I'm a Christian who's been dressing as Alt since I was 13, which was back in the early 00's when Emo and Scene styles were on the rise. A ton of my Christian family members on both sides were just assuming I was doing it because it was trendy, I was constantly getting crap for it. Even people who I thought were my friends were judging me, and spreading rumors. 🙄 When it was no longer trendy, everyone was just shocked that I didn't change my style. I didn't understand it and I still don't. I was always modest, and never wore anything graphic or offensive. I also don't get why they get upset over cross printed stuff. I love cross printed stuff! Upsidedown crosses are not my favorite, however I do not judge people if it's their thing. I just feel personally that if I were to wear something like that, it would be disrespectful. I do have a cute pair of cross fishnet tights that are my favorite, and they look good with everything! None of their hurtful words ever changed my mind about how I should dress. I know who I am, I know who God made me to be. I love black, and I love skulls! I very much appreciate the title of this video, and anytime I have to see any of my judgemental family members, I always have at least one skull on me somewhere! Life is too short to worry about what other people think of you. I'm perfectly happy with my faith, and my fishnets! I also love your style! 🖤
@sharonpawson6606
3 ай бұрын
I love the way you dress. I'm a grandmother and wear what I feel comfortable in. People use to comment on the way my son dresses, all back, skulls tattoos etc. They soon learned to shut up, and realized he is a great dad and person. And the fact, they didn't like my response. Everyone should be allowed to look/dress in what makes them happy, as long has it's not hurting anyone, I don't see any issue. Stay safe and live your best life.
@VesselOfBlood
3 ай бұрын
I completely agree, thank you so much!
@tinashort9098
8 ай бұрын
I’m not religious, I’m spiritual…I’m also 58 yrs old and I wear whatever my heart desires!! My family knows by now that if I show up with my coffin purse, bat earrings and whatever clothes I deem fascinating that day, to shut up and tell me how stunning I am😂😂. Wear what makes your soul shine!!!!! Every single piece you showed is just beautiful on you!!!!!!!
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
I'm the same I'm 41 nearly 42 and I've been told I should dress my age blah blah blah it' makes me laugh my partner supports my clothing choices
@queenbee4485
8 ай бұрын
Your crown 🖤. your makeup 🖤. your clothes 🖤. your attitude 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤.
@terrysilva6430
6 ай бұрын
I love that you have such a great attitude towards the disapproval of the way you dress. That becomes their problem and not yours. Awesome video
@SakiStargazer
3 ай бұрын
I'm a Christian and I don't understand other Christians that get offended when people wear crosses - I myself wear them. They should think of it as a statement, not a thing that offends others. And also as you said with the upside down cross - that is also true. In the end, when a Christian gets offended, he should start looking at the why he got offended by another person and not judge them. Just my 5 cents to it. I love your style and also the things you show in your Hauls.
@kericorley9387
7 ай бұрын
I was 16 in 1979. Right before the Goth music movement. I was dark, listening to heavy metal, wearing all black even in the summer, and I was called a "crow" by my family. They said I was going through a phase. Well that phase lasted for 45 years so far. Funny no matter how dark I went, I've never been called a Goth.
@gorymarty56
3 ай бұрын
I luv your style. And i agree wear what you feel good in.
@kymberlygaleti8557
8 ай бұрын
I adore your videos! You're so beautiful and I love your style. Goth is my favorite too and I'm 53 but i really don't care what people think, guess that's part of being Gen X!
@KyleBryan-f5s
8 ай бұрын
Enchanted and playful ✨️
@snow_fox9390
8 ай бұрын
I've always worn whatever I want regardless of others opinions. I'm not hurting myself or others, I just express myself in many ways and clothing is one of those ways. I refuse to bow down to haters 😊
@wintersr78
8 ай бұрын
I love the crown, btw new subscriber, and the hair is next level awasome.
@AfternoonDaLite
8 ай бұрын
Your giggles are the best! ✨
@LucyGooseyVault33
8 ай бұрын
Great video and excellent advice. My family gave up a long time ago telling what I should or should not wear lol they know I’m gonna do what i want.
@SheilaLJones
8 ай бұрын
Same for me
@wintersr78
8 ай бұрын
my little sister always out does me on shoes because she is short she takes my awsome shoe style and adds five inch platforms/ heels. My family stopped commenting on my and my sisters clothes some time in the early 2000s.
@bigyin1415
8 ай бұрын
I used to get the same so yep, I did same as you and upped my game haha! I wore a sparkly cobweb bodysuit this year :) Love you, don't ever change
@dixierodriguez3149
8 ай бұрын
Cute black 🖤 dress 👗 with princess 👸 sleeves n bow n moon 🌙
@travismorse4762
8 ай бұрын
It doesn't seem to matter what we wear, say, do, or anything else about us. some people tend to find something to disapprove of about anyone... as if their opinions matter.
@gothgoddessrhia
8 ай бұрын
The cross mesh pieces look fabulous together. I adore the cross dress, too. A great haul.
@VesselOfBlood
8 ай бұрын
Thank you dahling! 🥰
@-RONNIE
8 ай бұрын
All very nice items 👍🏻
@scarysweetsugarskull
8 ай бұрын
Ur an incredible inspiration🎉🎉🎉
@BowsettesFury
8 ай бұрын
Those flats are really cute.
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
I love the laptop bag hell yeah
@qwinngalloway6289
8 ай бұрын
i have that same cross print skirt and i love it alot !!
@SheilaLJones
8 ай бұрын
My family gave up after I turned 18 . They figured that I’m going to do what I want, after all the fights we had over my emo and scene wardrobe back in high school (2007-2011)
@tiffanymoody620
6 ай бұрын
Great haul 🖤
@thecrackpotartist
7 ай бұрын
So much cute stuff
@elainew2230
8 ай бұрын
Yes.. wear the crown. Piss them off. I have a crown too.
@Whitewitch_25
8 ай бұрын
I love your shirt! (No seriously I love your shirt, it’s freaking amazing!)
@Sanniz
8 ай бұрын
I am lucky and don't have religious relatives. But there is still some that didn't like my clothes. Myself don't care... Nice items you found! Stay safe gorgeous 🦇🖤🖤🖤🖤🦇
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
I'm lucky I don't have any family alive now I'm the only one that is alive still ( I think I'm alive still I support a goth vampire life ) but my partners family is different they hated the way I acted,looked etc my partner hasn't spoken to his family in years now and he doesn't want to because of the way they treated both of us I'm known as the psycho one 😂
@deliciously2wicked
8 ай бұрын
Love everything you get n it all looks so good on you 😊
@saracompassi8385
8 ай бұрын
I bought a second pair of skull flats . They are more comfortable than the demonia shoes
@dixierodriguez3149
8 ай бұрын
Cute black 🖤 cross ✝️ shirt 👕 with bell 🔔 sleeves
@donnamcdermott443
8 ай бұрын
That crown is perfection ❤
@xxalidaexx7499
8 ай бұрын
I think us alt's should make this a normal holiday tradition. :D Lmao
@wheelswheelchairgirl67
8 күн бұрын
Your beautiful inside and out .... i get comments too and judged etc ...mainly by christians i had to tone right down what i wore mainly blacks and purples ....my path gets the worst judged .... id dont matter what our paths are we are still human beings with feelings ..... we should be and wear what we want .... im gradually bringing me back and with my halloween show haul soon and my sanderson t shirt from temu i think ppl will guess lol 😂 ..... i love my goth black boots ... which i wear in autumn and winter .... Wear and be who we are .... 💜🖤
@kimareska
8 ай бұрын
This happen in all style idk why 😂 I love wear flowery frilly dresses. And whenever I wear it on family gathering my relatives always ask why I dress like a 5 years old. I mean fair enough. But like...when I was 5 I can't wear frilly dress all the time cause it will get dirty so why can't I wear it 20 years after? At this point I believe any style that not modest-basic-with boring color will get roasted no matter what 😬
@Mandamonster89
8 ай бұрын
I have sustained beatings, insults, screaming matches, and threats from family members who I thought cared about me. It’s insane how violent these people get when we just wear what we like (and are not doing nor wearing anything outwardly offensive). I have ptsd and a lot of it comes from my family and the abuse I have been through during my life. It’s not fun having closed minded family members.
@siobhanmurphy2633
8 ай бұрын
😊❤ thank you
@paranormalnora
8 ай бұрын
My religious family accepts the way I dress so I feel pretty lucky 😂
@LegalizeNuclearBomb666
8 ай бұрын
You are lucky
@lamborghinigirl123
8 ай бұрын
My religious family also accept the way I dress :)
@RomiVero
8 ай бұрын
Mine too. I'm Christian Goth and everybody un My life accepts the way I dress thank God
@go2hellgrl
8 ай бұрын
I love your style, message and attitude. Happy New Year Heather!
@dixierodriguez3149
8 ай бұрын
Cute silver 🩶 cross ✝️ with star 🌟
@dixierodriguez3149
8 ай бұрын
Cute red velvet skirt with roses 🌹
@dixierodriguez3149
8 ай бұрын
Cute black 🖤 cross ✝️ skirt 🖤
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
Those boots would be perfect in black im only a black and red wearer
@Randomark3087
8 ай бұрын
Sidenote: I LOVE your hair! You look like a gothic mermaid!
@VesselOfBlood
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@VesselOfBlood
8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@Randomark3087
8 ай бұрын
@@VesselOfBlood Yaaa welcome!
@braealexander8820
8 ай бұрын
Cider Haul PLEASE 💙💙💙⭕️🪢💜💜💜✡️
@Katt1204
8 ай бұрын
I like the Gothic and the Halloween look I love Halloween. I have nothing against any other stuff. I love a lot of it! UBU and don't change for anybody. I really like a lot of the clothing items you have some I'm not crazy about but I'm not the one wearing them so you do you and what makes you happy! Me personally, I don't like the lingerie look as outerwear, but that's me.
@BecaAnimate
8 ай бұрын
This doesn't have anything to do with the haul, but how many goth bands do you have to listen before you can call yourself goth? I currently have a total sum of 2.
@EvaMetalhankle
8 ай бұрын
I've been wearing these boots with bat wings and my mom, who never said a thing about my fashion choices, was in the mood for Christmas roasting... So this 37 year old is now a child again, it seems!
@dixierodriguez3149
8 ай бұрын
Cute pink 💗 glitter heart boots 👢 i have been wanting these for a long time
@joannapacheco2041
8 ай бұрын
Wow I see your right I always feel bad cause my family most don't like me after I have got seizure and became Gothic and grunge style person I know this is personal but I'm agree with you thanks for that message. Enjoy your New year.bless you
@carolwade3282
8 ай бұрын
I love your videos ❤ Your outfits are always wonderful. I wish I was your friend.
@dixierodriguez3149
8 ай бұрын
Cute black 🖤 n white 🤍 cross ✝️ dress 👗
@SinnersavedbyGrace1
8 ай бұрын
You'd think people would appreciate the crosses. As a Christian myself, I don't see the problem with crosses whatsoever. As long as it's bit used in a blasphemous manner but this is fashion so, it's fine! ❤ ❤❤
@coralieparker7664
8 ай бұрын
Just imagine getting a goth pair of tap shoes to really get their blood boiling 😂😈🖤🖤 xx
@mandasworld267
8 ай бұрын
I'd love to be able to piss my family off but they all accept my alternative style my 82 year old nana loves my coffin bag
@LegalizeNuclearBomb666
8 ай бұрын
I don’t understand why wearing a cross upsets them so much
@ville666sora
8 ай бұрын
Can't stand when people act like others are dressing "ridiculously", when in reality it's their own judgmental behavior that comes off as ridiculous. Like why tf are some people SO bothered by what other people choose to wear or what lifestyle they choose to live? As long as people aren't hurting anyone just let them be happy.
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
It all boils down to society standards big time if you don't act,dress etc like them well that is when trouble begins I cop it big time in the town I'm living in here in Australia one of the reasons why I don't leave my tent I'm currently living in which is by no choice at all the cost of living here is ridiculous and the homeless epidemic is getting worse
@Maturleyglam
8 ай бұрын
There just jealous because they could NEVER look as good as you in ANYTHING!!❤😅 i personally love your wtyle im just too old and chubby to pull it off😢
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
Lay off about the age part that is part of society standards anyone of any age can wear whatever why want
@donnamcdermott443
8 ай бұрын
I'd be curious how they could be upset about the cross dress you would be a walking bill board for jesus how could they be mad at that 😂
@littlecreep1903
7 ай бұрын
Hi what wig is this please? the purply green one
@siobhanmurphy2633
8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤
@erineisenegger7968
5 ай бұрын
I’m a very proud Christian woman and I love dressing very conservative, the older I get the longer my skirt goes. If I do wear a short skirt I do wear safety shorts under the skirt so I feel comfortable and feel confident going out, when you do dress with very short shirts and laundry top you will get bad attention or look at by other people and I feel it’s gives out bad vibes.
@Goth_anarchist
8 ай бұрын
I don't like the hollydays because my family doesn't accept me 100%, and i hate it all. CALL ME EBENEZER SCROOGE FOR I WILL CALL CHRISTMAS AND THE HOLLYDAYS HAMBUG, AND I SHALL EXPECT THE FIRST GHOST WHEN THE BELL TOLLS ONE! Na but seriously if my life was a video game i would be stuck at my current level, i also don't have any goth friends.😢 Now for a funny thing: i found out my crush is 17 and i'm 14 so that was useless but i need to vent sometimes and i hate myself for this but i trust the youtube comments. Sorry for bad spelling/grammar, i'm european
@xavierpar2147
8 ай бұрын
I sent you a new goth outfit
@SparkieGoth
8 ай бұрын
All these cross motifs (cries in Jewish Goth)! Weirdly enough, if I showed up wearing some outrageous clothing, I think my family wouldn't even notice!
@NY_7
8 ай бұрын
She looks like a beautiful goth queen.
@jelinem
8 ай бұрын
Your so beautiful in all those clothes
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
Im spewing this company does not send to Australia
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
Just remember everyone your clothes do not define who you are as a person
@jonmcintire9067
4 ай бұрын
Modesty and humility and humble , are church created words because they needed to because ..... ??💀💀💀💀👽😎😀😀😯😉😈😈😈😉😯
@Plasticityy
8 ай бұрын
Am I insane or this reuploaded. I feel like I’ve seen this, please am I crazy lmk 😭
@VesselOfBlood
8 ай бұрын
Sorry to say you’re crazy, I’ve never uploaded this before 😂
@Plasticityy
8 ай бұрын
@@VesselOfBloodNoo I’m hella psychic 😭 lol
@jonmcintire9067
4 ай бұрын
If you put spiderwebs again , then the church has a motive , for a wtf , I traced it back to that . because its sex related .💀💀💀💀😀😀😯😉😈😈😈😉😎💀💀💀💀💖💖
@louisadale5907
3 ай бұрын
Ok you're going to have to explain that one because how in the 7 hells?
@Katt1204
8 ай бұрын
My personal opinion with short skirts and dresses some sort of shorts need to be worn underneath but that's just me. I like to be cute just as well as the next person but I think age and some sort of modesty needs to be thought about even if you are younger, we don't need to let everything hang out for the world to see.
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
I don't wear anything other then underwear under my short dresses or skirts but that is me I don't wear shorts either long or short because they don't suit me at all I have a Maori body and we usually have big thick thighs big hips and a relative big gut which yes we do get called fat even when the gut doesn't bulge over how's that
@THEECLECTICHIPPYWITCH
7 ай бұрын
And I for one don't believe in modesty it's not my thing that modesty stuff is society standards all over something I don't follow or ever will my personal opinion is that modesty is for prudes that have no idea about the sexual side to been a woman
@braealexander8820
8 ай бұрын
Your family is biological perhaps however mine is not so understand a man is just a man and yourself deserves respect perhaps but regardless you better believe that if myself chooses friends they are few and far between💙💙💙⭕️🪢💜💜💜✡️
@twinkle231979
8 ай бұрын
Wow Americans are still so Puritan 😟 none of this would raise an eyebrow in Britain 😅
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