Exactly! All these men out here trying to get sex without courting us or making any effort to take us women out on proper dates.
@WotTheFluff
8 ай бұрын
big W to the guys who are fatherless but STILL KNOW how to treat women because he was aware of it and put effort to change / learn🙏🏽
@user-yup-you-are-human2
8 ай бұрын
This is hard for younger women to learn that arent experienced. Looking back -- I had lessons like this i learned the hardway
@MrsTruthTeller
8 ай бұрын
As a new mother, I realize that where society goes wrong is that we teach children this stuff too late in life. You almost have to indoctrinate your children if you want them to listen to you and it has to happen at a very young age. Like for instance, I think mothers should be talking to their daughters about relationships at the age of 8 years old at the youngest and 11 at the oldest. Children are extremely malleable at those ages and what you teach them then is more likely to stick forever. The problem that most of society deals with is that we try to teach some of the most crucial and important knowledge about life during the teenage years, when children are the most likely to reject anything you try to teach them. Then we say that they are “too young” to learn at the age that they are the most receptive and open to learn. It’s backwards.
@ak-47intelligence75
8 ай бұрын
Even with father figures in their lives, they are not held accountable for anything from a young age. Older mxn emphatise with younger mxn for mistreating and ab uzing wxmen. They do absolutely nothing and turn a deaf ear when wxmen complain of ab uze .
@snowycoldcool4115
4 ай бұрын
It's disgusting how many fathers will brag about protecting their daughters from boys. But will at the same time, teach their sons about how to use and treat other girls like shit.
@snowycoldcool4115
4 ай бұрын
The idea of fathers congratulating and high fiving their sons for getting laid is a perfect example of toxic masculinity. The fact that they view sex like that is very telling.
@snowycoldcool4115
4 ай бұрын
Also, if every father was against their daughter dating boys and didn't ever allow them to date, then who will their sons date? Other boys? I'm pretty sure these are the type of fathers that will blow a fuse if their son is gay.
@tishinahoneyblue5355
8 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@girlmeetsglam381
8 ай бұрын
Yep
@girlmeetsglam381
8 ай бұрын
I love how they don't see value in women but was raised, cared for and loved by a whole single mother.
@nataliaw.1371
8 ай бұрын
What about men saying you are not woman „enough”? And attention seekers. I feel like some men suffer from lack of proper motherhood as well. Hard to tell if it is or it isn’t our job to give them warmth they didn’t have?
@yanzi8543
8 ай бұрын
It's not our job. It's their own. If they can't love and take care of themselves how should they take care of anybody else.
@nataliaw.1371
8 ай бұрын
@@yanzi8543 I just experienced it. Not being taken care of in need. He actually was able to take perfect care of himself though :)
@and93077
8 ай бұрын
How can you help a guy who insults you by saying ‘you’re not woman enough’. Why would you want to? Plus he’s definitely not going to ‘take’ the help from someone he considers ‘is not enough’. Also, I use to think that I could help people with (emotional) problems. But I’ve learnt, I’m not a trained therapist and what I’m feeling (that I label as help) is a form of arrogance.
@nataliaw.1371
8 ай бұрын
@@and93077 Precisely it was about maturity. What I heard decent men should make women feel more womenlike by adoration and respect. And another question was not strictly related. Agree about not helping the 'hopeless':) I meant feminine role in relationship.
@nataliaw.1371
8 ай бұрын
Not only therapists are qualified to help or make people feel better. My personal opinion. But some of them just don't deserve it/not ready/not willing to take. Not being pushy makes a difference too.
@jennies3rdpetdog527
8 ай бұрын
I am so glad I found your channel , for some reason you make me feel so valued and appreciated..love your videos 🍀🍀❤️
@obitouchiha6439
8 ай бұрын
I would say that the root of the problem is that too many people are being raised to be hyper dependent on other people, at all times, instead of striving to be self sufficient. As an able bodied adult, it's the individual's job to foster an agency of individual responsibility for anything that said individual is lacking of or is struggling with. This means that it's on the person to actively seek out the help that they need to overcome their emotional adversities and it is also the individual's responsibility to take measures to better themself, instead of dumping their baggage on to somebody who is not trained or obligated to take on. It will NEVER be anybody's obligation to be intimately involved with somebody out of pity, as that person's loneliness and unresolved daddy/mommy issues is NOT their problem.
@xiaoluning2070
7 ай бұрын
Spittin’ facts.
@htcheeto420
8 ай бұрын
what would you say about women that are fatherless, should we stick to fatherless men and suffer or is it cool for us
@haileyt857
8 ай бұрын
I'd personally say as long as all parties have actively tried to heal those daddy issues or are actively doing so while you meet them, it's fine. They have to know how to treat other people, including men cherishing the women they have romantic commitment to
@b_b_b5146
8 ай бұрын
Both parties have to heal themselves and their father wounds. If not, what's the point of having a relationship when both of you are unhealed? It will be a sh*t show.
@htcheeto420
8 ай бұрын
@@b_b_b5146 I agree but people with mental health/attachment issues are just as entitled to try for happy relationships as people that don’t god knows anyone can be part of a sh*t show
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