50/50 Parenting Time Legislation is long overdue. Both parents should by definition have guaranteed equal access and choices from the start. Child Support needs to be abolished.
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
Agreed 👍
@BenFrankarts
3 жыл бұрын
FACTS! No need to walk away, your child is innocent and precious. Fathers it’s time to step up.
@DukeGado
Жыл бұрын
In reality, a lot of fathers want to be there for their children, but there are women who choose to use their child as a tool to torture a man who no longer wants to be with them.
@1GodofLaw
Жыл бұрын
Agreed but you don't need a third party to do so true or false🤔🤔
@globalmusicenterprisesllc5784
Жыл бұрын
@@DukeGado going thru that for years
@mr.obsidian8009
Жыл бұрын
42 USC 1994 CHILD SUPPORT IS PEONAGE THERE ARE NO AREARS AREARS ARE EX POST FACTO LAW THEY CANNOT EXIST IF YOU ENFORCE THEM YOU HAVE NO IMMUNITY UNDER 42 USC 1983. ABOLISH THIS SYSTEM OF DAMAGE TO THE FAMILY UNIT. 🙄 YOU ARE DAMAGING OUR PARENT CHILD RELATIONSHIPS AND VIOLATING ALL OF OUR RIGHTS. EUCLID, RULE OF LAW: Non Obligo Est Non Legis CEASE AND DESIST ORDER Please cease and desist immediately you are commiting Duress, Coercion, peonage, fraud on the court, oath violation, conspiracy to commit a rights violation, color of law, bribery, racketeering, embezzlement, human trafficking, false imprisonment, theft of property, due process violation, invoulentary servitude, and child trafficking, bill of attainder, ex post facto law and kidnapping. All child support cases are void on their face no matter the situation they are using crime to enforce a law that was never enacted. When you violate your oath of office as a judge, police officer, or public official by not upholding constitutionally enshrined rights by law you cease to hold authority and judicial powers and lose immunity under 42 usc 1983. Euclid Has passed ruling on this matter.
@Palmchisimon
26 күн бұрын
@@DukeGadoI'm one of them... I no longer want to be chained
@tonypowell3947
2 жыл бұрын
Every man has the right to NOT be identified an Obligor or noncustodial parent
@Sight2Behold
2 жыл бұрын
You are a MAN, obligor is a CONTRACTUAL term and has child support EVER asked you to sign a contract?
@tonypowell3947
2 жыл бұрын
@@Sight2BeholdAre you referring to the 42 U.S.C. § 603 (a)(5)(C)(iii)(III) contracts
@bewokelastdon7132
12 күн бұрын
@@Sight2Beholdexactly
@jraguirre3417
Жыл бұрын
Thanks bro I work hard got 7 kids and my wife treats me like shit
@ChristianLopez-fg6ft
5 ай бұрын
I feel you bro I got 5 and my wife is the same. I wonder how much more I can take
@jraguirre3417
5 ай бұрын
@@ChristianLopez-fg6ft end of the day I’m with her for my kids and it pays off to see them not growing up like me without a dad
@Sight2Behold
2 жыл бұрын
I wish this guy would understand that child support is voluntary, it is not law and of courts judges lawyers lawyers et cetera all are in it to make money, they do not care what's in the best interest of the child
@jamarmills7928
Жыл бұрын
Big facts he should look up 42 usc 1619 these courts are fake these judges are administrative and not judicial
@2011dgk
Ай бұрын
If they did care about all these kids they split the money they make off all these fathers and the one percent of women that pay into it and give it to the kids.
@Sight2Behold
Ай бұрын
@@2011dgk Big facts
@morganendres5207
6 ай бұрын
Fathers don't automatically have rights to see their kids; If there is history of domestic abuse (against any family member) the Father automatically loses those rights. Also, research suggests that children should stay with their primary parent & that is often the Mother. Child support in many cases is very low; and you should also consider that the cost of child support is considerably lower than actually taking care of the child. Taking care of the child could be easily quadruple the amount. So if money is the objective (trying to get out of paying to keep funds to oneself) then paying child support is very cheap! If you wish to see the child more, I recommend building a better relationship with the Mother because Mother's all need a break! That's why grandparents end up with the kids so much! But if there are very challenging communication issues and post separation abuse; she will withdraw herself and the kids to protect herself. Fathers, look at how your behaviour is affecting the situation. Also abuse is determined by the victim and a judge and not on what you can justify.
@buttermonkey33
Ай бұрын
Exactly
@rckbttm1410
21 күн бұрын
STFU too Long winded trying to convince us goofy
@rckbttm1410
21 күн бұрын
You can always tell a lying woman they will write a paragraph to try and convince you against logic
@teddyshrader8037
Жыл бұрын
Where can i find the part where in the beginning i never was contacted to come for the hearing\meeting to talk about CS and get my consent before they Served me papers to Garnish my wages. I never touched it or accepted it my friend opened and read it while we were at work. Due process got trashed? Plus i also was jailed a few times but never went in front of a "Judge" or jury.
@businessman688
Жыл бұрын
I haven't seen my son in 7yrs. My baby mother took 18yrs of child Support from me and doesn't want me to be his father. I didn't know what to do until I saw this
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
It’s never to late to build a relationship with your son, reach out to him if you can and try to make that work, wishing you the best
@jayrunnels6412
2 ай бұрын
@@IAmPhlickit’s to fucking late
@CutbaitOnly
Жыл бұрын
Florida doesn’t work like that Child support is basically about money To get any visitation right or parental rights You gotta go through family court I know this because I ask the judge” what parental rights do I have for my son” she said that doesn’t apply here you need to go family court for that.
@2r3alhudson3
4 ай бұрын
She’s doing it out of anger!!! 😡 She’s in the military married to a military man!! How is she allowed to serve me cp papers when I’m only a factory worker?!? I’m a single father of 2 and the other mom is not complaining. It’s already hard enough!!!
@RobertBrown-q2h
11 ай бұрын
I didn’t find out about my daughter till she was 7. Her mother brainwashed her when she was 12. That was the last time I saw her. She is 14 now. She keeps jumping addresses. The court won’t do anything. But I have to keep paying child support.
@IAmPhlick
11 ай бұрын
Damn bro that’s messed up situation to be in! Wishing you the best
@kevinlandaverde8524
Жыл бұрын
Women also withhold children away from men , men that what to be involved.... then some women manipulate the child/children against the man Happened to me It happens all the time !
@Life_beingaboymom
Жыл бұрын
I’m currently going through a custody battle with my fathers son he wants 50/50 which we have agreed on and I have the right to designate primary residence making me primary but his mind is set that he won’t pay child support he says that because of the nasty texts that I sent him when we were in a relationship can this be a reason why he won’t have to pay child support and I be the one to pay it instead
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for reaching out, based on my experience when it’s 50/50 child support is based on how much time the child spends with each parents if you have equal days divided it usually cancels each other out. If it’s through court the texts will not dictate how much he or you should pay, but I would be careful on sending vindictive texts because if presented in court the judge can request parents in conflict program which both of you guys can be considered not fit to parent your child and have to take parenting classes and trust me you don’t want that or cps in your life. Wishing you guys the best 👍
@DJGENOTYPE
2 жыл бұрын
In Texas, they don’t care how much time you spend with the kid. And if you can’t afford day care during summer visits, they don’t care either.
@Sight2Behold
2 жыл бұрын
Hell, all you gotta do is tell them they are violating the separation of powers doctrine and FIGHT
@yosoymichaelmyers
6 күн бұрын
So are you saying at my child support hearing I can let them know that shes the one that take my kid and dissapears? Because I need joint custody asap!!! 💯💯💯
@IAmPhlick
6 күн бұрын
If you can prove it!! Yes, document everything
@Jeremiahsimmons-rv9kw
7 ай бұрын
I’m military right now and I’m going through this. The baby is not here but it’s going to be hard for me to see my child. I’m not going nowhere but she wants to put me on child before the baby is here
@thehulk8539
6 ай бұрын
My buddy terminated his rights to his 2 sons. Oldest is 4 youngest is 3. He terminated his rights not because hes a deadbeat but because the mother and her family was sinister and full of people plotting on the father. Long story short. He got a passport frequently visited thailand with his buddy and has been happily married since 2011. They have 4 kids. 3 girls and 1 boy. This just tells me Western women are the "excuses" type of woman, Not the marriage type who will get things done being told what to do and vice versa. Loyalty has always been an honor to asian cultures.
@IAmPhlick
6 ай бұрын
@thehulk8539 man I was on the verge of giving up my parental rights when my son was 3, but I didn’t I ruffed it out and now my son lives with me and completely despises his mom for being toxic kids grow up and realize who’s the toxic parent! I don’t blame your buddy though!
@thehulk8539
6 ай бұрын
@IAmPhlick regardless of who's toxic or not. I would never have the child hate their mother or father. I'm also a father of 1, and my court date is set for tomorrow. I chose not to have a lawyer. I want 50/50 custody, and the mother does not agree. I don't see why not? I hope everything goes well.
@khill7555
Жыл бұрын
Can you request different judges if you suspect something? The CP of my children knows everyone. Plus CP's brother manages his payroll, so he can manipulate so that he gets payed less. I don't trust anything anymore cuz of CP having a huge network
@danielconsuegra148
2 жыл бұрын
I want to be there for my daughter but I cant I have not seen her for 7 months and I keep paying child support we agreed on! My daughter doesnt want to see me or my family and we sincerely dont know what we have done to her! I honestly dont know what to do but put a court order… from here till that goes through another 3 months. If i get close to her house she can call police and they will tell me till court order to stay away. Any one with similiar situation?
@IAmPhlick
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry you have to go through that bro, I was in the same situation a few years back with my son, I know for us fathers the system works against us but you have to fight for your rights as a father, your daughter might be getting fed hate from her mom and that’s why she doesn’t want to see you! Have patience and do your best to get custody or parental rights! You will have your day! Wishing you the best
@dennis2321
Ай бұрын
My baby mother wont let me claim a kid on taxes we have 2 kids we have them 50/50 any advice shes now trying to put me on child support my kids is 5 other is 2
@IAmPhlick
Ай бұрын
When dealing with those type of situations it’s always goes as what you can prove! I wasn’t able to claim my son on taxes unless he lived with me and attended school within my the school district where I reside! It’s real touchy because if you both claim the kids irs will go after and you will need to provide paperwork such as where the kids attend school birth certificate and social! I’ve been there and trust me it didn’t work in my favor until my son moved in with me and I was able to show proof that he resided with me best of luck bro
@bmak76
Жыл бұрын
I’m a father with 100% sole custody. My ex-wife is 5 years delinquent on payments. She makes more money than I do. The state has ruled she does not have to pay. I live in Illinois.
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
If you have sole custody you already won bro, now if she don’t want to pay child support that makes her a deadbeat mom! Keep providing for your child I know a lot of fathers that would love to be in your shoes with 100% sole custody!
@peternorthrup6274
Жыл бұрын
What does that mean. Seed? Is that like some sort of hood term?
@miguelhernandez4929
2 ай бұрын
I’m really stressed out ,I have 50/50 of 2 kids ,I only have a average job ,to barely even survive in California,I live in a bad neighborhood hood kus that’s all I can afford ,I’m a single father doing this by myself ,ima lose my apartment if they even try to take any type of money from me and the crazy thing is both my kids mom told them I’m a good dad and I provide for them ,but they still want me to go to court I’m nervous kus ima lose my apartment if they do that ,they want me to pay $269 and that’s only for one kid ,that’s that there mom is working part time ,my other kids mom don’t work at all and gets cash aid ,so I still have to go to court for my other child even with the $260 for the first child I will lose my place ,I’m literally on a budget to make it out here;/
@IAmPhlick
2 ай бұрын
Have you tried getting advise from a family law lawyer? I would seek advise
@miguelhernandez4929
2 ай бұрын
@@IAmPhlickdo they charge for that kus I honestly can’t afford a lawyer ?I don’t understand this court system is crazy ,I’m literally doing my job as a father and there gunna make me lose my home that i provide for both my children ,my daughter barely turned 1 this month and my son is 11 ,they act like I have a good job to give out extra money .,I even talked to the child support place and they said there gunna charge me no matter what because there both getting cash aid 😏ima be homeless this is insane .
@peternorthrup6274
Жыл бұрын
I love the idiots that don't keep canceled checks. I kept everyone for 21 years. I so glad they are putting those dead beat fathers in jail. Walking away? You still have to pay. Why should the taxpayers feed your kids? Pay your child support.
@davidjuarez1981
7 ай бұрын
I want to have my kids overnights during the week. My ex doesn’t want to give me that. We agreed to $600 a month child support and then she comes back and says it’s not enough. She wanted double that amount. I was forced to agree to $750 or she will go to court. I just want to spend more time with my two sons.
@WarmongerYT
2 жыл бұрын
I have 2 children. Ages 13 & 10. I have been married to my husband/ their stepdad (or Dad as they call him,being as he's the only Dad they've ever known) almost 8 years now. I left my kids biological father when my youngest was 13 months old. He has not seen the kids for almost 9 years. His mother has had them at her house a few times & he seen them then once but he didn't even come to his mother's house specifically to see them, he showed up because his great grandmother had just passed& he showed up with a girl he was dating for 2months (while he was broken up with his off again,on again girlfriend of 9 years) & the girl's 2 small children, one of whom called him Daddy Infront of my 2 kids.(Again he had only been dating this new girl for not even 2months) So aside from seeing them then, Had not seen them& had not tried to see them aside from making 1 phone call/voice mail in that 9 years saying he missed his son on the voicemail & didn't say a word about his daughter. I digress , up until about 5 months ago (October 2020) he finally decided it was convenient for him to see his 2kids. I agreed (bc I don't believe in keeping children from parents out of spite. Unless of course the child(ren) would be in danger) I agreed he could come down to our daughters 10th bday party. But if he came to her birthday party on 9/02/20 then he would need to also come to our son's birthday party 2 months later on 11/08/20 - he didn't. But point being he has now seen them =4x. He came to her birthday party & came down in December to take them to eat in the town we live in. I brought our daughter up twice to meet up with him(&my son also came on the 2nd time) & his on again, off again gf the first time they were arguing & yelling Infront of us(my daughter&I) . Then the second time I brought both kids up to his house& his gf showed up &we were all outside& they were cussing&yelling at each other infront of all of us( she's was&is currently pregnant with their second child together &they were currently broken up). So 4times he's seen them all together. Twice he came down& twice I brought them up: both of which I couldn't believe the screaming,cussing&fighting Infront of us! He has never paid child support. For his daughters 10th bday he gave her $50 & for his son's birthday (that he didn't show up for) he bought him a $130 Carhartt jacket(well I ordered it&he paid for it) I called him&asked him if we could sit down&talk sometime in the near future about Child support &he got mad& called me "a stupid b*tch" &hung up. Later we talked &he said he talked to his Mom (whom is a pastor)& That he "shouldn't have to pay for a kid if you don't see them" I said that's been 1000% your choice. Just because a person decides to emotionally & physically abandon their children doesn't mean they also can financially abandon them also(even though he has for 9yrs). So he has been now paying me $200 per month for both/2 kids. So a $100 per kid per month. Which is comical. For 4months now. That pays for a few days of groceries. 🚩 He is a self employed painter &he makes decent money , especially considering he has VERY little bills. However he has no bank accounts & has only filed his taxes 2x since I left him(in 2012)& of course being self employed says he makes a lot less than what he actually does. He has a house that he finally almost has paid off. He got it with his ex-wife when he was 19 years old,he is now 38. His house payment is $220 a month. He has recently bought a cheap vehicle. So has liability insurance. &Is even buying a cheap house with his brother to fix up to sell. My husband is a licensed pipe fitter & a licensed inspector. He makes $40k - $50k per year. I believe my kids bio dad said he put down $30k on his taxes he filed last year. Our rent for our 3bedroom house is $950/mo , car payment$320, & of course electric$185/mo , wifi (kids have to have for school wifi) $100/mo, &phone bill$105/mo& groceries of course. So I'm wondering how to go forward filing for support. The reason I haven't for so long is because he's always said "If you file for child support, I'll file for split custody or full custody" which is absurd. I'm also pretty sure going 9 years without anything more than 1 phone call to the mother of your children surely would be considered abandonment? He is a stranger to both my kids, they don't know him.& The 4x since September 2nd 2020 of seeing them(today is January 25th 2022) it was uncomfortable for them but I encouraged them to be friendly&try to get to know him. They've seen him 4x now & 2 of those we had to leave after not even an hour of being there because of his ex girlfriend (ex at the time)& him cussing & arguing literally right Infront of us. Smh. * Oh & also his off again,on again girlfriend &him have a 5 year old son together & have another baby on the way together. Their 5 year old son they lost to DHS for drugs& after 2+ years having DHS involved, he was able to finally pass a few drug tests & she signed over custody to him because she had failed a drug test again &signed custody to him so that the child wouldn't go into foster care. Smh. I apologize this is so long. Just had to give some background info. I'm just no longer scared of his threat of getting the kids if I file Child support. I think or at least hope a judge will see through him. I don't want to ruin his life. I just want some help. Why is he so special he should he not have to pay child support? He makes in reality $800- $1,100 per week. $100 per kid per month is nothing. Especially when he hasn't paid me a $1 in 9 years. Personally I would like to receive $500 per month I feel would be fair especially for 2kids. We live in Arkansas.
@IAmPhlick
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry for the late reply! But If he hasn’t been a part of your child’s life why even bother! Now if you do put him on child support he will be entitled to see his children if he ever wants too but it’s really up to you! I would and that’s on the basis that you didn’t make your kids on your own and he has a responsibility to provide for his kids! I stand up for the fathers that don’t get to see their kids because of a vindictive Bby momma but in your case that you’re willing and have been very lenient he deserves to be put on child support! Men like that ruin it for fathers like us! That take action and responsibility! What ever decision you make you are in you’re right to do it
@spencerfoucher3135
Жыл бұрын
The court was not reasonable to me. I live in New England. The court takes about half of my take home pay every pay period and hands it right to my ex's greedy fucking hands
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
Sad to hear about your situation bro, hope that you find a way to get as much legal help as you can and get your child support adjusted
@bewokelastdon7132
12 күн бұрын
His right 100%
@theoceaninvegas1858
9 ай бұрын
Never give money to the other party, always make payments through your local child support office. This way, you get credit for your case. For example, in CA, those kinds of payments are considered gifts. Cash, Cash app, Venmo, paypal , etc. You can always pay extra on your case.
@vladflower6671
3 ай бұрын
Thanks man. Do I have to leave the house. We are not married but my kids mom told me I have to move out, my daughter is really attached to me.
@IAmPhlick
3 ай бұрын
If the house is under your name I wouldn’t leave! But if everything is under her name I would leave! She’ll probably try to make your life miserable if you stay, maybe even push you to anger! Wishing you the best bro hope everything works out 💪🏽
@Palmchisimon
26 күн бұрын
That's me right there... got to leave
@screwtuber2818
4 ай бұрын
Its the grandparents in my case😢 . Its 2 hurting parents bearly having 1 hours heavy monitored visit
@anthonytaccona5169
Жыл бұрын
I have daughter who is 1.5 I just started paying child support I believe in it 1000% and worst have it any other way I love her so much
@GrindtoWinRicoRichy4759
8 ай бұрын
I'm blind but I pay child support and the rules are very different from me so I really don't know what to do
@upfrontincome
3 жыл бұрын
What if the mother file false allegations towards you?
@IAmPhlick
3 жыл бұрын
If you can prove that they are false allegations you’re in the clear! They will also go by attitude if she’s being vindictive the judge will know right away! Just make sure your paperwork checks out as far as being there for your kid and you willing to spend time, I would advise to get an advisor or lawyer it actually helps a lot at the end of the day allegations are allegations until they can prove it! If she decides that she wants to pursue those allegations she might end up with a social worker and it will be more worse for her! Wishing you the best of luck 😎
@chrisparis6286
3 жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick She did file child neglect due to a mental illness I'm not getting help for with CPS and it turned on her. Now she is trying domestic battery cause of a false charge 10years ago. And there is alot that father's don't know about the child support agency so I have to beg to differ
@chrisparis6286
3 жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick Not if the mother is keeping the child from you with no court order and based on her feelings
@clumpkin1012
2 жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick Social workers/GALs lie.
@hndrixx3333
2 жыл бұрын
I have a question. My baby father is abusive and basically I left. but even then, I was still letting him see our baby. He's good with him but, when it comes to me he's disrespectful and always causing drama and still hitting me in front of our son. for no reason. just cuz he's bitter that I left. so basically he wants to take me to court cuz I won't let him see him anymore. his behavior is going to get us a cps case... like why would I put my child around that? he's never paid child support in his life. I do everything and I've always bought everything. He doesn't give any money. He brings nothing but hell to my life. yet I'm good to him and help with little things... My question is, does he have rights? because I decided to cut him off. he thinks because he is barely going to school. and he his bm have his drunk ass custody of her 2 kids... I smoke weed... And he does too yet he wants to take me to court cuz I won't let him see him anymore. why should he have a right when all he does is make my life hell and doesn't do shit for our son ?
@IAmPhlick
2 жыл бұрын
Sorry you have to go through that! An abusive man has no respect from me! I would suggest to keep your distance from him and take necessary actions! You don’t need to expose your child to any abuse! I hope your situation improves and everything works out for you! If you have proof of abuse you can do it the legal way and file for full custody! He will only have rights if the judge decides that he means no harm to you or your child! But given the circumstances he will lose custody if you move forward
@cascadinggainz6043
Жыл бұрын
How about if both parents don't want to screw each other And both agree to help each other. To keep the courts out could you have a lawyer write up a postnuptial agreement that both parents agree on and stay married but move out, you budget pay bills and buy your groceries then you decide what you can afford In Child support as long as bother parents agree and then divorce when the child is 18 or graduated from high school could that work?
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
Yes that could work I know of a lot of cases where they handled out of court, just make sure both of you guys agree and the agreement is notarized! Actually that’s the best way you can handle it,
@mayanbanyasharhala7581
Ай бұрын
What if the other parent is retired
@Passion_aeiou
4 ай бұрын
What if the woman has a restraining order against you?
@wirejumper
2 жыл бұрын
I pay forty percent of my salary with 50 percent custody and non custodial rights. It's garbage and should be illegal. Any lawyers on this that can help?
@IAmPhlick
2 жыл бұрын
That’s crazy! I would definitely get a lawyer involved this situation is wrong I don’t know what state you are in but I would definitely work on getting that fixed or overturned wishing you the best bro
@moffera3895
Жыл бұрын
Fun fact guys, just because you pay child support it doesn't make you a "non-custodial parent" only determinations of "Custody" can do that
@aprilmoore6688
Жыл бұрын
Great video …
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@garialmarsh6721
2 жыл бұрын
I wish these guys actually had something to say other than basic information...
@PoyTroy
2 ай бұрын
This is BS. I’m with my child 3to4 days, overnights throughout the week. And the courts are still trying to make me pay like I’m not around at all. Hell I’m around more then his mother is cause she works a lot of nights. The courts just favor women more from what I experienced. So that’s why I’m fighting the courts now to prove that I’m there. More stable and take care of my child.
@NotAccepted444
2 ай бұрын
I be watching this happen and I can only punch at the air. From father to father I hope you get the justice you deserve 👊
@chrisjones4257
3 күн бұрын
Your right courts don't care my oldest daughter lived with 5 nights out of 7 still had to pay that 17% and most of the time my daughter was with her grandmother when she was supposed to be with her mom courts didn't care i was way more stable then she was man I could go on and on about this subject
@PoyTroy
3 күн бұрын
@@chrisjones4257 they really don’t bro. I’ve missed work countless times for my ex to work and so I could watch my son. The courts didn’t care. So I stopped. I fought back. I pay her little in CS cause they couldn’t dis dispute the facts that I’m there and she’s unstable. Keep fighting man. And always be there. Eventually you’ll get follow up date for the courts again in a few couple of years. And you could win full custody and she have visitations and she pay you CS. I’ve seen it happen numerous of times. Just stay strong and keep evidence of everything you do. Stay strong bro !
@cjfilenius1446
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for talking on this topic!
@IAmPhlick
2 жыл бұрын
Your welcome 🤜🏽
@anthonyhirsch3952
4 ай бұрын
Hell no I was afraid to go to court thay want to put us in jail..
@Mrjones-ed7hi
2 ай бұрын
The more physical custody you have you shouldn't be paying anything. Do more research first.
@justineccles4445
2 жыл бұрын
Bro that sounds amazing.I love what your doing. Never walk a way from your kids, man up. As a father who has been fighting the fight for 5 year. We need all the support we can get. So please don’t take this to heart. What state does this fertile work because is wasn’t California. Unless you have 100k in Attorny fees that came with it.
@IAmPhlick
2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for supporting bro! When it comes to the judicial system it’s a bit tricky a lot of it was me keeping track of everything I gave to my son as far as expenses! And seeking guidance and knowing my rights as a father I didn’t have enough money to pay for a good lawyer but did seek a mid level attorney to help with the process and represent me for me it was showing proof that I’ve been doing my duties as a father and Bby momma being vindictive all the way to the end worked in my favor!
@Sight2Behold
2 жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlickDo you know that attorneys are NEVER in your favor? It's ALL a scam and attorneys care about the COURT and money, you are just an afterthought, what you need to realize is this system is VOLUNTARY (why do you think these courts need your signature?) and your child's mom nor these courts have ANY power over you, tell these courts YOU DO NOT CONSENT on ANY question they ask you
@materiialart8226
Жыл бұрын
More of this kid of topic will be appreciated 👍
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
Comin soon 😎
@seppshlllearningcenter419
3 жыл бұрын
"Its going to be reasonable" Yea, ok. I clear $200/month and have my kids more than 50% of the year, and they want $650/month.
@IAmPhlick
3 жыл бұрын
That’s a ridiculous amount and you should fight to get it lowered even at my worst when I was unemployed I was paying 35 dollars a month because I didn’t make much something doesn’t add up they only take 17%-25 off your adjusted gross unless you agreed to pay that amount. I would definitely get a family law lawyer and get that adjusted I don’t know what state you are in but in california the law might be different from yours
@WarmongerYT
2 жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick I have 2 children. Ages 13 & 10. I have been married to my husband/ their stepdad (or Dad as they call him,being as he's the only Dad they've ever known) almost 8 years now. I left my kids biological father when my youngest was 13 months old. He has not seen the kids for almost 9 years. His mother has had them at her house a few times & he seen them then once but he didn't even come to his mother's house specifically to see them, he showed up because his great grandmother had just passed& he showed up with a girl he was dating for 2months (while he was broken up with his off again,on again girlfriend of 9 years) & the girl's 2 small children - one of whom called him Daddy Infront of my 2 kids.(Again he had only been dating this new girl for not even 2months) So aside from seeing them then - Had not seen them& had not tried to see them aside from making 1 phone call/voice mail in that 9 years saying he missed his son on the voicemail & didn't say a word about his daughter. I digress , up until about 5 months ago (October 2020) he finally decided it was convenient for him to see his 2kids. I agreed (bc I don't believe in keeping children from parents out of spite. Unless of course the child(ren) would be in danger) I agreed he could come down to our daughters 10th bday party. But if he came to her birthday party on 9/02/20 then he would need to also come to our son's birthday party 2 months later on 11/08/20 - he didn't. But point being he has now seen them =4x. He came to her birthday party & came down in December to take them to eat in the town we live in. I brought our daughter up twice to meet up with him(&my son also came on the 2nd time) & his on again, off again gf the first time they were arguing & yelling Infront of us(my daughter&I) . Then the second time I brought both kids up to his house& his gf showed up &we were all outside& they were cussing&yelling at each other infront of all of us( she's was&is currently pregnant with their second child together &they were currently broken up). So 4times he's seen them all together. Twice he came down& twice I brought them up -both of which I couldn't believe the screaming,cussing&fighting Infront of us! He has never paid child support. For his daughters 10th bday he gave her $50 & for his son's birthday (that he didn't show up for) he bought him a $130 Carhartt jacket(well I ordered it&he paid for it) I called him&asked him if we could sit down&talk sometime in the near future about Child support &he got mad& called me "a stupid b*tch" &hung up. Later we talked &he said he talked to his Mom (whom is a pastor)& That he "shouldn't have to pay for a kid if you don't see them" I said that's been 1000% your choice. Just because a person decides to emotionally & physically abandon their children doesn't mean they also can financially abandon them also(even though he has for 9yrs). So he has been now paying me $200 per month for both/2 kids. So a $100 per kid per month. Which is comical. For 4months now. That pays for a few days of groceries. 🚩 He is a self employed painter &he makes decent money , especially considering he has VERY little bills. However he has no bank accounts & has only filed his taxes 2x since I left him(in 2012)& of course being self employed says he makes a lot less than what he actually does. He has a house that he finally almost has paid off. He got it with his ex-wife when he was 19 years old,he is now 38. His house payment is $220 a month. He has recently bought a cheap vehicle. So has liability insurance. &Is even buying a cheap house with his brother to fix up to sell. My husband is a licensed pipe fitter & a licensed inspector. He makes $40k - $50k per year. I believe my kids bio dad said he put down $30k on his taxes he filed last year. Our rent for our 3bedroom house is $950/mo , car payment$320, & of course electric$185/mo , wifi (kids have to have for school wifi) $100/mo, &phone bill$105/mo& groceries of course. So I'm wondering how to go forward filing for support. The reason I haven't for so long is because he's always said "If you file for child support, I'll file for split custody or full custody" which is absurd. I'm also pretty sure going 9 years without anything more than 1 phone call to the mother of your children surely would be considered abandonment? He is a stranger to both my kids, they don't know him.& The 4x since September 2nd 2020 of seeing them(today is January 25th 2022) it was uncomfortable for them but I encouraged them to be friendly&try to get to know him. They've seen him 4x now & 2 of those we had to leave after not even an hour of being there because of his ex girlfriend (ex at the time)& him cussing & arguing literally right Infront of us. Smh. * Oh & also his off again,on again girlfriend &him have a 5 year old son together & have another baby on the way together. Their 5 year old son they lost to DHS for drugs& after 2+ years having DHS involved, he was able to finally pass a few drug tests & she signed over custody to him because she had failed a drug test again &signed custody to him so that the child wouldn't go into foster care. Smh. I apologize this is so long. Just had to give some background info. I'm just no longer scared of his threat of getting the kids if I file Child support. I think or at least hope a judge will see through him. I don't want to ruin his life. I just want some help. Why is he so special he should he not have to pay child support? He makes in reality $800- $1,100 per week. $100 per kid per month is nothing. Especially when he hasn't paid me a $1 in 9 years. Personally I would like to receive $500 per month I feel would be fair especially for 2kids. We live in Arkansas.
@Sight2Behold
2 жыл бұрын
So why aren't you fighting this system? You're letting them put you in the grinder without letting them know you don't consent? Come on man
@ulfson279
2 жыл бұрын
Bruh... my kid was born in 2011... the chick was married to another guy and the baby momma and her husband was the legal parents... knowing that I was the father (they wanted him to get the rights) then out of nowhere I was called to come in for a DNA test... (baby momma was cheating again and the husband was done with her being crazy so they filed for divorce).... 2011 until today his name is still on the birth certificate... so I can't get his rights and his name taken off.. (they still mess around)... Take a fucking guess who has been charged with obligation of child support.... I don't have any other rights but the right to pay...
@IAmPhlick
2 жыл бұрын
Damn bro! That’s deep have you tried to lawyer up? And seek legal advice? I’ve heard of a similar situation in the past but not like yours! I hope everything works out for you bro! Definitely keep me posted on the outcome!
@ulfson279
2 жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick a lawyer said "why have you waited this long".... I said everything and they responded with "I meant why have you waited so long to fight for visitation rights?".... and I said "name one fucking right that you have to pay for, name one right that you have to beg the courts for and pay the courts for, if you apparently have rights then you have all of them (apparently if your a man then you're just fucked).... Why would I fight for rights that I have to pay for? And even if I do fight for them the person that I'm legally fighting in a civil case is getting payed no matter what....
@IAmPhlick
2 жыл бұрын
damn bro! i totally feel you man thats why i refused to have more kids. this is a perfect example of how the system is not built for fatherss yet a see alot of dead beat mothers out there getting by with bs. bro im wishing you the best. and hope you resolve your situation
@ulfson279
2 жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick thanks man, honestly between you and I I know why men have such a high suicide rate
@octaviolopez8413
2 жыл бұрын
Hey please don't give me wrong cause I used to believe in our justice system but unfortunately Child support enforcement it's not legit. What does it mean? That they do not have jurisdiction to decide if you can or can't see ur kids or how much money you need to pay to support ur kids
@novardobeach6150
3 жыл бұрын
I want to put my self on child support so my baby mama can’t pick and choose to drop kids off will it goes well for me
@IAmPhlick
3 жыл бұрын
I would do it with a mediator involved that way there is a written agreement that way there is something set in stone and she can’t back out! Wishing you the best
@seppshlllearningcenter419
3 жыл бұрын
That's stupid as fuck. Child support is a whole different battle than custody and visitation.
@tyroncline5978
3 жыл бұрын
Child support is not the same as support of child
@sharonklug1337
2 жыл бұрын
Don't go on child support. Go and get her for parental alienation. Document every phone call and every text and every time you legit try to see your child. Parents are not allowed to use child support as a reason for loss of visitation
@12-losttribes
Жыл бұрын
I've been looking all around and couldn't find no fucking answer whatsoever about does a father supposed to provide Wi-Fi and cable for a 3-year old is that a necessity is that basically called providing because me and my narcissistic as baby mother with arguing back and forth when I've been the one paying 90% of the bills I have kept a roof over my baby's head since she was Zero fresh born like it makes no sense how much stuff I done that I am getting heat for
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
That should be considered child support, I would reach out to your state department of social services they’ll be able to give you advice
@MrBilldozer14
18 күн бұрын
Aint nothing about child support is reasonable
@1985ldiaz
3 жыл бұрын
What does a mother do if the father wants to walk away? Can I still get child support?
@IAmPhlick
3 жыл бұрын
If he wants to walk away you can always ask for him to give up his rights if you want to take full custody of the kid! Of course you can get child support if he doesn’t want to be in your kids life! That’s a shame his loss hope everything works out for you 👍
@1985ldiaz
3 жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick Thank you! Will definitely be asking for child support and I am pretty certain he won't want anything to do with his own child...He is pretty bitter about this :(....You really find out people's true colors when something real happens.
@ulfson279
2 жыл бұрын
Umm if you're pro-choice and support women getting abortions then shut your face hole about child support
@WarmongerYT
2 жыл бұрын
@@ulfson279 wow. Wouldn't it actually be the opposite? If someone is pro choice/pro abortion then why would that conflict with child support? Personally I am pro life. Due to personally I believe there are entirely way to many forms of birth control including Plan B even , to have to get an abortion. Again personally I feel as though if I don't wish to become pregnant then I take those precautions to not become pregnant.
@Leo-pg6lt
Жыл бұрын
@@WarmongerYT I think the point is that woman have a choice where men have no choice. Every child born is 100 percent a women's choice. All you can say as fast as men go is don't have sex if you don't want a kid
@seanburns8669
Жыл бұрын
i make 18 a hour and pay 1890 a month for 2 kids leaving me with 120 a week
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
Man bro that’s not fair at all! How they get you like that? Have you tried to get legal help!
@jeffoehme8963
2 жыл бұрын
Bullshit, I see my kids 4-7 every night, every Friday night and every other weekend. And I’m still paying like a deadbeat. Unless it’s more overnights the cost is the same and yes that’s bullshit. I’m paying $350 a week to a person making $100 same as me.
@marcusjones1432
2 жыл бұрын
Only the overnight stays count. You can see your child every single day and it wouldn't matter. So basically....don't get up in the morning to go to work so you can support yourself or the child. Instead keep your child 3 or 4 days a week. What money you're supposed to do it with...now that's another story. The system is screwed and men will not ever and cannot ever win, unless you're super rich and the money you have to pay your child's mother for taking care of her own child won't hurt you too much.
@trellcarson
Ай бұрын
He didn’t give enough details
@1GodofLaw
Жыл бұрын
Great work but you provide no law to provide what your are quoting???
@IAmPhlick
Жыл бұрын
Im not a lawyer, this video was made based on my experience and my situation, besides every state is different what worked for me might not work for you, that’s why I mentioned to seek a family law lawyer to go over your options! This video was made for father’s out there not to give up! If you love your child you would do everything in your power to make sure you get an equal opportunity, but to each their own! Thanks for watching
@1GodofLaw
Жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick join us brethren warriors always needed
@1GodofLaw
Жыл бұрын
@@IAmPhlick Neither am I but we are here to win and free our brethren
@worthyrobinson
Жыл бұрын
40 goes to cs 30 go to taxes 30 go to u in today time how can u afford to live without working everyday... so how will u s33 the children
@Mr617swagg
2 жыл бұрын
KZitem Child support made simple Each one teach one Title 4D program aka debt collector agency
@JR-so9vl
2 жыл бұрын
What father you talking about. The legal father has no rights, the biological father always has rights
@YaYa_1435
8 ай бұрын
I'm about to get custody of my child and I want child support etc 😂 Boomerang!!!
@IAmPhlick
8 ай бұрын
Hell yeah bro! 🙌🏽
@YaYa_1435
8 ай бұрын
@@IAmPhlick Thank you for your channel and giving out positive energy! I belong to the Cherokee nation tribe and the court system lied on the documents about me. Hashtag Super dads get the job done.
@IAmPhlick
8 ай бұрын
Thanks for supporting brother! I hope everything works out in your favor! Don’t give up and keep striving for the best
@305MiTO
Жыл бұрын
It a scam 😅 I do get upset but legal way is to file 😂
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