Very good Julie. You are so sweet and such a clever girl. I am a 71 years old Canadian lady, and....... I am Asperger. I was not diagnosed during my whole life. That’s why I suffered so much. My diagnosis came only 2 years ago, (better late than never). Now I am proud to be different. I am retired and I study German language (my goal ? It is to master more foreign languages. I already speak French, English, Italian and a little Spanish) Of. Course I read a lot, I also play chess, I draw, I prepare myself delicious food, I travel and I go to theater and concerts. etc. And I am not afraid anymore of this terrible chaotic, wicked world around me. Thanks to this young Vietnamese doctor who told me I was not mentally deficient but simply Asperger. This changed my self-esteem forever and now I love the way I am. I am like a newly born !!! 🐣🐥 ⛅️🌤☀️ 🇨🇦🇨🇦🇨🇦. ✌️✌️✌️
@talitaza8862
3 жыл бұрын
Hi Michelle. Hope you're still enjoying your marvelous mind. Lots of love, a fellow Aspergian. 🌷
@wideeyewanderer1785
3 жыл бұрын
Hey Cool! I am a vietnamese doctor, I also have Asperger syndrome (self-diagnose), on my spare time I also teach math and science to asperger students and they are the best. And I seem to have no problem communicating with them. I will be assessing people for Asperger syndrome in the near future. Cool coincidence tho. I’m glad he made a difference for you, better late than never. And there absolutely nothing wrong with you. You’re special if anything
@FaethorFerenzcy
2 жыл бұрын
From the moment she said: "I've been observing you my whole life..." i knew this will be good.
@xulinha5297
Жыл бұрын
🥲 thank you, Julie Dachez!
@a.g.demada5263
7 ай бұрын
I'm french and I met her in January
@happyaspiemom
4 жыл бұрын
Très drôle ! Le public nt est scotché par l'angle d'étude de Julie Dachez. Bravo Julie pour ton excellent niveau d'anglais.
@panderzbananderz9320
4 жыл бұрын
Wow! That was a tough crowd!
@azulizachan7595
4 жыл бұрын
Right? They didn't even giggle at the funny things like the grocery small talk moment! And they looked so bored. This woman deserved more
@funkymunky
4 жыл бұрын
Story of most if not all Aspies' lives!
@digiscream
3 жыл бұрын
Look closely at them, though...those are the same expressions that neurotypical people display when they're face-to-face with the fact that there's an autistic person in front of them who doesn't _look_ like Rain Man, and they can't avoid or rationalise away "the autism".
@wideeyewanderer1785
3 жыл бұрын
I know right! She on point too
@wideeyewanderer1785
3 жыл бұрын
I thought hilarious, but I guess that’s because I’m neuro atypical myself so I kind of agree with her criticism of the “typicals”
@claudinejoanis8291
2 жыл бұрын
Hi Julie! I could use French since it's my first language (I'm from Québec, Canada), but most who listened to this video understand English. I admire you a lot Julie for making Asperger better known, especially when it comes to women. I've watched everything you've put on KZitem. For a long time, I was diagnosed with depression and severe anxiety. At 18 years old, I started having fibromyalgia followed at 25 with other chronic pain diagnostics that made me more and more isolated. I really think it's how my body responded to my need to be "perfectly normal", the high anxiety started to affect me physically. I can't work and have a very limited social life. This situation most certainly explains why nobody saw and understood that I'm Asperger. I'm now 45, but the first time I was told I was most probably autistic with Asperger was in 2019 at 42 years old. The social worker made me watch one of your videos. It was such a revelation, it totally changed my life and how I perceive myself! I was happy to finally know WHY life was so difficult for me. To finally have the words to explain (to myself and others) my differences and struggles has been a life changing event. I can finally be myself! Thank you for all your beautiful work. Xxx
@a.g.demada5263
7 ай бұрын
Je suis une femme de 30 ans et je n'ai été diagnostiquée qu'en juillet dernier. C'est grâce à son livre que j'ai vraiment compris que j'étais autiste. J'ai eu la chance de la rencontrer il y a deux mois et elle m'a dédicacé mon exemplaire
@davegunner49
5 жыл бұрын
Such a wonderful presentation and a beautiful human being in all respects representing a misunderstood condition and an oppressed minority. After living 34 years on the spectrum I neither want to become an NT nor live in their world.
@theresedignard4267
3 жыл бұрын
Wow, you are a great teacher. That encapsulates the reality from both perspectives. Thanks for sharing.
@ricardop.maganha5408
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you Julie, the best TED Talk I have seen!
@alexabadi7458
4 жыл бұрын
Bravo Julie, votre accent est bien meilleur que le miens (et je vis aux USA depuis plus de 20 ans...) Julie is a person who count a lot in my life, that's while watching a video from her (on Le Monde website) that I discovered I have Aperger's syndrome. Her video did not cure my autism problems but I finally understand (at 51 years old) what was wrong with me and why my life has been so difficult. I now enjoy my life a lot more and I improved my relationship with others, I will be thanks full to July Dachez for the rest of my life.
@BlogdoBenOliveira
5 жыл бұрын
I love your book. I'm so grateful ♥
@buddhafx5973
5 жыл бұрын
First time for me hearing her in english, she speaks really well ! I like it since I already follow her in french. Bravo Julie, from Quebec xx
@daughterofelroi4369
3 жыл бұрын
This is so good! Thank you for sharing your experience!
@olivier2101
5 жыл бұрын
Excellente présentation Julie ! Quelle réalisation personnelle et quel parcours ! Bravo. A étudier de près pour aider les autistes à se réaliser eux-mêmes... :)
@nanahealer2811
3 жыл бұрын
Loved it all but the part where you say : "I had time to do this and that because im on the spectrum and didn't socialize with people". People who socialize also get PhD s, are on youtube or publish books. What I mean to say is dont do what you are trying to fight in your presentation, do not stereotype people. We are all different and able to accomplish marvelous things. Good luck Julie and thank you.
@digiscream
3 жыл бұрын
That's not what she was saying. For an autistic person, the effects of a social engagement are often not limited to the duration of the engagement itself. There will be preparation, there will be the exhaustion afterwards caused by the intense mental effort of being surrounded by people and excess stimulus, and then there will be the analysis where we over-think everything that happened in order to optimise our masks to better protect ourselves in the next one. Put all that together, and a single three-hour social outing can result in two or three days of lost productivity. Or, put another way, a few hours of doing something we find intensely stressful will prevent us from doing things we enjoy for days. Therefore...the idea of pushing autistic people into social situations to make them better at it has, at its core, a fundamental logical fallacy.
@talitaza8862
3 жыл бұрын
@@digiscream Great comment. Wish I knew how we can battle ignorance of what it means to be Aspergian (on all levels of society). I only found out last week @36 and I am having difficulty explaining to my close family and friends. They think aspergers' struggles are the same as everyone else's. It takes a lot of energy to even to get them to listen in the first place and I am met with blank indifference. I asked them to at least watch some videos about Aspergers, but to no avail. How do I get them to see me? Advice would be greatly appreciated. PS: I have not yet been diagnosed and do not have the financial resources to get assessed, so I don't have a psychiatrist or psychologist who can help me help them understand.
@SweetiePieTweety
3 жыл бұрын
@@digiscream Thank you for sharing this. The layers are deep. When you attempt to describe what one social encounter can do to productivity and mental and physical and emotional health to someone who doesn’t experience this dynamic it just falls flat. Disbelief. It amazes me that when I share my reality of experience with NT’s it gets dismissed as not possibly being a possibility, yet I don’t dismiss other’s when they share they experience differently from me. I find this to be such a difference between the NT community and Autism community. We are surrounded by the reality others are experiencing differently from us almost continuously and accept we are different. Yet because NT’s are surrounded by primarily people who confirm their sameness, they disbelieve different could be possible. A conditioning of experience that is very difficult to reverse.
@Gustavogomes3005
2 жыл бұрын
I'm just finishing reading her book La Différence Invisible translated to Portuguse because I'm Brazilian and this comic is amazing and how swettie is about this theme and how it's toxic to talk about it at work, ''friends'' and people think it's a desease or a silly thing you are creating to excuse.
@a.g.demada5263
7 ай бұрын
It's thanks to that book if I understood I was autistic myself (I'm a woman). I had the chance to meet her two months ago and she dedicated my book
@daughterofelroi4369
3 жыл бұрын
I love your sense of humor.
@AngieBreshka
5 жыл бұрын
Il n'y a aucun sous titres ! C'est ridicule surtout que Julie Dachez étant française, on va être une majorité de Français à voir cette vidéo. Et puis une vidéo qui parle handicap sans sous titres, ça crains quand même. Sinon, de ce que j'ai réussi à comprendre, super bon discours 👏. Merci beaucoup Julie.
@pixelrond9057
5 жыл бұрын
Chaque chose en son temps ;)
@lisalacroix4147
5 жыл бұрын
Bonjour, Je suis membre de l'équipe d'organisation du TEDx auquel Julie a participé. Votre remarque est très juste et nous sommes en train de nous renseigner pour pouvoir faire ajouter des sous-titres à la vidéo au plus vite :).
@pixelrond9057
5 жыл бұрын
@@lisalacroix4147 un grand MERCI à vous :)
@AngieBreshka
5 жыл бұрын
@@lisalacroix4147 Bonjour, merci beaucoup pour votre réponse et votre travail :)
@happyjulien6275
4 жыл бұрын
clique sur "CC" puis "setting" >>> "subtitles/CC" >>> "french" pour activer les sous-titres en français ça marche nickel
@daniel.bonfim
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you very much, Julie.
@moshimoshi62
5 жыл бұрын
BRAVO Julie pour ton discours !! Je l'ai trouvé intelligent, drôle et émouvant.
@haddaoumthalatha1611
5 жыл бұрын
Julie you are a beautiful personne, it hurts to look at you because I see myself... i'm not diagnostiqued. I'm 40.
@john-yn5tr
5 жыл бұрын
it is because you're judging yourself. Put the judgment off and there will be no place for suffer.
@cristinacarmona8855
5 жыл бұрын
I totally love your TED talk. If you can tell me more info about Autism in girls since literature is so focused in Autistic boys please let me know
@ericlouclair2585
5 жыл бұрын
Minority! Now i am always majority! I will never go to a coutry where i am ideological minority! I am always ideological majority!
@MegaBloodrain
3 жыл бұрын
Well I've recently understood that their small talk isn't to transfer relevant information, it's a "social" necessity, they can't help but run their mouths any chance they get.
@Duncangafney1
3 жыл бұрын
I've often wonder whether NT's do it to avoid the truth, because in my experience NT's virtually without exception cannot handle the truth without having a meltdown.
@andreluizfr
5 жыл бұрын
thanks! definitely loved the book, specially for showing the female side of the Spectrum. we deserve respect. thanks from Brazil!
@dcaius1679
5 жыл бұрын
I have to say I'm quite annoyed to see yet another video about autism published without close captions... A lot of us autistic/disabled people need subtitles. Accessibility shouldn't be a second thought :/
@notblondeswede
4 жыл бұрын
use the subtitles function in the bottom right corner
@senasheila3589
3 жыл бұрын
Very informative✊🏼
@LangueDeGeekChaineYoutube
4 жыл бұрын
Merci Julie j espère apporter ma pière à l édifice un jour 👌
@MinxiFu
3 жыл бұрын
Fantastic.
@alexabadi7458
3 жыл бұрын
Bonjour Julie, j'ai toujours eu de gros problemes avec mon Francais, surtout l'ecriture. Je ne sais pas si mon Aspeger en est responsable, mais pour moi l'Anglais est beaucoup plus facile. Je suis tres curieux et j'ai beaucoup de passions, en revanche il y a des domaines ou je suis tres nul ! Notre Asperger fait de nous des etres tres speciaux... Si dans ta vie tu viens visiter la Floride j'aimerai beaucoup vous rencontrer pour pourvoir parler de notre autisme. Alex.
@alexabadi7458
5 жыл бұрын
So you do speak English, and quite well ! That's good to know because my French is terrible... :o)
@christianmasri4324
5 жыл бұрын
Respect !👍
@caridaddoucet7899
3 жыл бұрын
Hi my name is Caridad i have a friend who was just diagnosed and in her early 30. I feel like I want to be part of the change. An old statistic showed that 3 out od 4 individuals with Asp
@caridaddoucet7899
3 жыл бұрын
Sorry this is Caridad my phone cut me off. 3 out of 4 Asperger individuals are unemployed. I want to be part of the change but am not sure how to start. Would you be interested in exploring possibilities for change. I know you are french and i am American and laws may be different both countries are in deep criss over the untapped workforce and the work place is deficient at allowing accomodations for a healthy work place. It has been my experience as i research the erroneously informed corporate world . I believe many contributions can be made to all areas of to
@pantoise6650
5 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️
@john-yn5tr
5 жыл бұрын
j'aurais aimé que cette conférence, même si la stigmatisation est une réalité, soit plus positive, moins victimisante. Oui, le monde n'est pas simple quand on est autiste, peu importe à quel niveau du spectre on se trouve, mais je préfère les discours de Josef Schovanec, plus positifs quant à cette "condition". Ce qui est dit ici à un moment est: "quelle est l'importance de socialiser? Who cares ?" Par expérience, toute personne désirant avoir une véritable relation, peu importe sa nature. Quand je vois les progrès que font certaines personnes que je connais qui sont autistes sans déficience intellectuelle, notamment sur le plan social, je vois à quel point il est important d'apprendre à se connecter aux gens. Cela contribue au bonheur, mutuellement. Et n'empêche pas de se réaliser dans ses projets. Oui, cette conférence me laisse un arrière goût amer.
@michellegruber4187
4 жыл бұрын
john En fait, le discours de Joseph est complémentaire à celui de Julie. Le sujet est traité sous un angle différent. Pour faire passer son message Joseph utilise l’humour « bon enfant » en insistant sur les différences qui parfois sont excentriques de la part des autistes, son approche est légère et primesautière, il donne aussi l’impression d’être une personne heureuse et sa gentillesse qui est réelle nous fait oublier sa souffrance et l’horreur qu’il a vécue quand il était enfant. Julie est une fille, son spectre est vécu différemment. En bon autiste qu’elle est elle ne s’embarrasse pas de circonvolution et va droit au but. Elle annonce la dureté de la vie des autistes et leur souffrance, car ne vous y trompez pas, la souffrance est réelle. C’est très, très, très dur pour un autiste de vivre au milieu de ceux qui ne le sont pas et qui passent leur temps à les traiter sans aucun respect ni considération. Vous n’aimez pas le discours de Julie parce qu’elle ne « fait pas de cadeau » aux non autistes, la vérité dérange toujours. Le fait que vous préférez un discours positif ne vous place pas du tout dans la réalité, au contraire, mais dans la vie John, il y a toujours le côté positif et négatif dans chaque chose. C.est à nous d’en tirer les conséquences et avancer.
@lnmy9289
Жыл бұрын
Je suis d'accord sur le caractère victimisant et je rajouterais aussi les saillies clivantes entre NT et autistes. Personne TSA ayant envie de me lier aux autres, de prendre soin de mes proches, de recevoir leurs soins, je n'ai pas envie de cliver. De plus l'éthologie est mon intérêt spécifique. Sans compter que tel un hobby, je peux tout à fait passer du temps avec d'autres puis décider de passer à un autre hobby/besoin, passer du temps seule pour me réénergiser et ainsi tout est faisable à dose modérée. Effecitvement, j'ai besoin de mes proches calmes et compréhensifs. Des critères de sélection de mon entourage. Tout le monde ne se lie pas à la mode du début du 21ème, femme seule (esseulée?) se rêvant ultra autonome (je peux tout faire seule parce que mon éducation à partir des années 1980 dans ma classe moyenne éduquée me l'a fait croire). Note: je reviens de cette éducation à titre personnel. Je pense cependant qu'il est fort important pour tout un chacun de pouvoir tester des choses aussi bien de s'imaginer que tout tout seul c'est mieux (tout en se lamentant qu'on est trop seul et en burn out régulier sans en voir la cause de la conséquence). Je souhaite cependant ainsi davantage de cohérence entre ce qui est ressenti et le sens qui est en fait, je sais que c'est difficile quand on est autiste. Dans le discours de J.Shovanec d'il y a quelques années (pour être juste, il a peut-être depuis évolué dessus tout comme Julie Dachez), je ne valide pas le caractère l'autisme est une chance, car non, un défaut de hiérarchisation efficace des neurones (entre autres multiples difficultés) n'est pas une chance. Hors société où les instincts sont à peu près régulés par des règles de préservation de l'intégrité physique de l'autre et dans une certaine mesure verbale comme la nôtre, je pense que ce serait invivable pour beaucoup d'autistes.
@mhfaure3897
Жыл бұрын
👍👏👏👏👏👍👍👏👏👏
@Aiken47
3 жыл бұрын
I think more Autism info sessions should be turned on it’s head like this .
@supersunnywho7976
5 жыл бұрын
cool lady !!!!!
@regisgonthier5159
4 жыл бұрын
Moi pour vous j'ai été toujours une minorité vous qui m'avez tout vole ... l'individu ennemis comme vous dîtes quand vous passez avec vos enfants innocents et que vous le montrer du doigt en leur racontant n'importe quoi ...juste pour les rassurer sur le mal que vous leur faire ..mais très bientôt et je ne sera plus de ce monde ce que vous m'a été fait pour votre bien vos enfants vous le rendront et vivront cent fois plus dur que moi ...juste parceque vous ne voulez pas don et juste un petit peu de se que vous tous m'avez volé ceci se passer tel que c'est écrit...juste car vous resterez toujours égoïste et intéressé..
@infinite5540
3 жыл бұрын
It's a shame that mental health is a taboo subject for most people
@dizzeeg7528
3 жыл бұрын
People get more upset over tattoos then make up !
@Lasourisenfolie64330
4 жыл бұрын
So truue, and will always say what i think even if it can hurts because best is to be honest! ever, even to say you look like Trump now!;0)
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