Great advice. My rule is simple: if the woman does not show me genuine, consistent interest I will dump her ass right away. No reason to beg or to ask for explanations. I go out with people who care for me and make my life better.
@axo6010
7 жыл бұрын
Sound, fatherly advice from a man who's seen it all. Thank you, Bill.
@SmokeRingsPipeDreams
10 жыл бұрын
A lot of people do this, ... it's rude. But take the hint and move on.
@dharmaboy75
10 жыл бұрын
Love this guy. Just a stand up dude.
@ashokshankar6427
7 жыл бұрын
Are yyyou making these mistakeeees with your man? twitter.com/385c9d4a1ae33a7b8/status/804693412402241537 Bill Burr Adviceee Relationships And Breaking Up
@iAmEdwinHamilton
6 жыл бұрын
Nothing’s better than being ghosted by someone, then they text you 2 months later, and you delete the text with no response.....aaahhhh....awesome feeling....😂
@Marksman2oo7
7 жыл бұрын
Yeah, i had one that didn't do me that favor. Waisted 3 years of my life just using me like a slave. Every break up is a blessing!
@shallnoTfear
7 жыл бұрын
Ghosting is very rude and cruel. I would never do that to a guy. Also, have the balls to do it in person.
@andromedagalaxynebula5751
4 жыл бұрын
Put your money where your mouth is.
@EdwardGFunk
4 жыл бұрын
your mom ghosted me. not cool
@twt3716
3 жыл бұрын
Good for you Madam.
@michaelsieger9133
2 жыл бұрын
Literally no reason to do it in person unless you’re in a monogamous relationship for an extended period of time. After a few dates? A phone call more than suffices.
@princesurein7275
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah no need to do it in person if it's not an ltr but I really appreciate your respectful nature.
@119Elias119
10 жыл бұрын
I've had this happen to me. I wouldn't really mind, good riddance to some dead weight, but she has some of my favourite CDs and I want them back!
@patrickleslie6876
3 жыл бұрын
Damn.. 7 years ago.. lol
@lanerathwell
9 ай бұрын
I hope you got your cd’s back!
@lac2500
9 жыл бұрын
i i did this recently to a girl II've known for a while. We were friends (mistake! fuckin up!) and then I think we started to both catch feelings from all the time spent together. She led me on with innocent then sensual long kisses goodbye, etc. But then I noticed her pulling back, contact not at the same rate as before. So whether it be for vsrious reasons why she scaled back, I decided to do the same thing but more. I felt it was necessary that when she started taking One step back I should take two. she''s not being a count or anything like that, maybe she got wrapped up in something at a vulnerable time (last few years have been hectic for her) and I needed to just fall back because the more time pent like Bill says, the harder it hurts, and in the end you really do deserve better.
@Sealwithwificonnection
8 жыл бұрын
You did the right thing, honestly. If a girl makes distance, you double it. Don't give them the validation of you chasing after them, it feeds their ego and turns you into a bitch.
@BigGulps23
4 жыл бұрын
10 years ago ... holy shit. Timeless advice though
@BigGulps23
2 жыл бұрын
@@EventualWarlord wow, you can count! 👏🏽 👏🏽
@JM1675
5 жыл бұрын
Dark plot twist: she got kidnapped and was never seen again.
@kellyraye815
13 жыл бұрын
he's hilarious and very insightful. great advice, i love bill
@swill1020
8 жыл бұрын
Excellent advice... Simple logical and now explains why I too heard about the credenza being refinished.
@Norcalxx
12 жыл бұрын
this is actually amazing advice.
@kevinfarrell5100
6 жыл бұрын
I know the beginning and ending of these things.Every woman that crosses my path I just enjoy the ride till of ends.
@LilMotegi
14 жыл бұрын
Brutal honesty.
@beaniiii
12 жыл бұрын
this ... this is the truth. thankyou
@MrKillerDuckful
14 жыл бұрын
Awesome advice
@hermunkulus
2 жыл бұрын
This was 12 years ago and it’s still aged like wine.
@eletcherful
12 жыл бұрын
It's not okay to disappear. It fucks with their head so it's confusing and then painful for a long time instead of like quickly ripping off the band aid. It's straight up unethical. The two times I have dumped girls I did it right. I talked it through with them. It's not that hard, just prepare yourself. I have had girls break up with me by avoiding me or doing it through text. Sure it was when I was young but it's still cowardly and unethical at any age.
@phillytheflyerable
2 жыл бұрын
same here. it's sociopathic. she loves you one day and pulls away the other day or ghost you. I dated a girl, I had no feelings for her and when she mentioned it I said "something is missing, I don't want to lead you on or make you have hopes for something more serious. it's better if we don't have any contact for a while and do other stuff". it was best for me and for her
@gerrymcwilliam
4 жыл бұрын
Similar thing went on with me but it was eight months of dating and over a text. So yeah that stung a little. Plus no sign either.
@adrianh332
5 ай бұрын
Ghosting is horrific it happened to me its been a couple of years but im far from over it.
@htezerdi
14 жыл бұрын
wow, truly good advice
@Jboogie19
14 жыл бұрын
Damn, I like how that ended.
@knsummers
8 жыл бұрын
ghosting is the new fucking norm
@snicker576
7 жыл бұрын
Yep. I can't imagine being the person to do it, but it's happened to me quite a few times. I just don't think it's right
@FifiDosch
13 жыл бұрын
"She's repairing her credenza!"
@DoomsSDay49
4 жыл бұрын
Good advice 👍
@walterwhite3143
3 жыл бұрын
Caught feelings for a girl I’ve been dating for 2 months and now she doesn’t want anything to do with me, it sucks tbh.
@Heretic1981
5 жыл бұрын
Bill's withdrawal analogy is great. I got ghosted (year relationship), and the level of cowardice it requires has got to be pathological. They're like these people who just walk right off the job and go to these heroic lengths just to avoid janswering the phone, instead of saying "I quit, please stop calling here" and hang up. You don't even have to break it off by phone call, email and msging has been out forever. You write a little brief blurb, not more than 3 sentences, something to the effect of, "There's someone else, have a nice life." or "Not working out for me, don't wait up." or even "You suck, I never loved you." They get an explanation, closure, and you're not unplugging your phone and avoiding people at malls like some kind of agoraphobic 3 year old chickenshit. Adults don't communicate with "hints". Say what you do and don't want like a fucking grown up so it's completely unambiguous. They keep ringing you after you do that, THEN you block them. You did your duty, and it was probably less effort than making a panini. Fucking simple and chances are they'll respect you for it. I would have. Would have thought positive things about this person if they'd just broke it off with me with a simple little email. Would have been easier on both of us. Instead, when I think of that girl now, all I remember is what a selfish, pathetic rube she must have been. Took years to feel it but glad I dodged that bullet. Got a son and a daughter, and when they come of age they'll both know the best thing you can do when someone pulls back like that is to write them off, and if they try to come back and reestabilism contact, you ignore them.
@phillytheflyerable
2 жыл бұрын
brutal to be ghosted after 1 year... so cowardly and selfish
@Heretic1981
2 жыл бұрын
@@phillytheflyerable Yeah, she sucked. Found out later I was a placeholder waiting for a guy she'd been pining for for years and never mentioned. I coulda understood that if she'd just said so. But ghosting someone is just the ultimate way of removing any ambiguity, I think it's even more decisive than cheating, so I guess I'm glad it got simplified for me. You're telling someone they're not even worth a little common courtesy after everything
@tglaz1
12 жыл бұрын
After 7:00 all too true
@williamgrand9724
11 жыл бұрын
If you get her voice mail and you leave a message, ONLY DO IT ONCE!!!!! If she wants to hang out with you she will return your call. DON'T BE A MANGINA! even if it was 5 dates.
@ESPguytillidie
14 жыл бұрын
amazing advice.
@djn00nan
13 жыл бұрын
better goin out four or five times than goin out for four or five years then having something happen..
@Sealwithwificonnection
8 жыл бұрын
Sadly, most of the time when a woman drops you like a potato sack, she's *probably* got another dude lined up. Trust me, if you were the only option she wouldn't ditch you like that.
@phillytheflyerable
8 жыл бұрын
ALL women have more than one option, atleast these days if you are a decent looking woman guys are lined up.
@Thallium212
14 жыл бұрын
for fucking real, u the man bill
@KannibalBeats
13 жыл бұрын
hahaha fucking burr - - "She's repairing her credenza" haha
@PoohGizzle85
12 жыл бұрын
why is my youtube not working i cant play any of my favorite videos anymore
@aceshigh23650
14 жыл бұрын
Bill is so fucking awesome!
@notkevin7
4 жыл бұрын
Some will pull this shit over a year later. So very lucky.
@MikeKollin
11 жыл бұрын
How much do they charge? Thanks...
@Greggah
12 жыл бұрын
@TheHtennek Its usually because they want to keep you around "just in case". You shouldnt invest to much in women, thats the general idea I guess.
@MikeKollin
11 жыл бұрын
When I was younger, I use to be like your roommate. Now I am like you!!! hahahaha...
@rubbersole79
13 жыл бұрын
Bill is the fucking man!
@smartini13
13 жыл бұрын
AND YOU FINISH IN THERE, SON.
@bananasandwiches1493
4 жыл бұрын
Whatever you do, don’t carry shit around for 8 years. Coming from a guy whose done it.
@sullenday
13 жыл бұрын
haha keg party! "Nah man I'm fine, that bitch is just a keg party break up, nah mean?"
@copenukka
14 жыл бұрын
@efingr28 i literally busted out laughing when he said that.... what a fuckin man Bill Burr is!!!
@vaxan5126
11 ай бұрын
If you were paying for dinners you were a meal coupon my friend...
@lunasanja4574
4 жыл бұрын
lol, I have rarely accepted being ghosted and waited for those guys in front of their house to confront them about not calling back, lol. but i ghosted too, so whatevs.
@unrefusableoffer4412
4 жыл бұрын
I'm in awe at the speed at which women can just move on. Like godamn.
@prestonbane4176
3 жыл бұрын
They don't have much as much time to waste. And there's more options. I'm more confused when they hang on to a guy that's reticent. It's like, "don't you know you've got like three years left to find the real version of this fake dead end you're forcing?"
@hermunkulus
2 жыл бұрын
They have the upper hand. No matter what, there will be someone else in line as soon as she hits the market. We don’t have that luxury which plays a role in why the dating scene is harder for us.
@GuitarsRgood7
10 ай бұрын
If someone is that much of a coward, why would you want to be with them? Also, you shouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't care for you.
@zizmanjones3189
11 жыл бұрын
Why are you spamming almost 2 years too late?
@thejelbinator
13 жыл бұрын
Brad sent me.
@phillytheflyerable
7 жыл бұрын
I think she did it the right way, or atleast she could have said something. worst thing is breaking up for 3 weeks, slowly and painfully
@user-hi7ze9jg7e
5 жыл бұрын
6:20
@stevecarey2030
6 жыл бұрын
I don't even think it was necessarily cowardly of her. I mean I would get the hint after the first message but would still probably leave a second message just in case. Then I would know for sure she's not interested and move on. The alternative is she says look I'm seeing someone else or I'm just not feelin it. Would I feel any better if she did that. No. Either way I know the score.
@MRJTD99
4 жыл бұрын
K, coward.
@johnboylan3832
4 жыл бұрын
It is about respect.
@stevecarey2030
4 жыл бұрын
@@MRJTD99 How am I a coward idiot.
@soffer
3 жыл бұрын
# 1:47 burr drug addicts spend 20 years avoiding 10 days of pain
@kendianin23
13 жыл бұрын
Simple!, Simple!, Simple!. Just give it a big exploding jerk and move on.
@philburke8119
6 жыл бұрын
Go fire up the fucking grill and forget about it..
@allyjaaayy
4 жыл бұрын
As a girl who's ghosted a guy, I didnt wanna tell him I didnt wanna see him anymore because he knew where I loved and I was afraid he would so something if I told him. Granted, he could still do something if I said nothing but it's easier to provide no reason than tell someone for a fact u dont like them. I also think if you're in a relationship u should tell them u dont wanna talk anymore but if you've just gone on a handful of dates u dont really owe anyone anything.
@rectorragies540
4 жыл бұрын
Lol keep telling you that
@Twootys
2 ай бұрын
Selfish bitch
@AfroNinjaX
12 жыл бұрын
The fuck is a credenza!? Ain't even gonna google that shit is so random ,mind fuck city has been reached.
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