At 16 you already been in so many toxic relationships 😢. Moms be so protective of the son's but forget about the daughters which are basically prey for males.
@teoleno4019
7 ай бұрын
Moms only care about their sons who grow up into abusers, alcoholics and drug addiction. This happened several times in my own family, it's better cut off the mothers who prioritize their toxic sons.
@ms.whitt2054
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this comment, they only see 👀 daughters as maids, slaves, and help, and their moms are mostly male-centered.😢💔💯
@pigglywiggly3488
7 ай бұрын
@ms.whitt2054 and see the daughters as competition. Sick.
@ms.whitt2054
7 ай бұрын
@pigglywiggly3488 Yes, it's weird because her daughter is supposed to look better, she is younger, how can she be jealous of her daughter? So she sabotages her life by not giving her any life skills and just sends her out into the world to make mistakes that could've been avoided then blame the daughter for them all.💯✨️
@tajr.2650
7 ай бұрын
How can you be 16 and be in “so many?” That was the more shocking to me. At that age multiple relationships already? So unfortunate.
@Ilikefrogs..
7 ай бұрын
Imagine telling a 16 year old girl to make better choices, but not blaming the grown ass man who manipulated and cheated on her.
@tammygarrett8427
7 ай бұрын
Start giving the man the kids!
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
Too late the kids are already here👶👶👶👶👶👶.
@LeahInAtlanta
7 ай бұрын
add an extra baby. i think she's pregnant with #7.@@glidkomer
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
@@tammygarrett8427 exactly load them up and give them to him
@destamcghie632
7 ай бұрын
Exactly why this mess continues to go on. They don't hold men accountable for anything, we're supposed to know all and be all.
@breaellis5827
7 ай бұрын
This is what happens when you marry too young before finding yourself first.
@teoleno4019
7 ай бұрын
Was she a SAHM? They always get divorced in the end. 🙄
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
Yep why I tell women to go after what they want before investing in men
@nikjonestravel
7 ай бұрын
facts
@cdubya752
7 ай бұрын
Cheating and divorce happens at all ages. Especially when attached to black men. His eyes will wander at 23 or 44
@digimonalvatrax2738
7 ай бұрын
Tbh for her age I don't really blame her. Her family failed her
@toscadonna
7 ай бұрын
A college friend of mine and her husband got married right after we graduated and couldn’t have kids of their own. They ended up adopting 6 kids, and the husband after a few years eventually tired of being a father, and he filed for divorce saying he never wanted to adopt all of those kids. Males WILL change their minds and switch up on you. Never, EVER have more children than you can handle all by yourself.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
Adopted 6 kids 🙄, wow. I said the same thing, lol. I knew this info for over 30+ years. Men don't want all these darn kids they just go along with it. Stopping sense is not common sense, that's what it seems like. Children must serve a specific, logical purpose in order for a majority of men to want a bunch of them. Angelina J. and Brad P.😂....he never truly wanted those kids, still don't. He is resentful AF!
@nikicarrie4071
7 ай бұрын
Yes
@parklady4233
7 ай бұрын
Yes, my husband wanted more kids. I said no. I am so glad! We are getting divorced because he went left.
@nikicarrie4071
7 ай бұрын
@@parklady4233 we went left?? As in rainbow 🌈 gay??
@theteleisewilliamsexperience
7 ай бұрын
@@parklady4233 My ex husband said the same thing when I was pregnant with our daughter I got my tubes tied. He was gone by the time she was 4 months old.
@ChildfreeLT
7 ай бұрын
This is why I never get invested in couples on youtube
@edunlap6594
7 ай бұрын
💯
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
Same
@go-goyubari8776
7 ай бұрын
And I mean NEVER.
@kekef3620
7 ай бұрын
Not a single one
@ashxpotatoes
7 ай бұрын
I would be devastated if Riss & Quan split 😂
@fionafox420
7 ай бұрын
This is one of the reasons I always side eye people with “Christian values” 👀
@Longhairdontcare34567
7 ай бұрын
Same
@tammygarrett8427
7 ай бұрын
What Christian values did he show? He got a young girl and used and cheated on her! He dose not even have a basic moral code. He is a jerk! She was young and trusting.
@Longhairdontcare34567
7 ай бұрын
@@tammygarrett8427 He was a pastor. He most likely gave the illusion of having Christian values
@hubabaloop
7 ай бұрын
#run 🤣
@MultiRekrap
7 ай бұрын
Preach!
@chamab.6800
7 ай бұрын
Give that man full custody. Tell the courts that “as a woman you cannot raise boys. These boys need their father full time.” Aint that what these men say?
@theteleisewilliamsexperience
7 ай бұрын
Yup
@nothereyetlost
6 ай бұрын
No courts can’t force him to take custody. She needs to have them visit daddy and then….sneak out and not return,
@Nitra813
6 ай бұрын
@@nothereyetlost😂
@b.m5257
6 ай бұрын
@@nothereyetlost by your logic no court can force her to take custody either
@nothereyetlost
6 ай бұрын
@@b.m5257 well she likely already has custody. You see, you can’t be forced to take them, but if you already have them through happenstance, you’re not allowed to just abandon them. That goes for ANY adult. So if you leave your kids with a homeless man, HE cannot abandon them without first arranging for a caretaker.
@stilljocelyn_
7 ай бұрын
I would give the husband full custody. I’d be a weekend mom cuz ain’t no way.
@prettypearls26
7 ай бұрын
Why wouldn’t it be half time it’s like saying f the children. She didn’t say she needed a vacay got her kids.
@chantellemodisane
7 ай бұрын
I fully agree sis😂🥂
@sg5720
7 ай бұрын
Having boy children at that. 🤦🏽😞
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
@@prettypearls26 because that's too much stress and logistics for her. She didn't cause the marriage to end, he did, so women should choose when or if they see the children.
@shaypope4732
7 ай бұрын
Same so I can find myself too
@destamcghie632
7 ай бұрын
Six children? One child is a ton of work, she has six...Well, I'll be damned. Ladies, we got to make sure we don't have more children than we can afford. A man is not promised to stick around and when they're ready to leave, nothing will stop him. Seeing things like this makes me appreciate being single and childfree even more. This is too much.
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
Exactly I have 3 and can afford them as I have been raising them as the domicilary parent
@destamcghie632
7 ай бұрын
@@77kc_77 Three is more than enough. Good on you for doing the best you can, because it's not easy being a mother.
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
@destamcghie632 nope I tell women not to have kids unless you can afford them without a man
@Sunny-tc3ul
7 ай бұрын
Start giving them parental rights.
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
@destamcghie632 I'm self employed so I made sure my kids had what they needed
@breaellis5827
7 ай бұрын
No shade but he did give me 🏳️🌈 vibes too
@morganandrea9323
7 ай бұрын
Girl, yes....he's very polished and shiny. He honestly looks like a stud 😂
@LoveK1
7 ай бұрын
@@morganandrea9323he’s definitely NOT a stud. 😂 He’s the one arching that back for sure!
@nikjonestravel
7 ай бұрын
zesty
@rinnemichelle946
7 ай бұрын
@@morganandrea9323that’s what i thought
@proudblkqueen1067
7 ай бұрын
Yes! I always wondered about their backstory. I have seen a couple of their videos but the vibe felt weird with him. He seemed controlling and manipulative. I can’t remember but a little while back they made a video about separating or divorcing I think and it wasn’t true. I am sorry but I could not have all those kids with him cheating I would feel disgusted.
@tiffanypayne6124
7 ай бұрын
See, it's my man, my man, my man. Until they need help with those kids. Then it's I need a woman's help.🧐💯
@Spokentruths725
7 ай бұрын
My aunt was exactly like that. I still separated myself.
@jasminexxx3911
7 ай бұрын
It never fails
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
Facts
@NamasteInYourLane
7 ай бұрын
We need to understand this woman clearly had a rocky childhood. How can we expect her to make the best decisions as an adult woman who wasn't given any guidance or nurturing? Her parents are truly the ones to blame for their lack of raising her and allowing thr world to take advantage of her. I'm really tired of our daughters being neglected and then blamed for not knowing better when they were never taught better.
@sherrita8582
7 ай бұрын
That's the world we live in,blame a young girl for her situation especially black girls😮
@Spokentruths725
7 ай бұрын
@@sherrita8582yup we should have always know better straight out the womb. We are born as adults.
@winxclubstellamusa
7 ай бұрын
I agree
@theteleisewilliamsexperience
7 ай бұрын
This is why I'm very protective of my daughter. My sons are as well. She's taking self defense classes now. I don't make her do anything other than keep her room clean and get good grades.
@HaleyJo1992
7 ай бұрын
Don't make your relationship your brand. If I were an online presence no one would ever know anything about my personal relationships
@NetrunnerMox77
7 ай бұрын
When you listen to her story and then hear her age, you wonder, how many toxic relationships was she in at 16? What party lifestyle? She wasnt even legally allowed in bars, clubs, etc. She got married at 18, what sort of life was she living to even take on the party girl title and or have a series of bad relationships? She barely grew into herself, claimed an identity that usually preys on the young and vulnerable and now she is a divorcee at 26 with 6 children. Then for him to call himself a man of the church only to have been cheating on her this whole time. The problem is, the black church and lifestyle condones this behavior and constantly place all the decision making on God rather than themselves.
@ClayMastah344
7 ай бұрын
Literally she was a girl failed again and again of course she will fail herself. A shame.
@NoSoupForYou-zu9dj
7 ай бұрын
People always wanna blame God for everything, when God didn’t even tell anyone to do anything. They made their own decisions. There’s a lot of people married, who God never told to get married. They just assume because they did it, that they have His blessing.
@thelashayway8250
7 ай бұрын
26?!!?
@NetrunnerMox77
7 ай бұрын
@@thelashayway8250 if my calculations are correct. She said they got married when she was 18 and have been married for 8 years.
@boparks3204
7 ай бұрын
@@NoSoupForYou-zu9dj They never said "god". They said the black church... although it's the church institution overall. So one is a system and tangible, the other is intangible and requires an imagination.
@ArtemisUnderscoreJ
7 ай бұрын
12:53 Sis took the words RIGHT out my mouth. Children will never save a marriage. If anything it’s only going to make that man resent you more…
@Nwakaego_
7 ай бұрын
She was SPOT ON and spoke complete TRUTH to be honest, but some ladies don’t want to hear it.
@meldawilliams1636
7 ай бұрын
Fact
@l0111
7 ай бұрын
She needs to give the daddy custody of those kids and get intense therapy. ETA fully agreed with the first lady.
@tammygarrett8427
7 ай бұрын
I agree he can just walk away and start over with a new woman. Let him restart with the kid.
@LeahInAtlanta
7 ай бұрын
She can't do that. I feel that he might be abusive to the children. I feel like I saw abuse 1 time in a video. The way he grabbed a child and sat him down felt wrong in my spirit.
@Lifeisinside
7 ай бұрын
@@LeahInAtlanta yes tf she can Nobody gaf about what you saw, she can drop them off to YOU Mrs. Fake concerned
@LeahInAtlanta
7 ай бұрын
You sound like what's wrong in the black community. You can't speak standard American English ( you should speak the King's English when addressing me). You do what you feel - and think about it later. So emotional. You don't know how to channel it. You know.... the typical reaction(s) without thinking things through regarding the long term ramification(s) of a bad decision. He's gives abusive vibes. I don't condone leaving those underage BOYS with that WEIRD GAY man and his gay buddies so that Channel 2 Action News will have something else bad to report. I already flagged their content. It's not fake concern. Her mother or another female is going to have to move in and help her. The same way that I moved in and am helping my daughter raise her multiples.@@Lifeisinside
@Sunny-tc3ul
7 ай бұрын
Girl I wouldn’t be raising 6 kids by myself. Nope, get all your seeds.
@TruCunt
7 ай бұрын
Give him the children. I’m not understanding why women get so emotionally involved. Lmfaoooo. Give him the babies and let them watch the baby
@misslola007
7 ай бұрын
If they are boys, I would.
@corimoon3360
7 ай бұрын
I’m not understanding why yall make fun of women for not wanting to hand their kids over to someone they know won’t really take care of them… and will most likely just bring them back anyway. Knowing women get blamed for everything… Emotionally involved? You mean being a MOTHER?!?! Lmao. Yall have the most to say about women but never a thing to say about these gross male predators.. wonder why that is. 🤔
@magnarcreed3801
7 ай бұрын
@@corimoon3360 And? Let them. She’s gonna get blamed no matter what. Might as well wash her hands clean and start over! Why bother taking care of a man’s offspring. Men know lots of women will. So if more didn’t they would have to act accordingly.
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
@@corimoon3360 what else can you do but laugh. There's no point in complaining about being a single mother when you have the choice to opt out. Yes it's hard, but it's worse being a single mother trying to survive life.
@cygnevara8400
7 ай бұрын
this!
@Libby-MD
7 ай бұрын
If I was the soon to be ex-wife, I’m getting a 1 bedroom condo and becoming the every other weekend and holidays parent. Sons need to be with their dad 😂😂. Y’all play too much
@gchristina1770
7 ай бұрын
16!!!! My daughter is 25 and is still contemplating having a first relationship after studying.
@Spokentruths725
7 ай бұрын
Dont let these low value podcast bros get to her. They will make her think she is losing value for waiting. Smh
@b.m5257
6 ай бұрын
um is that suppose to be good? because their are many people who both study and enter relationships
@gchristina1770
4 ай бұрын
@@b.m5257 , yes but she has seen one of best friends a med student who suffered whilst in a toxic and emotional abusive relationship.
@Longhairdontcare34567
7 ай бұрын
I agree with the first stitch. Give that man them kids and be a weekend mom. That man got some nerve
@KevonnieElaine
7 ай бұрын
Listen! This!
@coolcat3452
7 ай бұрын
I agree too; he think he can now move on with another woman & dump all responsibility to the young woman! Equal responsibility for both of them!!😢😢
@Ms_Introvert_4_Life
7 ай бұрын
I wish people would be honest about their sexuality.
@Lightreign888
7 ай бұрын
What’s worst is how he addressed the public without apologizing to his wife and pretty much stating he needed to find himself. Now that is what you call womb abuse. Extremely sad. 😢 She isn’t innocent because if you knew he was cheating and wouldn’t stop why on earth would you continuously allow him to breed you. Bizarre and sad, all boys at that , 7 boys to add on to the chaos of broken men. 🤦🏾♀️
@shauntikayvette
7 ай бұрын
Please stop blaming wives for standing by their wives as they are trained to do.
@Lightreign888
7 ай бұрын
@@shauntikayvette please stop condoning women to stay in abusive relationships when they are shown over and over again that they are not cherished nor respected. Thanks ✌🏾
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
She didn't find out until last year. Waay after the children were born, so don't blame her for that. She didn't know. Plus she was 16 when she met him. Why are you blaming a child? She wasn't protected by her parents and pretty much raised herself. How much wisdom did you expect her to have? 🙄
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
@@Lightreign888 she's a woman now but was a child when she got married and had children. Blame him for what he did to her, not her. He was supposed to be faithful because he agreed to in marriage. She did nothing wrong.
@Lightreign888
7 ай бұрын
@@biblethumper8088 there’s a huge difference between blaming and holding folks accountable. Do understand that.
@Caram3l_Bombsh3ll
7 ай бұрын
A lot of the comments were spot on. I’m sorry, I risk my life to carry SIX kids for you and this is the end result???...... its giving R-E-D-R-U-M. He never cared about her physically, mentally, spiritually, and in any other way.
@jodynanci
7 ай бұрын
Regardless of his sexual orientation or needs, he should not be allowed to leave her to “Discover” himself. What about her self discovery
@jahvonnad1738
7 ай бұрын
Now she is left with his "legacies."🙄 She was married he stayed single!
@L.Cumming
7 ай бұрын
It's the 'legacies' that piss me off😢😢😢
@NamasteInYourLane
7 ай бұрын
Also, i don't think women just need to be wise when it comes to marriage. We also need to wise up when it comes to men in general. Many women are in the dark when it comes to the true nature of men and how they operate. Men have been studying and watching and reprogramming women for thousands of years. So they know us front and back. However, women have been kept in the dark when it comes to who men truly are and we've been fed a fantasy about men and marriage.
@inovermyhead3947
7 ай бұрын
Please share what you know 🙏
@GenChanger
7 ай бұрын
THIS. Well said.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
It's not that deep. It's a divorce, that's all.
@HighFrequencyGuru
7 ай бұрын
No women just wanna be in la la land but ppl been trying to tell us lol
@MiamiPush2theLimit
7 ай бұрын
Princella the Queenmaker 💯
@BlkOnyx0508
7 ай бұрын
My husband acted up after I got pregnant. I got an iud at my 6 week checkup. No more to be had 😂
@jasminmenzies9759
2 ай бұрын
Same here 😂
@fifthavenuelady
7 ай бұрын
I had a friend who only gave her husband one child and the reason was for this exact kind of bs. They seemed to have a happy marriage but she was smart and planned for the "what-ifs". I thought she was being negative but no she was being smart.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
She has done both of them a favor.
@Itsoktoloveyourself
6 ай бұрын
My opinion It's best to have 2 children In case the mother or father dies the siblings will have each other to lean on.
@Kinksgalore
7 ай бұрын
16:47 women need to be wiser? He know he GAY and knew he could never love a woman. Everything is on the women's shoulders.🙄
@DeeDaKang1
7 ай бұрын
9×out of 10 she knew he was qay to women volunteer to be beards & then forget that they're beards
@Theworldismine5
7 ай бұрын
@@DeeDaKang1She was 16 when she got with him I don’t think she knew that
@amberinthemist7912
7 ай бұрын
@DeeDaKang1 that is bs. I haven't known a single woman signing up to be a beard.
@Kinksgalore
7 ай бұрын
@@DeeDaKang1 Lies. Gay men make straight women (unknowingly) beards and play victim "I'm finding myself"🙄 no accountability and selfish 🗑️
@meldawilliams1636
7 ай бұрын
@Theworldismine5 After 2 or 3 she should be smart enough not to have 6 wether age 16 or not
@ultimateenigma6038
7 ай бұрын
Sad story. 7 children. Women in her camp should have counseled her. .. please de center men and marriage. When she wakes up....she will give him hell. Rightly so. His finances will be effed up forever.
@misslola007
7 ай бұрын
She is in the church. Her own family will gaslit her to "endure". They failed her. It sounds like she was raised in a dysfunctional home. I don't understand how a 16 yo already gone thru so many toxic relationship?! Makes no sense.
@dyrich6799
7 ай бұрын
She probably told them mind their business she married and they not
@HarmlessComment
7 ай бұрын
It blows my mind when young women under 20yrs old think they have been through "a lot" of relationships, they know so little about true male behavior because of their lack of experience. Men in each age group behave so differently, in my opinion it isn't until your mid-20s/early-30s until you really understand yourself and the opposite sex.
@andreaashby897
7 ай бұрын
I think she went through TOXIC relstionships. Especially if it is back to back it affects your brain and behaviour. If she is emotionally vunerable it made her a target for a grown man to groom and prey on her. Has nothing to do with what you stated or this vibe of thinking she went through 'a lot'.
@aprilchow-chee5281
7 ай бұрын
You're right. I'm about to be 30 and I do not want a man!
@elizabethrose5007
7 ай бұрын
I hope people give this woman grace and allow her time to heal from this broken relationship. Going through a breakup is bad but when you are in the public eye it is even worse. Please lift up our sister with words of encouragement and kindness. Don't take this opportunity to drag their relationship through the mud.
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
The message is just don't have children because men can leave you with them and don't have sex because you can have children.
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
Exactly mines will be grown In 7 years
@Ravenboppityzoppity
6 ай бұрын
There are other methods of sex lol and birth control but the main struggle is finding someone that makes you comfortable smh
@louannfranklin8425
7 ай бұрын
So true! I was 50 and filed for divorce at 22 years of marriage. I had enough of being a slave to him. He always said, “What do you do?” it was my home and I paid the mortgage.
@nothereyetlost
6 ай бұрын
He was asking what you do even after you paying the mortgage???
@Itsoktoloveyourself
6 ай бұрын
😮
@louannfranklin8425
6 ай бұрын
@@nothereyetlost Yes, it was my home, and I cared for the children. I was in the military service when we met. We both were newly divorced and experienced the same with our exes. I thought we both wanted the same things in life. I got out of the military after ten years of service, and he said it was time I got to be a stay-at-home mother. Mind you, I continued with Reserve duty to work towards retirement… So yes he said that with a full chest. He never thought being a Mother was a full-time Job. A lot of men feel that way until they have to do it!
@nothereyetlost
6 ай бұрын
@@louannfranklin8425 ohhhh wow. I would’ve let him do his own “nothing” for a full week while me and the children are well fed and cleaned. Then after he begs for my forgives, I will divorce him a month later. Y’all are soooooo brave. 22years?
@parklady4233
7 ай бұрын
Poor lady, you can’t trust them!!!
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
Nope
@tammykinstrue9849
7 ай бұрын
I don't know these content creators, but there story reminds me of Jon & Kate Plus 8 on cable from years ago. On another note, many BM marry women knowing full well that they are only offering them a title, not true security.
@nothereyetlost
6 ай бұрын
Honestly they don’t even think in those terms, security vs title. They only gave the capacity to think about their peen. Period.
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
So sad all those kids and no supprt to raise them while husband goes on with his life and create a new family smh
@aprilchow-chee5281
7 ай бұрын
Leave them with him
@77kc_77
7 ай бұрын
@@aprilchow-chee5281 well yes
@meganakinsanya4702
6 ай бұрын
@aprilchow I don’t know why these wanna keep these children. Children are a blessing. But being a weekend mom is not a bad thing either
@samanthabrahambrown6369
7 ай бұрын
This is why I‘m not for all these New-age Black large Families posting their Day-to-Day Business on Social Media😤
@Egg_Apron
7 ай бұрын
Yes. Let him take the full responsibility of his paternity. Let him understand what it means to be a single parent. Let him find out how far his comedy skit salary will carry him and his children. I'm so sure his "emotional affairs" with coworkers will provide him with the love and support he will need.
@JennyGaston
7 ай бұрын
The grass is not always greener on the other side. After the honeymoon stage, every relationship takes work.
@PettyIsMyMiddleName
7 ай бұрын
Exactly! He getting ALL his kids and I’ll be the fun parent.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
@@JennyGaston Yes! Newness, excitement, amazing relations, head over heels feeling loses its luster after awhile. Gotta keep it fresh, exciting and interesting! Blowing up like a blimp is a no-no.
@jasminmenzies9759
2 ай бұрын
I can see her ex-husband lasting a couple of hours or, at best, a whole 24 hours with the kids. 😂
@thisis.michelletorres444
7 ай бұрын
When I heard content creators and Atlanta, I already knew! I don't hear good things about Atlanta society (the men particularly). Also, this could happen to anyone and being a Christian does not make you immune, this man left God before he left his wife! And don't have so many kids, stay ready and able!!
@LeahInAtlanta
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for this! I kind of said the same thing, but took my time in expressing myself because it needed to be said.
@nothereyetlost
6 ай бұрын
He never had god. He was lying. All holy men are liars. Baby girl I mean ALL of them. ALL of them.!
@PettyIsMyMiddleName
7 ай бұрын
Trust and BELIEVE, he ruined the marriage and he’s about to get ALL them kids. Period.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
She gets half and he gets half, lol.
@PettyIsMyMiddleName
7 ай бұрын
@@glidkomer Nope he gets ALL. According to the degeneracy of the manosphere 🤣 women can’t and suck at raising boys into men
@nikkimonroe1982
7 ай бұрын
I agree stop having all these kids it anit cute and will play hard on mental financial physical stress
@NamasteInYourLane
7 ай бұрын
Yes! I don't understand how women can have all those children. I don't care if you're married or not. Having more than 3 children is reckless and irresponsible in my opinion. I feel like some women are addicted to being pregnant. They're addicted to the attention they get when they're pregnant and they're addicted to the amazing ability to produce life.
@Mbuyiselo5
7 ай бұрын
You are glowing these days Destiny, you look beautiful.
@DestinyUteh
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 🙏🏾🫶❤️❤️❤️
@imjussayn7936
7 ай бұрын
Leaving her with 6 children, does ANYBODY see anything slightly right with this.? Men this your APB. Y'all continue to wonder why women aint having Y'all likenthat no more
@Spokentruths725
7 ай бұрын
They claim the majority of them arent like this and want marriage. And if he does leave its over a very serious reason 😂
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
Nothing is right with that. That's pretty much a death sentence for her if she keeps them.
@imjussayn7936
7 ай бұрын
@Spokentruths725 oh yea they want the marriage but not the commitment that comes with it. They worse than kids in a 🍬 store. When it's no longer fun, beneficial for them, or to much work, they gone. That's how their math be mathn
@imjussayn7936
7 ай бұрын
@biblethumper8088 AGREED, he knew exactly what he was doing. It was his plan from the beginning. That was a straight setup.
@valenciaaniese
7 ай бұрын
Sis with the bonnet and glasses YESSS! I agree I’ve been married for almost 10 years . Every time someone would say girl you’re married have as many kids as you want . Ummm hell naw men can switch up any day! There’s no way ik doing that to myself.
@marrissiajones5234
7 ай бұрын
Girl that is my Soror and line sister 💚💕💚💕; she ate that !
@lindadewese6754
7 ай бұрын
I am prolife , I "CHOSE" when I was ready to have a baby, i just had one, his father was there physically ,{though not helpful and hands off}I had a lot of support,had my own place,a carrer,and savings.ALL THAT and I still found myself ,floundering and depressed ,I resented the forced intrusion on my body and time for myself.I cannot fathom 6 kids and no support.That is a recipe for nervous breakdowns.
@dickie9748
7 ай бұрын
I totally agree a woman should never have more children than she can take care of by herself. A married woman, of which I'm one, should be able to carry household expenses by herself. My husband asked me to quit work but I told him it would benefit both of us if I worked as we could save more money. When he got sick and couldn't work for a while, I took care of the household expenses and we didn't miss a beat even though I was off work with him. I'm going to make sure my retirement funds are a priority. Also it's very hard on a woman's body having children back to back. Most black people cannot afford to have 6 plus children and give them a world class experience. I'm talking about private schools, music lessons and extracurricular activities etc. The minimum is fine with some parents and it shows in our community.
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
Women weren't meant to take care of children by themselves. So just say women shouldn't have them. Even in the best situation and the husband does, he should secure his wife and children's future with a paid off home and life insurance to cover the span of her raising his children. If men can opt out,then let there be no more children.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
@@biblethumper8088 If women want the children no matter what then they should be able to afford them. Nothing wrong with that. There are single mothers footing all bills due to not having a man in the picture. Gotta pay to play.
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
@@glidkomer why would the woman want the children? To do extra work for free? And without a man, there are no children, so why are you saying that men should be able to abandon their children?
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
@@biblethumper8088 There are women that want to be mothers, that's a beautiful thing. Some women are just fine not having a man in the picture. Every woman is not bitter and angry with men.
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
@@glidkomer but wanting to be a mother and a single mother are 2 different things. One allows the mother to fulfill her role because she is available due to being provided for. She does not pay for the child. Whereas the latter is not a mother because she has delegated the raising of the child to someone else while she is working and is paying for the child. So again, why would any woman want to have children? There's nothing beautiful about an overworked mother neglecting her child.
@jfreeman2422
7 ай бұрын
Advice.....never have more kids then your willing to and have resources to take care of own and stop staying past the prime of the relationship, if you know in your heart that it can't be saved then let it go, I promise your not a failure for doing so.
@cinnamongirl5410
7 ай бұрын
6 more children growing up in a single parent home smh. Selfish man. Who wants a man that left the woman who gave him 6 children??
@luckydonnee7185
7 ай бұрын
Give the man full custody… Thats what I would’ve done or at least most of the custody
@adrianwillis66
7 ай бұрын
I remember this family. So sad they have divorced after 8 years.
@haileys5371
7 ай бұрын
Good time to go 50/50...she takes 3 kids he takes the other 3
@Lastdayone
7 ай бұрын
Being married should be a MINIMAL requirement for having children. If a man can not commit to a contractual agreement why the heck would he commit to an entire human being. So no I do not agree with the sentiment that marriage is pointless. I think a lot of women just stand by and deep down THEY KNOW something ain’t right and they feel it’s to deep to let go. But that comes with a toll spiritually. If that’s not where you’re supposed to be you will be made uncomfortable until you do what must be done. If you blatantly disregard the warnings you will find yourself in an unfortunate circumstance. Please ladies do not have a bunch of children. My motto is only have what you can afford mentally, spiritually, financially and emotionally alone. If you look at your life and realize you’re not fully developed as the woman you’d like to be one, then why add on another responsibility? Women will continue to find themselves in these circumstances until you learn. These men aren’t changing. Do with that as you please ✨
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
Why would any woman have children to raise it alone? She didn't get pregnant by herself. A man impregnated her. The phrase should be that women shouldn't have children because men can walk away without consequences.
@brys2463
7 ай бұрын
Everytime I start to feel down on myself for a similar situation, my silver lining is at least I only have one. I couldn’t imagine 6. I’m looking forward to them coming out on the other side of this 🙏🏽
@tnewman6967
7 ай бұрын
Girl you glowing not just the ring light 😊
@DestinyUteh
7 ай бұрын
Thank you sis 😊🙏🏾😘🫶🫶🫶
@yujuy.1329
7 ай бұрын
He’s a pdf. Predator
@emilyann4549
6 ай бұрын
I was thinking that same thing...
@tynaangelici3023
7 ай бұрын
Why isn’t the man held accountable?
@kishadanyelle2183
7 ай бұрын
I am not feeling the girl that says she's been married twice. Some of the stuff she says about money is true but she talks about if you've been married over 5 years you've put hands on each other, stayed at your mommas house...etc. that is bullshit. I will be married 12 years this year and have never been through any of this. She is projecting. People have to stop jumping into marriage just because they feel they are in love but are not stable just being boyfriend and girlfriend. Married people are going to have arguments. You will not always see eye to eye. But you should not have to always be watching your back when you are married. I feel most people should not be married before they are 30. You change so much from how you are in your 20's. Your mindset changes and you most likely will not be on the same page with your spouse anymore.
@nogooddeedgoesunpunishedng3814
2 ай бұрын
Six kid today is like having 12 kids 40 or 50 years ago. Both of my grandmothers had 10 kids, and life was hard for them. Their husbands did not stay with them. Today you have to be out of your mind to have more than 4 kids today, even if you are married. Your husband could also die while married to you. Even if he were to leave you a million-dollar life insurance policy, that is not going to carry you into retirement. We as women have to be realistic about marriage, motherhood, and just life in general.
@tracyjacksonjackson4221
2 ай бұрын
This is what I mean by holding men accountable. We can't choose better if there is nothing better to choose. He has had all these children with her as a means to trap her. He thought she had no choice but to stay. I'm sure the divorce blindsided him as she is pregnant as we speak. The first lady's advice is good. Let him have full custody of those boys and go ahead and live your life. Pay child support and visit your kids. Let HIM raise them. I know that sounds counter intuitive, but they are his children too.
@brittenyevans1101
7 ай бұрын
What's crazy, is that they were giving counsel to other couples on how to stay married. All the while homeboy was swinging for the other team. He cheated multiple times on her with women. And she drew the line when he cheated on her with a man?. I remember seeing this couple trending on Tik tok last year, raking up millions of views. For being a married couple, in the church, young, and with 6 kids. And, I remember thinking I hope and pray they have a plan. For when things go left. Because, just like any other family vlog. The success rate of continuing to be relevant, without scandal and cringe is relatively low!. Then, he gave her six kids and dipped. She needs to either take 3 and give him 3. Or let him get full custody and become a weekend mom. The lesson here, is do not bite off more than you can chew. And do not take disrespect, for the sake of being married.
@nothereyetlost
6 ай бұрын
No she needs to give him all 6
@nothereyetlost
6 ай бұрын
So the lesson is not stop dating men??? You are in for a rude awakening.
@charsfitjourney
7 ай бұрын
Love the video and your hair GIRL is a 10 out of 10😍
@DestinyUteh
7 ай бұрын
Thank you sis 🙏🏾🫶🫶🫶😘
@Ilikefrogs..
7 ай бұрын
Beautiful couple?? She was sixteen when they met! This is child grooming!
@NamasteInYourLane
7 ай бұрын
16:36 i literally thought of her while listening to this video. I remember her saying she wanted to have another child simply because she wanted to get her husbands attention off of other women and back on to her. Alot of women do this. They will use their womb to try and gain leverage in a relationship.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
She said it. Lots of women do this silliness too. It's weird and uncomfortable to hear women say this stuff.
@afrikurl
7 ай бұрын
The last lady is correct a lot of white women understand marriage as a business deal. They have pre nuptial agreements and post nuptial agreements that state what they are going to get if they have a certain number of kids, if the marriage lasts a certain length of time, if the marriage ends due to infidelity. They have a spousal retirement plan where the husband contributes to their retirement income, even if the wife doesn’t work outside of the home. Many Black women believe that we should only get married for love, Not only do we not get support from our former spouses but many of us are paying the no good man because the women earned more. When men understand that being unfaithful will cost them severely, they either behave responsibly in the marriage or they pay in the divorce then they will act accordingly.
@theseeker4700
6 ай бұрын
Amen!!! Say it for those in the back. Disney done ruined generations of people with the bs of matrimony for loves sake instead of business (or both).
@meganakinsanya4702
6 ай бұрын
@theseek they foresaw that men would be unproductive and not have resources to give women so why not feed women with Disney bs so women forget that they should expect resources from men not some bs love
@chronicfatiguehermithiker3022
7 ай бұрын
Being married before kids entitles the single mom to half of what wealth was created during the marriage plus child support; the baby momma could only hope for child support which a lot of men don’t bother to pay, so marriage gives her more chance of getting more support; so if the family bought a house, built a business or accumulated any savings, she has rights to a share of all of it.
@LaydeeJulez
7 ай бұрын
In Canada as long as they’ve lived together for over a year, it’s considered common law marriage so she gets half
@jmjenkins97
7 ай бұрын
Most BM don’t transfer wealth to BW because they are the poorest demographic
@apaddy5390
7 ай бұрын
A woman’s marital status has nothing to do with a man dodging child support, there is no law that holds a married man more responsible for child support than an ex-husband. A wife who’s helping with the household is entitled to half of that, it’s not a “gift” she gets for being married. Wives are also responsible for martial debt so wives can also walk away with debt instead of assets.
@chronicfatiguehermithiker3022
7 ай бұрын
@@apaddy5390 The point is that a lot of men do not pay child support therefore it’s good if she gets half of anything of value as well, since it might be all she ends up getting and the baby momma wouldn’t be entitled to that. Of course getting half is not a gift, it is earned, the point is that the baby momma might earn it too, but not entitled to it. Yes wives can end up with half the marital debt, baby mommas aren’t totally safe from that depending on what they sign their name to, but the point is that baby mommas are not entitled to anything regardless if they helped to build; if she wants to benefit from her contribution to the relationship the only way is through marriage, otherwise, she builds him by her presence and contribution with no benefit to herself possible.
@aprilchow-chee5281
7 ай бұрын
@chronicfatiguehermithiker3022 she's entitled to half! I'm sure if she didn't have to look after all them kids she'd be building her own wealth too it's because of her taking the strain off of him by keeping his kids that's how he was able to acquire wealth! They're married half of his shit is hers
@SipsofSerenity
7 ай бұрын
I agree with the woman in the first video. She should definitely not allow him to just leave hwr to be the primary guardian of the children. Joint custody all the way or let him have them, and she can get weekend visitations. He knew he needed to "find himself" before he ever made the commitment to be someone's husband and ask for her hand in marriage. He knew he needed to find himself before becoming a father... and if he's been cheating, then it seems like he already knows what he wants, it's just not with her. She's the one who needs to find herself, since she's the one who's been trying to be everything he wanted and not investing in herself. I hope that she can pick up the pieces and move on to successfully building a life without the stress of a cheating partner.
@aprilchow-chee5281
7 ай бұрын
Facts
@lacheregriffin-denton9946
7 ай бұрын
I love everything that was said for the most part. The only thing is when the last woman said that she should have limited how many children she had yes but we also have to caveat that with the fact that she was only 18 so she was still growing herself. She's a baby having babies and we all know that the brain doesn't fully develop until age 25 and she's only age 26 so she's really stepping into her adulthood right now. That's why I can't look down upon her because she was thinking with a teenage mind.
@Nille0212
7 ай бұрын
She was 21 when she had her first children. She wasn't exactly a baby. She was young, but not a teenager.
@lacheregriffin-denton9946
7 ай бұрын
@@Nille0212 she was 18 when he married her though, so it does make a huge difference and believe it or not between the ages of 21 and 25, you can have significantly different views once your frontal lobe is fully developed.
@Nille0212
7 ай бұрын
@@lacheregriffin-denton9946 I understand that. I'm just saying she wasn't 18 having kids.
@lacheregriffin-denton9946
6 ай бұрын
@@Nille0212 well I never said that she was 18 having kids but she was 18 when she married him so she never really had an opportunity to grow up mentally because once again your mental isn't fully developing until age 25. So she's really making decisions with a teenage mindset because she wasn't fully developed beforehand. That's why I'm saying I cannot judge her for making those type of decisions. Besides that, she was a married woman with the mindset that her relationship was going to last once again because she was thinking with a teenage mindset. So she wasn't thinking about the fact that if he didn't do right by her how that would affect her. Especially since they had a band together for a significant amount of years before the affair, whether it was emotional or physical happened with the other woman. You can't think like a woman and make decisions like a woman if you aren't a woman yet. That's why I said I'm no judgment zone.
@Nille0212
6 ай бұрын
@@lacheregriffin-denton9946 do you watch their channel? I do. So my opinion is vastly different because I've seen her in action and not just a snippet from this video. I'm always going to hold her accountable for her actions because I saw her and him in the relationship. Have a great day.
@minniewortham9299
7 ай бұрын
One thing about it. You get yours I get mine ten folds.
@tynaangelici3023
7 ай бұрын
This is why I’m staying single. These men can’t be trusted.
@bestlife9143
7 ай бұрын
8:48 That’s right! 👏🏾 PLEASE Give him FULL CUSTODY in 2024 🗣️
@luckylady123100
7 ай бұрын
Bringing that many children into bullshit is selfish. She knew he wasn’t hitting after the second pregnancy. Idc what you say.
@theteleisewilliamsexperience
7 ай бұрын
How have u been in a series of toxic relationships at 16? My daughter is 15 and she will never speak those words. A series of toxic relationships chile please.
@LovelyJordy
Ай бұрын
The sad thing about this is as a woman with six children. She’s going to have a much more difficult time in life than he will. He’s just going to be able to pick up like nothing ever happened. Where is she will always have the stigma of being a single mother with six children.
@quanyin1556
7 ай бұрын
He would have to give me 5 million dollars of my own money in a separate account while we married to have 6 kids, she basically sacrificed her whole life
@Lastdayone
7 ай бұрын
Give the sons to the father💜✨
@ms.wilson6439
7 ай бұрын
16 and you have a bunch of toxic relationships? You really were a party girl
@Sight2beholdB4U
7 ай бұрын
Loving the Bantu knots Destiny! Looking good girl. ❤
@DestinyUteh
7 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏🏾 🫶❤️❤️❤️
@barbarablackmon7807
7 ай бұрын
How about she takes three and he takes three (or4) as part of the divorce settlement?
@keekeekee7722
7 ай бұрын
This is why you should stay child free until you're prepared mentally to be a single parent.... never have a baby cause a man ask for one...he can go out for milk ans never come back when ever he chooses ....you can be a single mother withun a marriage, a lot of men like the idea of family but don't physically participate in raising the kids
@shaypope4732
7 ай бұрын
This why u never have kids with these men yes I was married younger than her but if they ask for kids get them a pet to take care of plus her husband had the nerve to do dry comedy content with his mistress in his wife's home so im glad the wife caught on and hope she clears the account and give him full custody so the wife can find herself also
@latjacmitdye8830
3 ай бұрын
Yep, she ruined her life. Now she's gotta grow up with her kids. I don't know what would make anyone get married at 18 years old. The government needs to raise that age. These children can't drink until 21, but they can GET MARRIED and Ruin Their Credit at 18 years old. These are two of the most important things that these kids need guidance in, but the government loves ignorant citizens, because the idea is to keep everyone poor and ready to work for the elites that our government really works for, so that the elites are the only ones who live well, while we ruin our lives working for them, brainwashed on their "life is about working and struggling" programming.
@yunki_
7 ай бұрын
I find it funny that she was okay sticking with a man who was cheating on her with other women but she drew the line at men??? How about value yourself enough to not put up with cheating period, regardless of the gender you’re being cheated on with.
@levelupgoddess9289
7 ай бұрын
That’s Schäre most of these women draw the line because they can’t compete with a man. They will take cheating, babies, disease and other women but they know they can’t compete with a man so that’s that.
@TheKristyle79
2 ай бұрын
I would leave those kids with him, bye.
@Peacepeacelovelove
7 ай бұрын
Nobody feels sorry for these women anymore.
@Egh0127
7 ай бұрын
That's sad you think that way. Because she was young when this all started, and still is young. Teenage girls aren't supposed to know better, all teens are very immature.
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
You don't have to feel sorry for them because their stories are what will save other women from the same mistakes. Just be appreciative because without them, you'd probably be a single mother of 6 too.
@valencia9981
7 ай бұрын
She had 3 sets of twins?
@DestinyUteh
7 ай бұрын
2 sets of twins
@mzprince4139
7 ай бұрын
2 sets, 2 singles
@autumnl5127
7 ай бұрын
Thank you Destiny for bringing information to your channel that is always helpful to women❤
@DestinyUteh
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much . I'm so glad these video are helpful To Women
@humanbeing8948
7 ай бұрын
Don’t need to be religious to have morals.
@soybeans8139
7 ай бұрын
This situation seems horrible. They need equal custody, there is no way she should be responsible for them solely. I think it’s a good practice for women to only have the number of children they can take care of on their own, even when they are married this should be considered.
@PettyIsMyMiddleName
7 ай бұрын
I thought that was common sense , but apparently it’s not. Growing up my dad told me to NEVER have more kids than I could afford by MYSELF. He said a man will love you on Friday and have a brand new woman by Monday morning. Didn’t fully understand it as a teen but now as adult his words and teachings have shown him right , glad I listened.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
@@PettyIsMyMiddleName Daddy's know😁.
@PettyIsMyMiddleName
7 ай бұрын
@@glidkomer ❤️ they sure do , men know other men!! And a man who truly loves his daughter will WARN her 😂
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
@@PettyIsMyMiddleName 👌yes
@lindadewese6754
7 ай бұрын
I am one and done.IWhy have more than one kid.?I cant imagine 6 kids. MO KIDS MO PROBLEMS !
@MIAKIM-d3j
7 ай бұрын
Give him his kids...he chose the behavior, he chose the response
@kakag.7401
7 ай бұрын
The wife always looks distressed in their video thumbnails 😕.. sad to hear about this, especially because she birthed 6 of his children .. I also suspect that he wants to explore his sexuality….
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
SHE wanted ALL those kids👌.
@Bea_B
7 ай бұрын
SO did he!
@charminglady2011
7 ай бұрын
I don't think she did, depending on their church, they both could have been groomed to have that many.
@azureavocado5195
7 ай бұрын
*Are we SENTIENT, Thinking humans or mindless, docile animals to be abused and bred?* I’m gonna need women to figure that one out. Because based on these conversations & what I see in this society…it seems like many women are the latter.
@biblethumper8088
7 ай бұрын
He wanted all of those kids.
@glidkomer
7 ай бұрын
@@biblethumper8088 😫😆 Ain't no darn way he wanted all those kids. That's women type of stuff. He just went along with it 🙄 and tied himself into debt, drama and despair.
@LarennPBel
7 ай бұрын
THE JACKSON FAMILY OF ATLANTA IS THEIR NAME.
@keniasharpe1610
7 ай бұрын
Yeah she need to give them babies to him so she can get herself together
@StarrySupernova
7 ай бұрын
I always saw the algorithm trying to push this family on my timeline but they just seemed off to me and I didnt like that the kids didnt look happy and were sometimes crying in their videos. Now I see why….. better late than never I guess
@gaylegayle1361
7 ай бұрын
My mom friend came down with cancer and her husband left her with 10 kids. Every Sunday she had sit next to him because they had family pew at church that was the rule.
@Sunny-tc3ul
7 ай бұрын
I would have left him with all 6 kids and signed my rights over and enjoy the rest of my life.
@Roni-Ron
7 ай бұрын
Not just black women but many women I work in a diverse environment and most women complain about their marriage 🤷🏽♀️
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