Full recipe is here as usual: beextravegant.com/spicy-vegan-ramen/
@sheliareneerice8557
6 ай бұрын
Thank you
@immakitty88
6 ай бұрын
Those look fantastic
@MusiicRoolz
6 ай бұрын
refined polite people is specifically British, it's not the default way to be @@dionisiocastillo2392why should people be refined and excessively polite? those are British values, in a British bubble
@chelseawildflowerloftinwey1945
6 ай бұрын
@@dionisiocastillo2392 she didn’t ask you, bootlicking colonizer
@rubiks6
6 ай бұрын
The ramen looks really yummy. I didn't hear what you were talking about.
@chabrouyer9728
6 ай бұрын
I am French and my sister in law is Indian, the biggest culture shock to her was "politesse" too. She hates it so much because she feels like she can never get objective feedback from us. Whenever she makes us try a dish she's cooked and wants our feedback, she says "don't be French, be honest" 😂😂
@priyankakundu6421
6 ай бұрын
awww 😂
@enediana6806
6 ай бұрын
Haha😂
@Zaid2306__
6 ай бұрын
don't be french, be honest😭😭 so adorable
@nothanksbruh
6 ай бұрын
Seems like you and your sil get along really well. Sweet ❤
@sangitarathi2429
6 ай бұрын
Isn't your husband indian then??
@AVB512
6 ай бұрын
When i was pregnant, there was this little tiny Indian lady working at my grocery store who was literally so aggressive.when she spoke to me but would not let me take my groceries to my car by myself, she insisted in helping. It was so sweet. I thought she was just kind of surly, but apparently it's cultural.
@mingceline1217
6 ай бұрын
It's cultural but c'mon it's done out of kindness
@vivakatrob13
6 ай бұрын
I work with people from lots of different cultures and my Indian coworker is aggressively kind lol. Like she’s so generous and thoughtful and helpful, but she’ll basically push you out of the way to help you with something 😂❤ I adore her. We have an older Filipina supervisor who is similar…like she doesn’t get sarcasm so when she’s being sarcastic it sounds like she’s being stern and people always think she’s mean at first, but she’ll walk away giggling or like give you the sternest compliments on your work lol. She’s funny too, it’s just the tone she speaks in. Always makes me laugh when new staff think she’s mean, I’ve known her like 10 years and she’s just this itty bitty feisty little lady. Seeing the cultural differences is always fun.
@HeartBeat-fy6fg
6 ай бұрын
It's becoz thank u etc are considered to formal and business like. It's considered duty aka serving to help people by actions not words.
@civciv415
5 ай бұрын
"this little tiny indian lady" "was so aggressive" "was surly" "apparently it is cultural" 🤦🏼
@xyzahrq
5 ай бұрын
@@civciv415 how is that bad
@quin7117
6 ай бұрын
This explains why my indian friend always says I don’t need to thank him
@beextravegant
6 ай бұрын
Now you know why! 😊
@BhagyalaxmiKumari-vb4ub
6 ай бұрын
We don't always say thank you for help and yeah it might shock you our parents don't say I love you to us because it's an emotion doesn't need to be said in words, also celebrating Father's Day and Mother's Day is quite strange because unlike western world we don't abandon our parents as soon as we get 18 or give rent to them for staying in their house. Family bonds are still very strong though changes are happening because of blind imitation of western culture 😢
@kumarvikramaditya9636
6 ай бұрын
@@BhagyalaxmiKumari-vb4ubCalm down. You didn't have to go on a full on xenophobic rant for a harmless comment. There are pitfalls to collectivism, as much as there are to individualism. And I'm an Indian dating a Westerner, and NO, he hasn't abandoned his family. If anything, his family was a lot more accepting of our match than mine was initially.
@maleineperle1770
6 ай бұрын
@BhagyalaxmiKumari-vb4ub it is rare to leave at 18 or even to pay rent to your parents in a lot of european countries. The West is far from a monolith and not to be conflated with the US.
@BhagyalaxmiKumari-vb4ub
6 ай бұрын
@@kumarvikramaditya9636 I didn't intend to be Xenophobic at all, but it's true some teenagers are blinding following whatever crap Hollywood serves not knowing actual reality is always different than Movies. Blind imitation is creating cultural degradation which were we once proud of.
@BhagyalaxmiKumari-vb4ub
6 ай бұрын
No honking on streets, man, your hubby is gonna have a hell lot of fun time in India. 😂
@beextravegant
6 ай бұрын
He had a hard time sleeping each time he was in India. The first few days are always hard to adjust to the noise.
@BhagyalaxmiKumari-vb4ub
6 ай бұрын
@@beextravegant Thanks for replying ♥️
@sandrasurendran99
6 ай бұрын
Honking is not fun it is noise pollution and is destroying the nature and many animals destroying the balance the main probelm is it is not taken as a probelm but rather joke and it is not cool at all
@indiafactsgenius
6 ай бұрын
1.4k likes on this comment and only 3 replies? Lemme fix it
@mishyaahmed500
6 ай бұрын
I’m also South Asian but the honking in India is something else. Some people just honk for no reason, just if there is another vehicle on the road. Don’t understand it at all.
@capysarah
6 ай бұрын
We use "how are you doing?" as a greeting in the US too. We say it while passing by, giving the other person no time to answer 😅
@Vanifest24
6 ай бұрын
And Uk
@dandydanthedapperman7797
6 ай бұрын
You still have to answer though, because if you respond with “hello” or “hi” people will laugh
@ShinigamiSparda
6 ай бұрын
And there’s the old cultural joke: Ask an American how he’s doing and he’ll say “I’m doing fine!” Ask a Brit how he’s doing he’ll say “Could be worse.”
@bonkers1917
5 ай бұрын
@@dandydanthedapperman7797not always the case in my experience. it’s said as a greeting so if a conversation goes like: “hello, how are you?” “oh, hello!” then generally the person doesn’t care. it wasn’t about the question, it was about saying hello respectfully, so if the other person doesn’t answer it, it doesn’t matter. maybe a little strange since most people would just say “good, how are you?” but ultimately not an issue.
@masada2828
5 ай бұрын
In Au it’s ’how are you’ I hate it as no one cares how u are, it’s but a habitual greeting.
@BrahmaVachika
6 ай бұрын
Yesterday I logged off at 5:30. My senior asked me am I taking the rest of day off💀
@beextravegant
6 ай бұрын
🤦🏾♀️ Typical. When I was working at a lab here, my boss would make sure she wouldn’t enter my office AFTER 5. And if she had to send me an email over the weekend, she would start by apologising for sending one on a Sunday and that she only expects me to reply Monday morning from my office!
@HeartBeat-fy6fg
6 ай бұрын
France is built on colonised loot and still rich by cashing mining africas gold in colonies it still controlls. So it can afford those rich perks..india was colonised country, huge popul and developing nation. It can't afford perks like western world.
@Cipher1611
6 ай бұрын
Half day
@monet3320
6 ай бұрын
Tbh it’s like that in the U.S. too, people are just now starting to prioritize health over burnout after the pandemic but it’s still a pretty new concept that not many (especially older) generations have adapted to yet.
@culture88
6 ай бұрын
@@HeartBeat-fy6fgIt's true that France is former empire, still colonial power. But it is absolutely not true that having a work-life balance is something India "can't afford". It's not about "affording" it. It's about collective political organization to make that life a shared reality. We have to decolonize as political actions, and get rid of oppressive systems Inter and intra communally.
@Slvt4lanadelrey
5 ай бұрын
I grew up having a rough relationship with my parents (they were terrible but I loved them anyway), but there was this Indian lady who ran a store next to my school, shout out to her for always scolding me to do my homework in front of her, teaching me my times tables, giving me candy and being the mother I wish I had. Edit: My grammar is a mess, please ignore it.
@kharkhuadexor
2 ай бұрын
This is so wholesome..I love it ❤
@akb8239
2 ай бұрын
It's okay. I am a grammatically challenged person as well. 😅😅😅
@theguest4516
2 ай бұрын
I used to say I was raised by wolves, but wolves work as a pack they take care of their young. Also, they have been known to care for children who are lost until help comes. Wolves are better than my parents. Still, my Dad was cool. I am very thankful for him.
@girltalkwithdes
Ай бұрын
Your grammar is fine. It’s your punctuation. Run on sentences etc
@katherinebraxton5068
Ай бұрын
🎉l know you may not believe it, but God puts the right ppl in our lives for a reason. I'm glad you& the little lady store owner gravitated to each other. You are worthy to be loved. If your parents didn't see that then they're the problem. Not you. Have a wonderful life.❤❤
@amenakhatun7949
6 ай бұрын
We have a saying in India that goes "I'm friendships, there must be no sorry, no thank u"
@youiihrd
Ай бұрын
In friendships*
@valley-girl
Ай бұрын
Yeah...People show instead of saying it
@mann1368
6 ай бұрын
Car Honks as White Noice , Perfect Discription 😂 Love Your Recipies Anjali !! 🇮🇳👐🏻
@beextravegant
6 ай бұрын
Hahaha thanks for loving my content!
@ramalakshmi3286
6 ай бұрын
Congratulations on reaching 1M subscribers ... 👏
@beextravegant
6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much 😀
@racheltomevalenciahamilton6381
6 ай бұрын
In Malaysia we are also very careful about polite language so India was a surprise to be sure, but I soon got used to the 'politeness through actions' approach. In some ways it was liberating!
@HeartBeat-fy6fg
6 ай бұрын
Yes thank u etc are considered formal, businesslike, u don't consider us as family etc verbal language.. in India if u genuinely care for people u take care for them as family and don't expect all these flowery words
@jayvmishra
6 ай бұрын
Well thanking friends in india is never common But to apologise bua and fufa ji for our tinest mistake is most common
@RiaGupta-r8r
6 ай бұрын
Its never an official apologies you know . Like its never i am sorry please forgive me . Its mostly - mujhse galti ho gayi aage se dhyaan rakhungi or aage se kabhi nahi hoga. (I made a mistake i will take care in future or this will never happen)
@shakshim
6 ай бұрын
Your mama jis children must be doing the same 😂
@HeartBeat-fy6fg
6 ай бұрын
Our thank u welcome cya is - namaste
@HeartBeat-fy6fg
6 ай бұрын
User it's always I am sorry plz forgive me
@sunithagirish2139
5 ай бұрын
Good one! 😅
@annika_0702
6 ай бұрын
As an Indian, I can confirm that I irritate and get into verbal fights with my sister before serving her hot coffee with some pasta on the side after she comes back from school, and leaving without receiving any thank-you's or other unnecessary formalities from her 😂😊❤
@devshreebhardwaj3096
5 ай бұрын
Hehe, I know. Who thanks their close friends, family and siblings! That’s just unthinkable and so formal. 😂
@Autumn-xs1bt
2 ай бұрын
right? one minute I'm having a huge argument with my brother and the next I'm asking if he wants to eat maggi no apologies, clarification nothing 😂
@missyquill5709
6 ай бұрын
Omg the superficial politeness. Coming from a Desi background I moved to the UK last year and my partner had to apologize for me everywhere because I was apparently not saying please or thank you enough, even to close friends and family like his mother and brother. In our culture, a thank you is implied in tone and "yes, if you don't mind sparing some" is the same as "yes please, if you don't mind sparing some", I was coming across as rude just for not adding "please' at every other sentence (within the same conversation). It also feels so strange to walk up to cashiers and such and start with "hello, how are you?" Worse of all, these niceties just feel false because no one really cares. I miss home and our straightforward people.
@memoryisamonster
6 ай бұрын
Yt people love to be nice to your face and absolutely horrendous to your backs...that's colonizer mentality for you
@kumarvikramaditya9636
6 ай бұрын
@@memoryisamonsterThe irony isn't dead on you...
@manaji
6 ай бұрын
Lmao the fact that you using the exemple of a cashier as someone who is not deserving of any respect from you is very telling.
@missyquill5709
6 ай бұрын
@@manaji I think you misunderstood. I used an example of a cashier as someone who doesn't deserve falseness or duplicity. They care about my day even less than I do about theirs. They also just want to scan my items and get on with their day. I know I did when I worked as a cashier in my high school days. Fake niceness is never preferable over an honest respectful and straightforward conversation.
@user-yv2qr4xt9
6 ай бұрын
It's not about "fake niceness". It's about acknowledging that the person serving you is an actual human being and not just a cipher in your everyday routine. People who work in service industries go out of their way to be helpful and make you feel welcome. A little chit-chat fosters goodwill. I'm sorry but the previous commenter is right: you failing to understand such basic social mores demonstrates you think service industry workers are beneath you. I've seen how Indian people treat such workers in India whenever I've gone to visit. And when I say please and thank you to them, they radiate the most genuine smiles. Your entire thinking is wrong.
@Angelas.Eye_
6 ай бұрын
Hahaha, my (indian) boyfriend has got me trained not to thank him 😂 it still feels wrong sometimes but I really like the idea behind it. Just got to remember to keep thanking and sorrying my Americans 😂
@blackksheepp
2 ай бұрын
Keep thanking and sorrying my Americans (boyfriends)??
@ElDorado971
6 ай бұрын
Your "la politesse" Was so cute and spoken as a french person ❤🎉
@vyingforlife
6 ай бұрын
My mum is an immigrant, and she says that back in China car honks feel like greetings but in America, shits actually wrong if you hear a honk
@Exists270
6 ай бұрын
The point about politeness is funny to me as a British french person because I found myself being too polite for french people and needed to tone it down. Also had the opposite experience as you going to my home country (not France) because I found people to be extremely rude, never saying please and thank you and I had to adjust and realised that they were just being normal.
@louis3328
6 ай бұрын
French people are polite but respect boundaries and will even get uncomfortable if people are intrusive, even if it's just a little. Don't say "how are you" to strangers in France, or you'll be perceive as nosy and intrusive.
@luisafrance1635
5 ай бұрын
I’m sorry, but British people are fake with their politeness. I live here for decades and know you tell show your real personality all mask.
@eeeeesha
6 ай бұрын
Whenever i go to india, i get woken up by howling dogs, the local seller guy shouting or honking
@devshreebhardwaj3096
5 ай бұрын
Or chirping birds 😊 or even Azaan or Aarti. Comforting madness
@papaji2068
3 ай бұрын
Ya i really missed all that when I was in China without all this it felt like I am in silent prison 😂
@Rinali_artx
6 ай бұрын
No one’s gonna talk about how good the food looks? 😍
@HanahLoo
6 ай бұрын
Because it looks like it’s already been digested about 50 times, like every Indian meal does.
@drooooop
5 ай бұрын
@@HanahLooIt’s also literally just noodles in broth with vegetables. Sorry it’s not unseasoned boiled chicken like the dog food you people eat.
@drooooop
5 ай бұрын
@@HanahLooWhite person when they see a meal that isn’t a burger or slab of unseasoned cancer meat:
@HanahLoo
5 ай бұрын
@@drooooop Who is “you people” I wouldn’t eat this junk if I were paid to 🤮🤮🤮
@drooooop
5 ай бұрын
@@HanahLoo You mayo people and your nasty unseasoned food 🤢
@JenniferMonimambo
6 ай бұрын
I am Angolan, and live most of my life in Portugal and Angola. I also lived briefly in France for two years and I moved to the US three years ago. To be specific I am in New Jersey. The car honking for me was also one of the biggest culture shocks. But for different reasons here in the US people honk their cars no matter what time it is and they don’t take into consideration if people are sleeping if they have babies. when I first moved into my apartment, I would be woken up in the middle of the night because people were honking their cars or they were just generally making noise outside. I think that in general in Angola, Portugal, and France you get frowned upon if you use your honk for absolutely no reason. The only reason to use your honk is if there is a huge issue happening like you’re not supposed to be honking because the car in front of you hasn’t moved in like 10 seconds.
@Qeisama
6 ай бұрын
Car honking in India is so true. I went to Mumbai in 2018 and I got shocked by the street culture there! Buses full of people running fast like it's on the middle of filming Fast and Furious honking crazily. Chaotic and loud yet lively energy on the street lol.
@angelicasysnila5476
6 ай бұрын
So basically, they are polite and sweet people As an indian, i somehow developed this habit of apologizing & thanking somehow, and i always felt weird about myself when my new friends would exclaim "why does she says sorry every now and then", i couldn't stop myself from saying it but felt anxious that someone may point it out again. And a lot of people took advantage of my behaviour too. Now i don't feel weird knowing that there are people who are like me I thought i was weird lol
@MistiShaw-ms7lb
6 ай бұрын
Same pinch , I to have these habits in mey behaviour😅
@lilanahata
2 ай бұрын
I'm a Filipino who loves traveling to India and we share a lot of the same cultural environment except for the no-thanking which was so fascinating to me. In north India, they wouldn't teach me how to say thank you in Hindi because they insisted it doesn't matter. And a friend who grew up in Kerala said his aunt was so hurt when he thanked her when he was young, I thought that's so sweet... and different! :))
@Shasen589
6 ай бұрын
Yes the politesse, I had some issues in the past adapting to it when I was doing my masters in Australia. But apparently it seems it’s a thing in most Western countries in general. Even my Sri Lankan family are weirded out by the polite way I speak. No wonder I felt it weird to say please, thank you and sorry at every point in a conversation.
@resourcedragon
6 ай бұрын
To be fair, Australians probably do it more than other westerners. We certainly do more small talk at the beginning and/or end of business conversations than is usual in the US. Our pleases and thank yous and small talk make up for the fact that we have weapons grade swearing. Regarding directness of speech, you can ask a Latino or Latina for their address and get a description of their apartment, so some people go even further in that direction than Australians do.
@chikariarikukuto
6 ай бұрын
Her satisfied face after one bite is enough to convince me .... I'm making it.... but after ramzan 😊 Ramzan Mubarak people ❤
@pikachue602
6 ай бұрын
Ramazan Mubarakaa
@chikariarikukuto
6 ай бұрын
@@pikachue602 same to you ji 😁
@monishaaraj6614
6 ай бұрын
RAMZAN MUBARAK
@itszeeshaaa6622
6 ай бұрын
Ramazan mubarak to you too❤
@tasnim569
6 ай бұрын
ramadan mubarak!!
@pragatidhanawade6811
6 ай бұрын
Most extroverted country vs most introverted country
@voidmain9519
6 ай бұрын
😂 aptly said
@MsEternalpeace
5 ай бұрын
I lived in Qatar and had same experience. At a bank, a customer complained about a staff, just because she said to him 'wait in the lounge' in stead of saying, "PLEASE wait in the lounge"
@yuphorias
6 ай бұрын
the sigh of resignation at 12:44 killed me 😭 lmfaoo thank you for continuing w this series and for the work that goes into making these videos !! 💖💗
@vedanair7181
6 ай бұрын
So agree with the second point me and my family were in France for vacation and we were confused with which train station to go to so my dad asked the police there where we should go and he was like first say hi good morning lol
@user-ep9tp3yx6i
6 ай бұрын
As a French, this is the norm to me. It's basically a way of saying "I respect you, I may not care about you, but you deserve to be treated with care". Often when people just come to you without saying good morning, ask for an info and just leave, it feels like you're just a tool for people to use when they are in need. At least with the formalities you feel like an actual person.
@angiel3693
6 ай бұрын
@@user-ep9tp3yx6iis saying hi good enough in Europe in general ?Like “ hi, I was wondering …” It was certainly not good enough for the lady at the information desk in a Berlin train station 😢.
@IceGleamify
6 ай бұрын
@@angiel3693Usually in french you'd Say hello, excuse-me, could you... Complete with your specific demand, and take leave with a thank you very much and goodbye/good day
@angiel3693
6 ай бұрын
@@IceGleamify do you literally say hello or good morning/afternoon / night that functions as hello?
@louleloup2607
6 ай бұрын
@@angiel3693We say bonjour which means "good day" from morning to afternoon, and bonsoir - good evening - during, well, the evening, and the night.
@delailak2244
6 ай бұрын
Starting a conversation as "Hey how r U doing, even if U don't care a shit about how they r doing" was ultimate. I have thought about it often when I came here too!
@dowoondodooong6564
6 ай бұрын
The honking I agree on another level 😂 here in Switzerland it’s the same 😂
@AnuAnu-qo7hf
6 ай бұрын
Because of my corporate career (working in US bank), i started using more please and thank you. And my parents feel that i m not close to them anymore..
@ZeeMee-d3v
6 ай бұрын
My friends still get mad at me for saying thank you and sorry . And they'd be like "who the hell tought you that ? Keep the English person inside yourself ! "
@kristinjacobsen3417
2 ай бұрын
I'm interested in hearing more about cultural differences. Thanks
@ArnicaMachado
6 ай бұрын
As someone who's lived in the Gulf and then moved back to India, the honking is so true!
@gian323
6 ай бұрын
As a Filipino American, thank you for teaching me about two cultures I knew little about ❤
@dolasoman3583
6 ай бұрын
Totally agree! I moved to Australia here and work culture and traffic rules are same as France. Love the work life balance and the fact that employers can understand and empathise with the employees
@ryeojin
2 ай бұрын
I've also noticed that in Canada these expressions and politesse are so ingrained in how we were raised that omitting them is a form of rudeness. When I worked in the US I got culture shock because not thanking someone when they hand you something is normal (baseline), and thanking them makes you polite. In Canada, thanking them is baseline, and not thanking them makes you impolite. If you want to add an extra layer of genuine appreciation, you usually look them in the eyes and give a little smile. People are also not shy verbalizing appreciation or love. I think these are just standards that were formed as a way of acknowledging a person's existence and work, no matter the social status or background, but it is very interesting to learn about norms in other countries and cultures
@Sherirose1
3 ай бұрын
Love the friendship between your boss and yourself. So healthy. ❤
@butterfly-my2nm
6 ай бұрын
I can listen her all day 😩❤
@virgil_anxiety770
2 ай бұрын
car honks in asia are for: thanking the other driver, saying hello to a friend u just passed by, road rage
@swarooparajpurohit4909
6 ай бұрын
As an Indian I hate that car honking is common. When I drive I rarely honk and family sitting with me always ask me to honk if they see someone might be in the way and I hate the advise so I rarely follow and just wait or maneuver around instead. I wish that was the norm too. But on the other hand, apologizing for small things is philosophically speaking unnecessary in relationships that you feel are secure enough to withstand and there shouldn’t be the guilt or need to be apologetic I feel….
@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195
6 ай бұрын
See that's so strange, I'd say it would be the opposite, wouldn't we apologize more to close people, since we would care more about their feelings than feelings of some stranger?
@swarooparajpurohit4909
6 ай бұрын
@@hypatiakovalevskayasklodow9195 hmm it is strange yet fairness demands politeness to strangers who have been honked on just for being a passerby
@viveledelire9232
Ай бұрын
French person here ! I've been raised in France my whole life and there are many subtilities in the way of saying "Hello/Thanks/Sorry....". It all depends on the person you're talking to. The whole sentence will be different if you're talking to a stranger, a close friend, your boss... To me apologizing to close people is not a matter of guilt but a matter of respect, because they're close to me and because they matter to me I will apologize if I'm at fault. I wouldn't say sorry every now and then though...
@sachikohardcore
3 ай бұрын
I live in Paris. In most of the companies, people overwork every single day, usally not paid. I'ts incredibly common, I'm glad you had a good experience 🙏
@komal146
Ай бұрын
Ah shit. Guess it's a 21st century city thing then. EU is still bit better but alas.
@kamaraalya7607
6 ай бұрын
I recently lived in France too, and coming from America, it was so refreshing to see people caring about work life balance!!
@user-hp1pp7bz7b
6 ай бұрын
That looks SO good 😮👌
@deepasinghal4729
6 ай бұрын
I'm all for honesty, diplomatic sweet talk crap and no real action is a major turnoff, it's like my time is wasted. Rest all good
@kksassy2282
Ай бұрын
A real ''Thank you'' is for me a sign of respect & gratitude. In my culture it's disrespectful if you don't say it.
@kriti-no3xd
21 күн бұрын
In friendship: no sorry , no thank you 😂😂
@ishasinghchauhan292
6 ай бұрын
Man i want those noodles now 😭😭😭
@beatyz2
2 ай бұрын
The concept of living in a honking culture will always blow my head
@khaosssssss1727
Ай бұрын
My carer is Indian and once I realised that this politeness thing is a cultural/language issue we were both so relieved! The UK does the overly polite thing too. Xx
@matthew_pauls
6 ай бұрын
Very interesting! Thanks for this perspective!!
@reena7493
6 ай бұрын
No sorry & thank you between friends is so ingrained in us that we can’t change it.
@MsEternalpeace
5 ай бұрын
I work with British people and they're some of the most polite and nice people I have come across. When I am havingba meeting with my manager, he asks "would you mind if I take down notes", although he simply doesnt have to. Our boss, always ensures he apologise to us ahead of time if he is going to answer any phone call, during the meeting. While tahts a work related call. "Guys, please excuse me, if I answer a phone call in sometime, it'll be a quick one." Our colleagues always inform if they are even gonna be sightly late or even if there a possibility. "Hey, I am afraid I will be late by 10min, sorry to keep you waiting" Now compare that with India.
@JanFischer-dh2sy
Ай бұрын
This was very well done and very interesting ! And the food looks delicious 😋😋😋
@Nunofyabizzzzz
Ай бұрын
In America, we are also struggling with the work/life balance thing
@Arjun-di7bi
4 ай бұрын
Every coin has two sides It's applicable for every single country Hope you all understand 🙏
@runali4065
Ай бұрын
I am Indian & I have been told that I have a bad habbit of saying "Thank you" & "Sorry" a lot over tiniest things, so much so that I pretty much apologized to anything I bump into, even to the wall (true story!!😅 I bumped into a rack in a supermarket & instantly started apologizing but mom was like who you saying Sorry to😅) In India people do take it as an offense if they are trying to be close to you or are already a close family/friends but then we have 1.4 billions of them so who knows some might appreciate it 😅🤷♀️😊
@katherinebraxton5068
Ай бұрын
I'm here for the recipe. This looks delicious! Plz tell us what seasonings you used to make this lovely dish.❤
@sarvin4471
6 ай бұрын
"Your boss's sadistic requirements" 😂
@-Viva-Cristo-Rey
Ай бұрын
When I move to Canada, the first thing that surprised me was the invention of dryers. It was like a mind blowing thing because I no longer had to worry about folding clothes in the balcony or putting them on the line.
@angelmathew
6 ай бұрын
It's not only in France , here in Ireland I too had those cultural shock
@Nitznet
Ай бұрын
In India, honking is almost a language in itself! Since the roads are always full with cars and bikes, you literally have to honk to let the others know your position.😂
@cstanvinaik2010
6 ай бұрын
I have experienced same in US something’s r really so nice that I feel we should adopt it in India 🇮🇳 but my India is great ❤and I love the warmth of it
@arcturianoracle784
2 ай бұрын
Bruh, the part about thanks and apologies is sooo me despite being Mexican American and no one around me feeling the same way lol. I always felt guilty about it but upon reading the cultural reasoning in India for this, I’m like that’s exactly how I’ve always felt!!! It’s like I’m here for you, you’re here for me, we show that through actions you don’t need to do all that as though we aren’t close enough that it is just implied 🩵🩵🩵🩵
@vehement.
Ай бұрын
I’m glad you said that being polite and respectful is common in France. I keep seeing Americans say that French people are rude, but it’s the total opposite. The language is just direct, but when we speak it we don’t realize it, it’s just how it is. Curtesy is incredibly important, as is eye contact while thanking people.
@vdussaut9182
6 ай бұрын
As an American who grew up in an incredibly diverse community (Middle Eastern/Indian/Asian/S.E.Asian/Hispanic/Eastern European, etc. etc.), it has never occurred to me to expect people who are obviously new to the country to instantly assimilate to cultural “norms”, and I would never just assume someone who was clearly adjusting to a new culture was being “rude” for not behaving exactly as those who grew up with it. Anyone who does make this assumption is grossly lacking in common sense and basic empathy, which are far greater shortcomings than any “rudeness” they may have perceived.
@majinraptor
6 ай бұрын
Totally depends. I'm Indian but my entire family is very "westernized". Politeness is a huge thing in my family. So much so that all my friends thing we're all extremely formal.
@lycopodium262
6 ай бұрын
You're westernized but in older way, today's modern westernization means parties, hook up, sex , pubs, bars
@somerandomnon-importantper3219
6 ай бұрын
@@lycopodium262 Only if you confuse social media with actual real life
@lycopodium262
6 ай бұрын
@@somerandomnon-importantper3219 I live in west 🤷🏼♀️
@somerandomnon-importantper3219
6 ай бұрын
@@lycopodium262 So do I. Your point is?
@aastha_bhandari
2 ай бұрын
Thanking everytime is considered a formal thing in india, so if we are super close with someone, we don't use 'thank you'
@Smrithisamazingworld
6 ай бұрын
Yum!
@beextravegant
6 ай бұрын
Yes!!!
@boobaby6430
Ай бұрын
Ali wasn’t fucking how ray was talking to the twins at the end 🤣
@user-wh3qo9ch2v
6 ай бұрын
I’m Dominican living in Canada and I agree to all of those points
@Toraconw
6 ай бұрын
I always watch your videos couple of times. I get so involved in the story and realised I dint notice the recipe.
@bleepbloop9123
5 ай бұрын
That’s really interesting about verbal politeness bc French are thought of as rude too!
@dheerajmraj6374
6 ай бұрын
About honking, Paris is different and rest of France is different 😂😂
@mamba00
6 ай бұрын
Ma'am this looks absolutely astonishing 🎈♥️ so doing this
@philmusson1265
5 ай бұрын
The honking is maddening! Why do people do that? It's torture! Good to see you've got nice fresh oyster mushrooms too 🍄❤️
@fizasaini7104
6 ай бұрын
I learnt work life balance after 1 year of work experience in India only. It depends from company to company & nothing to do with a nation.
@LoonyYunie
Ай бұрын
The food looks delicious, wish there was commentary on that recipe.
@Jennisweet5
6 ай бұрын
This recipe looks SOOO GOOD
@michelleabaya287
6 ай бұрын
Everybody is a cook in the internet !!! Makes me feel so hungry all the time !!! 😅
@Kaylee-Renee
6 ай бұрын
I'm from New Zealand and just got back from Mumbai. The car honking is insane and so is the driving. Very big culture shock
@Seevawonderloaf
6 ай бұрын
The ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ thing is so huge. I had a culture shock when i moved TO india and got scolded by friends who thought I was distancing myself.
@lvanasse2
2 ай бұрын
The honking 😂😂😂 Yes, you have to drive and honk at the same time or you are doing it wrong when in India 😂😂😂😂
@ferielesseghir1198
5 ай бұрын
I’m not sure why this is even here. It’s called cultural awareness.
@BiankyGirl
6 ай бұрын
Thank you SO MUCH for explaining that saying thank you and apologizing is not common in India. My dad is Indian and I’m raised American. The hardest thing growing up was my dad never apologizing for anything. I never realized that it’s a cultural thing he never had to do. He’s better now that I’m an adult but this revelation would have really helped if I had known sooner.
@_tbh
6 ай бұрын
This is ABSOLUTELY INFURIATING AND SAD like Peta and Chris didnt deserve it and its just so GUT-WRENCHING 😭😭😭😭 Rest in peace Chris and Peta 🙏🙏
@sakusasalchohol1568
3 ай бұрын
As my French stepfather's family told me... The only reasons why someone would honk are either : impatient/pissed off, rude, or they're just Parisians 🤷♀️
@MessagesFromAurora
6 ай бұрын
this dish looks amazing
@Bereal-yd5gh
6 ай бұрын
As someone from the US who thinks good morning and how are you doing is pointless. I say it to not appear rude as well. I think how are you doing should be reserved for people you care for. I'm constantly living in a state of culture shock in my own culture, a lot of it just makes no sense.
@suchetamehra6778
2 ай бұрын
In this version of kaddu, in addition to what you’ve added (no dhaniya, no hing), we add aamchoor. Khatta-meetha kaddu
@jnak974
6 ай бұрын
When you work in the tourism industry, you learn to go with the flow. The Japanese are really polite and you react likewise. The Australians are frank and you learn have a robust sense of humor. The US military thinks everyone Native hates them so you reassure them that that was true 100 years ago but that you’re not indigenous so you could care less….. you learn to adapt man.
@Ania-t6x
2 ай бұрын
It’s the same in most European countries. In Norway people are overly polite and don’t understand Indian humor and mannerism. However when explained they seem to appreciate it as a culture that is very hospitable and kind even though we are crude with our words.
@annasebastian2300
7 күн бұрын
This is funny coz I have been to Paris and one of the things I hated there was how the cars would just not stop even when the signal was green for pedestrians. The drivers are super rude and few times I was even going to get hit by them. When we checked with other Parisians they told us it is very normal there.
@ZoeBurks
Ай бұрын
Asking how someone is feeling is how I start any conversation lol I'm in Virginia 😂
@Rosa-cx5yl
2 ай бұрын
Don't worry, we are french and my brother is mad at me when I thank him and apologize to him, 😂 but I do think that "la politesse" is important, I guess it depends on which area of France you are, I think in south people are South people are very nice but we are from north and in ton especially people are kinda nasty but it really depends and of course not everyone is like this. Anyways have a great day everyone 👋
@pixelreaper7953
3 ай бұрын
I live in Bangladesh, the people in the building next to me randomly start violently honking their car horn at 2 am for like 2 minutes straight, then stop for around 5 minutes, then start again. They do this like every other day
@emilysmith2965
6 ай бұрын
I’m not Indian, but I also dislike being thanked or having someone apologize. I don’t need the verbal apology; I need changed behavior. Maybe this comes from growing up with narcissistic parents… they knew how to say pretty words, but it didn’t stop them from bullying me.
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