I’m 77 yrs old and hate to hear it whether it’s race or religion. I enjoy living vicariously thru your cruise videos. I loved cruising and unable to cruise anymore. Have fun. Life is short.
@lbee8247
Жыл бұрын
@Mary Hartman I hope you get to cruise again. If you stopped because of health or finances I hope you can recover and cruise again for the next 20 years again. For health follow Dr. Berry for the proper human diet. For finances. I'm praying for you.
@cesiliaduarte1781
Жыл бұрын
God bless you.
@doctorwewe9436
Жыл бұрын
No one cares about your age
@salty_lizard
Жыл бұрын
I'll cheers to you, miss Mary, next month on the Celebrity Summit 🥰
@P.Kenney
Жыл бұрын
You are a lovely, good looking couple!
@RicanCurves85
Жыл бұрын
I’m Puerto Rican and my husband is black. We’ve experienced racism too in our 17 year relationship. Sadly, it’s been from our own people. Hispanic men racist against my husband and black women racist against me. I think it stems from the whole “they’re taking all our men/women” mentality which is quite sad. We teach our sons that they can love anyone from any race as long as they are happy and being treated right. Lauren is a sweetheart but I’m glad she’s got some French sass because unfortunately we live in a world with many ignorant people so instances like this aren’t too uncommon.
@faithruckdeschel1294
Жыл бұрын
I've had that happen a lot to me and my hubby(a Black man) as well, but I'm mixed(French/Italian/Black/American Indian and only look Hispanic. A few times Hispanic men have given me dirty looks and will actually tell me that I should "stay within my own race!" My hubby went to work the next day and told his PR friend about it and his friend said that there's a lot of racism even among Hispanic ppl, and that his ppl(PR's)are very racist and look down at the darker skinned toned races like Mexicans and Cubans, but that a lot of PR's also do not like Black folks. I've gotten the most racist remarks and attitudes from Black women and that's always hurt me because I really do love and respect them.
@Coco-fi4mv
Жыл бұрын
See I don’t care I want you all to have these BM because they aren’t doing anything but deleting BW and bashing us on podcast so it’s foolish of BW to fight anyone over them
@RedneckandPinay
Жыл бұрын
@@faithruckdeschel1294I’m white and my wife is darker skinned Filipina. We live in the Philippines now, and I see other Filipinas treat my wife very disrespectfully. It’s usually the lighter skinned Filipinas with dyed hair and heavy makeup…you know, trying to appear Americanized. Pisses me off to no ends too. It’s just plain ol’ jealousy.
@daphnee646
3 ай бұрын
Where is your husband is from?
@sueb4368
Жыл бұрын
Lauren has a secret weapon: pretend she doesn't know what the aggressor is talking about and just speak French. It's amazing how when people don't think they are being understood they will back down and leave.
@Kai...999
Ай бұрын
I mean, what the point in talking shit if the person can't understand the shit that's being talked? I mean lol, come on now.
@ashkaidee1626
Жыл бұрын
That is so disheartening. I am a black woman and her behavior was disgusting. Jay I totally understand your perspective. Some people just look for confrontation. Glad you handled this situation the way you did.
@Bellz972
Жыл бұрын
Same here. Am African and I was so embarrassed 😳 by her behavior. In this day and age people are mixing more and more, she gotta get used to it
@theharleys23
9 ай бұрын
Yes I love the blue Long Island ice tea. Also so sorry she had to go through that. There are so many people out there that are just nasty! Glad it didn’t escalate into a fight. Love your videos, keep up the good work.
@rockhopper01
Жыл бұрын
You did exactly what you should’ve done, defending your lady regardless of color. Also, we should think about the real victim in all of this: the husband that puts up with her.
@frankieroberson3398
7 ай бұрын
Poor husband; like the clerk in Meance to Society; I feel sorry for ya Motha, lmao!!!!
@rachelfrank8647
Жыл бұрын
I never understand why people immediately get aggressive or violent. If she was really concerned about her husband's cup (we know that was just an excuse) then they shouldn't have left it unattended.
@goodvibesonly153
Жыл бұрын
Exactly 🎯 why leave the drink unattended
@selfishbeats
Жыл бұрын
when you have a drink you should drink it tbh. would solve all the problems.
@rasbo4317
Жыл бұрын
I agree who walks away from their now a days
@ralphlongo1975
Жыл бұрын
People are already upset about something else, the proverbial cup is already full, then an incident pushes the water over the edge. I worked in the food service industry for over 30 years, you have to learn to deal with it as it comes in that industry.
@panther5592
Жыл бұрын
We don't know if it was an excuse though. I like this guy and this channel but on this video I felt like he made a few assumptions
@juanitafurtado8805
Жыл бұрын
We can't control other people's bad behavior. We can only control how we react, and you and Lauren handled this situation withe intelligence and maturity. it sounds like a combination of ignorance, racism and alcohol. It also sounds like Carnival security was on the job! You and Lauren are a class act!
@robinrocha2091
Жыл бұрын
exactly !
@truth7572
Жыл бұрын
It's great to see you and Lauren living your lives, being yourselves. You get to be citizens of the world if you want to be! No one should have to live a stereotype, just to please other people. For every jerk who gets upset about you, there are plenty of other people from all walks of life who are inspired by you. Keep on breaking the mold!
@clarehernan
Жыл бұрын
As a Puerto Rican married to a “white boy” I can totally understand. You get hate from others and it’s expected here in America, unfortunately. The hardest part to grasp is that … Sometimes it’s your own people judging your relationship. I’m glad you made this a topic! And I hope y’all enjoy the rest of the cruise! I love you guys and Lauren’s accent is everything 🥵😍
@humanchildofgod3126
Жыл бұрын
I am a Latina… I don’t date Latin me (I have PTSD from my Puerto Rican Sperm donor, refuse to call him father!). You are correct!! Your own… will be the most racist and ignorant. There is no filter between their mouth and brain!! I crossed the street, and I can tell you, I will never go back!
@joeo7693
Жыл бұрын
Yes, there are many things which cloud peoples minds: all forms of prejudice, jealousy, and culture to name a few. The problem with this world? There are not enough people who have God in their heart. We took God out of schools and through the generations, He was lost from most homes. God is Love, without love…we have the world we live in today. (That is WAY deeper than my normal post. Not sorry. 😇)
@clarehernan
Жыл бұрын
@@joeo7693 exactly, the book says we are all brothers ✨❤️
@clarehernan
Жыл бұрын
@@dextersdad6920 you are embarrassing to your own soul 🤣😂 ugly energy!
@davva360
Жыл бұрын
I dont understand why anyone would even care what the color of your husband is in this day and age. The only thing that should matter is how he treats you and your family.
@joeo7693
Жыл бұрын
"We're not animals, we know how to communicate." Exactly!
@williamadams5695
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately many people do not know how to communicate!
@NoobGamer-sc9lt
Жыл бұрын
totally agree with you but some people really need a punch in the face when they come after you with their stupidity and ignorance over and over again
@joeo7693
Жыл бұрын
@@NoobGamer-sc9lt True, need/deserve/are asking for a punch or slap in the face. Unfortunately, those actions will get you a visit by Security, not them. 🙄
@timpritchard
Жыл бұрын
A few things to note. Lauren is so sweet and she was super cute in this video. You are blessed. I am a white man and dated a black woman about 25 years ago, the racist things were so bad. One restaurant literally served me on glass plates and her on paper plates. I was furious, she said she was used to that treatment. You bless us with your channel and it is always good to see you and Lauren together.
@RedRoseSeptember22
Жыл бұрын
Wow that's horrible :(
@barbarathibault1846
2 ай бұрын
Nobody should feel their used to it. 😢
@turkeshahuggins2462
Жыл бұрын
I’m so sorry that happened to you and Lauren. She seems to be super sweet and cool and for her to experience something that crazy is ridiculous. Love has no color.
@andrewebb3283
Жыл бұрын
Love has no color lol but dude don't like any blackwoman and don't care for your friendship. I have been around blackmen like this and HE HATES YOU AND HIS GIRLFRIEND HATES YOU BECAUSE YOUR A THREAT. You need to grow up to the reality of this world when a Blackman outwardly chooses a whitewoman over you.
@jeffreviews8995
Жыл бұрын
I never understood how somebody go on vacation and want to fight for the dumbest things
@theorderofthebees7308
Жыл бұрын
Alcohol will have folks do crazy things.
@merrylharwood5051
Жыл бұрын
There is no excuse for racism in this day and age. We are all trying to do the same thing, live our lives and love our loves. It does not matter what color you are or what gender you are. If they are living their best life, leave them alone!! We got you Jay and Lauren!! I personally think you make the cutest couple ever!!!!
@Rollinghard7
Жыл бұрын
But yet racism is here and Blacks experience it more than any
@Jtankiller
Жыл бұрын
@@Rollinghard7 Racism is here but blacks do not experience it more than any. Stop spreading ignorance.
@chevelle837
Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you guys had to go through this J. We are no longer in the 1950s or 1960s. People need to mind their business and stop the hate. Sometimes it’s our own people with the bs!! Love you guys❤
@luluballoon
Жыл бұрын
As a Canadian (where we apologize when someone else is the one to bump into us!) I always find this kind of hostility on cruises shocking. It's terrible you have to deal with horrible comments and judgements about your relationship just because you're different races (In 2023!). Your love of travel and fun really shines through in your videos together.
@Cruisetravelers
Жыл бұрын
First off, I love it anytime she is on camera. She’s so adorable. You two look great together. 🥰 Secondly, I’m sorry this happened. People suck sometimes. You are both class acts and handled a difficult situation very well.
@designdoctor247
Жыл бұрын
i agree w your comment. it was heart breaking to me...i am sadden that Lauren did not feel ...well and honestly was ...not safe...w us Americans...we should be on our VERY BEST behavior with visitors from other countries...Lauren i pray u keep giving us chances because IMO more kindness and acceptance is here than ...well...everyting u sadly experianced... my heart believes in u two as a couple and if we are blessed to have u want to join our country and become a citizen i pray u forgive those who have been unkind... and i pray u see kindness, acceptance and love EACH day here.
@MrKarmapolice97
Жыл бұрын
I have noticed Americans will get violent over some other 1st world countries
@gaillewis8265
Жыл бұрын
We were on the Carnival Pride last week. No fights. We found the people of all ages and races very friendly. We enjoy watching your videos, and love how you interact together. Lots of wisdom and common sense.
@mrfiness
Жыл бұрын
No race has a monopoly on ignorance I’m watching this video because I’m about to go on my first cruise and u been very informative, I don’t spend thousands of dollars to go somewhere and fight with someone I wanna have a good time !! Stay smart stay safe be proactive not reactive!
@robertfontaine6491
Жыл бұрын
That is very well said
@menow7851
10 ай бұрын
I've seen some weird folk on cruises but 100% its a great vacation. Security will assist quickly if people start to argue. Many will be jailed or ordered to stay in their cabin, where a guard sits at their door. Physical fighters are put off the ship at the next port and banned from that cruise line. When you sail realize you are just a person in a new city. Watch your valuables and your surroundings just like at home. At the Ports beware of pickpockets. Use the Safe in your cabin for Passport, wallet, jewelry. For folk that seem to be asking too many personal questions, I'll say I'm from a different city than I live in. I'll keep my last name secret....so they can't Google me. However, many of my cruising friends like making new friends and they share contact info for after the cruise. They visit each other around the world. You may find new friends on your cruise. Whatever happens the cruise makes me smile all day & night. Go to the Live Shows. Don't miss the fun stuff. Adult Scavenger Hunt is a must.. Read the daily schedule of activities. Happy sailing. PS-little known fact....if you gamble thru $1,500 in the Casino, you will be offered another cruise for Free or super cheap, with free drinks. Royal Caribbean does that, so the others follow. Ask the Casino manager to verify. Since you put your ship card is in the slot machine gathering points for your end of cruise prizes, the Casino computer can see who's gambling heavy. You get perks. Need a Mimosa? Enjoy.
@Kparc1212
Ай бұрын
“I’m not a ‘chick’. I’m not American.” LMAO! What a great comment!!!
@quecreations3244
Жыл бұрын
"I'm not a chick. I'm not American." Love that line.
@MrPlowboy66
Жыл бұрын
She's a chique😅
@vhodgdon
Жыл бұрын
😂❤
@Bellz972
Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 Tell em
@daletimmothy
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for just speaking honestly. It’s great to hear KZitemrs talking frankly and free.
@davidvickers8271
Жыл бұрын
AMF..Adios motherfu####? Last time I had two of those in Chiang Mai Thailand I woke up in a police cell,still don't know what happened..Not big or clever🤣🤣🤣🤣
@cheryllassonde8080
Жыл бұрын
I'm on a ship right now. The rudness of some people is unreal, and their entitlement. I gave up today and spent a peaceful day in my cabin on on my balcony.
@connorthompson05
Жыл бұрын
I agree, it’s very refreshing.
@jillcampbell3510
Жыл бұрын
Sorry this happened to you. If she's worried about her drink, she probably shouldn't leave it unattended in a crowded place. She's lucky she didn't get roofied leaving her drink all over.
@themusicactor
Жыл бұрын
You didn't even have to say she was Black...we already knew..... I date White men , and I get that same energy from Black men.
@SeanJ2A
Жыл бұрын
I strongly doubt it. Maybe Ghetto black men but us non Ghetto Black men don't care.
@yslgyal4873
Жыл бұрын
Same here. I’ve experienced it as well and it’s really ridiculous- black men are even more aggressive about it, we just don’t complain about it as openly.
@eastcoastbrotha
3 ай бұрын
Yea and god will delete u soon if u don't repent....Deu..7v6...Isa..13v13-16...wake up B#DWE%CH..
@roguz444
Жыл бұрын
We know it wasn't covid that caused her to act stupid. She saw you with Lauren and lost her teeny tiny crazy mind. I went on a Carnival cruise in 2016 with a coworker and saw something like this happen. Along with people drunk by 11AM stumbling around. (what's happening in your life when you're drunk before lunch?) I love seeing Lauren in your videos. I always say, everything sounds better in French. Keep up the great work!
@xXxSapphir3xXx
Жыл бұрын
If I'm drunk before lunch it means I'm on vacation! 🍻
@elouise5593
Жыл бұрын
Alcoholics many times are drunk before lunch.
@elouise5593
Жыл бұрын
@@xXxSapphir3xXx Sad, if that is true!
@TheHuskyIsabella
Жыл бұрын
It's called vacation lol
@LWalks64
Жыл бұрын
Drinking before lunch is what you do on vacation 🤦🏻♀️😂WTH???
@taylynn4728
Жыл бұрын
I'm new to your channel and I think it's nice that you put Lauren in your videos. I'm sorry you and Lauren have to go through this. As a woman of color I go through it as well. We just need more love in today's world. Stop looking at the color of skin. Just love people as human beings. Love your channel and I'm learning a lot. Thank you for your content.
@cherylloshinskie6049
Жыл бұрын
I Agree color of a persons skin shouldn't matter. Why can't we all get along.
@dheyes803
Жыл бұрын
This world and the people in it just need to accept what they cannot change.
@MrMonopolistic
Жыл бұрын
Only black people say silly stuff like this 🤣
@TerryMartin-sp6yn
Жыл бұрын
People at times, seem to want to build their own self-worth by destroying some one else's self worth. These people need professional help but they will not reach out to find the help they need. I'm glad everything worked out for you and Lauren as it could have been worse time. Peace and Love, Terry
@sanchezhandymen3444
Жыл бұрын
MY ex spouse was black and BOY was it an experience. I got to see a different side of racism, I already experienced it due to being Mexican but discrimination to a racially mixed couple is real and still very much alive. AND I got it from both sides, black people also treated me with racism because I was with a black spouse, every race had an opinion, none paid our bills so the heck with them all. You are a lovely couple may you be well.
@jpistella
Жыл бұрын
I love the way the two of you interact with each other. Lauren has a great sense of humor. Hope that didn’t ruin your night. Enjoy the rest of the cruise.
@jaypee5633
Жыл бұрын
"Is that a Karen I just met?" That comment is gold.
@johntatum
Жыл бұрын
People are crazy. Hopefully the rest of your time on the ship is a little less eventful. Keep doing you, man!
@davormijatovic7999
Жыл бұрын
This happens only in america
@altabird44
Жыл бұрын
@@davormijatovic7999 I was thinking the same thing
@johntatum
Жыл бұрын
@@davormijatovic7999 this literally happened in the middle of the ocean.
@bullforcetrading9995
Жыл бұрын
I'm black and the ninjas can call me a self hater all they want. I'm a classist. I don't tolerant nor want to associate with ghetto minded people. That's why I would NEVER EVER go on a cruise that has a price point in which certain types of people can sail on which are short older ship cruises. I tend to stay away from Carnival for that reason. Ms. Ghetto clearly wanted to cause an issue with Lauren and used the drink and Covid as an excuse and a lame one at that. More then likely she was jealous of Lauren. When you dismantled her weak Covid argument with facts, then she had no choice but to lash out with her true issue. First off, anyone with common sense knows that.to NEVER LEAVE A DRINK UNATTENDED in the first place. So she was in the wrong yet she coped an attitude as if you and Lauren were the problem.🙄
@marygood8920
Жыл бұрын
She makes a good point about grown adults acting like children,having fits, in the United States. It's mind boggling and it seems to be getting worse.
@t.prophoto
Жыл бұрын
Drunk Americans acting out what they see on TV. Pitiful. They all think they’re starring in their own reality show. Drama, drama, drama.
@handsomeX
11 ай бұрын
Yup. It definitely is getting worse.
@jeffbrown6533
Жыл бұрын
Bro J, there's no explanation for that lady's behavior other than ignorance and as another commenter noted "too much liquid refreshment"! You & Lauren just continue to live your best life!
@michelerosenow3936
Жыл бұрын
Don’t let them old folks drink😂. I’m 63 and I know I don’t belong in NO club drinking!!!
@ac08844
Жыл бұрын
Guys- I’ve seen this crap going on my whole life. I’ve learned in the past, especially when my father was the Archie bunker of ignorance . It makes me sick that people need to overreact on a situation that makes completely no sense. The best thing to do is to walk away and just ignore people. I know it’s tough because I can sometimes retaliate myself and that’s not the right thing to do. You are just need to stay. positive. Thanks for bringing this to my attention, I will be on the Celebration for two weeks in February. Thanks for bringing us all up-to-date. I must say I always try to keep the faith in people Peace out to everybody.
@snaggledaggle7027
Жыл бұрын
I don't think this happened on the Celebration, though.
@ac08844
Жыл бұрын
@@snaggledaggle7027 Am I reading this wrong? The video was made on the celebration. Unfortunately racism can happen anywhere. It a shame how people react in any type of situation. 😮💨
@snaggledaggle7027
Жыл бұрын
@@ac08844 Maybe I heard wrong. I'm not sure if this was on the Celebration or not 🤷🏽♀️
@JaneHasGame
Жыл бұрын
The first time my son encountered a racial incident was on a cruise. It took until he was 14 and I had to explain what was going on. We live on Vancouver Island and he's grown up with a culturally varied group of kids without any comment from anyone. He gravitated to a mixed group of teens on the ship and they got along great. One of the teens was black and they weren't getting served at the restaurant the way the other kids were and he wanted to know why. I live for a world where it just doesn't matter.
@sherryldavis6543
Жыл бұрын
That’s just crazy. For one thing why would you leave a drink unattended, someone could have dropped something in it. Never leave a drink unattended. Sorry that happened to you Lauren and Jay.
@derekho6750
Жыл бұрын
Race should not entered into a discussion… regardless of issues. I accept all people of all colors just the same as long as they are pleasant & nice. The only people I hate are the “Stupid & The Ignorant” one. You guys are awesome…. Be Safe!
@charlayned
Жыл бұрын
I am so sorry about this happening. You two are so cute together. Some people don't pack their manners, thinking that what happens on the ship won't go out. We've seen enough of this crap out in the world, vacation isn't fun when someone does that. Give that cute girl a hug (not weird, I'm a 65 year old grandmother of 9, so I tend to hug alot) and tell her that there are a lot of Americans who care what happens. And hey, if you're free, hit the Allure out of Galveston the first week of May, the crazy grandma with the weird color hair zipping around the ship in a wheelchair with Santa who is wearing his Hawaiian shirts would love to buy y'all a drink. Don't sweat the stupid stuff, it'll get tends to bounce back on the person who put it out. ((hugs)).
@daveb8679
Жыл бұрын
54 yo white guy. Dated a black woman in Baltimore 20 years ago. We got heat exclusively from the black community every time we went out in public. I later married a Korean woman. Never have my wife and I received any static. By the way. Lauren is beautiful. Your channel is outstanding. Subscribed. I am an avid cruiser.
@harrys4104
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for keeping it real and sadly it’s reality. There aren’t a lot of ignorant people out there but it only takes one to ruin someone’s fun. Glad it was de-escalated and no violence was taken place. Stay safe!
@aprilwebsterdavis1845
Жыл бұрын
Wow, If covid was really important she shouldn't have walked away from the cup.
@jeffbrown6533
Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@TheRobmcknz
4 ай бұрын
If covid was that big of a deal, she wouldn't be on the cruise in the first place.
@nylancollins4002
Жыл бұрын
I’m so disappointed in any woman that would act like that towards anyone especially another woman. Why would you leave your drink unattended in the first place? Ignorance at its finest! So sorry that happened to Lauren and to you Jay. Just love each other and live your life the best you know how to do. I love you guys and appreciate your content.
@ibdonsie
Жыл бұрын
She sounds like someone who just loves drama. They thrive on it.
@ketomoma9349
Жыл бұрын
I'm a old school older lady and if you go to the dance floor to dance you put a napkin over your drink this mean "don't touch my drink I will return to finish it". If I go to the bathroom you cover your drink with a napkin and it's a signal that I will be returning don't dump my drink. You must understand that it 's crowed their but we still need a little personal place. If you had a plate of food on that table would you like a stranger to place a bags or drink near your food. I think the older lady went over board, but if that was your drink would you be okay with some stranger putting their personal thing near it.
@Milwaukee-Cane
Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Why would you put anything by a drink with a napkin over it. I’m definitely appalled by him calling a black woman a Karen! He’s a raccoon for that!
@DianeRoma1
Жыл бұрын
I can imagine stuff like this on weekend booze cruises but not Transatlantic two week cruise. Lauren is lucky to have such an adoring and protective man. If all people were that way, there wouldn’t be so many unhappy people willing to fight over stupid things.
@teresah5318
Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately, ignorance and aggressiveness have no bounds. You two are a good-looking couple. We were on the Panorama last October for a Mexican cruise, and I saw so many different groups from all nationalities. We didn't go to the nightclub. My husband likes to remind me that nothing good happens after midnight where alcohol is served. I agree. I will not go on another Carnival ship just because the atmosphere is so loose. Rudeness and entitlement were everywhere. I must be showing my age - over 60. Thanks for sharing and just live your life!!
@curtricia123
28 күн бұрын
Black woman here & I love you & Lauren 2gether! Such a beautiful couple! Can’t wait for the wedding vlog ❤❤❤
@Sanibella
Жыл бұрын
Hi Jay and Lauren I’m so sorry this happened - you two are the loveliest people and we so enjoy seeing you and chatting with you both on the ship! Peace, love and happiness to you both always ❤❤ Your Ft Myers friends Bonnie & Peter
@dearmeecha1310
Жыл бұрын
What a nightmare. People are such a mess inside. And clearly that lady has some personal issues regarding black men with white women maybe even visa versa, who knows. It’s so unfortunate. You guys handled it well. And I love listening to Lauren (not sure if that’s how you spell it) talk. Her “accent”’is so nice and she seems like such a sweet person. Hope the rest of the trip goes great!!
@erniesimmons4452
Жыл бұрын
Why would you leave your drink unattended and look back for it? I would never do that.
@TropicLuv
Жыл бұрын
AND it wasn’t even her drink! She said it was her husbands, where the hell was he????
@shantimattie9916
Жыл бұрын
The woman was trying to an excuse to go after Lauren, any excuse, because she found you attractive and couldn’t outright admit that… being a married woman and all.
@mp5564
Жыл бұрын
Wow, doesn't she know that no person but especially a woman should never leave their drink unattended! That's the most dangerous issue here.
@seanflynn5359
Жыл бұрын
Wow! Racism sucks, and unfortunately it is all too prevalent throughout society. I'm glad you put this out for the world to see because you handled it perfectly and I hope others gain value from your insight in situations like this. You and Lauren are the cutest couple and bring such a great vibe to travel adventures, hope to see y'all one day on the high seas ⛴️🇵🇷
@dee_mcgee11
Жыл бұрын
You two are the sweetest. Shame on anyone who would hurt you in any way 🤗
@ms.t4610
11 ай бұрын
Im a older mixed American woman all my life I've gone thru racial profiling from both sides and different countries i refuse to let anyone change me to someone i dont want to become i like your editorial and will continue to watch them and you and Lauren look great together enjoy life and i laugh at people like that variety is a spice of life..
@natnahat
2 ай бұрын
Just wanted to send love and support to you, two. You guys are absolutely adorable! I know the feeling, people made comments like that to me for years, solely based on my existence, and that I didn't fit into a certain mold. With age comes wisdom, and I came to realize that their ignorance is not a reflection of me, but of them...and I keep it moving with a smile on my face! Love what you do, I love Lauren's cameos, and continue to let their stupidity be your entertainment. Wishing you two the best!
@andyturner206
Жыл бұрын
Incidents like this are one of the reasons I will never sail on Carnival. I'm looking for different clientele.
@Kayla-xw8no
Жыл бұрын
Lauren is a total vibe. You're both wonderful!! I hate you both had to experience such foolishness. Again, you're both totally wonderful and emit beautiful light!!
@amonioda
Жыл бұрын
Bless you both 💕 It’s so sad how ignorant and rude people can be. I hope y’all enjoyed the rest of your cruise!!
@rayt1452
Жыл бұрын
We all have encountered situation/people that were quite annoying; even annoying people encountered annoying stuff. I admired you and those who handled that with calm and cool.
@robertdeland3390
Жыл бұрын
I always wondered if this sort of thing happened to you on a cruise. You handled it with your usual good class. Keep up the good work. You're great.
@mr-vet
Жыл бұрын
My wife is Latina with a dark complexion.…from Ecuador; I’m white-grew up in Indiana USA and have had lots of friends in the military in cross-cultural and interracial relationships. I’ve heard it all, seen it all
@lindaroney4820
Жыл бұрын
That's just horrible...You are a wonderful man, she is lucky to have you!!! I appreciate your total honesty on all your posts...Keep up the good work. Love conquers all...protect that precious woman at all costs.
@miguelamorante
Жыл бұрын
Crazy social media behaviors are making their way to regular places.
@j.metzli8187
Жыл бұрын
Deescalting it would have been saying, “my bad” and walking away. Making her feel stupid is what set her off.
@mariefeser6720
Жыл бұрын
Wow, I'm so sad this happened to you both. People need to mind their own business, be kind, and stop the hate.
@handsomeX
11 ай бұрын
Exactly 💯
@markeast9221
Жыл бұрын
I Drove Stretch Limos for 40 years ! When there is Booze involved , That's when the Trouble Starts !
@Kparc1212
Ай бұрын
In the words of T.S. “Players gonna play, play, play, play, play. Haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate! Lauren, Shake it off, shake it off, shake it off, shake it off.”
@byoung1520
Жыл бұрын
"People think I make this stuff up" I feel you, man
@samueldotson2809
Жыл бұрын
Love is love. I wouldn’t be here if it wasn’t for an interracial relationship. They are the ignorant ones. Live your life and love who you love
@timothystroud62
Жыл бұрын
Keep grinding. You guys have fantastic content. Some people will never see the value of your peace and happiness. 💪🏾👌🏾✌🏾
@Sara-eg9uk
Жыл бұрын
I have seen so many shots of Lauren in your videos and never knew she was French! I was shocked when she started talking! Love it!
@franchellestevens1393
Жыл бұрын
I'm glad that Laren stood her ground because the woman seem to have had to much to drink as the saying goes alcohol make ppl say things that they normally wouldn't say if they wasn't drinking
@simplyursula6195
Жыл бұрын
Sadly this isn't the first time and it definitely won't be the last time you have to deal with foolish people. Don't let it get in the way of you and Lauren's cruise. Some people seek out trouble but I'm glad you guys are above it!
@freetheppl5376
Жыл бұрын
Amen sis!
@143DinoKing
Жыл бұрын
The crazy Karen's first mistake was to leave a drink unattended. Very rude and pretentious! You guys did the right thing!
@sjones4712
Жыл бұрын
"shut-up, just shut-up".....YESSSS! There are those that trigger when they see others happy and living life!
@Canuck1000
Жыл бұрын
You two handled the situation very well. Hope the rest of the trip goes well.
@rogermccall9055
Жыл бұрын
Sorry this happened to Ya'll. True it can happen on ANY ship, but for some reason Carnival seems to attract a higher percentage of ignorant people. I have personally done in excess of 120 cruises, but only 3 on Carnival. Didn't take me too long to figure it out.
@elouise5593
Жыл бұрын
I never had a problem on a Carnival cruise, but I usually ignore people who attempt to treat me bad. Life's too short.
@kattykat9600
Жыл бұрын
I really do believe it's the affordability of it. It seems to attract a lower quality of humanity. Also seems to be more true with the shorter cruises. That's why we try to do the 6-8 day cruises, nothing less.
@vickijohnson4985
11 ай бұрын
I’ve watched a few of your videos now and find them interesting and entertaining. You have a wonderful way of presenting events. I’m sorry that your love (I’m. It sure how she spells her name) had to experience this situation and I hope that she can process it and not let it have too much of an impact on how she sees Americans (especially American women). You seem like a beautiful couple and I wish you all the best. I am part of the older generation, at 68 years of age. Like other groups, we don’t all think alike or have the same feelings. This video has prompted me subscribe to your channel. It’s not a lot of support, however, it will have to do for now. Keep moving forward.
@sharonmiller6291
Жыл бұрын
Live your best life! Unbelievable, that in our “civilized world”, you have to deal with these ignorant interactions. Thanks for sharing your story, stay strong! 😊
@JustMe-cy3wg
Жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness!!! Stupid comes in all colors and ages and it’s such a shame. You and Lauren continue to love and enjoy each and your cruising ❤❤
@PixieDustedTara
Жыл бұрын
You and Lauren are as classy as they come! When the world realizes that love knows no color nor gender our world will be a better place. Hope I get to meet you both one day 😊
@mitherapeuticmassage
10 ай бұрын
Life has it's interesting moments. More people love you than dislike you. You have over a quarter million subscribers, which should tell you a lot in and of itself. I love your content, I'm happy for your success, and I appreciate your videos, and certainly I'm not alone in that. Keep up the good work, and to use your words, keep on "Winning". :D
@BrookeLyn39
Жыл бұрын
LMAO. "Self-hating". " Shutup, just Shutup." You're hilarious!
@taeshawynn4895
Жыл бұрын
That actually sucks that it happened. However, just remember it could have happened on a newer ship as well so just be aware of surroundings and take care of your family the best way you can. Love watching your channels
@thomasdreyer2464
Жыл бұрын
Wow. I’m sorry this happened to you and Lauren. It’s awful. Thanks for telling about us this difficult event.
@cynthiabell-brazeal571
Жыл бұрын
Older Black woman with white husband here. We cruise and travel the world year after year usually celebrity or Royal Caribbean. You keep doing you! Fortunately the haters tend to be in the minority in more and more places. Chill people, we on vacation. Ain't nobody got time for that expletive deleted! Peace out!
@sarahj6163
Жыл бұрын
People in general are very ignorant because the education system failed many… I’m glad you are open minded and have a heart ❤️
@nancyjordan4275
Жыл бұрын
This is making me so angry just listening to it. Unfortunately there is no cure for ignorance. Love you guys! God bless ❤️
@christymurphy6571
Жыл бұрын
I'm on my 1st & last Carnival cruise right now. The crew has been amazing. The cruisers have not. I'm excited to be on RCL Allure in Jan!!!
@ralphbell2953
Жыл бұрын
Glad it didn't get any worse and I think you both give a great perspective. Enjoy your channel and keep doing what you do!
@brittneymacgregor5965
Жыл бұрын
My husband is from UK. America has been major culture shock for him. Race cards are not an issue in the UK.
@mimimuses
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your crazy experience. As someone who has been in an inter-racial marriage for 20+ years it is always interesting to the stories of people in similar situations. Luckily, over the years, we do not have too many stories like this to tell. Racism is usually subtle, a vibe of hostility that we pick up on. You are in the enviable position of seeing the world and meeting many people. My own experience of travel and having lived on 3 different continents, is that decent and kind people are by far in the majority. Lastly, you two are very sweet together.
@metromaster2010
Жыл бұрын
Firstly, I am thankful that this was de-escalated quickly before anything physical occurred. I don't understand what has happened to society that makes it seem like so many people are walking around "on the verge of a violent temper tantrum". Be cautious and keep enjoying your life. And by all means keep these reports coming.
@MoeMoe__
Жыл бұрын
Saw your videos in my suggested feed. Only watched a few but I really appreciate how you are able to lay out the story without letting it seem to be about rave. Much respect, it's earned a follow for sure.
@luishernandez5732
Жыл бұрын
I guess some individuals, sadly too many, get triggered by the sight of people that are happier than them; and instead of working to be happier, they try to bring others down to their level of misery, anger and hate; never let them! Excellent content creator you are sir! I subscribed after watching several of your very informative and entertaining videos. I've been to only two cruises a lot of years ago and I'm now "catching a fever" for more travel and cruises!
@garyf2012
Жыл бұрын
I chalk a lot of these altercations up to mental illness. There's a lot of mental illness, particularly among older people (dementia). You can't let this stuff get to you.
@blessednettie69
Жыл бұрын
😂 I love it!!
@bernicetodd9717
Жыл бұрын
Please don't blame mental illness. The majority of people with mental illness don't act like this. I think hard as it is we need to understand that there are people who are just nasty and also people who are truly evil and don't fall within the diagnosis of mentally ill. I think this woman was just plain nasty.
@astoldby
Жыл бұрын
Yes! I think too many people have let their mental illnesses go uncheck.
@garyf2012
Жыл бұрын
@@bernicetodd9717 I agree. Most people with mental illness do not act like this. But there has to be something wrong mentally with someone that would act like that. I like to think that rational people know the proper way to behave. But maybe I'm naive.
@snaggledaggle7027
Жыл бұрын
Nah, people just have stank attitudes!!
@t.nash8
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the peek into your world. Just know that while some people may get an attitude seeing the two of you together, there are many folk from my generation who are pleased, and see you as evidence that things are moving in the right direction.
@wanted-33
Жыл бұрын
Sadly there are a few of those in every crowd, and there's no way to make sense of their behavior. You handled it well.
@davidhoffman8122
Жыл бұрын
We go out of Baltimore a lot and there are quite a few black people on those ships. As a matter of fact, my wife and I are friends with quite a few. We ran into Mary on out last cruise and we had no idea that her and her husband were there until I ran into them on the Lido. It was great seeing them.
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