Let them Go, noone is permanent , everyone is temporary in life. The one who is yours will never leave YOU🙂
@vinayaka004
2 жыл бұрын
last line is bullshit
@barbie8891
2 жыл бұрын
Well said.
@pratyush3737
2 жыл бұрын
*These lines are fascinating in Quotes only, But very hard in real life situation*
@amandeepsandhu2266
2 жыл бұрын
🦋
@dr.selfimprover5329
2 жыл бұрын
Kahana aur bolna aasan hai ese
@paarthkanwar9447
2 жыл бұрын
Just yesterday I was wondering if Chetan sir could make such a video I wanted somebody to push me out of it. Thank you♥️ back to my track again !!
@keertishukla1288
2 жыл бұрын
Same here
@ameyadeshpande6208
2 жыл бұрын
Sir I work with Deloitte Usi and busy for the whole day. I am 29 and working on marriage prospects( Though not successful yet). I like your mantra of detachment, and focus on my work which really helps me ignore the stuff ( Icing part). Keep making these kind of videos. We guys need it Sir
@seraphsingh6841
2 жыл бұрын
Push yourself
@anonymousbeing5662
2 жыл бұрын
same here bro .
@For_greater_good
2 жыл бұрын
Chal cheete.. aage badh!! 👊🏼
@jinfin221
2 жыл бұрын
Only things that help 1) Workout everyday( it releases dopmaine, the only thing that helps) 2) Learn a new language/musical instrument/ any new skill( learning something new releases endorphins, something we need) 3) If you were always lonely like me(with no or very few friends), try solo traveling just once, it'll help you realize most people are lonely and still doing ok. 4) Read philosophy books( specially eastern one and few western ones like Stoicism, Cheerful nihilism) you'll deffo feel better. Please do this and you'll feel better within few months.
@jinfin221
2 жыл бұрын
Also, don't watch bollywood movies in which she always comes back in the end lol watch movies like Kabhi haan kabhi na.
@arijitmondal6215
2 жыл бұрын
Sahi hay vai
@ankitSharma-uo6zf
2 жыл бұрын
don't read pilosophical books ever 😂 everything will seem meaningless after that :(
@jinfin221
2 жыл бұрын
@@ankitSharma-uo6zf Bro it is meaningless that's why it is wonderful. I was going through a horrible time when I wrote this now I'm doing okay not completely good but kinda ok. I started training muay thai and I love it. Lol
@arafat_arslaan
2 жыл бұрын
I suppose m older den u... But I wish u were my elder brother... Everything u said works ..
@vibhu613
2 жыл бұрын
I am single and have never been in relationship ........ don't know why I am watching😅
@GetupandRise
Жыл бұрын
Suno Manohar mere paas aa jao
@brokenheart987-i5x
9 ай бұрын
ek bar aakar dekh le Bhai mai us raste se ho kar aaya hoon aur char din ho gaye wapis aaye ek bar chakar laga aa yaar
@DK-js8cz
9 ай бұрын
Us bro us 😂😂
@chauhan_61
8 ай бұрын
Sabka number ata hai 😊
@TANUSHKUMAR
5 ай бұрын
Bcz u don’t have anything better to do
@Syro07
2 жыл бұрын
Not the hero we deserved , but the hero we needed
@Mahendersingh-ln6ig
2 жыл бұрын
Very nice advice
@tanishmalvi4398
Жыл бұрын
S Jaishankar sir😅
@jinfin221
2 жыл бұрын
If you feel depressed because of 2-3 years breakups then remember there are some people who had 20+ years of marriage before divorce and they still move on.
@avigyangogoi1062
Жыл бұрын
After long time people becomes bored
@lifeurgeandfeat5610
Жыл бұрын
Your contact number pls, brother.. 🥺
@GetupandRise
Жыл бұрын
@@avigyangogoi1062yeah so same goes with short time relationships
@tarunbaniyal6140
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate this to myself as ended up wasting 2.5 years post breakup at a very crutial age while writing CAT. Thankfully, recovered from the loss in time & did MBA from one of the top Institute in India and saved my career. So true, Sir.
@SonuKumar-by5el
2 жыл бұрын
Good brother
@globe_gossips
2 жыл бұрын
Grt, I have wasted almost a year. Nd still going through it.
@priyeshchoubey3884
2 жыл бұрын
@@globe_gossips hnnn to chtya ho isha kriya kro tim hai to dusri dhund lo usse pyaar mt time pass krna khelo khudo kuch intresting sikho paisa kamao bhai
@Flashonly
2 жыл бұрын
@@priyeshchoubey3884 Sahi h Bhai 4 line me life khatm krdi tumne to😂😂😂😂😂
@faizanriyaz281
Жыл бұрын
salay yeh MBA walo kay sath e kyu hamesha hota hai
@amitshuklakipathshala8782
Жыл бұрын
Chetan Bhagat सर , इसी तरह जागरूक करते रहिए हम भटके हुए युवकों को, सर आपके इस कार्य के लिए हम आपके सदा आभारी रहेंगे
@ManishSharma-ry6uj
2 жыл бұрын
Sir I am also stuck very badly due to she left me
@sarthakpandey3522
2 жыл бұрын
Well said Chetan sir! , I think it would be better if someone left you at the right time so that you can avoid wasting more time which could have been wasted. Now once if she has gone ,you can utilise that saved time to make yourself worthy 🙏🏻
@binodpathak9601
2 жыл бұрын
Well said 😯😯 what an intellectual statment 🙏🏻🙏🏻
@mdakifsiddiqui4597
2 жыл бұрын
once she is gone.... u will totally fucked up for 1-2 years
@vikrant_bhise
2 жыл бұрын
@@mdakifsiddiqui4597 true but re read his comments. If suppose she is not gone till 2022 you will be still in dillusion that she is with you. And if its destined for her to leave she will leave in 2023. But imagine she left you in 2020 may be your 1yr will go waste in crying and thinking about past...but atleast 2022 will bring back your Life. This is my condition right now. And this comment made me think alot. She got married last yr and in April 1 yr got completed yet i am thinking about her but this comment really made me think alot about what i am doing emotionally to myself
@saivivekbalina8184
2 жыл бұрын
Every new generation kid should listen to all this. This is very crutial and important
@idevmishra8322
2 жыл бұрын
I needed this video badly today...not only for breakup but also a big understanding of life...Thanks Chetan Bhagat Sir for this video
@AbhishekKumar-py8ro
2 жыл бұрын
Guys, what sir has said is absolutely correct. Trust me, literally, I am the guy sir is talking about in the video. It's been two years since my break up and fortunately I started doing the same thing sir said and I am far better than before. I watched this video after two years and felt proud that I did the right thing...... Change is massive psychologically and physically......just keep going.....there is light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you sir for this video......I am sure this will save a lot lives. ❤️
@kaifnk4237
Жыл бұрын
Bhai aap break up me. se kaise baher aaye ho batoge
@poetictriangle1037
4 ай бұрын
How you come out of breakup pain ?
@iamadityavaishy
Жыл бұрын
2:50 - 3:50 Pain of break-up== Pain of death Fantastically explained Mujhe mera pain yaad aa gaya 🫡
@hit231
2 жыл бұрын
Hehe I had few months back and I thought it's the end of life but now I realised that how fool I was that I wasted the most valuable time of my life .... My dear young friends it's normal for a human being to feel such emotions but we are not tree we should try to move on , time heels everything..........by the way when I remember the past discussion between us I always laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@amannai4114
2 жыл бұрын
Chetan bhagat is gem💎. he is actually making video which younger generation is facing.
@AngshumanVI
2 жыл бұрын
This video helped me a lot. Thank you, Sir. My ex broke up with me a few months ago, and now she is getting married. It's clear that she moved on very quickly in life. I was stuck emotionally, but finally, I am learning to let go of the situation and focus on myself and my life.
@gauravvashisth3415
2 жыл бұрын
How do you manage these things?
@AngshumanVI
2 жыл бұрын
@@gauravvashisth3415 Take as much time as needed. You are going to feel very bad for maybe 2-3 months, and nothing can be done about that. Try to keep yourself distracted as much as possible. You will still remember her, obviously, but that is part of the healing procedure. Don't get into another relationship right away because it may not be worth it, and if possible delete everything like pictures, videos, etc. of hers from your phone. If it is not possible, then save them somewhere you don't access regularly at least and delete them from your phone. If possible, do things that take your mind off the matter, like going to gym...or you can join a club or something, but whatever you do, surround yourself with people - who are not romancing each other. In 2-3 months, you will be in a much better place :) all the best.
@vikrant_bhise
2 жыл бұрын
Same here she got married after being in 10 yrs of relationship. Its been 1 yr for her marriage i am still into my past and memories also destroyed my career couldn't able yo focus. I know this is wrong i also know she has moved on i also know what i should do for me and my family but yet each and every passing day my emotions are not controlled and it is just destroying my career. I am 30 and still jobless giving govt exams but couldn't focus on studies. Was very close to selection in 2021 but she left and everything goy destroyed. I was working hard from 2016 for govt exams for me my family and both of us and specially for her Father so that due to caste difference he would accept me.. but she left me saying parents are everything for her 26 yrs > 10 yrs. And now i am in paind and grief i was working and wasted my 4-5 teenager time of making career for her and she got married. I also know nothing is left now. She is married. She got physical. Like nothing is left. Yet I don't have any other option now. Due to her my parents too got hurt. They consider her daughter and she committed to marry me but she ran away . My parents are worried about my career. I am 30 yrs with no skills and only option for me is working hard and focusing on my study and take that govt job but really i can't focus on my mind. That intensity is lost. No control on emotions. Uninstalling installing Instagram for lakhs of time yet controlling to not look at the chats and account. Really dont know where my life is going. 2021 was the year i was so close to crack my govt exam but everything got ruined. Yoga meditation prayam did everything... self talking everyday. Yet couldn't forget her. Also seeing couple on Insta make me feel cry. I have stopped travelling too. I live in Pune those memories flashes.. my exams are near i also gave many exams recently yet couldn't clear pre exam where there was a time i used to clear pre exams easily. This is last and final moments for me . My parents are waiting for my success. I know everything. I know being emotionally weak just not gonna work. I also know if i didn't forget the past it will just delay my success. This is my last attempt. I really want this badly. What i started i want to finish it . Not for her not for her dad who said 5 yrs he couldn't clear the exam he will bring you on road . But for me. My self respect. My parents and my future Life. I hope i live my life how i used to live. I hope i can laugh whole heartedly again. I hope i be the idol son for my parents. 14/5/2022 . 3.36PM , Pune
@rehan8803
2 жыл бұрын
@@vikrant_bhise bhai sab ke saath hota hai,mai bhi abhi aisi condition me hu Bass himmat rakho aur ek baat suno bhai jaane waalo ko sirf ek glti ki talaash rehti hai ya ek bahane ki, wo aapko deserve nhi krti thi kismat aapki nhi uski kharaab hai,aap ab ache se pdho apne maa baap ke liye mehnat karo, i hope aap jaldi theek hojaayege !
@antrikshachatterjee368
2 жыл бұрын
@@vikrant_bhise Think about ur future and work hard forget the past it was for good Not worth wasting ur life
@VIVEKKUMAR-ih4gd
2 жыл бұрын
🙂Pain is directly proportional to attachment and the Golden precious time one spends with her/him
@venkyshinde9482
2 жыл бұрын
What a great Man😍 Sir I have been passing my days in such stupid things as you mentioned, today I realized. Thanks legend 😊
@nitika008
2 жыл бұрын
I can relate to this topic very well. My ex husband decided to divorce me and I wasn’t prepared for it. It came all of a sudden. It was very challenging for me and it took almost 5 years to come out of it. With time your wound heals but scar is still there. Just want to say not men but women also goes through the same way as men do during their break up or divorce.
@sikandarrinwala3121
2 жыл бұрын
Mere shaath bhi yahi huwa he bohat pain huwa he ? Abhi kya kar rahe ho
@PraharshRaj
2 жыл бұрын
Stay strong that's the only way
@Urban_monster6278
Жыл бұрын
Now r u married or not ??
@vikrant_bhise
2 жыл бұрын
Same here she got married after being in 10 yrs of relationship. Its been 1 yr for her marriage i am still into my past and memories also destroyed my career couldn't able yo focus. I know this is wrong i also know she has moved on i also know what i should do for me and my family but yet each and every passing day my emotions are not controlled and it is just destroying my career. I am 30 and still jobless giving govt exams but couldn't focus on studies. Was very close to selection in 2021 but she left and everything goy destroyed. I was working hard from 2016 for govt exams for me my family and both of us and specially for her Father so that due to caste difference he would accept me.. but she left me saying parents are everything for her 26 yrs > 10 yrs. And now i am in paind and grief i was working and wasted my 4-5 teenager time of making career for her and she got married. I also know nothing is left now. She is married. She got physical. Like nothing is left. Yet I don't have any other option now. Due to her my parents too got hurt. They consider her daughter and she committed to marry me but she ran away . My parents are worried about my career. I am 30 yrs with no skills and only option for me is working hard and focusing on my study and take that govt job but really i can't focus on my mind. That intensity is lost. No control on emotions. Uninstalling installing Instagram for lakhs of time yet controlling to not look at the chats and account. Really dont know where my life is going. 2021 was the year i was so close to crack my govt exam but everything got ruined. Yoga meditation prayam did everything... self talking everyday. Yet couldn't forget her. Also seeing couple on Insta make me feel cry. I have stopped travelling too. I live in Pune those memories flashes.. my exams are near i also gave many exams recently yet couldn't clear pre exam where there was a time i used to clear pre exams easily. This is last and final moments for me . My parents are waiting for my success. I know everything. I know being emotionally weak just not gonna work. I also know if i didn't forget the past it will just delay my success. This is my last attempt. I really want this badly. What i started i want to finish it . Not for her not for her dad who said 5 yrs he couldn't clear the exam he will bring you on road . But for me. My self respect. My parents and my future Life. I hope i live my life how i used to live. I hope i can laugh whole heartedly again. I hope i be the idol son for my parents. 15/5/2022 . 3.36PM , Pune
@sangeetachaudhary6820
2 жыл бұрын
You will surely do good....meri purri blessings hai apko.bhut jaldi bhut acha hoga apki life m good luck to u😇😇and i will pray fr u...aap bhut aage jaoge...kyunki apki battein padhkr lga aap bhut strong ho😤 Paacha jeetoge aur apni ex se bhi zyda khush rhoge...she did not deserve this gold👌👌
@Vishwajeetsingh-li7hu
2 жыл бұрын
I left my ice and improving my cake.
@flyingbeastnotherfanclub6658
2 жыл бұрын
Why the title depicts stereotype that females only leaves boy chod gyi . It can be chod gya .
@suyashprksh
Жыл бұрын
लड़की मत ढूंढो, साथी ढूंढो।
@VivekMishraMusic
7 ай бұрын
Sab ek jaise hai
@Kumardinesh313
6 ай бұрын
Sathi se pehle ek ladki hi dhundhni padti hai 😅
@shekharkumar614
2 жыл бұрын
I almost wasted 1.5 years in breakup pain. Stay happy, find new girl. Career, wealth and power is what you need to success. Not a girlfriend. You will get a good deserving one after success.
@ashutoshthapa3184
2 жыл бұрын
Been disturbed for about 1 year . called her on her birthday, wished her and she immediately cut my call . That day I realise what's mine value for her . Immediately I block her on everything , feeling good now . She teached me a good lesson. Moreover I don't have nothing bad for her in my heart. Realised that everybody has a right to choose. 😌
@Sarcasmka14
7 ай бұрын
3 Things matters for men Career Career Career (To sudhar jana ladko...koy nahi saath dega aagar career nahi huva to...full practical & experience se bats raha hu,)
@Channelastic
2 жыл бұрын
What if this happens in married life? Your partner ditches you and leave. Not only the entire life of the other half but also the lives of the kids could be at stake. Getting ditched after marriage is much more vulnerable which can lead a person to depression.
@ketakizambre6613
2 жыл бұрын
True this! We really need to accept the one person with his pros and cons and stick to the same person unconditionally this the only way to sustain family culture of India which is best system for one's moral support and overall mental health.
@Channelastic
2 жыл бұрын
@@ketakizambre6613 Well said, Ketaki ji. Love should always be unconditional otherwise, it's not love it's only infatuation.
@ankuj7808
2 жыл бұрын
बच्चे न करना ही समझदारी है।
@Yours608
2 жыл бұрын
@@ketakizambre6613 bahot Accha. Very true.
@kaushikshetti
2 жыл бұрын
Better not marry
@Flexgames007
2 жыл бұрын
Respect sir almost it's been 1 year and i felt that is my story and i need to improve myself now Thank you 💝
@koushal-mh3hi
2 жыл бұрын
More power to you
@anonymousbeing5662
2 жыл бұрын
in my case , it's been 3-4 yrs , and i am still stuck in the past , too hard to move on .
@sanjnaplawat7151
2 жыл бұрын
Sir this is the stuff of immature people. If someone is mature, then the person has the ability to take their life decisions. It's a blessing in disguise that an immature person shows true colors beforehand. Shaadi k baad esa insan will obviously make ur life hell, and then taking divorce is another big step. Celebrate that a loser shows true colors phle hi. Ye bhagwan jagah banate h kisi ache insan k liye 🙏
@VIVEKKUMAR-ih4gd
2 жыл бұрын
Wowwh
@lakshitgaur9536
2 жыл бұрын
Yours right.
@vsancheti6433
2 жыл бұрын
Exactly, just believe that someone worth your love is waiting for you and breakup is just a true gift given by nature so that u can meet smn that person destined by nature
@lakshitgaur9536
2 жыл бұрын
@@vsancheti6433 right brother
@lakshitgaur9536
2 жыл бұрын
We all are together and we with chetan sir will make best out of life. 😎
@shrikantDhatrak
2 жыл бұрын
Breakup is a wake up call if take it positively 🤣😅😅
@inspiringothers4320
2 жыл бұрын
Sir u r really wrong this time.... I'm a girl n I wasn't able to handle breakup well. I did wasted my 2-3 years. I regret it a lot. My health n studies/ career just went down n down. I got soo stressed out that I got diagnosed with stress related diseases. I can't express that feeling of obsession. It made me exhausted mentally n physically. I was unable to focus. I used to constantly compare myself with others, forcing me to think what's wrong with me. I felt worthless. I doubted myself on everything. Confidence just went down. Wasted a lot of time on social media stalking. I agree with u when u compare death with breakup. After wasting 2-3 years, I'm now in a much better place, more stable. Only thing I'm scared of is that what if I end up wasting more time on this sadness n not letting go of that breakup. U r right. Sometimes there is no reason for a breakup. U just don't feel that way for someone but it's hard to accept that when u get dumped n r feeling horrible. Now for me time is more precious than money. I just don't want to waste my time obsessing over that person anymore n stalking that person on every social media platform available. I don't want that. I want to focus 100% on myself. I'm trying. I'm just scared what if I fall into that black hole again. But I can't be that weak. I won't allow my years of education go waste just bez of someone made my feel worthless n made me feel bad , horrible abt myself. I can't be that weak. I'll be stronger than ever especially in such challenging COVID times. It was a very long comment ;)!! Thank you. These talks helps a lot. I come from a very conservative family. Soo I can never discuss such things with my parents. I can't even imagine how they will react if ever I'll tell them such problems which I will not do obviously. This stunt can me more dangerous than Khatron ke Khiladi. Hence your videos n these heart to heart talks helps. Thanks a lot Chetan.
@kumarvivek4665
2 жыл бұрын
Distraction is key,, I am not a pro at it but when I feel this I try to distract myself in some other things, And best way to feel better is by helping others and exploring nature
@tanzeemjahan1681
2 жыл бұрын
Dear it happens ...dont loose hope ..u will shine one day
@its__ankit
2 жыл бұрын
Same thing happening with me , each and every line of yours is same and it feels really bad.
@homentaid1281
2 жыл бұрын
Same here, like you 😔 Thanks to Chetan sir My all time favourite ❣️❣️
@qariburrehman.8718
2 жыл бұрын
with U...
@writerdevidgautam5754
2 жыл бұрын
किताब ऐसी होनी चाहिए जिसे पढ़कर व्यक्ति की जिंदगी बदल जाएं और महान बनाने में अहम भूमिका निभाएं... 🤔
@vsancheti6433
2 жыл бұрын
Just keep in mind that smn one better is coming for you and uss insaan ki aukaat nahi thi aapne pyaar ki It really helps and makes you strong I am a jee aspirant and going through same phase, this feeling motivates me to study more and hard
@anupampandey4785
2 жыл бұрын
sir aap apni breakup story batao kabhi..... jo jo chahta h ki sir ki breakup story sab sune to like kare😍
@HarmonicaShala
2 жыл бұрын
Chetan ji, छोड़ गई की spelling Chhod लिखिए। Chod is not the right spelling 😂
@HarmonicaShala
2 жыл бұрын
Gustakhi ke liye maafi chahunga 😊🙏
@BharatLeopard
2 жыл бұрын
Rightly said.
@abhishekvakil007
2 жыл бұрын
extra "H" is life saver sometimes 😜
@HarmonicaShala
2 жыл бұрын
@@abhishekvakil007 all the time 🤣
@HarmonicaShala
2 жыл бұрын
Wow !! Chetan ji has made the spelling changes !! Thanks a lot !!
@03ujjwalkumar59
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sir for making us understanding how to overcome from this painful situation !!🙏🏻
@shrikantDhatrak
2 жыл бұрын
Girls are mature and boys cant get over someone easily it's true.boys take more time to get over this breakups and all
@VishDumb
2 жыл бұрын
It's because guys invest so much in a relationship! The key is trust your gut, if it says the other person is giving red flags then just see those red flags and back off because eventually things will get worse only.
@rashmika_mandannaa
2 жыл бұрын
Don't know about breakup my love is Still One-Sided 🙂 And it is a wonderful feeling ❤️
@jinfin221
2 жыл бұрын
Why didn't he want you?
@rajathrajath2506
2 жыл бұрын
Mine too.. its actually a wonderful feelings 😘😘💖💖💖
@justforyou667
2 жыл бұрын
@@jinfin221 because she wanted a man better than thor richer than tony stark having values like captain america cute like korean attached and simp like k drama boy. Toh uske paas option nahi h kya woh nahi janta kya koi koi kyu uske peechhe attracted hain.
@jinfin221
2 жыл бұрын
@@justforyou667 lol
@KartikSharma-tw3yr
Жыл бұрын
She left me 2 days before... May be it were my mistakes..and she doesn't feels love in me anymore... Now looking forward to recover from it... thankyou sir for guidance 🙌
@happyhooman717
2 жыл бұрын
Right video at right time of my life 🙂
@K_A_Mod
Жыл бұрын
😂 1 year, 2 years So true Sir ❤️
@anubhavsharma1503
2 жыл бұрын
I like the video. But these pushpa's always return to devdas no matter how boring a Devdas is or was. So its better not to make anyone your pushpa. Just become devdas to your goals and career. Do worry for the person who left you. They will always return. Ro lo Peet lo but do not give up on your goals. Agar tumahare bure waqt mien saath nai use insaan ko Kabhi b tumhaare ache waqt mien saath hone ka haq nai hona chaiye.
@sansapps5350
2 жыл бұрын
some guys are in imaginary relationship and still can't get over someone :) :)
@DeepakKumar-ym1wr
3 ай бұрын
I can relate 😅
@uknowme4551
2 жыл бұрын
Always control Dopamine... Thank u sir 🙏
@manishgurnani4777
2 жыл бұрын
Sir, this was the explanation I needed since 2 years, I wish k ye video 2 saal pehle upload hui hoti.... Thanks a billion Sir, you saved my time and my feelings, this will definitely help me to disinvest all my feelings from that person and to focus on rest of the people and things in my life (the cake) :) May God shower lots of blessings on you and encourage you to come up with more such videos so that somone's life can be saved from getting ruined 🙏 :)
@arunvlogs2516
2 жыл бұрын
Don't afraid to learn continuously because Life never stops Teaching ❤️👍
@a4abhay6
2 жыл бұрын
You touch really most needed topics.. 🔥🔥🙏
@agrewal3711
2 жыл бұрын
Dil ko thapaad maar ke line pe le aate ho Boss !! Its great the way you give a direction.
@smartize
2 жыл бұрын
Heath hedger said in The Dark Knight "Does it depress you? To know just how alone you really are??" .. One must learn to detach from everything whether it be money, person or anything in case if you dont have that in future you dont go into depression :)
@Eren_Jaeger_
2 жыл бұрын
Sir, I think you should cover how Break Up for guys and girls is different. By none of Girl's fault and immense amount of options available to them, I feel they move on much fast
@Aman-nk5uq
2 жыл бұрын
@radhika ofcourse it's true.
@greatest_here
2 жыл бұрын
I don't have Girlfriend but I feel I have broke Up .
@saralbudhiraja
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for being the guiding light to the youth and our upcoming generation. Great content big brother and an amazing use of your fame.
@KhanSK13
2 жыл бұрын
Time heals everything.. N you'll come up much much stronger & unshakable! With tym.. With maturity... You'll realize all you need is u.. If its out of ur hands.. it deserves to be out of the mind as well.!
@subhashmadan8518
2 жыл бұрын
Great job done Chetan . My blessings and good wishes. I am a doctor, will be happy to contribute anything .
@ravibhagat1927
2 жыл бұрын
Sir please koi practical tarika batao mujhe...isse nikalne ka please please please sir...I am deeply requested to you... please...😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@narinderpalsingh6406
2 жыл бұрын
It could be🙏 blessings in disguise
@monikadhaka3004
2 жыл бұрын
Sir mujhe lgta h girls jyada emotional hoti h or breakup ka effect bhi un pr jyada hota h .
@62_namitasingh41
2 жыл бұрын
Bahut pain hota h sir
@jatinnegi1877
2 жыл бұрын
here, have some serotonin 💊
@krzone8768
2 жыл бұрын
For singles I guess Beta career ke baad Bandi bnana hai!! Abhi Sirf pehchaan!!! Hai na sir!!
@christopherpetrov2355
2 жыл бұрын
After my breakup I completed all my pending projects, patented my products and published my pending research papers😂. From this I almost forgot I had a breakup😂😂😂 !! I don't know what happened to her after break up 😂😅 !!
@alveerachauhan
Жыл бұрын
😂🔥🙌gonna do the same!!!
@Aman-nk5uq
Жыл бұрын
U were never attached in the 1st place then
@assyrianbull
Жыл бұрын
@@Aman-nk5uq true
@virenrajguru6929
2 жыл бұрын
it's 6 months she left me...was very disturbed for 3 months nd she called nd said she has overcome ... seperation hurts bt the attachment kills...I just blocked her everywhere I can nd trying to move on nd get a fresh start...keep posting such contents ❤️thank you sir ❤️
@anirudhapoddar1783
2 жыл бұрын
Now a days because of internet girls have so many options, I supported my ex of getting a job, helped her getting her bread and butter. Still she hanged up with other guys. So requesting all to choose right person. Everybody seems good at first but if they are wrong they will show their real character one day.
@exincident
Жыл бұрын
Get yourself busy and busy in making your life , and to take out your frustration of the breakup start gym training , karate ,boxing this sort of sports. It will help your brain to rewire brain circuitry. Avoid yoga I need you to put yourself through super active , sweaty and rigorously disciplined sports .Get yourself busy as soon as possible to break out the circle of depression.
@arpitsawade6144
2 жыл бұрын
Boring wala jo point uthaya hai sir aapne ... uspe ek solo video banado. Kyuki kabhi kabhi lgta hai I am boring kabhi kabhi lgta hai I am good
@sachin865
2 жыл бұрын
I would like to add something..... When they leave us... specially if you are struggling in life, it's not that you don't have potential to do good in life but your circumstances don't allow you and you are kind of trapped...it may be your health, family issues or anything and at the same time if someone you love and trust so much and you need them the most at this time, they start ghosting you or they just leave...then the pain is even more than the pain of death. Now you may overcome this pain of breakup with time but due to this, you develop trust issues and insecurities which last longer and we use it as a shield that no one should hurt us the way she/he did...but it's not good for your future relationships you need to overcome this too... It can be done only when you believe in yourself and if there is something about you which you should improve then work on it, be better version of yourself it really helps. Still remember the traits of a toxic person and be mindful when choosing someone to be with, and trust but don't trust blindly.
@priyankashukla979
2 жыл бұрын
Koi frk ni pdta sir ldka ho ya ladki... Pain sbko hota hai ydi apne investment kiya h kuch to .....aur yesss absolutely this pajn is equal to pain of death .....aur ye pain utna hi hoga jitna apka attachment hoga.... Aur self love pr focus kro jo Chla gya wo apka taa hi ni bss attraction ta jo khtm huaa aur samne wala chla gya ....again think you deserve better than him or her don't waste ur time..... Mast carrier bnao health bnao life ke phase h jis time pdhaii ka time hota h wahi time hme pyar bhi dikhne lgta h ydi break up huaa h accept kro kuch learn kro aage bdho bass ye life universe ne hme individually diya h taki hum hmare liye jeyo.... Toda meditation kro kitabe pdho achchi achchi ..... Iske bad jo insan bn ke aap nikloge trust me apko khud khoge mai kha fsha ta ya fshi ti kyuki tb apko realise ho jayega what u r ....who u r ...n what u deserve ...... So focus on urself love urself unconditionally ......🙏thank you very much sir ❤️🙏this line cake ni bnta logo ka.,...👌✨ yess life bnao....phle sb ho jayega ....
@devanshupadhyay5
2 жыл бұрын
You said Golden words 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@priyankashukla979
2 жыл бұрын
@@devanshupadhyay5 thank you 🙏
@allyoutuberkayr1361
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Sir, I have 7 seven years realationship...too deep in physical n emotional..m 30+ ,c too.She was too selfish..i saved her life n helped building her career....but c broke when i was preparing my higher career( now m in group- b, odisha govt.) ...Since 5months, i was suffering..All problems above told ,i am in that... ...this video helped me to be emotionally strong.n career focused....thank you Chetan Sir.
@allyoutuberkayr1361
Жыл бұрын
M surprised, how can one do to someone who saved life n career......still I love her too much
@fangrider007
2 жыл бұрын
I will thank god everyday for my break up(wasn't mutual breakup) because it helped me grow in life in more than one aspects you know...... You might think that there is no light at the end of the tunnel BUT THERE IS LIGHT AT THE END OF THE TUNNEL my friend....
@nitinpatel9251
2 жыл бұрын
Line-" aapko lagta hai ki samne vala aapki value badha rha hai , jo ki sahi nahi hai" sir you just change my thinking ....!! From my heart❣ .. thank you soooo much Sir..!😊🤗
@HemantKumar-ok3zw
2 жыл бұрын
If anyone living in reality. Then it is very easy to get rid of love and it's nagetive effects.
@rahebarkhan3401
2 жыл бұрын
Tum Ladki Ke Piche Bhagonge Ladki Career Health Relationship Se Khelengi,Aur Tum Career Health Relationship Ke Piche Bhagonge Ladki Tumhare Piche Bhagengi
@princekumar_09
2 жыл бұрын
That's funny chod gyie 🤭means chhod gyie 😂 ab kya sir
@sitaramhanuman9294
2 жыл бұрын
I lost 6years just because of a girl.... (Nov/ December 2015 ------ 10/01/2022
@moviesandtvseries4447
2 жыл бұрын
Thnks sir for everything... I love her with all my heart and she also loved me. That's wat she said. I am a student & her parents was forcing her to get married and now she get married to someone else and the worst part is that she never told me all this things about her parents and marriage things . She just married and few days after her marriage I found out this that she married someonelse WTF. .I am still preparing for govt job this thing hit me so hard that I lost 2 years of my life just thinking about why she did this to me. Now I am one the road to recovery
@truth640
2 жыл бұрын
But laws are anti male and anti jutice .rape laws are not gender nuetral .so if girl will level rape charges boy will rot in jail for many years .but if girl leaves boy can not do any thing.That is the reason chetan.
@shelendraojha127
Жыл бұрын
Sir mene breakup se overcome k liye bhut sare videos dekhe but this video hit my mind Thanku sir u r great sir 🎉
@ChetanBhagat1
Жыл бұрын
My pleasure!
@Sarcasmka14
7 ай бұрын
Bhai ek baar to career bana... kafi sari acchi ladki mill jayegi... baki 1 week main sab thik ho jata hain...bass subhe thodi runing kar liya Karo
@vaibhavanandsharma88
2 жыл бұрын
Started dating :- Class 10th. Orgasm of relationship pleasure:- Long distance when I was in college. She wanted to marry me:- When I got a very good CAT percentile, and got call letter from IIM LKO. It was after 2 years of a high paying job in an MNC post my college. She dumped me when:- I decided to not pursue MBA and prepare for UPSC instead. Post that:- When I started preparing for UPSC, she started making out with my best friend. . Me:- Fuck that!... But still, periodically, in 4-5 months, the old memories just bang your head against the wall. . Here comes Chetan, comedifying the entire situation and made me laugh hard!!!
@sanketmoon6537
2 жыл бұрын
What a timming sir i really need this lect..😍😍
@ankithere423
2 жыл бұрын
When you feel pain just ask yourself... Who the fuck she is to give you pain??? Uski awkadh kaya ha???
@talkiyapa
2 жыл бұрын
The way you narrate the situation, it becomes funny. I was laughing so hard in between. 😁
@aradhnamishra2896
2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂same here
@vaeshnavikasthuril2252
2 жыл бұрын
Hi sir, I don't know if you would read my comment. But, I was cheated by my boyfriend and he even tried to sexually assault me while I was with him. Broke up just 2 weeks back and this video has given me that little strength I needed to pick my self up. Probably the best thing you have done is starting this KZitem channel. If you ever happen to stumble across my comment or happen to read it, all I want to say is Thank you!! This word is small but I am soo grateful to you I can't put it in words. I have an entrance exam during Nov end. And I need to buckle up and channelise all that energy towards clearing this exam and joining the college that I am aiming for. I know there's someone better for me out there, and that I'll have my own experience of a two states story some day :))
@kamalganwani
2 жыл бұрын
The whole matter is of RELEVANCY OF OUR in EACH OTHER LIFE. If we are relevant then everything is good if we lost our RELEVANCY then EVERYTHING IS GONE
@mr.Kumar-jn9fo
5 ай бұрын
Insta break up reels...makes us even more depressed KZitem breakup videos is to knock sense in us
@ranjitdhinsa8603
2 жыл бұрын
New to this channel .. I have binge watched lot of your videos. Thank you for making them . 😊
@vinugautam9318
2 жыл бұрын
सर आप सब जानते हैं मन की बात ।पता नहीं क्यू आप हर समस्या को बारिकियों के साथ सुलझाने की पूरी कोशिश करते हैं।आप ऐसे ही हमें रास्ता दिखाते रहें । बहुत सारी शुभकामनाएँ 🫂 आपके विचार इस पूँजीवादी प्यार के दौर में फ़िट बैठते हैं।
@Khan_MLA..
2 жыл бұрын
Whatever you said is absolutely correct. But the problem is its not easy to get out of that situation. The more we try to forget things , they came back more strongly to our brains. And the brain never stop thinking abt things that happened. Most of the time even unintentionally during break up phase we lose our concentration from our path. I believe ACCEPTANCE is better option. Accept that u r broken, accept that it will take time, accept that it may take years come out of that phase completely just remember that u dnt have to quit from doing constructive things in ur life. You might be improving very slowly bt keep improving. Oneday you will surpass this and achieve everything that u wanted to. JUST DNT QUIT.
@aprilfool302
2 жыл бұрын
Sir, Salute to your guts for being so frank and open about these things. Guts lagte hai sir, par ap to IITian ho ap to musibaton ka samna karna kaafi pehle se seekh chuke ho. Keep inspiring us till the rest of your life. I wish more people could come up and say this, "main ladka hun isliye ladko ki perspective saamne rakh raha hun" without fearing the male bashing audience all around social media.
@21Tushar21
2 жыл бұрын
Please make a video on always doubting girlfriend due to her past relationships
@wayofwisdome9
2 жыл бұрын
Sir सीधी बात नो बकवास ब्रेकअप के बाद भी लड़की को विवाह के लिए अवसर मिलते रहेंगे और लड़की के परिवार वाले मिलकर उसे एक परिवारिक रिश्ते की नए डोर बांधने के लिए प्रयासरत रहते हैं तो लड़की को finally break-up का ज्यादा असर नहीं पड़ता । पर इसी बात पर लड़के एक लडक़ी के अटैचमेंट को भूल नहीं पाते और एक लडक़ी से दूसरी लड़की तक के सफर में अब वह घबराने लगता है।
@chandreswarhowlader1972
2 жыл бұрын
Wow sir 🙏 hatsoff much needed video. It's been just a month since I'd my breakup been there done everything you said ruining my health MBA ka 2nd trimester personal contacts for a month. Later I realized ki wth I'm doing with my life for someone who's not here with me anymore. I packed my bag left my hostel where we both stayed together shifted to anew place far from her started a new life new friends started taking care of myself my health and studies and now I can proudly say ki Icing ati jati rehti hai bas Cake achha bake hona chahiye 🤗❤ and sir your words really helped me a lot ek clarity aa gyi ab life kuchh bhi ho jaye ek achha cake bna k hi chhodunga. Thanks a lot sir 🙏🤗❤
@stepupphysics
2 жыл бұрын
Moral of the story: cake achha banao, iceing ke pichhe mat bhago... Kyonki good cake will definitely attract good iceing🤩
@sahabrandon1
2 жыл бұрын
Koi kisi ke liye nahi rukta, Move on because the show must go on 🙂
@roopsi_docdent8520
2 жыл бұрын
Nahi sir aisani hai, i m medical student in lucknow was in relationship frm class 7 , left me last yr in my final proff kaise die hai proff mjhe pta hai exam likhte likhte rone lgti thi best student thi socha tha shyd gold medal mil jae but ..nhi hopaya mjhse ab internship mai hu preprin fr pg phle se thoda kam hai but suddenly ek dm se rone lgti hu ar chup bht der bad hti hu ha ab thoda km hta hai but hta hai i wish rote hue k b k thk hai uski khushi hai to wo khush rhe , n about me is like does not wnt anyone now what so ever my parents search fr i do now it will be arrnged ab in sb se mann ek dm htgya hai
@arghya_chatterjee
2 жыл бұрын
I was in deep depressed since last few months, I get every answer just with Cake and Icing example. Thanks
@shrikantDhatrak
2 жыл бұрын
Yes much needed topic for current relationship thanks alot sir keep it up 💪👌💯
@shrikantDhatrak
2 жыл бұрын
@@yourwellwisher6844 you too take care
@Ishika_jain
2 жыл бұрын
sir I myself staring crying while seeing this video , it has been more than 2 yrs now and still i'm unable to move on . could you plz make more such videos on this topic and plz include girls as well , they are mature but damn emotional .
@assyrianbull
Жыл бұрын
True. I am facing the same situation and i am an extremely sensitive person. I believe girls are very emotional and boys are thick-skinned.
@selflesspk9027
2 жыл бұрын
U giving me hope.. U r not like achrya prasant.. U actually a new person with new thought and hope
@mensworldrul
2 жыл бұрын
Time is the only solution to recover from Break-up. Time always decides it. No matter, how much advice you get from friends or families. The Damage it has caused your mind, Subconscious mind and your psychology totally gets screwed. There is no immediate recovery or remedy. We are humans not machines. As time and days pass by one gets healed by self no matter what. Like a saying “ What you sow is what you reap" Hope we learn from our mistakes!
@RahulSahs
2 жыл бұрын
Perfect example of relationship with analogy of life. My example is completely opposite, I have a full cake in front of me but icing is the only thing missing. Being through many heart breaks but always stood tall and stronger then before
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