wilkesmcdermid7906
2 жыл бұрын
I had a BJJ Instructor from Brazil tell me AM do alright in Brazil with women.
@justjordiano
2 жыл бұрын
@@wilkesmcdermid7906 what’s BJJ? I’m just basing my Brazil comments off my good Brazilian friend - she introduced me to every Brazilian in town which went well. Admittedly it’s not very scientific
@wilkesmcdermid7906
2 жыл бұрын
@@justjordiano Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu
@solidsnake497
2 жыл бұрын
Move to the country
@ChangNation
2 жыл бұрын
Which country?
@OzPozzy278
2 жыл бұрын
What country?
@vdengineering2666
2 жыл бұрын
I assume same logic for indians lol
@portalplayer
2 жыл бұрын
nope. i see indian men having a lot of success in dating, especially white and asian women. I notice a lot of Indian men with white women actually.
@kwolf2145
2 жыл бұрын
In terms of being in a diverse City, yes. But in the U.S Indian guys are more married then Indian women by 10k so they don't have the issues of East asian men in the U.S who are much less married then the women for each East asian group.
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