Episode Transcript:
It has been said, and I believe said correctly, that a child's ego starts being formed by what they see in their mother's eyes. Now, that becomes important a little later on, but in the beginning, it's mom's eyes. So if a child looks up at mom's breast and looks at mom's eyes and sees unconditional positive regard, love, adoration, devotion, commitment, all of those wonderful words and principles, that baby's being formed right there.
It's healthy. Ego is being established. However, a lot of children don't see that when they look in Mama's eyes. A lot of kids look at Mom's eyes and they see drunken stupor apathy, not caring baggage, maybe even hatred. And that starts building that child's ego at that moment that you can't take that child back to those days. But what you can do is make sure of what that child sees in your eyes.
Make sure that that kid never sees hatred, that they never see or hear baggage that they never see, that you're more frustrated with them than you care about them. Make sure that when they see what that you look in your eyes, they see compassion and love and hope and dreams and absolute commitment that will never go away. Be aware of what's in your eyes and be aware of what they see.
Blessings.
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