To get rid of a woman who you don't want anymore, you just have to overpursue, tell her how much you love her. Act needy and send hearthwarming messages and you are set xD
@拥
5 жыл бұрын
hej lmao genius
@elsquibbs
4 жыл бұрын
I tried that once abs and told me she wanted to have my baby. 😲
@HelloWorld-ep7ts
4 жыл бұрын
@@elsquibbs that's some jedi magic
@fairpoor
4 жыл бұрын
Hahahhahaha
@petermachiela5441
4 жыл бұрын
I actually did this, works like a charm
@friedchickenbucket
9 жыл бұрын
my god this is so true. everytime i start seeing a girl, they do most of the chasing. then i start acting like an idiot and start chasing them back, falling for their "you don't call me" "you don't text me often" "we should see each other more often" talks. when i end up doing that, they start to treat me like ASS. then i have to pull back, disappear, and they blow up my phone. this shit doesn't make sense to the rational mind, but this is how they are.
@TVinmyEye
9 жыл бұрын
Your comment is on point! Seriously.
@JihadBunnydick
9 жыл бұрын
***** how many days were you no contact till she reached out?
@friedchickenbucket
7 жыл бұрын
holy shit, good analogy.
@martwalker131
7 жыл бұрын
don't ya hate that
@djarmonic
6 жыл бұрын
It's 2018 and this is what I'm going through 😅
@epicbehavior
7 жыл бұрын
Women will fluctuate naturally on their own, especially depending on the time of the month. They are like the weather, forever changing. The important thing is to not react.
@Trustn01718
6 жыл бұрын
epicbehavior i needed that 👍🏼
@jomormont
6 жыл бұрын
What if she disrespects you though?
@zakariatanzim6910
6 жыл бұрын
Perfect
@zakariatanzim6910
6 жыл бұрын
@@jomormont pull back
@AotO_DJ
5 жыл бұрын
Jo Mormont You make her get down on her knees and make her apologize.
@thomaslasic1984
11 жыл бұрын
every guy needs to master this...i met this amazing, smart, independent, gorgeous woman a couple months ago...everything was great, til one day she got extremely emotional, confused,unsure, and weird. Our connection was uncanny...i stood my ground, walked away, and within 4 days she was blowing up my phone, facebook, and email accounts...stay confident guys...never put her on a pedistle, yet stay humble, be a gentleman, and walk the line
@DavidMorris90
4 жыл бұрын
Going through this right now. Staying on my mission my purpose
@TVinmyEye
3 жыл бұрын
Dude same scenario with me. Talking to this absolutely stunning Girl. We’ve been hanging out almost every weekend. The sex has been absolutely phenomenal lol, I actually could not keep up with her libido. Just now. I asked her out again and for the first time got a very very short response, she was ignoring my invitation. I just sent her the “lmk when your schedule looks free” damn this is gonna really test me :gulp:
@sunitafisher4758
3 жыл бұрын
@@beanscool9241 🌸 I agree ghosting is disrespectful Whatever happens don’t let her change you into her, I mean don’t treat the next lady badly because of her. You stay amazing and trust me you will find someone, you are correct you have to have a balanced relationship because if she’s the one initiating all texts or calls she’s going to feel unloved and just used. Always trust your heart & your intuition 👍🏼
@Dylan-kn2ty
3 жыл бұрын
@@TVinmyEye did she hit you up?
@JihadBunnydick
3 жыл бұрын
@@TVinmyEye Did she contact you?
@Xianpaul0523
5 жыл бұрын
Most men doesnt understand that women falls back naturally and doesnt do it intentionally. If you dont understand it as a man then you will perceive it as a game and may turn yourself to have hatred with them. The best thing to do is to understand that its on their nature and just give them space once they need it and do it without any hatred so once she comes back you didnt loss your interest.
@robertpollock5468
5 жыл бұрын
Yes good point. They're not doing it maliciously. Important to understand I've fallen into this thinking before.
@yf4453
5 жыл бұрын
Allen Ballesteros it’s not just women. People naturally need to breathe and need their space to recalibrate, especially introverts
@operationada
4 жыл бұрын
#facts
@herrklamm1454
3 жыл бұрын
@@yf4453 well said. I am one of those people.
@rollingtinfist
3 жыл бұрын
@@yf4453 excellent point.
@elsquibbs
4 жыл бұрын
You need to give her an opportunity to miss you. That's how it works.
@fabianpatrizio2865
3 жыл бұрын
3 weeks enough ? :))
@diningroomfish5470
3 жыл бұрын
That works at first, not down the road
@diningroomfish5470
3 жыл бұрын
@@fabianpatrizio2865 it will never be enough
@dexterwinston7982
3 жыл бұрын
What if it's your sons mother and yall have been together for 5 years??
@kellywhitfield4183
4 жыл бұрын
Hey guys, woman here, if you have standards, boundaries, self value and don't put us on a pedestal in the beginning.... Yet, you show a slow and steady interest, you will win over an actual woman.
@rottenapples14
6 жыл бұрын
Just be patient brothas
@azull1189
4 жыл бұрын
For real!
@CodbO3Nick
4 жыл бұрын
Big time!
@azull1189
3 жыл бұрын
@Davo Rebo ok here is the deal bro, whenever a girl reaches out to you, assume she wants to see you and make a definite date, set a time and place to meet and have 2-3 places you guys can go to, and make this date in the evening and no lunches, and or movies. Or you can initiate a meet up and if she says yes tell her that you’re only down to relax at your house because you’ve had a long week or have been very busy the past few days and just want to chill, make her come to you,
@ghostccc8089
3 ай бұрын
@@azull1189I mean the come over thing I guess can work, but if you’ve read his book 10-15 times yet you’ll rethink that. Get drinks, get food after if it’s going well or some other activity, then feel it out. If she’s all over you already, THEN you invite her over. There’s a certain type that will definitely come over on the first date, but you ain’t takin that bitch home to mom that’s for sure.
@CeeTeeUSA
5 жыл бұрын
If a woman plays this game with you, it's time for her to go. When I hear guys saying they handled it right, I know they didn't because they're still wasting time trying to break the girl. This is failure. If she loses interest, move on and become very busy, too busy for her. I'll say this, this coach has the best information I've heard so far. Never take advice from women, that's for sure..
@AotO_DJ
5 жыл бұрын
Cee Tee I flat out blocked her because she didn’t keep her promise that she even apologized for before.
@petermachiela5441
4 жыл бұрын
@@AotO_DJ Alpha male strategies watch it on youtube, never block her. U butthurt cause she didn't keep a promise. Grow up beta boy
@ItsNoesis
4 жыл бұрын
2 days ago i dumped my girl bc she wasn’t chasing and wasn’t reciprocating the same energy as me. she was brought up a guy when we were on ft and that was a red flag for me. especially since she was leaving me on read, taking hours to respond, and being dry asf. i dumped her but deep down i miss her. i’m doing no contact and gonna focus on myself and purpose. i hope she comes back so i can set new rules and gain my power back. she blocked my number but none of my social media and still watches my stories. i wanna talk to her, but i know it’s better for her to reach out to me. fellas is this the right thing to do?
@igis1013
4 жыл бұрын
@@ItsNoesis you dumped her, so you should reach out, even Coach says that. You dumped her out of that she wasn't chasing you, but did you gave her space and time for chase?
@ItsNoesis
4 жыл бұрын
Igis101 yeah I did it in hopes that she’ll come to a realization that it was her loss, but it’s all good. I learned from my mistake and should’ve talked to her instead of kicking her to the curb so fast. I don’t want her back anyways and she had a new boyfriend already lol
@alphalight1469
5 жыл бұрын
Some days it will seem like she doesn’t communicate as much as you’d like but remember that it should never be to the point where you feel she is flat out ignoring you. If she goes a whole day without talking to you wait it out, it’s most likely a test 99% of the time to test your strength. My woman did this to me to see if I would message her first but she gave in the next morning. It’s best most of the time to reciprocate attention to her when she offers you sweetness and love first. If you constantly send her messages and ask beta male shit like “why haven’t you responded?” She’s gonna think you have nothing going on with your life. If you are waiting for a text do something to get your mind off her. Play some video games, study, work out , go to work, something. Let the woman chase you, you’re the fucking man, not a bitch. The only good thing about showering your girl with love is that she gets used to it and expects it. Then when you cut it off she begins to question what happened then she starts to come back to you because she misses that. She will then reach out, that’s when you set up a date, have fun, and hook up.
@nickstrapko7549
3 жыл бұрын
Its a game of Dog chase Cat/
@alphalight1469
3 жыл бұрын
@@nickstrapko7549 It sure is, it shouldn’t be that way but it is.
@Blvkkise
2 жыл бұрын
@@-hopaej-4842 so curious what happend 🤔
@abhijittripathi1385
2 жыл бұрын
@@-hopaej-4842 you shouldnt be watching her stories. yOU SHOULDNT BE WATCHING ANYONES STORIES
@edenhazard1620
Жыл бұрын
Such a great comment, my man!
@kuunami
5 жыл бұрын
Crazy thing is that I know this but I keep screwing up. The advice is 100 percent correct but it requires a lot of mental and emotional discipline.
@Agent-qd4vv
5 жыл бұрын
kuunami True that
@Prochillah90
5 жыл бұрын
I am in that situatuon right now with my (still) gf. She says she needs distance. Then i say ok i am fine with that, i need it too. Then she panics, freaks out and asks me for how long. Rationalizing that she only meant just ome particular evening because of stress. Then she complains about the emotional distance. When i visit her in order to reconnect the distance she avoids contact and says shee needs distance. Then i behave distant and she complains again and wants to talk. I am at a point where i somehow do not care anymore and would be fine with breaking up. But since this seems to be a regular thing for womens behaviour i just leave her for a week and see if she comes back after her holidays. (For now she can't even handle one day of no contact). Also she is right before her period which causes her hormones to flip. The problem is that this distance-thing causes my romantic feelings to disappear and lose interest myself. But this issue just lasts for one week now. I think its too early to decide a final break up. Because for me there is no coming back after that.
@f0x268
5 жыл бұрын
@@Prochillah90 I think you should just start talking to other women
@Prochillah90
5 жыл бұрын
@@f0x268 haha yes. She broke up on saturday and now begs me to come back. Even though i told her multiple times that once the relationship is over, it is for good with no coming back. It actually was somewhat relieving for me..
@rafiirizal2440
5 жыл бұрын
@@Prochillah90 good for you my guy
@davidp2888
4 жыл бұрын
This is so timely to what happened to me today. My girl and I are in a long-distance relationship of about 19 months. Today I woke up to an email from her saying she was unplugging from social media and her phone and that she'd be in touch "tonight". Without missing a beat, I went about my business and didn't contact her at all. Within 3 hours of her sending that email she was actively pursuing me for my time and attention. I vividly remember Coach saying "Women are like cats, they like to wander and not be confined. When she starts to roam, let her; she'll find her way back when she's ready." It works.
@lukeArmstrong524
2 жыл бұрын
Give women freedom. Never chase them and dont care what they are doing or who they are with, it only causes insecurity and she looses attraction. Secret is not caring..
@Wahinies
Жыл бұрын
@@lukeArmstrong524 good, concise advice there. It may sound kitschy but I have found getting in the habit of working out whether at the gym or home or in my case, since a neighbor has a Smith machine, a fellow man's home, has helped me immensely with focus and spending time more wisely. 15 minute meditation sessions have been very helpful as well.
@bluejean-1968
9 жыл бұрын
Was feeling a bit bored in my relationship. When I told my guy about it, I thought he would start sulking or start a fight. Instead his exact words were: "Yea, I know you've been feeling that way. That's pretty normal in new relationships. To be completely honest, I am feeling it a bit too. We are gonna have to figure this out." I was like.."Wait... what? You are bored with me?!" Spark and interest back instantly. This man has a way with me, I tell ya.
@JohnDoe-ef3nv
7 жыл бұрын
good point. When my girl told me she "needed space" I should have just said "Yea, I think i need space as well"
@elvinlewis4233
6 жыл бұрын
Crap! You women are learning our maneuvers. lol.
@noelmakarth156
5 жыл бұрын
This stupid cut is oblivious
@AotO_DJ
5 жыл бұрын
Edged Line It is involuntary. Most of the time it’s not cat and mouse games but some women are REALLY passive-agressive. So I blocked her, and if she comes back, she is gonna sacrifice WAAAAAAY too much. She apologized for this before but this time I ain’t gonna be sold cheap.
@jimmieupton1440
5 жыл бұрын
@@noelmakarth156 lmfao
@TomDeVito
4 жыл бұрын
This is so true. Most men don't understand a woman pulls back naturally and she's not doing it intentionally. If you don't understand that as a man guess what? your brain is gonna process that as "Oh let's chase" stop right there sparky that is the worst fucking thing you can do! Remember two things here gentlemen 1. You're not a woman's dog and 2. Stop putting her on a pedestal. Instead what you need to do is focus on yourself i.e. Career, Go to the gym, Call up some friends, Find a hobby, Go to a bar, Talk to other women, Go for a walk, or go for a fucking bike ride. Cause I promise you if you give a girl her space after a couple hours or even a day or two she will come back just gotta be patient guys
@kvs7876
3 жыл бұрын
Every man who is in a relationship needs to watch this video 10 to 14 times
@croatiancroissant28776
3 жыл бұрын
My last breakup fixed this issue in me. She left, and I went into REAL no contact. 7 months later, she came back saying she’d made a mistake. I didn’t get excited, and I’d completely changed the way I interacted with her. No more “good morning, I love you” crap. No more daily texting. She started asking if I even wanted to be with her. I said “I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t”, and continued my low contact method. She doesn’t even act like the girl I dated before. SHE pursues ME now. SHE asks if I love her. SHE asks “is everything ok?”. SHE asks to be with me before I can ask. Works like a charm. (It helps that I have girls on standby that she knows about. She can blame herself for the roster I acquired when she left me the first time.)
@RacksonRacksonRibss
10 ай бұрын
Had almost this exact thing happen to me. Literally ~7 months later too. But now I’m over her.. so there’s that
@jkumadapharaoh8514
2 жыл бұрын
Seriously, this video I’ve come back to multiple times. It’s like we know this but we can’t help out natural urge to wanna “fix” but despite how I feel I follow this advice and it almost always works haha. When it didn’t, it was due to an actual incompatibility issue and I realize that I was also giving off signs of disinterest but took time for me to accept it. Staying focused on what I need to do has always been the solution. Thanks Corey! 🙏🏾🙏🏾
@lawrencechatman2920
7 жыл бұрын
As many times as I watched this video, I still fumbled the football!! Gotta read the book 10 to 15 times!!!
@Blodia1990
6 жыл бұрын
Lawrence Chatman you're goofing bro read the book my g
@theexadvice1664
6 жыл бұрын
Me 3 n I know this shit back and forth but it's an ex it's difficult as f. Best way is to just walk away and let her do 100% of chase, sometimes we fail when we try to read between the lines when we thing she's trying to send a message, perhaps a fb post a ig story, a snapchat post, but instead what you should is not be checking anything out and not be thinking she may be trying to send a covert message, just don't pay attention to her if she really wants to talk to you or see you, she will reach out directly. She may in fact be trying to send a message but what you do with the information is crucial best thing is not to look at anything she does on social media second best is to just be indifferent to whatever she does. First option is best because that way you can focus on yourself improve your life and move on to find someone else you can do things right from the start.
@RockwildazFamily
5 жыл бұрын
the "secret" to this is, live YOUR life... talk to MULTIPLE WOMEN, doesn't even have to have interest in them, just TALK to them.
@YouaintSR
4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@neofamily23
5 жыл бұрын
He looks exactly like Thanos
@christopherarmstrong2710
2 жыл бұрын
0:30 “A gem cannot be polished without friction, nor a man perfected without trials.” (Antifragile, Pathemata Mathemata). 2:40 When the guy does 40%-50% of the pursuing, then the polarity is not strong enough, to literally the point where he’s over-pursuing. She can basically tell that he’s more into the relationship than she is. 4:00 A woman’s emotions are going to fluctuate towards you based on her hormones and/or your behavior. 5:30 Women are like cats, they get bored and they go off to roam around the neighborhood. You can’t take it personally. 6:05 Women like guys that are mysterious. When they’re around you all the time, they get familiar with you and attraction drops (why they go off to read the spicy romance novels). 6:45 When she gets too familiar and bored and backs off, you've just got to let her go. 8:10 Her sexual tension must build up by her having space and having time to wonder about you, and when ready is like the button on the thanksgiving turkey popping up (Hahaha). You’ve got to get to the point where that doesn’t bother you. No matter how much or how little time you’re spending together, you’re still focused 100% on your purpose in life - and you’re not coming unglued and freaking out. 9:10 As the guy starts to pursue more and more, the girl starts to pursue less and less - simply because she’s become sure of how she feels about you. When she feels that you’re more into her than she is into you, then that’s going to cause her to become unsure and to back off. That’s why it’s important that you give her the space. *You’ve got to learn to find the balance between pursuing too much and not pursuing enough.*
@3Dshiznit
5 жыл бұрын
Wish I would’ve seen this a month ago, I pushed her when she obviously needed space, but I thought there was something wrong with our relationship and tried to fix it. Completely backfired
@robinmattias
4 жыл бұрын
Now you know!
@ULTIMATEUNITED2000
3 жыл бұрын
@3Dshiznit What happened in the end
@DJA-dd2mk
7 жыл бұрын
I'm a woman and I found this vid while trying to figure out why I've been feeling the need to pull away from a guy. This actually answered my question... So thank you for that! ...If only he could watch this LOL
@RDMGAMER
5 жыл бұрын
Dale Jade Annandale did he figure it out?
@blackpage716
7 жыл бұрын
I have a gf who I have been off and on with since I was 15 yrs old, we are now 30. I suspect she is a narcissisit. So I've been learning how to deal with that part. But today she went into one of her "patterns" and I had to get to the bottom of this fluctuation, and discovered that women are hot and cold. It's a whole other level of awareness.
@jomormont
6 жыл бұрын
I know the feeling. But honestly, if a woman is hot and cold like that for that long, you're wasting your time or you're doing something wrong.
@GamerKidPlaysGames
5 жыл бұрын
how u stay with her knowing she’s done stuff w other guys when y’all are off
@UnrealEngineTutorials
5 жыл бұрын
Took you 15 years to figure that out? Lol. The best advice I can give to men is to assume that ALL women have BPD. They basically do, its why theyre all so hot and cold
@f0x268
5 жыл бұрын
demote her to a friend with benefits
@jrivera8678
5 жыл бұрын
God I love you Corey. Everything you say works and is so true. The toughest part is being patient but getting use to your program. Got the book and audio book. I see other men make these mistakes and think how that used to be me. Hearing your advice makes me confident and secure.
@giovannij1368
Жыл бұрын
As always,Corey is absolutely right. You can't overreact. Not only women buy people in general don't always want to be around the same people all the time
@rovertech6426
5 жыл бұрын
Make this a daily watch when you are dating it will save you a lot of aggravation!!
@CoachCoreyWayne
11 жыл бұрын
Good job dude
@sunny2day313
4 жыл бұрын
What if woman after that 'long weekend together' realises that 'the guy' doesn't have substance behind that mysterious confident exterior? Neither she sees any future with him... Aww, Corey, surely you can do better...
@SpeedyWinds
2 жыл бұрын
We need to nominate this guy, to the hall of fame. Awesome content!
@Kyoto99952
3 жыл бұрын
I'm reading this man's book (halfway-through) and a few days later already had the best date of my life with a beautiful girl. It was very successful and she texted she had a great evening. It was very strange because first i felt so anxious hours before the date as her beauty and confidence was intimating and i almost cancelled. But i decided to go anyway and i was super confident, witty, made her laugh out loud and other girls looked at us with jealousy. it was amazing ! Thanks man !
@JuanPablo-mu6tc
2 жыл бұрын
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,
@ccmetalhead
6 жыл бұрын
Thanks coach. Confession time I totally came unglued today, so glad you're there to set me straight.
@part1801
6 жыл бұрын
I'm 53 and have been a lot of relationships and the whole who texts and who calls and when only seems to be an issue where the girl doesn't like you anyway. Anytime I've been in a relationship with a girl that has lived with me I never even thought about any of this because the girls wants me to talk to her. I just think a lot of Cory's clients are are trying to make something happen that's simply not there. Even if you do everything right it's no guarantee that someone is going to want you.
@aldrinrivas8673
5 жыл бұрын
Because attraction is not a choice.
@cruzefrank
5 жыл бұрын
His technique is all about weeding out people that you wouldn't want in your life
@aldrinrivas8673
5 жыл бұрын
@@cruzefrank yeah for us be able to see the truth.
@sixtyoneeight
5 жыл бұрын
Yes exactly. These videos are geared for dealing with women who aren't that into you anyway. Whenever I lived with a girlfriend, none of this stuff even came up.
@90blacknight
5 жыл бұрын
@@sixtyoneeight You have to know how to build attraction with women. It's not some magical "if it's meant to be it will happen" garbage you hear from Disney movies. Think about how you attracted your girlfriends. I'm willing to bet you weren't the clingy, obsessive, paranoid type with them. You didn't worry about these things probably because you were doing things right, and you acted like nothing phased you.
@thezondoinsuranceTV
3 жыл бұрын
2021 June 17 still relevant and applicable and continuously took end of the world 🌍
@MrVolcomclassic
7 жыл бұрын
As you say Corey, it is very hard to maintain emotional self control. I'm dating this awesome girl right now where she's been doing all the texting, intiating etc. I have been following what you say in the book by being a man, focusing on my purpose. I'm used to her texting me at least every day but she didn't do it yesterday. Thinking about it, I spent Thursday, Friday night and Saturday night with her. Maybe she did get familiar. Last text she sent said she had a great time as usual. We have a date today set for a specific time and place but Its hard for me to maintain control. As you said men are used to purpose drive etc. So the "illusion of action" is wanting me to text her since she hasn't done it but I know I just have to be patient and hit her up when I'm on my way. As you say, live in the present moment.
@DominicCruz
7 жыл бұрын
Bro I was going through the same thing. I'm rekindling with my ex and the approach is a lot different than before. She's reached out majority of the time and I always set the date. This past Saturday we had a great time and I haven't herd from her since. It's hard to maintain control, but it's how we strengthen up emotionally.
@theexadvice1664
6 жыл бұрын
Dominic Cruz Where you able to keep her?
@TrustYeshua4Ever
5 жыл бұрын
I always thought maybe it was A mistake for not buying your book back in 2013 when my researching discovered you... But, then I probably wouldn't had met my best friend after years without listening to you until just this year. I got her to fall for me three years this month since we met... Thanks to you starting last month, I love you, especially your book, so of course: God bless you, too!
@agee7777
5 жыл бұрын
when you are just starting out with a girl and she backs off you fear she will meet another guy and forget about you, especially if shes hot.
@SuperDenkoo
7 жыл бұрын
doesn't really makes much sense, but work sooo well! :)
@rahulmakwana7394
6 жыл бұрын
Hey Coach... You r my hero sir... U changed my life... Im happy... Hats off to you Sir... U give nothing but the most simple, totally effective solutions. It was a miraculous time when i found your video on KZitem. I generally watch your video as daily stuff n get recharged everytime.. thank you so sir...
@filthyrich335
5 жыл бұрын
Does it ever stop being a game ?
@WildfireS1
4 жыл бұрын
It does not.
@mr.porter4373
4 жыл бұрын
No
@jakemf1
4 жыл бұрын
Sadly Nope-this is why many just stop playing
@ricardovinagre5060
4 жыл бұрын
No.....
@walsh007
4 жыл бұрын
Yes it does,when you both are dead 🤣🤣 game over
@meeoy777
4 жыл бұрын
This is going to confuse alot of guys there is no set way to run game on a girl every situation is different
@flmclau
6 жыл бұрын
She can pull back as much as she wants,I'll never pull out !
@ralpharances
5 жыл бұрын
flmclau 😂😂😂
@gwengold1342
5 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@StefinSales
4 жыл бұрын
Yikes 😬
@malonetravis5785
2 ай бұрын
Sounds like Grape to me champ
@lowremedy2294
5 жыл бұрын
Best advice giving space my partner did the pull back thing today bit of attitude we been getting pretty close the last two weeks or so really bonding but yeah I reckon backing off and making her miss me is the best decision like a magnet pull in for a few days then pull away for a few days even weeks dont hassle her txting just chill and let her do the work.
@calebrobinson8346
3 жыл бұрын
I've read your book and listened to its audio version more times than I can count, but I've been rusty and this exact thing has been causing me issues. Good thing you're always there to help! Already turning things around with your brilliant advice.
@manuelh.personaanima6256
5 жыл бұрын
As much as Corey Wayne’s advice, including reading his book multiple times, helped me when I was dating, all his videos and his advice fall short when you’re actually in a relationship. I did really well for myself when I dated, but his advice is often not specific for a lot of real life situations, especially when you’ve already been dating a girl for a year. I’ve learned a lot and have even thought about sharing things I’ve learned on my own that coaches like Corey, the Develop Attraction dude, Dr. Love, etc. don’t/can’t cover. Part of the reason is because CW is not in a relationship.
@manuelh.personaanima6256
5 жыл бұрын
@@JonKonik11 You missed the point. I read his book multiple times and know that CW has been in multiple relationships. I'm stating that, even though I've learned a lot about dating from CW, he falls short in his advice especially when you've already got the girl and you've been seeing her for more than say six months. CW is not in a relationship and he has said multiple times in his videos that he hasn't been in a committed relationship for a while, so I think his advice could be better/sharper if he was dealing with the challenges that come up in relationships.
@nonstop1861
5 жыл бұрын
I bet you haven’t read the book 10-15 times and are trying to pick stuff from the videos.
@Texas240
5 жыл бұрын
There's a whole section in the book regarding the post-dating/relationship phase. One thing you have to understand about relationships, in general, is that it's not an "alpha" thing. So, you're giving her some of your power simply by "committing" to the relationship. You need to find time away from her. Just like you did when you were dating. You need to not be needy, just like when you were dating, etc, etc. Basically, you need to juggle being the guy she fell for (mysterious, pre-occupied, strong, etc) with "giving unconditionally". Then, you need to be aware that being "giving" is giving her validation which will naturally drive her attraction towards you down. You still need to be a source of validation that she is able to chase, but actually dole out that validation (compliments, your time, etc) in careful measures based on her attraction level to you and her interest in the relationship. While you're "giving unconditionally", you'll still need to keep an eye open to gauge if you're also receiving what you need from the relationship. Inherently females are not built for relationships because they lose interest in a guy that shows them constant attention and affection. The exception is when she gets to her "i'm looking for a beta male provider phase" and she's willing to stay in a relationship that isn't "fun" or "interesting" with a guy who isn't "mysterious" anymore so that she can have stability. Find stuff to do with your guy friends. Go out. Don't bring her along. Take work trips out of town. Do that sort of thing to create space and allow her to chase you again. Sure, she'll give you shit for it and say you should spend more time with her. But, just like when you were dating, remember that if you give it to what she THINKS she wants, she'll lose attraction for you. Look into AMS (alpha male strategies) he has a few more "hardcore" things on handling relationships than what Corey does offer in the part of the book that you didn't see.
@alexander191297
3 ай бұрын
True. I was with my girlfriend back in her hometown to support her during her brother’s funeral. Spending over a week together meant that the last few days, her interest dropped. She didn’t want to be physically intimate or even affectionate in the slightest way. So on the way back home, I told her we should part ways and have some space for ourselves. A few days pass, and she calls me, asking when we will see each other again. That’s just how it works! 😅
@jasonl753
4 жыл бұрын
I find so much peace when women leave me alone. I get to go where-ever I want and buy whatever I want. Go buy the car or motorcycle you've always wanted or play the video games you wanted to play. Ditch their asses.
@eveharris30
6 жыл бұрын
I am a woman, but I'm the guy in all of your videos. I as a woman don't get bored with a guy I say I love. If women do this often than how can someone get married. You see that person everyday. So is it really love if people get bored that quickly? The guy I'm seeing does this all the time. He pulls back. It's a cat and mouse game.
@cellamoore
5 жыл бұрын
exactly. That is a game and I'm not going to be playing an on and off game with someone I actually want.
@NoOne-hx9ir
5 жыл бұрын
Lol! The reason you love him so much is because he pulls back
@kinguche9208
5 жыл бұрын
@@cellamoore the reason you won't play that game is because you loved the guy first. And his playing his defensive game to you, when you love a woman first or you love her to even trying to satisfy her first she will get bored
@kinguche9208
5 жыл бұрын
@@NoOne-hx9ir exactly
@cellamoore
5 жыл бұрын
@@kinguche9208okay, yea that's a good point actually.
@mikeylikey4963
Жыл бұрын
Women fall in love with me pretty quick. Last three gfs it was about a month. When I say it back I feel like they pull back. I then get annoyed af. Why? Because saying “I love you” is the beginning of spending more time and getting used to being around each other more. Seems for a lot of women, “I love you” doesn’t mean shit really and is just the emotional peak they’re looking for. To me “I love you” means “I can see a future and we’re already on a path to marriage”. I’d be a lone wolf for life if not for 1)sex 2)desire for kids and a family
@IshBooShow
8 жыл бұрын
coach corey! thank you for not sugar coating
@patana256
5 жыл бұрын
Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
@ShyanTheLegend
5 жыл бұрын
What if she finds someone new in that absence?
@patana256
5 жыл бұрын
@@ShyanTheLegend too bad
@Famusakafrankie
5 жыл бұрын
@@ShyanTheLegend then move forward like a truck.
@Ikecantstop1
3 жыл бұрын
If she disappears for a day or two, go with your other women & forget about until she comes back.
@kiliantreminio
6 жыл бұрын
I feel like I was more that alpha male in the beginning. I was focusing on myself & all my own things, not letting her behaviours overly affect how I feel, she was crazily attracted to me and chasing me etc. Recently though something has changed... I’ve let myself really fall more and more in love with her and it seems to be getting harder to maintain my “stance”. I’ve been doing more irrational things let’s just put it that way 😂 Surely opening up to her, loving her and reciprocating her love is not a bad thing. Why is she getting more distant towards me? 🤷♂️
@values26
5 жыл бұрын
Three quotes brotha. "Love her in a such away where she is free but afraid to lose you" "Treat yourself with self respect and not a doormat" "Women are cats, dont chase. Wait till they come to you and pet and love them."
@VoiceOfThe
5 жыл бұрын
Update?
@mwloos1
5 жыл бұрын
Music - The Voice Of The Soul Dumped!
@AotO_DJ
5 жыл бұрын
So that last part actually answers your question, doesn’t it?
@greentooth3097
3 жыл бұрын
You didn't fall in love with her, you fell out of love with yourself.
@wickedlife5684
5 жыл бұрын
I needed this video .. always hit me with the right wisdom at the time I need it most . Thanks coach !
@domoniquehargrove6019
3 жыл бұрын
Great Content! This mindset will help alot of Men who just don't know what to do when women are in the emotional phases! Thank you so much Coach! Timeless Knowledge!
@JuanPablo-mu6tc
2 жыл бұрын
±2348073317460⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.
@dalzone
11 жыл бұрын
excellent!! sometimes the cat goes for a roam - he heh....she'll be back!!
@thatcherschild
4 жыл бұрын
My ex was the pits. A cheater a ghoster, I met a really gorgeous nice lady from the Philippines about a year ago. It was not long after relationship from the ghost. I now realise these are for relationships that really don’t need any help, they just need ending soon. I don’t know if it’s a cultural thing but I’ve never met someone as loving and caring, intelligent and funny. Never played any games with each other, it’s been easy and fun.
@nicholasestepa8599
8 жыл бұрын
this video is great I can begin to explain how much I can relate and know I know what to-do
@nathantoth1527
6 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing video. With amount of videos you cover it's amazing you don't lose your voice.
@mae88b.16
3 жыл бұрын
This man is not teaching men how to hate women unlike other dating coaches, he is teaching how to Love women.
@MrDTown89
3 жыл бұрын
He's teaching them to sit there and wait like a puppy
@mario7501
2 жыл бұрын
I fully agree, it took me a long time to get this, but looking back at my late teens and early 20s, every time I didn't really care to get the attention of a girl I was dating, they were all over me until I actually got invested in the relationship. Pretty annoying, but you just seem to have to play these games.
@Emoni171
8 жыл бұрын
"Women like guys who are mysterious" 👀
@benjaminsimon362
8 жыл бұрын
What can i do if i already told her how i feel about her and how i want my future to be with her? is there someway i can behave to make some mistery once again?
@benjaminsimon362
8 жыл бұрын
The Joker Alright dude. We've been talking normally on phone and text and this week she just stopped calling or texting me and it been 4-5 days, no idea why she's being distand she say she's busy and i know im more busy then her but i still make time for her
@luisacosta4385
6 жыл бұрын
remember, phone is to set up dates, not to talk or text
@Famusakafrankie
5 жыл бұрын
@@benjaminsimon362 back off and $tay busy until she comes back to ya.
@rickmorgan1441
4 жыл бұрын
those women are also idiots...you want someone you never actually know haha..fool
@CarbonInstinct0
9 жыл бұрын
The MOST effective advice from coach!
@RockwildazFamily
5 жыл бұрын
Always WAIT. What happened just now with me proves it. About a week ago I was talking so nice with a girl, she wants me to come over and all those things. Then, she went cold, no contact AT ALL, and I don't either, go on with my life. I posted an old photo of me on Whatsapp status and guess who it was.... saying "Daddy". Another girl, just yesterday, she been cold then just like that she message me asking me when next will I be in town. They WILL fluctuate for many reasons and don't worry about if there is another guy, believe me, the more strength you show in not contacting and living YOUR life, she WILL come back even if she talking to someone else because maybe, he is going to show weakness and she will be attracted to your strength. But BE CERTAIN that you set a definite date and time and HOOK UP.
@jasonreed797
Жыл бұрын
So… Hold on loosely but don’t let go. Wise words from 38 Special.
@39utopiaman
6 жыл бұрын
This channels helps me understand so much thank you
@chrisclow3441
7 ай бұрын
Always videos and notes at right time. Some days it’s multiple calls, spending time together etc, and some days it’s like 2-3 texts or no calls. Usually wait a day and I get the call “I miss you so much i feel like I haven’t talked to you in a whole month”.
@WayTruthLife3
8 жыл бұрын
Another video that relates to me so much. Thanks Coach
@EviLLivEClan
Жыл бұрын
"women are like cats, when they get bored, they're going to roam the neighborhood". 😅🤣😂Couldn't have said it better myself lmao
@jasdeepwalia1989
6 жыл бұрын
Hey, coach you are a genius keep on the good work it's benefitting many people like me.
@triktrak_1451
5 жыл бұрын
Corey, this is one of your best.
@DaxTaylor.440
2 жыл бұрын
Huge weight off my shoulders, thanks for the reassurance
@Duh_Weekdae
3 жыл бұрын
Good advice but many of you should also consider that she might be cheating on you, and if you act like you don’t care then she takes it as an okay to do these things behind your back. Not to instill paranoia but always acknowledge different possibilities with the woman you are with by observing her actions.
@justlol7281
2 жыл бұрын
I think I just slipped up. I just called her after she hadn’t texted me for a day and a half. I also initiated texting twice this week. Somethings wrong. I’m pulling back all the way. I’m gonna cancel our date tomorrow.
@BauAshley
5 жыл бұрын
I matched with a guy and we been texting everyday for weeks. Sometimes I will initiate and he will do it to, it’s about half. We text throughout the day. We’ve met up once and decided to meet up again but our schedules made it kinda hard. Sometimes I don’t want to keep texting him too much because I don’t want him to feel that I’m needy so I give him space. I do like him, but I hope he doesn’t feel like I’m ignoring him. I feel the same about him but don’t want to keep constantly texting. I do like my space and I would think he would like the same
@robertpollock5468
5 жыл бұрын
Do it guys like when girls are texting more than they are
@Paul-pj5sz
10 ай бұрын
Can almost guarantee that if you’ve started out blowing his phone up to slowing down with the messages ect he’s going to notice it straight away and start thinking. A woman over perusing like that gives guys confidence that she’s really interested at the end of the day. Fuck all the games and be yourself 👍🏻
@element9387
8 жыл бұрын
Shit, I came unglued.
@abdulkarimabdulmalik1034
5 жыл бұрын
Thank you coach Corey Wayne for support
@svenk5221
2 жыл бұрын
I call days when she pulls back productive days 😂
@GregXHunterz
2 жыл бұрын
So basically, if she breaks consistent habits and if it's been happening more often, then you worry. Other than that, everything's going fine.
@danielletripkoff4199
5 жыл бұрын
The button on the Thanksgiving Turkey pops up! What a cute way of putting it!
@mjeldn74
2 жыл бұрын
I walked away and didn’t try to contact her again and I left her to it. I was going to go out and flirt again. Lo and behold. She text me this morning and has hinted that she wants to see me tonight at an event. Though. I’m still keeping my distance and it seems that she wants to lead. She’s been hurt. But, seems to be interested in me.
@lincolnthompson6091
10 жыл бұрын
Hey Corey, thanks for these helpfull videos. Men need to know these things.
@Emoni171
8 жыл бұрын
"Women are attracted to men whose feelings are unclear" 🤔🤔🤔
@benjaminsimon362
8 жыл бұрын
What can i do if i already told her how i feel about her and how i want my future to be with her? is there someway i can behave to make some mistery once again?
@glennpiriou6322
6 жыл бұрын
This sucks if you're the type of guy who likes showing emotions and talking and shit. it means i will probably have to spend my whole life of "lying" to my SO and never expressing my feelings .... Fuuuuuck this is fucked up !!
@jomormont
6 жыл бұрын
@Glenn Piriou I know, I actually love talking, but I feel like the more I talk the worse it is according to Coach.
@bibigreen6533
6 жыл бұрын
@@glennpiriou6322 That's how it is bro. Keep it to yourself, or at least just mirror the intensity of the girl. Meaning if she says something about the emotions she has for you, you can answer with something of equal intensity towards her. But it's just better to keep it to yourself.
@crushingbass7131
5 жыл бұрын
@@bibigreen6533 lol, yea I'm starting to re-learn that myself
@j-star1
3 ай бұрын
Amazing advice, thanks for sharing!
@jessecampbell8223
8 жыл бұрын
wow great coching, much needed information
@mohiabosbee7095
7 жыл бұрын
I just ordered your book :) can't wait until it arrives to Germany, i really can't thank you enough Corey ❤
@jcoronado241
5 жыл бұрын
What's the boook
@vw5233
5 жыл бұрын
4:50 great advice to keep centered
@vamonaa
2 жыл бұрын
very good advice man, thank you for that video and hopefully it helps guys out there
@MrDTown89
3 жыл бұрын
Man the truth is she wants to do what she wants to do on the side. She's an adult she knows exactly what is going on. She knows you're sitting there waiting. Lol that's stupid. If you're overpursuing then she should say it
@stephentaylor2066
5 жыл бұрын
I don’t want to play games for the rest of my life with a woman that’s for teenagers😏
@Dadaadad268
Жыл бұрын
Some of them are hot tho 😅
@YouNoub1
3 жыл бұрын
Illusion of action people!!! Watch out, don't fall in the trap. Play safe everyone :)
@kflashcarr1992
2 жыл бұрын
Been following your advice couch and I got laid. I trusted you this far. I'm gonna pull back now that she's not being so nice on text. Wait until she reaches out. I just wanna become her friend so I might meet her friends lmao.
@sulpakabra6558
2 жыл бұрын
Update?
@kflashcarr1992
2 жыл бұрын
@@sulpakabra6558 lol that one i screwed up because I had a second date secured but I thought I should be texting or talking more before the date. Made her back out. But since then his advice allowed me to get laid by another woman. Now that I'm not in a scarcity mindset alot of stress is gone.
@Dadaadad268
Жыл бұрын
@@kflashcarr1992haha nice update! Good luck I've just messed up I think from texting too much after a first lay. Pulling back and she's still dropping messages... let's see
@EchelonDon
Жыл бұрын
One of Corey’s best video
@farhadseilsepour6083
6 жыл бұрын
Couch what is the difference between a man who his feeling is unclear, and the man that knows what he wants in the relationship ?
@rockyourfaceoff2
4 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I'm still waiting for an answer here.
@aradiobox
7 жыл бұрын
This was very helpful for my current situation. Thanks!
@jermainejones1560
4 жыл бұрын
Yep, patients and space is key to getting women..👍, us men need to practice self control....
@pittyman13
5 жыл бұрын
This was so helpful. Thank you so much
@jackboys8264
2 жыл бұрын
This girl that i was intimate with started pulling away and now she's super touchy with my house mate and for me that's really trash cause we all stay in one house😩
@Dadaadad268
Жыл бұрын
Wow, any rooms available at your place? 😂😂
@bradpresley2878
5 жыл бұрын
So fucking accurate. Damn Corey, your like the modern Aristotle
@eddandy944
5 жыл бұрын
I always end up seeing the video that I need in that moment
@TheMediaMachine
Жыл бұрын
Lads, your solution = have options. A lot of options and you won't be chasing any woman, or give a damn if they don't communicate often, don't call, don't text. That's what having options does for you. You don't have to maintain emotional control when you got options. Remember, you're not a woman where you got ton of options. You cannot play by their rules and game. You do, you're screwed. Get busy creating options and don't feel guilty about it because women have an abundance of options even if they are average looking. You need to have options.
@Dadaadad268
Жыл бұрын
Good advice
@michael567jober
4 жыл бұрын
Not so easy for an unattractive (ugly) guy like me. Most women i talk to turn me down even on social media and most my relationships don't last cause i also refuse to submit and I'm a stand up guy when it comes to relationships. But tbh it gets lonely cause i also have no friends so i feel i sometimes take my relationships too serious because I'm lonely. Right now I'm living with my girl in my mom house and i officially regret it 6 months later
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