In order to raise more awareness of mental health, we are doing a live interview next week on the schizophrenia. If this is a topic that interests you, you can click this link: kzitem.info-LqFUibwqrM?feature=share
@tsuki_linx
Жыл бұрын
@Speed Trainer YT me too, this channel helped me with my depression, anxiety ADHD, biploar, borderline, heartbreaks, rejections and so much more! I love this channel. ❤
@Archery11
Жыл бұрын
mine the person likes me and i like them the same way but don't still feel at ease why?
@treedreamerwhisper3983
Жыл бұрын
Im certified schizo :3 so I'll prolly check it out your usually pretty spot on .I'll do the check list, looking forward to your stream.
@KrazyKirbyKid
Жыл бұрын
TYSM this really helped ( I'm talking about the video I don't even know what schizophrenia is )! But can you also help with the fact that a psychopath that I know has this life mission and that life mission is KILLING ME???? Aparently he also is VERY violant. Can you make a video on how to outsmart a psychopath please? That would help because then I would not have to worry about people killing me.
@treedreamerwhisper3983
Жыл бұрын
@@KrazyKirbyKid schizophrenia is a mental illness , usually paranoid behavior hearing things or seeing things, sometimes there's other side effects or "traits" like behavior bipolar like symptoms. :3 as for your pycho problem I'd advise to just avoid them. I don't know your situation or how it transpired but hope it works itself out :)
@TheNevendero
Жыл бұрын
*"Love is like a fart. If you need to push it, it's most definitely shit"* ~ _Sun Tzu, Art of Luv_
@SeVen0807-m4f
Жыл бұрын
Quote of the day :))
@sinemyerlikaya6939
Жыл бұрын
Woww…
@fatcatdoreamon8182
Жыл бұрын
Ironically, my crush compared love to a shit. They say, "Love is like a shit, the more you try to keep it the harder it gets and the more painful. But when you let it go, let out your feelings you could say that it's a success." I can still remember how they say it with full convection and a fist to the sky. Lmao
@Shyroxas
Жыл бұрын
Ok I love that can I tell my kids that if I ever have any?😂😂
@zephdo2971
Жыл бұрын
god this is gold 😂
@tylersong8745
Жыл бұрын
You never find something if you’re desperately looking for it..
@doraemon6054
Жыл бұрын
Is it true?
@ColyaIsMental
Жыл бұрын
Just like my missing pen
@sninja332
Жыл бұрын
Facts
@Shagun151
Жыл бұрын
what a thing u said bruh!!!😭😭😭😭
@keiron.4612
Жыл бұрын
Very true where is my mystery girlfriend 😂
@samrobbins7695
Жыл бұрын
As a 19 almost 20 year old whose never been on a date or experienced romance and doesn’t feel like they deserve love, this video helped a lot. Thanks 🙏🏻 ❤
@scottbrockman5883
Жыл бұрын
Same here, but at 38 going on to 39 years old.
@T26OG.
Жыл бұрын
As a 38 year old, there's something you need to know. You're mentally weak for this mindset. I don't care if you try to take this as a personal attack. For any person, the idea that "I don't deserve love" is childish nonsense. Knock it off. Life isn't ever going to hold your hand
@Calvansbagoftricks
Жыл бұрын
35 here. I had my first real relationship at 21. At least it was real to me. Turns out she belonged to the streets.
@certifiedclowninc.
10 ай бұрын
@T26OG. This has nothing to do with what they were saying, he'll they didn't even go into details. They just said they're 19 turning 20 and haven't found love yet. Sounds like u tried to sound trite for no reason
@mohamedaityoussef9965
8 ай бұрын
how r u bro
@Ingram6580
Жыл бұрын
Love just isn't meant for me. I can't find it in family, I definitely can't find it through fake friends, and I can't find it even in God. All throughout my life I've been laughed at, mocked, and belittled from my own family, fake friends, teachers, co workers, etc. One day I met a very special person whose situation mirrored mine in a lot of ways. We pulled each other out of our respected depressions and I later proposed to her. About a little over a year later my fiancee's attitude towards me started to shift and she ended up mocking and belittling me just like nearly everyone else and ultimately cheated on me. I later found out that she cheated on me multiple times before. I've been single for nearly 18 years and if there's one thing I truly regret it is ever opening my heart to someone.
Жыл бұрын
"When the world turns its back on you, you turn your back on the world". Random thought from The Lion King movie, but being hexed by dealing with people that've affected you more on the long run leaves me thinking that.
@r.d.6290
Жыл бұрын
Wait for it. This world will burn. And you can chip in for some kerosene.
@kingfoofle
Жыл бұрын
I could not emphasize how much I needed this video right now. I lost an opportunity at love with someone I've liked for almost 3 years because I was too scared of ruining the friendship. Now I'm trying to move on, and this video helps a ton :)
@FlameJackstar
Жыл бұрын
I'm male, 33 years old, and haven't been in a relationship for 10 years. At this point, I have given up hope to find someone available. I'm a very average dude, it seems I have no qualities (anymore) that stick out to people as attractive or desirable. "Putting yourself out there" results in absolutely nothing because of that. Besides that, it feels like 80% of people around my age are simply taken. Most have families, houses, children... This train has departed and I was too late to the station.
@thevideochannel6499
Жыл бұрын
Bruh I'm 30 years old never been laid my whole life so I'm used to it.
@MaskedBishop
Жыл бұрын
I'm almost 37 and have never been in a relationship, and yes.. it's good if it happens, but it's so unlikely to fall in love with someone who loves you back, that there's no point in planning having a partner imo. 🙈
@elpadrinomagico
7 ай бұрын
Yep, almost 35 here and I dated some young women the last 2 or 3 years but always failed… I’m done with dating at this point
@mariyatakeuchi9009
Жыл бұрын
its because im physically not cut out for it. it is not in my cards to find love, some people are destined to have long and happy lives living thier dream and some arent. it is what it is I’ve consistently been turned down and replaced and rejected by so many people and yk what? whatever. it’s not a problem. If you aren’t interested you aren’t interested fair enough. But why are some of these people in my life keep leading me on? First their was this guy I matched with: Why would you only tell me you aren’t interested in me anymore an hour before you and I are meant to go on a date? Another one: Why would you spend years (and I mean literally YEARS) telling me you liked me and all of this promising and hinting to come over to where I live or me coming to see you finally just for you to suddenly start dating someone else and bragging about how amazing they for face timing you or wanting to msg you because they were thinking about you when I did all of those exact same thing. Also another situation? How come it always ends with me getting ignored because I asked you about your fucking day? Am I that hideous? Am I that fucking insufferable to talk to? Finally another person: im not some fucking whore you can use because you’re bored only to just replace me with someone else and rub it in my face every fucking opportunity you get You never gave me this type of care and attention. All of these people NEVER find anyone who treats them as good as I would and all they have done is just throw it back in my face. I’m sick of being manipulated and led on by everyone. Worst about this: if I ever told anyone of these people how I felt about this I’d would end up with them saying I’m overreacting and I’d lose them forever and that’s worse.
@dewapratama4266
Жыл бұрын
Wow i think you really need to go to theraphy and consult about this, it may help with your problems
@itswhoohhim
Жыл бұрын
I hope everything gets better for you :)
@jrod1382
Жыл бұрын
On this I can relate.
@notrelatedtobacon1282
Жыл бұрын
1st one is just a thing that happens and it sucks when people do that The 2nd honestly sounds like you friend zoned him and he finally decided to move on and thought you never intended to be anything more then friends
@mariyatakeuchi9009
Жыл бұрын
@@dewapratama4266 why do I need a therapist? I’m perfectly fine It’s everyone else who needs therapy or a guide on how to treat people better
@DKeySinon
Жыл бұрын
Another big problem in our current society when it comes to dating is the fact that we have this seemingly endless selection of people. Because of that, many people are just like "well, he/she/+ doesn't look like this, doesn't have the job like that, okay nah, I will find someone better." And that is extremely unhealthy for everyone. Your personality in combination with decent looks are not enough. You need the right height, weight, hair color, eye color etc. So that you maybe have a chance. You can even wear the wrong shoes, and you are instantly out. So damn extreme is this problem. And I really mean it like that, It's not just a few people who are like this. It's a big amount of young people between the age of 18 and 30 who are so damn fixated on finding the perfect movie partner, its just insane. And I know that it sounds like it's just a "dating apps" problem, but trust me, it's not. Even just going out in bars or talking with strangers on the street is not really possible in that matter. Looks > Personality And that will always go downhill from here.
@izzylandyt
Жыл бұрын
Big facts 💯
@Cymru1987
Жыл бұрын
Mainly, and mostly, women are like this. Super materialistic. Men? Most of us just want to come home to a pretty (healthy) looking wife, and a hot meal. Our lives are set. Women? LOL. Their list puts CVS receipts to shame
@Gou0113
10 ай бұрын
The best part of all this is when you realize that you were falling in love when it ended
@anagha29
Жыл бұрын
I really liked that Lofi girl animation !! It's cute ❤
@Ayacchi
Жыл бұрын
Awww thank you so much!! 💖💖💖
@doraemon6054
Жыл бұрын
I likes the lovelife I have made in my head with some imaginary characters❤
@Fear2Luv
8 ай бұрын
This is probably the greatest video I’ve ever watched
@theoalara
3 күн бұрын
Ikr ❤
@3110chappy
Жыл бұрын
I'm now 28 years old, with one bad break up in my life. I'm worried about ending up alone the more I get older.
@ringspecies
Жыл бұрын
Things have become so bad, that I am not even looking at this point, and for some inexplicable reason I know tons of single men and no single women, in all my friend circles. It is downright baffling, how can one even hope to find love if everyone is online, where all a person is judged on is looks...
@lydia8150
11 ай бұрын
no the problem is i cant find it at all.. i have no dating history
@MarL58
Жыл бұрын
i only love one person and we can't be together anymore.. i know i sound cringey but please cherish your love and don't hurt your partner, because you might lose the one thing that kept you going forward. i don't want to find anyone else, and i will always love that person.
@bluecrocodilus6594
Жыл бұрын
I think another reason is that you might be asexual and/or aromantic. I am on the spectrum for both of these and didn't know anything about it until just a couple of years ago. It really helped me understand why I struggle with establishing connections when trying to date. There isn't anything wrong with with that, and no one should get frustrated why they "can't find the One" especially with all the societal pressure surrounding dating.
@avamckinney6521
Жыл бұрын
ace here! you are so valid for this comment
@sarebagc7514
Жыл бұрын
I'm 18,and I experienced love for once. Than it ended up somehow,our relationship ended it when I was 17. And now I'm in a city that I don't even know and I do not know people at here...And it's hard to find people who are open to meet
@theoalara
3 күн бұрын
I know right!❤
@janetriffen1516
Жыл бұрын
Fun fact, not everyone will find love. Even if you are looking for it , it doesn't mean you will or not with patience.. Hope is a good thing, but delusion is sacrificial. Know these are both possibilities.
@DopamineDevourment
Жыл бұрын
Can you do a video about paraphillias? I would like to know more about them and how they are formed.
@alexbamier2194
Жыл бұрын
I constantly improving myself,and yet I can't find my love,it somehow seems impossible.Maybe not that much,but I single for 22 years now.
@DungNguyen-jf4in
10 ай бұрын
For a regular person, when you try to find love, you may unconsciously turn yourself into "love-seeking mode", which other people don't like at all. They like and love your "normal mode".
@twilightknight7726
Жыл бұрын
Easier said than done. You are right about self sabotage. I tried to go after a girl, but she just seemed disinterested of me. I really wanted it to work out. I literally cried in my best friend arms wondering what the he🏒🏒 I was doing wrong It doesn’t really seem like no one cares. Maybe my heart is just a cheep imitation of trying to find someone or something I can care about. It’s really hard and lonely trying to find another to care. My apologies finding and trying to find someone to care about is a really sore topic for me. I just want someone to care for and talk about everything but it just seem like it doesn’t work out. I have all the love in my heart and I just seem like no one cares if it was meow gold or diamond it’s worthless.
@matteocasati7244
Жыл бұрын
I have a huge problem. I've recently found out that all my life I've always dreamt for a girl that can't be real. To be fair, I don't even know how I would imagine her. How can I possibly lose my mind over another person??? I mean, a real person. I just don't know what love is, because I'm too shallow and I'm not a good person. I think I'm going to do very bad choices if I go on like this
@rimmalikover9724
Жыл бұрын
I'm very picky! I dated bad boy in the past. He tried to kill his mom and then me. He also stole one of my credit cards..My boyfriend needs to be a Dr. Lawyer. Engineer..etc 35 year old virgin with no kids, no swearing at people or shouting nasty comments at waiters..
@Jester____
Жыл бұрын
I've been feeling a mixture of not deserving love and jealousy lately, I hate it. Watching my friends find their significant others with ease has been making me cynical. I want to be happy for them. I just feel like a defective item that no one wants.
@gambitadamson1074
Жыл бұрын
i feel your pain friend love is just another commodity to be bought and sold to the highest bidder
@rikitikitavatiki
Жыл бұрын
I know that feeling. It's like being the broken toy on the shelf next to a dozen brand-new ones. Surprise of surprises, they get bought first. Turns out, nobody actually wants a broken teddy bear like me. I can't say I blame them.
@gambitadamson1074
Жыл бұрын
@@rikitikitavatiki thats both sad and relatable
@naruhina908
Жыл бұрын
You have every right to be cynical. It just proves the point that love is a bullshit concept that only works for people who aren't defective and have something to offer of value. That's why I don't bother with it. It's a pointless, superficial endeavor with no return on my investment I put into trying to find it. Maybe it'll come when I'm finally a successful doctor and have some worth and value as a human, but until then, love is a pointless and nonexistent concept for some of us 🤷🏿♀️
@franciscarojas7295
Жыл бұрын
I feel the same, I see my friends with their significant others, with me being the only one who never had it and it feels awful, I still feel happy for them, but one big part of my head says "You may never get that, you are not liked, so stop wanting it and keep living single, you have done that your whole life anyways"
@A55a551n
Жыл бұрын
Timestamps 1). You fall for unavailable people 0:51 2). You think you don't deserve it 2:24 3). You aren't putting yourself out there 3:14 4). You are afraid of getting hurt 3:57 5). You are choosing wrong 4:40 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
@seanmcfadden3712
Жыл бұрын
Yes! Especially if fictional characters count as "unavailable people"!😢 ... Though, if they're in a relationship, my brain just says "forbidden" and blocks the crush. Which gets really awkward if I start having the crush, then realise the in universe shipping. The crush is blocked, but the emotions take a while to disappear and aren't connected to anything, so they feel really weird.
@nicholasleipzig5448
Жыл бұрын
I'm not old enough to be in a relationship but I really hope I get away from my family and get some friends. They emotionally abuse me. My mother always starts a heated argument whenever I try to express my feelings. She gets furious when I cry in front of her. My dad says he loves me but never shows it during the time I need him the most. My sister is an arrogant, pathetic btch. She always mocks me for having no social connections and tells me I can do nothing in life. None of my family members care for me. Whenever I try to ask for their support they always reject me and say that it's all karma. I'm fed up of hearing this. I've seen these videos and they sometimes give me comfort that I'm not the only one suffering this.
@luvbear4432
Жыл бұрын
Yeah that sounds accurate
@A55a551n
Жыл бұрын
@TsareenUnite not a problem
@DefinitelyNotHidan
Жыл бұрын
@@seanmcfadden3712 that is just sad if you fell in love with a character
@ehsanrahee7411
Жыл бұрын
I've never understood the whole "putting yourself out there" concept. Like, what exactly does that entail? Is simply going out enough? What if you don't have the time and/or money to go out to these supposed places that strangers just meet and talk or whatever? What if the only place you have time to go that has other people consistently is the gym, where everyone is focused on themselves and are more likely to get ignored or make others uncomfortable than otherwise anywhere else? What if dating apps also haven't worked despite trying them for years on end? Asking for a friend of course.
@noisybiscuits2476
Жыл бұрын
I'm guessing it's like when you're working and want that promotion. Probably have to self-promote and make yourself more visible in a positive way. But I'm not sure how to do that for love, for jobs, it's easy.
@ehsanrahee7411
Жыл бұрын
@@noisybiscuits2476 I've never had positive experiences with that in a job either tbh. But the explanation makes sense. Just...how do??
@noisybiscuits2476
Жыл бұрын
@@ehsanrahee7411 I'm thinking volunteering, maybe in a retirement home, children's home, museum or maybe animal shelters. Something that'll put you in contact with decent people more frequently. But I'll be honest, it will be exhausting.
@ehsanrahee7411
Жыл бұрын
@@noisybiscuits2476 ya with having a full time job alone, there's barely time or energy for that level of involvement. Especially if one has hobbies that help significantly keep mental health up. All for the tiny CHANCE of meeting someone. And someone compatible at that. It's almost easier to be alone forever lol. But that has its own long term issues.
@frog6054
10 ай бұрын
@@ehsanrahee7411 Maybe we should work hard to be able to have a job that gives us more free time
@Cherrycreamsoda1
Жыл бұрын
I can't tell if I'm wrong for caring too much, or if society cares too little. I often find people around me (both platonically and romantically) don't value me as much as I value them and just consider me a 'space filler'. The only ones I can rely on to really care about me are my family. At least I have them, but it still sucks :(
@NationChosenByGod
Жыл бұрын
Family is the best thing you have in this world compared to other materialistic in this world. Family first and other second.
@maxrn3923
Жыл бұрын
I feel that
@spicy_cheetoz5058
Жыл бұрын
That hit way too hard 😢
@elis9858
Жыл бұрын
i feel u
@ZeroDarknezz
Жыл бұрын
Yup society is full of shit, and it’s not getting any better. People doesn’t care about being nice or having manners anymore. So just do it for yourself and you will be fine.
@otakuverse8545
Жыл бұрын
This is why I don't search for love love just finds you
@Azraelith
Жыл бұрын
I can say with certainty that if you actively try to fall in love, you will struggle. True love genuinely just happens and when it all feels natural then you know it's love and not infatuation.
@dericmederos1514
Жыл бұрын
It's so ironic when I wasn't looking to date (focusing on school and work) i had girls say they had a crush on me; i would talk to them casually and friendly not expecting anything nor looking for it. BUT when i did want a relationship that's when it became impossible to find a partner since it's, funny enough, creepy or not attractive for someone to find a partner
@GastNdorf
Жыл бұрын
It's a lie, you have to work on yourself and make yourself available, if you don't, it will never happen.
@GastNdorf
Жыл бұрын
@@Prawnii I know, I've been fed this all my life, going on my 33s and I never even had an opportunity, and I regret focusing on studying, career and other meaningless stuff and not improving physically or meeting people more, because I've been told repeatedly it would happen when I least expected it...
@MiriadCalibrumAstar
Жыл бұрын
Well, the problem is trying to force find a partner, but I think that meeting a lot of new people can help you not only get an idea of what to find but to also raise your % of finding someone desirable.
@smollilbean
Жыл бұрын
@@dericmederos1514 people just like driven, passionate people who strive to become a better version of themselves everyday. You were focused on school and work? That just showed that you were driven and passionate about bettering your own life.
@KnightsofGaming2016
Жыл бұрын
I have another one to add to this list: being afraid to go beyond being just friends and thinking that there are better options for them out there that isn't ourself.
@gojitte
Жыл бұрын
Careful. No one owes anyone a relationship.
@aikotitilai3820
Жыл бұрын
Isn't that basically the second point "You think you don't deserve it ?"
@CelestialExility
Жыл бұрын
trust me there are plenty lol
@SikkyTheArmadillo
Жыл бұрын
And /Or being scared, that if you confess to them and they reject you they don't want to be friends with you anymore and because you don't want to loose them you think, it's the best if things stay like they are so you can at least be near them. Never experienced anything like this actually, but I read so many stories where this happens
@SharpBalisong
Жыл бұрын
@@SikkyTheArmadillo Ya, happened to me. The other person got weird and we haven’t spoken to each other in awhile.
@misakulous
Жыл бұрын
who needs love when you have food
@Tricky2
Жыл бұрын
fr ur right i love foods so much
@rikitikitavatiki
Жыл бұрын
And *that* is part of my problem. For a very long time I went to food to deal with the pain of being alone. I have lost a lot of that weight, almost a hundred pounds, but I can't look myself in the mirror and say I'm attractive. Yet. So now I'm cutting back on the food but I'm still alone. I guess I can't have any comfort at all, can I? I see why many people before me turned to alcohol.😅
@LetsTalkFashion
Жыл бұрын
Me casually eating ice cream out of the container
@avamckinney6521
Жыл бұрын
ace mood
@tizioboh9927
8 ай бұрын
genuinely made me laugh😂
@bbgnice
Жыл бұрын
33-year-old man, and I've never had a date/intimacy in my life. I, for the longest time, felt as if I've never deserved love. I never bothered with putting myself out there. I now realize that it's all a lie and trying to build myself up. This video is nice to keep myself hopeful. I'm just going to keep working and hoping that someday it'll change. Nothing hurts worse than feeling as if love doesn't exist for you. I wish you all the best and shine on.
@christophernash8166
Жыл бұрын
Just remember we are living in the hardest time to find love and that people are way more shallow than they ever have been. Still if someone isn't finding someone, it still hurts, but the real reality is 90 percent of those on dating apps are trash. Maybe more. And bars are the worst place to find meaningful relationships. Those who aren't looking for anything meaningful are going to usually be the most shallow or discriminating.
@naruhina908
Жыл бұрын
I mean, I'm in my late 20s and gave up on the idyllic fantasy of chasing after a nonexistent concept. It's tedious with little return on any investment I put into it, so why bother?
@TheFuture88
Жыл бұрын
Just get jacked and go to Thailand!
@hachiroku8677
Жыл бұрын
These videos are for teenagers. Check out Alpha Male Strategies. He's the real deal. Stay strong, brother!
@izzylandyt
Жыл бұрын
I’m 30 gonna be 31…still no significant other, no kiss, no sex, no family of my own. Hell, I barely have friends. If anything, I’m forced to be the therapist for others who have everything. Plus I’m held to a very high standard and constantly being judged.
@paleosaur1993
4 ай бұрын
*looks at dating history* How strange, there’s nothing here
@DLMF2010
Жыл бұрын
Step 1: love yourself. Step 2: let others feel attracted for your contagious self love. Step 3: get to know people so you can find one you feel attracted to. Don't rush it and don't overthink, remember that love is within yourself and not others. If you are not finding someone, don't worry about it, it actually doesn't matter
@wm9n
Жыл бұрын
Thx 💙
@diffdimgamerseven9986
Жыл бұрын
my self confidence is so low i will not get past step 1 anytime soon
@tryagain8303
Жыл бұрын
❤💪
@julian.16
Жыл бұрын
Empty steps
@markuchiha7737
Жыл бұрын
Yeah love isn't a necessity
@basil_arts
Жыл бұрын
going out is genuinely such a confusing thing… where do u go? how do u start a conversation? who u do start one with? it’s so odd and just… oof 😓
@f4llenleaves
Жыл бұрын
I suggest getting to know the person more first before dating. I've been friends with my bf for 8 years (just had our 2nd anniversary this month) and until now we still get these long silences whenever we can't think of a topic. But that's alright, we're perfectly fine with just being present. Also whenever we can't think of a place to go, home date is our default. Not saying you have to wait years for that kind of love tho XD just someone who you feel matches your energy is enough
@stevenrogers2684
7 ай бұрын
@@f4llenleaves That's a blessing and a curse. I tried this. We were friends, good friends for quite a while. Then we decided to try dating and were together a long time. But I think I got lazy on it, and we decided to go back to being friends. The problem now is that I still love them. And this is a problem especially when they start dating other people. Because as you know, when your friend gets into a romantic relationship, they'll spend less time with you now.
@justanotheraccountv2
3 ай бұрын
@@f4llenleavesI hope you never find happiness
@Jinsukesaze
2 ай бұрын
@@f4llenleaveswhat if those people don't feel the same way? Your advice assumes they feel the same way
@the_hero_of_the_21st_century
Жыл бұрын
Damn, I started crying from the words at the end of the video. I feel like I'm not happy when I'm not in a relationship. Again and again I was told that I should just wait, and not actively search. Because that's how love will find you. And that you should pursue ur life, with ur goals and successes and wishes and dreams. But if you have tried again and again, and always gave ur best, But it failed every time, you encounter rejection every time, you feel like falling in love too quickly and it has always led to pain, how can you believe that? This concerns me far too much right now.
@summer9770
Жыл бұрын
Same here, so I'm going to give up to find someone and will to focus on myself.
@ignacnafta3215
Жыл бұрын
I'm diagnosed with ASPD and falling in love is something I long for but can't seem to experience it and i'm honestly scared that I will never meet a person that I will love due to my problems. This video gave me comfort, appreciate your work and thank you.
@poppycatz
Жыл бұрын
Omg same
@NamesMori
Жыл бұрын
Same here ): well, I feel like I will never find a partner who loves me unmasked and comfortable…🙃
@ignacnafta3215
Жыл бұрын
@@NamesMori same
@dirkdiggler4136
Жыл бұрын
Honestly that does suck. The people I tend to like are either in relationships, they ain't interested, or both. The people that want me are people I don't want or lost interest in.
@conorquinlan3266
Жыл бұрын
Same her I'm on the autism spectrum and I find it so hard to fit in with people and be normal I did find a girl I loved her name was makenzie and it was so natural everything just happened and she was my first proper gf and I'm 18 btw this happened just a month ago but I lost her and it was my fault cuz I'm just not normal I don't Evan wanna try again to get with someone cuz ik it'll never last cuz of me
@Bumbl3_B3e
Жыл бұрын
Can’t find love, and I’m ok w/ that ima take time 4 me myself and I :) keep up the good work
@ZancoIntel
Жыл бұрын
You may have passed by your love several times.
@Bumbl3_B3e
Жыл бұрын
Wut ;-;
@Bumbl3_B3e
Жыл бұрын
Maybe
@DededeHero
Жыл бұрын
@@ZancoIntel This is what I'm terrified of.
@EllieAuditore47
Жыл бұрын
I dont even get to the "partner" part.. love for everyone else seem a pretty normal thing, but for me it looks like a thing out of this world
@believedragons_
Жыл бұрын
I'm a 29 year old single man, who lost everything in my early 20s and have recently being building myself up. This video has made me realized I am allowing myself to believe I am unable to compete against other male competitors because of societal expectations. I still live at my parents house (not by choice), work part-time job since I go to school, and not 6 feet tall (obviously something I cannot change). That already limits a majority of the dating pool for me. There's been experiences I've been chosen over someone who has a car, their own place, or even just taller than me. It can be frustrating and thus, I am taking time to work on myself. I hope one day I can feel I'm worth enough, even if I'm not at that top "1%" of being the most desirable man.
@amyli092
Жыл бұрын
Based on your profile picture, I honestly don't know why people wouldn't want to date you... My current boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, and found each other through Facebook. Best wishes to you! 😊
@Duran762
Жыл бұрын
@@amyli092 Because he isnt tall enough and rich enough.
@Lovesongs8
Жыл бұрын
You dont need to be tall or rich to find love. I am taller and make more money than my boyfriend, and I still love him very much. But your insecurities shines through. You need to love yourself before someone else can love you. Best of luck!
@majedaabbouchi2955
Жыл бұрын
I can relate on soooo many points here. I'm pushing 30 yrs and I'm still stuck in an unhappy situation of not living on my own, having a job that bleeds my soul and aspirations dry at the end of the day and barely a social life. Not to mention the feeling of being less than worthy of being loved when there's so many women out there who have a lot more to offer than I do. But I'm also trying to break free from my rut and be better, although it's infuriatingly hard. You look like a pretty cool and awesome person at least! I wish you (and anyone else who reads this) all the happiness in the world ❤
@TheBubbeloo
Жыл бұрын
@@Lovesongs8 You don't need to be, but it sure helps a ton in the process. Then again a woman who is into you only because of your money and height is probably not wife material...
@ultimablackmage
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm in my late 30's & I've put myself out there & no one wants me as I'm broke & physically unattractive. You can't get love in our superficial world because all that matters is status. I don't care about looks or status & if you can't get anyone before you turn 40, you have no chance at all!
@teodortodorov1662
Жыл бұрын
Work on your body to be attractive and try to escape being broke
@notrelatedtobacon1282
Жыл бұрын
Yeah, I'm in a similar boat
@Noycey64
Жыл бұрын
Similar to myself, I’m in my late 50’s and have never been in an intimate relationship or had a romantic partner due to a number of factors but mainly my autism. So called experts state to just be yourself but in my past doing that has just got me upsetting people, especially women. I call things as I see it and sometimes I talk first without thinking. However due to my mental issues I’m happy with myself because I’m honest to a fault (which some people don’t like) and I’m not successful at lying, not that I want to. And I’d rather be that then be like many people in this society that lie, cheat and act like a**holes with others.
@ayanabeads1614
Жыл бұрын
There are ugly broke people married everywhere, and elderly people get married every day. You are the one being superficial and that’s why you are alone. It sounds like you don’t really want a relationship, you just want someone who will boost your self-esteem. You need to do that for yourself. People who throw constant pity parties are unattractive regardless of status.
@arsenelupiniii8040
Жыл бұрын
I was torpedoed at 42 by the love of my life after ten years together. Now at almost 49, I put myself back together but will never attach again, not after how abrupt the last ended. I used to be a caring and fun loving fellow, now I just move in silence. Way more money and purpose w/o my girl. I miss her everyday.
@judy1879
Жыл бұрын
Love doesn't hurt, the lack of love hurts 💔
@th4fl4sh4
Жыл бұрын
Or the loss of love
@sachinmistry1
Жыл бұрын
Lack of love doesn't hurt, it's just that you don't feel anything. It is something that you might have to accept.
@jtquillen7893
Жыл бұрын
Everything hurts
@gaebolg-yc7cx
Жыл бұрын
Love does hurt. I'm liking someone but they all rejected me badly. My 1st crush rejected and said I'm the ugliest guy for her. 2nd one ignored me also gave an hostile or bad aura towards me. 3rd one lied about having boyfriend later on I found she doesn't have. Crushes are all nonsense stop seeking affection it will do nothing you will just hurt yourself just like a little kid crying without a toy. Crushes and love are all about lust for these days all girls seek about looks.
@PKay36
Жыл бұрын
@@gaebolg-yc7cx I have a crush but she doesn't like me either but on valentines day on Feb 14 at school I surprised her because his friend is my friend also and I put a lot of efforts that way I can sit with her every time we eat at school and then when I confessed to her I sang a song and gave her a gift and it was like one day she was coming to my table with my friends and I was too shy to talk to her and approach her and then my friend took her from me then my friend took her from me to my best friend it was like them already have a relationship or not? Idk I'm just stock from not knowing that she like my friend not me
@pierre0227
Жыл бұрын
My therapist told me to list your compromises and deal breakers in a person. And something I tell myself, it’s not healthy to need a relationship but everyone needs a healthy one. I hope that makes sense.
@jennabethmcilwain
Жыл бұрын
Ive found that i struggle with approaching the people im interested in because i dont really know how to flirt and act around the opposite gender. Im afraid to make it awkward and embarrass myself when trying to reach out. Ive never dated anyone because if this. Im constantly trying to improve my understanding of love and how to approach it and find it. Thanks so much for these videos!!!
@theinnominatoidk3821
Жыл бұрын
same lmao and I'm 20
@lukajalo8635
Жыл бұрын
0:02 disagreed, i personally think that driving on the autobahn is better
@beagrothus7916
Жыл бұрын
Ok that is correct.
@MsUndertaker99
Жыл бұрын
I can't find love because i'm terrible person and i don't deserve it. I clearly understand that and i simply don't want to ruin anyones life
@faliandra7659
Жыл бұрын
I don't fall for unavailable people, I fall for narcissists. I am an INFJ and theres even stereotypes about how we are narcissist magnets. How about making a video of how empaths can avoid narcissists?
@musicvibes70489
Жыл бұрын
Same
@koylejeune4332
Жыл бұрын
Learning to set boundaries for yourself and others is absolutely crucial for this.
@orton4357
Жыл бұрын
MBTI is pseudoscience, get over it
@izzylandyt
Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t say us being a narcissist magnet is a stereotype. It’s a fact that we desperately deny. I mean the last person we ever want in our life is another energy vampire or abuser. Plus our society basically encourages and neglects such toxicity. Finding someone that’s an exception and genuine is very slim.
@izzylandyt
Жыл бұрын
@@koylejeune4332no point in establishing boundaries if they’re constantly being disrespected by others.
@skully3242
5 ай бұрын
You will never find love.
@sparkymularkey6970
2 ай бұрын
That is a real possibility, and that's OK.
@ikanberapi2189
2 ай бұрын
Possibilty indeed, atleast we have the boys
@Armoredunit
18 күн бұрын
I know and I'm already accepting it for I am just a human a piece of meat and bone given consciousness by God
@theoalara
3 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@Animekitty
2 күн бұрын
Lmao
@AnotherCamilo
Жыл бұрын
If i start to seeking for love i will not find it because i'll look desperate If i don't look for it i wouldn't find it either because i'll be so clueless that i'll miss all the signals.
@blessedsoul949
Жыл бұрын
Personally,am afraid of being hurt again. It's a year and a quarter down the line since my last heartbreak and am still grieving every single day. Getting attached to a narcissist was the worst thing that ever happened to my life. It lowered my self love,self esteem,self worth.I still question my sanity to date. I also am unable to trust and have kept myself locked up for a while. I just hope that someday I will move on from the hurt and pain and find the ONE!
@Ninjudo
Жыл бұрын
I've only dated 2 people so far, but after both times being terrible experience (Especially the first one), I've been feeling really low and this video came out at the perfect time to help me. Thanks a lot
@firtp5209
Жыл бұрын
"Only 2" ? That a lot bro (at least compared to other people that I'm definitly not a part of...)
@conceptdrive9733
Жыл бұрын
Bruh didn't have a single one in my LIFE
@MaskedBishop
Жыл бұрын
I've had a single date about 15 years ago. 😅
@avenger291
Жыл бұрын
I’ve always been a solo-op (a loner) if coworkers are talking, I’m keeping quiet and focusing on work. I’ve also got to deal with my mental state (I’ve got some mental issues) this channel has definitely been a unique find
@balsamon69
Жыл бұрын
I've been watching your content for almost 3 years at this point and this is the first time in this type of video where i could relate to every single sign. It's a bit of a depressing thought, but now i know for sure what to work on. So thanks for your help. Much appreciated
@Austin_Dale
Жыл бұрын
Could you do a video on putting yourself out there? My family always tells me that I’ve got to “put myself out there”, but I don’t understand what that means.
@Halloween111
8 ай бұрын
And when you ask "Ok, How and where?" The inevitable "Well....I don't know!" comes back, almost as an accusation.
@gamegamer9523
11 ай бұрын
One reason why you can’t find a partner is because someone has already taken that person.
@bekzera9452
Жыл бұрын
There is no such thing out there for me. And I feel more relieved now that I accepted that. I'm learning to be a loner now, even though I already was for a long time. Not everyone is or will be happy in life. And I understand, at least the ones I love found their loved ones.
@dericmederos1514
Жыл бұрын
One that a lot of people keep doing and have to stop is this: not being up front about what you want. If you're looking for more than just friendship, you need to give hints like "Wow I think you look real pretty today." I used to surprise girls when i asked them out because they never thought i liked them because I never went beyond platonic talks.
@petkofuchalski9809
Жыл бұрын
i fully agree. You either "shoot your shot" in the beginnig of your relationship with your potencial partner, or you get "friendzoned" and risk ruining not only your romantic, but also your platomic relationship with that person.
@billy9075
Жыл бұрын
I feel like I’m not worthy of being loved because everyone who has entered my life has always left. The single common factor every time was me. I’m just a shitty person. I try not to, but I end up pushing everyone away. I finally met someone who was so sweet to me, and was such an amazing person. It took less than a year for him to leave
@bleujae68000
Жыл бұрын
Well, there's a secret 6th (or whatever number you want) option. You're a Cuprioromantic, aka someone who desires a romantic relationship but feels little to no romantic attraction. While it's not impossible to find a partner to have a deeper connection with, I just don't think it would be fair for me to jump into something. I think it might explain why I sorta subconscious shut down the possibility being romantically involved with all the two people who've had any interest as sad as that might seem. That being said I still love the idea of romance, and I wanna support all the wonderful healthy couples out there even if it's something I can't really experience being someone who's Aro.
@aleafinthewind52
Жыл бұрын
Even as a person who feels little of these emotions naturally, I still end up crying a bit when watching videos like this.
@williamzjordan1850
Жыл бұрын
Bruh u lucky I can’t even cry
@intowhateverworld6136
Жыл бұрын
Love is very hard to find, dating apps especially for me don’t help. It’s lowered my self-esteem and every time I delete it I get hopeful that maybe this time will work. I think I’m just self destructive in that regard and I need to control myself better but I can’t help but feel maybe I’m just missing the person. EVEN WHEN I DO GET A MATCH IM HORRIFIED TO EVEN DATE. I’ve been through rough times and honestly I do sometimes think I’m not worthy of love or happiness. I’ve cried a lot because of how unloved I feel; I miss everything in a relationship. I do go to the gym but it only temporarily fills the hole left from my ex.
@Spookiester
Жыл бұрын
I am probably going to be dead alone at a early age with stress. People cared about a lot of times took me for a fool and life been downhill not due to that but it compounded. I am 27 alone and jobless struggling to find work after last year losing job. Think might be numb to caring about love since I know I will die alone.
@Melatoniki
Жыл бұрын
I'm taking the introvert method, sit there until someone adopts you for no reason at all and drags you into shit
@Yeastaroonios
Жыл бұрын
This is wrong I'm just ugly and weird
@magau3698
Жыл бұрын
My sisters are crazy. Cheaters. Liars. Detached. And yet. They can keep men like nothing. But me. I am loyal, faithful, ride or die and yet. I cannot find a man to love me all the way through. I am literally about to give up. I am 36. I’m done.
@theoalara
3 күн бұрын
Ikr :( a lot of the loyal ones end up alone but the bad ones end up in relationships
@hope2071
Жыл бұрын
so much truthful healing ❤❤❤ it is what it is my heart looking for ❤❤
@Psych2go
Жыл бұрын
We're glad this helped :) How many of these points did you resonate with?
@Bobaganusche72
Жыл бұрын
I like how every suggestion is to reach out to a professional. Bro, I'm sad, alone, and broke. I can't afford to spend $50/hr to have someone tell me to just work on myself.
@thefreechains
Жыл бұрын
I ran away from love for about three years. Just constantly working on my own life and not even allowing myself to feel that feeling again. That’s why I didn’t put myself out there or try to pursue someone I liked. I just kept thinking “don’t bother with that.” Or “Itll just go wrong again.” But now…I feel like I’ve gained EVERYTHING except love. And right now? That’s all I want.
@flamegamer3424
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to all of these signs. I tried so many times to have a relationship, but I always get cut off. There were times where I did fall for the wrong person. Now I feel like I’m afraid of having a crush on someone, but I can overcome that fear. It’ll all take time.
@MyLifewithGuitar
Жыл бұрын
As soon as I saw this title I thought about all the sacrifices, obligations and demands cumulating on one in what is an already demanding world, especially whilst we are all fighting to heal from the pandemic, hopefully. Love would be a nice but unrealistic privilege.
@uglahboi6074
Жыл бұрын
“The best way to connect with others is to open yourself up.” Me: hmmm. Easy enough Subconscious me: *yeah… nah*
@outwithjohn7038
Жыл бұрын
Man, I needed to watch this video. The last time I was in love was in 2021, but man. That shit is on a whole different level. It gets even tiring when you try to find someone. It's got to the point that I'd love myself and enjoy life rather than find someone else.
@alexlovehall7796
Жыл бұрын
After my recent breakup and some other things I’ve been goin through a lot of different things from no success. I’ve been guilty of all these. However the last few years I’ve taken steps to heal and work on my attachments and worthiness. Every day is a new challenge and I do regress some times, tho this video definitely helps me see that it’s not just me and I can continue to do better
@canofspam9357
Жыл бұрын
If for every day that I can live without love I get a dollar, I would’ve already breached the stock market
@alanf.cavalcante7561
Жыл бұрын
How to never find love: 1 - Just be a slightly below avarage straight male. The end
@mainlander3920
Жыл бұрын
As an ugly man, everyone is unavailable.
@scarlet12234
Жыл бұрын
I would slightly disagree with the assertion that you won't find love if you stop looking for it. In my case, searching desperately for love was what kept landing me in bad situations with unavailable people. When I stopped the search and just let life happen, when I felt like I didn't need to find love to be happy and determined that I would feel happy and fulfilled regardless, that's when I found my person.
@Droi
Жыл бұрын
its a lie)
@lightspeed-mecharena5929
Жыл бұрын
@@Droitrue, you gotta put in the effort for an outcome. You only get what you put in
@Mark3nd
Жыл бұрын
But then again, it's entertaining to make those memories anyway. Besides, i stopped trying since those signs of girls becoming unfriendly. Hell, you can't even be friends with a girl at all. They will block or ignore you. Thats just it, thats why i dont ask for numbers unless I happen to feel good vibes
@scarlet12234
Жыл бұрын
@@lightspeed-mecharena5929 well I'm not saying people should give up. Just that they shouldn't be so attached to the outcome that they desperately chase after it and feel like they will never be happy unless they get it. Be open to experiences, of course.
@naruhina908
Жыл бұрын
Nah, you just eventually got lucky.
@ceadeus5844
Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to say thank you, your videos helped me alot through some bad days, my girlfriend broke up with me 3 months ago and it left me broke mentally, but your videos made me have hope of believing in love again and made me seek professional help which is helping me a lot :D
@Freiherr_Dipa
Жыл бұрын
u can do it king 👑
@jamie-bn5kj
Жыл бұрын
heyy just wanna say same, my ex boyfriend broke up with me three months ago as well it left me feeling pretty unloveable. But we've got this, with time we can find love again!
@paradoxyfoxy
Жыл бұрын
Psych2Go rlly said "No B*tches?"
@futurelegacyproductions1298
Жыл бұрын
I'm just going to put love in the same category as emotions. Literally the most risky and confusing thing I have ever thought about, I'm here for it though so ya.
@lukewr2465
Жыл бұрын
Man... I'm too afraid to even talk to people, let alone women 💀
@judymar5666
Жыл бұрын
Yea😔
@hannjojo
Жыл бұрын
I can relate to this. I'm getting 23 and have all these problems. I also never had someone to cuddle. My first kiss a few years ago I got because I was needy and not in love with the person. Bad experience for me that also stop me from working on me
@AspieVert
Жыл бұрын
Dude I'm the same like you. I'm going to be 23 this year too and have no experience of love and i tried everything. And sometimes i think whats the point?
@neofulcrum5013
Жыл бұрын
25. Still single.
@jakobrosenberg4759
Жыл бұрын
Same here😅
@MustafaKulle
Жыл бұрын
I find it really upsetting for someone to think they don't deserve love. I strongly believe that everyone deserves love. The lack of it is what hurts people most. If you are reading this, I hope you are loved. Aphrodite is the Goddess of Love, she loves you. Love from Cyprus, 🇨🇾❤
@bearingoxd5105
Жыл бұрын
I had every problem 2 years ago, now I tried everything this video said I should do and still didn't succeed.I truly gave up on love.
@mixail267
Жыл бұрын
I cannot find love because only one reason: I've spend 15 years on the videogames. I didn't care about anything all this time, it is a miracle, that I haven't lose my job and my father didn't throw me away from our apartments. And now, when I'm 32, I've realised, that I'm alone and I have no clue about for what reason I'm living at all. And I can calm down and waste my life further, because no one needs a guy like me.
@LordTchernobog
Жыл бұрын
I'm fat, ugly and disgusting. Boom.
@sachinmistry1
Жыл бұрын
I'm 41 years old and I feel like that I may not find love. I've been trying to take care of my appearance and seek meetups where I can meet people. I get a sense that a lot of women think I'm interesting, but they don't find me attractive. It's a constant battle. I'm in a new city, and I'm still trying to make new friends and find my community. Growing up, I would say that I have an avoidant attachment style. My parents were busy doctors and didn't give me a lot of attention growing up. I didn't see a lot of affection between them. I've been going to therapy for the past 6-8 years now. I learned that my parents are narcissists, and I'm trying to be less critical of myself and learning to self-love. Theres still a lot of work that needs to be done...
@marccolas7531
Жыл бұрын
I am 39 years old, and I never had a girlfriend in my life, not once. The first rendez-vous I had, it was during my Erasmus study, at the age of 24 years but I didnt know what to do in front of a girl...:( and now I am getting old, I have absolutely no occasion to meet women. All woman at my work or hobby, are either married, or not interested (meaning no affinity at all) :(
@ranusmagnus656
Жыл бұрын
Easy said. But after a few decades without even a date, hope runs low. Very low.😐
@SwagNCool
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, I will do nothing with this information 😎👍 2:26 Real
@kayskreed
Жыл бұрын
Love and romance are two entirety different things. Romance is tied to (mutual) sexual attraction and the cocktail of hormones involved in that pair bonding process. It's conditional and dependant on a variety of factors. Basically the point of romance in humans is simply to create more humans. Love instead is not something you find, or something that is felt; rather, love is a choice, an action, rooted in the willingness to give. Love is cultivated through the act of giving and doing so without prejudice or preference. Romantic feelings aren't necessarily a choice, but love certainly is. I wouldn't get too hung up on romance anyhow unless the goal is to breed.
@yigit1898
Жыл бұрын
I live 25 years on this world and still haven't found true love.
@judymar5666
Жыл бұрын
Same here... I'm 28😔.. My main problem was I got no self confidence, I always think I'm not good looking despite many ppl say I got the looks... It is bcz I once suffering from worst acne that leaves scars around my face that makes me insecure of my self😢
@Joenah5
Жыл бұрын
The reason this is so frustrating to me is because I’m already doing everything this video says. I put myself out there but I can’t find anyone. Every match I’ve gotten on a dating app is a ghost. I feel like I must be doing something wrong, but even my friends are confused by my complete lack of luck. It is so frustrating and I’m trying so hard but nothing seems to work.
@theoalara
3 күн бұрын
Me too!! :(
@kevinsconcealment870
Жыл бұрын
Do a video on the Simp vs Bad Boy effect, how women (and sometimes men) only want approval and attention from the person they can't get it from.
@DummieDumbNoa
9 ай бұрын
I don't know if many people have this same issue, but the main reason why I'm single (despite having trust issues) is that I just don't know how to put myself out there, how to socialize. I'm 17, finished high school around a week ago and now I don't see most people that shared the same class with me, my best friend is the only person that I still talk to. I know that I'm young, but it's just so overwhelming, I just left a relationship 8 months ago and that somehow made me lose the ability to socialize and connect with people
@Catkoalarules
9 ай бұрын
I’m having the same issue
@theoalara
3 күн бұрын
OMG SAME 😭 but i just turned 19 , like bruh i always go outside what else am I meant to do to ‘ put my self out there’ plus I HATE clubs so no.
@funnytv-1631
Жыл бұрын
Now that you have taken up residence here in the world, carve out time for yourself. Anchor a new habit that validates what solitude can give you. It can be as little as a minute a day. Catch your reflection and don’t look away. Notice how you’re feeling. Give yourself a few minutes of self-care, where you sit down and soothe dry skin or think quietly while you fold clothes. Spend time outside without your phone. Is the sky empty of clouds today? Notice which plants are bursting and which are waiting to bloom. Tune out everything else and tune into yourself.
@flobba123
10 ай бұрын
Ive been totally single for 30 years starting to think its to late to find a relationship from my point of view 50% of women are already taken and 50% are lesbian.
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