That’s crazy I came across a random video a week or so, about Rwanda 🇷🇼 (I knew nothing about Rwanda apart the movie Hotel Rwanda) and I watched it and it’s mind blowing not only the woman looks like where I am from (Eritrea) but also how very similar the culture is to my culture like almost 100% even the character I thought it was only as a bit shy ☺️ well I see why my next holiday destination is Rwanda 🇷🇼 ✌️
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
whoohoo, very nice. 🥳 see you in Rwanda than 😁
@rehma5148
2 жыл бұрын
Welcome
@tendies
6 жыл бұрын
You made me understand myself better, thanks.
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
Glad to have helped
@daisyumutoni8957
5 жыл бұрын
I could say the same
@Afroxidental123
6 жыл бұрын
Wow I really liked this video! I really thought that the shyness/passive attitude, that the "no display of public affection" was for my family only, but now I just get that it's quite impregnated in our Rwandan DNA!!
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
whahah, nope. its a rwandan thing! lol
@gloriamutoni5137
6 жыл бұрын
Same here..narinzi ko ari ikibazo cyo murugo gusa
@nessaduh8033
6 жыл бұрын
I like the attire Theo. Very dashing 😏
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
thank you, its for special occasions, like valentine's day 😁LoL
@dotunn
3 жыл бұрын
Honestly this sounds almost exactly like Nigerian culture, so similar
@jean2706
Жыл бұрын
I'm rwandan man and all i can tell you is the more you do indirect moves with a rwandan girl/boy the more things will go faster!!! generally rwandans are so passive in all kind of interactions(including dating).it can mislead someone who is not aware thinking that the rwandan girl/boy is not interested. Don't ever try to rush things with a rwandan woman.Just take your time!
@martinkaloki2677
6 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm Kenyan. Rwandese folks sound like great people actually
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
Hallo, they are :) LOL
@izdesie508
4 жыл бұрын
Well, Thank you
@patbo_
3 жыл бұрын
I'm from DRC but I really love rwandese people. I hope one day I will mary a rwandan
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
yeah, go for it
@mukamiyouness9299
5 жыл бұрын
Am from Kenya dating a Rwandese guy,this will end up to marriage.
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
great to hear
@Tunawesmake
5 жыл бұрын
Dada zake wako wapi?
@ChrissC0
4 жыл бұрын
YouNess Frank😍😍
@Millyosodo
4 жыл бұрын
@@Tunawesmake tuko hapa lol
@Tunawesmake
4 жыл бұрын
@@Millyosodo :-) nice! Uko Kenya ama Rwanda?
@amalali8712
3 жыл бұрын
This is so similar to us Somali’s but a wishy washy man talking to multiple options or being hot/cold with his pursuit sees his stock plummet as it contradicts him being decisive and someone who would care for you. I know it works opposite in many cultures. Thank you for the cultural insight. Other elements of your culture would be interesting also.
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
you are welcome. thank you for your insights
@yahiakubara7446
4 жыл бұрын
I’m from north Khartoum Sudan 🇸🇩 lives in USA 🇺🇸 im really looking forward for Rwanda’s woman
@anicetndayishimiye5878
6 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry for lonelness all Rwandans who are abroad. Hope u'll visit Rwanda one day.I'm luck that I still live in my motherland
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
Lol, yeah hope to visit Rwanda soon
@tarigelshafie9950
4 жыл бұрын
Woo I didn't knew that you got KZitem channel bro keep it up proud of you
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah thanks
@Max-xg9tx
6 жыл бұрын
New subscriber from the Caribbean here!
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
welcome!
@Thami-vm1hc
5 жыл бұрын
Which part of caribe?
@DukundaneEtienne
4 ай бұрын
Hello
@alicesam6467
3 жыл бұрын
I love this video so much...am from Kenya and I fell in love with a rwandanese guy and we have been dating for 3months now....and i hope this video will help me much
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
ooh nice. good luck
@Chilbuli_Baby
6 жыл бұрын
Heeey , thank you soo much 4 this !!! I loved the unwritten rules, can you do a whole video on it or even a two part extensive video? It can be soo completely confusing and easy too embarrass yourself or offend someone in social functions. And i've felt like they form they're opinion or judgment about you quite fast. And the worst part is that Rwandans are too polite soo no one will correct you or offer any advices because they're extremely polite and shy😅
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
whaha, that is very true! Don't worry too much about that, they will eventually come around when they realise that you have good intentions. Just insist on your request for help, in a nice way ;)
@daromaka3750
5 жыл бұрын
Enlightening intro, Loving Rwanda
@ruthnjeri4659
2 жыл бұрын
Hi, am from Kenya. I love Rwanda, and i am sure will get married in Rwanda
@theoisback
2 жыл бұрын
yes, go for it!
@DignaK
6 жыл бұрын
I'm dating a Rwandan. He's amazing...😍😍😍😍
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
huhuh, lucky guy! :)
@benitheisingizwe
6 жыл бұрын
tameika cooper it's depends on whom u met , he/she can be either best or worse but as a rwandese we hide our feelings, for example every person here when u ask how are u ? Everybody say I'm fine
@ChrissC0
4 жыл бұрын
@tameika cooper inbox me
@frankdee5980
3 жыл бұрын
Another v good one, Theo. Very clear, simple and warm narrative; similar to many other places. An interesting topic. Made our Valentine's day meaningful. Good Luck, bro.
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
ooh nice. thank you
@lydian5762
6 жыл бұрын
Waaaaayaminute!! did you say house for dowry??? who did that? uh!
@christophergwala5531
3 жыл бұрын
You represent Rwanda exceptionally well. What a bright future you have before you👏🌹💃❤️
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
thank you brother
@iniscrollz3801
2 жыл бұрын
I am Nigerian, but I love the Rwandese woman. Cool, calm, & put together...I hope I get married, to one someday💌
@elle19ism
6 жыл бұрын
Awesome video! I'm a Rwandan living abroad so it's likely that I will marry someone who's not Rwandan. There are very few Rwandan guys here who are my age. But I can relate to all those points you mentioned and I hope that whoever I date in the future will have the same mindset. Also, can you please do a part 2 of the traditional dance video?
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
Well, i am sure there are some other Rwandans living where you are, even though you haven't met them yet. Rwandans tend to live low key, so keep an eye out. I will talk to Bijoux and see how we can do a part 2 of traditional dance. I have gotten many requests now :)
@elle19ism
6 жыл бұрын
theoisback yeah I will definitely keep an eye out. Hopefully you'll both be able to sort something out for part 2. Even if you can't, I'm enjoying these videos so thank you for your hard work
@elle19ism
6 жыл бұрын
Tuza Bona I live close to Manchester. Wbu?
@elle19ism
6 жыл бұрын
Tuza Bona there is good number of Rwandans here, but most of them are either children or people over the age of 30. So to find Rwandans like me who are in their 20s is really difficult. What about Germany? P.S. I just saw you comment below. Happy belated birthday 🎂
@elle19ism
6 жыл бұрын
Tuza Bona you're welcome! And thank you for telling me a little about your life in Germany. It's always good to hear about other Rwandan people's experiences
@pearlspeed1731
6 жыл бұрын
uve really improved my kinyarwanda
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
nice to hear
@howzany6832
6 жыл бұрын
Very nice video, you have a great personality and are well spoken.
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
aah, thank you for the kind words
@marionjumba4566
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks your videos are beneficial .Am not rwandan but am dating one. am yet to learn the dance and perfect my kinyarwanda. Keep the videos coming.
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
great to hear. i will make more video than :)
@uwanziga
5 жыл бұрын
“Manners in Rwanda” book can help you sweetie...learning the language and the culture.
@janinemuhawe3231
5 жыл бұрын
Awesome 👏🏻
@barneystn7521
6 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is 100% accurate
@Moniquemani
4 жыл бұрын
Am dating a rwandese guy, and he is the sweetest man i've ever met.. 😜😘
@evankirote9952
4 жыл бұрын
Tell him i want his brother lol..i love them all the way from kenya.
@dankayonde7749
3 жыл бұрын
@@evankirote9952 love you kenyans are good people, i am employed by company owned by Kenyans-Rwanda branch but they are good people. Love Nkirote
@evankirote9952
3 жыл бұрын
@@dankayonde7749 that awesome
@dankayonde7749
3 жыл бұрын
@@evankirote9952 but they like money so much🙆😀. Are you proposing to visit Rwanda??
@evankirote9952
3 жыл бұрын
@@dankayonde7749 money is very important every one like it who wants poverty 🙄🙄
@Sidico7
2 жыл бұрын
Those 7 things are applicable to the entire continent... I'm from Angola.
@wanjiku6695
2 жыл бұрын
Quite true.
@theoisback
Жыл бұрын
awesome
@eonacademy5036
3 жыл бұрын
Marry the whole family is a truth in the whole world and all countries I think... 😺
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
yepp
@jewel3567
5 жыл бұрын
Good video Theo.
@apsmith71
5 жыл бұрын
So how does it work when the man assumes a traditional role - protector, provider, paying the bills as you say - and then, like it is here in the west plenty of women can't cook, can't take care of the house and seem more infatuated in IG and YoutTube than taking care of their house. How do Rwandans deal with that?
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
Hmmn.. interesting. Then you have 2 choices. A. You teach her if she wants to learn. B. Find another lady. If it bothers you that much, she is probably also bothered by the fact that it bothers you. So don''t put a ring on it yet, until you have found the one you match best with.
@princessshaniah5461
5 жыл бұрын
Ok now I want a guy from Rwanda
@nelsonnyangole3922
4 жыл бұрын
I like your video mate it had an open up opportunity for visiting Rowand
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
did you visit it?
@natty6247
3 жыл бұрын
Rwanda*
@sheystruggletube8124
4 жыл бұрын
Theo your a great patriot. I admire all your efforts in selling your culture and exposing the Great Rwanda to the world for Tourism. Though this your platform I was able to visit the great Kigali city and I saw thing for myself. Keep it up bro. 💖💖💖 cant wait to be back.
@beatriceopingo4313
4 жыл бұрын
Am a Kenyan and I am dating a Rwandan guy very proud of him❤️❤️
@beatriceopingo4313
4 жыл бұрын
Same her💪💕💕
@rashadnoora9721
5 жыл бұрын
Great video
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
thank you
@aishabigset
6 жыл бұрын
Long time no see• Its like dating a burundian
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
lol, i can imagine 😄
@gloriamutoni5137
6 жыл бұрын
Sister countries..you know
@mihigojo3095
4 жыл бұрын
Burundi and Rwanda only name of countries differ from each other but people are the same same culture same language same in all kind from same grand grand parent.
@zachandmom23
2 жыл бұрын
Theo knows Rwandans that I do.
@saafiy
2 жыл бұрын
I am Rwandan, this is true 😄
@theoisback
2 жыл бұрын
yeah 😊
@Mmm-ve7hy
6 жыл бұрын
We have same thing mostly what yuh say , in Somali people 😀😀😀😊
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
Really? Nice to know :)
@nujuumarts6307
5 жыл бұрын
I thought iam the only somali person here very true they r similar
@veedubrep
4 жыл бұрын
I'm American and I'd love to date once of these beautiful and intelligent Rwandan women.
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
You should
@rashadnoora9721
5 жыл бұрын
Some of rwandan words are very similar to my language, I was really impressed
@oooooookay281
3 жыл бұрын
@A M probably swahili or Burundais many words in kinyarwanda are similar to Swahili and Burundi its even more similar since Rwanda and Burundi were once one kingdom before the colonisation
@oooooookay281
3 жыл бұрын
It's normal in Rwandan culture it's like taboo if a girl takes the first step, everyone is gonna talk behind her back mostly the aunties
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
yeah, but you don't have to share your business your aunties.
@wilfriedanaganze9246
5 жыл бұрын
I like your blog 👍🏾
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
whahah, it is still coming 🙈
@07Dieudonne
6 жыл бұрын
Leuk gedaan kerel!
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
dankje man
@storyplace3612
4 жыл бұрын
I met a gal from Rwanda and was curious about how much I should expect to pay for a dowry if that happens
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
The best thing is to talk to her and her family. there is no fixed amount
@storyplace3612
4 жыл бұрын
@@theoisback Thank you Theo. They said that as well.
@mamasandy7986
6 жыл бұрын
Theo where to you live?thanks for ur videos by the way... I will be visiting this coming October,I cannot wait..need some help
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
Now im living in the Netherlands. Have fun in Rwanda though
@s.p.5213
4 жыл бұрын
@@theoisbackHi... Why did you leave? I was told by a Nigerian, Ghanaian, and a Kenyan that instead of repatriating to The Gambia, that I should check Rwanda first. I also lost 48lbs and am preparing to enter a Wellness fitness competition so finding a country in Africa that will not impede my lifestyle is important. So far I have The Gambia, Tanzania, Rwanda, Kenya, and Ghana in that order. Please give me the 411 on how to find the expats in Rwanda and of those 5 countries, which do you think would be most modernized and compatible with a fitness lifestyle. Thanks in advance.
@beeempirestv7025
3 жыл бұрын
Hello Sandrine my name is Eric ntuye mu Rwanda ese twaba inshuti byaba tukamenyana nyandikira kuri WhatsApp +250784070081 murakoze cyane
@Sangwa-o6m
6 жыл бұрын
True!
@uwanziga
5 жыл бұрын
Super
@kkazimotomusa8804
3 жыл бұрын
hai
@kkazimotomusa8804
3 жыл бұрын
are you rwandan?
@r0sewanjiru928
2 жыл бұрын
Am Kenya dating a rwadese guy hope it will end to marriage
@gbonnita
4 жыл бұрын
Am Rwandan 😂but this is how true we’re 🇷🇼
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
haha, very true idd
@marc8485
2 жыл бұрын
Rwandese living in Uganda are the opposite they are crazy , i took my Ugandan vibe and craziness to kigali i was disappointed majority of rwandese where so introverted 😂😂 ..in east africa kenyans are more lively ..i love rwandese tho especially their ladies ..thanks for the video mate
@theoisback
2 жыл бұрын
haha thanks for sharing indeed
@blessedm58
3 жыл бұрын
Your research a 💯
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
always keeping it 💯
@s.konyine1469
5 жыл бұрын
am rwandan , am sorry but your wrong boy friend means lover and a lover means umukunzi in kinyarwanda
@mapulesefara1090
5 жыл бұрын
Hey, South African lady here looking for Rwandan man, can you hook sister up?
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
whaha of course!
@ChrissC0
4 жыл бұрын
Mapure sefata inbox me
@PatrickNiyonzima1
4 жыл бұрын
Happy new year my dearest, I'm Patrick from Rwanda
@abdullahihassanibrahim646
6 жыл бұрын
awesome and nice video. my question is if I marry a Rwandan woman can I get Rwandan nationality? if I'm from another African country for example....
@mohamudomar9105
6 жыл бұрын
Yaan dadku kula yaabin.... sharci raadis baa lagu moodin ha na ceebeen fadlan... reer magaal iska dhig
@abdullahihassanibrahim646
6 жыл бұрын
M. Omar I'm sorry I didn't get you, I speak only English, Arabic, Fulani and Hausa, I live in Nigeria... please explain your answer into English, thanks
@abdullahihassanibrahim646
6 жыл бұрын
please I'm waiting for your translation
@benitheisingizwe
6 жыл бұрын
Sure yes
@abdullahihassanibrahim646
6 жыл бұрын
Benithe isingizwe thanks please can you translate what m. omar wrote on top in English
@ScorpioTV515
5 жыл бұрын
Am dating a rwandan man
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
good for you :)
@nickielifestyle
5 жыл бұрын
Run my dear 😂😂😂😂
@ScorpioTV515
5 жыл бұрын
What do you mean @Ishimwe Winnie Nicole?why I run?
@davidvavra9113
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@theoisback
2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome
@sayedfarhan5859
4 жыл бұрын
I think Rwanda culture wil be easy for somali people because is almost same
@amediter5670
5 жыл бұрын
How much is the dowry? How is it determined? Who sets the amount? Is it negotiable? (I'm a diaspora African)
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
its negotiable. it depends on your (family's) wealth at the moment of marriage.
@amediter5670
5 жыл бұрын
@@theoisback Thank you so much for the reply
@africanlabel4780
2 жыл бұрын
Can a Rwandese girl get married by an outsider who is not a rwandan by nationality?
@theoisback
2 жыл бұрын
yes, definitely !
@nadiadushimimana5401
3 жыл бұрын
The third one tho😁☺️
@rpvideos8620
3 жыл бұрын
Good to know Ruwandan culture... but I have a bit difficulty following your English... but ok, I could get the point conveyed.
@jesusjesus5376
3 жыл бұрын
I understand him perfectly. Why is difficult for you to follow him if u don’t mind me asking ?
@eunicemugisha4441
3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 you're so observant
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
thnxx
@brianmukose722
3 жыл бұрын
Would settle for one Rwandese.
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
yeah
@ishtank
4 жыл бұрын
But Rwandan guys these days seem to be OK with a reversal of traditional gender roles. I mean with women taking care of them financially. It's the only country in Africa where unemployment is higher among males than among females.
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
yeah man, it's the future, where women are making more money than men and are providing.
@JohnMcCrimmon-bc4ei
5 жыл бұрын
I would to meet up so we can talk investment opportunities in Rwanda. I'm coming in March...but for me, an American black and I would be open to dating. So you know, we like women pretty with big backsides...but thru pics and videos, I do not see this type of woman there.
@theoisback
5 жыл бұрын
Welcome brother, we can always talk.
@JohnMcCrimmon-bc4ei
5 жыл бұрын
@@theoisback thank you. My email is m1financial@protonmail.com I will be there next month. Reach out to me in my inbox so we exchange contact info to chat thru WhatsApp.
@adelaidepinchisi437
2 жыл бұрын
I'm married to a rwandese. Great people l must say
@nuwaherezajerry119
3 жыл бұрын
I like Rwandans
@edgarcassama4149
4 жыл бұрын
Hi, I’m from small west African country called Guine Bissau, closed to Senegal, I’m 42 years old man living all my life in Europe, now living in Australia, I’m seriously have interest to find Rwandan women to marry, I impressed about that country as African, I have heard that’s Rwandan women are tallest women in Africa, and I’m tall man too 6,5 please someone connect me with nice women with strong family values thanks 🙏🏽
@da-gamada-gama2704
4 жыл бұрын
Eduardo es 6.5
@da-gamada-gama2704
4 жыл бұрын
Aqui em Londres tem muitas mulhers precurando boms homems
@beeempirestv7025
3 жыл бұрын
Hello my friend lf you want Rwandan Woman I can help you to find him
@prettydunn4204
2 жыл бұрын
I date Rwandan man I don't know his like I feel like he doesn't like me on other side he likes me I don't know him really we broke up and we get back together I don't know I must ask him about us is he interested in me or
@theoisback
2 жыл бұрын
yess indeed
@vangilynobasan5035
2 жыл бұрын
Hi. I'm from Philippines I met a Rwandese man on a dating site and we're having conversations for 6 months now and it's really hard to understand him, like he's totally different from how Filipinos express their feelings to someone they love. I really like him, but sometimes we're having some misunderstanding when expressing ourselves. Any help?
@trevorweir
4 жыл бұрын
Couple cows a house or a car? The original dowry was paid to the guy as a gift for now taking on the lifelong responsibility of taking care of the girl and taking this fiduciary responsibility off of the parents hands. When a man pays 3-4 cows for his wife, he will nearly always look at her and see those 4 cows, especially when they are having an intense disagreement about something. C’mon guys admit it. Ha ha. I say that a man should look at his wife and always think in his mind how utterly priceless she is and not whether she was really worth 3 or 4 cows. The past practices that reinforced male patriarchy, dominance et al, are the same practices that hold African and many Asian countries subservient to other countries where more women graduate from graduate and post-graduate universities. If you think you belong to this “smarter half” group but you’re still producing copious amounts of testosterone, perhaps just perhaps your perception is just a little skewed by your endocrinology, 😀
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
hahah true.
@trevorweir
4 жыл бұрын
Girls -- don't hesitate to ask for your Dowry !!!
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
hahah
@melest5645
6 жыл бұрын
Do u have a facebook account?
@theoisback
6 жыл бұрын
yes, in the video description!
@AbdulLayaaaa
4 жыл бұрын
I don't know where y'all living 😀😀😀 haven't met no Rwandess girl yet.
@theoisback
4 жыл бұрын
hahah, there is still time 😉
@niyohenriette8002
3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@theafricanobserver8785
3 жыл бұрын
i am Rwandan and i would not date a Rwandan girl , i prefer foreigners.
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
aah, that's alright.😁
@ruthnjeri4659
2 жыл бұрын
Hehe, am here🤣🤣
@azizaleem7940
3 жыл бұрын
Do they believe in polygamy?
@theoisback
3 жыл бұрын
not really but there are some exceptions
@alikhodajani6075
2 жыл бұрын
.... honey and booboo are just fine with me ❤ 💙 💜 💖 !
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