The Kan Kan films have come about as I have met my niece for the first time. She's epic and reminds me of a younger me (yes I did insinuate that I'm epic!) I'm self-indulgently dishing out my middle-aged lady advice.
One small word can significantly influence our perception of our actions: 'should'. This word often carries a burden of societal expectations, obligations, and external pressures, suggesting that our choices are governed by what others think is appropriate rather than what we truly want. However, by replacing 'should' with 'choose', we shift the narrative to one of personal power and clarity.
The word 'should' implies a duty or an obligation that might not align with our desires or best interests. It often leaves us feeling inadequate or guilty for not living up to an imposed standard. For instance, saying "I should go to the gym" implies an obligation, which can feel like a burden.
On the other hand, 'choose' is a word that empowers. It places the control firmly in our hands, suggesting a voluntary and deliberate decision. "I choose to go to the gym" transforms the activity into a personal commitment rather than a societal expectation. This subtle shift in language encourages autonomy and self-motivation.
Using 'choose' also clarifies our motivations. It forces us to confront whether our actions are truly in line with our values and goals, or simply a response to external pressures. This clarity can lead to more fulfilling and authentic life choices. When we start saying 'choose', we naturally begin to evaluate why we are making these choices, which enhances our understanding of our true preferences and desires.
So next time you find yourself about to say 'should', pause and reconsider: is this truly your choice? If so, own it by saying 'choose'. This simple change can make a profound difference in how you live and perceive your life.
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