i listened to all of the video while I was washing the dishes. i even listened to it again right after - to take notes. you are verbalising the thoughts that I had struggled to come up w to express them. and your videos are exactly like you creating a bouquet. you arrange the beauty of each experience and at the end, there is a beautiful beautiful arrangement that is imperfectly perfect. and I love u for that, and I love me for clicking on this video because it affirmed so much of what I needed to hear.
@kellidupree
Ай бұрын
thank you for this video I needed to hear it today 🙏🏼
@Maleeklu
Ай бұрын
In my life, I have watched many videos about confidence and so on, but your video touched my heart because you really talked about real and realistic things that we do, and it is also the first time I have watched a long video without getting bored. You are amazing. I would be grateful if you did. Talk about whether we can start from nothing.. ❤
@cosmicdissonance9888
Ай бұрын
ur lovely and keep making content!!!
@nadezhdanadianadezhda
Ай бұрын
I have too many words to explain how good this video is and how much I enjoyed the experience of hearing you whilst drawing, but the main point I'm trying to elaborate is that you - Inayah, you are incredible in my eyes and I really relate to everything you said in this wholesome video!
@naomim.7220
Ай бұрын
I love when random small youtuber videos pop up on my feed and the video is so good
@nalbinalbii888
Ай бұрын
same vro❤
@giahanmei
Ай бұрын
Ikr
@deathuponusalll
Ай бұрын
Same
@ak_naral
Ай бұрын
*Sweetheart, that is no random small youtuber. Thats Charlotte Sartre.*
@nalbinalbii888
Ай бұрын
@@ak_naral wtf no
@JuliannaHigginss
Ай бұрын
I live by this motto “discomfort is the potential for more comfort” and it has changed me life.
@angelviviana888
27 күн бұрын
i will be carrying this with me moving forward, thank u for the gem lovely
@escapetheboxes8473
23 күн бұрын
I need this tattooed 😮🤌🐸✨🦒🫶✨Thank you for blessing my brain with this!
@kozhikkaalan
21 күн бұрын
That was great
@JuliannaHigginss
20 күн бұрын
@@escapetheboxes8473 of course :)
@JuliannaHigginss
20 күн бұрын
@@angelviviana888 of courseee
@mijni
28 күн бұрын
Being a painfully self-aware and self-conscious person who has a vision but not the confidence, I feel this. Thank you.
@happymixtapes
17 күн бұрын
!Please read the following as straightforwart, but benevolent critique: Maybe try forgetting to take yourself so seriously from time to time. Most people give way less fucks about you than you imagine to even consciously notice you and especially not to want to judge you, unless you are in an environment that cultivates toxic shame.
@happymixtapes
17 күн бұрын
Confidence will grow naturally with being brave, pushing your boundaries and abstain from identifying with feelings of shame, if you decide that they don't make sense. If you own them a couple of times in a friendly environment, that is not overly critical towards you, they will magically loose their power.
@Mikexception
17 күн бұрын
@@happymixtapes If self confidence is based on perception about him/her of knowing person people's then it is value by itself induced by maditations and long time creation of own image. . Then how much would person give and what would do for escaping any public accusations ? For somebody who has selfconfidence based on known around factual achievements in own life and on wisdom eventual accusations may be confronted with facts.
@happymixtapes
17 күн бұрын
@@Mikexception I am interested in your argument. Unfortunately I can not exactly make sense of the text. Could you maybe make your point a little bit more clear?
@Mikexception
17 күн бұрын
@@happymixtapes Thing is when making effort only to create selfconfidence without having real reasons of that confidence then such person is fully depending on that elaborated impression which say is not supported. Confidence is based on knowledge of genuine life facts. Is it justified to be confident in young age before getting life experience? It may be misleadiing. . Such status is virtual . Such people are vulnerable for any damage in public and may be used. .
@yuriplisetsky
Ай бұрын
thank you for this! i also want to add: the way you talk about yourself, whether it's a "joke" or not, also can have a huge impact on how you view yourself. i used to make a lot of self-degrading jokes (like, "oh, i made a tiny mistake, i'm the worst person in the world"), and it didn't do anything good for me. even though i was never completely serious when i said things like that, it still impacted me in really small ways. after a while i shifted to self-uplifting jokes (where, for example, if i messed up when cooking something, i'd call myself the best chef in the world), and while it was still sarcastic, i saw a huge boost in confidence in myself after making that shift. i think i started doing this because of something i read a long time ago (but i don't completely remember), so i'm passing on this tip to hopefully help someone who still might be struggling with something of this nature :) (btw, did watch the whole video! beautiful arrangement at the end
@yume9998
Ай бұрын
My mom makes self-degrading jokes to me like that. Idk if it could be called as a joke but it didn't make me feel good. After a while, I unconsciously started to make self-lifting jokes such as "COME HERE AND FIGHT ME I'M THE STRONGEST ONE HERE! LOOK AT MY MUSCLES!" at my friends. And even though my a chubby+weak person, it feels good to be delulu abt myself :>
@teacup406
15 күн бұрын
I did this exact same thing! I love that you are mentioning this because its acc so REAL. Also this is in no way supposed to make anyone feel bad, but being around someone who makes self degrading jokes just consistently can be really uncomfortable, and even painful if its someone you love. Being full of silly love and confidence for yourself spreads that energy, and can lift other people around you up as well. (For example, its so much nicer when someone says "You look so good today!" instead of "I look so awful, ugh I wish I looked like you lol"
@GabrielleNozil
Ай бұрын
I miss when KZitem pushed out all different kinds of small creators to the forefront, I love thisss
@harresdirksen1950
Ай бұрын
KZitem is still doing that. The problem is that there are 10000x as many small creators as there used to be, so most of them will never catch on.
@chris-rp3jl
Ай бұрын
My KZitem does that, maybe is what you watching
@Leon.Stanic
Ай бұрын
my yt does that and i wish it didnt
@yukisakura9582
Ай бұрын
Exactly
@lemonke5341
Ай бұрын
@@harresdirksen1950 keep getting those bot channels or the lil kids with 1 subscriber posting cringe content
@julianamattson1737
Ай бұрын
Once you start to practice the confidence, your passions start to make themselves known stronger and you can fully breathe them in. The passion and compassion you're exhaling in this video is beautiful
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
Absolutely
@katenyirenda848
Ай бұрын
what a beautiful comment. i love the way you articulated this !
@nalbinalbii888
Ай бұрын
did you mean exhaling or exuding?
@E-bunny
Ай бұрын
is this true? because i've been trying so hard to find something i'm passionate about but its so difficult.
@skatergirl1759
Ай бұрын
THESE are the words I was looking for
@DlES-IRAE
Ай бұрын
I'm a 28 year old guy and this video was really moving. It really matches many processes and changes I am and have been experiencing lately. After 4 years of therapy I have come to a point in my life, where, for the very first time, I can look at myself in the mirror and say 'hey, I like you, I think, I can maybe even love you' without cringing and feeling like a joke, like a liar and an impostor. What you say is so true, it is a long journey of reinforcing yourself in the smallest things, over and over and over again until it starts sounding believable. I look back on so much pain and hurt, feeling worthless and inadequate, unable to acknowledge my own value, beauty and competence. Since I was a little child I have treated myself with disdain and put myself down whenever I didn't meet the expectations I projected onto everyone and everything around me. For me it was an essential step to deconstruct the relationship with my parents, especially with my father, to realize how my own system of beliefs about myself was formed. The things you laid out so beautifully and empathically in this video, alongside with a few years of therapy and ultimately confronting my parents on the role they played in me forming very hurtful and dysfunctional ways of interacting with myself and the world around me finally led me to a point where I can actually catch a glimpse of me as a beautiful being worthy and deserving of unconditional love, both from myself and from others. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us. I can only encourage everyone to listen closely. You might feel like there is such a long journey ahead of you, but every little step will get you closer and closer and before long you might realize that even if you're not exactly where you want to end up, you've already come such a long way. You can do it! I didn't believe I would ever be able to believe in myself, but here I am, actually starting to do so. Not every day, not in every situation, but every day a tiny bit more. ❤❤
@itsnotthecloudyouknow2635
26 күн бұрын
I’m a 26 y/o guy and feel quite the same. I have yet to confront my parents on why I am the way I am (nor do I think I will anytime soon). However, I feel the same way you describe on learning about my habits and how I have been programmed for self disdain. I am good to myself often these days, but there are times where I feel that negativity coming back again. It’s a day by day process and you’re right, even if we aren’t where we want to be…we surely have come so far. Cheers.
@DlES-IRAE
26 күн бұрын
@@itsnotthecloudyouknow2635
@emogoesboom
10 күн бұрын
this comment healed something in me
@adri.progression
28 күн бұрын
"Neurons need to Fire to Re-wire" is a quote that changed me. I found it when studying to return to Stanford to take Mechanical Systems Design in order to graduate with my engineering degree. It helps me understand that these well-established grooves are or are not serving me.
@bexiexz
Ай бұрын
this visual vibe is perfect for my eyes
@Vix-nb4oh
Ай бұрын
soo important to talk about this!! confidence is a CHOICE it is not bestowed upon you naturally
@cloud6318
Ай бұрын
Yas
@coomerkiller
Ай бұрын
it's entirely natural, as in related to nature and everything that stems from that.
@nalbinalbii888
Ай бұрын
@@coomerkillerit becomes natural once you continuously make the choice to be confident. it is still a choice though...
@coomerkiller
Ай бұрын
@@nalbinalbii888 no, it's actually hormonal.
@nalbinalbii888
Ай бұрын
@@coomerkiller your source?
@yana10525
10 күн бұрын
Becoming your desired self is like decluttering a wardrobe. You cannot just throw away everything all at once; there is this process of thinking, where in you keep some pieces and discard the others, until you buy a new one and replace everything with clothes that fit you better. It is a long, tedious process. But once you did so, it would feel like a fever dream. I, sometimes, get riled up over how far I've come with my mental state and how I see myself, whether that is physically or not. I've spent my whole high school life gaining confidence and now, I'm here, walking on Earth in a way that shows I deserved to walk on it.
@denizdemir6378
2 күн бұрын
this is such a good way of describing it. you have a way with words
@aziara369
Ай бұрын
The overall vibe of this video. Direct, simple, dainty, blooming, sweet. It's like I'm there 🤍
@uaa2800
Ай бұрын
It’s crazy to think that the most conventionally attractive people in the world can also be most bullied, insecure, and abused. And it happens at a young age, so you don’t understand why you were bullied until your adult years :(
@BnBLion.
Ай бұрын
Pretty isn’t immune to hate
@DajuSar
Ай бұрын
@@BnBLion. It always makes me laugh seeing attractive, hot, sexy, whatever adjective you want to give them, people saying they always struggle with their bodies and insecurities and such, because I am like BITCH how the fuck I'm supposed to feel better knowing that someone objectively more attractive than me also feels insecure xd
@eskybakzu712
Ай бұрын
@@DajuSar It should tell you that insecurity doesn't come from "objective attractiveness"
@Alexaa3532119
Ай бұрын
@@DajuSar Yess, this so much. Also for these people gaining confidence is just a matter of fixing your thoughts that tell you lies about your body created on the basis of the bullying you've experienced and convincing yourself that the truth is very different from these thoughts. So in short you need to believe the truth despite your brain not wanting to. For ugly people it doesn't work like that. For us gaining confidence is way harder because we already know the truth and this is the source of our insecurity. The solution for us is actually believing the lies that we create for ourselves in our brain. And it's way harder because of course you can try but you will face the reality and you will confront the public opinion that will clearly show you that you just live in a fairytale. If you're attractive and start believing it people will be happy that you finally understood and will in fact treat you better. But of ugly people it's not the case, people will treat you bad no matter what you believe.
@DajuSar
Ай бұрын
@@eskybakzu712 in their case it’s true. They just need to fix something mentally but in other peoples cases they do not only need to fix the mental shit but the irl shit as well as
@schleepyzo
Ай бұрын
i think the biggest stepping stone into being confident is realizing that self love and self respect are two different things. to be okay in your self, you have to not let people walk over you or put yourself in situations where you feel ‘loved’ but with side effects. once you respect yourself, even if you’re insecure this gets you in the mentality of not letting people waste your time and finding people who actually enjoy you and your presence.
@swoop2386
Ай бұрын
if you have self-respect you dont care if people walk over you because it doesnt bother you. everyone has the right to say what they want as long theyre not harming you physically. respect in general is a very strong egoic idea. as far as im concerned respect is non existent, theres just being a good person and treating others well no matter who they are
@n.a.199
Ай бұрын
@@swoop2386 For me, letting people walk over me isn’t a good idea. I tend to shy away from necessary confrontation/boundary setting so speaking up for myself is uncomfortable, healthy, growth.
@swoop2386
Ай бұрын
@@n.a.199 thats true, but really it all depends on what someone means when they say "walk all over", for different people have different meanings for it
@BigBrotherBrody
26 күн бұрын
@@swoop2386 not to add on to the already philosophical statement, but "The way I see it, good is merely a word applied to people who are convenient to our needs in some way. Its purely subjective. Any way you try to look at it, labeling people dehumanizes them." -Armin | AoT (its getting deep) It doesnt necessarily apply, I just love the quote :)
@tincanowl3735
11 күн бұрын
Got me really emotional when you started talking about how we should be excited for the people who’ll get to experience us and how we should be excited we get to experience them as ourselves, saving that for whenever I need a pick me up! Thank you for sharing your journey and yourself!
@chelogarcia69
17 сағат бұрын
this is the format i miss. just sitting down naturally doing things not all the music effects and animations and crazy transitions and editing. just human to human. thank you
@theabyss6014
Ай бұрын
It's so hard to hold confidence at the same time as being sensitive to your feelings, like the moon and the sun
@Yllwsil
27 күн бұрын
Brilliant
@rico14
27 күн бұрын
Ying and Yang
@TalinGTM
27 күн бұрын
@@rico14honestly is a good comparation, the ideia of self confidence and caring about yourself can be seen as difficult having both, but in the true, for one work correctly need the presence of other Yin and yang are not opposites that repel each other but complement each other
@Mikexception
17 күн бұрын
If person whom I do not value, ( because is not valued by others too) says bad about me it is like very positive for me signal that I am not mixed to his companion. My boss at company dinner once named me publicaly "strange duck" . It gave me confidence in work so he felt obligation to write ma special letter of admiration at completing the job.
@devidocs
Ай бұрын
I really needed to hear everything that was said in this video 😭 here are some things I noted down in my journal - there is someone waiting to look up to you - the world is waiting for you to do all the things that only you can do - "everyone is stupid and I just decided not to be" - you are on the right path and going backwards is only going to be way more uncomfortable than going forward and making it (my personal note) - people need an example and there are so many people who are in the same situation as you and they need you to do what you need to - you are that person and you have that vision for a reason - it is worth it - everybody is going through the same thing it's just a matter of who is good at combatting it and who is consistent with being uncomfortable - pave the way ❤
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
I’m so happy you came across the video 😭❤️ and it’s powerful that you wrote these points down. I hope you keep coming back to these things! You got this!
@Teianna
Ай бұрын
thank you for the notes! ❤❤❤
@psalm-oz1od
Ай бұрын
Nice
@Mii-Queen
14 күн бұрын
❤
@rm-hr1yx
Ай бұрын
Yesterday was really tough for me. I sat down in front of the mirror and I burst into tears, saying everything I hated about myself and my life. I felt so lost and hopeless that I cannot do anything about it. That maybe, I'm just fated to be like this. Constantly falling short, disappointing people who used to believe in me, giving up on becoming better because I hated being me. But it gets so unbearable. I couldn't live like that. You're right. Learning how to love yourself or being confident is not something you'll work hard for for one time and then you'll have it rest of your life. It's something that we need to keep working on like a muscle. Thank you for your words. I will try to regain my trust to myself. Your flower arrangement is beautiful, by the way ❤️
@vanessadejesus1603
10 күн бұрын
I hope you are doing better love❤ it’s a long journey but we only have one life and we have to make sure we make the best of everything we have. We will get out of this phase!
@figsandoranges
15 күн бұрын
the captions IN VIDEO is such a nice touch, thank you.
@benjachoper
Ай бұрын
bro i love the quality of the camera plus the letters font plus her style plus shes making flowering while speaking facts
@reirei135
Ай бұрын
I'm actually tearing up listening to you. The part about people waiting to look up to you and meet you and learn from you made me feel like so much more of a real person. I don't know how to describe it, but i think one of my biggest fears is that i won't leave an impact on the people around me, and the way you put it just feels so genuine. Thank you so much
@startaru
Ай бұрын
i get this, so, so hard. i'm sure with this sort of passion about it you WILL make a good impact on people, and i truly believe that. all the best to you.
@nguyentran4290
Ай бұрын
wish you all the best
@reirei135
Ай бұрын
@@startaru thank you so much. I wish you the best on your journey too!
@reirei135
Ай бұрын
@@nguyentran4290 thank you!! I'm wishing you the best as well
@KeleGel
Ай бұрын
Can you impact your life to your wishings? Maybe you dont see yourself impacting your own life as much as you wish to and see it as weakness. But there is always an impact on yourself and others, we just tend to perceive it as "not enough" so we have a dream which will never get reached and this pain drives us to continue the journey to be worthy of ourselves, to be worthy to ride the ride till we die.
@jhinenskylaforest5385
6 сағат бұрын
This made me realize I’ve been reinforcing my insecurities by giving them so much power. I’ll be doing the work to undo this damage. Thank you so much.
@heightenedsenses9605
27 күн бұрын
American girl, I love listening to you, the way you talk is so calming.
@stfu3403
Ай бұрын
your beauty, your mindset, the background, the quality of video 🤯 just wow 🤍
@anorondo
Ай бұрын
you are too
@SummerOf1987
46 минут бұрын
Yeahs, this ✨kitchen✨ is 😍
@petitechiroptera1347
Ай бұрын
You’re really good at explaining and advice giving. The way you approach this topic seems so genuine. A lot of KZitemrs regurgitate generic advice that never resonates nor feels achievable, but this…this is different. Great job. And beautiful arrangements 🩷
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
This feedback means a lot to me. I really appreciate you watching 💞
@michaelarroyo2399
Ай бұрын
@@inayah0 Your authenticity of your experience and feelings vibrates towards others what attracts them to you. You really did show it’s about being real with oneself by knowing thy self. I think I can understand whatever one does with one self will do the same for others, such as self honesty leads to honesty towards others, self-love to love others, and the list goes on. Just like the old saying, “ treat others the way you want to be treated. “
@Isntthisalreadytaken
Ай бұрын
I didn’t *need* this video but I still really appreciate it because it feels like having a friend who’s doing a hard thing with you (I used to have a friend I would always run with, for instance), and it feels really affirmative of the kind of stuff I’ve been doing and working on to hear someone talk about basically the exact same stuff. Thank you for this. :)
@orikpio6826
Ай бұрын
Something about this just makes it feel so real and right, like a handmade quality. Thank you, good work
@toopie6584
Ай бұрын
Inayah I don’t ever comment on KZitem videos😭 I’m 19 turning 20 in two weeks and the past half year has been a period where I focused on growth. Let me say I’ve never been so profoundly moved by such a KZitem video. I’ve watched plenty of self love, up your confidence, Divine feminine energy KZitem videos but never has one been so true, raw, and real. Please keep up the good work and I truly appreciated watching the entire thing.
@aldra8507
Ай бұрын
I Watch many self help or confident videos but this one really made me feel like she cared and was loving of the audience. I also feel very moved🥹
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
This is the biggest compliment ever. I am so grateful that you took the time to comment and give me this feedback ❤️ We are around the same age so I understand the growth period! We are in this together 💞
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
@@aldra8507thank you 🥹❤️ that means so much to me.
@epeehammu
Ай бұрын
@@inayah0Are you on tiktok too inayah??
@noemiesque
Ай бұрын
wow!!! i watched this while washing the dishes and i genuinely stopped once you said that confident people trust themselves. that i have to become a person i trust!! i love that concept and it made something in my brain click! this video is so beautiful and fulfilling, thank you :)
@reallycoollilly
Ай бұрын
beautiful video
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
Thank you! It means the world to me that I could help at all. Proud of you!
@Haddosan
Ай бұрын
decriminalize yapping sessions
@nicoleortiz-vr4uo
16 күн бұрын
😂😂💯
@theencryptedpartition4633
16 күн бұрын
More than sixty percent of KZitem channels are just Professional yappers
@franzk17
2 сағат бұрын
Oh so I have been a criminal all along? Huh, that's cool
@prettymuchem
16 күн бұрын
made it to the end and wanted to say this all resonates so much! i’m on a very intentional journey of self discovery right now and it’s amazing to see and hear like minded people my age going through similar things and doing the work! i just keep thinking back to when i was 13, 15, 17 year old me and who i knew i could be and how badly i want to make her proud! i honestly believe i am right now, and it feels incredible 🥰
@fayerosty
Ай бұрын
I LOVE the whole video. I love the video quality, I love the camera angle, I love the idea kitchen, I love THE PLANTS, I love the dress, I love the hair, I love the wisdom, GIRL KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
Wow this means the world to me! THANK YOU MY LOVE! ❤️
@emmakate2376
Ай бұрын
frr everything in this video is such a mood i love her aesthetic and the words she said! 🫶🏼
@limeffsss
Ай бұрын
The thing with shifts in mentality is that it’s so so important to remind oneself that while these shifts can change you as a person, the whole journey is uniquely a non-linear process in itself which deserves to be treated with extreme delicacy and love. Change has to be unpleasant, which is exactly why accepting that you’ve got your own soft spots that require your attention and care is the utmost necessity yet worth a long way ahead. This video cured my anxiety at the moment almost instantly. Thankyou so so much for sharing! Stay blessed🌼
@lukewills6692
13 күн бұрын
I love this format! It's like my one friend suddenly had a breakthrough on how to help and then just talks. Also, loads of meat on this talk. I'll be saving it to go back to in now and then
@irayacatalina
14 күн бұрын
LOVED listening to all of this. had it going in the background while I cleaned and after a certain point, just sat myself down and put my full attention to it. you are so worth listening to and so inspiring.
@rizztraininghamster
Ай бұрын
The easiest way to become confident is to prove yourself you can achieve something high. It could be about money, it could be about your job position, it could be about having finished a huge project, it could be about a lot of things and the main problem is you have to do something. Staying home wont make you confident even after reading/seeing top 100 books/videos on the topic
@Cecred586
Ай бұрын
There’s a Pristine Balance in your life that I can feel from miles away. You look and sound like an eclectic Angel. Thank you for this wonderful you.
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
Your words mean a lot to me, thank you so much beautiful
@user-mg9xm9zi8u
5 сағат бұрын
i needed to hear this. like, badly. thank you internet stranger
@tskhai
Ай бұрын
yeah i listened to the entire thing, really love the passion during the social anxiety chapter!
@ivanruiz2218
Ай бұрын
It really moved my heart when you said "I love myself" that is so wonderful to hear. It's so wonderful when people love themselves after having not.
@padawanlence7039
Ай бұрын
listened to the whole thing, everything you said hit deep. i’ve struggled with social anxiety and just feeling like i’m inadequate in every aspect of my life. thank you so much for your words. i’ve been thinking about who i want to be but have been afraid to start working towards that because of how uncomfortable it is. but i just need to sit through the discomfort. thank you :)
@DuolingoOwl
19 күн бұрын
the energy you give off is so.. magnetic, I can relate to much of what you said, and that fact that you were once at a place where I am now (and have been for a while) is astounding to me, because of the way you carry yourself now. it’s so easy to believe confident people are just born that way- but no they’re kinda like me, going thru the same journey. you spoke what I absolutely needed to hear, thank you
@unusualpotato42
Ай бұрын
This is honestly one of the most reassuring self-help videos I've come across. Thanks for "paving the way" for us.
@lilac5903
Ай бұрын
i listened to the whole thing. videos like these feel like a breath of fresh air in the midst of the media.
@winkywunk
5 күн бұрын
you’re pathing the way for a lot of people ❤ thank you for your compassion and deep wisdom
@apenasemily4743
28 күн бұрын
I listened the whole way thruuuuuuuuu! I needed to hear all of you said. Thank you for your really inspiring work!
@tonieeb9220
Ай бұрын
I’m glad there’s people on the internet who have something to say. This is so so so inspiring, I think a lot of videos like this are sort of “self improvementy” but this isn’t just advice. There’s compassion in your message and it’s naturally catchy. Thank you!!
@astrobuddy00
11 күн бұрын
This randomly popped up on my explore page when I needed it the most. I am so glad I watched the whole thing. I can't tell you how much I needed to hear everything you said. You seem like a wonderful person, thank you for your contributions to the world.
@emory888
Ай бұрын
You have a gift of healing people by being honest about what you have been and are still going through
@cybrnova
Ай бұрын
i like that this video is not just about physical confidence, but loving how you are as a person
@imaniford119
Ай бұрын
I listened to everything. I'm so grateful you exist. I'm finally confident, but feel so guilty about triggering people who are struggling with insecurities I worked through. I was bullied so badly in the areas I shined by kids and adults as I grew up and I am afraid of the hatred and meanness that comes from those who aren't aware of how their insecurities manifest. You've allowed me to feel more confident being confident, less afraid to rise (I'm healing fears of success because of this past trauma), and less afraid of harm and abuse. So thank you, Inayah🦋
@baba_beda
8 күн бұрын
i wanted to but couldn't cry for a few weeks now. i gave up on being functional today and just sat around in my bed watching cartoons. after that your video found me. at first i thought, funny, how it's in a lot of ways matt d'avelia but for girls. i'm here for it. the more i listened the more i felt hugged, and the tears broke out. thank you.
@LimeLeight
5 күн бұрын
I absolutely listened to the whole video. This is something I really needed to hear from someone genuine, and I appreciate you having the courage to make such an important video! Thank you so much for your time and thoughts.
@lune4682
Ай бұрын
i’ve watched countless videos about confidence but you really made me feel like you were truly speaking to me!! maybe it’s because i relate to you so much. you touched on all the subjects i am dealing with right now and have been dealing with my whole life as well. thank you so much for this ❤ you’re amazing!!
@moondazed42
Ай бұрын
i had literally just finished a journal entry about confidence before opening up YT and seeing this on my recommended. i've been going through the same journey in my own way and its refreshing to hear another story about this struggle. the part about giving your self grace and patience is so important. if you're too hard on yourself, its a lot easier to give up all together. the grace allows us to keep pushing even when we slip
@Nosphate
Ай бұрын
The finished end arrangement was beautiful! This came across my recommended at a great time and really cemented a lot of things I'm learning/experiencing. Glad to see so many have found it. I hate how simple this sounds, but the title of the video + the vibe of it caught my attention and then it was 30 minutes later. Good Stuff!
@sigmundfreud4472
15 күн бұрын
I did listen to the full thing but zoned out several times throughout. Thanks for spreading your positive message!
@hayatyusuf915
Ай бұрын
I loved listening to this. It is so important to see others practicing what you hope to embody as well! genuinely powerful and uplifting. thank you fro being vulnerable.
@ilovethemoon04
Ай бұрын
i'm really glad i found this video, it helped me calm down, your presence is really comforting :)
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
I’m so happy to hear that 💕 thank you friend :)
@wavvelength
14 күн бұрын
thank you for everything you said!!! I love that you clocked yourself at the end for second-guessing yourself, wondering if anyone even watches to the end, bc these feelings creeping in randomly are so real. I really needed to hear all of this, and I’m so grateful you chose to make a vid on this topic 🥺🫶
@user-oz5bx8vn2e
14 күн бұрын
This video was so good. So sincere and refreshing. I feel like I've been feeling so down and not confident for the last 3 years (at least) , and just now I heard words that I really needed.
@KatietheKOFFEEKRISPprofile
Ай бұрын
this video couldn’t have come across at a better time for me - I couldn’t stop watching and listening once I started because of how compelling and affirming your words were. thank you for putting this out there, you’re an inspiration
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
@laurarozamunda
Ай бұрын
I hope lots of people see this. You deserve all the recognition people are giving. Thank you! I especially like the part about holding space for yourself and having grace to grow. Its possible to be a confident person while having feelings of insecurity sometimes, those moments don't define us, its the consistent way we speak to ourselves after those moments that will define us❤
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
Thank you for saying this ❤️ it means the world to me! You’re so right :)
@lialovesyah321
Ай бұрын
Really needed to hear this. I’ve been working on this journey for myself for over a year but I’ve felt very alone. Thanks for showing me that I’m not
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
We are all on this journey together I promise. You got this, sending you so much love!
@bethany9296
Ай бұрын
This is pure golden energy and so tangibly honest & true and such an overwhelmingly welcome existential reminder . Thank you for sharing.
@Lyndseycutiepie
Ай бұрын
you are about to change my life! thank you for sharing your self love.
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
You got this ❤️ thank you for listening
@halfaloaf
2 күн бұрын
Thank you for speaking. I feel like I’ve been in a confidence rut so it’s nice to hear confident people talk about the process
@marianna380
20 күн бұрын
I listened to all of this and I think this was genuinely a very good video on confidence. I've seen quite a few and this is definitely the best that I've seen in a while. I actually avoided clicking on it in my feed for a while cus these videos are usually all the same and pretty unhelpful but you did a really great job - the posture thing especially resonated with me
@marisa8565
Ай бұрын
i watched this whole thing through. didn’t think i would or that i could but i did and i don’t regret it one bit. this was beautiful honestly i loved all every second. thank you for this :)
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
I really appreciate you :)
@ryeu8154
Ай бұрын
thank you so much. i’ve been suffering about how to show up and overcome my self doubt. i don’t have any confidence right now. i have a lot of insecurities and i think it’s affecting my life. i can’t be the best version of myself
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
I understand. This community is here for you and we are on this journey together. Sending you so much love
@mark.lombard
Ай бұрын
happily watched this all the way through. this feels like something everyone at any stage of their journey of building confidence needs to see. i've been making strides for a while but also facing some tough setbacks too in terms of confidence and becoming the person i want to be. in the bad times, i've had grieving periods for the person i really want to be, that opens doors to the experiences i know i want to have, but just felt like i was never going to be that person, and it felt devastating. but recently i've gotten back to feeling stronger and believing the things you said in this video. i think the way you laid out people's projection of insecurity was really perfect. i'd say it's something people have always heard before as simply "people just project their insecurities or make themselves feel better by tearing people down" but it's never been as explained as clearly as this and also placed in a relevant context of building self confidence. i always come back to that stephen fry quote of "a truth expressed poorly is a lie" because it's crazy how much that truth has shown up in my life. times where i needed to not just hear, but know something, just didn't reach me because the person explaining didn't quite understand that just because they understand it fundamentally, doesn't mean the person will get it by only summarising it. so it always blows me away when someone can explain something so well in a small amount of time that it plants that fundamental understanding of something that finally makes feels like the advice can be actionable or applicable to my life. on top of that, the whole putting yourself into these spots of discomfort is pretty crucial too. i think my unwillingness or fear of having to do things that make me feel uncomfortable or i feel unable to do perfectly, is what brought on my feelings of not being able to become that person i want to be; a person who is loved and trusted by others, and as an artist, makes interesting and impactful art because they were able to go into uncharted creative and personal territory to make it happen. but i have known about moving into that kind of discomfort brings growth for a while now, but hearing this in the way you explained it, has really strengthen and validated it again. there's another quote that has stuck with me since i saw it years and years ago. james murphy of lcd soundsystem was talking to his mentor david bowie about the idea of regrouping lcd soundsystem, years after they broke up in 2011 to "quit while they were ahead". james wrestled with the idea of whether he wanted to reunite the band and said it to bowie, who said something along the lines of "if it makes you uncomfortable, good, you should be uncomfortable". a while after thinking about what he said, james came to realise something about david, an idol and mentor, through that advice. "I didn’t imagine David Bowie ever felt uncomfortable, because, of course, I’m thinking that David Bowie’s experience of being David Bowie is the same as I would imagine myself having, which would be: ‘Fuck everybody else, I’m David fucking Bowie.’ But that wasn’t his experience at all. He was David Jones, and he’d done nothing but make himself uncomfortable for his entire career.” this video is honestly so loaded and brilliant and leads to so much discussion in my mind that i'm gonna have to stop here. thank you for making this video, you're a lovely and thoughtful person but i'm sure you knew that already
@ElyseByMoto_YT
Ай бұрын
Oh wow I love your message, this is the only "confidence" video I have ever finished
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
What a compliment! ❤️❤️❤️
@cornnucopiaa
Ай бұрын
Hi I watched til the end and I’m so so so so grateful that you made this video and that floral arrangement is so GORGEOUSSS!! I really truly needed this video. I have been feeling so scared of social interaction and this helped a lot. I will stop avoiding the discomfort!!
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
Thank you!!! I am proud of you!! I know the feeling and I’m so glad this video helped in any way. You got this
@kabancheg6788
Ай бұрын
im greateful for you too for making so much work into this video and uploading it so i could watch it! your manners and way of looking are so beautiful and strong, i am really thankful for these advices
@albertososa3177
Ай бұрын
Thought provoking stuff! I enjoyed how you mentioned visualizing yourself having achieved the goal in order to keep yourself focused.
@chrism8216
Ай бұрын
the level of thought you must’ve put into this topic shows intensely. even the small details like the flower arrangements you make every week moves mountains for me. the authenticity above all else makes your dedication and perseverance shine like gemstones. i wish i could listen to you talk about this for hours. but 30 minutes will have to do thank you for sharing your experiences
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
This means a lot to me. Thank you 🙏 ❤️
@emiiiee
Ай бұрын
I used to watch your earlier videos on my other account so so so much. They've always resonated in a beautiful way. I found this video in my suggested, and I am so so happy to see your videos again but years later. So much growth has happened throughout that time. I am proud of you and your journey :)
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
You have no idea what it means to me that you’re still here ❤️
@nightc0rreFan
Ай бұрын
I listened to the whole thing and literally during the video started completing the long lost promises I made for myself. I changed by watching ONCE so I can just imagine for now how much progress I'll have by rewatching this video. I'm def saving this to my playlist. tysm
@suraiyapatel8173
Ай бұрын
Thanks for the inspiration and letting us into your journey 💜
@sonomishen5451
Ай бұрын
I wrote down, ''I grow.'' in my diary today, and this is showed up in my youtube. I'm really grateful now. Thank you.
@Asheart24
Ай бұрын
I had the same realization a few months ago, and it feels really nice to see someone who went through the same thing. Thank you for making this video :)
@emilykath5267
17 күн бұрын
Listened to all of this in a few sessions and I'm so glad I did. Struggling with social anxiety is really hard to talk about, so thank you so much for sharing your wisdom and this space 💓
@sequoiaheller1898
Ай бұрын
was thinking you looked familiar and didn’t know why but then i realized we followed each other on ig or tumblr wayyyy back in the day 2014 haha,, so lovely to see the person you’ve grown into ❤️ definitely watched the whole thing && loved every word of it,, this is the exact wave i’ve been on for the past year and i imagine this video could be life changing for someone newly introduced to these concepts. i never comment on youtube videos but i had to let u know how wonderful it is to see how you’ve grown
@inayah0
Ай бұрын
I appreciate you watching and sharing your words! ❤️ it means a lot to me :)
@iretica
6 күн бұрын
those flowers at the end are truly beautiful
@Jazzie_jam
Ай бұрын
Just finished your video, yes we truly are watching till the end! I really do love how you shed light on topics such as this. Coming from someone in the first year of HS and is attempting to become a somewhat healthier, better person overall, seeing this video made me feel really seen and that I wasn't the only person dealing with this. I hope it made a lot of others feel seen too, including who have begun this process.
@haheart_
28 күн бұрын
i absolutely love the quality of this video and the whole freaking vibe
@shannon3693
Күн бұрын
I just finished listening to this while I was in the shower. I found it so suprising when the fact that we are not alone hit me, it was such an alleviating feeling to know that we truly are not alone in this world like we think we are. And this whole video just helped me immensely I have no words. Know that if you feel that no one cares again, I care :)
@thaisyuki9002
25 күн бұрын
I loved everything you said, it resonated a lot with me! I’m so grateful KZitem recommended your video and it was the perfect timing.
@irisyeung4156
14 күн бұрын
thank you so much!!! i am on a path of getting confident and truly believe in myself. what you said really helped me getting a better picture of how i am going to do this! 🖤
@KyleBenzien
Ай бұрын
I listened to the whole video. From beginning to end. Awesome stuff! Thanks for making this!
@anatagasuki3335
29 күн бұрын
You’re sharing your own experience and tips in such an authentic way, it’s really inspiring. Great video🤍
@tipotheus.
Ай бұрын
your so graceful and your words so meaningful. thank you! beautiful!💚
@elenatodorova2827
24 күн бұрын
I've watched your video a few times now and I really loved your laid back chatty approach to giving this advice. Feeling like a "liar" whenever you try to tweak aspects of your behavior that are hurtful for you and others is really a big hurdle to overcoming your insecurity and trusting yourself. From personal experience I can say that keeping the promises you make to yourself and showing up really does do a lot for building self-trust. It's just that I and probably many others reading this we make too big promises too early and it tends to end in burnout and disappointment. So this thing with the "just pick your fitness outfit at first and that’s enough" really pricked up my ears and I'd love to try it... It's hard to lower your expectations when you want so much so fast but it really is a lot more sustainable. Thank you for making this video and sharing your thoughts, to everyone reading: you got this! ^^ (my personal insecurity has that i'm too self-absorbed and can't really connect to and love other people but writing this is a vote for the alternative) ❤
@linosonlygf.
12 күн бұрын
i"ve never felt so understood through a video, you said exactly what i always wished , wanted to hear and what i didn't wanna face, i'm so grateful that i found this video, thank you so much for this ( also you're so HEAVENLY pretty )
@tommymerelte4399
Ай бұрын
This helped me so much, I had low self-esteem, self-loathing, self-doubting and those traits reinforce my self-image. For years, these vicious cycles have destroyed me internally, I constantly compare myself with others, constantly second-guessing words that I just said. My ego shrinks to the point where I become a people-pleaser, I completely forgot who I am, my identity as live life based on solely other benchmarks and standards. Your videos really help, I learned that thoughts matter, body language matter. I felt like self-esteem isn't a gift that you need only claim, but an achievement through years of trials and errors as well as advice from wiser people.
@nbgenius
Ай бұрын
thank you!!! going through a similar moment and I relate so much. this video and your existence are blessings 🤍 thank you for sharing
@irelynndohertyy3096
Ай бұрын
I watched the whole thing! This was honestly beautiful and really helped me create a better mindset about how I take up space in a room, your right I have something to say and I have space in a room full of people, and what I have to say matters! And yeah it’ll definitely take a lot of discomfort and breaking out of the thought pattern I’m used too. But this video really helped me be able to start taking the little steps towards my dream self who loves taking up space and having what I have to say be heard thank you Inayah! And woah the flower arrangement is absolutely stunning !!!
@dayviblue9442
23 күн бұрын
Hi!! I listened to your whole vid all the way through. Thank you for this because this insecurity I've felt lately is actually new for me I'm in this new phase of becoming an adult, and I've never felt so unsure of my self and very hyper aware. It's started to affect my daily life and mental head space. I've basically been tormenting myself trying to find my way back to self. I feel like I was meant to watch your vid because it reminded me that I've been here before and im not stuck I can, and will be happy to be me again.
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