Men value purity women value security!the situations can never be same.much love from Kenya🔥🔥🔥
@songsofsalem
Жыл бұрын
well said.
@damilolaayobolanle4125
Жыл бұрын
Yes. A person in a happy relationship can fall in love with another person. What we need to understand is there is a difference between a feeling and an action. If you are in a happy monogamous marriage and you fall in love with someone else, you don't act on it. Instead, you honour your commitment.💯
@biancaihua5841
Жыл бұрын
💯
@biancaihua5841
Жыл бұрын
Yes, because love isn't just feelings; it has to do with patience, honour, respect and commitment. And even discipline.
@mavisayorinde8766
Жыл бұрын
Whatever feeling you have, it's momentary infatuation
@omowunmiolatomi2430
Жыл бұрын
I totallt agree especially to the last statement because as much as blood keeps flowing in our veins, it's very possible to fall in love with another, but commitment to that relationship should debar you from pursuing such....
@your-neighbor
Жыл бұрын
I like how nedu is always energetic in this podcasts, he's truly the heart of this show.
@kenwilliams9060
Жыл бұрын
I swear when ever HM speaks he drops point and also a clearer view on the topic.
@ukodavid2211
2 жыл бұрын
I love Naomi's role in "Frankly Speaking". Welldone Team!!! Thank you for these search for truth!! I looove your content!
@Auzohv
Жыл бұрын
Yeah she brings this controversial & funny part out of the podcasts. They are all great. I feel like im eavesdropping on conversations of friends whenever I’m watching their videos. Kudos guys!
@tunde-lawalboluwatife4607
2 жыл бұрын
Husband material is too intelligent abeggg...steady spitting fact🚀🚀
@ifeyinwanwaoha
Жыл бұрын
I love the way husband material uses his words😂
@MrPerfect0910
2 жыл бұрын
Husband material standpoint is always on point
@eseleomoijade9505
2 жыл бұрын
It's only husband material that made constructive arguments, the 2 ladies weren't honest and constructive.
@alexisukwu2967
2 жыл бұрын
Naomi Is spitting facts fr!!! It’s not always transactional with women. Women have options but we never give them the same energy.
@williamonu7156
Жыл бұрын
Great show guys. I found this channel last month and I've been hooked. Keep it up. Regarding your topic, I think it is important we first establish what love is, the type of love that fits the context of this topic before we even begin to discuss if it is possible. All these conversations are centered around needs being satiated and that is not love. In its true essence and in the context of the kind of love being discussed here (involving a lady and a man), I do not think it is possible to love two persons at the same time. In its truest sense, love involves commitment and fidelity to a person (among other things). You cannot be faithful to one person and be with another person. Any relationship involving multiple partners isn't based on love; the person probably loves one and uses the others to satiate certain needs, or loves none at all. Also, I think there's a lot of generalizations in these conversations. There are individuals who are devoted to one partner, no matter what or how it goes. I think we should also make those exclusions so we do not over generalize.
@wahabjide3433
2 жыл бұрын
I just discovered this podcast yesterday and I’ve seen all your episodes…. Husband material is effortlessly funny n still sensible at the same, u guys rock!!! I’m a fan, sending you love from UEA…. Tbh I don’t both genders can love 2 or more people with d same energy cuz human beings are not perfect, the love can’t be equal!
@Its_superdave09
2 жыл бұрын
This episode cracked me up a whole lot 🤣 For real, I don't think it's possible to love 2 people in a relationship at the same time
@tochukwuiloka1074
2 жыл бұрын
This house material is very sound 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love your reasoning bro ❤️
@IphieTheSlickBoss
2 жыл бұрын
He seems to be the only objective, reasonable speaking/thinking person here. Others sound off to me esp Nedu and Naomi.
@inspiredbymario6999
Жыл бұрын
It is very possible to love more than one person... To deeply love all that you become confuse on whom to pick... But it is discipline that help/make you stick to one.
@heskieheskie7080
2 жыл бұрын
It's practically impossible to share the same level of love with 2 or more people........Infatuation has always been mistaken for love.
@o.g_mekus5213
Жыл бұрын
God bless you!
@mariamakondehsesay5372
Жыл бұрын
Wow Alhaji 😂😂😂 i just discovered You people today. I like your frankly Speaking . I’m from Sierra Leone 🇸🇱 and live in UK 🇬🇧. I’m a big Fan.
@favouridika1108
Жыл бұрын
Naomi is the main big name for reals. I love all her points ❤️❤️. Go girl.
@gabrielemmanuel9050
2 жыл бұрын
Love is an unconditional affection for someone.. you can be attracted to multiple women, but it's not possible to love 2 or more at same time.
@chigozieduruoha337
Жыл бұрын
Husband material I love you man,u dey always make sense
@ubasinachieleonu7962
Жыл бұрын
You can’t outsource your well-being to someone else and in same breadth expect him not to extend his charity to as many as he chooses to. In my opinion, Love is not a uni-directional emotion, it flows in whatever direction the mind convinces it to. Commitment and fidelity are the 2 walls of that canal that forces love to flow in one direction. Anyone who keeps multiple partners as an insurance owing to how unreliable a certain gender is perceived is more about self preservation and less about love.
@donalddraggneel4564
Жыл бұрын
You cannot love 2 people at the same time or that isn't love. Simple as that. You just like them, you don't love them, you don't know what love is. When you love someone, Noone else comes into your mind, Noone else matters, you want to devote yourself to that person. You will not allow yourself to even find someone else outside of that person whom you claim to love
@saintdami
Жыл бұрын
What holds any relationship or marriage is the level of commitment NOT and NEVER a love… The challenge in this situation is committing to the 2 individuals…
@chrismix12
Жыл бұрын
@@saintdamiyou still didn’t understand, you went off topic
@saintdami
Жыл бұрын
@@chrismix12 LOVE is a commitment and you simply cannot be committed to 2 individuals at the same time….
@telmauanzekin9389
2 жыл бұрын
Loving two people is possible, but I believe the lover is stronger for one than the other
@edehmaryann2925
Жыл бұрын
Naomi d always give me joy like the way she turns a bad thing into a good one ..... 💓 Girl
@ogbodooziomafavour9652
2 жыл бұрын
Husband material 💯 Love is a choice, responsibility and decision
@austella007
Жыл бұрын
Husband material with the vibe and Nedu is a funny guy ....... Naomi is pure werey
@malakiezeja6712
Жыл бұрын
It is very very possible to love two people but just your decision to stay and concentrate on one person.
@oluwaseunolorunfemi5595
Жыл бұрын
I love this husband material guy 😂
@kokoriauizah5166
2 жыл бұрын
I love this podcast like food 😂😂😂😂😂🤭😊🙌Weldon
@aladimmachinasa1808
Жыл бұрын
You can love 2 people at a time but differently. One must be greater than the other
@kaintv182
2 жыл бұрын
I like husband material he talks with a lot if wisdom
@Bobcoolyoung
Жыл бұрын
This one has to be the best I've listened to.
@iamhowardson
2 жыл бұрын
Honestly speaking, it's very impossible to love two person the same way at the same time. It's not possible guys! You might love two person at the same time, but might love one person more than the other be it man or woman. Like Naomi said, one is always an option. The love for that option person will not be equal to the one who is not an option. That's my view.
@chrisdavid7989
Жыл бұрын
You just contradicted yourself though. You said it is impossible to love two persons at the same time and you go on to say you might love two persons at the same time but love one more than the other...I mean so long You're in love with both of them then it ticks the box whether or not you love one more than the other.. the mere fact that you love them both just says it all. I think it's Possible
@oziomaraphael8644
Жыл бұрын
Period over
@joshuaizenose8708
4 ай бұрын
You can be emotionally attached to more than 2 people... But it is a decision to stay put to one person
@ifeconnectenterprises9724
Жыл бұрын
Nedu always know somebody 🤣🤣🤣
@your-neighbor
Жыл бұрын
😂
@MrPerfect0910
2 жыл бұрын
The True definition of love is commitment and that's for the period.
@Noseyyy_reacts
Жыл бұрын
Husband Material cracks me up abeg 😅😅😅😂
@ogbodooziomafavour9652
2 жыл бұрын
Naomi be giving joy😂 but it’s not possible to love more than one guy though
@ujowundungozi8780
2 жыл бұрын
Naomi is still my person always saying the truth undiluted
@nsikakokon1041
Жыл бұрын
yes it is very very posible the reason is that you are looking for the one that will reciprocate the same love back to you , and once you get it you tends to hold on to it , to send out love is very easy but get it back sometimes its difficult. to me love is like a seed thrown out some will fall on a rocky ground while some will fall on the good soil , so any one that grows well ,will stand out among others.
@anelisamtambo1244
2 жыл бұрын
Husband material is effortlessly funny🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@blessingnsembowo7495
2 жыл бұрын
I just watch this podcast just to hear Husband material 😂 he's so funny 😭😭😭😭😭😭
@biancaihua5841
Жыл бұрын
Despite all the men that give, provide and care, there will still be one man, even if he's broke, that a woman will really prefer to the other men that gives her so much.
@egonugabriel8884
Жыл бұрын
You can love more than one person but you can't be in love with more than one person.
@alexander-king3554
Жыл бұрын
Like, love and list are three different things
@oyenugaadetola9840
Жыл бұрын
Nedu is too funny abeg. Husband Material is always spitting facts. Naomi hmmmmm🤐
@millionaire_muses
Жыл бұрын
Nedu said it all jare. I think the ladies were a little bit emotional about it. The ladies weren't equal and consistent with their premises.
@kingkessy
Жыл бұрын
You can love 2 or more people the same time but not the same way. You must love one than the other. both can have something you love about them and this goes for both men and women it's the ability to choose that matter even when you choose it doesn't mean you don't love the other but you decided to choose a life with one. But last last the love for the second might fade away in time
@chrismix12
Жыл бұрын
Oga na lost you don fall no be love stop fooling yourself
@MariaMaria__
2 жыл бұрын
Using the word ‘Love’ so loosely is so silly. Can you be attracted to more than one person at the same time? Yes, is possible but LOVE? That’s impossible
@desmondifada1102
Жыл бұрын
I think you have a point..
@damilolatogun3417
2 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣 Guys, it’s the generalization that is killing me. Not all men are scum and not all women are materialistic and for the streets.I know women who give money to their men and still get cheated on. I know men who won’t even look at other women other than their wives. Most people can’t love 2 or mor equally, there is always a favorite. I use most because anything is possible these days.
@WHIZBEE1O21O
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@uzowuruchisom2002
Жыл бұрын
Husband material na vibe, this podcast is one of the best
@TheFinanciallyWoman
Жыл бұрын
Sooooo… the answer to this question is UNDECIDED!!😂😂😂
@otasdestiny6290
Жыл бұрын
It is possible to love two people in a different way and for different reasons
@De_Wizard
8 ай бұрын
You go provide and dey truthful then later them go say you no sabi knack
@thetaniart
Жыл бұрын
For starters , I'm a truthful man, so is my brother, my friends and colleagues. At the end, be in the proper circle and stop being in bad gangs where everybody is lying to you.
@LTray2231
Жыл бұрын
That’s fallacy of history generalizations 😂😂😂😂 u get wisdom my guy 🫡💯
@precioustayo5312
8 ай бұрын
*of hasty
@adiggsshow6147
Жыл бұрын
It not possible for someone to love two people at same time
@biggzbrownridge3696
2 жыл бұрын
Na fuck just dey do everybody for dis country make everybody getat
@ifeanyifavour9198
Жыл бұрын
That big in big nae has to be for the attitude 😭😂
@meks297
Жыл бұрын
Attraction is different from love, u can't love 2 people equally at the same time, u can love 2 people at the same time but you'll love one more than the other.
@alexinwang8495
2 жыл бұрын
If you have a bad man in your life, quit the relationship and look for a good man and stick with him alone
@desmondifada1102
Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@ayodejiowajoba2527
2 жыл бұрын
You guys made my day 😄, In conclusion, men and women are the same 😄
@sandrabraimoh5317
2 жыл бұрын
I’m telling you. Men and women are the same😅. Been saying this thing people don’t want to admit 😂😂😂
@nessamimi9057
9 ай бұрын
If no one has engaged or married you keep your option open. That's it. There's alot of people wasting others time out there and relationship is not just about love There's more to it.
@adenola762
Жыл бұрын
Husband Material my guy Always
@mohamedbakarrkamara703
2 жыл бұрын
Nadu, honestly I wish to be at that panel to address these issues of women and that of Noami cos from the previous episode she is swinging within her emotions. It's a fact that women love for stupid things in a relationship and men love one woman but sleep around with other women. Naomi, how I wish I'm there to talk to her personally because am in Sierra 🇸🇱 but love the discussion though.
@mariamsmoments
2 жыл бұрын
Nedu na clown, his dance cracked me up so bad 😂
@IamJammal
2 жыл бұрын
We could take sides based off our current gender fueled with either personal or communal experiences, but at the end of the day we work with what works for us. Man or woman everyone acts same.
@jonpaulopara
Жыл бұрын
real talks bir make una dey give each other time to talk
@pascalnnamdi3236
Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣diz husband martial is just too funny😂
@preciousiyamu9261
Жыл бұрын
She is speaking out of pain😂
@jenniferluna1568
2 жыл бұрын
I really love HM too much sense.
@ifeyinwanwaoha
Жыл бұрын
I love y’all in this podcast😂
@o.g_mekus5213
Жыл бұрын
The word “Love” has been so watered down! It’s actually crazy. You cannot Love two people at the same time. It’s impossible! One will always get more energy than the other does. Just kuku use the word “Like” instead of Love. How will you say you Love someone unconditionally but still Love someone else with the same zeal? Lies!
@okeibomo6028
Жыл бұрын
True. The world has built a fallacy about love. It's a feel-good moment for them. Once someone makes you feel good and you start getting attached, they term it as love. Truth is love is all encompassing and supercedes what the world has turned it to.
@djan8506
Жыл бұрын
Husband Material go cook nice food, Oga Nedu go come add extra salt. Which kyn life be this 😂😂
@techhub1059
2 жыл бұрын
Husband material n Nedu🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣u are making my day🤣🤣🤣🤣force them to listen to the truth 🤣🤣
@Stunningstrike
2 жыл бұрын
I really missed you guys...😍
@user-se3cg6xg8q
11 ай бұрын
One question I’ll like to ask that most people are not asking for decades now is. Women do say men are not reliable that we cheat. Please what gender are we cheating with? Can that gender also try to say NO when my gender come to them knowing perfectly well that my gender is married or might be married? Can women start leaving rich relationships after finding out that my gender cheat a lot and move to someone else? Why do they stay for too long in that toxic or cheating relationship cause my gender is providing for their financial need?
@queenderri7694
2 жыл бұрын
It is very possible to love more than I person at the same time.. we have alot of people with very similar values and lifestyle.. so the same character and values that made you fall inlove with your partner you can also find that in someone else and that will also make you fall in love with them because they posses those values you want in your partner. With this been said, you can fall in love with both of them. It's your choice to choose to be with just one.. but if its a man that is polygamous in nature and is capable of taking care of both women then its also his choice to be with the both of them.
@SupremeCyril
Жыл бұрын
Cap 🧢
@tochukwuiloka1074
2 жыл бұрын
I argued these with someone. The truth is you can't love two different people the same way at a particular time
@ChinenyenwaViolet
Жыл бұрын
Naomi is right🔥🔥
@emmanuelkingg
Жыл бұрын
Men are still love under the condition that they provide as Nedu rightly said. Basically all the satisfaction the woman wants in several men are still provision. Men will have to provide trust, security, shelter, attention, finance and the rest. Na who we offend biko😥
@oliviacatherine3166
2 жыл бұрын
loving two persons or more , I don't think it's a societal thing but honestly I think it is a personal or individual decision because there are some thing out there who love decisively n in same society there are ones who decides to taste waters
@oliviacatherine3166
2 жыл бұрын
*there are some out there*
@udeaguchukwuebukaemmanuel587
Жыл бұрын
You can never love two people at the same time tho
@user-se3cg6xg8q
11 ай бұрын
Been in love with one person is not love. You’re addicted to the person. Coming back to the definition of love. Love should be shared and not meant directly for one person but the difference is that what I love you for might be different to what I love the other for. What makes us pronounce queue and Q the same defines it all. The words we use now is human invented and I believe we can use it to what’s best for us.
@richardmilla6398
2 жыл бұрын
men don't marry for love, but peace love is not enough...trust me.
@preciousiyamu9261
Жыл бұрын
Who break this girl heart😂😂
@larrytadafe398
Жыл бұрын
Husband material is just 🔥
@andrasbandi2914
2 жыл бұрын
am happy you guys are back
@ablesam3077
2 жыл бұрын
Like me I dey truthful 🤪
@abiolaakinwoleola879
Жыл бұрын
1. I think it's important that this conversation should have separated sex from "Love". 2. Commitment is 2 ways 3. This convo will always be tilted towards emotional blackmail from women, not understanding that both men and women have seen the worst of each other.
@chidiasiegbu41
2 жыл бұрын
I think it's possible to love two people at the same time. However, the love for both persons may be in different degrees.
@deborahdominic8161
Жыл бұрын
Is nt possible sir one person will suffer,y because one person will get de attention more than de other
@olamilekan1043
Жыл бұрын
For me I think Naomi and Toun is right on this episode. Men gender is not reliable 😂😂😂😂 they make all this woman stubborn 😂😂😂😂😂😂
@quirkccentric
Жыл бұрын
When Nigerian use the word "Provide" it's money that comes to mind and it's more than that.
@ruthabimbola
Жыл бұрын
Naomi is my fave😍 😂❤❤
@tundeoluakerele3349
Жыл бұрын
Nedu don tire for women o 😂💔
@DorcasAbel-wp3sn
Жыл бұрын
Am just loving nedu on this episode 😂😂
@millionaire_muses
Жыл бұрын
To "provide" is not regimented to just money. The ladies need to understand that. Ladies stay with men that can provide what they need...like literally whatever they need. Whatever their demand it. Whether money, sex, children, etc. As far as the man provides what they need they'll stay. Simple.
@Empressblessing
Жыл бұрын
A woman can’t love two men at the same time she will surely love one then more the other 💯
@sommyrmt2133
2 жыл бұрын
Abeg is not possible to be in love at same time with two different person like my brother husband material said that it’s a self decision to be with one person #decision
@soccerbants4876
2 жыл бұрын
Very interesting episode this one lol
@trinitynsom1453
Жыл бұрын
I just started watching this show. I am done with S1 Ep 13 and some episodes Niome shows growth but some she is just out of touch or all over the place. You guys should take her out or educate her. Though I doubt any reasonable person takes her opinion though. I think-she is a terrible person. Her opinions are so annoying. I will take it that she is still a kid full of excitement and hasn’t experienced life yet, That’s why I am still watching this program. Interesting topics guys.Thanks Edu, husband material and the lady with a golden voice. In my opinion, there is no way you can love two women romantically at the same time. Now it is important you specify the type of love, some times na infatuation not love. Teach Niome folks, I think she don’t know or she just terrible or silly as I said early. Love from 🇺🇸 you know the kind
@okolieifeanyianthony5172
Жыл бұрын
This naomi girl I feel she has been broken alot
@christobelugwuokpe
2 жыл бұрын
A woman can’t really love two men same way. One must always take preference.
@victorezeagu1893
Жыл бұрын
Make me your preference and I will make you my all. I will provide and protect
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