Chiron 8th house man here. So let me entertain you: Sexually abused between 12 and 16 by 3 differnt guys, at different times; one of them was my uncle. Then lived in poverty until 21 with an alcoholic, non stop raging father. Mother wouldn't divorce cause she had no place to go so we just had to bear it, having a roof over our heads. Then came a couple of jobs with very abusive, gaslighting managers and mentors. Then came betrayals from lifelong friends. Then came sheer loneliness and always feel disconnected from the people, universe, no matter what I did Done almost 13 years of therapy, with 3 different therapists , in 2 different countries. Sex life: non existent. I'm a 37 year old virgin. I could pay for it but I don't want to yet . And of course, families from both sides fucked: from father's side, an uncle who literally drank himself to death by the age of 40. Some other brothers with an alcoholic history, and not a university degree between the 5 of them. From mother's side , my crazy uncle plus a few repressed lesbians I guess, also an air of suppressed sexuality and a lot of religiousness taken to the extreme. ...but I am still alive. I've got my degree in English literature, although at the age of 32. And my biggest dream is to study psychology as hard as I can , and then to help people as much as I can ( because there is this idea that abused people turn into abusers themselves if they don't process trauma, so they need to transform their all their pain and anger into doing good for others, otherwise it might get dangerous)
@feelgoodastrology
9 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for taking the time for sharing your story with me. I am always shocked when I hear about the level of sexual abuse that occurs. It is a common story with clients, but nothing to the extent that you have experienced. I am sorry that you have experienced this and am not surprised that you've chosen to not make love. It's beautiful to hear how you are making sense of this through your studies and also your desire to help others. I am curious about what else isp laying in to your 8th house chiron, ie the asoects it is making to other planets and also I wonder where dwarf planet nessus is Nessus is a nasty piece of sht and often shows up as our abusers. Much love to you and thanks once again for illustrating your experience xxxxx
@adonisxlviii
Ай бұрын
aries rising, chiron in 8th house. i wont say how this applies but it applies very specifically. Thank you for the new found awareness
@feelgoodastrology
Ай бұрын
Thank you for the confirmation. I understanding why you might not share how it applies. This is a very sensitive part of our chart xxxx
@marshabenedict8041
Жыл бұрын
Omg, this explains so much. Thx for providing clarity. This journey has not been easy but so worth it. You are appreciated 💛
@feelgoodastrology
Жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. Thanks Marsha! I really appreciate you for taking the time and trouble to write this. Have you seen the Jupiter conjnct Chiron one yet? kzitem.info/news/bejne/wm9_uWtqr4deeKA might be useful, given the theme for March with healing and chironic issues. LOVE x
@marshabenedict8041
Жыл бұрын
@@feelgoodastrology Aww thank you. I have not seen it yet, but will do it now. Thank you kindly and have a wonderful weekend.
@feelgoodastrology
9 ай бұрын
@@marshabenedict8041 you too. Happy New Year x
@Infiniteeverything8
8 ай бұрын
I have a lot of 8th house energy! It’s challenging stuff. My moon (Gemini) Venus and Chiron (both cancer)in the 8th are all there opposing Saturn, Uranus & Neptune in 2 my second house. I chose to deal with some deeply painful emotional stuff in this life.. Sometimes I feel I’ll never be able to accept myself and be ok. I was lucky to have a loving mother and a loving stepfather I don’t think they ever understood me but they definitely love me. Sending love to all of you guys in the comments, I can see and feel the pain here ❤
@feelgoodastrology
8 ай бұрын
This is such a briliant comment here, that even though you have felt so much pain and emotional stuff, that you are stadning side by side with everyone else. how are you feeling now acouple of weeks after writing this. I think Jupiter in Gemini will really start to bring more oportunities to you later on in the year and early next, as it moves towards your moon / chiron and also goes into opposition with your powerful stellium. I quite like the energy of jupiter and chiron together. it really creates a healing opportunity, and I know it's not here yet, but brings in such a strong possibility. Am glad you know you're loved. We all need support. Much love to you and thanks for being so compassionate xxxxxxx
@bluebird6
7 ай бұрын
Such an insightful analysis. The best I heard so far. And you are genuine, simple and kind. Thank you for this !
@feelgoodastrology
7 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for saying so. This was recorded 5 years ago, when I was heavily pregnant, so I was very tuned in, intuitively. Hope your Chiron can also bring you the gift of mastery. Much love x
@bluebird6
7 ай бұрын
@@feelgoodastrology 💕🕊🌷
@inkamerinen5265
21 күн бұрын
Whoa. I have moon in cancer at same as these. Rising scorpio.🎉 the depth is so deep. Ispeak lots of topics of this house openly...😅
@angelinaveneziano5303
Жыл бұрын
looking for light has always healed me in a way no one can understand. my chiron is in scorpio, and my father was killed due to medical malpractice when i was very young - which broke my fundamental trust in the universe - let alone other people. i have been interested in astrology but this is the first time i've looked at a detailed version of my chart. it is almost comforting that everything i've dealt with in this life so far is written in the stars. thank you for this episode and for mentioning ways of healing along with the wounds. i was getting pretty bogged down in the heaviness of the knowledge that these wounds will follow me. i've been working so hard to heal in therapy and in my spiritual practice. all of the other videos i saw were very focused on the negative.
@feelgoodastrology
Жыл бұрын
@angelinaveneziano5303 thank you so much for trusting me with something so private. I cannot imagine the pain of such a loss, which I am sure would have caused me to lose trust in the universe. Astrology can really show us where we have lost our faith and trust, and one of the things I have found useful in my own life, was to investigate the pain through the medium of astrology, patterns, cycles and making notes. I believe we have all closed off vulnerable parts of ourselves, and it feels really poignant to me, to see which parts of my experience, I have shut down, and then to slowly reintegrate them back into wholeness. Sometimes I have to have a few gos! 🤣😂 Chiron and the planets he connects to natally and by transit can really help build up a healing timeline for you. Chiron also shows us how we can release the burden of carrying our pain. Do you know how to use your chiron in realation to your other planets and transits? Happy to help if I can x LOVE
@Healwithceleryjuice
Ай бұрын
chiron 8th house in aries conjunct Jupiter here. It looks like I am in my Chiron return! I have been doing quite a bit of healing work over the last 10 years so we shall see. Both sides of family severely dysfunctional . Its been a lot of work trying to break out of it but I think I will make it. If for no other reason, I must for my daughter so she can see something different. Mom transitioned and have no other family that are healthy enough to have a relationship with. All addicts, abusers, and narcissists. I have been doing so much work to clear prosperity blockages. If you have any insight how I can best use this return to do so I would be grateful. I have had so many people I love die, hopefully I will experience winning the lottery instead. Thanks for this podcast.
@wenpra7032
10 ай бұрын
Thank you! I have Chiron in the 8th house. You explained it so clearly, it made a lot of sense to me.
@feelgoodastrology
10 ай бұрын
You are so welcome and I am thrilled it resonated with you. I think there are many natural leaders born with this. Those who master this are able to live outside of shame and guilt patterns, imagine that world for a moment!!. Much love xxx
@mrpool577
Жыл бұрын
i have Virgo Asc chiron alone in 8th house Aries Everything you said matches my personality I am a man of 42 years old Thank you very much
@feelgoodastrology
Жыл бұрын
You are very welcome! Clearing family patterns and learning that what oyu are most likely taking responsibility for might not even be 'your stuff' / could be 'someone else's baggage' is important. Ask yourself 'Who does this belong to?'. I do free pop up readings on my Sunday show, email me if you'd like to be featured louisatannermunson@gmail.com
@ashleycrawford9863
Жыл бұрын
Snap. Virgo Asc Chiron in Aries 8th house.
@dlehmann8353
9 ай бұрын
same here
@jalisa_danielle
6 ай бұрын
This cleared up so much! Thank you for this video!
@feelgoodastrology
6 ай бұрын
You're so welcome! I am so pleased it was useful. I recored it over 5 years ago, so I can't really reemmber what I was talking about back then in terms of Chiron!! 🤣 Have you already watched the chiron NN video? That mgiht still be useful x
@channeledharmony9862
Ай бұрын
This is so helpful thank you
@dlehmann8353
9 ай бұрын
Excellent analysis!
@feelgoodastrology
9 ай бұрын
Thank you very much. These were recorded over 5 years ago when I was pregnant with my last child, so I can't really remember now what was said!! And I was highly receptive with all of those hormones washing around inside me! Glad it made sense to you and thanks for lettign me know x
@elanshift6280
9 ай бұрын
I'll add.. Chiron 8th in Aries/ my father was an Aries and my natal Sun in the 10th squares my Virgo moon conjunct Pluto in the first and.... I decided in my childhood... that I'd "overcome" therefore "survived"
@elanshift6280
9 ай бұрын
Happy New Year to you and Your Family! @@feelgoodastrology
@amandaestetalks
6 ай бұрын
Neptune conjunct Chiron in Aquarius 8th house. I felt a lot of shame towards myself all my life with no event to really tie it back to. However, I recently realized it comes from sexual abuse (mostly covert) from the hands of my father. I always knew something about how he treated me wasn’t normal but only now am i realizing it’s abuse
@feelgoodastrology
6 ай бұрын
Hey. Please forgive how long it took to respond. Thank you for sharing your experience. So sorry that you've felt so much shame, made worse because you couldnt be sure where it came from. I hear from many people, and also have experienced that strange moment where we remember our childhood, and it suddenly clicks that what we grew up with just wasnt right, moral or fair. Abuse is very much an 8th house 'secret' thing. Much love to you in all your realisations. xxxxxx
@amandaestetalks
6 ай бұрын
@@feelgoodastrology thank you, I appreciate your words ❤️
@Whatalovelyday90
Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! I have Chiron in the 8th Conjunct Jupiter and Vertex. In Cancer.
@feelgoodastrology
Жыл бұрын
What a great youtube handle! One of the great things about this placement is that you could be such a strong coach, healer. Very psychological, very much about transformation
@sarahbarnett1144
9 ай бұрын
Thank you ✨
@feelgoodastrology
9 ай бұрын
You’re welcome 😊. Have you checked out the other 'through the houses' playlists? I also have uranus, pluto, saturn and the north node. Happy holidays x
@kimberlyallen3272
9 ай бұрын
Yes, Chiron in Aries in my 8 th house. Sun and Saturn in Taurus, in ninth house. Sag moon. Asshole parents, mostly my father. He had weird thoughts and always let us girls know his thoughts of young women and sex. Called us whores, sluts etc if we wanted to join a sports team or some kind of activities. I was also shunned because I saw ghosts/spirits very young. I also have mercury and Venus there too. I finally severed my cords with my parents, dad deceased, mother still around. In my Chiron return now. Never had a close, close person die that has affected me
@dlehmann8353
9 ай бұрын
Merry Christmas Kimberly... Aries Chiron 8th as well.. Weird dynamics for sure- Wishing you Peace and Joy for the New Year!
@feelgoodastrology
9 ай бұрын
Hey Kimberly, thanks for sharing from your personal experience. It is sad to hear of how your femininity was demonised. I really hear in your description of how Chiron has created the pain around all of these 8th house issues. I am also going through my chiron return at the moment (born dec 74), and am present to how our insecurities from the past come up for us to observe them and possibly release them. Not sure where your Sun and Saturn are in taurus, but if they're around 22degrees, they'll be cathcing the energy of the uranus/jupiter conjunction in ASpril 2024 which is big game changing energy. You're certainly going through a time of change! Much love to you xxx
@feelgoodastrology
9 ай бұрын
You are so lovely! x
@kimberlyallen3272
9 ай бұрын
@@feelgoodastrology my sun is at 21 degrees and Saturn 25 degrees, Taurus. So, yes, Uranus is currently sitting on my Sun. April 2024, will be interesting for sure. Virgo rising, Pluto there at 27 degrees. Wish I had of known Astrology in my younger years. I was born May of 1971. Thanks again for your knowledge.
@michellearroyo9136
Жыл бұрын
My sons Chiron at 26 degree is in 8th house Pisces along with Neptune 12 degree here 🥺 I’ve been very worried . He’s only 5 now
@feelgoodastrology
Жыл бұрын
Hi Michelle, I completely understand that you might be worried. 2 of my children have pluto transits that I have been owrrying about. When I compare and contrast expereinces from my history and that of clients, I have noticed that often these difficult transits, when they happen early can be largely mitigated by having stability around them. Your son is under your guidance and care. For example, I had uranus and pluto going over my ascendant in my early years, and when Uranus passed over my ascendant it coincided with getting a sibling. Pluto over my uranus coincided with some anxiety about going to senior school. Pluto over my ascendant coincided with the rapid onset of puberty and crushes. I would pay more attention if when Neptune goes over your son's chiron, if there are other aspects going on. I think when slow things aspect his Neptune and Chiron (ie Saturn is moving through pisces), he'll need more support to stay positive. The 8th has a lot to do with 'Rites of Passage' and growing up, so help to integrate the changes he is going through. I hope this is helpful. www.feelgoodastrology.com if you want more help xxxx
@michellearroyo9136
Жыл бұрын
@@feelgoodastrology well thank you so much for this . He is starting his first school year in three days . Pisces is his 8th house . And Saturn is transiting there for the next 2 years ? Neptune I believe in currently transiting Pisces ? It’s Chiron that’s in Aries I believe. So I’m thinking Neptune at 12 means his age or 26 Chiron I think year 2026 or his 26th age . But thank you so much again for the insight ! I have your info saved if I need to reach out
@nightswimmer5357
Жыл бұрын
This is the most beautiful, personal and comforting response I’ve ever heard form any creator, helping us face the darkness with such kindness is definitely your gift.
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