Don't EVER say that again. "I hope I am good enough for you". This is you. You are perfect the way you are. I know that it's easy to say but you shouldn't even care if someone likes "this" you. Well like I said that's just you and that's perfectly fine. I love you for who you are ❤️
@millsmarie2184
7 жыл бұрын
It's pretty selfish for people to say "Oh I miss the old ___" or "She's changed" etcetera. As humans, we are constantly changing and evolving and as a fan-base or as supporters, positive change or just personal change in general shouldn't be judged or discussed as if it's wrong. With physical growth and mental growth, changes take place and it'd be completely inhumane for someone to stay the same way forever.
@oliviacharlotta545
7 жыл бұрын
Mills Marie yes.
@films139
7 жыл бұрын
Thanks for posting this video. It was such an amazing message to put out and spread. I connected to it in so many ways. I used to have awful anxiety and I let it hold me back. And I was this way, for about 5 years. So, the person that people met me as wasn't the person I was. And as I grew up and got older and started to get out of that anxiety and be myself. However, I was held back by everyone I knew. And I don't blame them because they can't be in my head, they don't know what I went through. But they held me back from being who I was. And for about a year I was so incredibly miserable because I wasn't able to be myself. My friends, kids at school, and even my family were telling me who I was and wasn't letting me change into the person I wanted to be. It was easier for them to put me in a box and a shy quiet person, instead of realizing I was actually outgoing and social. After pushing through, not caring, finding myself, and finding people that accepted me as who I actually was i have finally been so incredibly happy. People don't understand that sometimes people change...actually no, people ALWAYS change. And that's okay, and I'm so incredibly happy that u spread that message and that u have found who u are and have changed
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
so inspirational thank you for sharing this!! stay strong my love always here for u!
@ronisapir6030
7 жыл бұрын
TS i feel so much like you i hate it
@marychildress1
7 жыл бұрын
When i watch your old videos compared to your new ones i see someone more confident and i see you more happy. There is nothing wrong with finding yourself and being happy. I enjoy your new videos and your old ones. You're working so hard and im very proud of you. Keep up the amazing work and stay happy mel. You inspire me daily. Thank you for being you
@breburgess1780
7 жыл бұрын
mel i love you and i know there are going to be people that try to put you down but that shouldn't effect you, you're perfect the way you are people change, people grow, it happens there's no way you can stop that and you shouldn't want to because you're still the same person you have always been you're just growing up. don't let anyone put you down bby ❤️ i'll always be here for you and support you💖💖
@amoretteramos5425
7 жыл бұрын
Whether you've changed or not, nothing would make me think hate or judge u. I love how u can talk to us and express yourself. Ily Mel to infinity and beyond ❤️❤️
@kendrabaker5990
7 жыл бұрын
i'm about to rant hardcore just so ya know;) ::: ily mel, everyone changes, you're just growing up. if you pay attention to negativity then that's just a piece of happiness waisted, you're so amazing and i can tell that you're such a genuine person. and please, you do not have to explain yourself for your car video! cars are obviously something that makes you very happy so embrace it! you payed for it with your money that you earned. hate sucks and everyone's gonna get some at one point but you gotta fight through it and be who you are! don't apologize for being you. and that goes to everyone reading this, not just mel. so if you're reading this somewhere at sometime in this world, make today a great day, live it up. bc you're awesome, even if you haven't found that out yet;). have a good day y'all. keep smilin'
@HaileySani
7 жыл бұрын
you are so genuine and down to earth and i agree with every single thing you said. love you mel
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
+Hailey Sani aw thank you girl it means soo much. love you❤️
@dallicetressider1888
7 жыл бұрын
Mel, you are wonderful. Change is amazing and the change that you've gone through is even better. You have turned into a marvelous young woman and I envy how beautiful you are inside and out. Continue to grow and be exactly who you want to be. It should never matter what everyone else thinks because they are not you. The only thing I want from you (and what everyone else who loves you should want from you) is to see pure joy on your face. Smile always. ❤️
@anaverga8453
7 жыл бұрын
It's really nice that you opened up about this, all of this make us stronger
@alicedariva4196
7 жыл бұрын
mel stay strong, keep being yourself, your are awesome ! please stop listening to the haters they don't deserve your atention ! i love you and you are a girl that really inspire me ! please continue to make me proud of who you are becoming !
@skyw4005
7 жыл бұрын
I love you Mel as long as your happy and being yourself your perfect
@rubytaylor6368
7 жыл бұрын
It's so unfair that someone as young as you is subjected to such nasty comments. I think you're great, and incredibly brave for doing this. Love ya girl💖
@omaryspaola5034
7 жыл бұрын
I can't remember if you are 16 or 17 but I'm turning 16 now and I can relate with you so much, this is the time for finding yourself and caring for yourself mentally. You SHOULD change because you learn new things everyday. Every day I change. For the better
@lishtvoldacc2287
7 жыл бұрын
Omarys Font she's 17 :)
@Snoopdoggsjoint
7 жыл бұрын
You're such a strong person girl ... you are becoming a bigger loving, caring & creative youtuber. You explained yourself so well about the comments and I respect how handle everything ❤️❤️
@Snoopdoggsjoint
7 жыл бұрын
You handle **
@ariadnepapakonstantinou1225
7 жыл бұрын
WE LOVE U SOSOSO MUCH YOU HAVE MAKE SO MANY OF US BETTER PEOPLE AND INSPIRED US IN MANY DIFFERENT WAYS PLEASE DONT FORGET HOW MUCH U MEAN TO US AND DONT BE AFFECTED BY PEOPLE THAT CANT SEE WHO U REALLY ARE
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOU!! means so much. thank you girl
@laurengarcia431
7 жыл бұрын
But like being honest and open is something rare in KZitem thank you Mel I love you!❤️❤️
@annamatte8549
7 жыл бұрын
Ilysm Mel be you, people are hating on you. Who cares they shouldn't be on your channel, you are beautiful, amazing and so talented. *REALITY CHECK* everybody changes, if this so called change affects those hatersss let them be they don't deserve all this amazing content and appreciation you put out thank you sm for always being my inspiration 💕
@alexisbennett3759
7 жыл бұрын
Omg Mellll😩we as viewers and subscribers should not have let it go this far to where she has make a video on hate and this hate is more than just hate is basically discrimination on who she wants to be and that's wrong. If Mel wants to "change" she can and if don't like it then don't watch the videos and unsubscribe. Mel deserves better than this from people she calls her best friends and people that she basically looks up too. More love less hate💘
@gabriellachang2967
7 жыл бұрын
I lOVE YOU MEL!!!! You inspire me and encourage hun! You are maturing my dear, and you are genuine. praying for you mama!
@zionhill1517
7 жыл бұрын
I really enjoy your videos and I believe that you're very genuine and real with us. I don't think you've changed in a negative way at all. keep doing you ! we'll still love you💚!
@lali098
7 жыл бұрын
Mel! i wanted to say to you that i love you so much!💕 you are really such inspiration for me ! all i want is that you will be happy!💕 so plz do just whatever is good for you and makes you happy! i really love you 💕💕💕
@marierri
7 жыл бұрын
Listen Mel... change is normal and we change and progress everyday and its alright baby girl. Just fight through and ignore all these shitty haters who only go into destroying and tearing every person they find who is confident and naive! I found myself throughout the last month of August in 2017 and I love it, and believe or not everything i was worried about progressed and now i feel I'm perfect, although no one is perfect, i fit perfectly in my skin. I love you, Mel Joy and TBH i feel your one of the realist you tubers ever. Keep it up baby girl because you doing fine!!! 💜💙❤️
@caitlynsmith7795
7 жыл бұрын
Mel, we love you just the same. When comparing your old videos to your newer video, there is something different, but its good. Yeah, you kinda have a shopping addiction but, you do you! The point is, I will still enjoy you and your videos if you were the person you were in your older videos, or if you were the person we know now. ilysm!
@SaffronBarker
7 жыл бұрын
Everything you've said through this video I can totally relate! I love this. ❤️
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
+Saffron Barker so much love to you girl💕
@layangamil8942
7 жыл бұрын
HIIII Saffron!!!!
@romina5191
7 жыл бұрын
Saffron Barker I
@allisonmccutcheon3714
7 жыл бұрын
Saffron Barker hiiii
@alicetragni9314
7 жыл бұрын
Saffron Barker love you!
@ainsleeschulte6795
7 жыл бұрын
I think people are confusing the "change" from her old videos for a new found confidence.
@laurenhyde6141
7 жыл бұрын
Girl. To all the hate. Mel is clearly trying to understand where your coming from, bc she cares, showing that she is more down to earth than you think. She wants to understand, I mean she looked through her old videos to try and see where your coming from. Mel took the time to listen and understand you and it should go both way. If you feel like you have the right to comment on someones personality and their life then you should at least listen to their explanation. To Mel, Being you is the most important thing I LOVE YOU! Hugs and Kisses xox
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
thank you. this means more to me than you know and i love you more b!!
@laurenhyde6141
7 жыл бұрын
Awwww Mel♡
@hanamir5114
7 жыл бұрын
Mel Joy you don't have to live up to what anyone else wants you to be ...live up to who you truly are
@dila5133
7 жыл бұрын
It's so hard to see someone so loving and caring so frustrated. Mel, you are so right and please remember that we love you for who you are. Stay true to yourself. Such a role model lysm 💞💞💞
@cacitwins
7 жыл бұрын
Mel you are so beautiful inside and out and one of the most humble KZitemrs we follow and its breaks our heart that you even had to experience this. Love you girl please keep being you
@berlynguminski5442
7 жыл бұрын
I love you Mel! Your perfect just they way you are!
@BirdPlan
7 жыл бұрын
This is something that needs to be said and maybe it wont mean shit to anyone or maybe it will help just one girl change her ways. I don't have all the answers to life but what I do know is that growing up with sisters, allowed me at an early age to understand and appreciate the female struggle. I have the up most respect for girls simply because I don't know where you find the strength to deal with the pressure of always having someone judge or scrutinize your every move. You would think being a girl that you would understand how the smallest insult can ruin your self-esteem and have a lasting effect. I know that as a guy, if I tell a girl she's pretty, she won't believe me, but if I tell a girl that she's ugly, she'll remember it forever. I worry about having a daughter so much that it makes me almost scared to have kids, I don't want my little girl to ever experience what it's like having 1000's of girls that have never even met her, leave her hate comments telling her to kill herself and calling her nasty names like slut, whore, trashy, skank, fat, stupid, loser, bimbo, tramp, fake, cow, disgusting, ratchet, cunt, bitch. I would rather go through life and not experience fatherhood than to bring a little girl in this world just so people can beat the self-esteem right out of her.It's such a turn off when we see a girl writing hurtful/hateful comments to another girl. It makes no fucking sense, it makes you look jealous and desperate. Look at it from my perspective, If someone asked you "Do you find a negative hateful guy attractive?" Pretty obvious answer right? Well We don't find it attractive when you girls do it either and despite what you've been told or made to believe, the truth is looks aren't as important to us as you girls think they are. We will take a solid 5 that's a sweetheart over a girl that's a 10 but a Bitch any day. Any guy that tells you differently is just trying to smash and I bible that. Remember that what you say about Mel says more about you than it does about her. That's just keepin it 100
@taylor-ow4cr
6 жыл бұрын
You're a great person. We need more people like you
@olympiamae8978
6 жыл бұрын
thank you, i 100% agree, and i hope that girls who hate on others have read this and hopefully changed their ways. I don't even know you, but i have the most respect for you and what you have written here, so thank you.
@jadarosaline5899
6 жыл бұрын
Bird Plan INSPIRATIONAL! ❤️ much respect to you!
@splashythenarwhalaj534
6 жыл бұрын
holy crud that just spoke to me sosososo much. like i got a boyfriend who was my friends friend. my friend is gorgeous, i just kept thinking why me not her, and he said that she's gorgeous. and for a second i was hurt. but then he said but your drop dead beautiful gorgeous and nice
@nicolejawcson1822
6 жыл бұрын
Bird Plan inspirational! 😀😀😀😀
@staceelleonard
7 жыл бұрын
I don't know how a single person can dislike this video. Mel is SUCH a sweetheart and kind and this video looked so difficult to film and like this subject hurt you so much. You are amazing Mel!!! Don't even worry about the haters, you are growing up on a huge social platform and people don't like to see change. But growing up, you change as a person and it is NORMAL. Love yourself, and forget about those who don't because they're not worth your time girl💕xx
@jjjbabies
7 жыл бұрын
For the record I liked the car tour it was funny and different. Just be you girl lol you do you
@touchtext890
7 жыл бұрын
shes legit just more mature?? whats the problem .
@crybabyfan3815
7 жыл бұрын
Okay well she hates it so shut the fuck up
@touchtext890
7 жыл бұрын
BOY im agreeing with mel, wdym !
@emilyb4019
7 жыл бұрын
"changing isn't a bad thing, it never was." -shawn mendes
@capriay6456
7 жыл бұрын
Emily b SHAWNN 💗😩
@jaylaalle5827
7 жыл бұрын
Emily b awhh i love shawn
@esmeraldaalejos
7 жыл бұрын
Emily b Shawnie :')
@bellaverhoestra3386
7 жыл бұрын
YESS SHAWNNN❤️❤️❤️
@lyviajuarez1315
7 жыл бұрын
Emily B yes yes yes yes I thought of it too ahhhhhhh God bless Shawn
@Juicybomb0
7 жыл бұрын
Marija Fucking Žeželj translated this video on her channel and didn't even give you credits.. WTF
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
i will forever love you guys & will always be so grateful for having you guys in my life. thank you for everything babes.
@daniii2285
7 жыл бұрын
Mel Joy ❤️
@nikalatkovic
7 жыл бұрын
I love you so much and I support you 100%
@Haaaaaa46
7 жыл бұрын
Mel Joy its okeyyy head up girly❤️
@TheAmbermoo
7 жыл бұрын
Mel Joy so glad you have opened up on this it’s a hard thing to do sometimes, i love you💕
@harleighmarylou6130
7 жыл бұрын
Mel Joy I love you bunches
@ninnsx9470
7 жыл бұрын
Like ako ste ovdje zbog Marije Zezelj
@dracocor4347
7 жыл бұрын
Ninns X HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH
@branislavsladok4269
7 жыл бұрын
Ninns X da hahahhh
@endisrabovic1598
7 жыл бұрын
HAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAH
@maksimovicsuzana356
7 жыл бұрын
Ninns X yep 😂
@teodoraklopic3675
7 жыл бұрын
Daa
@janellethompson295
7 жыл бұрын
mel you are honestly the most inspirational and down to earth youtuber i watch 💗💗 everyone thinks that your change is a bad thing but what they fail to realize is that change is what made you feel happy and find yourself again, i think that is an amazing thing and i am so proud of you for taking time off to truly discover yourself again and as cheesy as it may sound you are soooo perfect and you don't need to change for anyone!!! God made you for a reason and you are made perfectly in him image :) ilysm mel!!! 💗💗
@phoebeferguson4250
7 жыл бұрын
this must have been so hard to film and put out there, like this if you got mels back.
@jasminamozetic9681
7 жыл бұрын
Phoebe Ferguson always 💕
@amaclasiccow9842
7 жыл бұрын
Phoebe Ferguson 😘❤️ always❤️😘
@edenturner4871
7 жыл бұрын
Phoebe Ferguson forever
@graceemma8811
7 жыл бұрын
we love and support u mel!!! stay strong 💞 stay u and we understand change is normal is good👍🏼
@sambacon6450
7 жыл бұрын
IM CRINGING SO HARD PHOEBE
@kovacseniko396
7 жыл бұрын
'changing isn't a bad thing and never was, but the end of the day, you are the same person'💕
@julialouise969
7 жыл бұрын
Kovács Enikő Shawn Mendes girrrllll 😍😍😂😂😂
@kovacseniko396
7 жыл бұрын
Julia Louise yeeees gaaal hahaha💕
@julialouise969
7 жыл бұрын
' and where your heart is. It doesn't change.'
@capriay6456
7 жыл бұрын
Kovács Enikő shawnnnn
@sarahc4584
7 жыл бұрын
SHAWNNNNNN!
@jennadetvay6019
7 жыл бұрын
this video couldn't of hit me more. i've never argeed to something more in my life. i've always been the person the pleases others, just so they feel happy. but it does eat you up, and it does tear you down. mel, you're my inspiration. this truly helped me, and i hope you are okay too. i love you. stay strong beautiful girl. you don't deserve the hate.
@katystafford2329
7 жыл бұрын
yes, this relates to me sooo much and you couldn't have said it better
@peytonclapperton8833
7 жыл бұрын
I've been watching you for two years now and I can guarantee that you have grown. Not changed. You are still loving, happy and mature and that's what's important. Positive growth is so important, seeing you grow and mature has been incredible. You can change physically but your heart and love for your subscribers has remained the same xx Ily ily ily ily!!!!!!!
@briannat1486
7 жыл бұрын
Peyton Clapperton YES
@alidanielle4016
7 жыл бұрын
Peyton Clapperton Mel needs to read this
@jordanspeck5014
7 жыл бұрын
Peyton Clapperton YES
@sarahdarden1222
7 жыл бұрын
YES i hope mel reads this
@alyssajoya
7 жыл бұрын
Peyton Clapperton couldn't have said it any better ❤️
@imieholland1055
7 жыл бұрын
i honestly didn't notice "a new Mel" or anything ; you've always been an amazing human being and as subscribers, we've always loved you (and I hope you know that😌)
@zharyavickers219
7 жыл бұрын
Imie Holland same! I didn't notice a difference
@lm8773
7 жыл бұрын
Ovaj video je marija zezelj kopirala prevela ga je i stavila na svoj kanal
@blaccbarbie6871
7 жыл бұрын
Profil ? Znaci, od danas postoji KZitem profil, a ne kanal :):)
@JilleOfficial
7 жыл бұрын
Tatjana Ćorović Na KZitemu se kaze CHANNEL(*KANAL*) a ne profil. Profil se zove na Facebook, Twitteru i Instagramu
@lm8773
7 жыл бұрын
EDIT TIPS BY.PETRA 💪💪💪💪vanimy💪💪💪💪💪💪💪
@armadarijeka1987
7 жыл бұрын
Tatjana Ćorović Profil?Ljudi jeste čuli sada postoji i youtube profil
@user-sy9gq5qm9b
7 жыл бұрын
ne, nismo znali..
@talyakapach6528
7 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE THE BEST! you always thanking us,now it's our turn to thank you. You are amazing,THANK YOU for giving me and not just me a better looking at myself and understanding. TANK YOU FOR EVERYTHING ❤️. (Btw: I'm sorry if my English is bad lol).
@stephaniemolina6888
7 жыл бұрын
I checked out the comments on her last video and all of them seem to be something around the fact that she just had a car recently why did she buy a new one or someone saying that they can barely afford a cheap car and she's out here with a 2017 one. Stuff like " people work hard and she's out here making videos sitting down. Because she doesn't spend her life having to struggle doesn't mean she doesn't deserve the things she gets. She has made KZitem her hobby and job. She makes good money I'm guessing from this; I've been subscribed not that long but from her videos she's such a down to earth person that we should support her. If you're subscribed it's to support her not to bash on her for saving her money and buying a new car. That video was requested and it's her channel. Yea she's changed, maybe even for the better. Don't come for her because it makes you feel better or because you may not have a 2017 Range Rover. Making a KZitem video takes time and people actually struggle with this sometimes. Not saying it's the hardest job but give her some credit. Who are you to comment on her life and say negative things about her when you don't know her. From what I've seen Mel is so sweet and the mel that took a break to figure herself out most likely was not satisfied with trying to meet some people's expectations. She's changed for the better.
@mindsQuill
7 жыл бұрын
absolutely! i agree with you on the fact that making youtube videos are damn difficult! i am a singer, writer, and linguist and i have been meaning to create KZitem content but man the amount of time and work and perseverance that go behind a two minute audio file is fucking incredible! and i could not stick to it because i couldn't do it. i dont know why people dont give enough credit to people who are creative. hell it doesn't require hardcore physical activity but it does require a fucking load of mental activity and dedication!
@Baby_lindseyy
7 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Molina 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 preach
@millie2031
7 жыл бұрын
Everybody changes and it is good, Mel you be you cause you are a beautiful person inside and out 💗💗
@katwieczorek5592
7 жыл бұрын
friends, let's get as many likes as possible for these positive comments so Mel sees the LOVE
@heyxoxoxo9573
7 жыл бұрын
Mel,please, go to channel "Marija Zezelj" and go to her video "Želim da vam kažem..." Of course you can't understand but you can put on the english tittle,try to understand and watch.She copied you,every word! I don't wanna hate on Marija but she is rude because she did it...
@nicolejawcson1822
6 жыл бұрын
hey xoxoxo yeah i translate her video, it's identical!
@katehernandez8225
7 жыл бұрын
Mel we always love you no matter what! You're an amazing hardworking person. You care about us so much and make these fantastic videos we all love! Don't listen to what some people have to say about you, because you know what they are wrong. Your saying that your changing, but to me your changing in a good way and not a bad way. When people grow up and start changing they learn new things because that's life.And Mel just know by the end of the day your the same person with this big heart, caring after one another and staying true to yourself❤️ the Mel from the beginning and the Mel now is the Mel we've always loved and will never stop loving and appreciating you. We appreciate you for posting this video and letting out your feelings and mainly being comfortable with us. Love you with all my heart Mel💗💗😘😘
@katherineagudelo-marin5690
7 жыл бұрын
Mel I'm so happy u told us about this, I'm changing too and u don't have to worry about the haters cuz haters got to hate and you're such a awesome, amazing , wonderful, beautiful person so be you always and that's the best thing u could give us ILYSFM so just be you because that's who u are❤️😘
@playgamegameplay3796
7 жыл бұрын
Sad ce Seseljka reci da je Mel nju iskopirala
@delashiacottrell6321
7 жыл бұрын
ok i feel like every person says this to every utuber like are they supposed to stay their 3 year old self or what everyone gets older and changed that's how life works
@prestonseidner9293
7 жыл бұрын
Delashia Cottrell spell right 👉 utuber really
@kendrabaker5990
7 жыл бұрын
Delashia Cottrell preach
@mrnris7
7 жыл бұрын
You don't have to prove it Mel. We, all the loyal fans , your friends & your family know how great you are. There will always be haters but there IS MORE people who loves you. ❤️
@AmanaRain
7 жыл бұрын
Honestly, am I the only one who didnt even think in that way about the car tour?? All I saw was a hard working girl who EARNED and WORKED for the money to get the chance to buy a car. People are getting the word "change" confused. If someone doesnt wear makeup when they first start a youtube channel then later on they start to wear it, is that someone "changing" or growing up. Its fucking growing up! Haters need to stop limiting people on youtube because of their expectations. These are real people behind pre recorded and edited videos. STOP TELLING PEOPLE HOW TO LIVE!!!!!!!!
@assmabennajim3818
7 жыл бұрын
YEEEEES
@monicaa614
7 жыл бұрын
Luxury Kittie change and growth intertwine. change is a beautiful thing, something we all go through constantly and nobody should be ashamed of that if its good
@ellaforbes-ackers9104
7 жыл бұрын
Luxury Kittie omg sameee
@florab.4957
7 жыл бұрын
Luxury Kittie yes same
@MagdalenaHaane
7 жыл бұрын
Luxury Kittie same!!!
@ryanelsmith
7 жыл бұрын
Baby girl you haven't "changed" you've grown I've watched your videos forever. No matter what you do will make me happy. Change is good💞
@edwardcullen3251
7 жыл бұрын
Baby girl? BABY GIRL? WTF.
@hjfhjtfhybighmmmjh7258
7 жыл бұрын
Edward Cullen 😂😂😂
@user-rf9he1cg9c
7 жыл бұрын
Stop. Take a breath. Calm down. We love you. Be who you are. Love yourself. Love always wins over hate.❤️
@nicolle1680
7 жыл бұрын
Amy soo true
@kourtneycox3784
7 жыл бұрын
It's ok Mel change is something a lot of us don't like but at the end of it it made us and you a better person ❤️❤️
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
so sweet. thank you so much love
@kourtneycox3784
7 жыл бұрын
Mel Joy no thx u You have helped me as well in so many situations so np but You are the one who should be receiving the thank u ❤️❤️
@lolopie7501
7 жыл бұрын
I'm sure a lot of the hate comments are from jealous people. I'm going to be honest, at first I didn't like you. Why? I didn't exactly know at the time. Then I realized with time that it was because I WAS JEALOUS and STILL AM. You're so positive, gorgeous, and uplifting. All qualities I lack and wish for myself. Now, I have self control so I never commented hate comments as I don't find them necessary, but a lot of people don't have self control over their jealousy. Please realize that most of the hate comments are from jealousy. If I haven't mentioned yet, I absolutely ADORE you now and appreciate you as a person. Love you!!
@katianaata4880
7 жыл бұрын
Mel: ily, ily, ily, ily ily, ily, ily, ily... WE LOVE YOU!!! Yes, absolutely change is more then okay. Change is what helped you find yourself. You don't have to change for anyone but yourself. The fact that you were willing to give us an explanation, when you did NOT owe us one, proves to everyone that you are a very loving and caring person towards your subscribers. Your true loyal supporters will always have your back and accept you no matter how much you change. Also, as you are changing, your subscribers are changing as well. We are growing up, just like you. So we should all grow together as one big loving family. Always be yourself and change as much as you need to. Thank you for being such an inspiration to me and many other people. ILYSM
@zeljana5105
7 жыл бұрын
Marija Zezelj copied this video!
@JilleOfficial
7 жыл бұрын
Zey Yes, only her video is in Serbian language, there is difference. In this video is every word is same as in Marija's video. She's just translate it this video and filmed and uploaded on KZitem!
@zeljana5105
7 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@matildabem5063
7 жыл бұрын
True
@msnvcc
7 жыл бұрын
totally
@evanoavecek2430
7 жыл бұрын
pa naravno kad je ljena napraviti svoj :P
@hannahblairbaer
7 жыл бұрын
ily girl u know whats up ur so strong. love always wins over the hate n u gotta lotta luv 💙
@13carat65
7 жыл бұрын
Hannah Blair both of your personalities are so similar! you guys should collab! xx
@zahreah
7 жыл бұрын
Hannah Blair love this darkness can't drive out darkness only love can do that
@user-rf9he1cg9c
7 жыл бұрын
Hannah Blair YES HANNAH❤️
@carmenalvarezsueiro4354
7 жыл бұрын
Being Elliszahreah 😍😍👏🏾
@wadeeaalghareeb997
7 жыл бұрын
Two of my faveeeees💙💙
@Sarah-pb2ov
7 жыл бұрын
Mel.... I love you♡ My motivation and inspiration💙Hope ya feel better🌼 my beautiful best friend that lives on the other half of the world🌙
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
thank you bb & i love you moreee!
@Beautyglamour161
7 жыл бұрын
What's so wrong with change ? Do they want you to act like your 8 year old self ? Everyone changes ... change is good. It's part of being human ❤️love you Mel 💗💞💖
@jordansamaia3693
7 жыл бұрын
preach!
@imeiprezime1262
7 жыл бұрын
ako ko dodje zbog Marije, koja je ovu curu iskopirala doslovno, neka lajkaaa
@milicadjurdjevic3661
6 жыл бұрын
Bukv ja
@jonpon22
7 жыл бұрын
this video shouldn't have had to happen...change/growth is a normal thing...especially as a teen when you're trying to find who you are
@gracez9113
7 жыл бұрын
Jonathan yes and the sad thing is she still needed to address it to the people who have been criticizing her >:( luv ya mel
@csmmurphy425
7 жыл бұрын
Mel, I really want to hug you. I love you, don't worry about feeling validated by people who hate you. You can't please everyone, you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't so you might as well just do whatever you want :) FYI, that Range Rover car tour was LIT AF and it was fun to watch don't worry about people who hate you, okay I mean that. You make my heart happy.
@madisynsheeder
7 жыл бұрын
Tbh I love the lazy hair and sweater look on you.✨
@amon4977
7 жыл бұрын
Bracale vladaju svijetom hahahaha :D
@daniad9543
7 жыл бұрын
Mel, if anything, your car video sets an amazing example of how hard work pays off! You are the kindest, most humble and hardworking KZitemr I watch.
@daniad9543
7 жыл бұрын
❤️
@crystalreynolds8645
7 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY❤❤
@katlynrodriguez9503
7 жыл бұрын
Totally agree! she has me ready to buy a new car and work hard to reach her goals! she's an inspiration
@silvanamen3125
7 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@minibeautybaby33
7 жыл бұрын
it does! its urged me to work harder for my dream car and my dream life!
@hannahregin8887
7 жыл бұрын
I hate how so many people confuse change with growth. We all change as we get older, it's a natural human thing to do.
@SyddieHermit
7 жыл бұрын
amen
@mariegallagher3905
7 жыл бұрын
I've had long hair since as long as I can remember, when I was 12 I cut 11 inches off and donated it, my hair was up to my shoulders and I loved it. I was too scared to do this for so long because I didn't want other people to not like it. When I went to school the next day I got probably 50 compliments, even from some people I have never talked to. I felt really confident and really good until I heard this one girl whisper that I looked terrible with short hair. I came home and just cried because I hated how I looked. I just wanted my long wavy hair back so bad. And then I realized that I let one person get to me and change how I saw myself. It doesn't matter if no one liked it because if I liked it then that's all I need. This is a superficial situation but the lesson is don't let other people's opinions scare you to stay the same. Girl if you want to shave your head, shave it. Mel, if you want to turn your channel into a food channel, change it!! The thing is, when your done with your life, if you only do things because of other people, it's not worth it. The people who love and care about you will be here no matter what
@maggals
7 жыл бұрын
Marie Gallagher I love this comment... And your last name #shameless
@jordynpetree1655
7 жыл бұрын
amenamenamenamenamen
@Stephanie-jv5mf
7 жыл бұрын
Maggals YAS HEY FAM :D
@taylorboudreaux461
7 жыл бұрын
Oml! That was so powerful...I got all teared up!
@darna02
7 жыл бұрын
I see u have so many comments from Balkan Region (Serbia, Bosnia, Croatia...), if u ask why, search on youtube one girl which name is ˝Marija Žeželj˝ she is actually copying u so dw about these comments :D
@ericamarie5129
7 жыл бұрын
ilysm mel and you're the most beautiful and humble person i've ever seen. please keep being you because it will always be enough❤️
@gracesarfo6244
7 жыл бұрын
When her voice was shaking...i was shaking soo sad😭😭 sometimes change is good, this time is was
@harleyfiehler3277
7 жыл бұрын
Grace Sarfo I cried watching this video because it was so emotional!
@miagarcia4946
7 жыл бұрын
i love you you're perfect in every way ❤️
@Lizbethcolinn
7 жыл бұрын
Yeah I get what people are saying by you "changed" like you are somewhat different but I think it's a good change. You were you back then but I think you weren't 100% you. You didn't really know yourself. After your break you found yourself. Your still the old Mel. Your just MORE you. You are 100% Mel. I'm glad you "changed" because your happier. You know who you are and I'm glad. Keep doing you! You're real and loyal supporters will stay and will understand and will be here no matter what. I love you Mel and I hope this makes sense. Love you ❤️❤️
@abbyrasmussen4
7 жыл бұрын
When Mel started crying I started crying, Mel I love you so much!!💕💕
@carolinemodrall3765
7 жыл бұрын
Abby Rasmussen me too😭💕
@madell8552
7 жыл бұрын
Before you comment something not kind or "constructive" just remember that we are all human and think about how Mel/someone would feel if they/ her read that!
@melodysun6031
7 жыл бұрын
Madison Wheat Constructive criticism is not supposed to be kind. It is supposed to be suggestions to improve the overall quality of her content or personality. To provide constructive criticism means there is something wrong. It just may be me, but if someone were to criticise how I act, I would be appreciative for the suggestion(s).
@kriss3028
7 жыл бұрын
Mel, Marija Zezelj is copied your video..
@selmahodzic9490
7 жыл бұрын
black wolf ovako ti izgleda kad Balkanci pokusaju pricati engleski..
@kriss3028
7 жыл бұрын
Selma Hodzic dap 😂
@janadanevska2326
7 жыл бұрын
Copied your video* 😚
@alyssamathews03
7 жыл бұрын
UHH WA--?? This video confused me so much because I never noticed a difference at all!?!? You're still down to earth, kind, goofy, and put other people's feelings first. Seriously, wth changed about your character???? I love you Mel, and hope I can find a friend like you to be with me to infinity and beyond. You have such a beautiful soul, I hope you know that 💙💙💙
@kenziepogue9870
7 жыл бұрын
Alyssa Mathews RIGHT!! Good for her that she got a new, very nice car! She busted her ass for that.
@neekshunt
7 жыл бұрын
I'm very new to your channel. I actually subscribed after watching the car tour video, because although I don't have a Range Rover, I found you relatable haha. I thought you were a funny, humble and joyful person, and loved the video, not finding it superficial or showy-offy at all. So I know it's hard, but ignore the hate. Take the time to figure out who you are (which I think you have). And be proud of the person you have grown into.
@Cyprinophobics
7 жыл бұрын
Anika May of
@mar3676
7 жыл бұрын
..oh my god. i love you to death mel, its okay...im honestly crying along with you...you'll always have your loyal subscribers and best friends...❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ i love you to death, you're so beautiful mel. dont let anyone tell you that you're someone you're not. you're becoming a successful young woman and im so, so, so proud. you make my heart, very happy. and i hope you know that 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕
@smile-ks7un
7 жыл бұрын
my heart dropped in this video and i don't think it ever came back up. seeing her shake and try to hold back the tears and frustration was heartbreaking. no human being like mel deserves the hate or to feel this way. she is so charismatic and kind. she cares for others more than she cares for herself. she matured and changed because she grew up. #weloveyoumel
@carmenalvarezsueiro4354
7 жыл бұрын
#weloveyoumel
@carmenalvarezsueiro4354
7 жыл бұрын
madison elizabeth so beautiful ❤️
@coritreeger
7 жыл бұрын
#weloveyoumel
@julesm4508
7 жыл бұрын
madison elizabeth #weloveyoumel
@payquantv7572
7 жыл бұрын
madison elizabeth #weloveyoumel
@johanna6611
7 жыл бұрын
ok guys I'm writing this comment to you bc there are so many comments and Mel is probably never going to see this. I just wanted to say that I know Mel for a LONG time now. Since the beginning, there were a lot of breaks like times she didn't upload videos. Some where short and the last one we all we remember was pretty long. And she came back. Yea she came back fucking DIFFERENT. She came back more healthy, she came back more confident, she came back more comfortable in her own skin, she came back STRONGER. I don't know why y'all can't see, with "y'all" I mean the part of you guys that doesn't like the "new" Mel, I don't know why you can't see that she's still the exact same person. Just because her personality changed into something more positive is she still our beautiful Mel. The way we love and need her. It hurts me so so much to see her crying because I know that the reason is so unnecessary. It hurts to see how her confidence is getting less with every minute of this video. I wish I could put a smile on her face which lasts forever because it makes my heart super happy yk!? The most funny part of her "come back" was, that people said that she gained weight. Bro can we just take a moment and see how unbelievable healthy and beautiful her body is now? Gaining weight isn't always negative. She's perfect to me. Perfect in the way she spreads love, perfect in the way she gives us more confidence and perfect in the way she does what she loves. It makes me sick that there are people out there which want to be EXACTLY like Mel but they just can't, alone because of their way to treat other people. And just because they can't be like her, they start to hate. They start to see all the bad things, which they hate about themselves, in her. My beautiful baby, excuse my english it isn't my mother language and keep doing what you love. Even if it's hard sometimes, try to ignore the "hate" and focus on the love we're giving. This text probably doesn't even make sense, but I'm happy that I kinda took these thoughts of my chest. Enjoy your day (since you're probably reading it in the morning), I love you so much.
@scarletsuarez8091
7 жыл бұрын
johʌnnʌ totally agree
@caitlinfeldtmann3674
7 жыл бұрын
johʌnnʌ I really hope she sees this. and I'm really glad thankyou xx
@serenityd2432
7 жыл бұрын
We need more people like you in the world
@Alayamone
7 жыл бұрын
johʌnnʌ 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@milajones7005
7 жыл бұрын
I love you Mel you are perfect ignore everyone who is judgmental. Preach.
@LakinMaria
7 жыл бұрын
I hate how everyone makes change seem like this awful thing. I personally feel like change is good and healthy!!
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
exactly! love you b
@krn4596
7 жыл бұрын
This is not about the video but damn your hair looks amazing maybe a hair care routine ?
@scarlettgann7710
7 жыл бұрын
Dee Dee ikrrrr how dose she grow it so fast
@curtisrossjr8911
7 жыл бұрын
Scarlett Gann rogaine
@livwalters5125
7 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry you had to film this. You're so strong mel and you seriously continue to inspire me everyday. Keep going girl 💛
@mackinliecourington1041
7 жыл бұрын
You can't please everyone, ESPECIALLY when it comes to the internet. I can only speak for myself but you've never disappointed when it comes to your content or your personality. You're one of my favorites to watch because I can tell how much you care. And I hope you continue to grow and develop because first of all it's normal and secondly you deserve to have the freedom to express yourself however you want through this platform, without any fear of judgment. Screw the haters, lots of love Mel 💕
@dunja7171
7 жыл бұрын
A famous serbian youtuber marija zezelj literally translated this video and uploaded it on her own channel hoping that no one would stumble upon your channel and find out the truth. Hopefully we all did. You seem like such a sweet person, so you gained one follower more. x
@imfromneverland3692
7 жыл бұрын
Hmmm idk actually I didnt notice this "new Mel" at all... I mean you kind of changed your clothing style a bit I think (?) but Its actually more similar to what I wear and like, so I didnt mind I guess. If I think of your old vídeos then yeah... I think there's been a change, but because you were 15 and now your are what seventeen? Well If I look into my fourteen fifteen self I've also changed!! Me and everybody! But it isnt actually a change, Its just growing up, being mature... And thats what you explained on the video. The thing is you started young and ppl are watching you grow... Other youtubers would start with twenty years old where the ""changing"" is not that big as they are adults. It actually makes me sad that you have to apologize or explain yourself just for growing up... Everyone does... Keep doing what you like, just that.
@maksimovicsuzana356
7 жыл бұрын
(Č)Marija Žeželj, she
@kelciesimpson5386
7 жыл бұрын
if you want to drop $3000 on a bag DO IT if you want to buy a new car DO IT!! mel look at how far you have come as a person and an entertainer. you're amazing and we love and support you. you have worked hard for this so do what makes you happy thats the most important thing
@emma.gilliver5013
7 жыл бұрын
kelcie simpson Totally agree, well said too. Very inspirational
@elizadent9066
7 жыл бұрын
You're an absolute inspiration!! I love you Mel and I hope you continue to find yourself. Everyone is constantly changing and just because your life is on social media doesn't mean you have to please everyone. LOVE LOVE LOVE #lovemel
@The13JMN
7 жыл бұрын
Stay strong mel! You're an amazing person and dont let anyone else let you think or change that. Try to stay positive and let yourself be free and if no one likes who you are, screw them, because you are you and thats all that matters in life. Stay you and stay strong. Love you xox
@MelJoy
7 жыл бұрын
thank you for this love it means soo much. i love you
@desireelynn4251
7 жыл бұрын
Society forces us, as teens to try to "fit it." I suffered with trying to fit so much growing up. But I have learned that trying to be a person you aren't isn't okay and it won't make you feel better at the end of the day. Mel is some one who helped me realize that. I love her for being so real. She creates videos with love which many KZitem lack. Love you Mel and thank you so much for all you love you give us back
@vanjarankovic4644
7 жыл бұрын
Ne mislim da je slucajnost sto ovaj video ima 12 minuta i Marijin...
@selmalovexlove6298
7 жыл бұрын
bro wtf i've never noticed any change whatsoever, i really don't understand why people look for things to hate on. i've loved mel's videos since day one and i will always love her😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️
@EmmaJannsen
7 жыл бұрын
Mel, you are the one youtuber I know who could never be described as "superficial" or "spoiled" or anything near a bad personality. You're so sweet and in every single video, you always express how thankful you are for your fans and how you wouldn't be where you are without us. You deserve to be able to change. You deserve to be happy. You deserve to have an awesome range rover. You haven't changed; you've become more confident. And that's something you need to be happy with yourself! And if that took you taking a break from youtube, or dying your hair every 2 days, so be it! You're gorgeous and have an amazing personality. We love you, Mel!!! ❤️
@arianacicc5280
7 жыл бұрын
You may have change on the outside(clothing, hair, etc.) but on the inside you are the same, you are sweet and funny and I love that you aren't afraid to show who you really are, it's honestly annoying that people can't be happy for you because you are amazing. Ilysm and please don't let anyone take you down, this made me cry , I felt so bad. Just be you girl and just continue to be yourself.💓💓💓💓😘😘😘 no hate, my opinion
@mmeiroo
7 жыл бұрын
Hey Mel, this one youtuber copied your video completely. If you wanna see it or do something about it just type Marija Zezelj - Zelim da vam kazem You wont be able to understand it since its in Serbian but you can most definetly do something about it
@amandaelvins2311
7 жыл бұрын
❌MEL, I HOPE YOU READ THIS❌ Awh Mel ily and idk. this "new" you is amazing and I honestly can't see a difference other than you're happiness tbh. Now you seem more confident and sure of YOURSELF. you're truer to YOURSELF. and that's what's so amazing about this video. Don't go back to worrying too much! Keep up what you're doing and stick w who you found yourself to be. Don't let the comments allow you to lose sight of who you really are as a person ❤️❤️❤️ be yourself, That's all that matters. We'll always love you. Amanda
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