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@davenunyabusiness4893
2 жыл бұрын
Hot tip...this doesn't just happen to black folks. (women not being interested in the non apex members of the race)
@dicbaldup
2 жыл бұрын
Fantastic points
@TiVo2Go
2 жыл бұрын
@@dicbaldup BM get with WM and they are the same BM, they don't put Tom Cruise weaves in their head or talking different. BW get with WM and they soften their attitudes, weave it up because they feel ashamed with Brad and their mixed baby rocking their "good hair" and they gotta match, they even try talking like a Valley girl. We get the DMX attitude and a pit-bull in a skirt and they get the black Kim Kardashian
@crttsome7504
2 жыл бұрын
*He is wrong though.* I think you ignored this fact on purpose. The majority of men incarcerated are(drum roll) black males. *Because of that when ww take a bm. It's seen as betrayel because bm know the incarceration problem. Yet they still hookup with becky Knowing that there is a big surplus of bw!!!*
@17thN.O
2 жыл бұрын
Actually Kobe did. He right after he got married said "ya'll sistas didn't want me before, I'm married now ya'll cant have me".and flashed his ring. I saw it my self. Truth be told Kobe was a different type of dude. Even Vanessa caught the blues dealing with him and filed for divorce. I think none of the sistas complaining about him would've wanted him without the bread and lifestyle.
@femstauk8865
2 жыл бұрын
I wish black men will stop looking for validity from black women - just do you! #yolo
@mr.blademonktravels1880
2 жыл бұрын
Best comment here in my opinion.
@craker6787mnfnf
2 жыл бұрын
Please ! Thank you
@steviemak10
2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@blackhawk6695
2 жыл бұрын
Yup!! I stopped!! 25 years ago!!
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
BM are now looking at BW as thought leaders... it's really sickening... they can't break the umbilical cord.
@stevelumumbashabazzz5087
2 жыл бұрын
It’s true most BM who only date WW it’s not because they never found BW attractive it’s because for the majority of them BW never wanted them. So they go for chicks who gave them a chance
@thehiprabbit6091
2 жыл бұрын
Plus WW and other races of women are more appealing, fit and wife material than BW.
@jowill3508
2 жыл бұрын
BS. In order to *only* date WW while excluding your own race entirely shows that there is a deeper problem that one has within themselves; it may be rough for some BM to attract BW, however it’s even harder dating out because you’re fighting against negative stereotypes, their families not wanting you, etc.. Most people date within their own race and it’s been this way for centuries
@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa4842
2 жыл бұрын
@@jowill3508 so white men who only date Asian women have a problem? Why something must be wrong when a dude got a preference to a certain race?
@snaggymoplug5234
2 жыл бұрын
@@jowill3508 I can argue it’s even harder dealing with a bw family; daddy issues, gangs, baby momma drama, friends getting in the way , step children, etc
@thehiprabbit6091
2 жыл бұрын
@@jowill3508 That’s not true. BM are the second highest group to date outside their race while White men are the first highest. Hell, White men are even flying to countries like Cambodia, Honduras and Colombia to seek a wife. It’s not the 60s anymore .
@conwaystern911
2 жыл бұрын
Had a sista tell me I don’t make enough money per year, even though so made 15k more than her. She’s a major divestor and has yet to be married. My Mexican wife been down for 18 years. Good luck gentlemen.
@sidneywilder2731
2 жыл бұрын
divesters are messed up mentally most of the time they're single as ever,wishing on a 🌟 star
@Just-an-average_FBAB1
2 жыл бұрын
These women passed up on good educated, well mannered, intelligent brothers and called them thirsty, lame, nerdy etc. Now the women get older and want that same man. No... Good men are not going to clean up thier trash decisions in men.
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
Just because they're educated doesn't necessarily mean that they're good. They could be lacking in personality. Other races of women reject them too.
@jowill3508
2 жыл бұрын
@Mineo 76 True. It’s not so easy to just “date out” as they seem… We still have a very negative reputation as BM; a lot of these fools think that getting interracial sex is equal to a LTR/marriage with that person 🤣🤦♂️
@truthhurts3305
2 жыл бұрын
💯 You should check out Alex L Art’s pictures online which pretty much sums up everything you said lol BW always deny & dismiss this but actions speak louder than words. I actually know a few dudes who were never good enough for BW & today they successful & with WW who accepted them BEFORE they were rich
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
@@jowill3508 : Right and I see both BM and BW making that mistake. We have to face facts that other races see us a fetish. It seems that some us have forgotten the history of this country.
@jowill3508
2 жыл бұрын
@Mineo 76 Yup that’s really all it is. Some bedroom fun up until it’s time to live in reality 💯 Sex =/ marriage
@cjampack2011
2 жыл бұрын
My sister was with a white guy years ago and when she brought him over, I saw her and my other sister giving each other high fives and cheering like they just won a the Olympics. I didn't care and still don't, but it just shows that it's highly acceptable for them, but we have to be in line. Men...don't fall in line for these women! Live your own life.
@loulousworld92
2 жыл бұрын
Why do you automatically assume it’s because he’s white, why couldn’t it be literally because he’s a genuine nice guy. If all of her exes were black and the guys she brought over was black and they should have the same exchange of a high-five I don’t think you would have the same idea you would automatically assume it’s because it’s a nice guy but because he’s a white guy you have a problem. !!
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
Rebuke the matriarchy... a lot of guys can start by being independent thinkers... stop following their talking points... because they're dumb. Men don't "create single mothers." We don't let them tell us how to lead. We don't attack other dudes because their mouths are reckless or their feelings are hurt. There is no such thing as "toxic masculinity." Read more books, brothers and Stop simpin.
@KS-lb1tu
2 жыл бұрын
Who's waiting in line to be last place ?
@tercial
2 жыл бұрын
But it's funny because the white man was oppresing us not the white woman so it's different lol
@jermainegarnett3261
2 жыл бұрын
@C4Zero Wyt3 vv0m3n are just as culpable if not more in my eyes th@n the wyte man. Cause benefitting is a form of participation and they have benefited the m0st! But...
@alannurse7453
2 жыл бұрын
Once BW started thinking that cooking for their man on a regular basis was wife duties only, it was over. Meanwhile we have to break our back just to get noticed.
@harunrazak1179
2 жыл бұрын
Cooking is a basic life skill.
@constablekennedy7705
2 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t Agree More Fella and Well said ….. 👍🏿
@Jedilord882
2 жыл бұрын
I was dating this egyptian girl. She cooked for me and it was only the 4th time we had hung out. I was genuinely shocked.
@dabbydabby6484
2 жыл бұрын
*He's not lying.....some of these sista's out here will look down on a brotha that's educated and living a criminal free life ONLY to turn around 15-20yrs later 4 kids 4 baby daddies talking about they want a good man.... SMH*
@constablekennedy7705
2 жыл бұрын
Couldn’t have put it Better Myself Bro …..
@alecgurney9305
2 жыл бұрын
Seen this happen to many times. AND I'm from england!
@knatxkyngxkoldofficialpage3020
2 жыл бұрын
@Conquest Lmfaoooo they try to side step on that. They mention that last. I’m good. Lol
@kls701
Жыл бұрын
Bro most of us has had that experience
@dred9174
Жыл бұрын
@@kls701 it's like clockwork they only want the good men once we hit the finish line they never want us when we're building ourselves I.
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
They've been hearing the truth forever. They just prefer to gaslight.
@mr.duanesharpe
2 жыл бұрын
Nah. They are into “crystals” and “horoscopes” made by WHO? Marketed by WHO? Created by WHO? Published by WHO?
@constablekennedy7705
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly Bro and Well said
@freedmansjournal
2 жыл бұрын
The issue BW have with men marrying out is the loss of control. They are the gynocracy, BM having agency and leaving them behind is intolerable.
@jermainegarnett3261
2 жыл бұрын
Mmmmm
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
That and insecurity... nobody puts Becky on a throne more than BW... they think it's just about hair and skin color, when the connection is much more than that.
@angelac2228
2 жыл бұрын
@@KtotheG Bingo!
@jamesdicker2962
2 жыл бұрын
@@KtotheG 💯💯
@michaelparker9860
2 жыл бұрын
Yes😊
@miguelsanchezii297
2 жыл бұрын
A nicca calling another nicca feminine while having a bun on his head is pure comedy in itself
@logic9869
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@teebee6199
2 жыл бұрын
He talks like he's feminine as hell too, this guy is "SUS"
@carlforpresidentanthony4574
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@KingMe2
2 жыл бұрын
He was making an example…didn’t say anything derogatory about being feminine.
@tapiwakay
2 жыл бұрын
How would you describe the mannerisms he's pointing out.
@Cyber-Rain
2 жыл бұрын
If you weren't checking for them beforehand then don't be mad when they check for others afterwards. It's that simple.
@cboy-ou2hr
2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@jonathancue1584
2 жыл бұрын
Who cares if they mad, imma do me regardless. F THEM
@pietrycranberry6621
2 жыл бұрын
How does that work when there are like 50 million Black people in relation to 320 million general population of the U.S? It's weird some of y'all are making general comment from your personal problems. The generalities are the biggest issues,it's the excuses why Black folks want to distances themselves from other Black people instead of staying.
@cboy-ou2hr
2 жыл бұрын
@@pietrycranberry6621 the African American community generally normalizes dysfunction there are black men going over seas just to get a black woman this has a lot to do with personal experiences but more so with how on a macro level the black community is a hot mess the black community was sold a lie in Civil rights with feminism after that the nuclear black family has disappeared and quite frankly I don't think it's coming back anytime soon better to leave the westernized mindset behind and go where your celebrated also if a woman experienced rape as a young girl you would say her experience has lead to her perspective in life on men and why she treat men a particular way her personal experience has lead to that now when you flip it and say black men had a personal experience that lead to their perspective its like just throw the baby out with the bath water and say fuck your experience why can't we acknowledge some black men have had a particular experience that leads to their need to leave
@Cyber-Rain
2 жыл бұрын
@@pietrycranberry6621 the point is to go where you are appreciated. If a BW recognize a good BM and they form a relationship then that is great. If a BW can't recognize a good BM well that's on her. No one is owed having someone wait on them to finally get their head on straight.
@MozzieMutant
2 жыл бұрын
Childish Gambino fan here. he actually has songs where he said he tried it with Black women and they were not feeling him... what do they want him to do?
@longbeachmaumba7059
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. What the heck are you supposed to do if sistas view you as a nerd or geek? You keep is pushin and get with a chick that doesn't have a problem with that.
@Eddybo22
2 жыл бұрын
Keep it moving. Point. Blank. Period.
@mateaukalua4426
2 жыл бұрын
I fxck with Childish.
@jonathancue1584
2 жыл бұрын
@@longbeachmaumba7059 naw yall, we're supposed to wait around until they finally get smart and get some sense in their 30's and by then they have 5 to 6 kids by 5 to 6 baby daddies take them and their kids in with ALL their debt ,yall know the deal. FOH🙄 I AIN'T DOING IT!!!
@longbeachmaumba7059
2 жыл бұрын
@@jonathancue1584 🎯🎯🎯😁
@GAPOWERade
2 жыл бұрын
Focusing on interracial relationships and suggesting that other races of women are taking all of the “good black men” gives BW justification for being single, alone or for their past or present actions
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
BW also say all of "good BM" are dead or in jail.
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
@@ladyj9152 There is no white patriarchy. You just have an inferiority complex. Becky is your queen.
@steviemak10
2 жыл бұрын
It happened to 2Pac in the interview when he’s said from women that he was “too nice”. ‼️
@giganticomega6821
2 жыл бұрын
It was black women that said that to him. So he had to change how he acted toward black women to get with them. It's sad really.
@dubbcee1000
2 жыл бұрын
@@giganticomega6821 I've seen way too many good natured dudes do a complete 180 into the thug esthetic for female validation. Shit was always lame to me. Ironically I would be categorized as lame for not being a follower in high school. Lmao.
@iammeltedvengence1234
2 жыл бұрын
@@giganticomega6821 And also a funny thing about that is 2pac ( no homo ) wasn’t a unattractive dude. He was pretty nice looking guy. That shows you that black women have to many high damn standards.
@traviscarter1023
Жыл бұрын
@@iammeltedvengence1234 It might be some truth to that earlier in his career in the 90s like 91-92 black woman wasn't going crazy over him like that because he was on his black power ish. But soon as he shaved his head bold and started showing more of his body and tattoos and was in the streets heavy things change they fall out over him and he was was sleeping with all kinds of black woman. That's just how it goes some time. By 1995-96 every black woman in America wanted 2pac .
@anitaartis9591
4 ай бұрын
My husband and I got married right after college. I worked in my field. Until I had my 1st son. My husband's mom and dad were married for 25 years, and they were proffesionals. My mom was a professor, and my dad was an electrical engineer. We were all equally yoked. I had another son. 6 years later. I was " stay at home, mother" for my boys. We made it a habit to travel abroad with our children and both of our families' children. It is not pleasing to just marry anyone to bring into your family who does not come from a place to bring generational wealth into a black family. We all just have to try to do better.
@creigmacc
2 жыл бұрын
Men: Femininity is not to be ignored. Black Women: I'm a Boss Beach.
@steviemak10
2 жыл бұрын
Bruuuuhh😂
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
Here we go with the femininity excuse. All WW are not feminine and I've seen where BM get emasculated by them.
@creigmacc
2 жыл бұрын
@@mineo7668 here we go with the not all, excuses. Thanks for proving my point, have a glorious day at the Beach.
@jowill3508
2 жыл бұрын
@Mineo 76 And if they were so great, WM wouldn’t have started MGTOW and the manosphere against them 🤷♂️ It’s about individual character not color
@creigmacc
2 жыл бұрын
@@mineo7668 I am with a WW. Femininity personified, cooperative, knows how to cook, knows when to be quiet, knows when to speak. Just like your Great Grandma's...
@yaboytl
2 жыл бұрын
Black women care when it's too late, Black women show interest in you when it's too late, Black women acknowledge appreciation for you when it's too late, Black women usually don't learn from their decisions till it's too late... therefor when you want a family, with a guy you'd respect and "build" with...usually it's too late boo.
@jermainegarnett3261
2 жыл бұрын
It’s their n@ture bruh!
@kasimubartlett4504
2 жыл бұрын
Truth!!
@marshalllawman4012
2 жыл бұрын
Well said, bruh.🥊💥💫
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
@@jermainegarnett3261 More like their nurture... their mothers raised them to monetize their box and to focus on independence... only when that fails to give them happiness and security, do they revert to their nature and look for men to take care of them.
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
If those BW didn't want that guy then chances are they won't care if you're with someone else as they're not even thinking about you.
@anthonyharrison7728
2 жыл бұрын
BW didn't want me when I was young and goofy...They wanted the edgy dangerous gang affiliated types to have their fun with...I remember pursuing multiple BW in hopes one would eventually want to be my girlfriend. Not once was I first choice to any of those ladies .. Because I was that goofy kid that liked anime and video games more than hanging out in the streets BW felt that sloppy seconds and leftovers was all I deserved if they decided to deal with me at all. ..I WILL NEVER allow myself to be a BW second choice to be used and discarded...not ever again..I don't pursue BW anymore and my mom currently despises me for it. I want to marry my current Latina girl friend because she has been so good to me over the last two years. And my mom who is a single mother of 2 wants me to break up with my current lady and go find one of those queans.......no thanks
@zealchristian799
2 жыл бұрын
Do away from your mother before you regret it mate.
@kingr.a.4067
2 жыл бұрын
That's right. Don't settle.
@sidneywilder2731
2 жыл бұрын
I don't want no quean I'd prefer a blk woman, that quean word stands for something else " bad bishes" 😂,whom can't cook and don't know how tosit down and be a wife
@constablekennedy7705
2 жыл бұрын
Stay Strong Bro and Enjoy Your Life …
@earltaylor6071
2 жыл бұрын
You are making the proper decision.
@terencewright9972
2 жыл бұрын
Date whoever makes you happy in a relationship regardless of race!!
@giavayaharris8816
2 жыл бұрын
Finally…a mature man…I was beginning to worry.
@prophecybydefault4708
2 жыл бұрын
Its our culture. We've already lost enough so we're trying to rebuild. I can't speak for all of us since I like black women so I might be biased but I personally think its as simple as our history. 90% of all our past suffering has come from outside of our race and it has affected us in the present so we don't want to help those communities grow any further than they already have while our community is still heavily flawed in terms of wealth prosperity. In simpler terms, we want to help each other.
@sherryberry6492
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly this….
@suburbcinderella
2 жыл бұрын
@@prophecybydefault4708 who's hurting black people now? White cops and other black people....black people must unite.
@michaelthomas4446
2 жыл бұрын
Growing up in the 80's the Black girls told me I was too short, too dark, and did not have"good hair". Now I own my home. I three college degrees, a military pension, and make 6 figures. I have aged well. NOW, they want to step to me. Please, bye Felicia!!
@mr.blademonktravels1880
2 жыл бұрын
I have that same problem. Don't need to deal with someone who can't deal with who I AM.
@erickn7985
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly this reminds me of a bit Gary Owens did a while back. He said I stop dating white women because they didn't like me growing up, I than moved on to Black women because they flirted with me😂💀💀
@mr.blademonktravels1880
2 жыл бұрын
@@vsperatos Let me deal with that. Or better yet, I'll let God deal with me on that.
@errollwalker9151
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! My son had the same problem! Plus he’s overweight! He’s now in his senior year at Penn State in the Engineering program! His white girlfriend is about to be his wife! No black women never gave him the time of day!
@KS-lb1tu
2 жыл бұрын
To most BW , there can be only one kind or type of BM . The street brotha , with swag , dangerous , exciting . That comes with loads of drama an dysfunction . This is the type of BM the vast majority of BW want ! So if you fit in any way outside of their narrow definition of attractive BM ? You probably won't be picked by them and will have to go outside of the Black community for a relationship .
@de_lontekk8019
2 жыл бұрын
@@YoDaddyBlack because majority of bw want pookies and ray rays the nerdy ones too
@KS-lb1tu
2 жыл бұрын
@@YoDaddyBlack Ok I can agree with that . Most BM in general want the Bad Bi .t c h on his shoulder . That's often who the so called Pookie and Ray Ray often have as baby Mama's . Thing is these women are usually of low quality and value . But sense they are sexually attractive . That's what the educated lames and incels want too !
@kingr.a.4067
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly, any BM who doesn't fit the stereotypical archetype needs to look past BW. Trying to deal with BW as the non-stereotypical BM will result in getting a raw deal like Will Smith.
@sidneywilder2731
2 жыл бұрын
@@kingr.a.4067 torture
@kingr.a.4067
2 жыл бұрын
@@sidneywilder2731 💯
@kinghawk6651
2 жыл бұрын
Nerds that were athletes were even getting shot down when I was in school. That used to be mad crazy to me.
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
That's universal. It doesn't happen exclusively to just BM. If you're still thinking about being rejected in high school then you have problems.
@dubbcee1000
2 жыл бұрын
"Wait....ur into anime and other nerd shit. Lose my number. Now where's Walmartavius with the 4 kids by 3 baby mommas?" Shit is pathetic. Lmao
@bigcsbigbrother3685
2 жыл бұрын
My guy, #2 in state track n field but I still wasn't good enough. Until now that is, 33 years old, 6% body fat, no kids, and I can't keep a ladies eyes off me.
@deaundrecummings3469
2 жыл бұрын
This is facts, I’ve only dealt with Black women but I just recently came to the conclusion that I’m going to need to expand my options and stop being so closed minded and stuck on BW. Cause majority only want you when you’re at the finish line and I can’t and will not respect anyone who wasn’t there with me while I had to run to the finish line
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
Did your mother shame you into sticking with sistas? A lot of them do that, which is why a lot of brothers don't date out. Mine never really did that, but she hinted at it a couple times and her friends were bold enough to come out and say it. I say screw them. All men must break the umbilical cord and do their own thing. They don't own us.
@fancymocha3555
2 жыл бұрын
Do you actually believe NON BW want a broke unsuccessful man ? 😂 Chileee the delusion is at a all time high! Lmao!
@loulousworld92
2 жыл бұрын
This is true and the same goes for black men who only want you if you are light skin with green eyes or look anything other than black. Black men reject girls who have super sweet personalities with average looks and complain when the IG models reject them. This is why I think we should stop dealing with each other. I refuse to give birth to a black boys so I will continue in my relationship with my white fiance and God forbid if it doesn’t work out all of my other choices of men will strictly be white, Asian or white Latino. Since we cause so many problems for black man we should stop giving birth to black man altogether and black women should also date out of the race, simple solution!!
@crystalg9637
2 жыл бұрын
We often hear in songs, "and when he get on, he leave your a** for a yt girl", sometimes can be disheartening to hear. Personally, I i think thats the reason some black women desire men at the finish line. Because who would wants to be considered, the "come up chick?"
@biscaynesupercars
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve dated all types of women from all types of backgrounds and I can tell you they’re all the same except for a few slight nuances. The thing with bw is they’re horrible at picking a mate and they also have a horrible presentation and bw let their friends negatively influence them. Meaning bw will submit but its often to the wrong guy and bw think being difficult and argumentative is cute and flirtatious. So right off the bat a bw will tell you what she’s NOT going to do and NOT going to put up with. So imagine you have a job interview and instead of displaying why you’d be a good asset to that company you immediately tell them you won’t be working weekends or doing extra work. Even if you won’t do it why would you start off the conversation like that. Unfortunately a lot of sisters do that. And lets be honest most bw are chronically single and lie to themselves and others about being miserable about it and misery loves company so the minute a bw finds a nice guy she might be interested in she’ll have a friend or female relative sabotaging their relationship, and all women no matter their color are easily influenced by the crowd. But these white, hispanic and other women can be just as difficult because for every black manosphere video you see theres 100 white red pill/mgtow channels. But i honestly do think more bm should date out just to see what its like and i also think bw should too because i can tell by some of the things being said that a lot of black people in general have never really been around other races and cultures intimately like that and are just going off of stereotypes and what they heard or what they see on the idiot box tv and now the phones
@gprince7953
2 жыл бұрын
At this point, why do BM even give a fuck what BW think? Brotha can’t win for losing…
@tye1939
2 жыл бұрын
Michael B Jordan was a victim of that attack by BW unfortunately, and he never said anything negative about black women. I remember they started saying he don't like BW just because a picture came out of him on a boat full of white chicks. Now of course, that's a dead narrative today because he's with Lori Harvey. But that's just one example to back up what this man said.
@steviemak10
2 жыл бұрын
Facts‼️💯
@longbeachmaumba7059
2 жыл бұрын
The irony is I honestly believe he only got with Lori Harvey because he got tired of all the backlash from BW.
@blackhawk6695
2 жыл бұрын
@@longbeachmaumba7059 exactly!!
@lavellelee5734
2 жыл бұрын
True🤣 mf was mad silent all of sudden 🤣😂
@alecgurney9305
2 жыл бұрын
@@longbeachmaumba7059 truth. He got pressured
@stevelumumbashabazzz5087
2 жыл бұрын
WW and BW judge attraction differently. A WW can fall in love with you only because you funny or goofy but for BW it’s not usually the case. They love the appearance, the swag, the big beard tall and handsome. So if you don’t fit in those categories you have no chance. I’m 6ft 4 and believe me when I say this I dated BW who told me they wouldn’t have dated me if I was short. No matter how successful I could have been. I asked him if I was tall with a criminal record they said yes they would have still dated me
@nakiahowe368
2 жыл бұрын
You are correct. I think us as black people are more into the outer appearance of the people we date. Personality will take a backseat. We just love to be flashy and look good.
@Runnit12
2 жыл бұрын
This is true but it is a weird concept to grasp
@jowill3508
2 жыл бұрын
False. WW are even more picky about looks that most BW are, ESPECIALLY for BM.. But keep living in a fantasy land lol
@silkshirt17witdajhericurl80
2 жыл бұрын
@@nakiahowe368 u mean to say u think U BW etc... Kuz u are So wrong if u think we want yall for Swag an all tht other bs u just mentioned.!
@UseMyNoodleBaby
2 жыл бұрын
@@silkshirt17witdajhericurl80 from what I seen The narrative is black women want the swagger 6'4 look like he got it all together type men even if they have a criminal record or they are thugs and dope dealers
@jaycesmith7899
2 жыл бұрын
My high schoolers go through this. The Black girls like the stereotype where as the White and Hispanic girls make themselves accessible and treat them nicer. My boys are well rounded, smart and athletic. My wife and I don't care about skin color but who treats our son's with respect, honor and dignity.
@kyrkwalters964
2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@enodelliks1016
2 жыл бұрын
As you should sir!
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
Dope
@easymoneysniper9013
2 жыл бұрын
That's what it's about this white narrative I would suggest people to look up Cassius clay I believe Ali was named after him he was an abolitionist from here Lexington Kentucky. He was legit a true ally he killed slave owners he even broke off his friendship with Lincoln not because he wouldn't free the slaves. Because he was taking too long to do it. He even got a slave defender to kill himself as Clay used to dual slave apologists and owners and always won so he killed them. He had to booby trap his office he ran a small newspaper blasting these racists. When his father died he left him his slaves the first thing he did was free them and employ them. He was a seriously awesome mad and what's really sad is almost nobody knows who he is. UK named their arena after Adolf Rupp I think most of us know enough about him. Instead of naming it after THIS white man makes you think
@VillainArch22
2 жыл бұрын
Too many stories of white princess calling daddy for the rescue after bad breakups. If sisters dodging you, plenty of fish in the sea other than them. Hard pass on the enemy's seed. Can't even fathom it.
@NikStratus
2 жыл бұрын
Let those who're TRIGGERED... sound off!!
@shaeb123
3 ай бұрын
Not triggered at all because my brother dates white women. He admitted that they are less combative yet easier to manipulate. 😢
@djmbazz1
2 жыл бұрын
My son doesn't want a black woman because of his mother. At 17 my son was like " Hell No!" I had a long conversation with him then and found out it was because of his mother. He saw first hand how toxic she was and since I haven't been with her for years he told me " Dad I understand!" I was shocked and relieved because for years he was told I was the problem. I did this and I did that and he finally knew why I couldn't make it work with her. He's 21 now and it hasn't changed. I continue to coach him to love who loves him. Meaning he doesn't have to limit himself to just white women. Black women have something to offer as well. Sheesh it's gonna be a task opening his heart but that's on his terms not mine.
@blacklyfe5543
2 жыл бұрын
Facts I agree
@knatxkyngxkoldofficialpage3020
2 жыл бұрын
Went through the same thing myself.
@fearbeingaverage
Жыл бұрын
As a grown man going through the same situation brother.. a lot of single black mothers out here and i don’t need to wonder why
@raymundturner1140
9 ай бұрын
Wow
@youtubinit
2 жыл бұрын
Date whoever you want. People will always have something to say no matter who you're with.
@Rodneytheproducer1986
2 жыл бұрын
Facts if you date a 6 ft 9 blue alien chick with four arms people will still judge you LOL
@constablekennedy7705
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly Bro
@brockcureton573
3 ай бұрын
AMEN INDEED
@jaws2003
2 жыл бұрын
I agree. I've even seen nerdy black women turn down nerdy black guys. I have seen these same men do well with White, Asians and Latinas. I agree with what this brotha was saying. Many sistas don't like those type of men and I will add on the ones that do are probably not attractive enough and if you do get with them to "try something different" it opens a whole different can of worms.
@bigsmilie07
2 жыл бұрын
They bullied by the family when they bring these guys home, the aunties, uncles bully the entire relationship
@jaws2003
2 жыл бұрын
@@bigsmilie07 I've seen this as well. It's sad.
@lavellelee5734
2 жыл бұрын
@@bigsmilie07 damn that's both sad....and great material for an adult series comic book
@crttsome7504
2 жыл бұрын
But many men of different races don't want bw in general. It is your duty to get with them.
@randomdontbanme3154
2 жыл бұрын
@@crttsome7504 Hahahaha "Duty"
@truthhurts3305
2 жыл бұрын
I don’t have a racial preference when it comes to dating beautiful women *but* I can 100% say with confidence that I’ve encountered far too many entitled BW that I was never good enough for: I either wasn’t making the right income they required in a man or I wasn’t thuggish enough. Today my money’s good and it was a Latina who accepted & stuck by me even at my low points and today she also shares in the fruits of my labour whilst those BW who I was never good enough for have tried to reach out to me on Facebook talking about “Hey stranger! Long time! How are you?” 🤣🤣
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
If you're relationship is good with the Latina, then why are you still thinking about the BW who rejected you? Do you think those BW care about who you are and who you're with now?
@truthhurts3305
2 жыл бұрын
Because i’m on a Black man’s platform allowed to share my thoughts on the matter. Now my question is: why are YOU here? 🤔 I mean If you don’t like what I said there’s always Cynthia G’s channel 🤷🏿♂️
@Ben-Ken
2 жыл бұрын
@@mineo7668 obviously they care of they're reaching out to him now, after they hit the wall. I've experienced the same thing and so has many of my friends who weren't all about swag and thugging when we were younger. BW always wait until it's too late to think long term.
@odin5188
2 жыл бұрын
@@truthhurts3305 No offence to her but, she's 46 now. No men she really want are checking for her. So she is here sniping
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
@@truthhurts3305 : Let me see why I'm here. It should be obvious but here goes: It's because I simply can and this is this comment section of YT where I'm free to state my opinion where and however I want. 🤷♀️
@rejubi-minkaokose6836
2 жыл бұрын
An intelligent man is such an awesome thing to experience! That was one of the best interviews I have ever come across! And the woman held her own just as well! That was great music.
@GEMINIRED300
2 жыл бұрын
At best, they see you as entertainment. At worst, the see you as a human sacrifice. #SYSBM
@silentknight837
2 жыл бұрын
seems the only way to go unfortunately to be safe and have peace of mind
@ronibeziako
2 жыл бұрын
@@odellbey9602 they are WS
@UseMyNoodleBaby
2 жыл бұрын
I would definitely agree why a lot of black men date outside they race I have been with outside my race and it's a whole different atmosphere but I'm married to a black woman that accepts me and my goofiness along with seeing me as a leader it's hard to find rare black women such as those these days because everyone's about their independency in only fans and cloud
@UseMyNoodleBaby
2 жыл бұрын
In another rare thing about my wife she was a virgin without a doubt it is rare and hard to find a woman of such a caliper like that that's still by her principles and kept her virtue until the right person came along
@loulousworld92
2 жыл бұрын
It’s so interesting that you mention only fans because the top earner of only fans is a white woman the top earners collectively or white women. This is the nonsense rhetoric that I hear from black man that always makes me laugh because just like Tobi who claimed black women were the worst thing because of our attitudes are dancing our presence period only for him to be killed by a white blonde hair blue-eyed white woman who makes millions of only fans. And this is not a one-off situation the big issue with the hypocrisy from black men. Black men talk all day every day about black women’s bodies yet black men also have the highest obesity rate amongst all races of men, Black men talk about how black women do not protect them yet the femcide rates in the black communities are the highest amongst all races. Black man are killing black men and black men are killing black women. BM talk about the difference between white womens treatment of them but they forget to mention that the Incel community was started by white men who were disgruntled that white women rejected them for all the things you have pointed out.
@sidneywilder2731
2 жыл бұрын
@@UseMyNoodleBaby being virgin is right,but these days young marriage aged girls body count is up there
@lifncar28
2 жыл бұрын
Congrats. 👍🏿 Not having a lot of dudes makes it easier to pair bond. She must come from a good family.
@UseMyNoodleBaby
2 жыл бұрын
@@lifncar28 Indeed her family is heavy tradition people
@lukeg7517
2 жыл бұрын
This is such a fantastic video, I have experienced what he's talking about more times than I can count, I'm 6'4, keep myself in good shape at the gym, I've had women call me cute before but I don't listen to rap music that often, I'm into video games, building computers, cyber security, firearms, a whole bunch of other "nerdy" stuff and my personal values don't agree with the Democrat party. The kind of stuff that I'm into automatically disqualifies me from 85% of black women in America, I'm usually looked at as some kind of square or cornball, I'm not considered Street enough, not tough enough even though I survived a combat deployment to Syria while serving in the Army, the mental gymnastics is quite astounding. That brother also made a great point about Kobe Bryant as well, not all black women but there were A LOT of black woman celebrating his death saying things like that's what he gets from marrying a Latin woman, that was heartbreaking on so many levels
@zealchristian799
2 жыл бұрын
Alot of black women in America if not all will celebrate a black man death who married to a white woman or latina woman. Spot on mate
@lukeg7517
2 жыл бұрын
@@zealchristian799 it's unfortunate but true
@michaelb.3438
2 жыл бұрын
Madness black man have been loving women outside their race even before I was born and they will continue people just going to have to face facts what I don't understand is why is it everybody else's business take care and God bless
@enodelliks1016
2 жыл бұрын
Yes I saw that bs and was pissed. We can't even get peace in death sometimes.
@michaelb.3438
2 жыл бұрын
White, Non-White Americans Now Similarly Approve of Interracial Marriage Non-White Americans have been consistently more approving of interracial marriages than White Americans -- but that gap has narrowed over time and, in the latest reading, has nearly closed. Previous measures from 1968 to 2013 found double-digit gaps in approval between White and Non-White adults. Today, the three percentage points that separate approval among White (93%) and Non-White adults (96%) is within the poll's margin of error. Recent growth at the national level has been driven by increasing approval among White Americans, as approval among Non-White Americans has been unchanged over the past decade. Majorities of non-White adults since 1968 have approved of interracial marriage. It was not until 1997 that a majority of White adults held that opinion. Gallup poll survey take care
@Nick-pd2yo
2 жыл бұрын
Having class and maturity is the peak of human nature
@taichi29
2 жыл бұрын
I don't care what nationality the woman is. If she treats me with love, and respect, that's all that matters.
@Just-an-average_FBAB1
2 жыл бұрын
@Oshay, do an interview with that brother. He is very intelligent and can articulate the message to a degree of understanding, for those who cant.
@samueledward5078
2 жыл бұрын
Give this man a round of applause 👏👏👏 👏
@jahkarimirza7286
2 жыл бұрын
I think both BM and BW that put dating a wight person on a pedestal is lame. Also, there is a weird vibe that black Americans have towards wight people. It's like black Americans treat them as their mommy and daddy. Any problems they have with each other they always think getting a wight person is a solution and this isn't just when it comes to dating.
@kdessa4816
2 жыл бұрын
Wrong Black men from America don't put any white women on any high ground we get the women period all of them now the African or African Caribbean loves themselves some white women and white Jesus dancing and rolling on the ground doing cartwheels and the cake soap skin lighting.
@truthspoken8567
2 жыл бұрын
I thought I was the only one who sees this. Smh yeah they are lame. I don't understand it either about treating yt ppl like mommy and daddy or superiority(bp fold too easily unfortunately for them). Maybe these bp are too obsessed with their own skin being darker or race history to the point they think they have to be like that. Or they're just simply stupid. Or all the above.
@VonGoldfinger
2 жыл бұрын
Most BW do not know how to vet a man, always pick the most trash man because he’s “exciting”, don’t know what a BM wants in a woman, nor do they care. I never understood that I mean, why pick a man that you know won’t stick around and is a pretty bad choice while you ignore that guy who is a much better choice with whom you can build a LIFE with cause that’s what it’s all about? Mei Ling wants a Husband, and that’s why Pointdexter will always win in the end. Keisha on the other hand will most likely remain in section 8. Also: Most BW don’t like BM. Not all, but, most.
@sidneywilder2731
2 жыл бұрын
that hate is being taught to them by other blk wmn "I don't need no man "mentality
@ghostprince4284
2 жыл бұрын
@@sidneywilder2731 Hence Why They Always End Up Alone With No Man And 4 Different Kids By 4 Different Baby Daddies.
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
You don't even know most BW and just because she isn't choosing you doesn't meant that she's doing something wrong.
@ghostprince4284
2 жыл бұрын
@@ladyj9152 Sounds Like Narrow Minded Idiocracy To Me.
@truthspoken8567
2 жыл бұрын
@@ghostprince4284 It is
@kfalco
2 жыл бұрын
I used to think that most BW rejected BM due to not being "hood" enough and/or nerdy; but really what I found out is that many project this false empowerment look to their dating outlook when really they prefer hood dudes because it's the "Best" they can actually get. Because brothas who are on their purpose, these women are intimidated because he is not a "project" or a "build-a-boo." Hood dudes put up with alot of toxic behaviors from women. Brothas on their purpose have options and know they do. Many brothas in and out of system can't travel with relative ease and international is not an option due to felony conviction. So these BW women are limited in available men due to their geographic location where these hood dudes are plentiful. Brothas who travel internationally know many women "globally" love BM. So for me, why be racial loyal because at the end of the day, the woman who can hold it down with you is the "one" regardless of color or cultural background.
@jermainegarnett3261
2 жыл бұрын
What ever helps you sleep at night bruh!
@kfalco
2 жыл бұрын
@@jermainegarnett3261 ok...beta!
@Seafarers199
2 жыл бұрын
Passport bros ✈️🔥
@bobbyg5615
2 жыл бұрын
@@jermainegarnett3261 I'm sure he sleeps just fine next to his Snow Bunny.
@theblackmonk3153
2 жыл бұрын
@@jermainegarnett3261 you must be a thug ahaha
@42NORRIS
2 жыл бұрын
In 1992 actress Michelle Pfeiffer produced and starred a movie called "Love Field" (1992). The movie is about a white woman who finds romance with black man against the back drop of JFK's assassination and funeral in 1963. Pfeiffer revealed absolute astonishment when she had difficulty casting her potential black male costar. She said many actors both famous and unknown flat out turned her down and told her why: "THEY DIDN'T WANT TO RISK THE WRATH OF BLACK WOMEN!!!!" Can you imagine that acting being a man's chosen profession and A MAJOR A- LIST MOVIE STAR WANTS TO HIRE YOU FOR A CO-STARRING PART IN A BIG TIME HOLLYWOOD MOVIE AND YOU TURN IT DOWN BECAUSE YOU'RE AFRAID OF PISSING OFF THE WOMEN IN YOUR COMMUNITY!!!!! AND NOT OVER A REAL RELATIONSHIP BUT A FICTIONAL ONE!!!! PRETEND!!!! MAKE BELEIVE!!! My god, I swear it was a complete embarrassment for black men and women, often we are our worst enemies. The part eventually went to actor Dennis Haysbert and was a critical success with Michelle Pfeiffer earning a Oscar nomination.
@cperkins5050
2 жыл бұрын
Even Tupac Shakur broke up with Madonna because of this. He didn’t want to lose BW.
@42NORRIS
2 жыл бұрын
@@cperkins5050 Yes but tupac and madonna actually had a relationship. I was referring to actors who didn't want "work" with an actress in romantic role if the actress(a major A-List movie star!)was white out fear of black women's anger. SMH
@grandinquizitor7412
2 жыл бұрын
Often times, bw are not the easiest to talk to. Even flirting with them to show interest is difficult and can be a turnoff as they are just difficult for no reason a lot of times. Whereas engaging with other groups of women is much easier, more pleasant to talk too, fun to joke with and just have a great time socializing with; even if a man doesn't get the number or a romance doesn't work out with other ethnicities of women, the exchange is still pleasant. However, what I've seen and have experienced with other ethnicities of women as a blk man, is that many of them learn to engage with us based on how they see bw treat us and the approach is usually stereotypical. Like some yt woman mostly or other non-blk women would try to use slang around us or behave as if she's from the culture (almost like what they think we like from what they see on tv. Hence, the importance of us controlling our own narratives). You can tell by the approach if a yt woman or other non-blk women only dates blk men or has dated many of them before because her attitude is more urban/hood/BET Hip-Hopish. But for the most part, other groups of women are more approachable and nicer. I would say some suburban blk women are nicer, but even they can have a yt-girlish conceited appeal if they've grown up mostly around yt kids and attended predominantly yt schools. I think a lot of blk men just choose whomever gives them the easiest time during conversation and relationships. However, if he's a good social chameleon then he can adapt to any flavor of love and read the room well.
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
I don't flirt with BW unless they give me choosing signals first and they're attractive... I stop cold approaching them a long time ago...
@dpowell468
2 жыл бұрын
No lies told
@NoahTyG
2 жыл бұрын
All facts, no cap here 💯
@machine4827
2 жыл бұрын
Weave Hogs they can keep them 🤧
@ArkhamKnightChannel
2 жыл бұрын
Well stated. Even interacting with them in general terms, (I could care less about interacting or them not coming my way), BWs narcissism is something that sicken me. So I barely waste my time.
@realtalkjames2408
2 жыл бұрын
There was never a law against black women dating WM! But there was for BM dating white women. Society wants to limit our options and force us to accept less, no!
@jonathancue1584
2 жыл бұрын
@Sugabear The 3rd man, shut up the brothers spitting facts. Stop talking stupid stuff
@really8704
Жыл бұрын
Limiting your options to black women isn’t accepting less and yes the only reason you can date Becky is bc white men gave you the permission to 😂
@randosmallfoot2132
2 жыл бұрын
Don’t matter what race they are. A lot of women suffer from modernization. it will be a challenge humanity will have to overcome.
@yukicross3917
2 жыл бұрын
I mean black men can date who they want who cares the reason behind it. If they like white women who cares thats their preference date the people who want to date you and let the people be. People get stuck on the stupid stuff nowadays.
@malikaustin9087
2 жыл бұрын
Most BM PREFER BW it's the attitude. Most BM find BW the MOST PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE...#FACTS
@yukicross3917
2 жыл бұрын
@@malikaustin9087 I know that but the fact that we make a big deal about the black people who date out is annoying. If someone chooses to date another race thats their right. They are the ones that have to live with their choice not us so i dont understand why people care so much. Black men and women should date who ever gives them the most peace and happiness. I get people have preferences but a preference doesnt guarentee a good partner date people for who they are internally not what race they are.
@fidelcastro236
2 жыл бұрын
Back then they didn’t want me now I’m hot 🥵 💰 they all on me -Mike Jones
@malikaustin9087
2 жыл бұрын
Man I thought of this too
@jexolseviluncle4570
2 жыл бұрын
BW don't wanna talk about this though...
@meccamitchell6481
2 жыл бұрын
@D&B I'm wondering the same thing
@meccamitchell6481
2 жыл бұрын
U seem to have an issue with black women ? Am I wrong ?
@Timothyapollo220
2 жыл бұрын
1. Better Attitudes 2.Not as masculine 3.Easy to get along with 4. Likes sports and more supportive I could do this all day but a brother hiding at work😁
@leonblack7637
2 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised you've made it this long without someone trying to call you names instead of argue your points.
@Crazy-kk9jt
2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@rachel1729
2 жыл бұрын
So basically 1) higher in *agreeableness 2) more physically active
@africanqueen007
2 жыл бұрын
Good for you! Go for it! BW usually have the same comments to make about white and asian men: (1) a lot more industrious/they walk the talk; (2) more responsible and caring; (3) more respectful and (4) typically more successful. So no judgment here on your preferences!
@Timothyapollo220
2 жыл бұрын
@@ladyj9152 but still true👍🏽
@jonathancrippen1615
2 жыл бұрын
As a young black male growing up in mid-late 1990's I went through that alot! I didnt fit the Tupac image or the Busta Ryhmes image so.... I was considered weak sauce. I HEAR YOU BROTHER
@majikman73
2 жыл бұрын
Yo cuhz I've talked about this before. I've had black women accuse ME of wanting and loving white women when I've never come close to even admitting something like that. EVER. And this is something that has happened to me for years. Crazy I know.
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
They worship Becky... and you probably intimidated them, especially if you have standards
@jonathancue1584
2 жыл бұрын
Me too, when at the time I wasn't checking for white women.
@warrenmartin7039
2 жыл бұрын
It's a big conversation because black women want that damn!!!! money!!!
@abrown6214
2 жыл бұрын
Its mad weird that the black men and black women who date outside the race constantly speak on the opposite sex of the race
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
BW can't accept it.
@goldenstateswarriorsbandwa4842
2 жыл бұрын
It’s just more easier to approach WW even when they turn you down they are polite.
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
Lol. Why don't you just lick their bootheels too?
@craker6787mnfnf
2 жыл бұрын
100
@longbeachmaumba7059
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@sidneywilder2731
2 жыл бұрын
when bw turn you down it's not politely and high 5 each other for rude behavior like it's cool
@triggered3625
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly..
@tysonwright2362
2 жыл бұрын
As KS has said, our women think they OWN us, and we are obligated to choose them no matter how little effort they make to cater to us
@skinfanjay
2 жыл бұрын
💯
@ghostprince4284
2 жыл бұрын
Yup,They're YT Men With Boobs And A Natural Blk Face. Same Beast,Different Race.
@ronalddragonaction
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly they need a reality check.
@Rodneytheproducer1986
2 жыл бұрын
I have always dated white women ever since high school for that reason because black women never looked my way or even paid attention my wife accepted me as is and ended motaving in ways I never thought possible
@jonathancue1584
2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏I'm happy for you bro
@philware136
2 жыл бұрын
@OshayDukeJackson It’s akin to when a child pays a toy no mind til he/she sees someone else playing with it, and all of a sudden they want it. Smh🐼💯
@steviemak10
2 жыл бұрын
Those who don’t listen, must feel.
@TheDCGuitar13
2 жыл бұрын
Too many womens egos are dependent on the perception of being above certain people. If those people elevate themselves, it destroys the self esteem of these types of narcissists
@jermainegarnett3261
2 жыл бұрын
True! That’s y Alphas are important!
@imJGott
2 жыл бұрын
Who remembers when BW went up in arms when Carlton posted his family pics?
@derrell881
2 жыл бұрын
Im so glad i got the gift of gab
@keithjackson2035
2 жыл бұрын
When I was in college, the black girls didn’t check for me until the white girls started talking to me.
@gobot581
2 жыл бұрын
I liked that you touched on the African immigrants you’ll see African immigrant families a lot of the men have held onto their values but the women get indoctrinated into the African American tendencies at a higher rate. One thing I can credit American BW is that they are truly magnetic other BW and other races are assimilating but at slower rates
@damones1
2 жыл бұрын
Who cares? Black Men don't owe Black Women anything. Find your Happiness and your Peace.
@ronsampsons5thchannel711
Жыл бұрын
I fall into that category. Ive said many times. since my teenage years here in the UK Ive received a warmer welcome from non black women on the most part
@ekimagem
2 жыл бұрын
White Women - "Youre kinda funny. Theres this new bar in town you should check it out...." Sistas - "Youre corny..."...."When you takin me out..." Thats the difference.
@SM-tf4vs
2 жыл бұрын
BIG FACTS...They'll never understand because they choose not too
@zealchristian799
2 жыл бұрын
LMAO
@KingSuveon
2 жыл бұрын
💯
@charlescreamerii2715
2 жыл бұрын
This video was good. The commentary and discussion was on point. Well-articulated, fair and easily verifiable by our own eyes and experiences... If we don't have an ego-based agenda of jealousy. Some people see only what they want to believe... and that's fine too.
@freshguava6658
2 жыл бұрын
the woman intervewing this brother was not in a million yrs expecting that reaction from that brother he hit her with facts she wanted him to shame and put down brothers he gave it to her with HEAT 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭 she wanted a black women are angles when their the opposit right by the devil and post it on shaderoom instagram so they can roast brothers up and say gooo girl
@machine4827
2 жыл бұрын
Mannnn ignore them LAQUISHAz.. Not worth the energy AT ALL 🧐🧐
@davidbethea8186
7 ай бұрын
True like this video. Your guess was on point...
@Quincy82AAC
2 жыл бұрын
We have the same problems with black women in the UK.
@alecgurney9305
2 жыл бұрын
I'm from England aswell brother. England is diverse and there are plenty of other good women
@Quincy82AAC
2 жыл бұрын
@@alecgurney9305 yep. I prefer to date non black women because they are more ladylike.
@rayadams3414
2 жыл бұрын
Positive vibes brothas and sistas. OJay dropping Gymz!!!
@darylfields
2 жыл бұрын
Everything this brotha said is straight facts 💯🎯
@MarkLandrebe-ef5yd
3 ай бұрын
With their ATTITUDES, I can understand why the majority of BFs are not married.
@bricew8448
2 жыл бұрын
The black men who are seemingly turned away by black women have simply gone where they are appreciated. The reality is black women only want those "square" black men when they see them with other ethnicities. Meanwhile, when these dudes were out here lonely, those same black women treated them like Casper. Do you really expect for these guys to just wait around until you decide you all of a sudden want them because other races of women show them interest?
@jonathancue1584
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah they do. They're not the sharpest knives in the drawer.
@PREEM513
2 жыл бұрын
Simple answer: “compatibility”. That’s the point the brother in the video is making.
@MegaLnichols
2 жыл бұрын
true
@primetimep4463
2 жыл бұрын
I’ve been married to my black wife for 15 years. Prior to meeting her, people always told me that I was going to end up with a white girl. They never seen me with a white girl. I didn’t have any white friends, or say anything about white people. I was just respectful, went to school, polite, didn’t curse, didn’t drink, smoke or anything. Black girls were not checking for me at all. I was told I was too nice. Some of these black women are full of shit
@dogtown1718
2 жыл бұрын
Black men don't make Tik Tok videos praising white women like black women do praising white men.
@timothyrushdan8570
2 жыл бұрын
I'd say I fall in this category. I'm not necessarily nerdy. But I’m not the stereotypical hood/swagger dude. I’ve dated black girls and it never seemed to work out for what I wanted and what I was willing to compromise. I wanted my babies to black and I wanted them to have an impact on the community. I found a WW and she wanted to be on my program… now she’s having my baby. I feel guilty sometimes, almost ashamed. But I continue on with my mission in being the best man I can be to my women, to my future kid, and to my community.
@zealchristian799
2 жыл бұрын
Dont let nobody bring you down mate because you didnt marry a black woman. There is no crime in marrying other race.
@ssankm508
2 жыл бұрын
Your children are biracial not black
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
@@coachberline You are the cause, though... so own it.. I don't care if you're tired. Get some sleep, then wake up and smell the coffee.
@nineixb616
2 жыл бұрын
@@coachberline I’ve had a few cousins who were locked up, and it seemed like black women were breaking their neck to visit them, sneak them things, planning for their release date. Evidently it’s like that for most black male inmates, or criminals on the street headed that route. Most black educated/nerdy, or artsy black males don’t seem to be seen as attractive to the majority of black women, unless they have lots of money fame or extremely good looks. How do black women know how certain black men will treat them, when for the most part those aren’t the men they’re choosing?
@nineixb616
2 жыл бұрын
@@coachberline I’m not sure how many women of other races are wives and girlfriends of prisoners. I do know prison and criminality isn’t celebrated in other communities like it is in the black community. In other communities prisoners are called jailbirds, in the black community they’re thugs and G’s, and seen as the epitome of masculinity by a lot of black women. Black women are overwhelmingly choosing men with multiple children by different women, thugs/criminals, and men who clearly don’t want marriage and family to have children with. Do you really think that most black women are considering a man’s character when choosing a mate? Hardworking black men who desire marriage and family are not leaving their children, these however are not the men being chosen by black women. I agree black girls and woman are not protected in the black community, black neighborhoods weren’t always the way they are now. The black men who could help the black community the most started leaving years ago. That’s a whole other discussion though. I think some black women are very feminine. The men who are having children with the most feminine of black women may be required to provide a false sense of protection, but they’re certainly not required to build, and provide. Wasn’t feminism white women’s response to the white men (the patriarchy) who were/are protecting, building and providing? Black men were sold into slavery too not just black women, what point exactly are tou trying to make about that?
@jizzyb1572
2 жыл бұрын
Basically black women don’t want to see black men win 🏆 in large numbers
@stopthecancelculture
2 жыл бұрын
Oshay is the hardest working man on KZitem. He is a Doctor and KZitemr dropping 3 minimum a day. He is the GOAT OF KZitem
@mineo7668
2 жыл бұрын
Lol. I don't know about him being a doctor.
@rickyreward226
2 жыл бұрын
He graduated Med school. But if he does practice here in Uganda too, then that's cool AF
@stopthecancelculture
2 жыл бұрын
@@rickyreward226 I guess these people have to their research on him being a doctor smh. I'm with you brother
@themarathoncontinues4211
2 жыл бұрын
He’s not a doctor. When I asked him a few questions about medicine he deleted the thread (I’m in med school so I actually know what the process is). That’s just a lie he tells y’all. Nobody who’s a recently graduated doctor has time to drop KZitem videos on gossip topics
@stopthecancelculture
2 жыл бұрын
@@themarathoncontinues4211 remember he went to school overseas
@gorgeouslady5612
2 жыл бұрын
White women don't have heavy struggles in their lives!. That's why their life is Flowers! and Cute Puppies!.
@tonyafrica7085
2 жыл бұрын
Truth 💯!!!
@warrenmartin7039
2 жыл бұрын
It's black women on both sides of the coin though she's the one who gives the negative criticism to the black man she's the one that gives the black woman swirler the big ups when she does it
@Understandme44
2 жыл бұрын
Black women don’t notice most black men until after they start dating white women or women of other races. Let’s keep it 💯 that’s when black women start talking their smack
@46reno
23 күн бұрын
What is sitting on that Dude’s head? Can he have that removed?
@crocodiletears9096
2 жыл бұрын
To keep it real nerdy Black women like thugs more than nerdy brothers. I don't know why she trying to stomp his argument
@AB-vb4sv
2 жыл бұрын
Truth in everything he said. It’s almost as if some bw feel “let me come get him later after my fun”. Talk about entitlement.
@citeebayconvey2935
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly...
@Reggy2000
2 жыл бұрын
Oshay, why does she or BW as a whole care about the preference of men they don't want?
@ghostprince4284
2 жыл бұрын
Delusion,Sense Of Entitlement,Narcissism And Etc.
@jamesdicker2962
2 жыл бұрын
Question of the year 🏆🥇
@Dro40
2 жыл бұрын
I pointed this out in the comments of the original video, but they confused Danny Glover and Donald Glover. 2 complete different guys lol, but it proves the point. If you aren't a certain archetype, sometimes your name won't even be remembered.
@Steve-cb8nw
2 жыл бұрын
Just a classic case of... "Just because we don't want you, that don't mean you go somewhere else and be happy." A lot of BW go on, and on each day talking about how they want us, so hell they should be glad a lot of BM not bothering them🤷♂️ and LeBron wife was with him when had nothing she didn't wait at the finish line like a lot of them do🤷♂️
@EdgewiseSJ
2 жыл бұрын
Men all have a certain need. It's not just a want or a desire but a need. I'm talking about a need for a headache-free woman. This need will cause a man to ignore skin color, ethnic and cultural background, education level, etc. I have found that when you date outside your own culture and skin color, the ladies often give you less of a headache than they give the men they grew up around.
@joeygio5015
2 жыл бұрын
My wife is a Puerto Rican born in Puerto Rico. I am Jamaican and Native American. We went to mutual friends party for their daughter. Our friend is black and so is all of his family. When the food was ready my wife asks if i want her to make me a plate and i said "No, not really. I'm not that hungry" and she was like OK cool she is a little hungry so she was going to make herself a plate. A bot 30 seconds after she went to get her food, an older lady from our friend"s family, around late 50s to early 60s (with no husband) approached me. With no knowledge of the situation, she asked why i didn't go to the kitchen with my wife. Her first issue, which she assumed, was that MY wife went to make MY plate to bring back to me. Her second issue was the fact that I didn't get up at all to go to the kitchen with her. Instead of explaining that the plate wasn't for me, I told her that's my wife and that is our dynamic(also the culture she comes from). In regards to not following her into the kitchen. I said that my wife is a grown women that doesn't need a chaperone. Also that i don not feel the need to shadow her and be on her ass all day. My wife knows whats up and and what type of man I am, so there is no need for me clinging to her like i don't trust her to be on her own and make the right decisions. My wife has been that woman from the day that we got together through the present. My point in telling you guys about this is that its not only modern women. It's also some of the older black women as well. They're the ones who are teaching the young ones. They perpetuate the mindset of not catering to their man. Also, it demonstrates that they don't even know what THEY want from/in a man. They cry all this "BOSS B*TCH" sh*t. That they're strong, independent, and "don't need no man" and don't want an insecure man. Then will want a man they can dominate and have him follow behind them like a lost puppy. These are huge reasons for why i married who I married because she is the exact opposite of this dangerous and "toxic" mindset being spread amongst them. My wife and are both successful making into the 6 figures, but she knows who and what comes first. That's why she got the ring, a husband, why she had a beautiful wedding in PR, why she has a man to protect and care for her. It's because she's feminine, (unlike the black women complaining), and she respects and understands what takes to get and keep a good man. Sadly, these values are seen as "oppression" in our culture today.
@tragicallyhoney
2 жыл бұрын
How are you native American?
@joeygio5015
2 жыл бұрын
@@tragicallyhoney mother Jamaican and father Native American Wampanoag
@millionairenowNYC
2 жыл бұрын
I dealt exactly with this in the Hispanic community
@malikaustin9087
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah it's women in general on some level but maybe MORE in the Blk Community
@edgelord_poe
2 жыл бұрын
Mike Jones; Back Then is a song that is even more relevant now.
@jermaine8573
2 жыл бұрын
At my job I do be seeing alot of black couples but also but being seeing interracial couples just as much or more in some way , yes most black women are too dearly difficult to approach and talk to now these days , alot of them are too busy trying to chase and live these expensive fantasy lifestyles like they are trying to be like there favorite artist or other famous people we watch on TV or listen to
@Mr_Don1
2 жыл бұрын
There are different reasons why BM date WW. Some of what this guy says is valid, but it's mostly because most BW don't like BM who are: 1) nerdy, 2) clean cut, or 3) conservative. Another reason is also because of the way that most BW treat BM. Some guys started out dating BW, but changed. They simply just don't view emotional abuse from BW as normal, so they switch up because WW simply treat them better. I'm a BM myself who started out dating BW. I never had any problems with attracting BW. I'm 6'3", 200 lbs, and I make six figures. I'm married to a WW now, and I dated every race under the sun before I got married. I even dated a former Miss USA in the past. In my personal experiences, I just found that WW treat their men better (in most cases). Well, the conservative ones do. I think that is the key. It's not really about race as much as it is about their values. To this day, I still find BW to be the most sexually attractive.
@KtotheG
2 жыл бұрын
I find Latinas to be the most sexually attractive... BW have gotten too fat... the biggest thing they have over other races is that beautiful melanin... I love love love brown skin... in all flavors.. honey, chocolate, almond, caramel, etc. But they don't focus on their health enough for me.
@keithhayes6339
2 жыл бұрын
Me and you share almost the SAME exact life style. Everything under the sun, (except Latina women) but being married to a WW now, I see now and ponder what if. I can think of 2 BW now who see me living my life and went "sh$t, I should have went after him"
@lifncar28
2 жыл бұрын
Best comment on here. It's about values more than race 👍🏿
@Mr_Don1
2 жыл бұрын
@@keithhayes6339 💯. I guarantee you that there's more than two that still want you. Those are just the ones that you know about. When BW started seeing pics of my wife on social media, I got private messages from several of them. Some said that they are happy for me, but disappointed they didn't get a chance, and things like that. Some of these women didn't seem to notice me when I was single. Women in general are hive minded, and so social to the point where them seeing you living good with an attractive woman (especially a WW) makes them more attracted to you because you being with a beautiful woman validates your level of attraction in the eyes of the female collective. It's weird that they think this way, but it's just how they are. My wife even tells me all of the time that she knows that I would have a lot more options than before if we ever split up, because our relationship has made me more attractive to other women. She said that's just how women are, and I know that she's 100% correct. It's the same reason why a lot of women are more attracted to married men and men already in relationships than single men, even if they don't admit it. They like men who other women like, and this is amplified if they see you with attractive women. I think these BW who call out BM for dating WW are attracted to those BM, but they only became attracted to them after realizing that WW are attracted to them and see value in them. The Russell Wilson and Ciara situation is a perfect example of it, which is why BW love the situation so much. It's a thotty single mother BW who "took" a wealthy BM from a WW. None of them would care if he divorced a BW and married Ciara. I bet BW wouldn't even date Russell Wilson before he was with that WW, because he fits into the categories of what most BW don't like. They only saw value in him AFTER someone else (WW) did.
@keithhayes6339
2 жыл бұрын
@@Mr_Don1 📠📠👏👏👏👏
@theezenriarinze9203
2 жыл бұрын
Again Maya Agalaou is still praised but had nothing but wm
@jamesdicker2962
2 жыл бұрын
She was married to two WM and had a serious, pseudo-marriage to a third. Never got any smoke though.
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