Do you think we are crazy? Have you ever experienced anything like this in your own life? Or have your breakups been super messy and ugly? I would love to hear from you.
@soul_panther_music
6 жыл бұрын
I've tried my best to stay friends with all of my exes, but at a certain point, it feels like the more loving choice to take space.
@JustMinhaz
6 жыл бұрын
I have had a few ugly breakups but recently I would never leave a relationship confused, always made sure we spoke it all out, almost like we got to close the book properly! However I am yet to experience what you both did in this video! Which will be challenging but beautiful!
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
haha always room for coffee.
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing man, it's a definite journey
@angela5134
6 жыл бұрын
Why would I judge a conscious choice? I left a long term relation behind this year- my ultimate goal is to create a friendship with this human being, for I am grateful for the teachings, the time we shared and I appreciate him a lot. It was a conscious choice and very painful to take the step because we didn't agree about it... and still, it was not messy at all. - one question for you, Adam: are you 100% sure about the identity of the source that told you to break up with Azrya? Just wondering...
@Meesha821
6 жыл бұрын
My last partnership ended very similarly. The man I was with, our relationship was otherworldly. There was so much love from both sides, love that never expired... but the universe was calling us to move forward alone. One of the most stunningly beautiful, difficult, raw, & transcendent experiences I've ever gone through. People in our lives never understood our decisions, so I'm thankful you're sharing this!!
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
We've definitely had a lot of disbelief around us, but hopefully this video will help.
@Meesha821
6 жыл бұрын
AdamRoa I know it's possible. Keep following your truths!
@lyndaferraz6993
4 жыл бұрын
I believe some people are simply not able to be happy and deal with difficulties of family life.
@trinathompson5656
3 жыл бұрын
This is my situation so much love yet it better we are alone
@Iminoamino
3 жыл бұрын
Hey how are u feeling now? Are u doing better ? I'm in currently same situation
@julianaw4608
4 жыл бұрын
my boyfriend and me broke up two days ago. its heart wrenching watching the person you love crying because you both know its the best decision for the both of you. that you both have to separate to take care of ourselves. we've been together for 3 years this is so painful
@maeg.9527
4 жыл бұрын
hi, i just wanted to say that you’re not alone. my boyfriend and i broke up last night for the same reasons. our lives are so hectic now and after a lot of talking, we realized that the best decision for both of us was to go our separate ways. it hurts so much, especially because we’re still so in love, but we’re also young and need to figure out our own lives first. i feel your pain, but i know that you’ll grow from this and that everything will be okay soon. sending you so much love
@aliceharvey9450
3 жыл бұрын
I'm also going through the same thing, it hurts but it's the best decision for both of us and we both want each other to be happy.
@jhanemoreto8030
3 жыл бұрын
Same here :( is it so painful
@jhanemoreto8030
3 жыл бұрын
@Jess Ambler maybe you guys just need to talk or give each other space... as an update to my situation we talk about it after I told him i am breaking up and we give each other space and now we trying it out again and feel so much better
@Klitavox
3 жыл бұрын
My gf broke up with me feel days ago and we both love each other but things have gotten so bad Im starting therapy
@Casiopea_azul
3 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my boyfriend four days ago. We were together for five years and we have been living together for four. We still love each other but we feel that we are no longer makeing each other happy. I'm broken, each day is harder than the last. I think about the future and how we were gonna spend it together and i feel empty and desperate. The worst part is that i know one day i will feel better, time will pass, other projects, other couples... and one day he will no longer be my most important person and i won't be his... that thought is killing me. It feels like i'm dying.
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Sending love your way
@rochelledickson2536
3 жыл бұрын
I'm going through the same thing right now, sending love to you
@lyvsix
3 жыл бұрын
You made me cry in a restaurant, thanks. Im going through the same, obly I have battled qdepression almost my whole life and it doesn't help. He was not good for me at the end but I can't imagine being able to have a life without him. He was the only reason I had to keep going... Now I feel empty and alone..
@Iminoamino
3 жыл бұрын
Please can u update how are u doing now? Are u feeling and healing better?I'm currently facing same plz tell
@Casiopea_azul
3 жыл бұрын
@@lyvsix i'm so sorry to hear, it's very very tough. the clash between reality and the expectations we had is very brutal. i think some flexibility is required in the mind to be able to think that life is not what we expected but maybe it can to be ok anyway. i hope that with time that will come. Please take care of yourself the best that you can, pamper yourself and remember to do the little things that you enjoy. Those are still there.
@lilcheey
3 жыл бұрын
It's hard having to break up with someone you still love and loves you back. The process would have been easier if the relationship was shitty and brought the both of you more sorrow than joy. But this break up of mine was nothing like that, we loved having each other around and cared for one another deeply. Still, things just didn't work out, things that were out of our hands. The thought of wanting to get back to him keeps rushing in, wanting to get out of this painful experience. But I know that we both needed this to grow, and be better for ourselves. I'm learning to be on my own again, after nearly 2 years of us always having each other to rely on.
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
❤️
@LoveLife-ry5mm
3 жыл бұрын
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@LoveLife-ry5mm
3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
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@cachank33
Жыл бұрын
How is it today?
@morganclark3540
4 жыл бұрын
I’m going thru this right now. I needed this so much. I feel like my heart is being ripped out.
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
you'll be just fine.
@morganclark3540
4 жыл бұрын
AdamRoa I know but currently it feels like I’m making a mistake leaving someone I love so deeply to find myself. Feels selfish and wrong. I think I’ve done the work before I get into relationships and it always ends up me doing the same shit. Just not understanding how to change it.
@Em_Elizabeth
4 жыл бұрын
I know we need to break up but he loves me so much, he says he won't be able to live with himself if he loses me on top of the work and health-related issues going on in his life. I tried to leave him last month on good terms but he said our breakup will be a bitter one. If a couple days of space has him so depressed, what will the real breakup look like?
@1kmilez
3 жыл бұрын
im in the process of breaking up with my 2+ year relationship and thinking of it makes me feel sad already... I dont wanna leave him, but I feel he doesnt care or love me like before.. He spends less time with me and tells me im being dramatic for telling how i feel bout his actions towards me. It mkes me feel alone even were in a relationship. But i feel its the right thing to do.
@carahartoon8313
3 жыл бұрын
Omg this hurts so much
@loze5571
6 жыл бұрын
I don't think you guys are crazy. I think you are both incredibly brave.
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate that, thank you.
@weis3461
2 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend and I broke up a few days ago and I still very much love her t\o the point where my heart hurts just thinking about how we had to break up despite us both loving each other. This pain is so much greater because of the fact that for the sake of each other, separation was the only choice, which honestly still makes me so confused and sad. I'm convincing myself that it's for the best, but what I really want is to just have her back. Yet it seems like she is far more clearminded than me, which honestly makes me sad.
@dylanb113able1
2 жыл бұрын
I fully relate to your experience as it has also happened to me a few days ago. It hurts so much and it’s sad and confusing, especially if it looks like they’re doing better for themselves. All we can do is be happy for them and move on from it. Time heals.
@sourstrawberries958
Жыл бұрын
I’m currently going through this and they looks like they’re moving on so much faster, I know these comments were 6 months ago, but how are you guys now? Is it easier?
@SpiritualWarrior
Жыл бұрын
I'm so scared to tell my boyfriend how I feel because I love him so much and he has told me that he feels this way already. Like I am more clear minded and ahead of him in a way. I don't know how to approach this but I know we would both be better off separate while we heal ourselves.
@occamsrazorbacks5385
Жыл бұрын
I left my twin flame 2 days ago after she illegally evicted me from our apartment on New Year’s Day. I couldn’t forgive her for what she did to me. I’m completely ruined. My best friend & a truth seeker at that. I am head over heels in love with her, the pain coursing through my blood could trigger End Times instantly.
@bigmanteddyhimself1913
11 ай бұрын
Since it was over a year ago, how does it feel now? I just got broken up and need some advice
@Tesparza19
3 жыл бұрын
I paused the video of number of times to feel the emotions...I can relate on many levels. I’m living a life of quiet desperation in a relationship that I know is not healthy. Beautiful children, beautiful family, beautiful friends...my identity is so intertwined with her the thought of ending things feels like someone close to me has passed away. I’m not sure that I’m strong enough to embark on this journey...So lost 😞
@calebmufasa419
5 жыл бұрын
My partner Maria and myself today, finally, talked about ending this journey of ours. We love each other so much. But are so far from healthy for each other. So, I needed something to remind me how we can navigate this. And that we aren't everyone else. And it doesn't have to be a big fight. And we can break these ties that bind us with love. And be friends. Because that's what she is. My closest friend.
@AdamRoaOfficial
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing Caleb, it's not an easy journey but its an honorable one... blessings on your transition and next month.
@olgacherkasova3522
3 жыл бұрын
How are you feeling now?
@MarieRylance
4 жыл бұрын
How do you get through the painful bit of the breakup when you’re both in love with eachother? It just keeps feeling like the wrong decision even though I know it’s not deep down
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
It takes time and also it's important to have daily practices that help you learn to love yourself, instead of relying on another.
@taylorwoods7424
4 жыл бұрын
I’m going through the exact same thing. It so goddamn hard.
@trinathompson5656
3 жыл бұрын
One of the most difficult thing ever I’m getting there myself it’s really tough
@hurstshiftin9873
3 жыл бұрын
Feel that so much well said!
@sahmcgowan7
3 жыл бұрын
And how to watch them love again? How to not compare new love?
@JeremyChevallier
Жыл бұрын
This is one of the most beautiful films I’ve ever seen. Funny enough, we were also almost 10 years in and just starting to plan our family before we realized we needed to restructure our relationship. I am on KZitem today looking for stuff just like this because I’m grieving terribly, and you two have given me hope that we can still have a beautiful connection in the future, even if it isn’t what our younger selves pictured.
@PrincessMononoke2907
3 жыл бұрын
Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years and we had a really healthy and loving relationship. My father passed away from COVID-19 in November and he supported me, did everything I needed and helped my family out. He even taught me to drive and cook.My brother has had his drug problems for years and is just very abusive, steals from us, threatens us and now its only me and my mother. I love him but i started getting irritated at him for the smallest things and took out my frustration out on him, he said he didnt mind but I just couldnt be selfish like that. We always had more good than bad but my future was so corrupted and i felt like I needed to make my life right on my own without dragging him along. I didn’t see a future with us anymore. He truly was the best thats why he deserves getting his needs met and not feel unimportant. He wasn’t a priority to me and recently i saw my cat getting killed infront of me (i know to many that might seem like nothing) but she was a kitten given to me to grief. I just have no more love in me right now and Im in my last year of highschool, im still young.
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Sending love your way Vanessa
@TheHahnbanach
2 жыл бұрын
Adam I think that I can't express how much this video helped me today. I'm right now experiencing a break up after 14 years of relationship, and it has been awful, even more considering that I'm 31 years old. Almost every other video I watched started from the premise that you need to remove the other person from your life, and I really DONT want to do that. I still love her and I want the best for her life. So, watching your story has helped me to see that it is also correct to do an "alternative" way, keeping contact and taking care of each other. Based on love and respect. Thank you.
@JustMinhaz
6 жыл бұрын
This is one of the most amazing and beautiful and life changing videos I have ever seen on KZitem! Hands down! Thank you for sharing your vulnerability with us! THANK YOU!
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
Wow! Such an amazing compliment thank you. Can't wait to share more with you.
@sensen4734
3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend and I are preparing for this. He is compelled to marry very soon as he is in his late 30s and the only son to his very lovely, beautiful and old parents and his dad is sick now but I am still 21,in college and have a lot of opportunities in my way to pursue my dreams. It is something none of us can help but walk different paths. I am just glad we never had any bad/ugly moments ever in our relationship. We never ever let one another feel less/unworthy. It was always so beautiful. Always... As much as I wish to be with him, I also have dreams of becoming someone I wanted to be before I settle to have family. I just hope time will heal. No matter where I am, who I become or who I am with I will love him always, somehow!
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Sending love your way ❤️
@cosmicmoon89
4 жыл бұрын
I am currently going through a mutual breakup and it’s been one of the hardest things I have ever had to go though. It’s essentially parting ways with my best friend, but doing it out of love for her and myself. Thank you for sharing this. ❤️
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
Yes, it's incredibly hard so I am sending you lots of love!
@MegaBobman3000
2 жыл бұрын
This video was a beautiful representation of what I am dealing with and had to stop the video and collect myself because of how close to home it feels. Me and my ex girlfriend started dating at 16 and now at 21 we had to part ways because I moved across the country for a job. Our relationship was far from perfect but did we ever love each other. She was my everything and I was hers. We were neighbours before me moving and we did everything together. She taught me how to love someone more than myself. I will never stop loving her I just pray that it works out for us in the end. I cannot imagine life without her. Thank you for this video
@leighn.8670
2 жыл бұрын
This is definitely the kinder and more compassionate approach and shows a lot of emotional maturity. The reality is that most people are incapable of this and they project pain as unkindness.
@yua_ki
Жыл бұрын
I asked my boyfriend of 5-6 months to break up 4 days ago, and he was completely against it but I insisted. We still love each other and it’s so painful. Because the same things kept repeating and I kept giving chances. And we’re just at so different points of life right now and maturity. Its so hard. I can’t think of a future without him even though I need to right now otherwise I can’t come to terms with myself because I deserve to heal and learn. I’m having such a hard time right now. We were both fighting so hard and I had to be the one to say that fighting for it wasn’t working. There were so many factors out of our control and we’re still hoping to be together again. Please I hope it gets better. He’s my first love and boyfriend that I was ever serious about. I’m still having trouble sleeping and eating because of how dependant I was in the relationship. I want so badly to hope but I know I need to work on myself not a relationship right now. It hurts so much, I love him and I’m selfish and want to be with him. But it can’t be as it was. I need to feel happy by myself, because I never did that before. It hurts so much more than any heartbreak I’ve had and I didn’t expect it at all.
@poppetjegroothoofd
Жыл бұрын
update or tips? im going through the same thing right now.
@trinityp8575
Жыл бұрын
Now that is a genuine reason for splitting up. I am in the same situation. Things keep repeating and I just can’t go forward like this anymore. Give each other space and time. You will either come back stronger or you will heal and find the right person for you who is ready and on the same page ❤
@nelsonortiz3484
2 жыл бұрын
Glad I came across this video. My bf and I broke up 3 days ago. We been together for 6 years. Gone through some bad times but also some amazing times. We love eachother so much but we know we been holding eachother back from just being the best version of ourselves :(.sometimes I’m not sure how we got here but I also know how we got here. If this makes sense. My heart aches when I think about it and know that I won’t be coming home to him. I wish and hope that this is the best bad decision we have ever made. Destiny will tell our future but for now all we can do is mourn and hope for the best!
@thedrummernator3892
4 жыл бұрын
Your honesty and sheer willingness to be so openly vulnerable gets a like and subscribe from me. May your process and healing be blessed, you're doing good work.
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
I appreciate that. Thank you.
@maddiejankow8306
Жыл бұрын
This is one of the sweetest and saddest things I’ve ever watched. It was heart wrenching and painful for me, so I can’t imagine how it must have felt for you. Thank you for sharing this vulnerable moment in your life. Clearly, you are trailblazers in the movement to become a better version of humanity. ❤
@bethanybrianne6142
3 жыл бұрын
I was in a relationship with my first love for over 9 months, which may not seem long for others but as a 16 year, it was. I loved him so so so much and I still do. But he loves me so much more. I’ve recently came to terms with my sexuality and figured out that I am bi. He doesn’t know and I’m too scared to tell him so he just doesn’t understand why I’m leaving him and it hurts so bad to see the boy I love so much continuously putting his pride aside to beg me to stay cuz he loves me too much. Leaving him feels so wrong, but staying with him also feels wrong. I’m so confused and can’t shake this overwhelming feeling. Idk what to do :/
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Find within yourself what you are most afraid of in this situation and then choose the loving choice. Be really honest with yourself.
@Bellachris75
Жыл бұрын
Today is the day where my girlfriend and I will talk about the future of our relationship, and I have come to the conclusion that is better to go our separate ways, even if it's the last thing I want to do, I know this is the right decision in the long run. I had been looking at videos and turning myself inside out before coming to this conclusion. We have the healthiest relationship, no bad blood, no toxicity, only love for each other. But for me, the passion is just not there anymore. All the videos I watched were about someone being toxic or a person that you didn't want in your life, but I feel like this one was made just for me, it's the only one I could see myself in, since I still love her and there really isn't anything wrong on paper. I was being so hard on myself since there were no MAJOR negatives when it came to my relationship. Seeing you go through this, made me realized that breakups don't have to be ugly. They will always be painful, but doesn't mean that the love is gone and that you don't care about the person anymore. Thank you so much for sharing. I am terrified of the conversation I will have this evening, and everything there is to come, but this gave me strenght.
@RBIBC
2 жыл бұрын
This was an amazing video. I’m sure many including myself can experience a breakup where the two still loves each other. As my eyes are filled with tears i can’t help but calm down knowing that other people have been through similar pain.
@davepelvin130
3 жыл бұрын
wow, just went through this in my own life.... left with so much love.... its been unreal and beautiful. Thank you for sharing this
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Your welcome
@ninadubois2842
Жыл бұрын
Damn. I am so grateful for this. I've been feeling a shift and hearing the call to uncouple from my almost 10 year marriage. We love and respect each other so much. We have a beautiful son who is our world. I pray I know when it is time to go and I am brave enough to end this version of our relationship.
@blueberrykiss124
3 жыл бұрын
It was so comforting coming across this video. It’s interesting how similar emotions can feel to different situations. I showed my (ex?) partner a clip of the last part of the video and he agrees it’s exactly how we feel. He just moved across the country yesterday morning. I’m still in our home with our cats. We still love each other dearly, the grief does come in waves and it always makes me feel sick. This is so much harder to deal with then I let myself believe before he left.
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3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
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@thecommonsensecapricorn
2 жыл бұрын
It’s hard when you want to consciously uncouple but your partner doesn’t have the same spiritual path as you. I was 21 and he was 25, his friends were moving on and settling down, and that was the chapter he wanted to begin as well. We had been in and out of each other’s lives for 2-3 years before committing to a relationship (at the ages I mentioned above). As time went on I got so restless. Every day was the same. Work, get home, make dinner, watch movies, go to bed. I wasn’t growing, I wasn’t learning, I wasn’t living. I loved him; he was my partner, he was so full of love and joy, he was so giving, he was so resilient. But after a year and a half of partnership, I ended things and moved across the country. He was so hurt and angry at me. He cut off all contact and when I was visiting home & saw him out, he’d ignore me. This was almost 4 years ago. I never stopped loving him and I don’t think I ever will. He’s a soulmate, and I learned so much from being with him, I continue to learn so much by losing him. I miss him all the time, wish that he was in my life, but I can’t control this. I just found out he’s been living with a woman for a year and a half and they moved up the coast together. I had to go through the grief process all over again. It’s sad but sometimes it doesn’t get easier, you just learn to live with it. I love deeply and I have a hard time letting go of people. Especially to someone else. I realize, though, that this is much bigger than us. Spirit has a plan for him and I. Individually. We don’t know what that is. Though I grieve that the plan does not include us being together, even as friends, I have no idea what is destined. Why Spirit needed us to separate. I just have to have faith that it’ll all make sense one day.
@origi.não
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. I really wanted this for my last relationship but he wasn't there. I fell in love with an invulnerable man. it broke my heart that he didn't even say goodbye to me. I packed my things and said goodbye to the home, the animals and his house mates. I left him a gift, a card that said "I grew so much with you" and a final text message of gratitude. He said nothing to me. My heart is heavy and broken. I wish I had this.
@T0NG4NT4NK
4 жыл бұрын
Litteraly went through this yesterday...11 years.
@ClassWarVeteran
Жыл бұрын
This was well done and wholesome. I’m surprised the view count isn’t higher. It’s seems like the more genuine something is, the less attention it gets. I’ve noticed this in music as well.
@amelianashe6947
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you. This is helping me a lot right now to swim against societal convention. More people need to know that this is possible.
@user-rc1my2xc3s
5 жыл бұрын
Wow. You have me bawling... Nearly all of my relationships have ended this way, I am so blessed. Sometimes the unconditional love has folded on the other end out of pain, but I am also lucky to have friendship from souls I spent a portion of my life with. Oh my God I love those people so much and all they taught me and all we shared together
@AdamRoaOfficial
5 жыл бұрын
thats such a beautiful space to be in. Glad to hear you were able to do it so consciously.
@blooeagle5118
2 жыл бұрын
She and I have a lot of person issues going on, a lot of it is stuff to deal with in therapy, and a lot of it is for her. She is ridiculously stressed, hasn't had much time to herself at all and really just wants some independence for a while. When she told me I was pretty crushed, it hurt a lot but I know I need to time alone too. She and I have both agreed that we'd keep talking amicably but that the romantic aspect is on hold for now but, fuck me is this a challenge to deal with... On one hand I know that we need this (her a bit moreso than I) and if it festered in her, it may grow into resentment. I told her the most I could wait was a little over a year, and we agreed that if we never get back together as a couple, we'd still talk regularily. I'm truly, truly hoping that the reunion happens. I am so happy around her, and I want it to last. Part of me feels a bit off because our connection is so strong but if we really commit to working on ourselves we may yet have a stronger relationship later on, and that resonates with me more than a potential end does. I really hope this works out, she is so incredible and finding a connection like this again will be close to impossible.
@chrisrancat2808
2 жыл бұрын
Love is so powerful and yet delicate and precious. There is something wrong with people when they believe its disposable and not worth fighting for.
@cremornesydney9347
2 жыл бұрын
my girlfriend is leaving this country in one year, and knowing that it will be the end of our time is heartbreaking. ultimately it is the best thing for her to leave and although it is painful ill just have to accept it and move on. there is no feeling worse than knowing your loved one will have to walk away while you both love each other, but knowing there are others feeling this way who support you and encourage us to move on, it makes me feel better.
@Achilles2929
Жыл бұрын
hello,how are you feeling now,i am almost going through the same thing!
@alexanderbade2823
9 ай бұрын
I really needed this video. My girlfriend and me just broke up last night and we still cuddled and cried together until very late. Woke up together and hugged each other so intense like never before once we knew that it will be the last one… We’ve been together for three years and it’s been the best thing that happened to us. However, we came to the conclusion that it (hopefully) is the best for each of us to break up in the long run…
@AdamRoaOfficial
9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing this. You've got this 🙏
@IrisFilms
3 жыл бұрын
I ve been through this once, and I am again in this kind of breack up right now. I don t think is crazy. What I do think is that couples that end up hating each other they don t really loved each other. Maybe there were passion, care, but not true love. Once you love someone, that love cannot go away. You choose breakup beacause the diferences between you and the partner start to hurt each other. But you still care, you still love. The crazy thing is that you have to change your behaveiour even if you don t feel to do that at all. Yesterday was great to hug and kiss and say ”my love”, and today is totally wrong. But you feel to do so and you have to stop yourself. This hurt so much.
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Glad you agree :)
@NeginAhmadii
5 күн бұрын
My boyfriend and i are in the same situation. It’s heartbreaking. I can’t imagine life without him. We’ve been together 3 year and are deep in love but we have to breakup. I wish life wasn’t this hard. I’m writing this in tears. I don’t know if i’m strong enough to find happiness again and if i’ll ever be ready for that 💔
@oOhCyrus
2 жыл бұрын
I entered “tips for breaking up on mutual terms” not expecting anything close to come up. But this did. My bf and I have Been together almost 5 years. We love each other but we know deep down we both aren’t completely happy with each other. It’s the hardest thing in the world for me to accept. But I need to understand that he isn’t completely happy and I can’t keep trying to force something that isn’t there anymore. So we are deciding to end things on a good note.
@bigmanteddyhimself1913
11 ай бұрын
I was with her for almost 2 years, I loved and still love her with all my heart. But we were moving in different places and she felt like she couldnt take care of us, let alone herself. Im trying my best ro let go and make the process and pain let me evolve into a better person. But I don't know how I will live without her. We'll always have a place in eachothers hearts but now I need to do it alone. I hope we, as individuals, can find ourselves.
@Mirrz4ever
4 жыл бұрын
Cried the entire video. Just broke up with my soulmate. Together 5 years. Lived together for four. So devastating. But this is beautiful. I also believe this is our mission right now. It is what it is.
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
You're going to be just fine :)
@maisetas
4 жыл бұрын
i dont understand why?
@chkingvictim
Жыл бұрын
this is an excellent video. a lot of breakups happen because the people are not meant for each other. for me, this was not the case. we broke up because we were too dependent on each other. i’ve had so little self love and respect for myself my entire life that i was entirely too attached to him. we’re perfect for each other. i’ve never been so in love. but i absolutely need to be alone right now, and he does too. i need to learn to love myself. i need to treat myself with the love and respect i deserve, instead of giving it all to someone else. thank you.
@raevonmckenzie7850
3 жыл бұрын
Two years ago I asked my ex husband to divorce me if he loved me. It opened up conversation and he/we realized that we love each other but we were not the right coupling forever. We have our moments of loneliness but we still talk openly and I overall support him in his life. 🙂
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
🙌
@meghanmcdermott4922
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so so so much for this. You have no idea how much this helped after breaking up amicably after 7 years.
@gowithin1116
2 жыл бұрын
My partner & I decided to part in love. However she is distancing herself & detaching and it’s heartbreaking. I am lashing out just to get attention. It’s a lot harder than I thought
@leviotten
5 ай бұрын
14 years and we are doing this. Its the single worst and hardest thing ive ever had to do. I am trying to navigate this process and we arent going no contact. we are trying to stay friends.
@alchemydragon
4 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful. Thank you both for sharing.
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
you're welcome. Thanks for the comment.
@aliensapien9854
6 жыл бұрын
this video was so powerful I had to watch it halfscreen because otherwise i would die ..........
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
lol! I'm glad you survived.
@sandstew2697
6 жыл бұрын
As a matter a fact I have, only thing we had 2 beautiful babies one died early on in my pregnancy but the other survived, we were friends since age 8 and he became a constant in my life, I fell in love with my best friend so what could go wrong right, in one word : EVERYTHING 😭 I realized love is a great foundation but it takes more to make it through.
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
Sometimes the most loving choice is to walk away.
@angelacadieux1972
3 жыл бұрын
I need you more than ever right now! This break up cuts deep 💔 I love him and I miss him 💔😢
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️
@ericbarranco
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you Adam and....(apologies), for sharing and being so vulnerable with the world 🌎 To the both of you I say GO and CREATE like CRAZY!!! You may never get to this place of...? ever again. Take advantage of this space you two have created for yourselves 😘
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
Definitely choosing to create like crazy!
@gowithin1116
3 жыл бұрын
Thank You for sharing, it made me cry. I’m going through a break up now with my girlfriend I Live with. We are both very much in love and are loving towards each other just like you and your ex were in the video. I hope it stays that way until it’s our time to move out and go our separate ways. It’s hard to let go. 😢
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Sending love your way Alexis
@kiminkink6788
2 жыл бұрын
I was in an online relationship.. yes it might seem immature and all since the internet is a wild place to be in. I knew that and I still dated him, because I knew that he really meant it when he asked me if he could be my boyfriend. We broke up for *the second time* yesterday because he started working, and he was still in school so he didn’t have the time for me anymore. We’re still young, like about to turn 16 and 17 young- but the fact that we ended the relationship while we still loved each other hurt me really bad. I was so confused because a few days before that I had a mental breakdown and I was ranting to him, yeah he comforted me but he told me that we will be busier than ever and that he won’t have much time for each other. All I wanted was reassurance that he still cared about me because we weren’t talking that much that week. I didn’t expect the outcome would be breakup. the 6 months I spent with him was really memorable, and he was my first boyfriend too. I will be forever grateful for that experience, and for a first, I think we communicated well after out fights and we were very mature. I guess he was just the right person at the wrong time.
@aerodylluk2543
2 жыл бұрын
I've been with my wife over 15 years. I always thought we would have kids, now as I hit (35) she tells me she does not want kids in any way. And due to her personality she just doesn't know how to take responsibility for the decision. So instead of saying 'I have changed, I am causing this, I have decided to go or to try and talk it out' she pretty much said 'I don't want kids' and left the room and carried on like everything was fine, like she just grabbed hold of the reigns of our lives, took control and didn't dare ask me if I was cool with it or not. So now even though this has been done TO me, and through no fault of my own, I am the one who has to be the bad guy and force us into all the hard work to either make this work or decide on 'alternatives'. All my wife can see is how she is somehow the victim here and that is the only bit causing me to feel angry. I don't have any animosity towards her, other than the fact that SHE should have been the one to say 'we need to talk' and to drive this whole mediation process. Instead she has left the whole thing up to me. It is horrible and I would not wish this kind of situation on anybody.
@totorono
Жыл бұрын
my boyfriend broke up with me today, we broke up still loving each other and wanting to be together. it hurts in other way than every other breake up. he said that we will be together again if we will still love each other after some time but i dont even know what to do anymore. i love him with all my heart and i always will and he does love me too but we are still not an couple. He broke up cuz he didnt had time on this everything so i have to just understand it and wait as long as it will take to be back with him. i hate waiting but if its waiting on him? i know its worth waiting
@willywonkausername
Жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful
@trinityp8575
Жыл бұрын
Today, in this messed up World… it’s so hard to find the right person. The “your person”. I can never understand splitting up while you love each other so much without any serious issues like betrayal, abuse etc. besides documenting it like that and playing in front of cameras isn’t really that genuine. But I hope you are happy with your decision.
@melissagarcia9705
5 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! I love this. Thank you for sharing. You two are VERY brave.
@theace.of.spades
3 жыл бұрын
i just recently broke up with someone i love, with all my heart. he’s been my sun but in a lot of ways he’s also been my pain, and i think it was the same way for him, and i just found out he’s in a new relationship now. it really hurts but i just want him happy. i want the new girl to be everything i couldn’t be for him, and i want him to understand that i didn’t end it out of a selfish reason, i just can’t let us hold each other back anymore. there’s really no one to let this out to so i’m gonna let it get lost in the comments, but i still love you X. always have.
@aaronamado2620
3 жыл бұрын
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@seppevb1181
3 жыл бұрын
4:02 - I said that exact same thing to her today. Glad I can find some support in this video all the way in 2021.
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
🙌
@simmytm
Жыл бұрын
I’m in this predicament. We broke up like a week ago. I can’t lie I feel like shit despite being almost two years of dating.
@estherngongi3977
4 жыл бұрын
Beautiful most needed crazy... hope you are both doing fine and flying... Much luv and thanks for sharing yourselves with us 🌹🌹🌹
@nicpieptu5102
Жыл бұрын
I appreciate the authenticity and the honesty. On the other side , it seems completely weird to film yourself and your partner in the very moments you are splitting up. Is this just another way to increase the audience and make more money? These moments are supposed to be private. You can talk about it later.
@purplehearts1251
3 жыл бұрын
Just came across this video. I can't even watch it cuz I have tears in my eyes. My bf and me have been together 4 yrs now and we've broken up 5 times. This video makes me REALLY think. 😔
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Sending lots of love and a reminder that you are strong
@gondergirl6127
6 жыл бұрын
I think crazy is the new medicine to our Truth. Thank you for your service and dedication I will share this with as many people possible. You are a king 🤴🙏🏽
@X-CALABA
2 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend broke up with me recently, It was for her career, so I understood... My ex before her, cheated on me for another woman, I understood that she no longer liked men and just gave up, still friends with her today. And after breaking up with my current girlfriend I’m struggling to push down the pain as I had in the past because she was the only girl I actually felt safe with, the only girl I could trust. I don’t even trust my own family as much as her...
@davidmo4613
3 жыл бұрын
We can have trust in the human experience. The pain is something we all share. We’ll shine
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
That's right :)
@davidmo4613
3 жыл бұрын
AdamRoa I have a question, if you are comfortable sharing! When you and your partner separated, did you guys spend time apart without communicating to one another or were you two always in contact with one another? I’m currently going through a similar situation and I was curious to hear about others’ experiences :) Thank you!
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3 жыл бұрын
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3 жыл бұрын
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@LoveLife-ry5mm
3 жыл бұрын
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@andreamendoza4823
3 жыл бұрын
My fiancé called off our wedding. I’m now moving back home, states away. But now that the week is here and everything is booked and packed, and my parents booked flights to help me move back, his tune changes and he wants to work on things after 4 months of he’ll and ugliness. My heart and spirit are crushed because I still love him so much… there’s just more to a relationship than love… but now I feel like I’m doing the wrong thing. I just don’t know and I would rather not feel anything. I just want things to be as they were. It feels like a death.
@evadeeden2446
Жыл бұрын
How has it been for you? Same process for me ❤
@peeweebernabe1227
4 жыл бұрын
this happens to me also last year..until now im think im suffering a separation anxiety..having a partner for a long years and all of a sudden she moved out after break up :)
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
yes the body and mind have a process of separation that is very physiological.
@thereal6486
2 жыл бұрын
That took a lot strength bro. Thanks for making me a part of your journey.
@jamesadesino6974
2 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
@jamesadesino6974
2 жыл бұрын
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
@jamesadesino6974
2 жыл бұрын
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@jamesadesino6974
2 жыл бұрын
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@thisonekim1268
Жыл бұрын
hello I broke up with my partner yesterday it's just that I didn't feel loved or important anymore (even though I know that he did care about me) the last year I changed a lot and I he just couldn't support it all and we really did care about each other and I miss him so much but I know that we both deserved better than what we were giving each other and it hurts so freaking much
@TheRubyBoobieShow
3 жыл бұрын
My friend who is in a domestically abusive relationship is taking this attitude with her ex and it is literally the worst thing ever. She is accepting her abuse as a form of karma and thinks accepting that he beats her is a spiritual lesson. This ideology can get reaaal toxic if applied to everything
@sahmcgowan7
3 жыл бұрын
Wow so before HBOs Scenes of a marriage. Good stuff. The hardest part is knowing it will be for the best.
@Gofastno
3 жыл бұрын
I literally searched for this kind of breakups because its kinda my story . Its my second day of breakup and i left the relationship because of lack of sexual attraction . It was my fault at first to initiate this relationship and i am the one who should end it . I feel guilty and broken heart at the same time . I feel the pain , uncertain to back or not
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Sending love your way.
@dustyblue2ify
4 жыл бұрын
Blessings to You Both in Loving each other so Much to see Each Shine on the Heart Speak Path & for the meaningful time you engaged in life together. Now moving forth ~ to each your path to discover more about yourselves respective & learning so many life lessons of intimacy in a Relationship You shared. I Remember laying in Bed w/ my Beloved Boyfriend of 6 yrs~ crying to laughter ~talking about growing old and what that would be like.....and a deep wave of knowing for both of us in that moment of silence~ I said looking into his soulful eyes saying ~ it's just not Us Together. We simply had a cathartic deep hug and kisses timeless just like our Relations Together. We truly both Loved unconditionally w/ rough edges no doubt being together but knew our time of parting was both understood from a spiritual heart speak essence that no more words needed anymore it was a knowing for us both w/ Respect & Love. Just a deep Love to wish the other Blessings to dive deeper in evolving on the path in life w/ all of our experiences of being so intimate it was time for each other to turn a New Chapter in Our Lives. We both came from Family Dynamics that struggled with truly healthy ways of communicating feelings and indeed we both felt we were breaking the cycle of past Family generations, not all but several.What a gift to even become aware and take a different approach in a Relationship willing to be vulnerable and honest rather then project on to another that your not willing to take responsibility for. We chose to not take the old worn out unhealthy path of communicating and chose Beloved Self Worth Expression because We Knew to go forth to share Our Love like a Pebble being tossed in a pond to have a Ripple Affect....In Unison but Each Choosing another Untraveled Terrain growing Deeper w/ the Creator of All that is Unique w/ Heart Speak Respective. Blessings
@ivykwok2456
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you both for sharing! 💞
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@dyemondboyd9752
7 ай бұрын
I'm just now seeing this....but I need to know...are y'all back together??? it was giving y'all could
@simonedixon7620
2 жыл бұрын
I'm literally crying right now because I just can't and it's hurting me to stay 💔
@noah-zs7tj
3 жыл бұрын
i broke up with my bf from texas and i am from massachusetts. I told him i couldnt handle long distance and the way he was to me i could tell he cared. I felt so so bad because i knew he cared. But i told him i cant handle long distance. He logged off of social media because of me. I feel so bad but ik it was the best decision.
@rebeccaconcepcion9142
4 жыл бұрын
Breakups are breakups, what you're doing is kind of healthy because I also think fighting is unnecessary when one part gives up but there's also a word called "commitment", if you choose to be with someone for better or for worse, you don't use stupid awakening excuses to find your "journey"... Just be honest that you don't wanna deal with each other's BS or you just wanna live your life however you want but will that help you grow as a human being? Not necessarily if you don't work it, for me being in a stable relationship means we're gonna fight everyday and fight our inner demons because that other part shows us the real us, for example I used to be a moody person and I wasn't aware that I was treating people badly until I started dating, I realized I wasn't being empathetic but with time I started improving parts of me because if you're conscious enough, you'll see this world is broken literally and the best example, what's gonna happen next? We're gonna breakup from our kids when we get tired of them at the age of 7 so we can both find our paths? I agree if you both are toxic for each other and don't wanna work with it, then keep being the children you wanna be but don't try to justify and keep confusing this new generations into becoming more and more immature that no one these days can't hold anything and so sensitive... By the way I have 3 kids and my husband died so if you're committed for life to someone, that's the only excuse
@maisetas
4 жыл бұрын
i agree with you 100%, if you commit to another person then you must stay and learn to deal with each others bullshit, unless its everyday fights over everything. but after staying 10 years together and going apart to find your "journey" or "grow" ... thats like deleting 10 years of your life, what kind of journey you will get? the only journey is with the person you committed. its nothing beautiful about this kind of break up and what kind of example you are showing for younger generation? soon there will be no families because everybody will fuck and then leave.
@sharon19945
4 жыл бұрын
But you love each other... why are you leaving...
@maisetas
4 жыл бұрын
i cant understand this neither
@IamSunil017
4 жыл бұрын
Hhh... Just respecting or hypocrazy still memorieshit back... Say u have that aim, u are more conscious crazy woman, u leave me when I am broke instead of saying that, I don't wanna go court, OK I respect u, u take my furniture not a part of my salary, of ours u are crazy conscious, I get back whatver... Thinking stopped help me dears... Hh
@claudiawassenberg9420
4 жыл бұрын
maisetas because sometimes .... love is not enough... and thats the sad part. Did the same and its hard !
@d.j.697
5 жыл бұрын
I'm a bit confused by it. If both of you love each other, why leave?
@SrChalice
5 жыл бұрын
We live in very confusing times . Also a time where People are full of shit and they masquerade their fear and weaknesses with "wholesomeness of Bullshit".
@nataliamadejska2008
5 жыл бұрын
Because love is not always enough. As hard as it sounds and as stupid at it is, it's true. I'm going through a break up like this. We love each other, but we are simply no good for each other in a relationship. I can't even describe it. It sounds crazy but I believe that some people, despite love, make just better friends than partners for life. I never understood this. Was always wondering why. It never made sense to me but now, since I'm in the exact same place, I get it.
@megware217
5 жыл бұрын
@@nataliamadejska2008 that's where I'm at right now as well, hence me finding videos like this. It's so hard to grasp because it's such a conflicting concept.
@nataliamadejska2008
5 жыл бұрын
@@megware217 From my experience (day one and following: I was literally DYING. Like I could not breathe) - you'll get through this. I promise. Not, that I'm already fully healed. But it's been almost 3 weeks since our breakup, and I finally see a little light. Little hope. That this - as hard as it was, was indeed the best choice I could do for myself. I then knew, of course, it will be better so, but my feelings weren't convinced until now. It will get easier, believe me. I was looking for similar videos, was reading comments like mind now and thinking ''bullshit'', I will be miserable forever. On the contrary - I'm so, so, so much better today. The sun is going to shine again for you, even if you feel that you're in the deepest and darkest hole right now and you can't see the light. Everything will fall into place and soon you'll realize that it happened for a reason. Keep strong!
@stupidstuntmen06
5 жыл бұрын
@@nataliamadejska2008 I'm in this exact same situation as well. As much as it hurts,we're ok and we've come to a mutual decision that the best thing is to break up. We both love each other but we're just not in love like in the past. I think that as long as two people are honest and communicative, it should work. Any tips from your experience? This is fresh,a few days since we decided to go forward with this.
@kbhothothot
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience. Eight months after experiencing a painful breakup of a seven year relationship, it still feels so raw. I fight to stay present everyday. I can neither bare the past nor the future. I wonder if I will ever walk without this shadow 😢
@SAYSPRING__
2 жыл бұрын
but it’s supposed to be what you described but they go and find somebody else.. sooo then what ?
@maricruzpiedra8725
3 жыл бұрын
I’m currently going through this, I’ve never felt so in love with someone. My hear has never loved another like him but we have different paths, different goals. He’s a small town boy and I’m a city girl. He thinks so inside the box and i want to go out and beyond and it hurts because hes all i have and all i want but i would never force to be somewhere he wants and i wouldnt push myself either to be some where im not comfortable. I still love him so much, hes my person and it hurts but I feel it’ll hurt if we force each other together
@aaronamado2620
3 жыл бұрын
Hey! someone else who is more powerful and provide a faster way to restore broken relationship helped me get back my ex without stress and delay, he can also help you too immediately.
@aaronamado2620
3 жыл бұрын
Text him through WhatsApp
@lindsayhengehold5341
2 жыл бұрын
An intresting term for separating or getting divorced
@thetravalanche
2 жыл бұрын
My soulmate just broke up with me. I'm mortified and feel like I'm being eviscerated over and over again.
@Thecollectivedrip
5 ай бұрын
Social media got people doing the most
@SocialSouls
6 жыл бұрын
thank you!!!
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
You're welcome.
@tonyhawke5144
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. This is so brave and amazing.
@AdamRoaOfficial
5 жыл бұрын
you're very welcome, much love.
@lbeschrich
4 жыл бұрын
I’ve been with my husband for 14 years and have two little boys. Things aren’t flowing inside the relationship. Any good books on the subject of conscious uncoupling? Any advice would be appreciated
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
There's actually a book called conscious uncoupling. I haven't read it but I've heard it's good. Sending you love for this journey.
@calebjohnson9740
3 жыл бұрын
you get a thumbs up for making me tear up
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Appreciate you
@WarriorAthletix
3 жыл бұрын
Going through this now, I totally believe in this.
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
Hoping you find some ease in your journey
@WarriorAthletix
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you man, you embody what masculinity is. From one Warrior to another thank you for this
@AdamRoaOfficial
3 жыл бұрын
@@WarriorAthletix Thank you brother, stay open
@soulandease4221
6 жыл бұрын
This is giving me so much!
@AdamRoaOfficial
6 жыл бұрын
Happy to hear that!
@Champ1988
2 жыл бұрын
What was the reasoning behind the two of you parting ways? I ask because you two were brave and open enough to film this. And the love was there. So was it a difference in family goals?
@PaulRichards78
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. I am currently going through a break up of my marriage
@AdamRoaOfficial
4 жыл бұрын
Remember it's all leading you where you desire to go, even if it feels like a step back.
@lbeschrich
4 жыл бұрын
AdamRoa thank you for this video
@לירוןכהן-ט1ב
4 жыл бұрын
Im getting drafted to my country army and me and my 4 years best friend and 1 year girlfriend and my only love i had ever had just broke up yesterday and ive never felt more broken and everyone that knows us didnt understand our decison but we both know its the right thing and im happy to see that other people experienced the same thing
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