Love this. I used to be cross eyed and wore glass throughout my whole adolescents before glasses were a fashion statement. I was teased and called ugly quite a bit. I did not, what some would say, blossom until college where I finally figured out who I was and who I wanted to be. Yes it took time but I slowly changed my appearance and how I presented myself. As my confidence grew so did my appearance. You can lose weight or get all dolled up but you will not see yourself as beautiful until you actually feel beautiful and this where the real change happens. Being teased your whole life makes it very difficult for people to gain confidence because it has been taken away and stomped on for so long. The media is of no help either. With all these so called perfect celebrities who get plastic surgery to change any flaw they feel they have makes us focus and obsess on every little flaw we have. People need to put down the media and really see themselves, love themselves, and quit focusing on society's standards of beauty and make your own. Trust me, the people who call you ugly that you think are attractive have insecurities as well. Those people just choose to point out the flaws in others to make them feel more beautiful. Love yourselves. You are your own worst critique.
@airplayrule
3 жыл бұрын
I sometimes thought i was kinda attractive, especially in college, but it didn't matter. It actually kinda backfired. If you’re open to what it's like for guys, whose problem is more than losing weight or being confident etc. n open to what really attracts women, with sources numbered 1st and shown later, read carefully: Most people find certain things in the opposite sex attractive, with LITTLE subjectivity, n rate symmetrical members of the opposite sex as more attractive AND in better health than their less symmetrical counterparts…Men with higher degrees of symmetry enjoy more sexual partners… women are choosey. (1) Women are becoming Obese at faster rates than men with more obese women around than men (2), but women rate 80-85% of men as below average looking while men rate 50% of women as attractive. (3). In the last one hundred years of research, beauty seems to be the one thing that most reliably produces the Halo Effect. It’s the most powerful 1st impression (it affects how your personality is seen/treated). (4) Studies around the world, online or not, for generations, reveal women (say) they favor personality traits like confidence/honesty more than looks but their actions show that you usually only see women with a guy less attractive then they prefer because women value money/status in a mate more than men do, but are more picky/rigid (5) and “racist” for short/long term dating compared to men. (6) Girls will get the best they can get in the following areas, usually more/less in this order of importance/objectivity: handsome, tall, fit, wealthy, high status….then her preferred race (usually white)…THEN fashion/personality can SOMEWHAT, KIND OF matter TOO. With sexist/biased affirmative action, family courts, welfare, etc. women now need men less n so are more picky on looks, resulting in more single moms, incels etc. In 2008, roughly 10% of men under age 20 reported no sex (but women had more sex). In the following decade, the % of sexless men under 30 nearly tripled but the % of sexless women barely changed even though most women downplay their sex count and men usually overstate it. (7) For every woman who’s seeking a relationship, there’s nearly 2 guys who are too. (8) Most people aren’t able/willing to rate others very accurately, and most women are overconfident in their advice on how men attract women. They can’t leap into a man’s body to understand, but even if given a pic of a man they claim isn’t unattractive, they still can't use it to attract women. (9) In addition to learning all the above from decades of experience/observing others, everywhere from K-12-University life to online apps, naturally or via experiments that me/friends did, using my instinct or people’s advice, you can verify all the above yourself by having some Arab lookin guy with a bad face/body/job approach some young “Western” girls in “REAL” life (or online) & upload the girl’s reactions, the % of girls who gave their number/flirted, if they were at least regular lookin gals who seemed sincerely attracted to him or 1 old/obese mom acting in desperation for attention or a steady provider to help babysit. P.S Please see the "WAW" (What Attracts Women) series on channel FaceandLMS for now and/or click the sub/bell icons on my channel or channel Playitalready for possible future uploads with interesting details/facts on this n other stuff. I may see your comment IF you post it on my channel or Playitalready SOURCES: (1) Biologist R. Thornhill studying faces for over 15 years, (2) CDC obesity stats, (3) OKC/Tinder ratings by gender, (4) Study by psychologists K. Dion, E. Berscheid, E. Walster, (5) Professor M. Fugère’s study, (6) Standford study, (7) Data reported by Washington Post (8) PEW research (9) “Tinder Experiment: 18 Yr Old Woman Tries Being A Man!” (Video on channel Alexander Grace)
@bigspill2713
2 жыл бұрын
and now your flipping beautiful!!
@haileybailey95
2 жыл бұрын
@@airplayrule Absolutely! Not all experiences are going to be the same for everyone. Any type of counseling and therapy is usually personalized and tailored to each individual. I feel like he just kind of gave a general idea to his concept. I just gave my personal experience as I found that I related to some of what he had to say but I completely agree that some people might not. I’m sure if he would not give this exact same information to every client. Everyone’s experiences are unique and different to them.
@ShutUpCleanYourMonitor
2 жыл бұрын
*You are your own worst critique.* That's why I've had bloody fists after playing video games.
@snowforest6487
2 жыл бұрын
You're a female your experience even as being ugly is nowhere close to ugly men, studies have proven this, an ugly female still can pull guys easier than some men above their look standards can pull girls you're experience as an ugly female adds NOTHING
@tygarspace1754
4 жыл бұрын
He actually has a gf now, in case Anthony didn't watch that specific video
@dianana7371
4 жыл бұрын
Oh god I hope he doesn't treat her like shit. I mean, he seems to really be into incel culture and theories. Poor girl.
@tygarspace1754
4 жыл бұрын
@BurningSpirit definitely!!
@tygarspace1754
4 жыл бұрын
@@dianana7371 yeah I hope it doesn't become toxic for either of them
@withneygutierrez5720
4 жыл бұрын
Claro con ese pitty party
@imembridibuddha
4 жыл бұрын
@@dianana7371 With all due respect: if you think all "incels" are potentially toxic and dangerous people, you're part of the problem. I know that loneliness and rejection could make someone think and react in certain negative ways, but to go and say "poor girl" like that seems like an offense to a guy who just wants someone to count on and grow with. So many non-incels can be just as toxic and narcissistic too (if not worse since they have more "tools" and opportunities at their disposal than lonely people) so incel and narcissism aren't linked to each other.
@gonzalo6890
4 жыл бұрын
Bro honestly this guy has had more dates than I did. Props to him for the courage
@xapokalypse
4 жыл бұрын
Same lol. He has a girlfriend now too
@ATAT-zo7wx
4 жыл бұрын
Melissa Apoka Batting average doesn’t matter if you get the game winning home run. Good for him.
@myrkflinn4331
4 жыл бұрын
Yeha, I was amazed when he said it. Made me feel thus the more bad for him despite his effort somewhat.
@delancey3181
4 жыл бұрын
Yep I’m not way too ugly for love
@axis1198
4 жыл бұрын
But it hits different when you date someone but they just repeatedly tell you how ugly you are and how you are lucky to be even dating them. Its not much painful if you just dated once, but repeatedly? Mad Painful
@adityarao1098
4 жыл бұрын
Yt recommendations getting a bit too personal lately...
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
LOL
@Templetoes11
4 жыл бұрын
That poor kid is objectively unattractive. Telling him to blame himself for rejection is the dumbest thing you could possibly do. If he lacks confidence it's because it's a natural reaction to being viewed as subhuman by his peers.
@frankiel3767
4 жыл бұрын
You know what the funny thing is? If you were a rich white person claiming that a poor black person just has to do this or that to become as rich and privileged as a white person, the rich white person would be laughed at for being so ignorant. And yet we let good looking men and women try to tell ugly people that they know what it’s like and that they have the answer to fixing how society treats you as an ugly person
@shanwnpat3447
4 жыл бұрын
@@frankiel3767 they have nothing to lose and could get whatever they want but still acting as if it took a long way to be on their positions. they might not recognize it and they might do. The thing is attractiveness would works %80-%90 for them.
@shanwnpat3447
4 жыл бұрын
👍
@thephilosopher5799
3 жыл бұрын
I agree
@hurlentropy6866
2 жыл бұрын
Plenty of Middle School students call other students ugly without much thought. As they age and become an adult, they will be less likely to blurt it out (social conditioning) but may still react in a distasteful way as a defense mechanism. Actions speak louder than words!
@arnavyadav8486
4 жыл бұрын
I used to be sad that i didn't look incredibly great. But then i realised that people won't gravitate towards me just cause of my looks but I'd get people who actually are interested in me so I'll be actually lucky to not have fake people.
@delancey3181
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly I understand
@your_dad_on_vacation
3 жыл бұрын
I'm at the point where I don't care if theyre fake, I just want someone to hang around with ... I'm tryin to get out of this
@juliab9560
4 жыл бұрын
Anthony: most people look like him or me, normal people Also Anthony: is one of the most attractive people I've ever seen
@oyemate8647
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, i also think hes really attractive
@RedRose2355
4 жыл бұрын
Lmao seriously 🤣😂🤣😂 I was thinking the same exact thing.
@elezeiaz
4 жыл бұрын
haha saame 🤣🤣
@SigilCraft
4 жыл бұрын
Ikr this guy clearly doesn't understand he's the peak of male attractiveness
@RodrigoTonin
4 жыл бұрын
I get Antony's point... Put a uncut hair, a not really fashion'esque pair of glasses and an awkward posture and they will get quite similar... But Antony haves six hundred thousand times more confidence, and believe me... Confidence gets physical.
@k.b.s4703
4 жыл бұрын
YOU LOOK LIKE ADAM DRIVER!! NOT THE DUDE . YOU!!
@Andremetheartist
3 жыл бұрын
“He looks like Adam Driver”, bruh you look like Adam Driver 😂😂😂
@knock-knock-joke3993
2 жыл бұрын
A naturally attractive guy is discussing the problems of naturally unattractive guy trying to say what to do to be attractive xD That's funny
@marimba.design
4 жыл бұрын
Anthony looks more like Adam Driver than him tho...??
@bubbamike4743
4 жыл бұрын
Only the hair. In terms of facial structure the Swedish dude resembles Driver a lot more
@kiks399
3 жыл бұрын
@@bubbamike4743 I mean Anthony has the profile
@raensaeck
3 жыл бұрын
@@bubbamike4743 swedish dude doesn't resemble Adam Driver at all.
@hannsbananas
4 жыл бұрын
I hate the separation of “normal people” and “famous people, movie stars, etc.” like they are automatically known to be better or better looking. Celebrities would look like “normal people” without the pounds of makeup, plastic surgery, thousands of dollars on a camera, photoshop and filters... this is why people like me still hate themselves.
@lukegacc4548
4 жыл бұрын
U r right that it shud not b like this. But it is, and the best thing to do, Ik it’s hard, as Anthony says is not compare rselves to others, especially movie stars. And U R BEAUTIFUL btw
@lukegacc4548
4 жыл бұрын
@Tacøs ツツ Agreed it exists, but as Anthony says, do we really want to associate rselves with those ppl?
@Jellyfishstarz
3 жыл бұрын
I’m ugly too but *it is what it is.*
@briannamorrison380
2 жыл бұрын
I didn't like this video. I can't stand it when people downplay other people's pain. You really went off on a tangent before you even heard his story. It was very painful for him. The whole personality thing helps, but....It only helps a little in my experience. And why does everyone have to be an extrovert in order to be attractive? Why do I have to walk around acting like a social butterfly to be attractive when that's not who I am?
@Dafnesubliminales
2 жыл бұрын
Tan Real, soy una persona introvertida y estoy a gusto se hacer amigos pero no me la paso riendo y socializando todo el tiempo.
@madamedefarge7266
2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely! On further reflection, though, it's more our sense of purpose, what we give to the world, than our cocktail party skills that lights a spark in others.
@ellaparks7931
4 жыл бұрын
dude i came here from one video about justin bieber and instantly became so drawn to what you’re saying like there was just a respect with how you reacted simply with what you saw. and i agree so much on all of it. and i even took down some notes for myself. many many people tell me i am really pretty. i should model. but ive always felt like im not enough. i compare myself to other girls that my ex chose over me. i question whether or not having brown eyes is better than my blue eyes when NONE of that matters at all. i simply just need to accept who i am and love that. and i could never understand why, my best friend who is noticeably visually unattractive, is so much happier than me in life. she fully loves herself and is confident and funny. she never apologizes for how she is or what she is. and that always inspired me but i didnt understand why i couldnt do that. why i always feel like my insecurities prevent me from doing things i like. or taking pictures with people i love. they say the harshest critic is yourself and thats so true. 😇 thanks to you i am on a path of self improvement. (which was always the goal but you really motivated me to push harder towards that
@monikas.442
2 жыл бұрын
Wise words, man. You are not able to choose your genes, but you're responsible how you present yourself, how you develop yourself as a PERSON, how you care about yourself (your body, health etc.). Why play victim? I still have a lot of insecurities as it comes to my looks, but I decided to concentrate on my strenghts and advantages and what I like in myself. Despite kids called me ugly at school, men that abused me in relations and lack of love in the family. Stop playing victim. Take control on your life!
@AmbiCahira
4 жыл бұрын
I super agree with you! For me attraction is far more scent driven and feeling inspired by someone's way of life no matter their height, weight, hairline or whatever looks. I'd be far faster to turn away a smoker or someone that smells like alcohol than I'd be over looks. I wish this guy would find a pursuit in life, a hobby or drive towards something that matters to him and that inspiration would do so much! That "it factor" lays so much in how people sees themselves and feels in their skin. I was called ugly too but feeling good about myself changed how people perceived me. When I felt ugly I was called ugly (yes for real), when I saw my good attributes people highlighted them in compliments.
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
exactly ambi!
@walterbrown2425
4 жыл бұрын
80% of your attractiveness personality = 100% lie! Some people are just unattractive
@paulgotik
4 жыл бұрын
yep. This people in the comments saying "personality is the most important thing" are the type of people that just can't be honest with themselves or the world.
@zeroxcrusher
4 жыл бұрын
Personality is only a part of what makes attractiveness.
@dt-lg2oc
4 жыл бұрын
@@hannsbananas you would a pretty face is a healthy face and it's in our blood to know that Edit :you got destroyed and called him a pea brain looool And sed he is close minded soo mad 😂😂🤣🤣
@dt-lg2oc
4 жыл бұрын
"Healthy genetics "
@Biscuit9891
4 жыл бұрын
@@hannsbananas you got destroyed and you can't accept it. emotions got to you and you scream ignorance. try to learn and become more knowledgable in what you preach.
@valkyriesanborn189
4 жыл бұрын
Your nose is literally perfection for your face... noses are one of those things people tend to not like. Most people don't like their nose.
@EmilieLap93
3 жыл бұрын
I remember growing up I developed quicker than most girls and people would whisper about me or call me names behind my back. I was essentially sexualized as a kid and it definitely affected how I viewed myself and my body. I struggled with very low self-esteem in secret, developed an eating disorder and fought a lot through my adult life with my body and my worth. The strange thing is looking back on my younger self I never felt bullied - I had lots of friends and wasn't starved for attention, but was still hyper-aware of the rumours about me. Based on how people have responded to me I can acknowledge I've probably been considered conventionally attractive and even still I struggled so deeply with my appearance and body dysmorphia in secret. Now as an adult, I sought therapy and really addressed those things and have grown from it, but it really showed me that even people who seem like they might be doing well might not be.
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this Emilie. 🙏🏻
@EmilieLap93
3 жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello Your message about mindset really resonated with me! It really is true (and I can attest to it) that it doesn't necessarily matter how others perceive you if you feel low that will reflect in how you present yourself to the world. This person's story was so sad and I was happy to see his newer videos with a healthy partner :)
@sherisetodd9281
3 жыл бұрын
Also when people say somebody is not their physical type does not mean they think they are ugly. They can think the person is attractive but does not have the physical type that gives them those physical attractive feelings
@Pospolitniejszy
4 жыл бұрын
"Most people look like him" No? There is group of people who don't look that certain way. and let's say we'are ugly. For most people. It's hard to meet someone with looks like that. You don't seem to see that. you'are talking about it's posibble to glow up in world, but do you know how hard it is? What if person looks like him and doesn't have sparlking pesronality? What then? Guess what, the person might not have that personality, because how bad They feel about themselves. If you think you look like anything like him, you don't.
4 жыл бұрын
Lol you're complaining that you have to work for something to achieve it. C'mon man
@OAsno
4 жыл бұрын
Work on yourself, we all have insecurities, All of us, beautiful or ugly. Working on yourself is the only thing you can do to become better in anyway, shape or form. Stay strong
@kui-tsun6380
4 жыл бұрын
I'm so blessed to had found this channel a couple of months ago, Anthony honestly talk about stuffs in a really realistic way, so it's really precious to me to hear these visions be spoken
@Rollifraeulein
3 жыл бұрын
I feel him. I thought the same way about me for a long time, because of my Features and my Disability. BUT - He says mutiple times he connected with disabled girls, because they are ugly too and I think this isn't fair. Disability or not, dont stay with people, when you think they are actually ugly to you. No one should have a partner or even a friend, who thinks that they are ugly enough to have low standards. And to the Disabled folk: Beauty means more than instagram standards - you are tough, because youre here, though the world throws shit on us almost everyday.thats unique beauty too :)
@thephilosopher5799
3 жыл бұрын
I agree I was kinda put off when he said that. I am also disable and not the best looking and if my future girlfriend thought of me like that I would feel so insecure and ashamed.
@MayraFrancis
3 жыл бұрын
it broke my heart when I watched his video, I saw someone said he's in a relationship now that makes me so happy 🥰
@Overseer2579
2 жыл бұрын
Is it a healthy relationship? That’s the most important thing
@nathannations8722
2 жыл бұрын
This guy is a great guy. And your English isn’t bad man💪
@jollyarts
4 жыл бұрын
What if you don’t have looks nor personality?
@brucewillis4604
4 жыл бұрын
He is ugly. For something like this just be objective. He's accepted and knows it. I get it, you don't want to be mean but no, objectively, you are much better looking than him.
@rahma6992
4 жыл бұрын
it's because people in the community don't mind their own business and decide to shove what *they* believe as the key to happiness down everyone's throats :)
@missjungjeelee
4 жыл бұрын
I'm not ugly or anything special/exotic, but I'm what could be considered a PLAIN JANE in looks department but my combination of Quirky Personality and blunt authenticity plus self-determination and non-offputting confidence always wins people over. My own mother bullied me my entire childhood and adulthood, and yet that never made me bitter, it made me tougher. No one could bring me down because whatever people attempt to throw my way, my own mother had said and done worse. My mother's treatment of me made me be a better person in treating others with Respect. Made me a down-to-earth very secure nonjealous person not needing any validation and never thinking like the mainstream. I was always comfortable in my own skin, in fact, I would end up being so comfy I was mostly living solo naked 😹 I never cared what others would think/say/do about me or to me, as long as I am not being gunned down or knifed through, I'm all good. Stress-free life and that made me look infinitely younger in addition to my lifetime's passion of having a healthy holistic travel-heavy openminded lifestyle. When other girls would need 1-3 hours in front of a Mirror to look beautiful, I can be ready to go kick ass grab life by the balls in the real world within 5-20mins. I didn't need to "feel" beautiful or to be told I was pretty. I didn't fixate on Praises. To the point that I didn't even believe when people would say nice things about me.
@Martini_Ville
4 жыл бұрын
lol I just finished watching "A Marriage Story" and you had to bring up Adam Driver.
@lethertalk1748
4 жыл бұрын
I used to hate myself so much like him when I was like 14. I had so many preconceived ideas about how people viewed me, and I always imagined that guys didn't like me. I found out about Tony Robbins and started to work on myself. I am now 28 and I totally agree with Anthony that everybody is pretty much normal look wise, but it"s how you carry yourself that matters. I can say now with confidence that I love how God created me and I am proud of my looks :D
@zachmahomes3517
2 жыл бұрын
Bs if you deemed ugly by society then there’s nothing u can do about it.
@arielmonet7359
4 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but I couldn't take this serious this dude just sounded so shallow even if he did look like Brad pit or Kendal Jenner with the way he thinks he would still be "ugly" on the inside
@arielmonet7359
4 жыл бұрын
@de Alcântara the whole point of my comment was to point how he is on the inside what exactly is the point of ranting about how "ugly " you are. Its the fact that the toxic environment that he was probably in made him toxic as you said. He doesn't seem to have compassion for himself. What does being toxic have to do with his appearance? I personally couldn't care less how sharp his jaw lone his or whatever he believes is conventionally handsome . Toxic is toxic. You can't make people like you but you can learn to like yourself💙 (this just my very strong opinion tho so no hate towards you and him or anything like that
@xXxbiia14xXx
4 жыл бұрын
The guy says it hurt his feelings that girls calling him ugly which is fair but he's talking about them like they didn't even like them but HE thought that they looked ugly and maybe they would date them because of it. As long as you're also not attracted to the other person you can't expect them to like you. Also every person has a choice to say no to someone because they think they wouldn't be a good match. An "ugly" person can say no, you don't have to be desperate to have someone.
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
AJ thank you for this
@vvelvettearss
2 жыл бұрын
Damn I don't even worry about dating or finding somebody (though I was feeling ugly..now after watching I kind of don't :) and I learnt a LOT from this! Thankyou
@princessorangetree4331
2 жыл бұрын
100% with this advice. I thought he was normal looking too and he’s picking things that are very small details
@lucasinator
2 жыл бұрын
Youre blind
@legzfalloffgirl5148
Жыл бұрын
It's true!! He looks like a normal guy who is depressed and struggling to take care of himself. If he could take care of himself and meet people doing activities he's excited about, I feel like it would make a difference
@simoncowell8238
4 жыл бұрын
I'm just gonna say, I was here at the premiere.
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
i kno
@rebeccareardon3775
4 жыл бұрын
Sameeee
@user-zk8le1bf4m
4 жыл бұрын
me to-
@AnSop
4 жыл бұрын
:)
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
Meeps toops
@qrst2008
2 жыл бұрын
Yes. Shallow people are focused on their vanity. "Your personality decides so much of your looks." Brilliant words. THANK YOU.
@xrystofersoule5119
2 жыл бұрын
He got rejected by 6000 girls. Did those girls find his personality unnatractive through the screen? This is cope.
@frankortega1748
2 жыл бұрын
Your way off saying he looks like Adam driver
@wowowowo8041
4 жыл бұрын
Me: Who the fuck is Adam Driver!? Googled.. oh that Star Wars Guy
@spiritualinsiderr
3 жыл бұрын
Yea this makes me sad that he goes through life feeling that way :(
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
Me too but he’s in a relationship now
@cherylruss9229
Жыл бұрын
dating coah: good for you for becoming as open, to this video, as you eventually did as the video seemed to bring up triggering for you, fears (we most all have) for you etc. You seemed to, first, try to cope with simple solutions and thinking you knew more than the guy in the video but, mostly eventually, you listened. Again, it did not seem easy for you to listen, but you did it and (even more important) you cared and care. The heart is not black and white nor right or wrong nor simple in a complex (at best) world.
@RicetheCaptain
4 жыл бұрын
I love the fact that people say "Your not ugly you just need a haircut and the gym" or something along that line...if you have to get in shape, have perfect hair, and a amazing personality then your probably ugly. Most people with average looks don't need all that to get and keep a decent partner.
@g0nz0.
3 жыл бұрын
I'm 17 and I have the same bad insecurity about my nose, this gave me some hope so lets see when I hit my 20s 🤞
@iamkindofconfused
3 жыл бұрын
And even if your nose will stay the same, you still gonna own it and love it because it makes you unique😛.
@hugocoolerkanalsmal3172
2 жыл бұрын
”80% of your attractiveness is your personality” Think of the most unattractive person in your class. Perhaps he/she is a 3/10. Would you date that person if she had the best possible personality? No, of course not. Lads and girls, this ”dating coach” is outright lying to ya
@Urlocallordandsavior
2 жыл бұрын
This guy reminds me of 90s Beck. He seems kind of like a modern-day Edgar Allan Poe figure, someone who dated someone (somewhat) underage, a writer, feelings of alienation with society (which also scares me because you'd think the struggles of a guy from the 19th century can't effect you in the modern world). Admire this guy for speaking out though. That's one thing a lot of people can't do, including myself.
@amommywithapurpose2387
3 жыл бұрын
your so right it's all about how you present yourself. he reminds me if marolyn Manson
@CElle572
3 жыл бұрын
This is honestly so trivial to me. Men are more judged on their success rather than physical features.
@wayneyeaw594
Жыл бұрын
I’m somewhat like this guy, I’ve never been with a woman. I’ve never had the opportunity to be with anyone. I’m 53 and still a virgin, I have never had any success in anything and I don’t even know why I’m still alive - I would be better off not being around.
@AnthonyRecenello
Жыл бұрын
Hey Wayne. Your value as a person has nothing to do with your sexual experience or being successful. You are a soul just like every other person on this earth. You're fucking special and don't ever think differently. I know all the dating and self-improvement advice these days is about how high-value you are-but they are marketers/grifters trying to get you to feel shitty so they can sell you something. Just you breathing and being here is beautiful.
@Skaweeee
Жыл бұрын
Within the first 10 secs this dude started laughing at him lol
@AnthonyRecenello
Жыл бұрын
Lol so true!
@shizukagozen777
2 жыл бұрын
42:28 Me: No... That's not true... That's IMPOSSIBLE !!! 😂😂😂
@only1anime89
2 жыл бұрын
He's not a kid he is 20+ yo
@digitalbouquet5231
4 жыл бұрын
He just walks away XD
@claudiaperotxena2562
3 жыл бұрын
At first I thought it was actually Anthony's personal experience
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
Haahahah
@pacmanincargopants
3 жыл бұрын
"80% of your attractiveness is your personality" oh....well i'm fucked 💀
@Feeelipeeee
3 жыл бұрын
More like 80% of your attractiveness is your looks but people will say that it's your personality to sound less shallow. That's the truth, and the guy on the video is full of bullshit, like every coach out there.
@hmhm2970
3 жыл бұрын
That's the biggest lie. It's 100% appearance, no one care about personality
@pacmanincargopants
3 жыл бұрын
@@hmhm2970 well I don't think that's completely true. appearance *is* a big factor when it comes to initial attraction but for an actual long-term relationship personality is extremely important. even if you're super attractive people won't want to stick around if your personality is shit.
@brittanymena6853
3 жыл бұрын
Lol me too
@happypiano4810
3 жыл бұрын
50/50
@uglydude4691
4 жыл бұрын
You should do a video about short guys in dating (not just those 5'7-5'8 guys, really short guys like below 5'5).
@alexojideagu
4 жыл бұрын
The problem with dating coaches is that they are not ugly. So when they present their advice it's coming from a totally different experience and lack of understanding. Confidence is important for ugly people, but it only goes so far.
@farahabdulkhadirsaid5218
7 ай бұрын
Most realistic and mature take I’ve seen so far
@e.paradigm7415
5 ай бұрын
Exactly, your value unfortunately is based on other peoples perception of you. It sucks, it’s like if 98 out of 100 people find you repulsive, then it’s going to affect you mentally, your self esteem will take a hit. People will treat you so badly based on how you look, even on a subconscious level. Its like if a good looking man were to have a conversation, everyone is glued to him, but if an ugly man tries to have a conversation, there wouldn’t be one at all because everyone rushes to get out of there. So now, you feel unheard and unwanted.
@D402S
2 ай бұрын
Telling an ugly guy to be confident is like telling a homeless person to be confident like Elon Musk and Jeff Bezos
@nicolaehadji4031
4 жыл бұрын
51 minutes??? This felt like 15 mins
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
yeah went quick
@randyf1059
4 жыл бұрын
Facts
@PinkishPlant
4 жыл бұрын
It felt like 25 minutes to me, oh wait I’m on 2x speed
@irissupercoolsy
4 жыл бұрын
omg thank you for reminding me shit... i already had to go to bed 😭😭 will be a difficult day tomorrow. Edit: I am going to continue to watch this video tomorrow
@regretlessangie1514
3 жыл бұрын
Oh my golly. I did not notice that until I read your comment lol
@briannamorrison380
2 жыл бұрын
All the people saying "I don't get attracted to people based on looks" You're full of sh**, and you know it. Just stop it already, please🙄
@VishyN-ww7zo
2 ай бұрын
Actually tho
@25KSubsWithNoVideosChallenge
3 жыл бұрын
Once you're called ugly, it becomes hard to believe when you're called attractive by others.
@your_dad_on_vacation
3 жыл бұрын
For real
@ronaldraygun6304
3 жыл бұрын
Definitely can relate to this.
@annonymost9318
3 жыл бұрын
I also want to say....the boy needs professional, or spiritual, or just plain good hearted help. I wonder if he is the type to take it? Or is he the type to stew?
@kaddhaficel2674
3 жыл бұрын
Because u are not
@sonyg0640
3 жыл бұрын
@@kaddhaficel2674 god knows what you look like.
@crypticvinforever6350
4 жыл бұрын
This is how it goes. U say "I think I'm ugly" someone says "omg no ur not, ur very attractive " but still no dates....
@multicrogamer
4 жыл бұрын
They can't accept the truth and like to do mental gymnastics to say why looks don't matter. Always interesting to watch.
@aquacyanide
4 жыл бұрын
@@multicrogamer So you think looks matter?
@Dotinwaif-dz3cf
4 жыл бұрын
One Girl:"Im ugly" *her friends*: u re attractive One Guy:"Im ugly" *his friends* we already knew xd
@multicrogamer
4 жыл бұрын
@@aquacyanide From my research and thinking looks are 90% of attraction.
@aquacyanide
4 жыл бұрын
@@multicrogamer hm
@sideswipe9048
4 жыл бұрын
Im all for self acceptance, but I think if this guy got a haircut, orthodontics, a little skin care and got in the gym; over time it could make a huge difference. Not easy by any means but possible.
@apollo5261
4 жыл бұрын
For a moment I thought you were talking about Anthony.
@kseniyarosina2357
4 жыл бұрын
SideSwipe 904 I was thinking the same thing! Ortho is underrated, and it changes face a little bit too. And working out (even a little bit) + a bit of self care definitely goes a long way to how people are perceived by others
@nai1729
4 жыл бұрын
honestly the boldness he had to make this video made him attractive to me in some way, i wouldn’t date him because i still don’t know him but idk i just thought it was cute in some way sorry if it’s confusing
@GrnG-zt2qs
4 жыл бұрын
I think self love is needed more than anything. Feeling worthy, even when you’re alone however you look. I would only recommend exercise and gym training to get endorphins going and getting away slowly from his depression.
@thetreacherousleech8990
4 жыл бұрын
@@GrnG-zt2qs Nah the rest is also helpful for his depression. Anyy action you take to better yourself helps with that.
@Ihatethegundevil
4 жыл бұрын
It's funny how everyone thinks that you can just all of a sudden "go to he gym get dental work get good hygiene" it takes a long time and a lot of dedication, it's not easy at all
@derekritchie5972
4 жыл бұрын
And genes play a big part
@Chillnote
4 жыл бұрын
If you are willing to give it time, it's possible. Life is not easy unfortunately.
@josedeleon3931
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@kryptonianblack7769
4 жыл бұрын
Looks matter to most people. Dude is being really dishonest with that man or with himself. If you are not honest you cannot help someone in that situation. Advise him to see a specialist like an orthodontist and that the road will not be easy, but it is possible.
@mattb1568
4 жыл бұрын
Things that are worth having are never easy. It is for some people but those people want something that’s not easy to have. We’re all different. Stop focusing on how the thing you want others have
@marisabel5500
4 жыл бұрын
It's so interesting how we people tend to notice things about ourselves that no one ever notices. We hate parts of ourselves that most people would probably either not care about or even notice. This is why insecurity is one of the most unattractive things we could have, because we would look for someone to validate us because we can't validate ourselves. It took many years and many bastards to finally validate myself and love myself. I am happy with who I am and strive for betterness in my mentality. I have always had extreme difficulty finding a partner, and now at almost 30 I'm loosing hope. I don't let that distract me from my goals though. I admire this person for telling his story, I can relate. Rejection, bullying and the feeling of loneliness is something I am too familiar with. That's life.
@areyoukirringmeirriyaa
4 жыл бұрын
very very true. I aspire to be a good person. not an attractive person. being grateful for what I have and trying to accept myself is the best thing I can do.
@OpenWorldGamer-
4 жыл бұрын
mass effect 3 was awesome, I wish they release a remake
@marisabel5500
4 жыл бұрын
@@OpenWorldGamer- haha! Well the ending was absolutely disappointing. But overall, great games yes.
@marisabel5500
4 жыл бұрын
@Bee Bop exactly, I don't depend on that at all. I was speaking about part of my past. And how i would like someone in my life now that I'm about to finish college :) but how I'm loosing that hope of finding it.
@Ajinzem
4 жыл бұрын
Funny thing is, i notice and hate things about myself, i completely ignore and don't care about in other people. It's dumb as fuck how i can't let go of things, i don't even devalue in others.
@freeyolow0-086
3 жыл бұрын
Listen. Like it or not, you can't just swallow all this pretty bullshit. How we are is not entirely up to us: we are a certain way due to how we've been treated in our life and other factors :/ you can't magically expect someone unattractive to behave with the conference and ego of someone who's been filled all their lives with pretty experiences, that's simply mental
@ayoubzahyo
3 жыл бұрын
It takes time and thsts what matters
@monikas.442
2 жыл бұрын
But you can tak responsibility for what you CAN change! And that's what this commentary above is about.
@mishynaofficial
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, it's not an overnight change. It's a hard work and time.
@jamesgentry13
2 жыл бұрын
@@monikas.442 and what can he change unless he has a bunch of money to fix his looks
@ricaard6959
2 жыл бұрын
@@monikas.442 This shit is soooo old, my god! It's so tired, of course there's things we can all change but those things don't matter as much as the things we can't change, if they were we wouldn't be focusing on the things we can't change, if my personality or status or whatever mattered I wouldn't give a shit about my face and up until I started liking girls I genuinely didn't.
@apollo5261
4 жыл бұрын
'It's all about personality' well, no, Tony, it's not all about personality. Especially at his age. And don't pretend like you don't get it. The guy is ugly, let's just be honest. It's not the most horrible thing that can happen to a person. It's not that great of a deal most of the time, but when it comes to dating... You know it does matter. And I know how much personality matters, but there is a certain point which you do not cross, even if the person has an interesting personality. You wouldn't date a 400 pound, hairy woman that's missing 5 teeth and has a huge nose, even if she had a beautiful personality. But then again, I can't really feel attraction. And btw, quit mentioning your nose. It's actually tiny. And I'm not just being nice. I am literally not ashamed to tell you how it is.
@thephilosopher5799
3 жыл бұрын
I agree.
@felixfam0481
4 жыл бұрын
"I love my nose now, I think it looks dope" best statement of 2020 by far
@tamara7301
3 жыл бұрын
For real
@stranger0152
3 жыл бұрын
This entire comment section is full of people who would say "If you are homeless, just buy a house" to a homeless people. No one is trying to understand the ugly man, you here to make your ego about how someone or you were in the "exact" same situation(which is not true at all) and got rid of that situation with "dedication"(which is not true at all). You are here for toxicity. Nothing else. You don't even understand how bad his situation are. You are just justifying actions of people who harrased the shit out of him. Your reasoning for him to be harrased is as same as people who says "you should have wore more clothing" to raped women. You should consider your fucking reasoning and do more fucking empathy.
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
He’s actually in a happy relationship now. It wasn’t long after he released the video.
@cake2531
3 жыл бұрын
Entirely the opposite. This isn't "if you're homeless, just buy a house" it's "if life gives you lemons, make lemonade"
@sleepysapa9874
4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend doesn't think he's attractive. When we met online, we didn't know what each other looked like. I fell in love with his personality and how he is as a person. He may not think he's an attractive person, but to me, he's the most handsomest person on Earth.
@samhjortenkrans1822
4 жыл бұрын
Handsomest hmmm i like it
@tamara7301
3 жыл бұрын
That’s amazing. I wish you two an eternity of happiness
@margarethafalco63
3 жыл бұрын
That's sweet ❤ I wish you two all well
@pathernetic923
3 жыл бұрын
Hope the relationship is still going strong queen
@kaddhaficel2674
3 жыл бұрын
U arint with him anymore
@fusingentree3928
2 жыл бұрын
As soon as he said he is not ugly i knew this video is BS and not honest. People that tell us ugly people that we are not ugly, you are just hurting us more because you are lying.
@mariannejohannessen9751
Жыл бұрын
He is not Ugly.
@appleseed4672
Жыл бұрын
@@MrA-ir3me Yes he is ugly, and beauty standards are similar for a lot of people, stop with this sugarcoating bullshit, you and a lot of people in this comment section are being so fucking disingenuous and you're not helping anyone by lying to them and telling them something that they've already heard dozens of times from other people spouting fake bs like you. If you're not gonna say anything insightful, don't say shit.
@cochisecarter6298
3 жыл бұрын
Dude said 20% of pulling women is looks and 80% personality??? 😆 🤣 😂 Man,I'd like to be on that planet he's talking about for a day 😆 🤣 😂
@ernestoguevara4261
3 жыл бұрын
No bro you dont understand, you need confidence and my coaching to get a gf
@raensaeck
3 жыл бұрын
@@ernestoguevara4261 If only you showed a better attitude on your tinder profile when you swiped like on >6000 girls and got not a single match! HAHA YOUR PERSONALITY STINKS LOOOOOL
@thephilosopher5799
3 жыл бұрын
Personality matters but looks are really important. People need to stop lying. I gotta be honest I saw my crush and liked her before I got to know her and then her personality added onto her. Gotta have that physical attraction.
@appleseed4672
Жыл бұрын
bro just hit the gym bro, like take care of your hygiene bro, and get a nice haircut, easy bro, you'll get all the pussy in your area, trust me bro
@102830189291
Жыл бұрын
If you want a second date you need personality
@ThatChainmecha
2 жыл бұрын
Man this is really dishonest. Vast majority of people wouldn't be able to look at this guy in the eyes
@goddess117A
4 жыл бұрын
Celebrity culture is on the way out. So, it’s a good thing you aren’t able to make the celeb shirts on budget! Ppl are finally starting to see that celebrities are just regular people and have no more inherent value than any other person. In many cases, the ppl most idolized have actually been propped up by handlers with selfish agendas. Celebrities want to be free too.
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
So true
@lucymcnamara4558
2 жыл бұрын
Gosh I hope you’re right! 🤞
@arhanor77
3 жыл бұрын
Anthony, you're not ugly, you look average, so you can't understand what it's like to be ugly. And when, due to the reaction of the environment, you have not been able to build self-confidence since childhood.
@onee
Жыл бұрын
I would consider Anthony attractive. Not average. Maybe not a 10/10. But probably an 8/10. He has a balanced face. Normal sized nose. Normal/Visible jawline. Not overweight. Teeth look good. No weirdness on the rest of his face or body.
@spinozareader
Жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@dimajo3057
Жыл бұрын
He isn't here to understand he is here to make sure he protects his income. Can't really sell you the "dating course" if he tells his main costumer base that they have no chance, or very low chances. Just another person using others misery for his benefit.
@Justinhulk
4 ай бұрын
3 years passed i hope you escaped this incel mindset that is lying to you. looks do not matter
@gabygaray7304
4 жыл бұрын
LOL “does he go on dates with that microphone coming out of his shirt”? 😂 To Anthony you don’t even have a big nose 🙄
@apollo5261
4 жыл бұрын
Ikr? Idl what it is about people that think they have a big nose, for no reason at all.
@katrin6388
4 жыл бұрын
@@apollo5261 someone must have pointed it out. same with me. i used to have a friend who would nitpick things i never have noticed before. i was already insecure about my arms, so id always wear a jacket, never tank tops. and i hated my belly, so i covered them with my arms. but shed say how my face looks like doofensmirts, how my knees had too much fat, and how id chew to loud, how i had way to broad shoulders...so i started noticing these thigns too
@CardinalTetra
4 жыл бұрын
Katrin idk sounds like she might be jealous of you
@katrin6388
4 жыл бұрын
@@CardinalTetra idk. i meet her, i was pretty young, ingenuous and wanted a friend. she was very toxic, like movie toxic. shes emotionally blackmail me, threaten me, pressure me to do things she wanted to. she once pressured me to go to school even tho i told her i cant, i had too much pain. she didnt care and i gave in. then shed rant and change her mood completely, tell me her mom is not my taxi driver (her mom would take us to school). last time i talked to her, she would threaten me to reply to her texts. id ignore her, but she would msg me on all of my socials, telling me shed post pictures of me on instagram if i didnt reply. i ignored. and blocked her. then her mom would message me, telling me to unblock her, that she doesnt know what made me become so cold (like wtf). i told her no, her daughter is too imature and at 18 its pathetic to do bullying. she said we both need to grow up and i was like wtf. didnt reply anymore. but the cruel part is, that somehow she found out my sister died and she didnt care, she wanted her will, but that was when i realized how cruel she really is. like i already knew, but it was a stockholm relationship i guess. shed bully me every now and then, but id always went crawling back to her lol
@CardinalTetra
4 жыл бұрын
@@katrin6388 thats awful, im sorry to hear that
@Anonymous-ks8el
2 жыл бұрын
2:00 Your analysis & feedback here is exactly what he found on KZitem, an attractive or decent looking person giving their opinion on the issue that is ignorant because they are not ugly. Minimising what he feels & knows are objectively unattractive features, or saying you experienced the same (as >normal guy) or raising the possibility that his failure is because his personality didn't shine (that requires the opportunity) is unhelpful copium that sounds really nice and performative to the attractive & normal people on the outside looking in at him.
@AnthonyRecenello
2 жыл бұрын
Weirdly enough, he's in a relationship now and just said that this video was a drunk rant.
@legzfalloffgirl5148
Жыл бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenello sad though, because I think he's voicing a lot of people's feelings
@utopian4769
Жыл бұрын
@@legzfalloffgirl5148 How is it sad that he found success?
@utopian4769
Жыл бұрын
I don't understand comments like these. Anthony is telling this guy that looks are not the end all be all and you and other people's responses are just to tell him that it's not true? I mean what do you want him to do? Let this guy stew in bitterness for the rest of his life because you think he has no hope? Tell him he's ugly so you can have ammunition for your argument? People like you are honestly no better than the people who bullied him.
@dragond1537
2 ай бұрын
@@AnthonyRecenelloyeah because he’s had luck and Million of people Heard a side of him that no one would have known because ugly People don’t get a chance to show their character
@Kiraa000
4 жыл бұрын
Back then when I was younger I gravitated towards those ppl like him. I always tried to give them appreciaton and love, so that they can feel beautiful. But fact is, it worked kinda in the moment but afterwards they stayed the same. I think such ppl just need to get out of their pessimistic and hateful (towards themselves) view. No girlfriend can give you self esteem, if you hated yourself before, bc if she breaks up with you, you'll get even worse. He needs to love himself before commiting to a relationship or friends with benefits.
@bigwanda7705
3 жыл бұрын
This!
@eatyourcereal6577
3 жыл бұрын
PERIODT.
@SoFreshBlaze
3 жыл бұрын
Yep, you gotta love yourself before someone loves you. Building yourself will bring ppl you want in your life
@marinaSassygUrl88
3 жыл бұрын
I did that too. Same thing here. Insecure people never change no matter how much you give or do. It just doesn’t matter.
@Ankit-zu2kp
3 жыл бұрын
But I'm a narcissist and I love myself more than anyone else. Still, girls don't love me.
@critical2apps
4 жыл бұрын
How the hell did this guy even get the opportunity to talk to 500 girls in 2 years? I thought i had found the problem right there, surely he had a maximum of 2 conversations with each girl before asking them out
@lynnes1864
4 жыл бұрын
LOL! Yeah if you go around asking out every woman you talk to, you kind of get a bad reputation with women.
@hasselett
3 жыл бұрын
No, he just texted 500 people. It's a lot easier to ask people out online, but it's also much easier to get rejected.
@angelface333
3 жыл бұрын
it’s kind of weird when people are pushy are quick about it though
@labbs165
4 жыл бұрын
Self-pity is a trap
@mambiwhoknows2501
4 жыл бұрын
This comment needs a 1,3k likes at least
@labbs165
4 жыл бұрын
Mambi WhoKnows thanks man, just hope more people can realize how destructive self-pity can be if used wrongly, it’s okay to feel sad sometimes but if everything in your life revolves around it, then you’re gonna be limited and fulfillness will be out of reach
@sugoish9461
4 жыл бұрын
@Re nato To be fair, to be constantly surrounded by people having what you don't have, while also being treated less because you don't have it, is a difficult thing. Not at all saying self pitying is the answer (it's really not. Letting your emotions come and go - emphasis on that they're temporary, is healthy). I've only watched that video and his update video but he also said some stuff like he only got serious friends when he was 13, and they treated him that way too. And they kind of weren't even friends with him because of him, but due to someone else (his mom in this case). Soo... Just saying, it doesn't sound like he's had that good of a support system, so it's no wonder if he's not exceptionally skilled at handling something that can hurt so much in your day to day life.
@sugoish9461
4 жыл бұрын
@Re nato Ah nonono I think I didn't get my point across the way I hoped then. I believe his attitude comes from the challenges he's faced *because* of his appearance, along with the absence of support that people ultimately need to persevere healthily through tough life circumstances. As it is now, his attitude is what's causing his problems, but I think that can be traced further back TO his appearance. Idk, those are my thoughts at least. I don't know how much you can relate to what he's going through, but I guess I can a fair bit, and it's not so simple as "you're not pretty", so much as a consistent bullying and being put down and excluded (which is actually scientifically, psychologically, proven to be one of the worst human emotions and the ones that we humans biologically are made to be very sensitive to. It also has a bunch of other mental problems that can develop from that feeling of exclusion. It's because we're social pack animals and all that, so we're supposed to want to work towards being included in the group.). You can't expect someone to walk just because you can, when their legs literally won't work and yours do. In the same way mentally you can't always expect someone to have made the best decisions, when those require resources (internal) that they literally don't have.
@sugoish9461
4 жыл бұрын
@Re nato Hi! Sorry for my answer coming a bit late (had lots of tests to study for). English isn't my first language so I'm not 100% sure if those are rhetorical questions or not. I do think (or at least hope!) he is in one stage of healing from his past experiences though! Sadly there aren't always people who have warm feelings for someone, at least not in their vicinity. It takes going out and meeting new friends and new people to find them, but that's absolutely worth it when one does! Hope you're doing well, thanks for an interesting discussion!
@axis1198
4 жыл бұрын
You have to consider his experience growing up. From those friends who get free cigarettes from his mom to all those below average (or atleast how people mostly judge or stereotype them as) that he tried to date but their standards were just really high that he was repeatedly rejected over and over. Because those affected the way that he feels about life now, depressed, sad and just not happy about himself anymore. He went through and experienced the most blunt people and straightforward friends ever. He isnt delusional, more like the opposite. I tell you, unless you are not considered really ugly in majority of people's judgement, you will never see/experience the worst of people's rude blunt toxic attitudes that comes out of them - the true colors of people. Tell me how it would be easy to get over that.
@pineappleflow2876
2 жыл бұрын
That's the ignorance of most decent looking people, it's useless to expect them to understand this. Just wait until someone replies to this and claims that i just have a "negative mindset" and a "victim mentality".
@pineappleflow2876
2 жыл бұрын
@@axis1198 I just hope plastic surgery advances so that more people with real flaws can benefit from it. It's sad, but needed today unfortunately. I am in the middle of surgeries myself, and i hope to god i get enough help so that my life's quality improves.
@unpopulardollsdontreadrepl8453
3 жыл бұрын
If a dating coach keeps telling you "you are good-looking" but you don't get the same outcomes than a legit attractive person, guess what?, you're not good-looking.
@AnthonyRecenello
3 жыл бұрын
No. There is SO MUCH more to work on yourself. Social skills, lifestyle, etc. I know you might be hurting right now about yourself, but trust me-the world isn’t so simple as to say looks are everything. They really aren’t.
@portman8909
2 жыл бұрын
You're gaslighting so hard dude, just stop.
@juliatemple9234
4 жыл бұрын
I really love Anthony ❤️ he's always in the premier chatting with us and he's always makes really good videos. Also when we give him ideas he listens. We will bradison videos so much you always clear out things we don't understand about tik tok couples. you said you were doing one of these but I really hope you do them joey King and Taylor Perez. Also Lana condor and Noah centineo. Anthony we appreciate you
@SuperNomnomcat
4 жыл бұрын
Adam Driver is conventionally attractive though. Like yes he has a big nose but hes not unattractive by western beauty standards. I agree with that a lot of attraction is based on how you present yourself and taking proper care of yourself and yes there are people out there that will find you attractive but i feel like saying that he looks like adam driver is a bit of a sugar coat but then again thats just my opinion
@mirandalee901
3 жыл бұрын
I remember being asked out by boys in primary school like this, and it was primarily humiliating cuz you knew you were like.. girl 99. It's worth saving your energy for people who really excite you, esp people who you find particularly funny and interesting, bc it's immediately obvious even as an adult when someone just wants ANYONE and.. you'll do. Nothing could be more unattractive! He openly states he pursues women he finds unappealing, so there's no way he would've been giving them a desirable energy
@bullyuzui7238
2 жыл бұрын
He was affecting your business by telling the truth, so you made the video. But good looking people could never understand how does it feels to be ugly.
@georgepop3547
4 жыл бұрын
If Anthony and this guy would have a baby together, that kid would look just like Adam Driver😂 P.s: Also, could you believe that just 2-3 days ago I watched the original video and wondered how cool it would be if Anthony would react to it? Pretty awesome if you ask me😂
@nicklopez8004
4 жыл бұрын
Well it came up in everyone’s recommended, thats why it has so many views
@neonuser456
4 жыл бұрын
i watched that vid, this would be interesting
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
i hope u think so
@gavinnathaniel8860
4 жыл бұрын
Can you react to brawadis and Jackie there’s a lot of drama going on between them
@billielloyd4864
4 жыл бұрын
It's called Badoo, and it's a dating site... More like POF than Tinder. I've actually met a few ppl there that I've been online friends with for several years now.
@Blueeyesinthesky
4 жыл бұрын
Poor guy. I empathize with him. I was called ugly in 5th grade by the most popular guy in school. It felt horrible. But then I got braces, learned how to groom myself better and do makeup/hair for my features, and mainly gained confidence and worked on myself internally. Throughout this process I gained more friends, got more male attention, got a few boyfriends here and there, but most importantly I felt better about myself. Now I’m 20 and I’m still learning more everyday on how to be a better me and how to love myself. It’s a life’s journey for everyone. I think the best thing I can take away from that experience is that not all attractive people are good people either. I learned early on not to see people for how they look but for who they are.
@Diana-wk9qv
4 жыл бұрын
Were you called ugly only once in your life? I’ve been called ugly multiple times even recently lol. But i never really had a problem getting attention from guys
@Exosfear13
4 жыл бұрын
@@Diana-wk9qv hey ugly
@myrkflinn4331
4 жыл бұрын
not everyone can afford braces or had a good houehold to get good care (I was raised in a very reserved poor household where braces werent around and I grew up without; got lucky my teeth and jaw are not that bad health wise or look wise personally despite the lack of care I had and was it my parents fault? they did NOT WANT me to or them to be filthy, we simply didnt have the money and we started fighting to pay the bills cos we were forced out the house if we didnt buy it and we lived in a small village and had no car nor people who were willing to drive us cos they all were too selfish to help and were fighting and yelling at each other, especially my family in general), perhaps he has a form of autism (that yes, can cause poor care for health. my nephew had it bad when he was younger and it was proven cos he had a severe form of his autism that led him to ignore grooming). make up is never just the solution, but a good skin care that doesnt have to expensive is. the confidence and such I agree on. we have to try and work on ourselves, despite all. We still learn and change overtime, and we sometimes dont even realize it, but everyone should shut up about his teeth cos he has a very bad receeding lower jaw and that cant be just fixed with braces at that age I think. I had a friend who had a bad receeding upper jaw and she had braces but her upper jaw was so bad, she had to correct it with surgery with lots of risks.
@Blueeyesinthesky
4 жыл бұрын
Myrk Fælinn no I agree with you. Even though I got braces I still have an over bite because that’s just how my teeth naturally set in my mouth. But I’m still very very thankful I was able to get braces. My dad paid for my braces and he doesn’t make a lot of money at all. He works a minimum wage job but I’m very lucky that he was still able to do that for me. I think It’s one of the greatest gifts I could’ve received. It’s great you were born with decent teeth! Haha that means you don’t have to wear a retainer at night for the rest of your life lol! And I agree makeup is not at all as important as skin care. I mean the better the skin the better your makeup will look as well. I feel bad the guy has received mistreatment for his appearance. I hope he finds real love someday
@Blueeyesinthesky
4 жыл бұрын
Diana Muniz no I definitely had a period where I was made fun of for my teeth because they were just bad. It was a big overbite and one of my front teeth crossed over the other. I was also really skinny and scrawny too so people would be mean about that. The one that stood out to me the most was the kid in 5th grade. I kinda liked him too so it was really hurtful. But I’m honestly glad those things happened cause idk who I’d be if I didn’t go through those things 🤷🏼♀️ also I’m sorry people have said that to you, I’m sure your very beautiful :)
@diegocloroxx
4 жыл бұрын
I remember watching this video a long time ago. I haven't seen it since then. I'm really curious to know how my mindset has changed over the years.
@tygarspace1754
4 жыл бұрын
He made new videos
@diegocloroxx
4 жыл бұрын
@@tygarspace1754 yeah, I've seen a few. I'm talking about how I've changed since I last watched the original video
@tygarspace1754
4 жыл бұрын
@@diegocloroxx sorry I didn't read your comment right. Well I think you should know the answer best ;)
@blazejecar
4 жыл бұрын
I mean... the guy already had a whole lot more dates and relationship history than me so...
@maxkho00
3 жыл бұрын
Blaming the victim and downplaying the pain that the guy has gone through by saying you had it just as rough as him (when you clearly didn't). This video was painful to watch. I hope he never sees this video in his life - it might take a real toll on his mental health.
@realdavidjones1623
3 жыл бұрын
He never said he had it as rough as him
@user2407
4 жыл бұрын
Ok, so let me get it straight. It is easier to have a great personality when you look good because then you are always appreciated for your looks. It boosts your self esteem and makes you more confident. If you are born ugly you can't do anything about it. Even if you have a great personality but look like a fucking golem you will be rejected. Think of it like a product. If it looks good you will buy it and if it is good you will keep buying it. That's the same with person, if you look good you will attract people and then it depends on you. But if you look like this guy, you won't be able to attract people and that's how things are. Look at your classic charm series, all the guys are good looking.
@NickOloteo
4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. So many attractive women on here claiming they were called ugly. When? When they were super young
@user2407
4 жыл бұрын
@@NickOloteo they don't understand men. Simple.
@paulgotik
4 жыл бұрын
@@NickOloteo yep there's on comment above of a girl who was called ugly one time in 5th or 6th grade comparing her experience to this guy experience and then saying "you just need to be confident". C'mon, you can't be more oblivious than this.
@CiaofCleburne
4 жыл бұрын
Not sure I agree. I worked with a young lady who had some serious physical flaws yet she was the one girl in office everyone clamored to be around. Her personalty was striking. Her husband may have also been considered “less physically attractive”, but they loved each other so much no one noticed their looks.
4 жыл бұрын
@FujitoraTheGreat you sound butthurt
@jagelskardey
4 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite video and reaction of yours! So many valid points. I definitely go for personalities (I'm demisexual and it's impossible for me to be attracted to someone just bc of their looks. So Tinder is weird for me bc I never have a clue if they're my type) and from what I can see he doesn't have a very attractive one. He seems shallow, bitter and judgemental etc. Now I know that was his low point so maybe he's funny and all that but humor is super important for me in a relationship and it didn't seem like he had much of that. Also that was a really good point in the end when it comes to girls. It often seems like guys feel like just bc they're flirting with a so called unattractive girl, the girl should just be happy and let him sleep with her, no matter what. As if she owes him that. But there needs to be a connection. The way he views women made me feel really bad about myself, it made me question the intent of every guy flirting with me.
@soriasoda4038
4 жыл бұрын
I dated someone who looked like him for two years. Personality is a HUGE factor.
@wildebeastjr
4 жыл бұрын
Did you wear a beanie the whole time?!?
@soriasoda4038
4 жыл бұрын
Nah. This picture was taken years after.
@NickOloteo
4 жыл бұрын
DurAAceLL she’s not Tim Pool
@uglydude4691
4 жыл бұрын
I wonder, how tall was he?
@soriasoda4038
4 жыл бұрын
I'm 5'2 it doesn't matter how tall he is lol. It's not hard to be taller
@kkibela
4 жыл бұрын
Every thing this dude says about adam driver is dead ass on the money ... I have gotten up and walked away from cute guys because they had no ethical backbone in casual group conversation .. Its All about how self aware and self possessed a person is 100
@AnthonyRecenello
4 жыл бұрын
boom
@wallontheroad
4 жыл бұрын
It’s adorable when attractive people proselytize about how other people should feel when not attractive, or should I say “ugly”. Let’s stop with BS and hypocrisy. We all know that looks is what ppl notice first, and there are actual studies that more attractive ppl have vast advantage over not so attractive. It has nothing to do with shallowness. It’s just an inate thing, simple biology.
@spiritofgamer990
4 жыл бұрын
Soo true !! Attractive people dont understand and never will, they get soo less rejections and more options!! how you can compare this i dont understand!
@marinaSassygUrl88
3 жыл бұрын
I agree to this. But I also agree that it’s still a shallow way of thinking. When I went through puberty I was the UGLIEST... very very unattractive ( I may look well on my profile but I’ve came a long way, deffo better than before lol) So I understand what feeling ugly and getting rejected is. But also I had a terrible personality.... idk something tells me it was my personal that was much more harmful than my face and caused people to hate me 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️ There’s a lot to you that meets the eye than your looks, it’s a true thing. Almost all my guy friends/ex’s were ugly. But when I liked them as them, I instantly saw them very attractive. Even the most attractive in some cases. Not saying your opinion or anyone on this doesn’t matter, this is just my take on.
@yams.4308
3 жыл бұрын
But people base their attractiveness on the opinions of others, right? Which depends on your environment. Someone may seem attractive to you, but have loads of self esteem issues due to them not being seen as attractive by the people around them. Invalidating someone’s experiences unless you personally find them unattractive isn’t the best way to go about things.
@tahmkenchusta5852
2 жыл бұрын
@@marinaSassygUrl88 nope, judging from your profile picture, you’re overweight and your face isn’t chiseled. If you looked like you were carved out of marble you would’ve been able to minimize your rejections, and your “bad” personality wouldn’t have mattered that much. It’s okay though in sixty years to maybe tomorrow you’ll probably die, and see if there’s anything deep out there or if it’s just as shallow as you claim evolutionary disposition towards good genes is.
@Abnormalproductions2
4 жыл бұрын
I'm thinking maybe his parents were the ones who pointed those things out to him (Like his loose skin) that's why he makes a point of it.
@kcs4652
4 жыл бұрын
Def possible.
@kcs4652
4 жыл бұрын
When I was 10, cut my hair on my own once and thought I like it, but my mom came in and said “you look like a boy” to where I cried in my room for hours. We lived in a townhouse so the walls were paper thin, she could hear me. And she didn’t bat an eye. I’m 22 now and I still think I look like a fucking boy lol and I’m tearing up typing this.
@artisticagi
4 жыл бұрын
K C S so damaging :( I’m sure that’s not the only instance either. Therapy could help
@kcs4652
4 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for the kind words. I know this may seem like nothing to some people but this really scarred me, I know I’m an adult now and I have the tools to overcome this, because I would do ANYTHING for my mother, and I understand that she wasn’t stable herself when she would hurt me like this. Hurt people Hurt people! I forgive her, but I’m still working on overcoming this.
@Abnormalproductions2
4 жыл бұрын
@@kcs4652 That really sucks, you didn't deserve that.
@shanwnpat3447
4 жыл бұрын
Hello Anthony, hope you're doing well. attractive people wouldn't really understand how hard is living and dealing with people reactions over ugly people looking. Being ugly is totally different than being unattractive. Looking does affects on personality, if you ever try to be confident, sociable, funny and just be yourself you'd face societies who made a system of beauty and ugliness relating them to good and bad traits. you'd never change the impressions on their heads if they don't want to, they gonna act offensively over anything an ugly person does or says because they're just looking for something to make them start bullying or fighting and be comfortable on their conscience sides and not be blamed on.You might not see people on real life acting this way because you're simply classified as 'attractive' to society. People aren't what they really are in front of rich and attractive people but they're themselves in front of unattractive and less people than them, that's how you're gonna see the world's reality.
@iregretmyname8983
4 жыл бұрын
Damn I actually cried when he told the story about his mother printing pictures of celebrities with "ugly" noses :( I remember my mother telling me similar things when I was younger :(
@romaniamyland6191
2 жыл бұрын
his mother was....no comment...
@shizukagozen777
2 жыл бұрын
Why ? That was wholesome. 😙
@mishynaofficial
2 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I cried too. Except my mother would never- 😭
@nikkilengyel
4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, if he had some orthodontic work done, cut his hair, got different glasses and went to the gym, he wouldn't look bad at all. Minimal changes can do a lot, it's not a question of plastic surgery or anything. Also, I can relate to what he says; I was also called ugly, boys didn't like me, didn't fight over me/chase me, bullied me, rejected me etc while other girls seemed to have no problem getting a boyfriend. But the past doesn't define me as it doesn't define you. With work on your personality and looks, you'll be way more attractive and interesting.
@IIIISai
4 жыл бұрын
damn, stay strong champ
@isaacclarke2860
4 жыл бұрын
@Mr Zazovia Thank you for your wise words. Here a comment not from me but from the original video (being ugly : my experience). The, "Just fix yourself up and workout" comments are so one dimensional and kind of stupid, those people clearly missed the point. There's a lot more of factors that go into being ugly that people can't help. How are we supposed to change since we are born like that?
@lucashiroshins
4 жыл бұрын
First of all, orthodontics fix your teeth, not much your jaw or the bones of your face, so no. If he cuts his hair he'll get worse, the hair is helping. Maybe a different glass would help, but that would be minimal. And most important of all, you're a woman, you can't relate. It's way different. Not even considering that you just said the problem with him is that he's different from what you think he should be.
@goggle2233
4 жыл бұрын
Watch Animes ASAP mewing can work if he wants to changes his jaw.
@lucashiroshins
4 жыл бұрын
@@goggle2233 Yeah, I've read somewhere he's doing it, he's better now but it only goes so far.
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