Bro this is actually true I realised this isn't a lie Because i experience from someone 🤕
@BacterialCultureMedia
Жыл бұрын
LOL
@paniiiniii1484
Жыл бұрын
My ex as well
@gal-la2882
Жыл бұрын
Don't ever do this to nobody. It fucking hurts.
@dadathakur534
6 ай бұрын
**Don't ever do this to anybody 😅
@Whysoserious648
5 ай бұрын
I'mma do it 🥰🤩
@mazerunner_luver
5 ай бұрын
@@Whysoserious648please don’t it truly is really fucking painful
@nishaagarwal5334
4 ай бұрын
True, never play with feelings
@dikonan3138
4 ай бұрын
Lol!
@campbellsmith403
Жыл бұрын
A person with self-respect and boundaries would never let this happen. As soon as they sense you are playing games or acting uninterested they will walk away from you.
@shawndon7374
Жыл бұрын
There's always someone out there though that just knows what to do to get your attention in the first place and then they just slowly pull you in and before you know it your lost in the jungle.
@meghasanyal4861
8 ай бұрын
Predators are roaming around everywhere and they are called as predators because they are smart in assessing your vulnerabilities. A person with high self esteem, will usually have vulnerabilities in the form of principles and ethics. Narcs will lure you in, using your ethics. For eg: you cannot say no to a hungry person, your narc lover in no contact will plead for food making a case. Since this appeals to your ethics, you will provide for them, once again falling into the trap.
@optim4391
7 ай бұрын
Just cut every Contact and WALK AWAY !
@mbinghamworks146
7 ай бұрын
Eh… I tried cutting things off with my ex permanently until he was apparently “sick and in the hospital” because he was “so scared and upset he lost me”. He totally used his health as a means for me to give him another chance only to keep doing the same sick ish again… 😅
@campbellsmith403
6 ай бұрын
@@mbinghamworks146 I was referring to the early stages of talking to someone. Different when you have been together with an abusive person for a long time. Sorry that happened to you
@lt38217
Жыл бұрын
Good thing people are waking up to narcissistic abuse! So grateful for AWAKENING 🌟
@michaelb9940
2 жыл бұрын
When the relationship gets to this point - it’s not even worth it Relationship should be NATURAL.
@thadzarip4072
Жыл бұрын
I've done this experiment already...it's effective
@BacterialCultureMedia
Жыл бұрын
Agreed. This is for the kind of relationships that are only to serve a purpose, meet a need, or provide a means to an end. These kinds of relationships are transactional and contrived, but often one person is getting the better of another one. It's pretty sad. To avoid dissonance, people tell themselves it isn't so, until they end up getting cheated on or left in the dirt on a special day for the couple or somethinng The individual who is faking it will usually have their resentment leech out in some way, They will attempt to find what the other person believes is special or sacred, and will blatantly mock or desecrate it, just to show that it means nothing to them, because they are essentially selling themselves and their ability to ove authentically by doing this, so they resent themselves and everyone involved just our two cents -BCM- everyone involved
@Mopen_
Жыл бұрын
Exactly bruh If we force people to love us then u think that can call "love"?I don't think so So screw this way👍🏼
@Sukkkhhi
Жыл бұрын
Ur were born in the wrong generation 😂
@mengyuanc1231
Жыл бұрын
It won’t last long and eventually all of these will come back to you … so be careful with that
@mariaisabellrodriguez5202
Жыл бұрын
People with good self-esteem and who knows their worth will lose the interest!!
@CapitanTavish
Жыл бұрын
Nobody is
@bluethrone7570
Жыл бұрын
So true...this clip did not resonate with me at all because my self-esteem and worth was always so high that these manipulative types were so easy to get rid of/move on from.
@alifiaputri4533
11 ай бұрын
Period !!!!
@Hopeandpeace444
11 ай бұрын
@@bluethrone7570yes exactly if someone did this to me I would definitely leave them for having and showing two different expressions
@sk-tx9dr
11 ай бұрын
Exactly! I don’t have time to play this game.
@corinna5110
Жыл бұрын
It's trauma bonding, a narcissists # 1 tool!
@rebeccalopez8817
Жыл бұрын
Dude my crush definitely watched this
@starofbtsgalaxy6058
8 ай бұрын
@rebeccalopez8817 absolutely same happened to me i think my crush watched it too
@vrindakapur2500
2 жыл бұрын
What you're referring to is called trauma bond and it's used by narcissists to have control over you so you get attached.
@sphereguanzon2217
2 жыл бұрын
Gonna do it rn thanks for the info
@sinazotame2411
2 жыл бұрын
@@sphereguanzon2217 🤣🤣😂
@jerm2614
Жыл бұрын
Narcissists get things done
@fleecejohnson6939
Жыл бұрын
@@sphereguanzon2217lmfao your crazy
@sreejithng1
Жыл бұрын
True
@thetorontogirl
Жыл бұрын
That's interesting because my ex basically did all these things to me and I ended up leaving. There is no attachment, only resentment and mental health problems.
@goobski
Жыл бұрын
Yes because every person is different. With different backgrounds & all so alot of that is taken into account when it comes to manipulation.
@nyamate4205
Жыл бұрын
It took me a while to do be firm and also do the same, girl🤜
@Overleb
Жыл бұрын
Because you are naive and still think Ukraine leader is a victim and innocent and you support the wrong ones
@Niaafr
Жыл бұрын
@@Overleb WOAH WHAT DID THIS COMMENT HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH WHAT YOU JUST SAID CHILL
@mai-chan
Жыл бұрын
@@Overleb you're acting like the ex
@CynthiaSchoenbauer
Жыл бұрын
Wow, you are revealing "TRICKS of the TRADE" for narcissists. You wonderful (nasty for narcs) person. I love you!
@foxie09
Жыл бұрын
So just love entirely yourself and don't depend on anyone for your value
@carlarondon6432
2 жыл бұрын
This is one of the mechanisms that narcissists use to make their victims attached to them
@miss_8thwonder752
Жыл бұрын
What is pleasure & validation About
@miss_8thwonder752
Жыл бұрын
appreciating the appearance, probably?
@aringupta03
Жыл бұрын
If their victims have high self esteem they wouldn't care that's why it is said super empaths are the worst nightmare of the narcissists ... super empaths have high self esteem
@Cute_Stuffs
Жыл бұрын
The moment someone becomes cold that’s when I run away to avoid being a victim of this technique 😅
@max-cs9ko
Жыл бұрын
Nobody can remain hot throughout each phase of relt, being cold is normal 😌😌
@somewhat1007
Жыл бұрын
Undortunately, at that point you’re probably already a victim. You can’t know by just one instance of them being cold. And if you pull away, you’ll still have that subconscious need of their niceness
@Iscream709
Жыл бұрын
Same here 😌😏
@onlyfrog
Жыл бұрын
i don't even run away to avoid being a victim, i simply do it because i can't handle their shit. i immediately get irritated and disgusted the moment someone starts to demand my love or do tricks to get my attention.
@Asianfever225
Жыл бұрын
As someone whose parents never taught him a thing this is very valuable information so I don’t get into a toxic situation with a female
@jennel064
2 жыл бұрын
Not me realizing I've been doing this to someone the whole time,& now I'm feeling bad :
@basirapopal7982
2 жыл бұрын
I really can get it can someone please explain how to do this?? I mean step by step??
@requiem.5016
2 жыл бұрын
@@basirapopal7982 are you okay in the head?
@basirapopal7982
2 жыл бұрын
@@requiem.5016 yeah I'm totally OK i just didn't get that so I thought there will be someone honest but I was wrong😬
@sumitdevre7109
2 жыл бұрын
@@basirapopal7982 it's technique like... I give u example so u can understand properly... So this technique is to give some one time love... And then act like ur to busy give her/him reply after 7-8 hours.. Treat her like shit... So her slef respect got hurt and she tried to chase u harder this time... Hope u can understand what I want to tell you..)
@jiyuu8723
2 жыл бұрын
I have been doing it for 3 years and i didn’t even know
@cancel29
2 жыл бұрын
I just realised someone did this to me…
@janaadam7834
2 жыл бұрын
Me too
@kuraoia
2 жыл бұрын
Same omg.
@sunipye7051
2 жыл бұрын
same 😭😭😭
@mr.unknown643
Жыл бұрын
Someone did this to me in 6th STD. And now after 5 years in 11th I still miss her 🥲...
@Polten
Жыл бұрын
@@mr.unknown643 unlucky, i know the feeling
@MindLightSeeker
Жыл бұрын
this is really important to be aware. My ex did this to me. i suffered a lot from it. Thanks for sharing this ❤
@Miggy___Love
6 ай бұрын
I had this experience and I'm not falling in this trap again. But I'm thankful for that experience...it taught me lessons and i always believe, everything happens for a reason
@maijaoranen6630
Жыл бұрын
So many people have done this to me it hurts me, I don't even know how to really love others anymore please don't do this. It's really toxic and can hurt others, physically or mentally.
@akibaabida8861
Жыл бұрын
Same here. Now a days, I don't want to be loved anymore. I want a peaceful successful life.
@mirelarajic888
Жыл бұрын
You must love yourself, then the rest will come.
@akibaabida8861
Жыл бұрын
@@mirelarajic888 thanks, I'll try my best.
@mirelarajic888
Жыл бұрын
@@akibaabida8861 just do what makes YOU happy and know whatever others do or say to us it just shows who they are. It's not about you. Wish you all the best. 🤗
@celinetreesa395
Жыл бұрын
girl, run away as soon as you can. It would be hard at first but believe me you will get over it in a few days or few weeks. It's better to be sad for a few days and be happy for the rest of your life than to be tested by some narcissists
@nb1393
Жыл бұрын
Fun fact, nobody will fall in love with you with this technique. You cannot gain love out of that. You gain dependency. People’s ego are going to be attached to you but that’s it. I have been in situation like that in the past and now I am in a loving relationship… I now realize that I have never been in love with my ex.
@mariacle2753
Жыл бұрын
This. This right here is it. 💓🥂
@favs_Mary
Жыл бұрын
this!!
@nishthagupta1357
Жыл бұрын
Dependency is more loyal than love nowadays bro. They think love does not exist & just want to make someone dependent on them so they feel like its love actually... But it's a tactic to use people go get something out of them & to not end up alone actually.
@nb1393
Жыл бұрын
@@nishthagupta1357 ok but I have experienced both, dependency is a nightmare, your relationship is based on fear you are not yourself and it consumes you. Love is so much different, way better, it’s actually the complete opposite. Now if you feel like you need to use those techniques in order for someone to stay loyal and attached to you, that’s a very sad thing.
@nishthagupta1357
Жыл бұрын
@@nb1393 yes.. That's a sad thing. But narcissistic people think like that bro. They don't believe in love at all due to past traumas or just the devil's soul inside of them. Whatever that is, they are just the worst person actually. They don't wanna be alone so they use a persona and makes people dependent on them actually.
@evao.731
8 ай бұрын
Sounds familiar like someone is doing this to me 😮im glad u came up on my algorithm 😊thank you! I'll ignore that person
@eiffelparis2946
Жыл бұрын
Narcissistic lesson👏love bombing & ghosting
@sonias9722
Жыл бұрын
It also makes them hate, mistrust and revenge you. This is a recipe for a toxic relationship
@rishikulshrestha4625
Жыл бұрын
actually not if u use it properly, and many guys n girls use it unknowingly in relationship. even frnds use it. its only depends on how u are attached to that person.
@Analaya749
Жыл бұрын
Any stable, smart person wouldn’t fall for this. I’ll drop someone and anyone so quick the second I’m treated like shit. Protect yourself at all costs.
@jackalope2302
Жыл бұрын
It's actually explains why I have a hard time letting go when the relationship goes bad.
@mariamali2183
Жыл бұрын
same. just realized
@ANDCFC95
10 ай бұрын
Yeah reminds me of my precious relationship
@georgetteboateng5211
8 ай бұрын
This is absolutely true i fell victim before and now it's my turn to be the controller and ill eagerly do it better than those who did it to me there's just no room for loving anymore🤦🏾♀️
@learnitnow6265
7 ай бұрын
This will not work on a healthy person. Once they understand what's going on they will leave. I had no idea about narcissism. The person i loved did exactly this. It did not make me chase him or lose self esteem. I simply wanted to know wtf was going on so i just gave him space. Instead it caused me to realize i had been too nice to him even when i saw all the red flags. After processing the heartbreak of him pulling away and ignoring me I got stronger and told myself I deserve better. Anyone who does this is insecure and has low self esteem and feels the need to have power over others in order to boost their ego.
@sphgg_
2 жыл бұрын
Please NEVER EVER do this to anyone. An EX friend of mine does this with lots of her friends. She has done it to me as well and it really hurts. This doesn't make people fall in love with you or be closer to you, it just makes them emotionally dependant to you. Beware of this behaviour and if someone does it to you, RUN AWAY FROM THAT SITUATION ASAP
@mikemierspadios7036
Жыл бұрын
For average person 90% of population ,u can't run away. Cause it's in ur head 👿. Only one who can escape this is if a person being targeted is also a manipulator cause they can read it. Manipulator vs manipulator.
@reefatsayyad1279
Жыл бұрын
Honestly if someone withdraws from me it's a biggest distraction for me, won't chase such people at all. To keep me attracted I love consistency n dedication, give me that.
@nessahughes4175
Ай бұрын
Amen..
@naskad1
Жыл бұрын
That's f***cked up sad , evil, and immoral but true statement.
@Amour786
5 ай бұрын
"Don't Play with someone's feeling....it really hurts more than we could ever imagine..."
@nict5828
3 ай бұрын
What comes around comes around.
@smoothlikewater160
Жыл бұрын
People with high self esteem and strong sense of individuality don't become a prey to this tactic and this frustrates the narcissistic.. 🤣🤣
@edenhope6273
Жыл бұрын
Just be careful not to encounter a kind, loving person who has full of love & forgives you first cause that person's Karma doesn't recognize anyone.
@ishpreetgulati8562
11 ай бұрын
What do you mean
@anikethchakraborty3238
10 ай бұрын
@@ishpreetgulati8562it means don't mess with good people
@osiris8519
10 ай бұрын
It's all well and dandy until the narcissist meets a psychopath.
@NT-lo2ul
Жыл бұрын
Definitely the first one makes a person chase you but once the second person realizes it, the first one ends up broken, lonely, and labelled toxic...😂😂
@madeonearth6506
6 ай бұрын
This works for sure. It’s human nature to fall for this and it’s very damaging to do to someone. When I was a little younger I had a female friend (I’m a guy) for about a year and a half, we were so close and had such an amazing connection and I fell in love with her. Treating me this way really left a mark on my mind, it’s really something because it utilizes your feelings for them and uses them to punish you. You default to seeing love as your weakness and a flaw in your ability to remain sane.
@sxrge8399
2 жыл бұрын
So basically do a sasuke technique
@rafikaubameyangisme1416
2 жыл бұрын
BRO-😂😂
@maxis_zurausz1745
2 жыл бұрын
Lmfao fr 🤣🤣🤣
@hgp-heistgamingpriest3979
2 жыл бұрын
Bro you made my day man I laughed the hell out of my life 🤣🤣
@sxrge8399
2 жыл бұрын
@@hgp-heistgamingpriest3979 good to hear
@bdaarmy9736
2 жыл бұрын
What did sasuke do?
@pragyankakati3092
Жыл бұрын
Be focused on yourself (your goals/dreams)and don't break this rule...you will thank me later:)
@qubashaikh4118
10 ай бұрын
Ikrr ;)
@magwambui8251
9 ай бұрын
True...wow
@javieralvarez5956
Жыл бұрын
Thank you, even though I had a closure, I still felt attached, feeling I could have done more and blaming myself on her irrational conduct... I have been suffering for the last 3 weeks trying to rationalize why I was feeling this way. I can finally let go of the idea that she was worth all this pain and suffering...
@dc_latername9064
9 ай бұрын
As a guy, I can sense when I'm being played and it instantly turns me off and I quit contacting that person, even if I think they're playing me, because they want me to like them more. I find it fake, toxic, and as unattractive as it gets.
@ottoescobar4241
Жыл бұрын
Yup, my ex did this to me and broke up with me thru text message he thought I would beg him or chased him back. I did not I knew what he was doing all along and he’s the want the wanted the relationship again which I took control and took my energy back to love myself first. This is what a narcissist person would do when they feel they loose control on someone.
@utsaharya5463
10 ай бұрын
Hell yes !!
@brandic89
Жыл бұрын
If anyone does this to you intentionally, don't even sit around waiting for them or bother yourself wasting mental and emotional energy over it.
@crimson6172
11 ай бұрын
This will most likely backfire. Once you start going cold, the person will just leave you alone entirely. That's the most realistic scenario that is going to happen.
@Awakened_Rich
7 ай бұрын
Nah not always
@daniellecharming
Жыл бұрын
I am reflecting deeply on this video. Thank you for the new tips and facilitating a shift in my thinking.
@canankizil
2 жыл бұрын
This is so true but please do not try that. Someone made this tactic on me and I obsessively attached to him. I even don't wanna to remember that days, I experienced many bad events because of him. But then, like about 2 months after this event, I stop loving and obsessing him. And I hated him because of his painful actions to me. For that reason don't use that on your crush ör something, they will obsess to you first but then they will hate you and never give a chance to you their whole life...
@fierymoth4330
Жыл бұрын
Someone did this to me and it destroyed me, im still recovering by myself and im an easy target. I cut the guy off my life but my so called friends i feel like they are using manipulation tactics on me 😢. So tired of existing everyday trying to protect my mental health
@canankizil
Жыл бұрын
@@fierymoth4330 I was like that 1,5 years ago. Please don't be sad. You will not destroy yourself, I believe. These type of guys are so bad. When I wrote that comment, I was hating him but now I even don't hate. He is just a normal guy. I don't care about him. You will be like that. Please don't cry or finish your life energy. He would not worth that 💔
@ItsMe-lt2kz
Жыл бұрын
This is very true, I had a boyfriend who was so attentive, sweet, and loving, then one day he cheated on me, it hurt so much, he broke up with me saying it was him not me blah blah… I hurt so much, I could t let go, I was so depressed, that when he called me back to say sorry and wanted me back, I went back because I wanted his validation. On the other hand I’ve done this too unknowingly, this person was obsessed with me, and still is after years, he still continues to have feeling, and I figured this is why. 😳
@dreperez7373
Жыл бұрын
Dark indeed. What you put out comes back though so you’ve been warned🤷🏾♂️
@randomdude9664
7 ай бұрын
1. Be nice 2. Be not nice 3. Be nice again :)
@jenniferpachuau856
Жыл бұрын
Nah, if you're distant, I become more distant...if you go cold, i go away....far awayyyyyyyy.... Sayonara!
@O-02
8 ай бұрын
Not if you love someone
@jenniferpachuau856
8 ай бұрын
@@O-02 Words without action is just a manipulation.
@O-02
7 ай бұрын
@@jenniferpachuau856 you're right
@kailaniloveshellokitty
2 жыл бұрын
i just realized this is what my ex did😭
@MajharulAsif
Жыл бұрын
Be happy
@praveshchahar2379
Жыл бұрын
does this work?
@MajharulAsif
Жыл бұрын
@@praveshchahar2379 it worked
@TheJwwinter
Жыл бұрын
Most exes are born with this ability, they don't learn this or are even aware they are doing it.
@saneesha1111
Жыл бұрын
same🙂
@onlyfrog
Жыл бұрын
that's literally what abusive partners do to create dependency in their victims so they feel like they can't live without the abuser. that's what you'll be if you use this "technique", an abuser cultivating a victim. you're nurturing dependency, suffering and trauma in the person, not love. also, it will only work on someone who's already fragile or didn't/doesn't receive proper love, which makes even clearer that we're talking about unhealthy relationships here.
@Lisaderruck55
Жыл бұрын
My ex husband narcissist. This shit will kill a person. Leave them when they do this
@naomimara3340
Жыл бұрын
That is sick and dangerous! Purposely creating trauma bond and enmeshed relationship? It cannot bring any good to either of them. People, don't do it. At least those sick people have some kind of explanation (not justification) for doing that..but for a healthy individual to use this conciously... be prepared for consequences. Playing with fire.
@saharkh4342
Жыл бұрын
This happened to me that I would never EVER do it to anyone and I'm not even that nice of a person.
@abhishaa29
11 ай бұрын
I bet my ex really loved this video of yours! 😊
@easyonenow
Жыл бұрын
Why you have to build self esteem in yourself and most importantly your kids.
@Champagne4loulou
Жыл бұрын
Currently trying to leave a relationship in which this was the main method of manipulation. I have to remind myself that it's not love but a trauma bond!
@jasminerc3240
2 жыл бұрын
Damn, so this is why I don’t forget about him
@3Hanuu3
2 жыл бұрын
You will,believe me. I hope someone will show you that you worth more than this. I was dating manipulator and it was ...aghht... But somehow I met someone who took their time to show me I deserve much more and that it's not love...im manipulated... The moment I realized it myself was the day that one look at my ex made me sick.
@YOULOOKSOPERFECT
10 ай бұрын
That's so messed up;-; thx for making us aware:))
@sljf555
8 ай бұрын
Growing up in a toxic, narcissistic home teaches you all of these techniques early on, I’ve always been able to identify them from a mile away. The best way to respond to that behaviour is to not respond emotionally, step to one side and keep moving forward without looking back. It often has a boomerang effect and drives them insane.
@yesand2339
Жыл бұрын
Did my mom know this all along?
@Erica-vd6gw
Жыл бұрын
how to get a toxic relationship in 3 steps:
@sravyavivek6268
8 ай бұрын
A person with self esteem will counter attack and give a shit back to them in more intense format ! Be careful it can backfire very badly !!
@stelasenna9927
Жыл бұрын
That’s what narcissists life by 😂
@luvvvzyr
2 жыл бұрын
Omg, just realized that someone is doing this to me… this explains everything. Thank u for telling me
@amnasharif3926
2 жыл бұрын
I did it without even knowing like they're are people i talk to and then they get really attached n clingy so i distant myself and they go crazy but i always felt that's just their attachment
@Alexandraahlblad
Жыл бұрын
This literally happened to me and I just thought oh they mustve lost interest or they are playing games. Turned out he was trying to play games and I broke up with him. I think this works on people who don’t yet value themseleves enough or doesn’t know what true love should feel like. And hopefully everyone would realize. We all deserve the true shit not the manipulative 💩
@theresadelgigante4050
7 ай бұрын
Thank you for your videos!... They, "hurt like hell"💔😔 But it helps to know!!...
@Shikanionheizou
Жыл бұрын
Wow the amount of times people’ve done this to me without me knowing is insane
@adityaanantha1134
Жыл бұрын
Don’t seek validation from Anyone You are the master of your fate you are the captain of your Soul .
@AmyasTech
9 ай бұрын
as someone with insecurities and traumatized childhood who was never acknowledged by their parents and always shooed off. if someone did this to me I'll be broken that no one can repair. I think that's why I'm afraid of affection and closed relationship. I already feel that I'm not worthy and deserve anything.
@thetruth40026
Ай бұрын
You deserve more than you think you do
@truthh8597
Жыл бұрын
Basically what narcissists and psychopaths do
@hereforthelove159
Жыл бұрын
Omg 😲 😱 I think this just got me over my .... person i don't feel like thinking about anymore 😳 ... Thank you for the videos xx
@celinetreesa395
Жыл бұрын
Basically this wasn't done by my ex. It was a friend whom I loved despite her annoying behavior. She was the only one I had at my school cuz I was new there. After a few weeks, She started doing this to me and I was weeping like a baby and was craving for her attention. I was literally struggling to bring the friendaship like the way it was. When I realized that there is no hope. My anxiety got higher. I felt dizzy and nauseous every morning on my way to school. Literally got an eating disorder. Became way more skinny than I was. But I came over it and I'm mentally strong now. I'm just literally trolling, shading and avoiding her all the way I could. I know that's not good but considering what she has done to me. That's just not enough. I act around her like she doesn't even exist. Don't know why, Avoiding some negative auras brutally genuinely makes me so happy.
@sonamalika3573
11 ай бұрын
Exactly this is what happened to me....she avoided me for no reason..... I tried my level best to know what was the reason..i have experienced a lot of stress.... Actually im a infj person I thought My mental health is more important Then i stopped cared...and started avoiding here...i don't even see her..... Then she automatically started talking to me ..i answered for wht she asked .. like a strange She cannot tolerate that..still she is trying to approach me ... I done with her...no more contact now...these people are narssists... they try to manipulate us....we need to stay away for our own mental peace
@celinetreesa395
11 ай бұрын
@@sonamalika3573 same, I was so much happy after I started avoiding her
@gracestingray
Ай бұрын
Well , I remember that I did that to my ex as well and I was so controlling on him and I felt like “this…is…WRONG !” And I revealed my true colours for the guy and he forgave me and really attached to me , I still couldn’t forgive myself and I know that I don’t deserve his love so I made up a plan to make him into my disabled sister and both got married and have a beautiful life , they now have 2 daughters , you know what ; I still to this day can’t forgive myself about that but I am glad that I repaid my faults/sin by making him fall in love with my own sister instead
@Ace-po4bp
Жыл бұрын
Just don't get attached period- This doesn't mean being cold Distant or mean. Be kind to yourself first and to others Don't entertain others toxic behaviors and Always try to be the bigger person and always choose the most positive choices that creates a balance for your energy and the One's around you
@rinkyrajput7430
Жыл бұрын
I agree to this absolutely.. have gone through this and realised it by my self and have stopped giving validation. And now the person holds no value in my life. I just saw the post and feels very confident of my self.
@pubgshawsomali
2 ай бұрын
Genius girl!!I really appreciate👏👏
@YukonFox1972
Жыл бұрын
Narcissistic Trauma Bonding 101
@Soo_Blessed
Жыл бұрын
THIS also TEACHES people to form boundaries because they don't want to feel like shit And when you're naive kid you love people you think they're going to love you back the same way and that THEY'RE not going to be conniving and self-centered and derelicts but there's many many in this world until you have come up against them and you realize there's evil in the world this happens BUT what goes around comes around that makes me SMILE to think about it
@rafiasyed2756
Жыл бұрын
Don't forget self respect exist... Just never chase anyone. My rule
@salvia1264
10 ай бұрын
Consciousness is capable of SO much more than you realize in your day-to-day life. You have NO IDEA what you're missing out on.
@braineytroyandbracci
7 ай бұрын
Yay! Bring it on my self esteem is intact no matter how he treats me❤
@mariyabardarska5895
Жыл бұрын
None of that would lead to falling in "love", love comes from the strongest parts of us, when we genuinely want to nourish and take care of each other. This thing is for weak and insecure people preying on others' weaknesses and insecurities. And btw no woman who's realised her value and has self respect, would form an attraction to someone treating her like shit. The opposite. The more you mistreat her, the more she'll see you for the weak man you are and will naturally lose attraction, and walk away. So really, whoever does this (man or woman) should really try to look inside and ask themselves why they feel so empty and hollow that they'd need to play with someone's mind and heart like that, when they have no intention of ever following up on the feelings they have awoken within that person. What you're seeking is validation, not love. To make up for your own sense of inferiority. Quite frankly, people like that are actually incapable of genuine love, no matter how much they deeply crave it.
@starsinthebluesky
Жыл бұрын
I'm actually experiencing this... one boy said I was cute with a bright smile to his friend( I overheard this conversation becuz he was in the back of the bus) even showed that like he is considerate of me staring me when I speak with my friend but now a days he is avoiding me... going and sitting in the 2 seats before me ... I was confused why he is behaving like that but now I understood...
@nict5828
3 ай бұрын
Sometimes people do shit they dont even know.
@armenaa9729
9 ай бұрын
I didn't even do the chasing, they would hurt me then follow it up by showering me with love & empty promises. Even when i blocked them, they used multiple numbers to vacuum me back in...thank goodness I left, but a year too late & also after physical abuse. Be safe everyone 💛
@gracieholden1035
2 жыл бұрын
dude you are so pretty 😭
@theselenophile
2 жыл бұрын
I'm pretty agree with this but it's really a toxic technique
@basirapopal7982
2 жыл бұрын
Please someone explain me this step by step I really can get this
@sphereguanzon2217
2 жыл бұрын
Welp gonna add this to my list
@theenlightenedone8032
Жыл бұрын
@@sphereguanzon2217 you are making list like Me? I'm also doing Research on Dark Psychology. I think we should exchange our research. Are you interested in it?
@ashamore2351
Жыл бұрын
Thanks for bringing this to it made clear to see how people treat us , y brake up happens y male manipulate
@aphroditekerylidis7000
Ай бұрын
So true! It was done to me in the past and it drove me insane!
@ishratrahman6714
Жыл бұрын
That's hot and cold relationship I guess. At one time the significant other behave so lovey-dovey caring and another time they become so distant. Consequently, a sense of insecurity, feeling unloved, feeling not enough and all kinds of shit feelings are born. Unfortunately, it has become so difficult for me to believe in any form of affection from guys who wants to persue me. literally feel like they are trying to trap me, then will use my feelings and after that the bond will die horribly like nothing ever happened! Idk how to get out of it. So I just reject everything before anyone tries to take the connection any far.
@singletotakentv9583
Жыл бұрын
How do they become distant?
@ishratrahman6714
Жыл бұрын
not actually 'listening' to what his or her partner is saying (emotionally unavailable), making lame excuses when being asked something (not being sincere/genuine), action does not reflect 'promises or words' or so I think so. Experience may vary from one person to another.
@Rose-nx5fd
8 ай бұрын
This was my relationship. So painful. I can't understand why a person would cause so much pain to someone like this. Narcissist tactics 😢
@Rose-nx5fd
8 ай бұрын
Eight months apart and I can't get over the pain. Don't want any one in my life
@Rose-nx5fd
8 ай бұрын
I wish I had come across this three years ago😢
@amberr2490
2 жыл бұрын
me realising my boyfriend does this….
@thecharlesedward
Жыл бұрын
I fell in love with your channel 😅
@deveshsingh1863
6 ай бұрын
Thanks for your knowledge.
@emayan06
Жыл бұрын
Nah soon as you start acting funny and pullling away, I’m already talking to another man 🤣
@scottstone1475
Жыл бұрын
of course you are.. your for the streets..
@gulamnabi506
Жыл бұрын
Of course you're a pro sti tute
@emayan06
Жыл бұрын
@@scottstone1475 you ain’t gotta deal with me so why you mad
@emayan06
Жыл бұрын
@@gulamnabi506 a person that has sex for money?? Um no I just dgaf . Don’t have to put up with someone acting funny .
@walkingalive1093
Жыл бұрын
@@emayan06 sounds like your previous dude dodged a bullet then
@ashokasok020
Жыл бұрын
This is how narcissists do 😂😂
@nazaraliyunusov
7 ай бұрын
Oooooooh😮that was the thing that I really needed🤩🤩🤩 thank you sooo much for sharing it with us❤
@SnakhoMdabe
Ай бұрын
She is literally describing the way my girlfriend has been treating me lately and I've been so insecure these days which hurts
@politiciangoku7089
Жыл бұрын
My gf thinks im doing this to her when in reality im just busy with work and business. 🙄😥
@stutisinha2404
Жыл бұрын
It's ok man.......just talk it out and explain how you also feel bad when she thinks like that about you and how much you love her..... Don't make her feel like she is attached, make her feel like home. Everything is going to be fine, keep faith
@ElizabethUkeh
Жыл бұрын
If you can't handle a relationship while doing business, maybe you should let her go than keep disappointing her.
@TheJwwinter
Жыл бұрын
@@ElizabethUkeh wtf. May be his gf cant handle a relationship and needs to learn about life and stop living in a dream world.
@onlyfrog
Жыл бұрын
LMFAO same. not with gf, but same. the reality is that i'm just busy and autistic, so i rarely have energy for being social.
@kionkasoka4964
Жыл бұрын
sums up my ex.. I hope anyone who's with someone like that finds the strength to leave, cause it just ain't worth it to stay.
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