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@playboy_noplay_musick1935
3 жыл бұрын
I'd like to meet you 1 day. I think you're awesome. I wish more women were like you. I am a leader, but I didn't know how to handle the control and attention. I lost all my employees and friends 🥺
@gordongreer2243
2 жыл бұрын
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@adrianaristeo4724
2 жыл бұрын
Hi, you're sexy. I like girls that don't care about their image, Even if they don't look atractive, but they feel as they were. Attitud is better than be really atractive, i like your personality.
@uncledeva164
2 жыл бұрын
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@Er.Sunil.Pedgaonkar
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@paulao7022
5 жыл бұрын
I thought when a person crosses their arms in front of them, it meant they're hugging themselves for comfort.
@eb2129
5 жыл бұрын
Hahahah true
@amywanja2695
4 жыл бұрын
I thought so too😄
@stephaniesarahkelly4147
4 жыл бұрын
This is true 👍
@derrickmwangi2967
4 жыл бұрын
They are protecting themselves and are defensive
@banderas2000
4 жыл бұрын
they are comfortable being uncomfortable
@quitemundane
2 жыл бұрын
She has this aura that makes you want her to be your friend, everyone’s friend... because she sounds calm and genuine when she talks.
@richardpauly1635
2 жыл бұрын
Your very 😍
@quitemundane
2 жыл бұрын
@@richardpauly1635 thank you
@josephe620
8 жыл бұрын
Vanessa is not only smart she's one of the nicest people that I've seen on youtube .. look at the way she's so caring and considerate to other people's emotions, in this video even when this man interrupts her she tries to fix the sitiuation and brings up another topic whithout embarrasing him .. while keeping on a smiley attitude
@Son_of_aesthetics
5 жыл бұрын
Yea I agree Cheers for mentioning
@meditationfills5758
3 жыл бұрын
You are simping for her
@lionsden5123
2 жыл бұрын
A true professional, and a master of her art.
@ciociosan
5 жыл бұрын
"Don't point your feet at me." 😂
@Evelyn-ux8rn
2 жыл бұрын
Wow, I thought I was going to hear things I have already heard but Vanessa surprises me EVERY time! I learn new things every time I see her and it’s always so fascinating
@ScienceOfPeople
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching! I'm glad to know this video brought value to you!
@mcanna5115
8 жыл бұрын
i was really annoyed by the all the interruptions they made when vanessa was talking!! it was very interesting and they only were making jokes that weren't funny.
@shyrose2466
7 жыл бұрын
Mc Anna I agree. like shut up and let her talk. I am
@jasonfarthing6931
7 жыл бұрын
Dudette. Chill. And the other 77 people. That was all fun and games.
@speechless00
7 жыл бұрын
It's because they don't want their body language reactions to pour out. hhehehe
@dona4him
7 жыл бұрын
I agree. This particular show sucks.
@jawynn615
7 жыл бұрын
OH my gosh! I specifically scrolled into the comments to see if anyone was thinking the same thing I was about that! The interruptions are SO annoying! Vanessa has such great content but these hosts ALWAYS interrupt her!
@whitneyangelie3682
Жыл бұрын
I’ve heard all of these a million times before because this stuff fascinates me and I’m always wanting to learn more BUT I’ve also learned take it all with a grain of salt. You really have to get someone’s baseline down before you start trying to read them through body language. For example: I always tilt my head (and raise my brows another supposed sign of “attraction”) when I talk to people, whether I’m attracted to them or not. Also I play with my lips a lot as a habit, so her last point would mean nothing with me. Also if I’m sitting in an uncomfortable chair or cold I will cross my arms. So while knowing these tips can be helpful, you have to pay attention to so many other factors about the person you’re trying to analyze and not jump to conclusions… IMO Reading micro expressions is a much clearer indicator when it comes to reading someone, but you have to be very observant and vigilant to be good at it.
@diegomoreno5927
5 жыл бұрын
Those old people seemed very enthuasiastic about this
@andyc9902
2 жыл бұрын
Lol boomers
@hyacinthdibley
8 жыл бұрын
"....I know they're drunk, but..." HAHA. BEST LINE EVER.
@diamondmeeple
6 жыл бұрын
This girl is an expert of attraction... and she LOOKS that way too... :-)
@1perfectstrangerr
5 жыл бұрын
These 2 hosts are just horrifyingly bad with their constant interrupting and lame jokes....they down play evverything she's says by making stupid remarks...
@danieljakubik3428
4 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@sumitd500
2 жыл бұрын
Yes
@jahfus
5 жыл бұрын
This woman has a very awesome spirit. Much love and respect to her
@jacobeliottmcintyre
5 жыл бұрын
One thing I 've learned the more you focus on working hard and bettering yourself. And not tryin to analyze people and just accept them and love em for who they are. The right woman will come along and y'all will just click
@HeedAndSucceed
4 жыл бұрын
I hope so
@skipperx5116
2 жыл бұрын
River Billy you are dead nuts on. Instead of trying to make it happen, just let it happen. Most important is to be yourself. If there is something about you that the other person objects to, better now than later.
@svinjamaria
9 жыл бұрын
*brushes back hair* "PLEASE SMELL MY PHEROMONES" lol
@daia5016
6 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@ujahonyedikachi8041
6 жыл бұрын
Svinja I love your smile from Africa 😁😂
@trje246
5 жыл бұрын
isn't that when an ancient Egyptian steps on lego??? ...wait, no that's a _pharaoh moan_ ...nm mb ;o)
@rahulthukaram
5 жыл бұрын
whats funny in that??
@RaymondYocum-uw5hd
5 жыл бұрын
You smell like fish
@grantchow13
4 жыл бұрын
Too much is made of crossing arms and the negative connotation of being negative and closed minded. It means to me concern and deep contemplation and focus.
@bobbysweeney5377
5 жыл бұрын
This was a pleasure to watch. That poor man was as awkward as one can be.😂
@c_telking4433
3 жыл бұрын
Not really. Weird observation 🤔
@DrJoySmithMaxwell
5 жыл бұрын
arms crossed has soooooo many meanings... for me it's often because it's so darn cold & women's clothing are inadequate!
@caribaez5711
5 жыл бұрын
Or I’m just thinking xD
@paulmannguyen5665
8 жыл бұрын
Although body language can provide a lot of information as to what their mood and such is, fabricated body language can actually provide a negative effect. I had previously encountered an individual who had purposely tried to use the crinkle while we were talking for the first time. I realized that the individual had been doing so without proper tone changes; therefore, it indicated that he was not truly as passionate to the topic as his facial expression indicates. Therefore, this has not only changed my first impression of him; however, the thought of inauthenticity also lingered. Body language is nice to know to figure out people, and it should only be used to project how you truly feel rather than to fabricate someone else who is not you.
@paulquick8806
2 жыл бұрын
That's what i thought a narcissistic person is and Avoid totally sociopath..no dought
@thespokenword8540
6 жыл бұрын
I think I can at times anyway have a flirty personality. It doesn't really mean much though but I notice I do the head tilt thing almost all the all time regardless if I'm into someone or not. I also smile a lot too regardless of who's there. Also yesterday, I touched my chest but it was because I had heartburn and nothing more lol. The worst was probably when I would lick my lips constantly when I was younger only because they were dry. So it's best not to take this stuff too seriously :) Other people may look really dead pan but might actually like you.
@addycool444
5 жыл бұрын
shes beauty with brains
@onkyomitsu4765
Жыл бұрын
these hosts are hilarious. i love it!
@tamaramcnelly4204
9 жыл бұрын
I always cross my arms, it doesn't mean I don't want to be approached though, it's just comfortable for me, hmmm
@WayAboveYou700
9 жыл бұрын
oh, really?
@juarezsilva7677
9 жыл бұрын
Tamara McNelly You know, it can be comfortable, but it transmits the impression that you´re have your "heart closed".
@mdgsk824
9 жыл бұрын
+Tamara McNelly It could've started off as a defensive gesture and you got so used to it and the comfort it gives you that it stayed. The point of it is that it happens 'suddenly' as soon as someone says or does something you dont agree with or when you get approached by someone unwanted. The key to understand someones body language is to study the individuals natural body movements and mannerisms first and then look for drastic/sudden changes in behaviour. Generally speaking crossed arms are a sign of discomfort(trying to get more comfortable) and resistance.
@lucyrosevelt5274
8 жыл бұрын
+Tamara McNelly where a sweater, smile and tilt your head. Your're pretty - you will be approached but keeps those arms down.
@chippedtoothbeautysfamilyl8722
7 жыл бұрын
Sparra Lina hi
@KenStentiford
5 жыл бұрын
7% vocal, 8% body language, 85% finding them attractive.
@user-bu6nq1ve6m
3 жыл бұрын
Arm crossing isnt necessarily closing, if the arms are not crossed totally (one kinda rest on other) and thumbs are visible (fists no clinched) that is called self hug and it actualy means comfort!
@josephhoward1858
8 жыл бұрын
She won me over at 2:21!
@Cod4Wii
7 жыл бұрын
Agree, that was so sexy
@rahatzaman4158
6 жыл бұрын
absolutely right
@tamiz8895
2 жыл бұрын
She’s so gorgeous, what a fun interview
@007stuntman3
5 жыл бұрын
I really enjoyed the information you shared, it was interesting to learn, but I have to say, the guy in the video was a crack up, thank you...
@NiaKitti775
3 жыл бұрын
I tap my collar bone when im "breaking my barrier"
@johnp2647
8 жыл бұрын
Old man is hilarious lol
@Guy-cs8yj
5 жыл бұрын
LoL he’s not even that old
@perfectlyimperfectmae6137
4 жыл бұрын
Kinda Cute & funny😂😂😂fun to be with
@stanbily9416
4 жыл бұрын
He is not even funny. He’s annoying!
@hotwireyouth4544
3 жыл бұрын
@@stanbily9416 You realize you said he is not not funny, meaning he is funny. This sentence is an oxymoron.
@stanbily9416
3 жыл бұрын
@@hotwireyouth4544 It was a typo. *He’s
@ShinyArjunSingh
5 жыл бұрын
wow...man...made my life.... Nice one, Subscribed. Please keep them coming.....
@MXRiderFiftyTwo
5 жыл бұрын
Been single 18yrs... I just can't be bothered chasing women And secondly I can't afford 1
@misteryoso8712
5 жыл бұрын
Poor guu
@philgeorge1003
5 жыл бұрын
No he's got it made. They're far more trouble than they're worth!
@BurningPXG
6 жыл бұрын
Hard dilemma: She's charismatic because she's attractive or is she attractive because she's charismatic?
@BigEMarc
8 жыл бұрын
Don't women (and all people) generally want to be attractive to everyone they meet? It means that everyone will treat you better than if you weren't. This means that you can't use these "cues" as reference for when a girl likes someone, because they will constantly (unconsciously) do these things to appear amiable.
@gailwillis5198
8 жыл бұрын
Nope.
@BigEMarc
8 жыл бұрын
Gail Willis No you are incorrect sir. What I said is true.
@Durka-Durka
7 жыл бұрын
No way! There's nothing more awkward than somebody liking you that you don't like back.
@gailwillis5198
7 жыл бұрын
Little Lynkx Nope.
@BigEMarc
7 жыл бұрын
Gail Willis Wow thanks for the insight!
@Renad-bm3ph
4 жыл бұрын
body language is so easy
@sakiv9275
5 жыл бұрын
Give one like to admire that young woman. Beauty with brain.
@bravowebsolutions
8 жыл бұрын
omgosh she's back to school you bro, luugat that outift [wowzers power grl]
@shyrose2466
7 жыл бұрын
My crush had his legs crossed :(
@Durka-Durka
7 жыл бұрын
And???
@PHILIPWATSON82
3 жыл бұрын
Relationships are now a thing of the past Good luck guys you're gunna need it
@backcountyrpilot
Жыл бұрын
If you can see her face, she’s not running away. 🎉⚡️❤️
@GoldenAngel-
2 жыл бұрын
Be yourself, Be Happy , end of story 😏
@jamesmercado8457
5 жыл бұрын
I thought I was a expert in reading body language. My mind told me I was right, but eventually reality showed me that I was wrong.
@kaartopower2793
2 жыл бұрын
I from Somalia right now I speaking Somalia, this vedio is a great video, thank you so much.
@ScienceOfPeople
2 жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it!
@glassbuddha
8 жыл бұрын
I really like your videos. Simple and precise
@kkkkkkkkkk955
10 жыл бұрын
I like the male host. He's funny haha
@novusordoseclorum1915
4 жыл бұрын
yea I enjoyed him as a host lol
@Babyy_girl
5 жыл бұрын
Why am I unconciously saying "Don't talk to me"
@olivierbakoyogo1324
Жыл бұрын
Always being aware with the fake or true happinesses
@rebornmoron2926
Жыл бұрын
Folding hands is self soothing
@lukeskywalker2116
5 жыл бұрын
Poor guy. He’s totally outmatched.
@nkosinathilinda904
2 жыл бұрын
I think most of these are culture-specific, I don't doubt the evolution part but I think people in different parts of the world show attraction slightly different, depending on what they've been socialised to believe is acceptable. For example, most westerners would tell you that when a person doesn't make eye contact they're either hiding something or they're not interested, that might be true for people in the West but in my country, too much eye contact is believed to be a sign of disrespect. So when I'm talking to an adult I tend to break eye contact a lot, that's just one example. My point is, context matters when you're looking for these "signs".
@briancee953
5 жыл бұрын
The good sell out i usually take note of is the combination of facial expression n tone of voice. its like someone learning to ride a bike for the first time, u usually cant master everything at once, when u master balance you are struggling with direction, when u have mastered direction you are struggling with balance.
@YuvrajWithAGuitar
2 жыл бұрын
so vennesa was doing all those things while i was watching her right now! she is hitting on me! Congratulations vennesa its a yes from me!
@slavar21
8 жыл бұрын
Great! I'm gonna crack my date tomorrow.
@NippaMoon
6 жыл бұрын
Curious, if a woman had her arms crossed, sometimes I would still approach her and say something off the wall ,,, silly,,, and they tend to then put the arms down and give the gestures you spoke of about being inviting
@jewelsokike2712
5 жыл бұрын
Social awareness of others.
@wellwhatdoyakno6251
5 жыл бұрын
0:15 so gorgeous, she lit me up
@rajibchowdhury9088
3 жыл бұрын
Vanessa, I love your book captivate , I am reading it . I am excited to learn more and more such a wonderful thing to understand others around us around so I start
@jeancruse3765
5 жыл бұрын
Problem I have is if I fancy a man. I won’t look them in the eyes. I’m scared they will see what I’m thinking 🤣
@pedroalvesmcmxcv
5 жыл бұрын
The caveman reason is so funny.. right with the big bang
@SoulsOfWisdom
3 жыл бұрын
Careful of the eye crinkle smile. It literally is just as easy to fake as the non-crinkle smile. I mean, it's not even that hard. lol
@shampoo-supernova
5 жыл бұрын
So breaking wind is the wrong thing to do?
@youtoo2233
5 жыл бұрын
No that works too
@alicanedremit93
4 жыл бұрын
She is very beautiful !
@Chaoticdemon08
5 жыл бұрын
Your amazing! Love the advice!!!
@Guy-cs8yj
6 жыл бұрын
You really are something special @Vanessa Van Edwards
@Guy-cs8yj
6 жыл бұрын
Vanessa Van Edwards I only say it because it’s true 😊. You have so much to offer, and such amazing energy.
@peter50555.
2 жыл бұрын
Deer in the headlights… very rare…. Eyes wide open… mouth ajar… if you see this feel blessed!
@frj1154
5 жыл бұрын
Nicely talk few points but very clear
@KTHKUHNKK
5 жыл бұрын
Great stuff Pretty much right on the money.
@Moon_LitG
5 жыл бұрын
"wanna go to happy hour?!"
@geoffreylee5199
4 жыл бұрын
These two show why they still are in medium television market on a minor morning show; they constantly interrupt their guest. Now how I got to this clip, I don’t know how it was recommended.
@rogerbeaird3320
2 жыл бұрын
I look at the ladys eyes they are windows of the soul
@gleidson105
4 жыл бұрын
The best way to see if a man is interested on girl just check his body if something starts swelling and come up . Bingo he wants ya
@gerry.shafer6101
2 жыл бұрын
I. MUST. HAVE. BEEN. SLEEPING. TO. C. THESE. !!!
@nathantoth1527
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing info Vanessa.
@subhashnisarta8040
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much for your comments on the 🎁 body language also attracted to the 🎁 man action for your opinion good experience. So Thankful for your opinion.
@MusketeerInc
5 жыл бұрын
Wow these are some really great tips!
@colouradventures8656
6 жыл бұрын
This video blew my mind
@arianaventi6299
3 жыл бұрын
she's so pretty
@mus1cal4ddict76
4 жыл бұрын
When I cross my arms I do it because I my posture feels good. People think I do it because I’m insecure my body.
@rodneydockrill604
2 жыл бұрын
Very helpful information, beautiful lady stunning, beautiful advice.
@lisacharlton1813
4 ай бұрын
She is nuts!!! Caveman? Evolution? What other fairy tale can you teach us?
@oliverfemi5955
6 жыл бұрын
what is the best word to say to woman first meet to ask her out especially when she is too defensive with her body language ?
@jimdamulira7058
8 жыл бұрын
Fabulous n it's magically presented,,,just dope
@dailylifetaste4091
5 жыл бұрын
Thanks Lecture !
@kyzer747
2 жыл бұрын
Everything here is changeable with a few choice words and some nice gestures even if that person man or woman is not interested. If you have good conversation and it doesn't start with hi how are you what do you do. Then your grand. Worst thing in the world is to be asked what you do for a living it's boring and shallow. Dating should not reflect money. It's about contact and being interested and attentive and listening. And being comfortable very quickly. If your trying to make sentences then forget it. Words should come easy without thinking.
@thesunisout2858
2 жыл бұрын
What happened to looking at someone you like and just smile.
@pankajkumar-zw3to
3 жыл бұрын
great video !!!!!
@danhalverson3618
3 жыл бұрын
Let her answer the question
@blisswkc3344
6 жыл бұрын
Thank You so much dearest sweeties 💐🙏 You’re such an inspiration ❣️ Stay Blissful Eternally 😇🕉💖
@theoriginalloveandteavarie4285
Жыл бұрын
Awesome…
@ScienceOfPeople
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@naamchhemrumdali6701
5 жыл бұрын
Great tips👍
@Viv8ldi
4 жыл бұрын
Does this also work with gay men?
@zainulabedeenmohammed7846
4 жыл бұрын
Great information
@gumsz91
7 жыл бұрын
Now what does it mean when a woman is teasing her legs like Vanessa at 5:28?
@Chepecafeteria
7 жыл бұрын
gumsz91 right! I want to know that too!
@ergotemplar6406
7 жыл бұрын
sweaty palms
@漢字の準備
6 жыл бұрын
ergotemplar Mom's spaghetti
@kreesol6411
5 жыл бұрын
I literally saw how uncomfortable you were that whole time as he was hitting on you and his wife in a sense felt threatened and you were noticing all of that and you were uncomfortable but made sure to hide it really well so you went along with it and tried to mirror them and stay calm. Very interesting.
@SUPREMELEGEND
2 жыл бұрын
Wat.
@farhadsajadian690
2 ай бұрын
So imformative
@markedwards7721
4 жыл бұрын
Hands off the goods, Vanessa ....
@hdw5831
4 ай бұрын
I watched this video with no sound, just images, and had no idea what it was about. Where on earth does the statement that 7% of communication is verbal content come from? It should be the other way around!
@hanzoyabe8702
7 жыл бұрын
watching this just in case I'm showing any off these signs :3 just in case
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