Lydia, do not EVER apologize for saying anything in your video. It's YOUR YT channel, your life, your emotions and if someone does not want to hear something just let them go and never look back at them. Keep your head up, Lyds! We love you!
@lydiamillen
5 жыл бұрын
You are so right! I have those weak moments where I feel like I don't have the energy for people being annoyed at me about Winky x
@asmalimam402
5 жыл бұрын
Don't you ever apologize about your mindset/ mourning / emotions. You have every right to feel what you're feeling
@h.n.3246
5 жыл бұрын
Dear Lydia, Usually I don’t comment, but as a professionel psychologist specialised in grief and bereavement, it is always sad to see someone apologise for their tears and even for their laughter during grief. You should never apologise - neither for laughing nor for crying. You need to experience both in these times. Both states will give you relief and both will depend on one another. So next time you cry, remember that it’s normal and you need it, and next time you laugh, remember it’s normal and you need it
@lindaw.5836
5 жыл бұрын
That was a lovely insightful comment. I've been wondering if there would be a professional comment for Lydia to read on how to deal with the loss of a major part of hers and Ali's life. The absolute WORST thing is that they, and us, don't know what's happened to Lynx. I hope she reads your comment. x
@belarojojo1398
5 жыл бұрын
Beautiful words 👏 just me reading those words makes me relief even lam no in grief state .
@cristinamagurean
5 жыл бұрын
A very beautiful comment!
@bethanystaines4316
5 жыл бұрын
Could never get bored of hearing about lynx you don’t have to apologise 💕
@lydiamillen
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being so wonderfully kind x
@TheSdennis89
5 жыл бұрын
Gosh I second this 100%, please do mention him. We watched you get him, saw him grow and all his adorable antics. We love him and miss him too Lydia
@lorrainecowie6269
5 жыл бұрын
Bethany Staines absolutely....never get bored of hearing about lynx 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@lydiamaii
5 жыл бұрын
Wow I finally found somebody with the same name as me yay
@onlychimerically
5 жыл бұрын
we love lynx updates because we care ! praying for you.
@lydiamillen
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you from the bottom of my heart xxx
@dottiesbengals1400
5 жыл бұрын
That's so true, well said!
@oliviaburnett7926
5 жыл бұрын
Please don't feel sorry I love the updates like she said because we care about you ❤
@emilyfoster3583
5 жыл бұрын
Update us all you want to! He was a huge part of your videos, so I’m sure everyone is concerned!
@lydiamillen
5 жыл бұрын
All these comments have me feeling very emotional. Thank you for being so kind to me
@ei3554
5 жыл бұрын
I would say 99% of us look forward to posts from you updating us about Lynx. So don’t ever apologize. We are here for you 💙
@oliviaburnett7926
5 жыл бұрын
So true 💔
@ghc26
5 жыл бұрын
EI well said! I’m even giving my husband updates! He’s seen me watching Lydia’s videos and I have pointed out both Lynx and Lumi as we are cat lovers too. We care! Praying for his safe return. 💙
@ei3554
5 жыл бұрын
gretchen same here! Hahaha I’ve made it a priority for my husband too
@heatheratkins5626
5 жыл бұрын
Never apologize for loving your Lynx baby. Know that pain.
@mandy210
5 жыл бұрын
Omg Lydia don’t you dare apologise about talking about your boy Lynx! The vlogs are about your life & Lynx is part of your family xxx keep positive xx 😘
@janer718
5 жыл бұрын
My heart goes out to you & Ali about Lynx. You shared your love for your little boy with us & he feels like part of our community. Loved your vlog thanks x
@donnamoore39
5 жыл бұрын
I have been subscribed to your videos for a few years now, I have to say I’ve always enjoyed them but recently seeing a softer side to you has been really lovely. I feel like as a viewer, seeing you be more and more honest and showing your vulnerable side has made me warm to you even more. Really hoping that you find lynx soon and it never becomes tiring hearing you talk about it. I can’t imagine the pain you are going through as a fur mum myself. Keep up the fantastic work!
@dianailieva87
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Lydia, just wanted to say that our cat disappeared for a month, we really lost hope that he will ever come back until one day he showed up like nothing happened, tired and happy to see us! So don’t loose hope ❤️
@bergenna9226
5 жыл бұрын
diana ilieva Ours has been missing for almost 3 months and were heartbroken 😭. This gives me some hope back , thank you .
@JanineMarie
4 жыл бұрын
My cat did this when I was younger. He went for about 4/5 weeks then showed up howling like, hi just got back from my trip. Hopefully lynx makes it back ok.
@EmilyyAdams
5 жыл бұрын
Please don’t apologise for talking about lynx, he is such a big part of your life and we’re here to watch you document that! I know myself and many others are dying to hear any updates
@eugeniadavis776
5 жыл бұрын
I’m glad you updated us on baby boy! We aren’t annoyed and we love both your kitties. Sending love ❤️
@mollyhemming9886
5 жыл бұрын
You also need to stop apologising for talking about how you feel, this is your channel and you can talk about whatever you like Lydia. You deserve all the happiness in the world❤️
@verityholden16
5 жыл бұрын
I truly value you as a KZitemr. You stay appropriate and kind and I hope you continue to keep this momentum♥️ Prayers for you and your husband!
@KateMulroy
5 жыл бұрын
My heart really goes out to you and Ali during this very sad time, please do not apologise for grieving! We are here to support you and I pray that he is found x
@jkoerner23
5 жыл бұрын
Still hoping for a good outcome with Lynx and always happy to hear updates about your fur babies.
@emccarthy2503
5 жыл бұрын
All KZitemrs apologise for outside noise, do they not know us viewers can’t hear a thing 😂
@MsJustice007
5 жыл бұрын
E McCarthy I know, right? 😂😂😂😂
@karinafdw
5 жыл бұрын
Yeees! I was like OMG I must be deaf, but no, no one hears the chainsaw hahahah
@tuiguy-williams7087
5 жыл бұрын
Back in the day audio wasn't as good at isolation and you could definitely hear stuff and people would comment about how annoying it was all the time... I guess KZitemrs have just got in the habit of making the apology even though technology is better :)
@Olivegurl481
5 жыл бұрын
I know you are planning to sell but I always thought it would be nice if you put the blue rug in your dining room under the round table in your basement. The blue would look really pretty with the ginger jar.
@christynkelly3574
5 жыл бұрын
Emily Conlon I thought the exact same thing!!!
@kleec0203
5 жыл бұрын
Yes please update! Don't ever worry about that. Everybody is concerned and if you also use this venue to help find him more power to you! You looked so lovely in all your outfits. ❤️
@loveydovey89
5 жыл бұрын
One time my cat wandered off and went missing for a month. Someone found her and tried to keep her but when they took her to the vet, they found her microchip and they called us! We got her back. Don't give up! I was literally crying nonstop for a month so I totally understand how you feel.
@cholefreed
5 жыл бұрын
I feel like that's what's happening here. So wrong. Glad you got your cat back. Someone tried to steal my dog at the dog park. I nearly went to jail
@DoubleVanilla
5 жыл бұрын
@@cholefreed What happened? ❤️
@cholefreed
5 жыл бұрын
@@DoubleVanilla I usually just let her run around bc most ppl are regulars. She loves ppl so she went up to this girl at the main entrance ( I was on a bench towards the back). The girl picks her up and tucks her in her jacket and starts walking off. So my brother and I ran after her and I literally had to yank my poor dog away from her. I was pissed. I've never been in a fight in my life but I wanted to punch her
@DoubleVanilla
5 жыл бұрын
@@cholefreed I would of felt the same way, I have a little dog too and that's terrible, thankfully you caught her. Thanks for sharing, as it's important to know that stuff like this can happen.
@r.22r
5 жыл бұрын
@@cholefreed oh my god!! I wouldve punched her! What a horrible person. Thank God you caught her in time.
@luvyahoney2103
5 жыл бұрын
That beige bodysuit is just gorgeous!! You shouldn’t have to apologise for worrying about Lynx, he’s apart of the family and we’re all waiting for him to come home too! Sending lots of love ❤️❤️
@drsusieg
5 жыл бұрын
I am so sad for you over Lynx. Until it happens to them, others can't understand pet grief. I love your vids and welcome you to pour your heart out until you don't need to anymore. I stand with you. ❤
@lydiaking3452
5 жыл бұрын
I personally could never get tired of hearing about lynx, that's your baby, no need to apologize! Plz continue to keep us updated! Also I luv your content! Stay strong for Lynx & keep the faith!!
@pamelaanneduffy9927
5 жыл бұрын
Please Lydia don't ever stop giving us updates . Tears are falling. I feel your pain. My pup passed 3 years ago and I still cry. Our pets are our family members. Closure definitely helps a bit. I have little lynx in my prayers. Love to you and Ali every day.
@scottishroad_pinoy9084
5 жыл бұрын
Lydia it really shows what kinda of a human being you are when you talk about your baby. You are a caring and a very compassionate person. You see your baby as part of your family. It really hurts and it’s so hard to move on when you don’t know what his going through. Stay encourage. We are praying for you. Don’t apologize, please don’t forget him and continue to talk about him bc you’re his mom, and he loves and miss you as well.
@MalishaQuintana
5 жыл бұрын
Lydia thank you for the update of Lynx don’t say sorry never! Lynx is like your child and there is people like me that want it to know about him and how both of u are... updates etc. Praying for him, trying to find him on any lost kittens websites and hope he will be back soon!! Blessings 🙏🏼✨
@erincollins3364
5 жыл бұрын
Please keep the updates on Lynx coming. Screw those who get bored with it. He is a huge part of your channel and we love him too. ❤
@Rebecca-pr3fn
5 жыл бұрын
That lipstick is fantastic on you. Make your eyes POP.
@brieanna7183
5 жыл бұрын
Please don’t ever stop updating us about Lynx! My heart aches for you and I cry with you. 🙏🏻🐾🐾❤️ I lost my Blackie and my dad all in the same day. Blackie ran out when the ambulance came for my dad and I never saw him again. I know how hard not knowing is. I still think about him and I still cry about it and this happened in 1997. Obviously I still get upset about my dad too but I want you to know you’re not alone on missing your pet. They’re our children and family members and it hurts!
@beckywyatt4137
5 жыл бұрын
I always want to hear about Lynx. I think it helps talking about the situation. Very much wishing for his safe return. Lots of love to you xxx
@msansolo1
5 жыл бұрын
Please please PLEASE..NEVER apologize for mentioning Lynx. He IS and will always be your baby. And this is YOUR platform. As a fellow fur-mom I have shed tears for your family. My heart breaks for you and any bit of info or feelings you want to share are always welcome here. By me at least. And I’m sure many many more. 💗💗
@melodyholt1922
5 жыл бұрын
I SOOOO hope you find Lynx. My pets are a very important part of my family. I am grateful you share. I miss him too.
@brittanybethurum848
5 жыл бұрын
Don't let anyone get you down about the updates. Keep up that wonderfully positive outlook we all love you for!
@patriciacarter3950
5 жыл бұрын
Never apologize for how much you love Lynx. The very real grief we feel when we lose our fur babies is the price we pay for all the love they give us. I am so sorry for your loss.
@sabrinareely2443
5 жыл бұрын
Do not apologize for loving you cat, a member of your family. I am praying for you guys. Keep you head up, and talk about him as much as you want. I always enjoy your vogs
@kylanhiggs7536
5 жыл бұрын
Please don't apologize for loving and missing Lynx, Lydia! Don't worry about what others think! Love you!
@juliepeck1596
5 жыл бұрын
Hi Lydia, don't be sorry, our fur babies are part of us, part of our family and we can all tell that you love him dearly. I hope he turns up soon. Peace, love, and light to you and Ali xx
@jamisongee3324
5 жыл бұрын
You can talk about Lynx as much as you desire or need to. Bless him.
@vwinata
5 жыл бұрын
Dearest Lydia, please don’t say sorry for talking about Lynx all the time, or any other topics come to your mind. Lynx is family! Those are parts of Lydia’s and Ali’s life. No one will ever complain or feel bothered if they’re the real fans. We all love you and every single member of your family! 😘😘😘
@erob6232
5 жыл бұрын
Please don’t apologize for having these feelings! I think a lot of people can relate to this feeling of loss (pet loss). I really hope that you figure out what happened!!! Sending prayers your way!! Hang in there! Your videos are fabulous btw!! 💕
@kalthoumi8596
5 жыл бұрын
Lydia.... please please please I know it’s really just because you’re a kind humble person that you’re apologizing but, idk about everyone else but I watch you for your heart and transparency. You said yourself that it took you a while to get back to a place where you felt comfortable to share your life w your viewers again and we are so grateful for that! Who would we be to then chastise you for sharing a very prominent part of your life currently. We appreciate the updates, we’re looking for him too! We are all still hopeful!!
@lydiamillen
5 жыл бұрын
OK now I'm crying
@helenesholidayhome3566
5 жыл бұрын
Talk all you want! Positive thinking! This actually is so cat like! Praying for you both and Lynx and if someone has him, I pray they have absolutely no rest until they return him! Peace to you!
@Jasante85
5 жыл бұрын
Just had to pause 6 mins in. Lydia you don’t have to apologise for talking about Lynx - we completely understand and can only imagine how heartbreaking it must be 💗
@charliechristmas8832
5 жыл бұрын
Please don't apologise for mentioning Lynx. And anyone rolling their eyes may need to find a bit more compassion at the situation. Pets are family ❤️ Stay strong, I will keep hoping that you find an answer xxxxx
@jessicanguyen6257
5 жыл бұрын
I liked that you seemed very sincere and like your heart was on your sleeve with the chat at the end. My favorite bit was hearing about your future plans with potentially continuing in property. I watch all your videos and this has been one of my favorites.
@rachelmatthews5588
5 жыл бұрын
For all of us who love your channel please please don’t ever feel you need to apologise about lynx I feel your pain & love your channel so much you always inspire me and I always feel I can escape from life when I watch your channel thank you x
@alexnewall8864
5 жыл бұрын
Lydia never apologise you are missing part of your family and your pain is plain to see 🙁but don’t give up hope ❤️sending you a big hug xxx
@sandrajacobs2823
5 жыл бұрын
Please don’t apologize for loving your beautiful magnificent cat. I love being updated. Continue on. I will be keeping my fingers crossed.
@nancyelisabetta3690
5 жыл бұрын
please don't feel bad about updating about Lynx ever. totally understand how you're feeling so please keep us updated !! x sending positive vibes for his safe return x
@daltonphillips2304
5 жыл бұрын
The loss of a pet is always awful and the grief and the pain you feel is very real, Your fur baby was part of your family and you should never have to apologize to anyone for grieving.
@Naaaaat93
5 жыл бұрын
Don’t ever worry about your lynx updates! We love him just as much as you do!!
@jacquelineledford
5 жыл бұрын
no need to apologize for caring about Lynx and wanting to speak about him and how you are coping. If you mentioned him 5 years from now, I'd totally get it and understand! ((hugs))
@annamastronardi1575
5 жыл бұрын
Aww keeps us posted on lynx. Never get tired of hearing about him. ❤️
@TheMadnessAndI
5 жыл бұрын
Lyd, we will ALWAYS want to hear about Lynx! Don't ever apologize for sharing what you're thinking! I think of you and your little family every day
@annwade6570
5 жыл бұрын
You are the sweetest and loveliest girl ever...love your channel!! You talk about your baby all you want!! We support you!!❤
@fiballs1
5 жыл бұрын
Bless you please don’t apologise for your grief ! Wishing you all the healing !!
@mrs.kheughins9181
5 жыл бұрын
You talk about, cry, or do whatever you need to for your baby Lynx. We love, support, and pray for you and your hubby always. Don’t give up, and keep your light shining ❤️❤️❤️ you!
@MeganA777
5 жыл бұрын
PLEASE NEVER APOLOGISE ABOUT MENTIONING LYNX IF ANYTHING I WAIT FOR HIS MENTION IN THE VLOGS. Always praying for his return and your wellbeing ✨it’s ok not to be ok remember that. Sending lots of love your way beautiful everything happens for a reason but always keep hope. ❤️
@massetanifiammetta
5 жыл бұрын
I will die if I’ll lost my dog... I perfectly understand you, they do become a part of the family and it’s very hard when you don’t know what happen to them.. never say sorry for your feelings! We are with you, hopping that you will see him again soon as possible! Actually thanks for sharing this with us, it’s nice to see someone that it care so much for an animal! Doesn’t matter if is a cat a dog or a bird! It’s part of family. You’re good people ❤️
@sallyowen1177
5 жыл бұрын
Never be sorry for the updates my lovely , we are thinking of him and you both xxx
@lymarigotay5652
5 жыл бұрын
Never bored of Lynx updates, please don’t stop updating we care ❤️ sending lots of love from NYC
@HappinessALifestyle
5 жыл бұрын
I love you with bright lipsticks, it feels like you added more color to your life 😍 Also, praying for lynx.
@menaelle1829
5 жыл бұрын
I wish you could let yourself be vulnerable and not worry about what ppl or us viewers will think! You have every right to feel the way you feel, and don’t ever apologize for that. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers
@rachaelclark9955
5 жыл бұрын
These are your videos Lydia - speak about Lynx as much as you wish! We support you 💗
@michelepillay9347
5 жыл бұрын
Oh Lydia don’t feel bad in the least, that’s your baby.. I love to hear the updates❤️
@DB-hz6vr
5 жыл бұрын
Please don’t apologise for mentioning Lynx. I definitely like to hear if there is any news about him. I understand how he’s never far from your mind. Loved this vlog as always so nice to hear what’s going on at your palace! X
@awomanofacertainage1993
5 жыл бұрын
Those are garters, to attach stockings. This is more a girdle than a skirt. Perhaps meant to be worn under clothing, not as clothing.
@crimcupcake
5 жыл бұрын
We do care and you talking about Linkie is what a loving mummy would do! Bless you X
@phyllisgoddard24
5 жыл бұрын
Please keep talking about Lynx ..it will never get boring, I’m praying he just comes home..❤️
@kathyhitt8319
5 жыл бұрын
thank you for the Lynx updates. last summer my cat had a brain tumor and some people couldn't understand why i spent the money to get her radiation treatments. The treatments saved her life and her illness exposed the people in my life who don't have empathy for anyone but themselves. I pray for Lynx to come home to you.
@WestieMami
5 жыл бұрын
Hello, new subscriber here :). Please don’t apologize for mentioning Lynx. He’s your love, your boy, your son - a part of you. I don’t understand how someone could be upset for mentioning him 1x or 100x. Sending you ✨ and praying for a miracle.
@kathydoran6176
5 жыл бұрын
I feel for you please don't apologize about talking about Lynx, he is family, and you have every right to talk about him. Thank you for sharing I love these vlog type of videos.
@jelenamilutinovic284
5 жыл бұрын
Pets are family! Period! We want to hear about Lynx, we love your cats so much...😢❤
@fanni24
5 жыл бұрын
Everyone who has ever had a pet understands your feelings right know. Even if I just think about it, it breaks my heart that how these little furry creatures look up to us, we can see it in their eyes, we mean the world to them and it’s so hard to imagine what they feel in a desperate situation like this. We wait for them to show up one day in our backyards, hoping that nothing harmful happens to them. May God lead this little angel of yours back to you!🙏🏼
@mysonruns
5 жыл бұрын
Never stop talking about Lynx. He was your precious boy. Please know I am continuing to pray for him.
@twktwo123
5 жыл бұрын
You don't ever have to apologize for being sad about your family member (pet) lots of love xoxo
@beckypowell9710
5 жыл бұрын
Don’t ever apologize for talking about Lynx. He’s your family and you should talk about him. I can’t wait for you to buy more properties and decorate them! You need to start your own decorating business! ❤️
@elizabethwhiteman8167
5 жыл бұрын
I just love watching your content & the relationship you have with your cats is a huge part of that. I love my cats like children, our lives revolve around them. I showed my husband the Paw & Crown pictures & we will be getting some as well ❤️
@missmarie1380
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping us updated on Lynx.... I say a prayer every night that he will return!! Our pets are like our family and I am so sorry that this has happened to you both 💕
@Skater.BoiXXX
5 жыл бұрын
Yes please! Do some more make up tutorials as I love how your skin looks flawless!!😍
@cl2859
5 жыл бұрын
Hello from the US. I can relate to how you are feeling. My 16yr cat has gone missing several times in the past couple of years and I became inconsolable when it happened. Talking about helped me. I hope you continue to share your feelings/grief and not listen to people who try to make you feel uncomfortable about it.
@karenkelly1679
2 жыл бұрын
I hope and pray you find precious Lynx. Don't apologize for loving him. They don't call them furbabies for nothing.
@gingerkirby8208
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the Lynx update!!! He was part of your family, not some random cat from the neighborhood. We all miss him and the thought of not knowing what happened to one of my family members would haunt me forever. I see you still living your life, and Im happy for that. I know that there is still a little dark cloud following you around, and I hope your days get easier. Yours and Ali's both.
@bridgetboylan5414
5 жыл бұрын
Don't apologize for talking about Lynx - he's a big reason I've been watching your videos lately. Sending prayers
@elizabethbenjamin8608
5 жыл бұрын
You should mention as much as you want dear Lydia as much as you love Lynx we love him too. We eagerly wait to hear about him. Continuing to pray for him daily.
@michellestockli6499
5 жыл бұрын
I‘m thinking about Lynx everyday, so please tell us everything you want. I’m sure everyone that loves you and your channel wants to know about him because he is part of your family. So don‘t worry Lyd. 🥰
@ineswitherspoon873
5 жыл бұрын
Please DO keep mentioning it, we want to know and it’s so important that you keep talking about all this to work through it xxx
@eleanortaberner5970
5 жыл бұрын
Lydia, having grown up with bengals I know that they are a huge part of your family and are always missed. Keep the updates coming please because I love watching you and I love seeing Lynx and Lumie and have been thinking a lot about you and Lynx. XX
@vitvet60
5 жыл бұрын
Lydia..please don't apologize for missing and loving Lynx..If someone doesn't understand then they don't have a heart. I just wish he could return home. Enjoy your videos and Ali`s, also. Just keep doing you...(I post on hubby's login).
@Angibbabee
5 жыл бұрын
I for one appreciate the Lynx update. I can’t imagine what your family is going through. My dogs went missing for a few hours and I was distraught and my mind was racing!! Extra hugs and kisses.
@GettingHyggeWithIt
5 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh don’t be sorry for updating us about Lynx and talking about him. I honestly think of him so often. I wish I could give you a hug.
@elenawirne3166
5 жыл бұрын
Do not for one second be sorry for mentioning Lynx. We all know the pain of losing someone you love and it’s heart wrenching. ❤️❤️❤️
@timesandlaws7095
5 жыл бұрын
my heart goes out to you, its heart wrenching, we understand.
@shannonmcgill6402
5 жыл бұрын
Not bored of hearing about lynx at all. Positive thoughts always x
@eirinreitan
5 жыл бұрын
Dont you ever feel sorry for talking about Lynx❤️ thank you for making my day a little brighter!
@08Dimplee
5 жыл бұрын
I like having lynx updates, even if there isn't anything new with the search, it's nice to know you include us x
@edenvegan4704
5 жыл бұрын
Never apologise for talking about how things are making you feel. Especially when it’s something so important like Lynx, we all know how special he is to you💕 Sending you positive vibes & prayers xxx
@savannahwisel8695
5 жыл бұрын
I had to pause this and put this out there...I am 100% in agreement with the other individuals in saying, you DO NOT need to apologize for how you feel. I am sure most of us come to your channel not just for the beauty and fashion content, but also because we feel like we are catching up with a friend, and friends share their lives. Lynx is a huge part of your life, and anyone who doesn't want to hear about the updates can tune out. It's your channel and your choice as to the content that's posted, and our choice whether or not to watch; we all have choices here. Sending good energy your way!
@ArmitaAsgari
5 жыл бұрын
Please don't apologise about updating us on your fur baby! A family member has just disappeared, of course you will talk about it. Please keep us posted. I keep hoping he will show up very soon 💕 x
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