Kindly note that I will never give you a phone number to contact me on. Please beware of fake Jessica OS accounts looking to scam you. The only way to have any direct conversation with me is via my Patreon account. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos . Stay safe guys!
@zidor
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Mom 🙏🏻
@cenycompanylimited2740
Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@feargodkojo6121
Жыл бұрын
Noted. Your tips are very educative and informative I regularly download your videos. Super Duper!
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
Started dating my neighbor. We seemed to be very compatible. But soon found out she would constantly come to my door just if she conviently ran out of something or wanted something fixed. Got tired of being her supermarket or free repairs. Lasted 3 weeks
@rosyfx8263
Жыл бұрын
Mmmmm
@omoniyiemmanuelseun2286
Жыл бұрын
She's just using you.
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
@@omoniyiemmanuelseun2286 exactly right that's why I got rid of her after 3 weeks
@franklynojong8729
Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you were smart to notice that right on time . Always put your observing signals on
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
@@franklynojong8729 i know the signs and I usually give it a months time. Human nature and be observant.
@kenneycooper6199
Жыл бұрын
I’m one of those real men who treats and respects a woman and very kind, it’s in my nature. But I’m often looked over or judged and turned down because they think I’m up to something. It’s just me and who I am. Gets frustrating sometimes. Thank you for the video.
@ClemDozzy212
Жыл бұрын
Stop being a nice guy. It's a turn off for women. Jessica has a clip on that
@kenneycooper6199
Жыл бұрын
@@ClemDozzy212 I’ll have to look for it.
@kenneycooper6199
Жыл бұрын
@@vinsteel3342 I agree because from experience, it happened exactly like you said it. These modern women, especially black women don’t have a clue.
@mr.fettesq.7705
Жыл бұрын
@@kenneycooper6199 it's a sad truth brother. It's only when she thinks you don't really care that they want u more. If she thinks u have options then she will want to be your main option. Women just love to be treated poorly rather then like a queen
@theworldisimmense
Жыл бұрын
@Vin Steel wrong
@Thulanizar
Жыл бұрын
Thanks ❤️. I ended my relationship because I wanted to focus on my career. This channel has been adding value even in my season of singleness
@emmanuelchukwu8331
Жыл бұрын
Genius, my first date disrespected me so much, it was a quick sign to STOP!👍
@optmangodsway2448
Жыл бұрын
Number (5). I met this lady in my post graduate class who was exceptionally intelligent, we studied together, we got along so well but she once told me not to call her before 6am, her reason was that, she meditates and plan her day between the hours of 4am to 6am. I respected that alright and kept my own side of the deal until one day I got stranded somewhere at dawn and needed her help that bad, I called her about 5 times continuously but she failed to answer or return the call or txt. When I we met her later and questioned her, she told me she doesn’t compromise her personal standards. I ended the relationship.
@darlingtonkabasa4291
Жыл бұрын
I am sooo grateful Ms. Jessie for all the videos I have so far watched. However, this one is the last nail into the coffin. You just saved a life here. Thank you
@joesillamanrs7189
Жыл бұрын
Jess does a great job of breaking these things down
@Simdope07
Жыл бұрын
Start every relationship with a new perspective. God it! Thanks ❤
@Simdope07
Жыл бұрын
Start every relationship with a new perspective. Got it! Thanks ❤
@thurespottke3795
Жыл бұрын
This is video is like a prayer of mine gone real, been dating a girl for like 6 weeks and everything looked good and we were in this state where we dont know if we are still dating or together. But two weeks ago she started to need like 2 or 3 days to answer and never had time to meet up and she only said she is learning for school as a reason.
@richardsiyeni6985
Жыл бұрын
I feel like you made this for me. Wow. The universe really is watching out for all of us.
@smilyfolk
Жыл бұрын
Truly great, I am the side effect of your wisdom in a relationship I ended previously. No respect, no gratitude, constantly ignoring me for months and not replying to my text, ever asking for money and only she shared with me are her troubles. She passed through but I kinda regret being 'good' when love isn't being good. She did all sought to end up with me including faking to be in relationship with her one male relative. And living me to go through the pain only to tell me later it was her relative. I have quited today and I accept I can't play the role of God in people's lives
@kolawolesamsonimoleayo1144
Жыл бұрын
Jessica you speak with so much wisdom, am so glue to your channel as you all dish out nuggets that has and is helping my relationship with the opposite sex.
@preciousaweh8521
Жыл бұрын
I shared this video with my Girlfriend. I assume I won’t have a relationship anymore after this. I feel like I am expending so much energy into this the relationship and I am not getting back the same energy. The relationship feels onesided.
@richardsiyeni6985
Жыл бұрын
Oh My God!! You wouldn't believe me if I told you this has been bothering me for days, was so confused, and I've been asking my friends so I could at least see through the situation. Thank you Jessica for making this video. I just literary finished a conversation about this just an hour ago. Thanks again. To be honest, I'm kind of not really a smarty pants when it comes to relationship stuff, and ever since I was introduced to your video by this other friend of mind, I'm getting to be one. Anyways thanks again.
@JessicaOS
Жыл бұрын
Glad to be of help
@yxngdarich9056
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica for changing my dating life! You're so cute and gentle ☺️
@emmanuelsalako7370
Жыл бұрын
Wise words of wisdom, substance over rules nicely said, if you have been burnt one too many times then you would know most of the red flags to look out for in a woman, let her show her true self which would eventually come out to show itself for us all to see. Thanks for sharing Jessica you rock as always
@eaa8529
Жыл бұрын
Gosh! Men need to hear women like you. I can just imagine how many women out there hates you for exposing them. But don't worry about them one bit because we men love and appreciate you. Keep up the good work and thanks. Love you and your channel so much..💓
@angelbwalyachate
Жыл бұрын
Very important for a relationship 🙏 thanks Jessica
@stuartwilkie4887
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video, and for countless others. You struck a chord with me over the stereotyping and trust issues. It's an issue that can branch out into any male vs female interaction. For example, I've had interviews or worked with women who say "I need to verify that" constantly. I think most men instinctively know that women have had past lives and experiences, but if they stereotype you in a bad way, or marginalize you - do as Jessica says, get her gone.
@joebuegar876
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your kindness to Humanity 🙏🙏
@preciousaweh8521
Жыл бұрын
I want to send this video to my Girlfriend. She say I am always overreacting because I think she does not communicate or isn’t interested. The relationship feels so one-sided.
@robertsmith1153
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica you answer all the questions I have in my head about this young lady LOL 💗⚘💗
@abdirazakali58
Жыл бұрын
Dear Jessica. Thanks for sharing this video with us but things are not as easy as you think. Early stages of any relationship is far more difficult than we expected and that’s human nature.
@deleteexistence6175
Жыл бұрын
I met a girl last week, bought her lunch and she seemed nice. Later on that night she called me with the sniffles begging me for money for 'gambling' 😔
@Burrburrcloud
2 ай бұрын
Did you give her? 😂😂
@deleteexistence6175
2 ай бұрын
@@Burrburrcloud Nah because I knew it was for drugs 🤣
@Burrburrcloud
2 ай бұрын
@@deleteexistence6175 😳 I wouldn't have known and I would've given her! 😥
@peterhewitson2669
Жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica, this is the first of your videos I have watched, and really like your clear concise presentation. Thank you for what you do😍
@sparkling_vevo
Жыл бұрын
I don't mind watching ur videos the whole day becos you always spit facts You're loved ❤
@basilreid9924
Жыл бұрын
I always enjoy watching your views on relationships thank you so much 😊
@ShalomMan2095
4 ай бұрын
Shalom Greetings from Zimbabwe You are speaking good. Blessings to you, and all that matters to you.
@timecoroyal1658
Жыл бұрын
This applies to him and her in all fairness
@craigkanyemba
Жыл бұрын
Jessica, you are becoming the immortal one, plus sound at the back makes everything cooler
@franklynojong8729
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica for your valid contents always👏
@princejohn3108
Жыл бұрын
You are always on point Jessica. I like the way you see things.
@lempiezoangula9552
Жыл бұрын
Well said, thanks for opening my eyes🙏
@dots560
Жыл бұрын
Straight to the point. Thanks for sharing.
@alainsergile6808
Жыл бұрын
Just watched this video today Dec. 1st 2022 when it came to my notifications. First time I am actually commenting on your videos. This one hits home as I just break up with a women due to some of the very first few things you mentioned. she repeated she liked me, but her actions were not saying the same. reasons why I left was exactly due to some of the first few things you mentioned. needless to say, this video confirms what I originally thought as to why I left her. for her part, she refused to understand why I left her....thanks for the video! was VERY substantive.
@seyeadenle7189
Жыл бұрын
Let her know why you left.It’s important
@habeeboyeniyi430
Жыл бұрын
@@seyeadenle7189 yeah.... it's very important
@nocternalogya4440
Жыл бұрын
Points well articulated...
@malineli3266
Жыл бұрын
Pleasant weekend to you Jess🙏🏽🇧🇧
@universalcoverage1681
Жыл бұрын
Thanks to you Jessica. You have been a source of knowledge to many of us. Keeping relationship these days is not easy but we keep listening to you in order to learn more and grow. God bless you.
@Nwannebuike
Жыл бұрын
This episode was very wonderful and guiding. Thanks Jessica.
@manyuhahulisani2091
Жыл бұрын
I have a long way to go😢😢 .... its so hard to find someone out here because they’re all taken, mind you I’m still looking for my first relationship😭😢
@matthewamos8591
Жыл бұрын
You've been saving relationships and lives since the '80s!
@DearGod-e2f
Жыл бұрын
Very informative video, thank you always Jessica.
@joguns8257
Жыл бұрын
So accurate, pin-point accuracy. Thank you for these points.
@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110
Жыл бұрын
You are good at what you do.
@businessboom6143
Жыл бұрын
Awesome video with wisdom nuggets Jessica💯🎯
@adewaleakitoye7926
Жыл бұрын
This particular hammer really hit all the nails on the head. Thanks for sharing. It has addressed many unanswered questions...
@dhanrajmohan701
Жыл бұрын
Public comment. Ms Jessica you are a gem 💎. Great message. You understand the principles of life and its journey reflects in words and taught or deeds. Ms Jessica thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and inspiration with us.
@daviddalton2420
Жыл бұрын
Just loved the conclusion
@Imohjohnnie
Жыл бұрын
Thank you Jessica.
@georgearieldreams-king3186
Жыл бұрын
You're spot on!!
@CoastingKT
Жыл бұрын
Most recently I've been going through Numbers 1, 2, 3 with someone in a casual relationship. It sucks because I do care for them but seems like it'll have to cut them off so I can feel better about myself. I wonder what's the best way to bring up these issues? Thank you for putting out this type of content!
@zacharymitchell3986
Жыл бұрын
Agree to everything she mentioned
@mouctardiallo9062
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this wisdom Mrs Jessica
@LoveCommissioner
Жыл бұрын
Wow! This is very insightful.
@Bokai1.3
Жыл бұрын
This makes alot of sense.thank you
@ofosuzerubbabel9452
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Jess for this video 😊
@sagarkhupsare2782
Жыл бұрын
Hey Jessica, I watched a few videos of yours and could relate to each and every vowel and consonant of the scripts. You are awesome…
@alphakapitalist8146
Ай бұрын
Your Videos Help man a Lot. Thank U so much
@thokokenedyjossen
Жыл бұрын
I wont not stopping watching
@hawadeallaale4093
Жыл бұрын
More thanks Jessica ❤
@orarichman9948
Жыл бұрын
Plays with her cell phone while you're on a date! 😆
@johndcruz8744
Жыл бұрын
Great content. Hope guys take this advice seriously 😉
@caragous
Жыл бұрын
I needed this
@mxolisitsabedze6877
Жыл бұрын
I just ended my relationship because of this
@hawadeallaale4093
Жыл бұрын
(Teach poeple how they treat you ) Thanks Jessica 🙏
@johnmatthew8596
Жыл бұрын
Thank You so much. I am blessed ❤ 💝 💐 🎊 🌹
@jukett85
Жыл бұрын
Hi Jessica, I love your content so much. I have a humble suggestion though. Are u a licensed relationship expert/coach? If yes please state that for the record. If no I'll suggest that you put out a disclaimer or reference your source of information to avoid plagerism or any potential litigation. Thanks
@folakolmedia
Жыл бұрын
Miss your content Jessica. Your content amongst others have really influenced and improved my dating skills. Hopefully, I get to meet you someday! 🤗
@Jaypnero
Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video. Very helpful.
@Prof_Julius_K_Nyerere
Жыл бұрын
You've nailed it 💯.
@mathewramashala7470
Жыл бұрын
She initiated the relationship. She was head over heels with, paid me visits. But after three months she started to draw her feet, her cellphone is sometimes off. She doesn't want me to come to her place 😪. I am confused
@MedichiHomes
Жыл бұрын
She's feeling burned out... give her space...
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
Dude she is playing you wake up
@nanakwame4329
Жыл бұрын
Sometimes it could be that she has found the one she sees in her dreams so please don't even bother to ask her about her sudden changes. If she was wise enough to leave be stupid enough to let her go
@torhbakalit908
Жыл бұрын
let her go and either she comes back if uwere important or she downst so dont waste more of ur time
@johntez25mc-supercop
Жыл бұрын
Her mission was accomplished
@daviddalton2420
Жыл бұрын
Am really loving these facts. Men are hunters and are supposed to make the first move naturally. But women reception really gives you a green or red flag. Wow, Jessica u really hit it truthfully. The pleasure is mine watching you. Its David Dalton from Uganda.
@adenijibamidele3760
Жыл бұрын
Wish i had known all this 2 years ago.
@attahpayne
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much
@kawleystanley5368
Жыл бұрын
True, thanks u Jessica
@sserunjogiahmed7974
Жыл бұрын
Am the second one to comment here. Best relationship coach world over. Ahmed Qatar
@eustacekalabamibenge8019
Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Mrs Jessica continue with your work . your teachings has helped me a lot . especially that it's when am preparing for my future and I m still searching for a serious lady to get married with .am now almost 42 years in February 2023 .on 6th 02 .1981
@nickye9808
Жыл бұрын
You always make sense. L LOVE YOU A LOT.Keep up the good work!!🥰
@Cccc-hf8fv
Жыл бұрын
Hello jesssi This is one of the best from u. Big up .
@Truthbetolddd
Жыл бұрын
"IF YOU HAVE the means, go ahead" 8:23( and cater to her financially ), I disagree. Even if you do have the means, it is not wise to constantly treat a woman that you are dating. For what? What am I rewarding her for? It leads to expectations and spoils her. Go on moneyless dates like a walk at the lake or trails where you can get to know one another and talk more without eating (which limits conversation). I'm not catering to any woman, especially during dating stages, nope, not I.
@balance9300
Жыл бұрын
True say thank you for this
@pipoune91
Жыл бұрын
Thanks Jessica
@godofallgodswithnoothernam920
Жыл бұрын
Thank you jessica thank you
@mantaanafm
Жыл бұрын
people may try to put on a facade initially, but if u pay close attention you can often see through thë deception
@davidadu1113
Жыл бұрын
Please, I wanna know something: How does one deal with issues of the past in a new relationship especially when traces of what was experienced in the previous relationship seems to be showing or lingering in this new one? Assuming in the previous relationship, the man is very abusive with words on the lady. Now the lady leaves the relationship, meets another person and then this new guy wants to be abusive with words at the least chance. Should it be brushed off, or is it a possible red flag?
@EMichaelBall
Жыл бұрын
Probably the latter. Generally, people have patterns of who they subconsciously look for. Lots of work is usually needed to correct these tendencies.
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
Definately a red flag. Anyone that brings baggage from past relationships into the present one and won't let go means there is still something unresolved. The past baggage will harm your current one
@agyeimaxwell.
Жыл бұрын
Love ur content keep being amazing 😍🤜👏
@jerryhall5410
Жыл бұрын
Jessica this is TALIB AMIN ABDULLAH thank you for giving me a lot of insight because I knew a woman for 14 years and all the sudden she telling me that I'm the for her and another point that you put out she do want me to pay everything sometimes even if it's little and she haven't got over her baby daddy SHE HAD A SON AND A DAUGHTER BY HIM I know that and she been lying about what she were at the time she never answer my call one whole day next time she actually my phone the next talking about she on her way to my house when I haven't talked to her yet to tell her to come over she was a friend off and on it might be time for me to Let her I thank you for giving me some info on this situation with women ☝🏾👳🏾♀️🤲😘 keep up the good work JESSICA HELP US MEN TO FOUND OUT WHO WE DEALING WITH.
@pablodante7623
Жыл бұрын
I am talking to this girl and I’ve made my intentions known to her but she always say she will think about it. It’s been so long but she’s still not said anything. Onetime she said she will be my gf and some days later she said she feels she is not ready and that she’s not in love with me but I should hang out maybe something might come up as we get along. I don’t know what to do now, I am so confused.
@husseindjumida6568
Жыл бұрын
I really wish i loved this woman. I like her so much.
@henryifeanyi1775
Жыл бұрын
You are amazing.
@obinnaoji869
Жыл бұрын
It's really sweet the way Jessica speaks up for the guys. This is why I love tomboys.😁 P.s: I ain't got that shit erotomania.
@Chadvilletv
Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤❤
@sylviamugara4474
Жыл бұрын
I love you Jessica.
@oladapojoda4983
Жыл бұрын
So, it started really well and it was good and fun for 2 months plus. She started working and it seems she forgets I exist. She reaches out from time to time, adjusts when I complain but only for a while. She literally doesn't bring up any conversations anymore, I have to initiate and she struggles to flow. She claims its mental stress from work, financial strain cos she's just starting (I help out as much as I can though) and duty to family cos she still stays with them. But I work too and have responsibilities and still I make space and time for her! I really want to be patient and hope she finds balance but its going on 2 months since she started work and its getting worse. When I complain, she tries to adjust after saying I'm not patient and considerate. We have only been spent time together once in 4 months (that's largely due to her work schedule) What do I do?
@chidiebereudeokechukwu3959
Жыл бұрын
Cut her off. Please don't Simp for her by showing her that you need the relationship more than her. You're the prize and not her. If she's really into you, she'd make out time for you. It's that simple. End.
@FedUpCanuck
Жыл бұрын
Dude she is using you dumpster time
@Jules-740
9 ай бұрын
Oops i did a red flag on a guy i really like ALOT. i did not contact him consistently. But i was really busy and also I was a little intimidated by him.
@Johnmicahtv
Жыл бұрын
You are really an Angel
@nathanielaboagye3795
Жыл бұрын
Time wasters n chance blockers. That's wat I call them. 😏
@RickyHotRock
Жыл бұрын
Annoying might be a good thing long term. Depends
@tombless6596
Жыл бұрын
You're the best.
@irfanmohd6591
Жыл бұрын
Jessica, I am madly in love with my classmate. I am married now, because she left me. But after 8 years she called me and we spoke to each other for over two months. She was not interested in me but deep down i always wanted her. I now regret that she once again left me. I am unable to forget as i have been since the past 8 years. I did get marry out of anger on her. She left me. But i am unable to forget her. She has an affection to me. But i dont know if i can see her or not at all. I begged her many times to atleast let me see her as she did in that two mon.
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