A good way to get through codependency is to realize you are A. lying and B. you aren't REALLY doing it for the other person anyways. You are doing things for selfish reasons and C you can end up resenting the people because you witheld who you really are. D. People are not going to respect someone with no boundaries. No one can ever really fall in love with you if you aren't being honest. -A former Codependent
@everod6699
7 жыл бұрын
It is so helpful when you explain so in depth the ins and outs and what's hidden. It's like you've lived my aspects and now drawn a map for us showing the mines and potholes haa haa Thanks for all your videos
@elaineekberg113
6 жыл бұрын
Eve Rod exactly, as if when you get your notification, a personal message sent for you.♥ Calling all Empaths!
@andreaandrea6716
5 жыл бұрын
Jewel, I love the party analogy and the girl who's all dressed up and out of place! Makes me smile. This is so evidently the place where you belong; explaining all of this to us. It's so obviously your (or ONE OF YOUR) superpower(s). Cannot tell you how grateful I am... just... thank you! (Your 'knowing' and pursuing this path ... supports me in following my own path ... I believe as each person listens to that inner whisper and goes with that, it supports the rest of us). Blessings.
@luukassl
8 жыл бұрын
Boundaries are a must! This video was very truthful. Take this from a 4th house neptune conj. sun,moon and uranus :D
@cosmosj131
6 жыл бұрын
I am so glad I can watch this several times! Your videos are so helpful. Thank you for sharing.
@annikoification
Жыл бұрын
OMG all of your Neptune videos are the story of my life ( Neptune conjunct ASC , opposite Moon and square Sun) ... THANK YOU!!
@MamasMoonshine
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this ❤️ It was a great reminder for me & I used it to remind my 17 year old daughter that she controls her life.
@joan_sneezes
8 жыл бұрын
This was extremely helpful. I have Neptune Capricorn in my third house on the cusp of my IC with Jupiter in the 4th also on the cusp. This video was very appropriate and I'm going to take these great ideas to my therapist!
@daphnearcher3345
Жыл бұрын
Wow needed this! Thank you so much 💗
@boop8551
7 жыл бұрын
This video popped up in my feed and it couldn't have come at a better time. I have neptune in sag, 2nd house, and soon transit saturn will be conjunction it. I can honestly already feel it coming, though. There's always been a big codependency issue in my family, and even with some of my friendships, and I'll admit I've played the victim at times. I don't borrow money from people, but I am the person people seem to come to for "loans". Unfortunately I don't usually get paid back, and it gets to me, I become angry yet I hold it in and very much victimize myself in my head. I have a hard time setting those boundaries and will even admit some part of me does lend out money to feel needed. I recently loaned a friend a substantial amount of money and she didn't pay me back on the day she said she would, so now I'm struggling with what to do in regards to that friendship and also realizing all the way around that I've got to make some drastic changes to the way in which I do things. Its pretty exhausting to feel like the only thing people like about you is what you can do for them, and I know that I'm the only person who is responsible for that throught process. While I'm nervous about what Saturn might bring, I'm not upset about it. I'm actually ready for it.
@alchemist8064
2 ай бұрын
Oh my God Jewel. I'm so glad I've found this video. I've been struggling to find information in astrology about how to deal with this exact topic. I don't really like to label anything. Mainly because once a person has labeled as empathic therefore now it becomes a thing and could potentially be exploited. However, my personality does seem to fit into these descriptions. I'm just hesitant to call myself anything. I have Neptune in my first house and Pisces ruling the 4th house. My ascendant ruler, Jupiter, trines Neptune in the first house. My sun also sextiles Neptune. I have had a very idealistic view of romantic relationships in general my whole life. Very soft hearted and easily hurt. I love without bounds and have given or emptied myself out for the happiness of others. In my heart it was because it made me happy to make others happy. Or to offer myself unselfishly in service in some ways. To give without expectations of anything being returned. But I have attracted selfish and ungiving romantic relationships in my life that have hurt me so deeply. Eventually I had to realize how this was happening. My boundaries were already so porous to begin with and then completely demolished in these relationships. I had to find my inner strength and see that I was worthy of respect and love. It's taken half my life to finally get this message. Only now I am working with the bitterness that it's caused. But I know that I can no longer compromise on my boundaries. If that narrows the potential of ever finding something healthy for me then I am ok with that. This has been incredibly difficult to end up at this perspective being that I was a woman who was so in love with love. It used to be my entire world to find true love and to be in partnership with another. But I finally love myself enough to know that I am deserving to receive love. But I can actually see what that really means. I needed to love and respect myself more. Neptune has been my greatest gift and my greatest challenge.
@Chevaun8230
6 жыл бұрын
This was an AMAZING msg! My Venus and Neptune r conjunct n my 1st house. I'm on my spiritual journey and hv come to terms with a lot of the mistakes I've made...it does hv a lot to do with my upbringing. Thanks for this Jewel. I'm evolving...
@jeskad1716
8 жыл бұрын
apsolutley amazing jewel, hit the nail on the head, I'm a Venus conjuct Neptune, and I've just recently had to take major responsibility haha! I see its effected my whole life and I'm still practising just being me...solidly. latley I've realised this fear of my own ego showing up, but I'm realising that's bullshit, and I must project my self through my ego! and show up! ❤! thanks again for all you share! hounestly very needed!
@pradgadagkar8557
2 жыл бұрын
Your analysis is excellent. You are veritably a good astrologer
@philsauriol9071
6 жыл бұрын
I took responsibility for my life when I was 21 - hence the nickname. Indeed, I connected with a deeper self I had not even known existed until then. I wouldn't say we have power over all of our flaws but I might be mistaken. I have so much to learn. Thanks for another great video!
@Sigmarules77
7 жыл бұрын
jewel Ur absolutely a gem when it comes to astorolgy just like ur name suggest ..am studying astrology and Ur videos have been a hall mark of knowledge when it comes to understanding metaphysics ...
@mialove7
5 жыл бұрын
I just got my birth chart and this is so helpful. .so so grateful ...I just started a youtube search and came across this...my Neptune is in Scorpio in the 5th house cancer rising 9 degrees..I don't know what this all means but I'm starting to Inner stand 💕✨thank you listening to helped me except me for me . I didn't like it at first ..but has nothing to do with you. Lol
@sunndsoul
Жыл бұрын
Jewel after reading me to filth: "So I hope this was helpful!"
@DaysofOurLives2005
2 ай бұрын
Very insightful, thank you! I have Sun opposite Neptune and Mars opposite Neptune in my natal
@julieweatherford5346
Жыл бұрын
Haha!! I wish I had a long velvet gown just for grocery shopping!😂🤣😅
@rayndai
7 жыл бұрын
Thank You! This has helped so much with understanding my 6th house Neptune in Scorpio. I'm a Pisces with my Sun in the 10th conjunct Jupiter. I sabotage my goals in life constantly by doing for others to the extant that I create a lot of frustration. I Will start forming those boundaries! Namaste
@halaabushreeha3876
8 жыл бұрын
You are amazing! I have neptune in the first house and it is close to the ascendant, it's trine to my moon which located in 4th, also my life path is 7 so i think i'm into spirituality
@liavarbanova2089
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this. I have Neptune in 1st house squaring Saturn and Chiron and in sextile with Pluto...was not aware Neptune even presented this issue, was more under the impression that Neptune in 1st is simply an archetype of the artist. This topic is partially the reason I turned to astrology and your videos have been quite life changing.
@pradgadagkar8557
2 жыл бұрын
Neptune square saturn, does that bring in an inability to handle material things? Like, constant selling abd butibg somethibg else to replace?
@hipmoma
5 жыл бұрын
You’re amazing!
@janineroux2398
7 жыл бұрын
Moon conjunct Neptune in Scorpio in the fourth, square Saturn conjunct the South Node in the seventh....tripled up grand water trine with Cancer rising and Jupiter conjunct Chiron in Pisces in the eighth....on the fixed Grand Cross with the nodes....a very helpful video...looking forward to watching the narcissist one....!
@ginamenard6697
8 жыл бұрын
Having my personal planets in the 12th and my Neptune in the 7th is not easy keeping my feet on the ground and my head in this world. Eventually disillusionment starts to sets in after another codependent relationship failure.
@jenniferprichard20
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 46 ....just beginning to understand boundaries ....I have Neptune in the first ...sun square Neptune ...sextile moon and Pluto among others and Scorpio asc to boot ....so I have been pondering how to establish boundaries in water .....the only metaphor I can come up with is a shark net ...keeping out predators and still allowing free flow of water.....
@JewelMayberry
4 жыл бұрын
I would suggest a sensory deprivation salt water float tank. Freedom from pressure yet still within a safe boundary. Nothing to worry about.
@BNS392
3 жыл бұрын
Also sun square square Neptune. Scorpio moon conjunct Pluto... this is so interesting. I can’t swim lol...also no boundaries.
@meidigoh
Жыл бұрын
That was so super fascinating❤ (I have Neptune conjunct my moon)
@m.b.8314
6 жыл бұрын
Even though I have a strong Neptune, I do have an understanding of social etiquette. And I also live by the idea that "there's a time and place for everything." Hello Saturn & Libra. Thank god for that :). And oh, there is some Virgoan energy hidden deep down as well (asteroids Psyche & Eros), and it does help to have Capricorn of the 4th house cusp as well. I've seen this stubborn denial mechanism before (the denial of certain rules/regulations or truths, or what is appropriate and what isn't). I can see the humour in it though, lol. We all have our weaknesses :).
@CleoraAleise
4 жыл бұрын
I have moon opp Neptune in my natal. Whew I’ve always had a hard time implementing boundaries.
@stephaniamunozbravo2791
3 жыл бұрын
Same here. Neptune in 1st house -_- moon in 7... horrible
@luthienanarion6581
3 жыл бұрын
10 months of CBT work in a 19 min video! :D
@desertwaters_808
8 ай бұрын
I cannot emphasize enough how much clarity this just gave me... I have been knowing since the Saturn-Jupiter conjunction several years ago that I was living under a lot of delusions, I'm guessing that ond reason is that my natal Jupiter is square Neptune. And bc SATURN 🥴
@lateeshahinton5842
7 жыл бұрын
Thank you Jewel. Neptune in the 7th.
@peterklein4349
8 жыл бұрын
you're right. My last girlfriend had her neptune in the first house: everyone was beautitul, although she has no real friends,; she didn't know how to properly dress for occasions. And our relation seemed also like a dream: I couldn't talk with her about reality, real issues, i had to keep my mouth, giving me the feeling to just sit there and being handsome
@Porkchopapii
5 жыл бұрын
Sun conjunct Neptune Moon (semi sextile)quincunx Neptune Neptune trine mc Mars semi square Neptune Leo in 12th Saturn square Neptune Jupiter square Neptune Pisces in 7th Mars in Pisces Neptune conjunct South Node in 5th Neptune opposite Leo North Node 11th house cusp. Neptune septile Pluto.
@naomia472
3 жыл бұрын
Wow and I have similar aspects but my aspects are mainly Neptune Uranus and Pluto considering I have a Scorpio stellium amongst my Pluto aspects.
@sanja12
7 жыл бұрын
thank you so much!!!
@dominique4432
5 ай бұрын
Be honest. Express your concerns
@veravujovic4685
3 жыл бұрын
I't was very helpful and very honest of you
@GinniAimee
6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely right, it can be hard for me to set boundaries with the people I love. Pisces descendant, Neptune SD in the 4th, and square my chart ruler Mercury (in the 1st). Thanks for this video, learning to not give my all that I'm left drained thanks to no one else but myself
@NamiBurger
8 жыл бұрын
i have my Neptune in the 2nd House and my ex has a Taurus Ascendant. When we were together i was highly codependent with him, wont say i was ever proud of how i was. at the time i was a lot younger and couldnt see how i was expecting so much out of him from a place of fear and getting from him what makes me feel loved and grounded and okay as i am. granted i felt i was really in love with him bc we had other planets that were GOOD for a relationship, but besides our lifestyles being mismatched and the whole Taurian codependency thing, it flunked.
@NamiBurger
8 жыл бұрын
if it were not only this aspect, i was very much in the void of not knowing my own self. i have my sun, mars, mercury in Pisces. everything was "fantasy" for me meanwhile i was lying to myself about how i really felt and what i was
@user-qo8lc6fw9c
Жыл бұрын
I really like your videos. They're so informative. How do I get this Neptune in the 1st house - conjunct AC - in check, if my Pluto is on my MC between houses 9 and 10, causing all this contradiction between responsibility and control? It's so confusing!
@graciekattan6618
4 жыл бұрын
My neptune is in the 12th house in conjunction with my chart ruler (Uranus) Im still trying to find the meaning. I feel like Neptune is so vague and difficult to really understand.
@crystalvisionz3799
8 жыл бұрын
12th house, very early in the placement with Sagittarius in that house.
@TMTgirl
8 жыл бұрын
Neptune conj. Sun in the 11th, SN in Pisces. Those two things are square. Neptune is also square NN conj. Saturn in Virgo in the 8th.
@el7e
5 жыл бұрын
I have been trying to figure out my MULTIPLE grand trines ALL INCLUDING Neptune (S/M/V/Ma/MC) and also connected to my kite with S/M/V/Ma all OPPOSING Pluto as the backbone - and I think I just had an epiphany. WOW. Thank you.
@m.n.d5949
6 жыл бұрын
Thank u. What about a retro neptune?
@Iamreeze
6 жыл бұрын
I really feel like it’s just not fair. I have sun conjunct Neptune at 9 degrees in my 12th; neptune and sun squaring moon. I’m not made for this world so why am I in it?
@ShadaeMastersAstrology
Жыл бұрын
You’re here accept it and work daily to make your way through it. Where’s your mars? Mars understands the real world however oftentimes Neptune positions often suppress mars.
@Cinder1987
6 жыл бұрын
Neptune and south node in Scorpio in the 8th house here.
@DaBlkMad0nna
3 жыл бұрын
Amazing amazing video.. thank u so much💜💜💜
@karendewolfe3928
6 жыл бұрын
Absolutely spot on, in my experience.
@aira718
3 жыл бұрын
Wow ive been reading a book on codependency ive developed this at 19, and it seems even my friend could tell and I didnt know and he suggested me a book on codependency. I have 4h neptune trine moon trine ascendant, ive often attracted people who were manipulative
@alisonwelch8465
6 жыл бұрын
omg. I have a yod to neptune (apex in 4th). The current neptune transit is conjuncting my moon...it's very weird. Over empathic...
@Dianne327
8 жыл бұрын
Neptune conjunct Mars in the 4th + Sun in the 7th... Thank you for sharing your insight!!! 🙏🏼💗
@GinniAimee
8 жыл бұрын
Great Jewel, thanks! Pisces is my descendant, and my chart ruler squares Neptune in the 4th. It IS hard for me to set boundaries. Is it practically trouble with mom and partners?
@JewelMayberry
8 жыл бұрын
+Gianna Marie Ayora with Neptune in the fourth it is hard to set boundaries with intimates and as a parent. Having Neptune ruling the seventh and in the fourth is the most vulnerable placement of all- bar none. It is a destabilizing force when Neptune resides in the fourth and renders the foundation of ones own security shaky. The partner brings their boundary traversing into our domestic environment with that placement.
@GinniAimee
8 жыл бұрын
Oh boy, I see.. didn't know it was such a bad placement! Since I'm a Virgo I do like to do things better, to improve myself so I'm sure I'll dominate this aspect. Thanks again Jewel, I appreciate your videos!
@stephanierend1261
8 жыл бұрын
+Jewel Mayberry wow! I'm also a Virgo ascendent with Neptune in the 4th and I had never thought of my relationships in terms of boundaries. As you said in the video, we can lie to ourselves big time, right? Will definitely take some time to reflect over that. Thanks for all the great info as always jewel!
@florrosa7235
7 жыл бұрын
I really like your videos. but i want to say you might want to talk about each house for Neptune.
@mazaltawab9360
8 жыл бұрын
Neptune conjunct moon Saturn and Uranus in the 9th house Capricorn, I believe the world is going to end soon, and I hope to be raptured out of the destruction, I want it to end because I hate my life
@No.ThatPrettyGirl
6 жыл бұрын
THANK YOU so much for ur videos...u have a new subbie here.❣️ I have Ascendant, Sun, Mercury, Neptune and Rahu in Sagittarius 1st house, Gemini Moon. I’m struggling with a narcissistic relationship on and off for 15 yrs - always find myself drawn back to HIM. Why?!? 😔 I recently made 44y/o and although I’ve always had a fascination with astrology, I’m JUST starting to learn about astrology...the struggle is real....I have been married and divorced THREE times - ASIDE from the on/off again bf relationship. I’ve been empath awareness since around the age of 12 and have attracted a to of “needy” people throughout my life. Anyone have any helpful insight/suggestions? They’re much appreciated❣️
@dbandhoo
4 жыл бұрын
thanx jewel! i am scorpio rising w neptune 9 degrees away.
@SomnathSahwo
6 жыл бұрын
Please someone save me from Neptune. Neptune completely ruined my life. Neptune(Rx 24deg) in Sag 7th and Uranus(Rx 0deg) in Sag 7th too. Neptune inconjunct Sun(in Cancer 3rd), Sextile Mars(in Libra 5th), opposition with Venus and Moon(in Gemini 5th). Taurus Asc 29.
@naturesfistlor9457
3 жыл бұрын
I think boundaries are gonna be harder when you're a 12th house person
@darlingvon
7 жыл бұрын
I feel like your talk about Neptune is also talking to my 12th house, which is my moon, venus & mars which conjuncts to some of each other & my ascendent ughh Can I admit life is hard tho? 🙁 My neptune's also in the 4th and since my illness I stayed w my parents only to hear them talk bad about me so yes I feel stuck
@knova031
4 жыл бұрын
Mars and Neptune are descending in natal chart. What is this?
@ConstantlyCurvyxo
8 жыл бұрын
i have neptune in conjunct my saturn and uranus and its in cap in the 10th house. yes i feel i dont get a lot of recognition for my work. yes i do videos on here and i feel as though im nervous i feel i am ment to do this! i have pisces and my moon in the 12th house
@toderox
7 жыл бұрын
GREAT VIDEO!
@zephyr2427
8 жыл бұрын
Thank You
@brunnaluizaguim182
4 жыл бұрын
thank god for you
@memep.9220
4 жыл бұрын
Neptune in 12th house ruled by Capricorn with Chiron
@rafaeltimbo9329
8 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Jewel! :)
@brittnobles9991
5 жыл бұрын
I have Neptune in Capricorn 1st house.
@victoriatebeest4948
8 жыл бұрын
Jewel when you mentioned "Neptune always has something/someone to blame" what do you think about Neptune 26deg Scorpio 6th house?
@sarahkoob1156
6 жыл бұрын
Is it just Neptune aspects or does the sign Pisces fall under this as well just curious because I have Venus conjunct mars in Pisces and mercury in the 12th house conjunct Neptune would this qualify as strong Neptune
@milagros6284
8 жыл бұрын
excelent! what about Piscis raising?
@Sun.powder
Жыл бұрын
Neptune on the I.C
@MoreShMoney
3 жыл бұрын
Oh man! Asc in Pisces squaring Neptune 9H Sagittarius conjunct Venus in 10H Sagittarius
@william6084
Жыл бұрын
Grow up says Virgo rising, take responsibility - take control of your hopes, wishes and dreams. Kiss my ass says Neptune - there's nothing I want and nowhere to be, I can sit here for a thousand lifetimes, totally drunk on nothingness. Put that in your diary
@minya7732
5 жыл бұрын
neptune in aquarius conjuncting ascendant in capricorn
@music4everization
5 жыл бұрын
Sun, mercury and venus conjunct neptune, moon trine capricorn neptune
@lucreziani
5 жыл бұрын
Neptune in the 12th conjunct ascendant, square moon and venus, trine sun and it's true :(
@HHH7778R
8 жыл бұрын
Neptune in the 2nd. Venus + moon in the 8th, rising, Jupiter 11th and Uranus 2nd all aspecting :(
@madeleineformelle
Жыл бұрын
Hmm i have neptune in the 4th house, in hard aspect to all of my personal planets but the sun 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡, ima pray God everyday that i get to master it
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