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@bababababababa6124
Жыл бұрын
I hate it when parents blindly support their horrible children when they commit crimes like this
@Mrivuyu
Жыл бұрын
You must not have kids. Your children make you love them regardless of who they are. I would argue it takes a shallow, and out of touch person to turn their back on their children or ignore their needs, even when they make or do horrible things.
@AbsyntheAndTears
Жыл бұрын
@@Mrivuyu uh...not all parents support criminal children. It's called tough love. I may be a mom, but that doesn't make me an enabler or a doormat.
@mindhackz
Жыл бұрын
That is why people are trash witnesses. Human bias is insane.
@NIKOS_GEROSIDERIS
Жыл бұрын
@@AbsyntheAndTears Exactly that's a very good example of what Pausanias' mother did.She didnt put the first rock to bury her child with rocks into a temple to starve and dehydrate to death because she hated it or she was a terrible parent.She did it to give the example of law force in Spartan society and even the fact that no matter how great a man is like her son who basically ended Persian invasion with the battle of Platea he had been proven to be a traitor and having a secret agreement with the Persians.If the child gets to be an ubsolute monster the parents have no responcibility to back it up.
@Neveko
Жыл бұрын
@@Mrivuyu wrong. A parent can definitely love their child but also be real about criminal behavior. I would argue it would take a shallow person to be blinded by emotion in the face of blatent facts
@gaslitworldf.melissab2897
Жыл бұрын
Post breakup meetings are DANGEROUS. Spread the word. Don't do post breakup meetings if the other person did NOT want to see it end.
@moomyung9231
Жыл бұрын
I based how I did breakup/post breakup meetings on how my parents did. Going to a public park or pond during the daytime. But I've never been in a physically abusive relationship, and my parents' marriage wasn't either, so I think in those circumstances even at a park could be dangerous.
@JustineDincorn
Жыл бұрын
You are absolutely right. Post breakup meetings have always had consequences for me.
@colmanpm
Жыл бұрын
Always go accompanied if you must have a meeting.
@jesuszamora6949
Жыл бұрын
Yep. If you, for some reason, absolutely MUST meet your ex and their new partner, pick the most public place you can find.
@bobzeepl
Жыл бұрын
I did a post breakup meeting. She left me and found another guy. I still knew how to push all the buttons, and made her cheat on him with me, and then I never spoke to her again. It is sometimes fun, you watch too many crime stories :)
@bitterellaselectricgroove8544
Жыл бұрын
1) NEVER lie about where you're going. 2) ALWAYS go with your gut. It never lies. Rip Brandy, you did not deserve this.
@blazednlovinit
Жыл бұрын
I think "always air on the side of caution" is maybe a better way of expressing "2". I had a friend that developed a temporary psychosis where he thought he had a wife and a daughter in another dimension and thought he owned a famous super market chain and all kinds of other impossible madness. His gut was lying to him constantly.
@bitterellaselectricgroove8544
Жыл бұрын
@@blazednlovinit in that case, there are obviously exceptions. As a general rule though, your gut never lies. Imo. Too bad about your friend. Hope he got the help he needed.
@bitterellaselectricgroove8544
Жыл бұрын
@@blazednlovinit in that case, there are obviously exceptions. As a general rule though, your gut never lies. Imo. Too bad about your friend. Hope he got the help he needed.
@blazednlovinit
Жыл бұрын
@@bitterellaselectricgroove8544 My friend is fine now :) It was medication induced.
@Quantum_GirlE
Жыл бұрын
@@blazednlovinitgreat recourse. If I went with my gut..... I'd be either dead, in jail, or severely isolated 😅
@te5014
Жыл бұрын
Brandy was a friend of mine. I remember not too long before her disappearance, she and I were texting and she asked for advice about a girl she had feelings for. Makes me sick to think she was probably talking about Jade. Brandy was one of the sweetest people I’ve ever met, and she is missed every day.
@TheRealdal
Жыл бұрын
So sorry for the loss of your friend.
@prarthanaperera1997
Жыл бұрын
Sending you loads of love and prayers ❤️ I hope you're doing okay🙏
@peninnahmwalili8518
Жыл бұрын
Sorry for the loss of a friend.
@ManojKumar-qg9bw
Жыл бұрын
Very heartbreaking, the fact that even when she was getting horribly beaten she had no hate for them, "I wouldn't let any one know of this if you let me go" 💔
@acephas3
Жыл бұрын
This isn’t on you at all!!!! That said, we need to go with our friends when hostility is expected.
@darklord884
Жыл бұрын
What I find ironic is how much the result of their plan diametrically opposed the intent. They wanted to destroy Brandy, to erase her from their lives and completely annihilate her existence. But in doing what they did, they immortalised her in the memory of everyone nearby and instead of destroying her, they made her into an ideal that no murder could destroy, and all this with their own lives as sacrifice. In a way, they were the architects of their own worst case scenarios.
@blazednlovinit
Жыл бұрын
[Old Ben Kenobi intensifies]
@CLSGL
Жыл бұрын
People, listen to your gut, it will lead you in the right direction. Last year, a friend of mine was going through really hard times. She was effectively homeless. She had texted me to meet up and I said I would buy her dinner. I was sitting in my rental van where she wanted to meet me, and she kept badgering me to go somewhere else to get her. Almost relentlessly bugging me about it. I kept asking her why, she wouldn’t answer. I wouldn’t go and I ended up just heading home. A few weeks later I learned through a mutual friend that she was diagnosed with extreme schizophrenia a year prior and ended up getting arrested for stabbing somebody several times just a few days after her and I were supposed to meet. Had I not trusted my gut, I probably would have been hurt, or even worse.
@TirkableLight
Жыл бұрын
She probably just wanted to give you that gawk gawk 3000 Brad.
@penskepc2374
Жыл бұрын
Your rental van? I think she was the lucky one lmao
@Kisha_can
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's a weird assumption
@CLSGL
Жыл бұрын
@@penskepc2374 My car was in the shop and I had a 2022 Chrysler Grand Caravan. Her loss 😤
@indiatastic
Жыл бұрын
the gift of fear. we should always listen.
@chayychayy8109
Жыл бұрын
She died horrifically it’s truly sad. I can’t imagine how scared she was in her final moments. She seemed like a good person. Why do these monsters walk amongst us.
@-xirx-
Жыл бұрын
@@rizkiramadhan9266 ahh! You beat me to it! Lol 😆
@AbeusMaximus
Жыл бұрын
@@rizkiramadhan9266 And there’s been studies that have shown that lesbian couples have the most occurrences of abuse, both mental and physical and it was by a large margin.
@rizkiramadhan9266
Жыл бұрын
@@AbeusMaximus that too, but I was thinking of how if she's got no qualms about committing a sin worse than murder, why would she hesitate with just murder?
@AbeusMaximus
Жыл бұрын
@@rizkiramadhan9266 What was the sin worst than murder?
@hazelsunderstood6784
Жыл бұрын
@@AbeusMaximus Torture. Especially torture that goes unnoticed like S.A. I've been S.A as a child and I honestly would have rather them kill me after. I live my life terrified it'll happen again, though therapy and meds help. But even with all the good in my life, I would have given it all away to increase the chances of them getting put in jail. It took years before my brain would let me stop blaming myself. I had to learn about the brain and how the language center of your brain literally turns off with traumatic events. IF I get S.A. again - I'll do what I can to catch them since I'm no longer a child. BUT living in Texas USA, I know that I'll probably end up killing myself after they do nothing to catch the offender. So I for sure will leave my dead body outside of the police station in whatever county the attack happens. Maybe the more that happens, the more they'll take those crimes seriously, but i doubt it. Can't have laws that might backfire on the lawmakers. Death is worse for those left behind. Torture is worse for those who have been through it.
@KackieJennedy
Жыл бұрын
"Gut feelings are guardian angels." ☹️ Rest in Peace, Brandy
@Ze_Moose
Жыл бұрын
So true. Always listen to your gut feeling
@sancho8521
Жыл бұрын
@@Ze_Moose ...Creep Alarm
@kimmccabe1422
Жыл бұрын
Exactly what I said. Follow your instincts, for me, they come directly from above👍
@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj
Жыл бұрын
True but gut feelings are not always correct. Sadly it was in this case.
@lakmw154
Жыл бұрын
@@TrinhNguyen-sh4fj better safe than sorry
@kilcitykitty
Жыл бұрын
people.. IF YOU FEEL like something is a miss, TURN AROUND. We have instincts for a reason. Everyone ignores those feelings and these stories never have a happy ending. Had this poor girl simply turned around, she'd be alive today. So sad :(
@peeton8694
Жыл бұрын
Yea let’s not blame the murder victim. Let’s blame the people who murdered her.
@kilcitykitty
Жыл бұрын
@@peeton8694 @Peeton I'm in *no way* blaming anyone at all so don't you dare sit there and put words where there *aren't* any. I was giving *advice* and speaking in a *general* sense. Not one person took this as s blame to the victim. I'm clearly being sympathetic towards them and feel bad for that loss of life. But *do NOT be that ONE* person in the comments that has to start a fire to something *for no reason* plz/ty
@peeton8694
Жыл бұрын
@@kilcitykitty “had this poor girl simply turned around, she’d be alive today. So sad :(“ Big no. Had two people not murdered her, she’d be alive today. So don’t get pissy at me because what you said was out of touch
@peeton8694
Жыл бұрын
@@kilcitykitty if you can’t see how that comment put the responsibility onto the MURDER VICTIM I can’t help you. In no way was this the fault of Brandy not listening to her gut. This was 150% the fault of two murderers who murdered her.
@kilcitykitty
Жыл бұрын
@@peeton8694 again, I didn't say that first I said it as a point factor to what I said its still not blaming.
@giadeascentis
Жыл бұрын
I was in orchestra with brandy and graduated the year before her. She was the most beautiful person, inside and out.
@pofuno
2 ай бұрын
I meannnnn maybe on the inside she was lmfao 😂😂😂
@Le4fyx._714
Ай бұрын
@@pofuno how can you say that after knowing what she went through?
@annablendermann
Жыл бұрын
This is truly one of the most horrific cases I've seen on this channel. They not only planned Brandy's murder together, but they both participated in mutilating her, buried her alive and shamed her with letters on the trees. And that's what you call love? Thank you Adrian, for another chilling story.
@pietro4772
Жыл бұрын
Definitely not "one of the most horrific cases". Research the Christian/Newsom murders.
@tarantulady
Жыл бұрын
It wasn't love to begin with. Abusers like her just use others as accessories and punching bags; they use people, rather than love them. I wonder what made her victim vulnerable to accepting abuse. Most people would walk out the minute it started. When people stay, the abuser feels more and more entitled to them over time, and they feel more "ripped off" and wronged, when they leave. You took their THING from them, when you leave. It's so dangerous to leave once they feel they own you, and abuse victims who stay don't understand that you can never, ever safely go back.
@mikemains2999
Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@hackerspongebob3271
Жыл бұрын
Yeah I do get do just
@jennfields1990
Жыл бұрын
It's so sad that her kindness, love, and understanding was rewarded by this!😢 This girl stole from her and cheated, she still gave her chance after chance. She dedicated her life to helping others and it was ended by takers and abusers. If depression and insomnia excused ppl with murder, me and half the ppl in the world could walk.... that's no excuse!!!
@Janetgreen64
Жыл бұрын
She was buried alive!! It doesn’t get any sicker than this. So sorry for Brandy and her family and friends. Brandy deserved so much more . May she rest in peace x
@Fede_uyz
Жыл бұрын
oh... it definitely does, look up the toy box murderer. An FBI investigator killed herself after inventoraizing what was found in the torture chamber
@cdes1776
Жыл бұрын
My biggest fear.
@ButterflyTwinkle1968
Жыл бұрын
There’s never reason to bury any creature alive.
@cuteandfunnymusic
Жыл бұрын
Also "I'm sorry for what had happened", relinquishing herself from any agency, of course It was freaking 1st degree murder and execution would've been an act of benevolence compared to what they've put Brandy through
@mekabare
Жыл бұрын
Imo they both deserved death penalty, or at the very least this was clearly first degree murder
@thegameplayer125
Жыл бұрын
it makes it all the more morbid that she felt something was about to go wrong before her murder. people should always trust their instincts
@steveperreira5850
Жыл бұрын
You could randomly arrange the mug shots of these three girls. Almost everyone would properly identify the victim, the murderer, and the accomplice. Think about that.
@thaddeusmarcuscheeleyjr.786
Жыл бұрын
Sadly too many people deny their better judgement when their feelings get in the way. More often than not, your body knows what your brain won't understand, even in its final moments.
@voguexperimental
Жыл бұрын
@@steveperreira5850 Indeed.
@waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa9739
Жыл бұрын
ngl i'm creeped out by premises like these bc i have anxiety and that thing is telling me i'm about to die 24/7 when it gets bad, how do i tell when something's off for real then
@michellementh9651
Жыл бұрын
@@waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa9739 I have severe anxiety and mine becomes calm when I get alarm bells of something seriously wrong. That whole fight or flight thing happens
@azitabahram17
Жыл бұрын
These cases make me think of eye for an eye… Being buried alive is one of the most horrifying ways of death, especially it takes relatively long time to die or get unconscious. It shows how brutal and psychopathic these people are. They deserve to die the same way
@jamesoshea580
Жыл бұрын
Haha! Read that again!
@feastinginvalhalla8264
Жыл бұрын
Their day of judgment will come, don't worry.
@cuttlefishagain
Жыл бұрын
Ugh this one is so sad. The brutality in how they killed her, the callousness from Ashley. It seems like Brandy was a compassionate person, caring about Jade, and that came back to haunt her. :(
@landang7906
Жыл бұрын
I watched this in horror. They are so young. ...these things do happen in the US?
@9teen9t4
Жыл бұрын
@@landang7906 They happen all over, regardless of geographic boundaries.
@BeastRedAsh
Жыл бұрын
She was just 21 years old, basically a whole life full of love and wonders waited for her. Painful story to be murdered by someone you loved and cared about
@azazello1784
Жыл бұрын
I am not so sure about love and wonders considering how she looked.
@BeastRedAsh
Жыл бұрын
@@azazello1784 She literally was in relationships, so you can stick your snarky comment you know where
@azazello1784
Жыл бұрын
@@BeastRedAsh All of the girls involved looked overweight and manly.
@BeastRedAsh
Жыл бұрын
@@azazello1784 I see you clearly have a problem with whatever you discovered. Well, let me tell you that - at the end of the day it's still your issue, not theirs. Now spare me this meaningless discussion.
@justchilling1506
Жыл бұрын
@@azazello1784 more than you'll ever have, for sure.
@m.ccheddarbox874
Жыл бұрын
Please.. trust your gut feeling. If you feel something is wrong you're most likely right.
@flyme2009
Жыл бұрын
you are 100% right. gift of fear
@mjanny6330
Жыл бұрын
"Trusting your gut" is called "prejudice" "bigotry" or "hatred" alot these days unfortunately.
@GeekedOutNeckbeard
Жыл бұрын
@@mjanny6330 if your gut feeling feels danger cause of skin color or sexual orientation.. Then yes.
@nhmooytis7058
Жыл бұрын
@@GeekedOutNeckbeard yet crime stats show some groups commit a disproportionately number of crimes. I’d rather be a live bigot than a corpse.
@maximeremillard7036
Жыл бұрын
@@GeekedOutNeckbeard sexual orientation is definitely a factor, if you are the preferred sexual type of someone, there is additional risk.
@juststar5196
Жыл бұрын
Its just so scary how someone you once loved and trusted could do this. I feel so bad for her, she did what she could to stay safe but honestly... What a totally terrible thing to happen.
@beatvampire
Жыл бұрын
rejection is the most powerful emotion .its a killer
@d.j.daugherty4945
Жыл бұрын
I do not trust anyone besides my mom and sadly she is gone... All people are a joke
@josephprovencher6345
Жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart hearing about parents trying to force their gay children to be what they're not.
@josephprovencher6345
Жыл бұрын
@@d.j.daugherty4945 I'm sorry that you feel that way 😔
@MiVidaBellisima
Жыл бұрын
I remember hearing about this case and being absolutely PISSED she didn’t get the death penalty. Like if ever there was a reason to deserve the death penalty it would be burying an innocent human being alive 😢
@slaveNo-4028
Жыл бұрын
WAIT A MINUTE. So you can send a friend your address that you feel uneasy about going to and will be murdered at - and this address will NOT be seen as "substantial clue" to declare the people a suspect and investigate further? It needs the mum calling about the car in the garage? Thats crazy.
@dontknow3792
Жыл бұрын
You don't mention it in your video but Brandy's greatest fear was being buried alive and her killers knew that.
@totallynotimari
Жыл бұрын
Damn 🫤
@cuttlefishagain
Жыл бұрын
omg please tell me that's not true. that just makes it 100x worse
@dontknow3792
Жыл бұрын
@@cuttlefishagain It is sadly as true as it gets. My sister was friends with them and still lives in ohio to this day. I however mnoved and i'll never go back.
@koketsomahlangu6890
Жыл бұрын
@dontknow3792 Oh no😢💔 how vile!
@brenale_heartsJesus
6 ай бұрын
Just awful
@DeepThought420
Жыл бұрын
I've said it before and I'll say it again the respect you show for the victims is unmatched! Thank you for that! 👏👏
@Andreamom001
Жыл бұрын
Stephanie Harlowe and Ceime Weekly also respect victims and tell their stories as much as possible. I subbed ro this channel because he does the same as them.
@sindylivesey7915
Жыл бұрын
That Chapter is great too.
@owl4260
Жыл бұрын
Add Mollie Westbrook to the list ;) She's very sincere and respectful.
@inkompetenzkompensationsko4188
Жыл бұрын
John Lordan as well.
@meghanbarton5532
Жыл бұрын
I think you would like "dreading" or "this is monster"
@levflowers8109
Жыл бұрын
This case makes me so sad... She was just trying to make the world a better place and two horrible people took her life. It's easy to say she should have trusted her gut but we can never truly know what other people are thinking. I think she was probably just the type who looks for good in others. I hope she's at peace.
@humongousfungusamongus3871
Жыл бұрын
I love how Adrian not only educates us about the victim(s)/perpetrator(s) history but he also educates us on the history of where they were born & raised. Kudos Adrian, mad love & respect for you & all you do.
@Esquinawatusi
Жыл бұрын
Love him too! He's such a natural storyteller. He remains calm when describing horrific scenarious. Meanwhile, most of us would be yelling at the tv. Lol.
@skunkbuttmagoo
Жыл бұрын
I don't usually tear up from these videos. But this one hit hard. She was such a beautiful person. And such a horrible and unnecessarily cruel way to die.
@jessicaa697
Жыл бұрын
Omg poor sweetheart that is absolutely heart breaking 🥺🥺 I suffer with BPD and other mental health issues but I would NEVER even dream of harming another person. That poor poor girl 💔💔
@jasonbarksdale547
Жыл бұрын
The ability for humans to use violence in almost any situation /environment SHOULD NOT be underestimated
@asmokeus
Жыл бұрын
which is why we need to be MUCH more careful to teach _about_ it and not teach it
@mjanny6330
Жыл бұрын
@chōppā we also need to stop the stigma surrounding criticism of the homosexual community.
@hicknopunk
Жыл бұрын
Dogs too
@hicknopunk
Жыл бұрын
@@mjanny6330 i thought he/she was taking an anti violence stance.
@mikejones6791
Жыл бұрын
@@mjanny6330 im curious what stigma specifically youre referring to... like which one do you think is the most unfare or inhumane?
@geminidream4347
Жыл бұрын
I can only pray her head injuries were so severe, she was not aware of smothering to death or being buried alive. My heart goes out to her parents having to hear how their baby died. I don't how you managed sitting there listening to it. I'm not so sure I could that without ending up in jail myself.
@BreeAnnaMarie
Жыл бұрын
I love the compassion you show for the victims and their families. The way you talk about these cases is so top notch! I absolutely love your channel, thanks for all you do.
@CoffeehouseCrime
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@BreeAnnaMarie
Жыл бұрын
@@CoffeehouseCrime my pleasure
@TheQueenOfSheba
Жыл бұрын
It’s honestly so true. He’s very kind and gentle towards the victims. It’s really nice.
@ksaraf23
Жыл бұрын
@@CoffeehouseCrime that’s what makes you so different from all those other true crime dramas, which now seem exploitative and cruel given the nature of the crimes and how much attention they’re given.
@BreeAnnaMarie
Жыл бұрын
@@ksaraf23 I couldn't agree more.
@damianmccoy6128
Жыл бұрын
This is truly heartbreaking. Hearing the description of her death brought tears to my eyes. Brandy seemed to be a wonderful young woman, loved by many and with a bright future.
@suzyfarnham3165
Жыл бұрын
As an Aussie who visited Ohio many times for work and knew it was The Buckeye State. I am going to admit....I was TODAY old when I found out what a buckeye was!!
@julieremley4380
Жыл бұрын
It's so disheartening that other humans on this earth can be so vile. I'm so saddened for Brandy's family and friend's to know the horrible acts that she went through.... My thoughts and prayers are with them.
@karawigley6231
Жыл бұрын
Knowing what Ashley did makes her pick up line video that much more cringy. This is such a sad story. I feel for Brandy just thinking about how she must of felt the moment she realized her uneasy feelings about meeting with them were warranted.
@patrickmcdonagh539
Жыл бұрын
See how proud she was reading out them shitty lines. The narc actually thought she was funny
@michellebrown4371
Жыл бұрын
I would love you to do a video about Peter Falconio. Here is a brief description: Peter Falconio was a British tourist who disappeared in a remote part of the Stuart Highway near Barrow Creek in the Northern Territory of Australia on the evening of 14 July 2001, while travelling with his girlfriend Joanne Lees. They charged a man named Bradley Murdoch, even though his body has never been found. Most people in Australia believe his girlfriend was involved and Bradley Murdoch was innocent. I love your videos, thank you 😘.
@KiwikimNZ
Жыл бұрын
Oh yes that’s a really creepy story. How terrified the girlfriend must have been.
@michellebrown4371
Жыл бұрын
@@KiwikimNZ No, the girlfriend was involved. She told many lies. I hope his body is found one day.
@jojowynne233
Жыл бұрын
@@michellebrown4371 the police have never charged her with anything. They still consider her a victim as she was tied up and raped, but managed to flee and hide in the bushes till night fall. I’m not sure why you think she was in on it?
@carlagraham9109
Жыл бұрын
@@michellebrown4371 No, I don't believe Joanne Lees had anything to do with murdering him. The press did a hatchet job on her, for lack of a viable suspect at the time. I also don't believe "most people in Australia" believe she was involved. I've actually never heard anyone say that, and I've lived in Australia for 30 years.
@xMsNoobx
Жыл бұрын
@@carlagraham9109 well I'm a 37yr old australian and everyone I know don't trust the gf as far as we can throw her .... she's dodgy af
@grumpygremlin2379
Жыл бұрын
If they did that to my child, it would quickly become evident that prison isn't the worst thing that could happen to them.
@joeycampbell940
Жыл бұрын
Calm down Napoleon you'd do nothing.
@grumpygremlin2379
Жыл бұрын
@@joeycampbell940 Try me.
@nutzhazel
Жыл бұрын
Same
@AToneForOurSins
Жыл бұрын
As a Type 1 Diabetic I am thankful and impressed that you said " Diabetic Ketoacidosis " and not Diabetic coma. That's a big thing people need to stop saying, "Diabetic comas" don't exist the way people think they do.
@azazello1784
Жыл бұрын
I missed the part where we should care about this.
@sistersofthemaccabees2497
Жыл бұрын
No one cares 🤷🏿🤷🏿
@sorrelbee113
Жыл бұрын
Wow, people are rude, and for absolutely no reason. Using accurate terminology about life-threatening medical conditions with the result of dispersing common misconceptions is... Something I care about, actually.
@d.olluwu
Жыл бұрын
@@sistersofthemaccabees2497clearly the original commenter cares. maybe if you hate people thanking adrian for this so much you should just keep scrolling instead of wasting your own time by commenting👍
@d.olluwu
Жыл бұрын
@@azazello1784yet you cared enough to read the whole comment AND spend your own precious time on this earth typing out a reply…huh lol
@kandreasworld4374
Жыл бұрын
Moral of the story: Trust your gut. Jealousy doesn't just stop one day.
@glorygloryholeallelujah
Жыл бұрын
My sister and I are the babies of the family and the only girls. That, coupled with a “near miss” situation as kids (prompting our move to the USA) our dad was/is especially paranoid about our safety-and some of the best advice he gave all of us kids, about “trusting our gut no matter what,” was… *”No matter what the situation is, if it REALLY doesn’t feel right-BAIL!! Because it’s better to have a moment of embarrassment, miss out on a potential job/housing/education/romantic opportunity, or to have people possibly think you’re weird and talk shit about you…than for you to be dead and miss out on EVERYTHING!!.”* I still heed that advice every day.❤️ I hate that it’s a necessity to learn these types of lessons and I wish we lived in a world where beautiful souls like Brandy could still be here and were always m safe. But sadly, that’s not reality. 🥺💔😔
@avondalelandscapesteam9238
Жыл бұрын
Called women's intuition, it's a real thing and should be listened to. I ignored these feelings and ended up being raped by someone I thought rationally was trustworthy but my gut said don't trust them.
@avondalelandscapesteam9238
Жыл бұрын
Absolutely , young people beware and take heed
@anthonycirami8500
Жыл бұрын
If something is telling you no and if you feel uneasy always stick to your instinct .
@therealdeal3672
Жыл бұрын
All the stories that you tell us are sad. Somehow this one really brought me to tears. Unbelievable how cruel and senseless some people can be. If you have a deep sense of foreboding, when you're on your way to meet someone, maybe don't go. There are a million excuses you can make. RIP Brandy
@ameliashostak4764
Жыл бұрын
I am a true crime junkie, I consume more true crime content than what's considered healthy. That being said, listening to what those two evil, vile monsters did to poor Brandy actually made me cry! I have seen crime scenes that make other people wanna be sick, but it doesn't bother me. Just hearing what Brandy was made to go through rocked me to my core! I'm just happy that she can never be hurt by anyone ever again.
@armphidiic2609
Жыл бұрын
Remember to trust your instincts. If a situation feels bad, get out of it. Dont worry about being rude or weird. Predators use social mores and rules to trap victims. Call things out and cause a scene if you have to.
@lynnehuff9659
Жыл бұрын
I know that one can be attracted to all sorts, sometimes with bad outcomes. These two are so bad. How did they ever have girlfriends, romantic, or otherwise?
@peachphs
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! It’s so sad that she felt something off and still went
@lynnehuff9659
Жыл бұрын
@@peachphs IK I used to live with women When I was younger that lowlife couldn't have gotten a girlfriend You can be butch without being an ass and so unattractive What ever it doesn't matter just sad that Erin got involved with them both
@tiffknox6158
Жыл бұрын
I’ve yet to hear someone say they listened to their gut and regretted it. So ladies, do a “gut-check” and if the vibes don’t pass muster you are absolutely allowed to change plans, no show, meet with other friends, stay home, etc.
@vikkumari
Жыл бұрын
I've heard this case before. As a lesbian, it's always stuck with me. What stuck with me more was the hateful, homophobic comments on the video I initially saw. I appreciate the respect you and your community both show to the victim 💖🤍🧡
@greenbud8946
Жыл бұрын
I’m definitely NOT gay, but anyone that makes fun of someone else just for their lifestyle choices is just a weak, insecure, and downright miserable person on the inside. Don’t pay those people any attention, because as soon as you give them your attention, they won. Just live and love your life dude, and f**k what ANYONE says about it! Have a GREAT Day!! 🙂🙂
@inkompetenzkompensationsko4188
Жыл бұрын
I'm so sorry you had to read that. Stories like these still require a close monitoring of the comment section, unfortunately.
@mjanny6330
Жыл бұрын
"hateful, homophobic comments" lol
@renegilmore9890
Жыл бұрын
Trust the internal discomfort, it speaks in an uncomfortable and honest language... my heart hurts for Brandy's loved ones. Thank you Adrian for the compassion you continue to show to the victims and their loved ones. Keep up the great work, I truly appreciate what you do. Lots of love from Alaska.🙏
@blazednlovinit
Жыл бұрын
We probably have that sensation for a good survival reason. I wouldn't say it's very accurate or rational, but ultimately it must save more people than it kills or we wouldn't have evolved it.
@BearsClaw
Жыл бұрын
"Jade has confidence, she was Brash" Jade: also can't deliver a pick up line without sounding like a it's the first time she's ever even thought about talking to a woman Yeah, the math, ain't math'n chief.
@Bonkpunktexe
Жыл бұрын
As many other have said, if you feel something is wrong then turn around and listen to your gut, but also another thing to keep in mind is to be aware of the other person's demeanor. If a person you knew were mad at you, or you knew they were dating someone who didn't like you, and suddenly they invite you over to meet up, then don't go. If you feel like you have to go, make sure you go meet them in a public place and make sure you have someone else with you. It's very suspicious to see someone who dislikes you a lot suddenly turn around and say they want to meet up and make it up to you. That's a huge red flag.
@mimiluvs3538
Жыл бұрын
I will never understand why people meet up with others ex's. Especially knowing the issues they've had. This happens often & doesn't usually end well.
@cdes1776
Жыл бұрын
Peoplle think they're being nice to the other person by saying yes. Be nice to yourself and say no.
@avondalelandscapesteam9238
Жыл бұрын
It's because you want to show you are doing well and morbid curiosity how the ex is doing.leave well alone and pretend they didn't exist is a safer and better option. Onwards and upwards only and always.
@TNgirl546
Жыл бұрын
This is such a sad case. Brandy sounded like a great person. Wish she would have listened more to herself when she had that uneasy feeling. Many times when you have a feeling like that it is for a reason. Glad those 2 monsters will be in prison for the rest of their lives. RIP Brandy
@lindasmith4435
Жыл бұрын
I agree. This case made me want to weep. Very sad.
@grec.
Жыл бұрын
How she was lured into going to the woods to meet her and. She was truly a pure soul. 🤧 May her family find peace.
@amaranthinium
Жыл бұрын
Respectful and detailed as always. Just wanted to say…I know this may seem “beside the point” to some, but as a queer woman, nastier corners of the internet have taught me to prepare for coverage of a story like this to be marked by veiled or direct homophobia. I appreciate that both this video and its top comments focus on the character & actions of the people involved rather than their sexuality. It doesn’t matter how Brandy identified, she didn’t deserve this. It doesn’t matter how her killers identified, they are monsters for doing this. Thanks Adrian and fellow commenters for your humanity-I hope we can all fight for a better, kinder, less violent world for Brandy. I weep for her suffering and pray for her justice.
@Cleanslatescott
Жыл бұрын
But It is besides the point. You just injected that thought and topic into this conversation.
@james5193
Жыл бұрын
Well said.
@mugiwarabon3374
Жыл бұрын
You're one of the only ones in the entire comment section making a point to focus on their sexuality, just saying. That said, I was also happy with the overwhelmingly positive comment section.
@SarahGambill-sl9dl
12 күн бұрын
I wish Brandy's mom can just say no to her no lesbians 4 brandy not ever.
@a.marvellehoneyman4560
Жыл бұрын
Rest In Peace Brandy, you were an amazing woman, I would have enjoyed meeting you. May you have peace, may your friends and family have peace.
@maiden571
Жыл бұрын
I don't very often cry through your videos but I found my face soaked with my tears. This video is about pretty much all that I hate in our society. I agree..I think Brandy would have been wonderful in her choice for her future. I am so sorry this happened to you Brandy. RIP Brandy..your soul will shine down on us forever.
@Esquinawatusi
Жыл бұрын
Word. This was really painful to hear. She seemed like such a gentle soul.
@markgundle4150
Жыл бұрын
Will unironically say I prefer this channel to just about any big budget true crime doc series. Thanks once again!
@thatscool1550
Жыл бұрын
if someone did this to my child. they wouldnt make it to a court room. 100% would get worse. this is sooooo unfathomable.
@TashaxMack
Жыл бұрын
This is truly a sad case. How sickening to be betrayed my someone you trusted. I hope what they did haunts them for the rest of their life
@Littlemsambitious
Жыл бұрын
May you rest in eternal and blissful peace, Brandy. You remind me so much of my best friend and I am so scared that this could happen to her as she has had relations with some pretty unstable and mean people. I am so sorry for what you suffered. My heart hurts.
@WILMA_
Жыл бұрын
This is really upsetting! I can’t believe she went through all this. Poor girl. May her soul Rest In Peace.
@firstnamelastname9215
Жыл бұрын
WILMA?
@dontknow3792
Жыл бұрын
Someone is finally telling this story! I lived in this town when this happened and my sister was good friends with one of these girls. I would have never guessed Jade would end up doing something so crazy but her home life was very very abusive. You literally just never know what someone is capable of!
@blacktara3936
Жыл бұрын
Youngstown's a crime infested hellhole! I lived about 15 mins away,
@missbabbett9086
Жыл бұрын
This is absolutely horrible such a needless loss of a beautiful life. Those 2 BEASTS are where they belong for the rest of their lives....😢❤️
@CaseyAvalon
Жыл бұрын
Hell yah! Beasts is right
@IwasBlueb4
Жыл бұрын
th they won't care. they'll find new butch lovers in prison
@blacktara3936
Жыл бұрын
These 2 evil monsters are rough, big, butchy sociopaths and have MANY same-sex-victims where they are. They're probably doing quite well. They are not suffering enough for what they did.
@kvzuha3454
Жыл бұрын
I lost it when Adrian said "cringey video' aside" 😂😂 I know I shouldn't be laughing on a video like this but that got me.
@jesterssketchbook
Жыл бұрын
that "im a cool lesbian" video is possibly the most cringe thing ive ever seen
@Jenacide
Жыл бұрын
@@jesterssketchbook It was really hard to watch 😩 Btw love Critical Role ✌️
@livingabroadthepodcast2021
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@desertdaisymarie6951
Жыл бұрын
Worst lesvid for chatup lines 😂
@brucelownhole
Жыл бұрын
The one lesson im taking from this case: Photographs taken from above are very flattering
@charmincat
Жыл бұрын
never go against your instinct don't let your doubt of why you're feeling something overrule your gut telling you something's not right!!
@tabathacattle6898
Жыл бұрын
The poor girl her instinct was right and she should have listened but was far too kind for her own good, my heart goes out to her family and friends. How can people be so cruel over jealousy and insecurity its sad and pathetic and such a great loss for society
@voidcanary4180
Жыл бұрын
Brandi's murder was so completely un called for. it's hard to comprehend because so many couples just block phone numbers and social media profiles for their ex's. everyone does it. Brandi only visited because they asked her to come. it's truly awful and one of the worse reasons to take someone life I can think of. Bless this young woman's memory. thank you for the video
@thecook8964
Жыл бұрын
Do not visit ex
@codymartel9187
Жыл бұрын
i was legit thinking this (im half way in the video). Ashley over here complaining about Brandy texting Jade but… they could’ve just… blocked .. deleted .. and simply ignore her and focus on themselves ? but no. they wanted to kill her. they wanted to hurt her. may brandy’s soul rest in peace.
@gabriellafox7948
Жыл бұрын
You have such a gift Adrian, in the way you document the facts while at the same time bringing the raw things done to this beautiful human, behind this vicious senseless crime. I’ve heard of this story before, but I truly enjoyed your presentation! Peace be with you and every soul reading this 🕊🙏🏻♥️🇨🇦🕊
@pfb74
Жыл бұрын
it's the fact that she was buried alive. Dating will never be that serious. She never needed to pass away. Poor soul. I hope she's resting peacefully.
@lethallizard963
Жыл бұрын
You’re a great story teller, and you’re the only true crime channel I watch. Your tone is great (you’re very respectful, which I think other KZitemrs should learn from), you’re concise but comprehensive, and I believe you deserve the success you’ve had with this channel.
@emily543
Жыл бұрын
Wow… This is horrifying. I’ve heard many awful stories but this one really shook me to my core (this isn’t to say the others aren’t terrible, they are, may all of the victims rest peacefully). I can’t imagine being lured, beaten, and buried. That poor girl, she would’ve done amazing things for the world; may she always be remembered.
@Pesciolotto
Жыл бұрын
this is so horrific. brandy seemed like someone i would've loved to be friends with, she reminds me of so many people in my life. may she rest in peace
@azazello1784
Жыл бұрын
Only friends... She looked hideous.
@TriersTreasures
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing these videos and being so respectful to the victims. You are the only true crime program i watch because of your mannerism. I am a single woman who lives and travels alone and your videos bring attention to the types of people out there and the things they are capable of. I am a lot more aware and cautious because of you bringing attention to things we may not have been aware of any other way
@flej01
Жыл бұрын
R..I.P Brandy, those 2 hideous people that did this to you, are not even worthy to be mentioned. The pain they have caused your family is unforgivable.
@claudiasaucedo420
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate your hard work Adrian, thank you for sharing your dedication to true crime with us! Blessings from Tulsa, Oklahoma.
@CoffeehouseCrime
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Claudia, and good morning Oklahoma!
@KylieAtTheDisco2
Жыл бұрын
I’m in Tulsa too! Small world. 😊
@izzyolumese2540
Жыл бұрын
Greetings from Birmingham England 🇬🇧
@proanimaluver6487
Жыл бұрын
Hi Tulsa! I used to live in Potoe and McAlester Oklahoma . I loved it.
@sethbishop6890
Жыл бұрын
@@izzyolumese2540 could you do a welfare check in a friend of mine in Manchester right quick?
@skunkrat01
Жыл бұрын
Your continued focus on the victims is one of the reasons your channel is so well loved. Brandy honestly sounds like a super cool chick. I would have loved to jam with her.
@witchywoman4157
Жыл бұрын
This story really got to me. It's very sad, and horrible , what they put this amazing person through. There is a special place in hell for these demons. I look forward to listening to you every week you have a soothing voice. This is definitely something that you are great at. Btw I am a huge animal lover so when you include your kitty it's awesome. Thankyou for all the hard work you put into your channel. It's always good.
@leosumner9317
Жыл бұрын
I can't find another crime channel that is anywhere near as good as this! Long live Coffeehouse crime! Rest in peace beautiful soul Brandy! ❤️
@SandyMeeshell
Жыл бұрын
Coffeehouse Crime and That Chapter.. I don't ever miss a story 🙌🏽
@deiji4580
Жыл бұрын
Ive been watching coffeehouse crime for a long time now and I just have to say… The way you start your video’s with scenery and backstory is so unique. I have never seen someone do that before. The way you end the video on a positive note, remembering the victim, warms my heart. Unfortunately we can’t turn back time, but we can remember them. This channel is the most respectful when it comes to talking about murder cases. I applaud you for that! Thanks for putting so much effort in your video’s. The fact that you do research and then have record and edit baffles my mind. There’s so much work that goes on and I’m really in awe. Again, thank you! Looking forward for the next one!
@123funwithfire
Жыл бұрын
i showed my nan your channel and demanded that i subscribe her to your channel. she assumed she had to pay but was overjoyed to know that she can watch all of your content free, and whenever she wants
@leesashriber5097
Жыл бұрын
I live in Ohio and I must admit, I've never heard of this case until now. I cannot even imagine what fear she felt knowing something out of nightmares was about to happen. Thanks Adrian for sharing this dark and sadistic crime. May she rest peacefully. 🕊️🙏❤️ I cannot stand when parents make excuses for their poor excuses of kids. 🤬
@kaigrant88
Жыл бұрын
Same, I live in Cincinnati, OH and I think I may have only stumbled across this case once before on KZitem. It sucks that we never got to hear it. Also her worst fear was being buried alive.. it definitely is beyond imaginable...
@leesashriber5097
Жыл бұрын
@@kaigrant88 , I honestly cannot imagine being buried alive. I'm a former medical examiner and Forensic Pathologist and know it's not possible but the fear is still there. There is a drug that stops all activity in the human body, and that would do it but it's short term. They use it in executions and during surgery. Anywho, Happy Tuesday!! 😊
@darlenedenis5686
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for another great video. Have to agree with others here about the respect you show for the victims and the ability to tell the story without the need to glorify the injuries. I am also enjoying the bloopers and love your gorgeous kitty. Respect from Canada, eh😀😉
@CoffeehouseCrime
Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Good morning Canada ☀️🍁
@DakotaofRaptors
Жыл бұрын
From what I've gathered, Ashleys are usually cold-hearted
@suzyfarnham3165
Жыл бұрын
It is Olivia's in my family! EVERY single one I have met is a psychopath!
@bobsonny
Жыл бұрын
Hmm, it's almost like not everyone with a certain name is alike in character!! I swear, this "all X are bad people" is so stupid. Judging someone for their name is bioessentialist trash.
@DakotaofRaptors
Жыл бұрын
@@bobsonny I just thought it funny
@Jenacide
Жыл бұрын
@@bobsonny Man you taking it FAR too seriously my guy 😂
@Nemesis9K
Жыл бұрын
No… this is one I won’t forget. RIP Brandy. The world lost a good one 😢
@anasevi9456
Жыл бұрын
Just horrific and honestly one of the most petty premeditated murders imaginable. Just to prove that an ex who by all accounts was not pushy or entitled; was an ex. 😐
@oxylepy2
Жыл бұрын
Don't feel bad, it took me 35 years to find out that "buckeye" refers to a chestnut, and 10 years to find out that a buckeye is the same thing as a conker. All of which happened about 3 minutes ago, during this video
@jenniferfoote5442
Жыл бұрын
Lol same 😂 and i'm 53
@rule_brittania2142
Жыл бұрын
I grew up in Indiana, right next door to Ohio, and now live in the UK where my son used to love collecting conkers, and I didn't know, so.......
@brandyhuff8487
Жыл бұрын
They're also a name of a butterfly
@joanhoffman3702
Жыл бұрын
Buckeye also refers to a peanut butter and chocolate candy supposedly resembling a buckeye/chestnut.
@itswickedsweet4409
Жыл бұрын
I was thinking "WTF is a conker?"
@nsanton7
Жыл бұрын
Huge reminder never to ignore your gut instinct! It’ll literally save your life! What a terrible tragedy 😢 I can’t even imagine Brandy’s final moments 😩
@ChaosShadoWolfe
Жыл бұрын
I found this channel a while back, my gf has been listening to these for years now and I have to say; It's truly something special that a youtuber finishes videos on these kinds of subjects with "And stay safe". Showing empathy/concern throughout the video and ending the video on such a thing is just beautiful and I wanted to say that it definitely stands out in the crowd. Thank you for all the time you put into these videos.
@xxwhispersxx2856
Жыл бұрын
Always trust your gut, folks. If your gut is telling you something is wrong or not to go anywhere, don't go. Rip Brandy.
@Laceycrochet
Жыл бұрын
What an awful tragic case. Thank you for covering it with sensitivity Adrian. Best wishes from Yorkshire 💜🇬🇧
@silviabelluomini2456
Жыл бұрын
Please Adrian do one about the Philadelphia basement kidnappings! It's an absolutely heartbreaking story and I can't believe there's so little info about it on the internet.....
@callanmorris1966
Жыл бұрын
I just absolutely love how you give background on the locations where these crimes take place. I grew up in the area and you’ve taught me more than I’ve known about it 😂
@angiep.6663
6 ай бұрын
My heart breaks for Brandy. You do such a wonderful job of memorializing the victims in these stories. Thank you for that. ♡
@josephconsoli4128
Жыл бұрын
Great, as always Adrian. It's scary that when you get involved with someone, you often don't know right away if their unstable. One sign is a troubled upbringing where they hate their parents. It's definitely a red flag.
@koopatroopa187
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I don't think hating your parents is a red flag whatsoever. I have a very small circle of friends because I would much rather surround myself with truly beautiful people than have a wide circle of meaningless relationships with people I don't have any real connection with. Some of my friends absolutely hate their parents or hate a parent, and some of my friends love their parents. They have every right to dislike their parents and I don't judge them for it, nor are they violent people. I myself have a very bad relationship with my sister (because she's an awful person and I don't want to be around her); and while I do communicate with my parents (albeit infrequently), I have spent a large portion of my life living overseas because of them. I spent 9 years in a shitty marriage with a woman who both emotionally and physically abused me. I'm pretty sure if I was capable of violence, I'd know that by now. I absolutely do not believe that you can judge a person based entirely off of their relationships with other people. My friend Julie would tell you that I am her all time favorite person, and a lady named Claire told a judge that I was a stalker and sexual predator because she was upset with me that our very short lived relationship didn't go her way and filed a restraining order against me in some weird form of spiting me. My advice is to take all romantic relationships slow, and don't ever feel like you can't just drop someone out of your life.
@josephconsoli4128
Жыл бұрын
@@koopatroopa187 Everything has its exceptions. If a parent/s commit heinous crimes, of course you have right to cut them out of your lives, but other than that, you must realize that your parents are the only ones you'll ever have and are faulty human beings like everyone else. We must accept the challenge to forgive them. Siblings and friends are a different story. The point is that when a young person hates their parents over their strictness, divorce, vises they have, etc., you have a person that has a lot of vengeful anger in them. A person who lashes out at anyone who angers them. Being friends with someone like that is not the best choice as this case proves.
@koopatroopa187
Жыл бұрын
@@josephconsoli4128 LMAO. Keeping toxic people in your life simply because they gave birth to you is absolutely absurd.
@josephconsoli4128
Жыл бұрын
@@koopatroopa187 As much as we all hate to admit it, hate and resentment is something we need to conquer. It's a challenge and it's easier to turn your back on challenges, but in the end, it just festers inside you and comes out with hostility or even worse. Even children that had parents who ended-up lifers in prison found that as they aged, they had to make peace with them. Most of us don't understand until it's too late that forgiving people is doing way better for you than for the other person. You have to cleanse that toxin from your body.
@koopatroopa187
Жыл бұрын
@@josephconsoli4128 LMAO. The fact that you think you have to hate someone to cut them out of your life is also absurd. Like speaking of red flags, you clearly lack the maturity to understand the nuances of relationships.
@KylieAtTheDisco2
Жыл бұрын
I’ve been binging your videos! You are very respectful to the victims. Great work!
@lizperrella666
Жыл бұрын
This is one of the saddest cases I've ever heard. RIP Brandi.
@j22563
Жыл бұрын
*Brandy...
@QueerChica
Жыл бұрын
I know what it's like to be a gay woman born into a hostile place, and it was horrible. I hid who I was as a result. Even so, going through anything like that isn't an excuse for any person anywhere, and what happened is truly horrific. A young woman didn't have to die. Hope they rot in jail for what they did.
@veronicasantamaria8476
Жыл бұрын
Officially one of my favorite videos covered by this channel. You covered this case beautifully and left us with a lasting thought directly from brandy. Great job! I’m officially obsessed.❤️
@cali.girllivinnnevada8
Жыл бұрын
I absolutely adore how you’ve started putting little outtakes at the end of your videos….. it’s very endearing 🥰 there are a few of your true crime creators, who have a way of making all of this really horrible stuff seem a little easier to swallow….. so I just wanted to let you know that it’s very much appreciated❣️
@harrybrown6112
Жыл бұрын
This is why the number one thing I teach my daughter, really the only thing that matters, is always trust your gut. Your subconscious mind can perceive things you can't and will warn you when things either don't add up or are potentially dangerous. I've been called paranoid. But my guy has never let me down yet.
@iamsherlocked345
Жыл бұрын
True the one time I ignored that feeling I was drugged and sexually assaulted…. Now I don’t ignore that feeling.
@iamsherlocked345
Жыл бұрын
@@harrybrown6112 I later found out the creep had been a sex offender since 2001 and had done the same thing to a teenager at a comic con. It’s why I refer to him as he who I don’t name. I’ve made my peace with it but a voodoo doll is too good for him. It’s why I’m very distrustful of extremely nice people honestly. You never really know what someone is capable of.
@orinorio1
Жыл бұрын
Just finished watching the last video. I'm unwell so using CHC to help pass the time. Remember watching your videos from the start. Amazing to think your over 1m subs, Fully deserved Adrian. Your content has stayed the same and you have kept it the way you first started.
@emmashoesmith2882
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hello, once again, I'm requesting an episode showing the horrific and extremely sad case of Anita Cobby 1986 NSW Australia. I think you're one of the few that would treat this story respectfully, and it would so be a warning to young girls or any person really to always be vigilant and take care of where you are. Thanks Adrian
@strider9184
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Wait…am I hearing right: Ashley tried to accuse her own dad of killing Brandy?? What a cold hearted, horrible being 😡
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