I’m literally the single friend who just observes my friend's relationships and has a list of what I will not tolerate if I ever get into a relationship lol
@tlamelangmasemola
Жыл бұрын
Lmaoo same, I'm learning through their experiences
@adrianamichelle9125
Жыл бұрын
samee
@blackg6rl
Жыл бұрын
samee
@yourgirlsalem
Жыл бұрын
sameee
@jasminenicole001
Жыл бұрын
Fr
@darylgichui8908
Жыл бұрын
coaches don’t play 🤷🏾♂️
@Divine_4222
Жыл бұрын
Top tier comment
@lani826
Жыл бұрын
I used to like that quote until I realized they have at some point😭
@ithil-maril9141
Жыл бұрын
@@lani826 not if they're naturals😏
@simplysabrina5294
Жыл бұрын
period 😭🙌🏾
@livhuji733
Жыл бұрын
But they used to play... that's why they are a coach😂😂😂
@steffiafonso
Жыл бұрын
I was single till I was 23, then I found the most incredible man ever wasn't expecting it, my advice is live for yourself AND be happy by yourself ❤
@chococookie6783
Жыл бұрын
Patient is a key
@twilightsun8109
Жыл бұрын
This is so comforting
@elsiechanda
Жыл бұрын
I've come to accept that life has seasons and it's not my 'romance season' yet...it's my 'travelling the world and falling into a fulfilling type of love with my friends' season and whether it lasts three years or even twenty I'm perfectly content in that :)
@dynastyandrews2416
Жыл бұрын
Also, can we destigmatize being the “single friend”? A lot of times we give our friends SOLID relationship advice because we see things for what it is instead the friend seeing things how they want it to be. We see the red flags and we try to warn you
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
LITERALLY
@Susiana.nd04
Жыл бұрын
@DrLove TAKE A SIT
@cwroseee
Жыл бұрын
the way I started screaming when she answered my question- thank you so much Kianna, you honestly give great advice😭god bless the older sister I never had fr
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
aw ily
@punktulips
Жыл бұрын
I’ve always been in a place where I’ve had no male friendships always being surrounded by girls and that led up to me never getting any form of attention from males. I always thought there was something wrong with me but I've grown out of the notion and I love it. It truly feels great to have my girlfriends I give all my love to them.
@ps4u678
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Kianna. As a 21 year old who’s never been in a relationship, it’s really reassuring to have this type of advice. Sometimes I feel like I am behind in this regard in comparison to my friends. Although I have amazing friendships, I sometimes just wonder when it will come. Thank you once again, I hope you have a nice day 💛
@gloobean
Жыл бұрын
Relatable
@debdeb6750
Жыл бұрын
it actually will & it'll be when u least expect it. i know that sounds like bs but its true. stay true to yourself and be vulnerable in your friendships. love is here and on the way
@faitht7956
Жыл бұрын
@@debdeb6750 I agree with you!! Thank you for the reassurance I’m too focused on love, I will keep trying to love & improve me
@Mani-fd7tx
Жыл бұрын
Real
@kilimanjaro5537
Жыл бұрын
Girl same.
@altia103
Жыл бұрын
21 & never had a boyfriend either! I’m just content with living life and being in the moment, whether it’s by myself or with my friends and that’s enough for me ❤ I’m not looking for anything, but men that I am attracted to do appear in my life, so the question is whether I want to give away my heart like that.
@Sunshine_Hime
Жыл бұрын
Damn, I've never been this early. The video hasn't started but I'm sure it will be very relatable, I'm going to be 22 soon and never had a boyfriend or slept with anyone.
@janaxxx490
Жыл бұрын
"if I'm gone tomorrow, i will know that i have loved and i have been loved and I've never had a boyfriend" the way you just ended my fear of dying without experiencing a great love omg i never looked at it like that thank you
@dear._sky
Жыл бұрын
this video was such a sleepover, late night deep chat vibe with the lighting, gorg robes, and ofc the teddy lol 🤍
@scarletstarlet8085
Жыл бұрын
just turned 20 no boyfriend and a virgin, currently not looking for one…
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
slay
@Desiforrest
Жыл бұрын
that’s perfectly fine honey i’m 28 and never had one as well!! or anything it’s all about timing your are beautiful!!
@mina3416
Жыл бұрын
i’m 16 and i’ve never been in one either, it feels so off when you watch everyone around you get into tons when i’ve never even been close to having one, feels like i’m gonna be single forever but i’ve learned to accept it.
@journeysflava
Жыл бұрын
i was too shy to date in school so that definitely contributes to me being single all my life, i was big on privacy so i wanted to be able to date w/o people knowing who im dating & at school that’s hard bc y’all all go to school together & everybody be in yo business, I’ll be 23 in December & there’s hope that I’ll be in a relationship b4 my bday but also i wouldn’t fret if it doesn’t end up happening either… & im still big on privacy today, i definitely want a secret relationship lol, i want it to be like we’re the only ones in the world when i get a man
@raineabundance
Жыл бұрын
KIANNA LOVEEEE!! i did not know how badly i needed this video until i watched it🥲 the comfort and reassurance it gave is everything. i resonated soo much as i am 20 years old and have never had a boyfriend either. but as you said that’s okay!! just gives us more time to get to truly learn ourselves. thank you again for the video and much love
@thatssolele
Жыл бұрын
Nuhhhhh Kianna you actually chowed when you said, “Girl you think I’m not going to condone this!!!! Pain is temporary!!!” My jaw dropped and I started scream laughing…keep in mind it’s 1am where I am lollllll. But yes. To the girl who submitted that one, don’t give yourself the opportunity to regret not having a beautiful love no matter how short it may be. ❤
@Sary27
Жыл бұрын
I'm 24 and i still single, sometimes i feel lonely 😢 but the right time comes
@oluwasolami
Жыл бұрын
yess i love that u made this and the advice you gave. it's so normal to be 20 something and still haven’t been in a relationship i remeber being 17 with these same questions. the advice was just so real
@riahhhhh500
Жыл бұрын
Girl I’m 23 nd single all my life we ain’t missing shit I watch my friends nd family get played all day nd night never saw my life w someone by my side simply bc I never saw it as worthy growing up live ur life nd do what u want it dnt make u less 😊
@postr0se
7 ай бұрын
you feel and look like a mtv downtown character
@beautifullykayla
7 күн бұрын
I’ve rewatched this video so many times and I’m not even attracted to men. The love you have for yourself and your friends is inspiring
@Starfire34503
Жыл бұрын
The fact that Kianna knows about Shera is iconic.
@Princessm1320
Жыл бұрын
I’m 23 and trying to navigate being single. My last relationship ended and I thought I was going to marry them but obviously I’m not and am realizing I need to be single and savor that.
@bensonduruaku7086
Жыл бұрын
ive had a pretty "traumatic" love life. ive never been in a relationship or had anyone really like me romantically before and i have only started making real friendships in the last 3 years. the last person i liked was an old friend of mine, the first boy i liked ever, and my "friends" told him my feelings without me knowing, only for him to say that he was friends with me because he felt bad. those friends who told him ended up cyberbullying me badly months later too, which the former crush also joined in on. since those events, ive sort of been traumatized and it has made my social anxiety worse. ive also felt sort of isolated in life, since a big majority of people around have a lot of love in their life at the moment, love from their partners, friends, and family. it feels like love is all around me and everyone but myself deserves to have it. i sometimes get sad think that i will never have that in my life, and that this is what my life is meant to be, but i try telling myself that my time will come, and that i just need to be patient and wait a little longer. ive also been trying to love myself, since most of the time i am the only person i got. im sure and hopeful ill find the right people one day
@endorsishorn
Жыл бұрын
You’ll find better people in your life, who actually love you and respect you. Don’t tolerate the bare minimum and anything below that. Enjoy yourself and wait for your new friends to come.
@udemeabasisilas4160
Жыл бұрын
Sorry, you deserve the best ❤
@nina_ana333
5 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry you went through that 🤍 It'll get better. You might not have the love you're looking for but please know that you are love yourself. And that's enough. You are enough for yourself 🫶🏾
@Thenamesirene
Жыл бұрын
Wow... I needed this. 23 and same.
@Ilovemusic19582
Жыл бұрын
You're not missing anything believe me.
@chichilafemme6336
Жыл бұрын
I’m 21 almost 22 and I’ve never been in one either. Well, adult and teen relationship. I’ve been single my whole life, it’s frustrating but u get used to it. 😌
@tiachante
Жыл бұрын
I’m 22 turning 23 this year and I’ve never been in a relationship either. However I’ve been told I give great advice on things, especially relationships 😂😂
@juniorchavesopicassodeyahu988
Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness! That pink wig looks absolutely gorgeous on you it matched with your pretty face flawless looks
@kyladanae
Жыл бұрын
I’m 34 and I’ve been single for almost a decade. I feel like something is wrong with me. Oh I also look young so attract a lot of men who are looking to manipulate a younger woman or hook up with..
@donshifty
Жыл бұрын
who ended your last relationship? u or ya ex
@kyladanae
Жыл бұрын
@@donshifty me
@ikaysiaprice326
Жыл бұрын
this was absolutely iconic. this should be your advice giving persona. she needs a name.
@soupafleye
Жыл бұрын
what bothers me about these vids about ppl talking about never having a partner is that yall reveal that you had situationships or relationships in school.. like that still counts as much as we like to say it doesn't coz girl I've honest to god had ZERO relationships. now it makes me feel even more insecure coz a lot of yall do have some kind of experience with a romantic interest at some point in your life. even if its just a sexual one or innocent or so short it was basically nonexistent.. its still something 🥲
@foreverlis
Жыл бұрын
i can relate too, cos i’ve never had a boyfriend let alone any boy attention…in my whole entire life. it’s not the worst thing in the world, but it would be nice to have someone
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
That makes sense!
@LexiNc8284
2 ай бұрын
Same here, like I legit have zero experience, none.
@kosiimnk
Жыл бұрын
i’m actually so amazed at how wise you are kianna and I also love how you took the time out to list so many resources for us to use! i wanted to ask a question actually, but i was scared of being too personal and hearing the truth about a situation i was in. but a couple of the answers you gave really helped and was very reassuring!! so thank you so so much. i loved this video and genuinely hope you continue this boy advice series
@shari962
Жыл бұрын
I feel this so much I'm always giving out advice but I'm chronically single😭😭😭
@claudiatraviezo9497
Жыл бұрын
your voice is soo soothing ugh i love you so much
@gegeswint3317
Жыл бұрын
I was the same way and it was the best decision I ever made! Focus on yourself, love yourself, build yourself up and then while you vibrate high in your energy you'll attract a lot of attention but also will have developed the discernment to decide who is deserving of yours. That goes for friends and family too!
@beccaa2919
Жыл бұрын
If u had a bf at 14 ik its most likely not gonna be a serious relationship but that still counts as a boyfriend. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18, it last a month and that was my only bf I'm 20 now. I don't say that I've never had a bf
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
I disagree, I was just too young
@JaneDoane
Жыл бұрын
@Becca A I agree
@onlyamberrr9635
Жыл бұрын
only thing that matters is if SHE counts it or not, not some random person.
@beccaa2919
Жыл бұрын
@@onlyamberrr9635 I totally agree and I think if she believes it doesn't count to her than it definitely doesn't count to her but regardless it counts to me we're all entitled to our own opinions and we can do so respectfully. The reason I say this is because when I imagine my 18 yr old self watching this video before my ex when I was kissless handholdess virgin, hearing someone talk about how they've never had a bf even tho they've had one at 14 is almost deaming in a way? If that makes sense. Like this video would have just made me feel worse. Like yea ik you haven't had that experience properly but you've had something even if it was a silly relationship. Ik people like me when I was in my teens will watch this video and I just don't want them to feel worse bc the title was slightly misleading.
@onlyamberrr9635
Жыл бұрын
@@beccaa2919 if you really put that much importance in someone else’s view of THEIR OWN relationship that you don’t know at all and it affects you to the point where it makes you rethink your relationships, i think you need to get off social media and into therapy 😂 I don’t consider my relationships when i was young an actual relationship cause they just weren’t. but if someone else considers theirs real, who the hell am I to dictate that? just worry about yourself. nobody else is responsible for your feelings and triggers but you.
@ngkmrs9960
Жыл бұрын
The wig is wiggingggg💁🏾♀️🤩🤩
@gabriellehenry526
Жыл бұрын
3:59 you get it. whenever imagine fulfillment in my life i can only see very strong platonic relationships around me. i think bc i grew up watching shows that is centered around female relationships
@amylomo9793
Жыл бұрын
i was the 17 year old girl question! thanks for your answer it’s really validating. just need to remember that i’m young and have time i guess
@serena_bee
Жыл бұрын
Don’t worry bout the future, it’s the present.. 😂 Not you giving her the green light 😂
@sefamamu
Жыл бұрын
Bruh. I’ve literally never had this “oh I wish I could be loved and held, I wish I had someone to share this with” and it’s not like I’ve had men constantly in my life. I’m 20 and have never had a boyfriend…except that one time in Year 10 (and it doesn’t count, he’s a childhood friend to me😂). So it’s not like I’ve had men, I just have never felt the NEED to have men. Sometimes I wonder if that’s normal, but only for a split second then I’m like fuck it. I’ve been basically introverted all my life, so I wish I had friends, like close girlfriends, so I understand the longing, but it’s just never been romantic
@LexiNc8284
2 ай бұрын
Sameeee, literally
@PsychicChrissyxo
Жыл бұрын
you're not missing out on anything... i had my first at 26 and he was terrible, dating is all games. i'd rather be single. my first bf was mean to me.
@plamedi893
Жыл бұрын
this pink wig looks so good on you mama
@celeste2329
Жыл бұрын
Kianna you have no idea how much I appreciate you i was feeling so down about this bc I’m 21 ❤
@alexabanks2178
Жыл бұрын
I had such a low afternoon after having a great morning, this video made me feel better and forget for a bit what had me so stressed out. Gracias de corazón Kianna, i love you and your videos
@aitanalover
Жыл бұрын
i relate to you, i don’t crave that person here if he’s not 😂
@luckydaisy2041
5 ай бұрын
this video fills my heart 🫶 deciding to allow myself to love and feel loved is the most beautiful thing I ever did and Id love for everyone to ❤️
@desireejean5220
Жыл бұрын
It's very clickbaity and insincere of you to say that you've never had a boyfriend when you actually have. Your experience isn't the same as a girl who actually never had a boyfriend her entire life. Even though it was a bad relationship, at least you have some experience and it has shaped who you are today despite you not being an adult.
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
Many ppl say they haven’t been in relationships when it was a high school relationship, at least where I’m from. I always say I’ve never been in a relationship to everyone I know. I think it’s up to the individual in the relationship to decide.
@LTRUTH334
Жыл бұрын
Back with another banger 🔥
@itsladytruth
Жыл бұрын
You almost at 900k subs 🔥
@Youruniverse-is7
Жыл бұрын
She was at 900k but it dropped down 😫
@shae4680
Жыл бұрын
@@Youruniverse-is7 ughhh
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
@@Youruniverse-is7 hehe
@Youruniverse-is7
Жыл бұрын
But anyways, it's just a number, we still here and will always be here to support you 😌❤️ It's my fith year of subscribing to her channel 💞
@itsladytruth
Жыл бұрын
@@Youruniverse-is7 facts
@QueenHomegirl
Жыл бұрын
Continue to protect yourself. Trust me.
@knomesarecooliguess5928
Жыл бұрын
this title hit a little too close to home
@vicky_aluko.a
Жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOUR PERONALITY
@yagirlyani111
Жыл бұрын
This pink wig is giving 😍😍
@tibianelnair8714
Жыл бұрын
Kianna please post another vlog, I’m obsessed!!
@JavellAshanti
Жыл бұрын
Aww I missed you Ki and this video is sooo good! top tier advice Is ya ask me 💓
@venuspython
Жыл бұрын
I was 22 when I had my first boyfriend. Now I’m 27 and I’ve only had 2 legitimate relationships.
@uci1111
Жыл бұрын
i’m 18 and i never had a boyfriend. the worst thing is i usually blush around guys so yea 😭
@karadumk2352
Жыл бұрын
Same here. I don't even like any of the guys around me😂
@yumviii
Жыл бұрын
23 and same here as well
@catrocks93
Жыл бұрын
same girl same 23 in september never had a man 😂
@kiretaj01
Жыл бұрын
NOTIFICATION SQUAD!!!!
@isabellavuong
Жыл бұрын
ur such an angel, i love you
@ekcxn
Жыл бұрын
Your voice is soo soothing.
@riyamathur9568
Жыл бұрын
this video is so helpful and amazing
@s-wo8781
Жыл бұрын
I'm 33 and I've still never kissed a girl. I don't know why KZitem keeps recommending me these kind of videos.
@manosijroy8282
Жыл бұрын
I am in the same boat as you but I am a 22 year old guy who never had a girlfriend and no first kiss yet etiher. After getting rejected by 3 girls recently, I asked out my childhood friend on 6th May 2023 via Instagram and she is 21 year old now turning 22 soon but she isn't that active on the app so she took almost a month to reply to it on 3rd June but she replied yeah ok which is a positive one but she is again offline and didn't reply yet about when we can meet up. I also had chatting with another girl on Instagram since 28th May 2023 and she is in 1st year of college and I am in last year of college and she is 19 year old now. We used to be in the same school but we didn't know each other those days and now we chat daily too about everything and send each other virtual hugs too but we are in different colleges now. Her college is super near to my home tho so can I ask her out even though my childhood friend didn't reject me and would she date someone like me who isn't her college? I like both of them honestly now.
@quitecontrary.
Жыл бұрын
I’m 20 and never dated 🙃
@Lina32121
Жыл бұрын
She brought out Ms Sprinkle sprinkle lol😂.
@timijr12
Жыл бұрын
Im 21 and I’ve never had a girlfriend
@jainoree
Жыл бұрын
i love you so much kianna i aspire to be just like you. besitos 💋💋
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
besos mi amor
@valerieslens
Жыл бұрын
I love you too, Kianna. 🫶🏾
@gabrielaoliveira5411
Жыл бұрын
Omg i needed this video so much ❤
@dear._sky
Жыл бұрын
love you kianna 🌹
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
love uuuu
@nzuzohood
Жыл бұрын
love this girl!
@ellayasu
Жыл бұрын
Ok Stephanie splitz I’ll be you’re sportacus
@starr2i
Жыл бұрын
ilysm 🩷
@SunshineRain20
Жыл бұрын
I love you, Kianna!💕
@staciii
Жыл бұрын
I mean you're ONLY 23 😂
@kiannanaomii
Жыл бұрын
ppl r SO dramatic when I say ive never been in a relationship
@simplyvictoria.a
Жыл бұрын
i loved this video
@DoctorRickSanchez
2 ай бұрын
_Whoever lands you is dumb lucky asf.._ 😩
@jermanijohnson.3481
Жыл бұрын
thank you. kianna, i love you very much.
@sheilaramirez4488
Жыл бұрын
love this video!
@yudollia
Жыл бұрын
Guuuurl im 22 SINGLE AFFF im gonna end up an isolated granny but idc
@Mellerrrs
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video Kiana
@mariahcareyreal
Жыл бұрын
Can't believe I'm 25 thinking how bad it was I was single at 19. Still never had a bf.... 😖
@DoctorRickSanchez
2 ай бұрын
How you look ?
@vwedeek
Жыл бұрын
OMG. It’s been so many years later and it wasn’t even a boyfriend but I still am not able to have a crush on anyone and I’m turning 22.
@yoncedelrey
Жыл бұрын
samezies! 💕
@mingadarling
3 ай бұрын
Where is the pink wig from? Summer is here I need to live in neon wigs lol
@velvetteddy
Жыл бұрын
LOVED this video, thank you for making it!! Also, what's your Tumblr? ❤
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