Whew definitely needed this first thing this morning. I feel like I have no boundaries, I don't even keep my own promises to myself. I would start something and not finish then start something else again and the cycle continues.
@Beah837
2 жыл бұрын
It's giving ADHD
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Well now you can start to change that. Thank you for watching honey 💋
@linni9160
2 жыл бұрын
Supplemente Folsäure and Omega 3, it will help
@Thebr0wnsugga
2 жыл бұрын
Same !!
@vixenvalenzuela
2 жыл бұрын
I’m guilty of this too
@PhelisaG
2 жыл бұрын
Atomic habits is a great book that can help you start your journey in keeping promises to yourself. Together with that as a Christian women, I have found praying and speaking to God, I mean on the daily about what I am struggling with also really made a great difference (because you cannot change what you don't admit and hear yourself admitting that it is wrong, prayer is form of self-therapy), to the point that speaking to God and reading my bible is the first thing I do in the morning I would rather be late to work than start my day anyhow. If you struggling with food, the book Made To Crave Satisfying Your Deepest Desires With God, Not Food is also an excellent book. Also a single woman, I do not watch sexually explicit content, this is one of the reasons I mostly watch Korean shows because of their culture of being modest they focus more on the quality of the show rather than getting people hooked because of the sexual content. It was honestly a game changer for me as well.
@jhenovaestalzia8730
2 жыл бұрын
Your dedication to the community of women is unmatched. Thank you.
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
That is so sweet, thank you!
@scarletta.w8721
2 жыл бұрын
This is a great video! Discipline is the way to freedom.
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you honey 🤍✨
@juneelle370
2 жыл бұрын
It’s like sailing… structure with direction brings MORE freedom 🌊⛵️🌊 running into boulders doesn’t bring freedom, it brings pain… not going anywhere brings pain. Structure can be a prison or structure, like a boat, can be FREEDOM ❤️ Sailing is such a great metaphor for life and using metaphors on the daily helps life so much… water and wood… dealing with the waves and weather… daily logs, planning for the trip, learning to adjust the sails and enjoy life and be able to handle the storms… be a Captain… Creator loves us and created us to be creators 🙌💧🪵❤️
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Great metaphor!
@aishwarya2016
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much miss! I am a student i am struggling a lot to have boundaries with myself and completing what i think everyday i am going to do. I know that we should have boundaries with ourselves but somehow until now i felt that it was cruel to do that to yourself. I also struggle with my sleeping hours. Thank you very much for changing my perspective which i was trying to do a lot. I will treasure your words "Having boundaries with yourself is not cruel/bad, it's protecting you from getting into a bad loop. " Thank you truly! ❣️❣️❣️ I am sure that i will see the change in myself ! I will update. Also i will be sharing to the god 🛐 We need more content like this on KZitem! ☺👍✨✨❤
@drmichelledaf
Жыл бұрын
I am so happy to know it's been helpful. Things will certainly change for you. You are so welcome love. Best wishes to you with everything 💕
@mahamanebaywa1362
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for that. I struggle to pray and it's disturbing me a lot. I spent my time on social media but I've gotten the solution by listening to this episode. May God bless you
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
It happens to us all. Tell God you're struggling and ask for Him to help. Praying in the Holy Spirit helps me when I struggle.
@mahamanebaywa1362
2 жыл бұрын
@@drmichelledaf Alright. I will do that. Thank you
@lauraamador1442
2 жыл бұрын
Such a great video! I definitely am so much more balanced and pleased in my life when I have boundaries I follow such as what time I start my day, what I eat, and the content I consume. Getting clear on my values has helped me so much. Thanks for a great topic 💗
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks love! Yesss exactly!
@ra4798
2 жыл бұрын
Hi DrDaf I want to request you to please do a series of self knowing and development, Like in feminine impressions you shed light on certain areas like knowing our pupose, knowing who you are, you can plan series of activities for the same, btw I loved your fem series so much/..... plz do a series on this, i think it will benefit a lot of people most people like on autopilot neglecting their emotions, feelings, needs, so i think it ll be helpful
@CoilyCode
2 жыл бұрын
This is my season of self discovery that God has embarked me on. He’s the only one that can change us. He’s recently told me about a morning routine. And I failed the first day, Lol, God truly cares about every facet of our lives. But it’s good for us!
@johnrainsman6650
Жыл бұрын
I failed at respecting other people's boundaries. I was taken to my boss's office with her and a high-ranking chef. The chef told me that I've been touching my coworkers too much. Not THAT type of touch, of course not! Just casual ones, like on arms or shoulders. I was always very outgoing at work. When I asked her if anyone complained, she said it didn't matter (so I assume yes). She told me that we need the workers to be comfortable in a good work environment, and that I pretty much shouldn't talk about anything other than work and school (I work at a university's catering service). She told me I shouldn't tell my stories because they may be inappropriate to my coworkers. Now yeah, I guess I do occasionally say "inappropriate" stuff at work, but not horribly nor intentionally. I only meant to joke around and have fun. I really didn't get specific information from the chef about what and whom. She likes that I'm outgoing, but she made it sound risky and in need of limits. And again, that I shouldn't touch anyone without consent. But seriously, I'm not a creep. I didn't mean to be so "handsy" (I say loosely). If I could make it up to whoever presumably reported me, I would. People condemn me on KZitem comments and couldn't care less about my regret. Being right and truthful is worth more than them than my feelings.
@lmusima3275
2 жыл бұрын
What a great and self reflecting video
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching sweetie
@amberrobertson3502
2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Daf this was sooooooo good!!! I usually listen to the podcast but I wanted to make sure I expressed how thankful I am for you. I really needed this. Thank you so much for what you do and for always steering us women in the right direction.
@callmemaybe0123
2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much I needed this 😔🙌💖
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Glad I could help love!
@mathumcube2202
2 жыл бұрын
You look absolutely dashing, dashing indeed❤️💕. I love this new setup, Dr Michelle!!
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much love 🤍✨
@jiejoudom5521
2 жыл бұрын
Hmmm. This is actually interesting. I like to be free but I tell myself there’s a limit to everything that’s why I play safe sometimes. I don’t over do things. Especially when I know deep down I will regret.
@lynnjerome1807
2 жыл бұрын
Wow I can relate
@antiquettaevents793
2 жыл бұрын
I’m enjoying this series so much, I have to start listening to the podcast ♥️
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
ThTs great my love! Yes check it out!
@Anna-nj7co
2 жыл бұрын
that podcast literally changed my life, I started listening about a year ago, I would go on a really long walk with my dog and just listen (I first discovered the podcast, then the yt chanel).. i am a different woman now
@antiquettaevents793
2 жыл бұрын
@@Anna-nj7co I can believe it, I love her & her messages they make me feel capable
@Anna-nj7co
2 жыл бұрын
@@antiquettaevents793 me too❤️💕 good luck, God bless you!
@misakisakura642
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr. Michelle 🤗✨
@Josephine2.0
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr Michelle. You are an inspiration. God bless you ma'am.
@c.wayman7801
2 жыл бұрын
You are helping so many ladies with your videos ❤
@whitneybright5471
2 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. I need to create boundaries for myself & stick to them.
@thobekamantshongo4458
2 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you so much. May God bless you Dr. Daf
@Themadamdivine
2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful video thank you so much this was awesome :)
@shundreaneely
2 жыл бұрын
This was right on time. Thank you 🙏🏽
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome
@ongezwamafunda1376
Жыл бұрын
Wow i love your channel. Thank you for these kinds of videos. This is important in life to start having boundaries with yourself and keep yourself accountable.
@soniakim9089
2 жыл бұрын
Definitely needed this! Thank you Michelle 🤍🤍
@YouCanStartLateAndFinish
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Dr Daf, for an excellent video. May God keep and Bless you always Amen.
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you my love! God bless you too 💋💋
@renesluby7390
2 жыл бұрын
Thank You !
@cathyluv08
2 жыл бұрын
My favourite channel right now
@karenmupondi2659
2 жыл бұрын
Just what I needed Thank you Dr Michelle 🌸
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
That's great thank you for watching love
@christianaffirmations5639
2 жыл бұрын
Its the if you do not have boundaries you stealing from your life. For me.
@krisdunn3825
2 жыл бұрын
Good morning ladies😊😊
@anitaopuni6669
Жыл бұрын
Love the video. God bless you ❤
@Dr.Wolfstar
2 жыл бұрын
perfectly divine timing....thank you
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome honey 💋💋
@donnac163
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video it’s a great eye opener for me.
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome honey
@katherine_art05
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I love it. It is very useful to apply everday!
@uaandiparratjakuva500
2 жыл бұрын
I’m really please 🙏 you have come up with this video. Thank you
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome love!
@mrsanonymous414
2 жыл бұрын
Hey, I posted on your last video, but I’ll repost it; I was wondering if you could make video on mother in law - daughter in law relationships/bonding? I feel like the lines are a little blurred, and I’d love to hear a healthy way to cultivate a special connection there.
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
That's an interesting topic. I'll see if I can work it into my content. Thanks for watching 💋
@Anna-nj7co
2 жыл бұрын
yes please, I’d love that!
@LifestyleWithDr.Q
2 жыл бұрын
I needed this! Thank you so much!
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome dear
@nafeesadamier7592
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Dr.Daf ❤
@JMG4747_
2 жыл бұрын
Needed this video ! Thank you
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
You're so welcome thanks for watching!
@marissamarlett1346
4 ай бұрын
That's how i was in highschool :( I'd skip school sometimes just to sleep since i wasn't allowed to at home. I had to work at 16 and be home by midnight from work and do homework till sometimes 3. Get up at 5 to leave by 5:30 to make it to the school bus. I wasnt allowed to do homework til my chores were finished on my days off and i wasn't allowed to sleep in on the weekends or i was wasting my day. Growing up I've seen my little brother allowed to sleep til noon, my niece my mom has now, allowed to sleep til noon. She didn't make my brother get a job til 18. Anyways, now as an adult I'm not sure if that's why i want to sleep all the time! I have hormonal imbalances. So either from not sleeping or being made to take antidepressants at a young age. It affects me now. 😢
@drmichelledaf
4 ай бұрын
I am so sorry to hear this. This sounds like a very tough childhood. You have come far and done so well despite it all. It's great that you are doing self reflection. Have you ever seen a therapist? Do you have a relationship with the Lord Jesus?
@marissamarlett1346
4 ай бұрын
@@drmichelledaf as a child I was forced to do therapy. I was made to believe I was the problem, so when I got married I did a little therapy(2011 ppd) I tried again a couple years back and they were not calling or showing up to the appts. Weird. I came to a peace with that. I don't feel I need it anymore. I can talk to my husband about anything, and recently coming across your videos about growing up with mom and the rejection and abandonment videos, I've really felt better. My husband says I've been so positive lately and that it was like night n day. I grew up in a very strict, old fashioned church(pentecostal). I do believe in God. We pray with our kids every day. I am getting into those videos you have to help me get closer and learn how to talk to God. I write down a lot of the scriptures you mention as well in my phone. I want to use your lessons and maybe give my kids a little lesson each night before bed.
@nicolelumbreras8848
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks Dr. I appreciate this!
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching love 💋
@suzethngutonua6908
2 жыл бұрын
Im choosing to stop👏👏that's what I needed right now.
@Myythandle782
2 жыл бұрын
Sigh…I just love you and your channel. I appreciate you and pray that you and your family are well x
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
You are so kind thank you honey!
@elianeaziza954
2 жыл бұрын
Thank u so much dr michelle
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome sweetie 💋
@missamajones
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Michelle, Is there a book that you'd recommend for the area of boundaries within Femininity? Thanks in advance! I really enjoyed the content of this video. God bless you and your home 💗
@adshar20000
2 жыл бұрын
Your natural skin tone looks much better omg 😳😳😳😳
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
The only thing that's changed is the lighting 😉
@Iamsimplyfree
2 жыл бұрын
I love Jonica ❤️
@Swatisinghh
2 жыл бұрын
You're looking beautiful today 🥀
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much love
@NatureGoddess2023
2 жыл бұрын
U look really great!😍
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you so much!
@NatureGoddess2023
2 жыл бұрын
@@drmichelledaf you are welcome 😊
@DK-eu2op
24 күн бұрын
i need to make better food choices....i cant resist on cream and cake😮
@raginald7mars408
Жыл бұрын
In ancient times - we called this: TABOO what never even to think Modern Society erased any Taboo - you can do what ever you please a good Lawwyer helps you to stay out of jail for some time...
@ntokozomonica9289
2 жыл бұрын
You look beautiful 🥰❤️
@drmichelledaf
2 жыл бұрын
Aww thank you love 🤍✨
@missfavoured
2 жыл бұрын
Do you have advices on how to develop and maintain discipline and consistency in all life aspects, involving femininity?
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