This is really interesting to me because my partner and I have this and I have noticed that it has shown itself in positive and negative ways. We have shared dreams at night, deep soul connection, beautiful sex, shared ideals and goals, and we have both caught ourselves putting ourselves on a pedestal and realizing that okay, this is lovely and all, but we are real people with real flaws. We have helped each other with healing generational trauma and past relationship baggage, and it’s taught me a lot about both being a team with someone but also having boundaries and saying “no, I cannot -always- be the person that is here to clean up a mess if say, you make a reckless choice or seem to slip back into an addictive pattern.
@friendship6668
Жыл бұрын
This makes a TON of sense.
@mollyshealingcorner
4 ай бұрын
@@immortalhygieneno....lol, I left an updated comment. Most horrific breakup and emotional pain I've ever experienced in my life. The wool was totally pulled over my eyes from the intense connection I felt with him in my soul. But it helped me look at a lot of heavy stuff, and do the deep work in therapy. I don't want to have this kind of codependent relationship ever again and I'm doing the internal work to stay strong and focus more on my life purpose and love from within. 💔
@lamanabeel8687
5 күн бұрын
@@mollyshealingcorner so sorry to hear that😢 why what happened ?
@RippleDrop.
3 жыл бұрын
That relationship was the greatest disappointment than I *ever could have imagined possible* . Back on this video 3 years later.
@jencampanini9928
6 жыл бұрын
Love the necklace and GIANT mug!🙋🏼♀️
@danianotluna
4 жыл бұрын
Yes!!
@friendship6668
Жыл бұрын
Over a year our reasons to stay in the relationship has continued to change. Overall its a very hard and uncomfortable relationship thats very expanding and healing in ways. But also extremely triggering But extremly rewarding. Drug addiction, exposing of secrets, trauma bonding, back and forth dynamics, being acused of lies, using the other for sex or housing or emotional support, escaping family obligations on both sides. But also being seen more clearly for the me I hide more than ever before. He always wanted to know what I was hiding begind my silence and mask. So this exposure was also positive. Sexually all over the place. And also not able to catch up with this exploratory changes and differences of what we wanted to expore and purge. We definately use eachother to purge. Its kinda nuts. Always told myself if i could break away and move house or change states id break free. But 2 states over we are still friends and emotional support keeps us connected. And he is a rather different lerson than the one I met now that he is sober. Like lifestyle changes. But he went back to whobhe was but thats someone I never knew, so the switch is disorientating. But also recognizable for these bits kf him that I fell in love with. But through struggle kept with him knowing those parts were whonhe really was. In an odd way he feels like an emotionally safe place i can unburden myself in a non judgmental way. And he can feel like he has an attachment to someome and not feel abandonded in his relationships and knkws he can ask me for emktional support or to share his journey and have someone understand how far hes come. He is in recovery now and we have this understanding that we are both on our healing journies seperately. Still deeply love him. And he always surprises me with his talents and his spirituality. But its also been a disapointing journey on the flipside because while we are emotionally enmeshed and intellectually and spiritually connected, theres this lack of knowing. And that unsettling feeling mixed with having whatever reason for connecting satisfied, we both move on from eachother and there lacks a refinement of being understood or seen. Its weird. Emotionally deep but without nuance lr something. I dont know how else to describe it other than switching back and forth based on whatever we want out of the other person. But sometimes jts mutual and sometimes theres this big block and disconnection and confusion that can turn kinda ugly but no matter what new face we show each other, each reveal brings us closer with lingering confusion. Its been a journey of seeing the many faces of someone. If youre not scared by that, still brace yourself.
@isabels2973
6 жыл бұрын
Yeah. My relationship was a roller coaster. Highs & lows. Never really saw each other for who we really are & what each other really need. Fantasy land. Took turns being victim/savior. Me, the Neptune, has played victim many times by thinking moon is taking advantage, but also been savior by trying to "fix" the Moon not understanding there was nothing to "fix". Took turns with being crazy, mainly me the Neptune lol Whenever things were going smooth, it's always one person believes it is and the other has a different perception. Cheating, mind games, and deceptions have happened on both ends On my end of Neptune I try to stay in an illusion and not accept it, in this way I have subconciously used him by not seeing him for who he is and staying in a fantasy. On his end as the moon, I believe there was also some fantasy & also tried taking care of me & being better for me, the Neptune, but still misconceptions. I think saw me as someone who is very deceptive & took advantage and saw me as someone very different. When he tried doing better for me I took it for granted & didn't understand that's what he was doing. Me as Neptune feels bad for not seeing him for the good person he is. SO much love there but soo much pain & illusions. Definitely a karmic cycle that had to be broken Neptune square moon will almost always be a karmic relationship. Now that this has ended I'm left wondering who I was even dating & feeling bad for not being able to see him as he truly is & being able to fully love who he truly is, feeling like I unintentionally sold him a fantasy, but I feel the same way that he sold me one lol. I even went crazy thinking he was a sociopath but really just COMPLETE misconception, at least on my end Definitely a relationship that shows us our inner demons & insecurities & forcing us to take responsibility for our actions
@peterklein4349
4 жыл бұрын
this is the composite, not the synastry chart..
@mollyshealingcorner
4 ай бұрын
This aspect is just evil. My ex and I had it. He is a covert narcissist, and I did not pick up on that at all. He could be SO romantic, and the good was SO good. I really really loved him and thought he was the one. He had addiction issues that only got worse rather than better, despite promises and things being better on the surface (he was deceptive and would try to hide his use). It got emotionally abusive and I finally left. It only got worse after I left. He went on a smear campaign and played the victim to anyone who would listen, and immediately got into a new relationship. I was gutted. I've never felt more pain in my life. The only positive: I got stronger. I went into therapy HARD. I looked at my own over functioning in relationships and took the pattern on, fully. It broke me down but it forced me to build myself back up. So in a way....I guess I should thank him for that.
@dominique7269
4 ай бұрын
How long were you guys together before you picked up on his narcissistic tendencies? I’m in a courtship phase rn..
@gittef2209
2 жыл бұрын
wow!!! I had this with somebody, we lived together for 1,5 year and it was just like you described it!! We had love (also nice placements) but this one was really soooo dissapointing! How we just realised after a while we were no match
@devans2254
2 жыл бұрын
Guys, when this placement comes up be very careful. I had this with someone I was seeing. When she said escape and a big secret reveal she meant it. I was his scape goat from his WIFE! Had no damn idea. Everyone's experience may not be extreme as mine, but don't take this one lightly because Neptune is a VERY tricky planet and you will have a huge smack in the face when this planet is square moon.
@lilibutkica4970
Жыл бұрын
Same
@kmt8825
Жыл бұрын
wait so he was just using you specifically to get away from his wife
@devans2254
Жыл бұрын
@@kmt8825 that’s what I think. I was unknowingly his “side piece.” In other words, this placement is strongly associated with dealing with a liar. Also check for mercury square Neptune in the composite. Basically, I wouldn’t date people that I have Neptune squares to inner planets in a composite with.
@jaymesEo6
5 жыл бұрын
Damn it Jewel! I hate when you are so right sometimes. Haha!
@elisemartin8189
4 жыл бұрын
This aspect makes a lot more sense now, thankyou.
@deannagonzalez2754
2 жыл бұрын
Oh gosh this is in my parents composite and this makes so much sense …
@habeebahmustapha2623
10 ай бұрын
mine too and its at 0 degrees
@claudiaagnes4043
3 ай бұрын
can you tell me how this aspect works on your parents relationship?
@lamanabeel8687
Ай бұрын
@@habeebahmustapha2623update please
@kittykasia93
5 жыл бұрын
Your insights are amazing and much appreciated
@claveelgarron4049
Жыл бұрын
Well I'll be damned we have this aspect and neptune is the most aspected planet in our composite chart with the girl I like. Is there a way to manage this planet in a way to avoid its negative effects? The rest of the composite chart looks pretty good and has good aspects.
@bluebellbeatnik4945
4 күн бұрын
wow that cup is HUGE. It's almost a jug.
@lithiumkid
6 жыл бұрын
describes my last relationship perfectly and painfully lol
@mysticalchemist5513
5 жыл бұрын
I see my guy clearly. We have this 0'56
@henrietadale5079
Жыл бұрын
Do you still see him clearly?
@KeeekThaSneak
10 күн бұрын
Lol
@aprilrose2389
2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Unbelievably accurate!!!
@Riya-ct5zk
6 жыл бұрын
could you do one for moon square Neptune in the natal chart?
@raheljemima8082
4 жыл бұрын
I think it would create a shitstorm 😂 they are too sensitive to create critism- and its not an easy aspect
@mlj1309
3 жыл бұрын
@@raheljemima8082 does that mean we are doomed lol
@pendafen7405
11 ай бұрын
@@raheljemima8082 Hypersensitivity is definitely an issue in the natal, I have the Square between 8th House Libra (moon) and 12th House Capricorn (Neptune). I would also add as negative or neutral traits: emotional wallowing, emotional spongeing (of a vibe/atmosphere), enmeshment, delayed reactions, limerence, and naivete or blindness to the true intentions of others. So it's a fun life experience🙃
@carlytiffany6144
4 жыл бұрын
What happens if we have Moon Conjunct Saturn at 2 degrees at the same time? This Moon square Neptune aspect we have at 6 degrees.
@Dianne327
5 жыл бұрын
Wow. Thank you.
@themoonbleu627
10 күн бұрын
Had this in my 14 year marriage ❤ I’m remarried now just comparing
@KeeekThaSneak
10 күн бұрын
I had this aspect with someone and it was the worst relationship experience of my life so far. Completely unfair too because our synastry looked amazing but the composite was trash
@saimoooo
5 жыл бұрын
Jewel, can this aspect be managed in synastry if there is sun trine Neptune and Vesta septile Neptune and few good Mercury contacts in synastry and composite?. Or it can be worked through with awareness in a synastry chart or it's a lost case :/ Your response will be highly appreciated. :)
@themoonbleu627
10 күн бұрын
Had this in my 14 year marriage ❤ I’m remarried now just comparing wow we also had Neptune conjunct mars
@lamanabeel8687
5 күн бұрын
What happens with the marriage was it so disappointing?
@by_g
11 ай бұрын
Is 6 degrees too wide a orb for this aspect to have an effect? Or would people in this relationship (with other close-orb, supportive/harmonious aspects involving mainly personal planets) still feel its impact?
@ninag2489
2 жыл бұрын
i love your neckpiece!!
@hcyr23
Жыл бұрын
We have the square + opp in synastry translates to sesquiqudrate in composite. Then composite sun, merc, venus trining neptune. Any thoughts? Feels deep and genuine type of soul love. Also saturn is conjunct neptune here and trines our composite moon.
@raheljemima8082
4 жыл бұрын
Have this as t square in davidson chart with a girlfirend neptune as apex with sun opp moon. Venus square pluto. Venus 1 house. Pluto conj saturn conj mars in 9th. Sun in 2 house in pisces. Cant live with or without. Its nasty and sometimes beautyful. I have never seen a natal chart more delusive and aggressive with neptune and mars at the same time as hers. ... highly addictive
@justlivinglife465
3 жыл бұрын
I have a semi-square with someone, can relate! It's a very Neptunian chart (sun trine Neptune exact, venus square Neptune, Venus and mercury in the 12th, mercury trine Neptune..) oh boy! 🤐🤐🤐
@justlivinglife465
3 жыл бұрын
@@mlj1309 I think we actually really do have a spiritual bond but lots of misunderstandings, since Mercury in the 12th is also square Saturn in the 3rd house. Actually not so much idealisation of the other person going on, but I think there's an element of idealising the relationship itself, at least from me because I need him - he probably doesn't need me in the same way.
@justlivinglife465
3 жыл бұрын
@@mlj1309 there's some really nice stuff like an exact moon/Jupiter conjunction. I don't really have any advice but sometimes this connection has hurt me. It's best to try and be realistic and talk through any miscommunication rather than accusing or going crazy. I have seen the chart now so at least I am aware and I can choose how to react and if the benefits outweigh the negative 😊
@lamanabeel8687
Ай бұрын
@@mlj1309 hello are you still together? Update please
@popadoodledoo8913
5 жыл бұрын
Can this be used to describe composite Neptune semi-square moon at 2 degrees?
@JewelMayberry
5 жыл бұрын
Yes.
@popadoodledoo8913
5 жыл бұрын
@@JewelMayberry that sucks
@brinalee3362
4 жыл бұрын
I have this, yet I also have Neptune sextile moon in synastry
@miriamuSama
16 күн бұрын
Alt MoonSquNeptune3°49’ (Max 8)
@brittninobles9110
5 ай бұрын
Hello.. can you do this aspect in natal form please.
@aspiretoinspire8098
7 жыл бұрын
Jewel, is octile similar to the square in this case?And what orb do you use for octile?:)
@lithiumkid
6 жыл бұрын
aspire to inspire an octile is also called a semi-square, so i’d imagine the energy is quite similar
@genesisvazquez672
4 жыл бұрын
Hey Jewel, I just recently found you on KZitem and started watching your videos. I have this aspect with someone in Synastry but at the same time, my Moon trines his Neptune. Would you please do a video on Moon tribe Neptune in Synastry?
@hotdamnsweetie
7 жыл бұрын
What about the soft aspects between Moon/Neptune in composite? I have the sextile with someone ....Is there still a danger of disappointment?
@JewelMayberry
7 жыл бұрын
+Hot dang! The trine can have enough power to create delusion but is generally less caustic, the sextile is usually just fine.
@Shabbiss
5 жыл бұрын
Does the double whammy of this aspect put even more emphasis on the negatives or can it be more balanced in some way?
@sanja12
4 жыл бұрын
this is the composite chart. Double whammy exists only in sinastry where you have two charts.
@DirleneGomes3
7 жыл бұрын
Does it mean the relationship won't survive? Or some aspects can help it, like the venus sextile nepturne...
@JewelMayberry
7 жыл бұрын
+DirleneGomes3 You are going to want as few aspects to Neptune as possible to mitigate the effects of this aspect.
@DirleneGomes3
7 жыл бұрын
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Mayberry very hard then since we have 4 aspects to Nepturne... pluto sextile N, Venus trine N and Mercury trine N. Only the square is really negative...., but i dont know. I sent you some weeks ago a message through you website for a consultation. Have u seen?
@jagoisvara8178
6 жыл бұрын
What about just other flowing aspects? Like in my case with the girl I'm getting to know we have composite Neptune trine Jupiter and sextile Pluto. Could these have a mitigating effect on the Neptune-moon square?
@herewegoagain1283
Жыл бұрын
I have this with my guy it took 15 years to see him clearly still love him but I’m DEFINITELY NOT DELUSIONAL, ours is ruled by Capricorn so I think that’s helps see things clearly
@lamanabeel8687
5 күн бұрын
@@JewelMayberry can Saturn trine Neptune help?
@mysticalchemist5513
5 жыл бұрын
Makes sense now. He would often accuse me of things I didn't do. I'm the Neptune person.
@lamanabeel8687
5 күн бұрын
What happened now?
@andrewjones717
7 жыл бұрын
LIVE YOU JEWEL XXXX
@swoosylee2644
7 жыл бұрын
Does this apply to the synastry aspect as well?
@JewelMayberry
7 жыл бұрын
+Swoosy Lee it does.
@anditsreyna020
7 жыл бұрын
me and my bf have a love stellium (merc, venus,moon,mars,sun) but some of it is being squared by neptune, uranus, and jupiter. can it still work??
@isabels2973
6 жыл бұрын
Anything can work with effort despite star and planet placements. If you're not compatible that's just it
@missmaverick3477
3 жыл бұрын
are u still together ?
@clarissecatelynn946
Жыл бұрын
No
@hasauka
Жыл бұрын
what uranus, you still together?
@mariamerkabah1970
5 жыл бұрын
How about if Synastry Neptune trine Moon but Composite Neptune square Moon?
@JewelMayberry
5 жыл бұрын
+Lady Bud It doesn’t matter that it’s a trine because it’s adding up to a square in the composite chart. It’s showing a Neptune theme in the synastry, too.
@mariamerkabah1970
5 жыл бұрын
@@JewelMayberry Thank you! Does the orb matter? Moon square Neptune is in 6'13. Also other aspects in the composite to Neptune are conjunct Uranus and trine Jupiter. While the Moon trine Sun, Mars, and Saturn. Not sure if they help in any way to the Moon square Neptune?
@saimoooo
6 жыл бұрын
How this aspects is different in synastry? Is it easier in synastry or composite? I will really appreciate your response 😊
@JewelMayberry
6 жыл бұрын
+hey hoo it’s not easier in synastry but it won’t have the pervasive component the composite aspect will. You still need to be aware that you are reflecting what you personally want to see in each other, what what you actually are. It will take time and experiencing each other over time to discover what you actually have between you.
@saimoooo
6 жыл бұрын
Truth In Aspect Astrology/ Jewel Jewel, thank you so much for replying 😊😚💓 your videos are really awesome. The way you explain things clears a lot of things and as if you have lived it yourself and it becomes far more relatable. If you Google any square aspect, they treat opposition and square as ditto same but in your videos I got to know whatever difference both have. Thank you again :)
@JewelMayberry
6 жыл бұрын
+hey hoo 💓
@RippleDrop.
6 жыл бұрын
That's a big mug
@JewelMayberry
6 жыл бұрын
+Ihana Luna No kidding.
@marie-joseecharette4937
7 жыл бұрын
Could this turn out positively? Thanks
@tornadochaser2457
7 жыл бұрын
Think of the worst possible thing the person you're involved with could do, then consider that they've actually done it and experience that disappointment. There, now if you're disillusioned with the person, it won't seem so bad and you can continue your relationship (unless they actually do that thing you thought of...) Also, always demand honesty in the relationship, about EVERYTHING! If he says he ate Burger King but you can smell the McDonalds on his breath, you yell at him for that and make sure it never happens again! Honesty ensures clarification, instead of that deceptive Neptune mayhem.
@atama203
5 жыл бұрын
@@tornadochaser2457 I love how you described it "deceptive Neptune mayhem ". That's what I am dealing with and it's so so so frustrating. And he gets angry when I call him a liar
@tornadochaser2457
5 жыл бұрын
@@atama203 Thanks and good luck. Perhaps try and catch him in the act during a transit, where the universe will make it impossible for him to hide!
@atama203
5 жыл бұрын
@@tornadochaser2457 I always point out the facts lol and he doesn't like it. In fact this aspect is one of the last aspects the Moon makes at 29°59" Taurus in our First meeting chart. I was trying to "see" how will it all end. The Moon makes trine to Venus and squares to Mars and Neptune. I guess we'll just get tired of this game and never really settle.
@tornadochaser2457
5 жыл бұрын
@@atama203 Whatever happens, I hope things turn out for the best 🙂 Even with my astrological superpowers, as a mere earthling, that's usually all I can really do regarding any situation.
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