At least you learned this lesson in your early 20s, Some guys are in the dark until their 40s and stand to lose a lot more than you did.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Absolutely! I am glad that I learned this at a young age instead of learning this lesson in my mid 40's lol
@princessmarlena1359
8 ай бұрын
College is just High School 2.
@powerscallingfiend
8 ай бұрын
@@princessmarlena1359😂😂😂
@user-co8uy5rb2s
6 ай бұрын
I'll never forget a woman I knew since grade school trying to use me for favors and money like a hot girl. I mean she received help from me but tried to use seduction or pity to continue getting it from me. Mind you , she lost all of her looks due to single motherhood and substance abuses but she still tried. Unfortunately for her, I had already learned my lesson about this. 😅
@LeadLeftLeon
9 ай бұрын
This work can change lives. I've seen too many guys get nowhere with game due to being sub 5's. Game works when you meet her minimum threshold for looks. Sub-4 about as low as it can go
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Exactly! Game only works if the girl finds you attractive. I will be making a video on this in the future.
@parkerpeters3874
8 ай бұрын
Yes, Lead Left. The point of contention between the rp and bp is the length of the attraction band where game is relevant, broader and narrower, respectively.
@LeadLeftLeon
8 ай бұрын
@@parkerpeters3874SOME girls will take an ugly guy [4/10] with game, money, and/or status. But there are limits. Dude can't be REPULSIVE [
@thoughts8182
8 ай бұрын
I've had similiar brutal experiences. I rememeber playing a game of truth or dare. There was 3 guys including me and 3 girls. The girls were getting dared to kiss my guy friends and were happy to do so. But when one of them got dared to kiss me, they said "Ewwwww no". Being ugly really sucks.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Ah brutal man! Sorry to hear you had to go through that.
@Ayatollah123
9 ай бұрын
I'm sorry to hear this man. Blue Pill = Miracles happen and this is the best night of my life! Black Pill = These girls are going to lure me someplace and I'll get jumped.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Thanks man! You're spot on.
@sgs8747
9 ай бұрын
This is why particularly after college in my single days I had an unofficial rule of never leading with buying them a drink and only offering after gauging the situation. Ex. If she is just looking at her phone giving me one word responses, I’d move along but if I see some engagement and she seems at least mildly interested then I may offer after a minute.
@LeadLeftLeon
9 ай бұрын
the more I hear Chadlite, the more I realize that many PUA tactics such as plowing are for physically unattractive dudes. Would girls that find you desirable need you to plow them with nonsense for 5 minutes
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, if you can tell they are attracted to you, offering a drink is not a bad move. If they are looking around or ignoring you, it's a complete waste of time and money.
@MyCountrymenAreAsholes
8 ай бұрын
Why tf would you ever buy a drink to some weird small bleeding thing? Get yourself a drink from that money.
@reaper0nline
8 ай бұрын
Your positive mindset and transparency is something i definitely admire man.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Thanks man! It definitely a look time to develop. I had a much more negative mindset when I was younger in regards to dating.
@tendiie
9 ай бұрын
Congrats on the steady sub growth - keep uploading!
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Thanks man! I appreciate it. I plan on it.
@pressf4896
7 ай бұрын
love this channel, extremely wholesome
@dxpeikon9690
9 ай бұрын
I remember a married woman chatting to me in a club and she was constantly touching me and validating me. Then her husband showed up and she got him to buy me a drink 🙃
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Haha very nice!
@LeadLeftLeon
9 ай бұрын
in horse breeding there's a male horse with the role of getting the female horse horny for the stud lmao
@thecurmudgeon7350
9 ай бұрын
They are always the most bold when they are technically not single.
@handsomeX
9 ай бұрын
@@thecurmudgeon7350yup!
@cashout1690
8 ай бұрын
That's one of the reason I don't go to clubs or house parties anymore. The other reason is not being invited ever.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
I hear you. I haven't been to a club since June.
@winstonliang9710
8 ай бұрын
I’m a 27 year old Chang-lite who happens to resemble a 18 year old teenage boy so women consider me to be a rare gem! I’ve had older women/ college girls buy me drinks and chauffeur me back to their crib for the night! I guess life threw me a life raft by having me grow into my mother’s Stacy looks throughout my 20’s.
@motivationinspiration5794
8 ай бұрын
Remember a college girl is never truly broke if she needs money or wants money she can’t get it herself. Never lead with the wallet. You made two brutal mistakes first leading with wallet, second not checking the number. You should have made sure the number was hers when you got it by calling it next to her or sending her a text right there. But we live and learn glad things are better for you now.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Thanks man! Yeah, I definitely made many mistakes when I was in my early 20's and those were definitely mistakes made that night.
@VicDamoneJr82
7 ай бұрын
Great video
@Solitas777
2 ай бұрын
I remember meeting a date online. She wasn't that pretty and I wasn't that handsome. When she saw me her shoulders sunk and she exhaled, not masking her disappointment with me. I never hid my photos online or mislead so I felt both surprise and hurt at her reaction. I eventually married someone that is as ugly as me but she's a sweetheart and loves me. So the first half of my live life was a painful one but it did get better.
@drop_messages6226
8 ай бұрын
It boils down to how women treat you. If a woman is attracted to a guy, she wants to be with him, maybe money is not such a big issue. If a man is ugly, a woman may want to get money out of him, but would never date him. There have been a few times women have cold approached me for money ( thank you modern feminism, for making women more ballsy). My favorite example was, I had just parked my car and was walking toward a store. Some woman in a car says "excuse me" (I thought maybe she was asking for directions), she asked for money. She was driving a nicer car than me and was asking for money. I just ignored her and walked on. If I just approached a woman and asked for money, I would get torn a new one (verbally, possibly physically or lose my job if it was at work). I guess, if a modern woman hits up a guy for money, she is a strong and independent women who knows her value. I am an ugly man, so I guess my "value" is I am lucky to be a walking ATM for random women. Thank goodness I went monk mode years ago
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Nice man! I'm glad monk mode is treating you well.
@jmecklenborg
3 ай бұрын
Dude was sub-5 in large part because he worked at a gas station. In college you need to work at a sports bar.
@josephcieplak8920
9 ай бұрын
At least you learned a very important lesson. this has never ever happened to me.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yes! I definitely learned a very important lesson at a young age.
@therealmcgoy4968
9 ай бұрын
I think making a bluepill moves in life is apart of the learning process. I would do the same thing with dates up until 25 then I became disillusioned with it all. I sat back and said to myself, after offering to take them out and foing do and probably blowing 200+ dollars on the evening… why not just get an escort instead at this point? Lol at least I would have got laid 😂. I think you should only offer anything when you can confirm in some way that they are interested in you. I believe signs they are interested is when they take in interest in you and ask you questions about yourself. If they touch your arm or hand or shoulder (especially if they do it more than once)… if they pay attention to what you are saying. I mean this is when you would offer to buy them a drink. If they seem distant. Don’t ask questions. Look at their phone or overall don’t seem interested in talking. That is a sign from them for you to move on.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
I feel you man! You're spot on.
@mavericksingz7313
8 ай бұрын
For me it was always homework that they needed me for but from both men and women so they could get ahead in life. The day I became more successful than them and became their boss and held them accountable, that was my sweetest revenge. Boys remember, success is the sweetest revenge
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Agreed Maverick! Success is definitely the sweetest revenge. I am glad that you hold them accountable.
@princessmarlena1359
8 ай бұрын
Best thing to do is get all the answers wrong or write terrible papers so that they flunk. If someone you hardly know is being nice to you and then wants you do buy them things or to do stuff for them, you are being set up.
@mavericksingz7313
8 ай бұрын
@@princessmarlena1359 Not really. I'd rather let them succeed and then become even more successful than them just so that the understand that I'm a stronger, smarter and a better man. It's the ultimate revenge because the women who use me to succeed in life to attract the more successful partner starts to resent and regret the choice she made which makes her unhappy and I thrive and I win and for the men who do that to me, it shows that I'm more masculine than him which makes him feel super insecure since I never needed his help in the first place and he is forced to submit to me for a job and I win again!
@LeadLeftLeon
9 ай бұрын
As someone between high tier normie and chadlite don't remember one instance of being azzked for a drink. Probably resting unfriendly face
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Nice man! You probably save a lot of money. I haven't been asked in a long time either now lol
@Wack-rp9nz
8 ай бұрын
Can you do a video destroying the lie that short men should go for short women. Short women hate short guys the most.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yes, I will be making a video covering this. Great suggestion!
@princessmarlena1359
8 ай бұрын
Such hypocrisy!
@Rhatid-mon
9 ай бұрын
College chicks walking around with "no money"? Doesn't say much about their fiscal responsibility.
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, those girls had zero fiscal responsibility to say the least.
@jaybrick8973
Ай бұрын
I got Women in college but they never was the ones I really wanted lol
@braveheartproduction2323
8 ай бұрын
Instead of captain save a hoe, you’re captain save a bro.
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Haha thanks man!
@marsmaxxingblackpill180
8 ай бұрын
With enough shots, anyone can become a chatlite/stacey
@exxtra4879
8 ай бұрын
A girl wanted to use me for test answers on a test lol
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Lol BRUTAL
@exxtra4879
8 ай бұрын
Yea lol but at the same time I was a quiet kid that had his hood up all the time in grade school I definitely, I guess I was easy pickings for people
@jayyy1677
8 ай бұрын
Why would they do this to a human being
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Good question! It was brutal to experience back then.
@princessmarlena1359
8 ай бұрын
Because they’re spoiled b*s who peaked too early and are used to getting special treatment from coasting on their looks.
@ChaosRUsEnt
4 ай бұрын
VVomen just aren't good ppl
@devilsadvocacy
5 ай бұрын
Don’t buy them anything they don’t earn. If you’re 20 minutes into a conversation and ordering another round for yourself, offer her one. Otherwise, never buy women drinks
@desmorris2193
8 ай бұрын
That’s rough bro
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yeah, it was brutal!
@handsomeX
9 ай бұрын
Bruuuutal
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
BRUTAL
@leviackerman9093
8 ай бұрын
How did you get rid of your double chin? I'm slim and I still have it.
@MultiDringus
8 ай бұрын
What were your favourite foods when you were fat? Do you miss them?
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Buffalo wings, fries, cheesburgers, milk shakes and bags of Doritos and I miss them all the time. I still eat buffalo wings and Doritos but in moderation now.
@moesizlak2733
8 ай бұрын
How old are you Chadlite?
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Early 30's
@instantmedicine
8 ай бұрын
Holy fuck bro, thats brutal
@ascended266
8 ай бұрын
Yeah, it was very brutal to say the least lol
@anton_c8gur
3 ай бұрын
people in gen z are somehow lucky being born in the information age they know black pill and looksmaxxing and someone can rate their face if they stand a chance so at a younger age even before 20 you already know what to do with your life so if your really sub 5 thats it... just go for survival mode and money no more focus on women. if your fat but have good bones you could lean maxx and perhaps even skincare max at a younger age and no lost opportunity for you either. but that works only on non western country. i think women there are so hypergamous that even if they already married to a handsome guy and have kids they still would most likely cheat
@satepestage3599
9 ай бұрын
damn
@ascended266
9 ай бұрын
Yeah, it was brutal!
@princessmarlena1359
8 ай бұрын
I never feel sorry for the ones who get a knockout drug slipped into their drinks after they use guys to get free drinks…regardless of what happens to them afterwards.
@LeadLeftLeon
9 ай бұрын
rando girl azzking you for a drink is like a homeless person azzking you for 20 USD. You'd say no so say no
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